Been checking out RP for a few months was skeptical at first but pretty much all this is spot on. Me and my ltr of 3 years. Ok so she gets home from work one day and I just don't really wanna deal with her or anything. I'm not being an ass but was being indifferent to her in regards to her coming back from work.

So the arguing ensues, I don't engage do my own thing. Ignore. Not let it get to me. She slept opposite to me in out bed. We don't talk the next day. She comes home this time raging with fury telling to leave the space I'm in so she could unwind. I told her I ain't no dog that gets told where to go. Stayed stoic. It escalates. She begins saying things like "no this is too much" you are emotionally abusive" I can't deal with anymore" so on and so forth.

I tell her calmly ok if that's how you feel there isn't anything I could do about that. Took out my phone and downloaded face book and tinder right there in front of her. We haven't used any social platforms and both had access to each others phones as we saw fit. On one hand I did this to illicit a response,and on the other I was thinking to myself,she has gotten too comfortable and disrespectful in this relationship and needs to see how easily she could be replaced.

Well today it's been all "how could you do this" "we've been together three years" " you've hurt me so much" " you went on facebook and tinder to replace me in just minutes" however she keeps saying that the idea to breakup came from me.

Now here's my question I do see this girl as optimal "if there even are any" LTR material. And would like to keep her around, If things improve. Was this situation handled well? Could I have done things better?

Any thoughts or suggestions?