So that's a normal date for me(24): I meet a girl, she likes me, we kiss and hold hands etc. After the first date we promise to set another date aaand: The next day they begin to write me that they a) have feelings for an other guy b) don't want a relationship c) don't have any feelings for me. I guess there's something wrong with my behavior, but i really don't know what. It doesn't make any sense, it's just not logical And just a question guys. If smth like this happens and you're really into a girl, what options do you have to change her mind?