20 year old lurker here, looking for a little life/foundation advice instead of poon. Long story short, I've had three jobs so far, zero education, (like, no HS either) and no car or driver's license. Worked my first retail job for about a year thanks to mom working at a different department and using her status to influence manager. Then made some new friends, started chasing poon, drugs, pet hobby and fun, work attendance suffered and quit to avoid being fired. Didn't save shit like a financially incompetant moron. Discovered TRP, got second job at restaurant, management was absolutely abhorrant, (ran by women, no suprise there) get relentlessly shit tested and backstabbed and fired after a few weeks. Months pass, got a job at a country store/gas station about a month ago, female store owner is financially incompetent, can't hardly afford anyone's hours and so get laid off at the beginning of my third week. So, here I am. At 20 years old, what I have to show for my entire existence is a little over $100 cash in my wallet, some unpaid debt, (<$400, not bothered much other than my tanked credit score) no car, no driver's license and still occupying space in my parent's home.

It's really been fucking with my psyche for a while now, to the point of lagging in my workout routine and more frequent fapping than I'd like. However, this isn't about my feelings. What I'd like to know, is how have my fellow RPers got themselves out of holes like this? My main priority is getting back to work and getting a goddamn car. My family's advice is the usual boomer/blue pill horseshit. "Get your education, find a nice job, be a corporate slave, etc." No thanks. I just want to fucking get out of this house, and out of my shitty city so I can go see the world myself and do shit for myself and my purpose. (I've spent most of my entire life in the same, liberal county) But I can't even establish a foundation to do so. So how can I get a job, how can I go about staying employed, and how do I save and get an affordable functional first car so I can go about taking care of business as I need? Furthermore, how the fuck do I deal with my parents throughout all of this so I can avoid their constant shit testing and streaks of rare psychotic rage? (my mom gets insanely angery sometimes, and my dad, instead of being reasonable, will usually just white knight for her. So there's no crowd control on household drama when it happens.)

I appreciate any and all pointers, life advice, or messages of "grow some testicles and just live in the woods behind the gym, you beta faggot" you guys can give me.