I saw a post by another person in asktrp when the girlfriend cheated on him for 8 months (the community is helping so he should be fine i hope)

But i got to thinking.

What does this incident does to your status and smv in your social circles among other men and women ?

Also I mean when people find out about this and even asks you, what's the best route to reply

You ofcourse don't want a pity party.

Also doesn't the fact that you were blinded to that for so much time says something about you? What about the fact that a women treated you like beta? Does that help cue other women to treat you the same?

Just curious