im fed up

effyouasshole · 2018-10-02T22:05:55+00:00

Motivation is the one thing that cannot be taught. You either want to succeed, and are willing to put in the hard work, or you don't.

"You either suffer the pain of hard work, or the pain of regret."

Auxfite · 2018-10-02T22:07:33+00:00

Zzzzz all I read is you complaining and not doing anything to better your situation. Lift 5x a week, eat a lot, make more money or find a new skill. You’re focusing on women with low SMV that’s a no no. Better your life instead of chasing hb5 pussy

Prysefighter · 2018-10-03T04:10:27+00:00

Yah seems like your parents didn't do a great job developing you. You're missing a lot of integral parts of the makeup of a strong male adult. It's impossible for you to implement the ideas taught because you don't have the necessary pieces yet. It's like you're trying to build a log cabin with cardboard. Well first off relax and take a breath. A great deal of the male population is like you, you're still very young, and there is no rush to get to where we'd like to be.

Before I delve too far in, one thing you've got to kill is the whole 'I'm going to show you just how bad I got it' thing you've got going on. Probably stuck as a habit because its gotten a response from your parents over the years. Have you ever yelled things like "I have no friends mom, or " I'm ugly", or "I'm dumb" and gotten a response that made you feel heard? Probably. I've seen this a ton in parents who don't normally give their kids needs and wants a ton of attention UNLESS the kid garners enough sympathy or has guilted the parents into action. If there's more than one kid they compete with each other to show who's MORE pathetic to get attention from mom and dad. Sound like you? Try to keep in mind that were not god. I don't feel an ounce of anything when you describe how difficult your journey has been because its not my fault or anyone elses. It just is. There's no one or nothing to shake a fist at and blame.

Also it seems like you're trying to tell everyone that YOUR situation is special and its just IMPOSSIBLE for YOU to implement the things in your life to make it better. Your situation isn't and your frustration is normal. There are people with no arms or legs, burns all over their body, severe mental and learning impairements, and they all want to find sex and or love too. Want to tell them how bad your crooked nose is? Your problem is you seem to be really low on experiences in your life that develop someone into being mature. You desperately need to see and feel things that are new and will help shape a sense of self and wake you up a bit. These things need to NOT be related to dating/sex/self-improvement. They need to be things you're interested in or things that make you uncomfortable. You need to go to bootcamp, or go work on a seasonal job in place you've never been before (tons of websites for this), go on a survival heavy camping trip or an internship in the indistry you like, shit maybe even a peace corp like volunteer position( they have some as short as 6 months). Idk man something, anything that speaks to you or maybe even scares you a little and shakes up who you are, most people have these things in the back of their head. You need to FORGET ABOUT any TRP or self development stuff for awhile. You're trying to run up a mountain but you're out of energy and you're getting frustrated. Go see the sights, smell the flowers, refill your tank. GET TO KNOW YOURSELF. Like really, enough of this self-hate pity party about yourself and really get to know yourself. Whats one thing you like about yourself? Whats one small thing you could do tmmw that would make you like yourself a little more? You've got to fix your relationship with you before you worry about women.

Title	im fed up
Author	PotatoWatt
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	October 2, 2018 9:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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