Hey guys this is my first post in askTRP

Before discovering the red pill, about a year ago i started learning game with a very blue pilled mindset. I met a cool that i thought was totally my type girl in my college and developed a oneitis. I tried to "use game to get her" but she friendzoned me and i accepted that frame. This got made so emotional and depressed but actually led me to the red pill because i wanted to get rid of that oneitis which I actually did, for a while, i forgot about her completely while i was busy gaming other girls and getting my shit together, she messaged me from time to time but i wasn't very responsive and we didn't meet for a few months. today i met her and i regret it; I discovered that she was going to leave country soon and that reignited the oneitis, the thought of never seeing her again rocked my boat, i realized that i still like her and i still want her but can't get her although my game is much better now and i have other girls on my plate and improved a lot as person., i'm stuck, i can't stop thinking about her. Please i want some advice on what to do in this situation. I guess that in the back of my head, i thought getting my shit together and getting good at game will make getting her easier.