Improving myself has made it so I'm no longer "fun", how do you guys get around feeling like you're missing out while grinding?

RedEyesBlueShades · 2017-03-12T14:49:51+00:00

Dude.... you've gone too far.

The reason you're being miserable is because you think you are RP, but you're not. You have just swapped one set of beliefs (BP) for another (RP), without really internalizing the latter. The core is still blue.

Back to basics. Just to be 100% clear, TRP gives you the tools to lead a satisfying life, but does not tell you what that life looks like. That's for you to figure out. What you're doing now is clearly not working, so CHANGE IT. And you already answered yourself on what will make it better for you, going out to parties!

And how you put parties back into your life will be the difference between BP and RP.

Are you gonna start going out and getting wasted/high/stoned once/twice/multiple times a week? Or will you have a few drinks to get merry here and there and game the fuck out of the entire party? That's up to you to decide. Where is the fine line? Think about compromises.

Yes, going out will hinder your gains in the gym. But you talk about school, so you are young. Your test is as high as it will ever be, the progress won't be hindered by much. Think of it like this. If you have a clean diet all the time, and then once a month you binge on food like there's no tomorrow, you will still be lean as fuck. Fatass people do the reverse, binge on food all the time, and then do a "cleansing juicing weekend (TM)" once a year and wonder why their ass is still like a baloon.

So instead of trying to get cookie points from a bunch of dudes on the Internet, go out, have fun and slay pussy. Not only will your life improve a fuckton for YOU, you'll also score a lot more cookie points by coming to TRP and writing a FR "How I slayed twin pussy and how you can do it too!", than by asking "I do everything TRP tells me, but I'm fucking miserable. Why?" Trust me.

officerkondo · 2017-03-12T13:08:27+00:00

Did you ever hear the tragedy of the ants and the grasshopper? I thought not. It's not a story the blue pill would tell you. It's a red pill legend. The fable concerns a grasshopper that has spent the summer singing while the ants worked to store up food for winter. When that season arrives, the grasshopper finds itself dying of hunger and begs the ants for food. However, the ants rebuke the grasshopper's idleness and tell it to dance the winter away now.

nerdlift · 2017-03-12T11:11:20+00:00

You haven't really put in the work it seems in regards to self improvement. Face a real challenge and build some character.

mbillion · 2017-03-12T16:44:05+00:00

Well for one once college is over all the partying slows down considerably. So on that one just keep riding it out. As far as girls who aren't partying you still have to go somewhere to meet them, is there a film club or another interesting non alcohol social club at your school?

It'll feel awkward at first because you're used to the party thing. But it works.

Alcohol and social events are going to dominate business and power in society from 24-mid 40's. So drinking isn't going away. You just have to be responsible about it.

Screw your loser friends, meet girls who aren't drunk, practice your day game or try a university club. Take summer class and graduate early.

americanmook · 2017-03-12T19:39:40+00:00

You probably had a massive amount of charisma when on coke that's why everyone wanted to be around you.

And let me reiterate something I always say charisma trumps everything in life.

Also you hate regular squares. Which is fine, squares are boring. Find your passion and you'll find the people you want to be around from that.

Rafsimon · 2017-03-12T14:59:18+00:00

This is something I've faced firsthand. So, I have a strong opinion of this.

It's a balance bro. In my opinion, going too hard when you're in high school/college is fucking dumb. This is the only time you'll be able to party like you can in college, and you have literally the ENTIRE rest of your life to self improve.

Since most TRPers found TRP after college, they don't know that you can have a balance. I found TRP about a year ago and I'm only in high school, but I'm having the time of my life. Just focus on the essentials.

If you're in college, the only things I would suggest it to keep lifting, read TRP, and try to get with as many girls/have as much fun as possible. You can TRP tryhard when you're out of college.

Life is about having fun too. If you're not having fun, you're hurting yourself just as much as being a lazy pos is.

LiquidSnak3 · 2017-03-12T10:16:52+00:00

Klonopin .5mg twice a day - your welcome

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Title	Improving myself has made it so I'm no longer "fun", how do you guys get around feeling like you're missing out while grinding?
Author	LostLittleBoi
Upvotes	19
Comments	17
Date	March 12, 2017 8:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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