I am good at gaming girls and making friends. But I don’t feel like I have a deep connection with most people, I only find successful people interesting and the rest I don’t find them valuable enough. I am not good at becoming close with someone, I can make a conversation flow and fun, I have friends but I don’t feel like they are improving my life (most of them). I know everyone at my university, I get invited to parties and people want to be around me. However, I don’t, I want to improve my life financially.

All what my friends do is hit the gym and party. However, I want something more. I want to get smarter, get a first class degree and improve my life in that sense. Is it normal this type of behaviour? Like I feel like I don’t want to party that often and see my friends this often. However, as I spend more time improving myself my friends see it as I don’t wanna hang out with them so they become more distant. I am constantly told that I have no feelings by friends, plates, family.

How do you guys balance your goals with friends and girls? Since they take a lot of time from you