Improving social skills

youcancallmedada · 2019-06-13T17:51:21+00:00

Watch your body language, eye contact and tone of voice.

[deleted] · 2019-06-13T18:02:43+00:00

First off, being men is different than women. Being around men you have to be good at banter. You have to be useful to them. Be likedx but valued at the same time. What use do you bring to the group? Men use body language nore than women, so learn to do the same. Establish yourself as someone who is not sensitive otherwise you will be relegated to the bottom pile.

Nis_law · 2019-06-13T17:58:14+00:00

"You do not earn respect by respecting others. You earn respect by respecting you. It's counter-intuitive. By being a selfish ass who puts himself first and does what he wants, even at the expense of others sometimes, the whole world bends at the knee and chases after you, trying to win your validation. Everyone else is so fucking polite and respectful by default, while you're busy respecting yourself instead. That rubs everyone funny, not just women. That makes people try harder around you. Your job is to be powerful. Important. Successful. You don't have to be a dick if you don't want to, but being nice and doing shit for your girlfriend? That's the path to being replaced. Your job is to do shit for you, that as a side-effect, benefits your girlfriend. Your job is to be a man that raises others up. That raises the value of everyone in the room just by being there. To be the man that every woman wants to fuck and every man wants to be. You don't avoid getting cheated on and dumped by being a nicer boyfriend. You avoid getting cheated on and dumped by becoming a man that nobody in her right mind would ever risk fucking things up with. "

~Sidebar.

I recommend reading the sidebar which of course you haven't

i-am-the-prize · 2019-06-13T20:22:40+00:00

read:

The way of men
WISNIFG
NMMNG

and search on shittest from power figures in male groups (different from females) where A&A isn't the best course of action usually.

BlackberryDaddy · 2019-06-13T20:23:02+00:00

Go have a job in sales and push hard. Stick with it for 6 months minimum. Fuck books in this case (except a few), you learn social skills by doing.

Title	Improving social skills
Author	Iwannaeatrp
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	June 13, 2019 5:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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