Not gonna lie, when I make asktrp posts I usually know the answer already but I'm genuinely confused here.

I've known this girl since I was like 15. We made out one night when we were drunk but that's pretty much the extent. I've generally been forward with her when she's around, but I never really actually pursue her.

Here's the thing, she likes to pop in & out of my life and I have no idea why. Like she just seems to remember me, act flirty and when I push forward a little she either flakes or rejects. When I ignore her she disappears again. Like yesterday she asked me what I was doing this weekend. I said "I haven't decided yet" and then it's been radio silence.

I'm not necessarily looking to smash this girl as I have some other booty on call, but why does she do this if she doesn't wanna fuck? If it's for attention then why does she pop back in after I ignore her?