Why men working IT and related jobs are usually so Beta? None of them works out, most of them are slightly overweight or fat, unassertive and don't get me started on the ones that are married. I a have a guy working with me who married a chick from Indonesia, provides for her and slaves away while she is in his home country in europe having the time of her life. He thinks he is so lucky to get her...what is it that brings betas to IT? How do you explain this through evolutionary biology?