Initiating Text Conversations with Girls Multiple Times

enriquex · 2015-03-14T07:50:04+00:00

If you keep on starting a conversation with her, she's just not that into you.

Girls who want to talk to you, will.

you are always the one to end the previous interaction that had a good reply pattern?

Good, but doesn't mean shit in the scheme of things. She still sees you as a friend if you're the one texting her first.

It sounds like you're asking if you can end up sleeping with someone ~~purely~~ majorly from texting. That answer is a flat no.

Fentrix · 2015-03-14T12:20:46+00:00

I do think it is repellent. Especially if in the last message you asked a direct question and it wasn't answered. I usually follow that up with "?"

Now, here's the thing. Most times the next response will be an answer to the question and an apology that they didn't get the notification. Now, I've also done this a lot. A girl is texting me and then an in person plate will distract me and the notification is dismissed somehow, so I can see other people who barely understand how the brick in their hand works having these technical troubles.

I've also many times sent our a small, low effort text to see what's up. And no response. Then another a few days later. No response. Another a few days later and boom, response and a date instantly. The key here is that I am not just sending that text to that one girl. I have a list of girls (one girl called me a collector and I'm not a fucking collector) that I just low effort spam when I'm lonely and one or two will usually get back. If two get back, I know which one I like more and can steer the other conversation into the ground if the top choice decides to hook up.

So my point is, yes, I often feel it's repellent, but "always assume attraction" is the winner here. Make sure you aren't pandering and eventually you'll catch them when their clit is flush.

electroavenue · 2015-03-14T04:14:52+00:00

Dude. Text mostly for logistics. Planning dates & meetups.

SpinPlates · 2015-03-14T09:06:36+00:00

Don't listen to the guys that say "Only text for logistics" thats a good way to get flaked on.

I texts cunts all day every day. If you're good at text game, good at flirting and being funny and not running out of things to say there is no reason not to do it.

If a girl isn't replying and you're always having to start the convo what I'd recommend doing is not talking to them for 2-3 weeks and just shoot them a text on a Friday night and say like "What are you doing?" and try to meet them right them spontaneously. I've done this for almost a year straight with multiple girls. They are just that one slippery eel that always evades you, and you just hit them up ever other month and try to catch them when they are in a "mood" and want to do something but have no plans

electroavenue · 2015-03-14T05:30:01+00:00

High school is a time when you have so much free time to improve yourself. I wish I had this mentality you or I have when I was that age.

If you can find a way to make all your conversations interesting, then texting isn't awful, but if you can't then you're just coming off as someone orbiting / quick validation. (High risk, minimal reward)

It sounds like you should practice with other girls. Mitigate the fixation you have on this one.

Title	Initiating Text Conversations with Girls Multiple Times
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Date	March 14, 2015 2:32 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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