Injecting my Frame? or being an orbiter?

phasetwenty · 2014-02-01T03:16:39+00:00

Would I be orbiting her if I showed up at her job after ignoring her last texts for 4 days?

Yes

thegman84 · 2014-02-01T05:55:21+00:00

It would be orbiting to show up at her work and worse yet you might come off as a creep/stalker. Going to the copy store for a legit reason is OK though.

Don't try to convince her to go out. I'd just throw some more negs her way and see where it goes.

KingofRiders · 2014-02-01T15:46:02+00:00

haha Ok

first mistake. You just sound weak and easy to step over. You might want another opinion on this, but in a way she was shit-testing you and you failed. She obviously did not have classes and work friday night. I mean maybe, but she would do it later that night. So this is bullshit. I mean, her message was equivalent to "No I'm going to go find an Alpha to fuck my ass on friday night, you can be an orbiter mkay?"

take a chance

Yeah I've said this to a girl before. This is really bad. It basically means you're admitting to something she might not even think. That is, that you don't seem like someone she'd date and she has to "take a chance on a loser who maybe might not be a loser." Would she be "taking a chance" if she went out with Brad Pitt or Justin Bieber? No.

A few days later I finally responded to her latest message ”Haha I would if I had some free time”

In this case I think it would have been better to just reply with "does this mean you're boring?" right away. It's playful and also saying you don't need her. That was good, but waiting a few days just makes it seem angry or needy. Unless you're deep into a relationship (or her ass), I don't think you should wait a few days to reply. After a few days of not texting, an alpha is already out getting his balls licked by other women (metaphorically, but really just meeting other women.) You know, wait an hour or two maybe. Or later that night. But a few days? Nope, too long. Other people on here might disagree, but to me this is just logic. If she thinks she's the only girl in your life (because you came back like a dog a few days later) she's not going to be attracted. I realize you said it got "good responses" but honestly without seeing them I'm skeptical. You were already in vagsyncronous orbit at that point from what I can tel.

"Sometime when im not busy lets hang out lol"

Yeah. You're in orbit.

So I'm going to give you some seriously weird advice that a lot of people might disagree with. Find some girl, and ask her on a date where you just do errands around the city (go to copyshop.) Then if she's at the copyshop you can introduce this new girl as your friend, bitchidontneedyou. If there's any chance of salvaging this it's jealousy.

Also, the other way of approaching this is a bit underhanded and so I don't really recommend it. But if it's not a service where she can see that you saw her message - delete her last message! Then go into the shop and act totally normal and alpha as fuck like all the girls there should be ready to lube up for your massive dragon at any moment. If she mentions the text, tell you never got one. If she doesn't believe you, well, you could show her your phone. I'm not sure there's a way to get her back in this method. Unless you're really smooth with words and you can convince her she messed up for not going out with you before and that she should be happy to go out with you after she gets off work that night. Remember, don't do normal boring dates. Do different dates, be different, stand out from the crowd and own it.

edit: I gotta add this as well. Unless you are a teenager - that you are looking for a job because you don't have one automatically gives off the vibe of no money and low status. So you came onto the field handicapped. Certainly not a deal breaker, but you really have to be at the top of your game to pull off a win with a handicap, y'know?

orangesedditor · 2014-02-02T06:40:27+00:00

injecting my frame into her life

Lol

Ive decided not to contact her for 3 days

I know you think you're being aloof And." Not caring" But this just shows that you do. When a girl doesn't text you back for a few days, she's not thinking about it consciously and going "omg. I have to wait a few days before I text him!" No. She actually does not care. The fact that you're consciously waiting a few days to text her. just shows that you're thinking way too much into this. She's already blown you off multiple times you just don't know it, seriously dude when a girl wants to hang out with you she will make time. You're just looking like a loser going after her. And don't go back in there to make more copies. Whether or not you're going there for her, she will think you're a.stalker anyway. You really need to work on your frame

Title	Injecting my Frame? or being an orbiter?
Author	SciCtrGuy
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	February 1, 2014 2:04 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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