Sounds stupid but I'm just curious (and new, about to read the side bar)

Is it being just fit? Granted I'm not fit, I'm slightly underweight than an otter mode person. Or is it more than that? I can't recall gaining the sexual attention of the opposite sex since my school years, and I was still under weight.

Also PS (has nothing to do with the topic): Are smiles a sign of weakness? I recall every time I ever naturally smiled, women never saw me as a "man." I mean in the sense of attention and just some pushover. But whenever I had my resting "bitch face" (is the term "bitch face" still appropriate for a guy? Idk) girls always respected me as a man and tried to get my attention at all times (I was still oblivious then).

Insight is appreciated, as I haven't smiled to a women in a long time because of this. 22 male, graduated 2 years ago from uni for context. Just took the rp as we speak