I was close with a girl who really wanted a LTR. (Wasnt even that attracted to her)Manupilated, controlled the living daylights out of her. Most certainly believed every lie/shit I said. So she later on asked me "Whats your biggest insecurity/ What scares you? " Why would she ask that? I was sensing she wanted to find a backdoor within me to use against me for any reason. I said "Nothing" but how do you even reply to that?