So here I am, 3 months fresh out of my LTR. I am in Highschool, so the ideology of nexting if there is no sex by the third date does not really apply, but this can be translated to k-close before 3rd date or make some sort of move, etc.

I spent the 3 months post breakup (and 2 before) refreshing myself with RP content I made have backslid on, and I feel ready to start spinning plates again (as much as one can in Highschool).

There is this girl I am working on right now, she’s 17 and I’m 18 so that is a cause for concern. I have been unable to escalate aside from very very light cuddling and other brief stuff on the di Carlo ladder so at the moment she is nothing but green flags.

Problem is, I have no clue how to ask her what we are. The cuddling could be probable deniabilitied into just friends, but I want to get a better feel for the relationship without getting a rape charge.

How should I proceed?