This is a new account and a low karma account but I've been on TRP for several months so fingers crossed this doesn't get deleted. That being said, I need help. All my life, I thought the scales were tipped in women's favor. When I was a young kid(5-9 y/o), I used to want to be a girl it was so bad. I got over that as soon as I realized guys like you were absolutely tearing it up out here in the real world. I grew up in private school and all of the girls there were favored by the teachers. I guess I kinda developed a RP attitude and it ended up working and I got some serious chick attention. Now, I'm in public high school. Gonna be a sophomore. I got into a LTR. I've been with this girl 9 months. No sex yet. Lately though, I've kinda been BPing to satisfy her. I give in and fail her shit tests. I discovered you guys and got into a gym routine, re-did my wardrobe, and overall got kinda psyched to find a community I didn't think existed. My question is, do I stay with her and be pretty much beta or do I end it so I can focus on myself and my game etc.? Or is it possible to transform into the alpha figure? I think it will be hard to ever be an alpha with the current GF because she has a really strong will and seems to "wear the pants" so to speak. I guess I'm having trouble integrating my RP attitude into my current relationship. Has anyone out there tried to integrate into an already existing relationship? How'd it go if so? Thanks guys, keep up the good work.