I may be mistaken, but I've never seen this really spoken about here. So lets hypothetically say you passed everything thrown at you during a night out and you have sealed the deal but are still at the meeting location where you met the person. How often or when do you insist that you take this party to their place, or do you invite them over to yours? I've been around a few women who went stalker on their boyfriend, showing up unannounced, etc. Sometimes I don't exactly always feel comfortable bringing someone over to my place and showing them where I live. What is a good way to steer it more towards going back to her place, is something along the lines of "the beer is getting expensive here, lets pick some up and head to your place" decent? I suppose what I'm getting at is how do you decide where to take them once you know you are in.