Is anger really losing frame?

XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT · 2017-03-25T05:36:23+00:00

I really don't think anger is losing frame if done at the right amounts and right times. Even Don Draper got angry at his wife all the time (Don't reply with spoilers please, only finished S1).

I get angry at my plate and she becomes super submissive and remembers not to overstep her boundaries. Doesn't happen often but a good anger check is healthy to establish that you're running this on your terms. Your mileage may vary.

So no, anger does not always mean a frame break.

verbete · 2017-03-25T07:16:12+00:00

Do you want to be angry? If yes, then you have not entered any frame that isn't your own. If others actions or words induce anger when you would rather not be angry, then you have entered someone else's frame. Pretty easy.

walawalawa · 2017-03-25T09:48:41+00:00

Being angry is a human emotion. Venting and arguing with a girl...is losing frame. You're trying to win an argument and it will never work: you'll be the mean one, the unstable one, the angry one.

Anger allows you to release tension if done properly--gym, vent here, go into the woods and scream your head off....

I got angry and lost it with my plate...it worked...temporarily.

The only that worked was walking away. THat was the most positive manifestation of my anger.

user_none · 2017-03-25T05:53:13+00:00

Anger is one thing, and it can burn away the bitterness that eats away at one's soul. Use anger and channel it for productive means.

Uncontrollable rage is another, and is a break in frame on the level of an earthquake. Avoid this at all costs.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2017-03-25T07:41:15+00:00

Yes you lost frame, what she said rattled you and you got angry and threw shit around like a toddler. If you can't handle a girls shit test then you need to revaluate what it means to be a red pill man.

It comes off as mentally weak, and a woman will eventually manipulate that.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-03-25T09:40:21+00:00

Depends on what you are getting angry about. If it's minor stuff and you over react then yes I'd say it's losing frame.

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-25T17:27:13+00:00

yes of course anger is losing frame. anger makes you act irrationally. if you are in control of the situation you shouldn't be angry

super_hater · 2017-03-25T08:51:09+00:00

Anger is masculine.

Title	Is anger really losing frame?
Author	DarkRenaissance
Upvotes	10
Comments	22
Date	March 25, 2017 4:54 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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