Is being ambitious unnattractive?

Zooofxml · 2018-11-10T22:09:52+00:00

Check back with those mother fuckers in 5 years. TRUST ME! All the sexy chicks will be fat or single moms (or both) and the dudes will have nothing to show for their golden years in high school.

AsianAway · 2018-11-10T22:05:52+00:00

fuck what people think of you in high school

honestly fuck what people think of you in general.

do your thing, you’re setting yourself up for a good future when those “fun” dudes will be reminiscing on their good old days in high school.

the older you get the more smv you’ll have

gregoire_ · 2018-11-10T22:27:05+00:00

Being ambitious is not unattractive. Being boring is unattractive.

oldredder · 2018-11-11T00:55:28+00:00

ambitious is good in general but women have specific ideas of ambition that are attractive and not always what's rational. What shows you want to lead, to dominate, to have money, to have charm is what's ambitious to them. Suffering in any of these areas even to do more of one and not another is unattractive to them. But they are also very fickle so they can go totally random at times

Nicolas0631 · 2018-11-11T11:57:32+00:00

Let's be clear, you look like a nerd and you have nothing to show or discuss that is interresting from the outside at first sight And all the things you invest in (not the stocks but in general: courses...) are not going to bring noticable benefits before a few years.

It is only later on in life that all the investment you have put in will bring fruits. That's why actually this is investment and that why not everybody is doing it: because short term it is boring, at least for them.

Now the most effective people are balanced. You can do most of that stuff but also take time for fun stuff and socialize, it is as important actually. People that successful with their life are both quite capable and talented but they also quite social.

Now what I don't get is why you want to stack the girls like some people try to max out their number for friends on facebook or whatever. What the point ? Look it is only a few percent of what a person is and with money you can get led every night by gorgous looking girls until you dies if that your thing.

And don't think your high school years are the best for sex and girls, this is just not the case.

To me, you'd be maybe better off finding a girl that is bit like you, quite serious, still good looking, maybe a bit boring by normal people standard but that will fit you much more and that you'll appreciate to be with.

Title	Is being ambitious unnattractive?
Author	Zooofxml
Upvotes	3
Comments	22
Date	November 10, 2018 10:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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