Say you've been in an LTR for a few months and you've maintained the "alpha" traits such as maintaining frame, being a leader to her, lifting, and just having her respect you as a person. Now say you want to do nice things for her like every once in a while buy her flowers, etc. Would she lose attraction or see you as a beta? I ask because my grandfather bought his wife flowers weekly since they was teens and I guess I have a little soft side in me. I like seeing people happy but I don't want to get fucked over by doing so. I know they say you could be beta 15% of the time so would doing that be using up my 15%?