I attend one of the top 15 most liberal college campuses in America (sucks). I picked to go here because it was the most economical option for me financially and not too far from my current residence. I am involved in a fraternity and am a very social guy. Lift regularly and have 11% BF, dress exceptionally well (bit metrosexual), and I have been told by many people I am fairly handsome. I am not the tallest fellow (5'8.5) but I wear shoes with dress heels and boots.
I am seriously still having problems finding a quality women. I can easily attract a gross party slut and your average 5 or 6 at one of my fraternity's parties. Anything above that has proven extremely difficult for me. I can get them interested and their number but then it becomes a dead end. I follow the rule for every 2 messages she sends I give one. Have honestly had no success with this. I want them to chase me and invest more than I am. Sometimes I don't even reply if I feel the responses are dry. Now normally I would chalk it up and assume I'm not as attractive as I thought and or my game is trash but I digress. I practice stoicism frequently, my words are concise and kino is initiated firmly. I hold a leadership position in my organization and we are well known around the school. This alone puts me far above 80% of the males around here (school is 50% commuters). This problem has happened like 10 times this semester alone. I am more interested in an LTR rather than ONS (I can get these easily).
I am beginning to think that the quality of women at this school is absolute trash. There are a select handful of very attractive 7-9/10's but they are either in relationships or are complete skanks. I have come across a few 7's and 8's that spark my interest and pass the boner test. These same chicks are the ones I am getting nowhere with.
Location wise, the university is located in a small city in the south for some context. The student population is 93% in-state residency. Most people who attend this school live nearby or within drivable distance. The problem with this is many people still retain their cliques and social status from high school when they come here. The pecking order is real. This should not hurt me however because I was quite the popular guy in my high school days.
What does TRP suggest I do? I do not want to transfer schools as that would be essentially giving into the system. What are some tactics to improve or try? Or just say fuck it, focus on my degree and get the hell out as soon as possible.
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