Is my LTR Salvageable?

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2015-05-28T23:49:03+00:00

how I can get her to forget the jealousy I expressed?

You can't.

I was wondering what things I could do to recover from this

Leave her and start dating women who have a better character.

Carbone · 2015-05-29T04:19:51+00:00

If you're under 25 and didn't sleep with at least 25 woman don't get into a LTR.

Those boundaries are not explicit but it give you a nice goal where you start to know how to deal with women.

Read The Rational Male you will find this gems : In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/the-cardinal-rule-of-relationships/

So you came on a forum asking question about your ''LTR'' of 3 month about an emotional ''problem''.

First let me tell you that in those 3 months she shouldn't be hanging out with other guy, first 3 month are honeymoon phase.

Second, you showed jealousy, she know which button she can push on to provoke something from you ... she now have a stick to force you to provide at any given time...

instill dread, work on yourself, game other women.

processedfoodkills · 2015-05-29T14:17:56+00:00

Something that I have been dealing with while swallowing the pill: TRP is not about salvaging relationships. It's about you being the best version of you that you can be. It's about loving yourself and all that entails. You are focusing too much on her. She may very well be getting some on the side from this friend. If she hasn't already then she will. Women don't hang out with other men because they like the company. She isn't worth your time. If you really had a DGAF attitude you would have left her already.

sibulo · 2015-05-29T15:49:42+00:00

Some months ago I decided to write some simple "principles" that I though would be indispensable to find in a woman just to consider her worthy of a LTR.

One of them was "Don't meet up with boys". Another one was "Don't keep in touch with some ex".

I'm not gonna tell you what you have to do, but you have to realize that a woman that doesn't respect you or your relationship meeting or chatting with some ex is not worthy in my opinion.

Title	Is my LTR Salvageable?
Author	kitso78
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	May 28, 2015 11:35 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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