So I have been going out with this girl for 7 months now, we’ve been on and off A lot. First time we broke up was because I cheated but she forgave me. Second time she broke up with me, kissed some guy at a party then was begging me the next morning to get back with me because she said she made a mistake breaking up with me and since then we’ve been together.

I’ve also been lifting for 3 months and have made some considerable gains that I am proud of, but recently she’s been telling me she wants me to stop going, that she found skinny guys hotter like I was back then. I basically told her I don’t give a shit what she found physically attractive and I was for me, but I’m concerned this isn’t really healthy; I’m starting to even doubt what she’s saying is true because I remembered a Julian blanc video which he explained that women in your relationship will try and lower your SMV and turn you beta and then breakup with you because you became such a fucking beta lol.

I’m still going to continue lifting regardless, but I’m contemplating if breaking up with her would be the best thing for me. (Im also 36 days sober from a bad cocaine addiction so I’m not even sure if I should be continuing a relationship or focusing on myself)