Is there anything inherently wrong with not wanting to pursue women as a virgin?

Musicgoon · 2021-02-02T23:00:49+00:00

Sounds like you're hamstering. Get out there and try. Don't give me this ,"I'm happy being celibate", bullshit. You wouldn't be posting if you actually didn't give a fuck.

Fookin_Crispy · 2021-02-02T23:15:54+00:00

You are in a good spot. Don’t dwell too much on TRP, there is a level to this shit and it should enhance your life not hold you back.

I just graduated in 2020. I was not in a frat, wasn’t in my best shape at the time (was working to it), and had a small social circle.

Being in a frat gives you a lot of access, if you look good + talk to girls, things are gonna happen for you. Don’t try to be smooth, just talk about anything you want, then isolate and escalate. This worked most of the time unless they had a boyfriend, even then if they were mad at that guy, they would only tell you about him after blowing you.

TLDR: look good + talk to girls and live a good life bro. The feeling of some sweet walls is something I haven’t felt after graduating ....... sigh.

ShadowOfTheSalsa · 2021-02-02T23:15:56+00:00

Nobody needs to know bro. As far as they need to know your n count is so high you lost track counting when you hit triple didgets. Talk the talk and walk the walk when the time comes.

If you only play with the boys you ain’t going to get any pussy bro. It’s on you to notice their noticing you and make the first move.

Jiu-Jitsu-addict · 2021-02-02T23:56:54+00:00

It isn't a big deal at all. Not wanting to pursue women is a big money saver! Be on your purpose man. They are a huge waste of time. Devote your time to Better yourself in every way possible. I did the opposite when I was young. I chased women since I was like 11 years old to 40 years old (41 now) Took me this long to learn this!

SublimePimp · 2021-02-03T13:35:03+00:00

Have sex JUST so you truly have a perspective on it at least.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-02-02T23:33:48+00:00

theres a difference between not being thirsty and fucking every woman you can and not having any experience whatsoever with girls. You need experience or else youll get hurt bad when you actually figure out you want sex and start pursuing. You seem like you are just too afraid to pursue and are hamstering your way out of fucking.

KingGerbz · 2021-02-02T23:31:17+00:00

There’s never anything wrong with pursuing your own desires. It is your life and you get to decide how you want to live it

LuciidEnigma · 2021-02-03T00:32:32+00:00

People put value on things that they deem important to them. If you feel like sex is important to you then you should get out there and boink. But if it isn't important to you then don't do it cuz that won't benefit you at all.

exegol24 · 2021-02-03T02:59:33+00:00

This is how I started feeling after I had a bit of sex. So look, it's whatever...knowing red pill before you go and lose your virginity, I can see how you have no interest now. But you should do it, find a girl who vibes with you and do it. Then after you cross that fence, if you don't give a fuck anymore, that's fine, or if you do, that's fine too.

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-02-03T03:00:29+00:00

Nah, just do you. I'm in monk mode currently after a horrific 2020. Don't fret, life runs in cycles. There will probably be times when you're up to your eyeballs in pussy. I've run the gammit-- from almost two years of celibacy to a single month where I fucked 8 or 9 women.

Just do your thing and don't worry about the rest.

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-02-03T03:04:47+00:00

Also-- look, there are some chicks out there that would LOVE to be your first.

You could probably make a raffle for it.

Commodify your v card fam

inspirationallifter · 2021-02-03T04:10:13+00:00

Nope not at all. I was a late bloomer myself and have conquered fairly well, i still haven't gotten the top 20% of women like a top 5% guy. However, will say, the pussy and libido will always be there. Focus on your priorities and what's important. Don't care if Bob next to you banging the dorm quarter.

Remember, real true SMV will never fail you. I don't even guys can be virgins..we have nothing to pop, tear or bleed. Interesting how the was designed.

yintellect · 2021-02-03T05:40:34+00:00

Just make fun of your friends for think their cool for having sex

ScholarLad · 2021-02-03T06:58:33+00:00

It’s not a big deal. Being RP is a mindset. If you have different set of values, the RP approach is to stick to them (not follow the crowd). You do you man.

laserdicks · 2021-02-03T07:04:18+00:00

Anyone telling you there's a problem with this is projecting their own problems on to you. Live your life how you want. TRP should be helping you avoid some of the bullshit along the way

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-02-03T08:46:53+00:00

pursue greatness and becoming the best version of yourself...the bitches will come.

Title	Is there anything inherently wrong with not wanting to pursue women as a virgin?
Author	St31nway
Upvotes	13
Comments	20
Date	February 2, 2021 10:52 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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