I will hang out with a girl or talk to her at a party and we begin to talk about emotional subjects like ex's, relationship with parents, and just life in general, the emotional subjects aren't always bad it's just they talk and I listen. I have had girls say lets just keep driving around and talk and not go the restaurant, or movie they are just having a fun time talking. When we talk there is lots of kino them touching my arm or laying their head on my shoulder, me having my hand around their waist. Am I an emotional tampon ? If so how do i fix this?