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Thanks. Great mindset! I have this in my life. I just haven't seen the struggle to maintain frame in that way and it's a beautiful way to see it. Instead of demanding her to be comfortable and sweet to me no matter what because I chose her. How luck she felt for that will fade I'll never forget.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:43 AM
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It's OK dude, sometimes a man just need some like-minded guys to talk to and hea opinions from. It's better he comes here for that support than go to any of his friends. It's a minor thing and to be able to keep strong al the time it's nice to just know support is available somewhere. Sure, op is also really immature but why not lift him up instead of pushing him down? I don't see the point in coming to him with an attitude like this it makes you look weak. Jadensmithsson actually came with advi…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:54 AM
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I recognize this. When your purpose was to fuck bitches and never have a date on the weekends because you were always looking for the next one. Then girls will bore you quick. Find a purpose in your life that is above her. If that's career, gym, hobby. Anything! You want that one thing in your life that is more important than her. Reminds me of the story of a strongman who was married to this girl. He never went out, no parties or get togethers at all. Because he had to lift. His wife's mother h…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:24 AM
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It's OK man. Trust me in 6 months to a year you'll meet a new better oneitis.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:20 AM
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These posts make me a paranoid little fucking looser. It's eating me up from the inside. Yet the only thing you can do is trust her untill proven otherwise. And that's is a hard fucking truth to realize
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 11:40 AM
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yeah thats fucked up. Im convinced though. The feeling was/is way to strong to ignore. Its just impossible. No matter what she tells me I still squint my eyes in disbelief whats coming out of her mouth. What ever, thanks!
/r/askTRP30/08/17 05:43 PM
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I cant tell if this is sarcastic
/r/askTRP30/08/17 02:36 PM
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Today I feel better. I have more confidence and I love this girl but I feel like this is something I had to do for my well-being. It's easier to accept my paranoia now that Im the bad guy.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:13 AM
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Yes I'm pretty sure. But the talk about how she's all mine and I'm the love of her life and how she says she'd do anything for me speaks differently. But the gut feeling that I can't trust the words are either my paranoia, definitely caused by too much trp or intuition.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:11 AM
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So I actually feel better today. Feels like i gained back a lot of confidence. I'm also even more paranoid over that she must have been cheating given how fucking easy it was. And even easier for a woman. She literally just had to say yes when the man asks, follow him home and spread her legs while I as the man had to actually work for it and make it happen. That's the part I feel guilty about. That I actually put in the work and effort to make it happen. But I honestly feel happier in my relati…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:08 AM
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Yea, we'll see thanks
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:54 PM
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Id never tell her. Thats where I came from. Reading TRP and feeling like this somehow brainwashed me in to being overtly paranoid towards her. Which she picked up on, and you can see where that goes. So coming from the midnset that she's cheating on me I decided to cheat on her to just cleanse all of that paranoia away. Thing is, she's probably never cheated on me. Right now it doesnt feel right though-
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:53 PM
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She wont find out Only thing is how Im going to live with it now. Previously things like these gave me a kick, thinking that I was some pimp boss guy who fucked bitches. Not the case anymore. Now I feel like I betrayed the trust we both have in eachother and took an "easy" way to solve my internal issues. Either it works out great and I can distance myself from paranoia towards her knowing that Im the bad guy. Or I have increased anxiety over it. Ill sleep on it. See how I feel tomorrow. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:48 PM
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She doesnt know what are you talking about
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:40 PM
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Do you feel comfortable in your own skin? Do you feel like the shit and just happy and proud to be you? Focus on achieving that and if she types you, don't answer. Delete her number and your conversations it'll make you a lot happier.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 06:25 AM
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I've been doing this recently, she says she loves me with all of her heart and I'm her other half and all of that shit. Tell me I'll be OK if I never open up like that again
/r/askTRP22/08/17 11:40 AM
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Just say "hey you're married this ain't cool, take care of your man" and go radio silent. And the same explanation works for your neighbor. Then what bitch?
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:22 AM
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Okey, I've been in this situation. Just back off. Reply short without follow-up questions but still in a way where you're not rude or butthurt. Don't ever ask her a single question. Let her ask you and reply as you would but always try to end the conversation. If she says she's doing what ever just wish her luck or say OK have fun. Do this for 3-4 days and she'll come asking you what's wrong. Then simply say nothing, why? If she keeps pushing it just laugh at her and drop the phone untill she dr…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:25 AM
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I know people talk non stop about only say time and place. But I'd probably ask her how her Canadian friends visit was and if she replies, then ask her out. If not next.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 11:05 AM
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Then why is she sitting in my lap and plays with my hair.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:10 AM
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It's so common man. Girl will always drop this shit especially when you first got to know each other. At the club, if you're dragging your hand along her legs and she says something about it. I've had all kinds of it thrown at me. Like, "you think I'll go home with you just because you're touching me like that?" I just respond with, I don't do it for you, I do it for me. I like touching you like this. Watch her cave and start enjoying it.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:04 AM
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Yeah, this is where the pick up scene is really good. Check out rsd. Cold approach and hit the club. That's how I meet all my chicks
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:43 PM
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I have an insane story like this. This 36y/o married mother of two ended up at the same work training as me. She kept hitting on me the entire night. But when rejected she started harassing me for 3 hours in front of everyone. Talking shit about me to bring out the white Knight in all the men in the training. This proceeded to knocking on my door and window of the room I was sleeping in from 12 to 4 in the morning untill the police arrived. Fucking insane.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:54 PM
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Thanks alot man. Great read. I am young. Cant wait to keep hitting the gym for 4 years untill I get there.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:18 PM
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Okey thanks man. I would've found it easy to just not care if I was banging other chicks. I would really appreciate some advice on how to just not care. Because, I do care about her you know. I really do. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:49 AM
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Feels like it. Not going to lie ever since I read this thread I'v been feeling like shit. And just yesterday when she was that giddy and happy and extremely loving I felt awesome. One part of me just wants to end it clean so that I can get my manhood back with other women since I've obviously gone beta in this relationship. Another part of me just wants to wait it out, see where it goes and see it as a learning experience since Im just 21.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:34 PM
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Hey, my girl kept taking about this physical therapist shes seeing for her hip. She says she's sure hell ask her out when she's done with her therapy but it's awkward since she's a patient there and doesn't want it. I've been skeptical all along. And just like you said she's so giddy all the time. See keeps mentioning how my voice gives her tingles and how much she's in love with me. So I've just thought we were in a really good place. This definitely came as a punch to the gut. Ill just try to …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 10:08 AM
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Let the sextig begin.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:12 AM
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If one fails these kind of shit tests and she still stays around but you feel in the air that something has changed should one just next her or can it be salvaged?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:45 AM
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Lol OK
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:59 PM
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Yeah you really shouldn't bro. It must be super hard and I understand that. But you should tell her this while you end it. Be honest with her. And she'll always have a special place with you after sticking with you for this long. Tell her she'll find someone to fall in love with all over again and all that cheesy bullshit. She'll respect you for it and you can leave on good terms and it will contribute to your good reputation.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 12:26 PM
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I don't know man. I think it's more about my character as a man and my own principles. But hey, go nuts!
/r/askTRP29/03/17 12:08 PM
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"the ignore method" Yeah man life is like a video game. Break up with your girlfriend if you want a side chick. I believe in honest relationships. And one should never give a girl the thoughts of being exclusive if you're e not. Imagine if she did the same to you? We are better then that. Tell your plates that you're seeing other girls and she can take it or leave it. Hint, they'll always take it no matter what they say. They love the competition. Be fair to your girlfriend for 7 years though. I…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 10:17 AM
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Very tough realization but OK. Itll be hard advice to follow. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 05:32 PM
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Okey thank you. If I were to watch what she does she kept typing me throughout today too. Called me twice to say that she still loves me and acts jealous over the female friend i hung out with recently. And she said she seriously thinks I wanted her to break up with her to make her the bad guy and her reasons being I've met someone else etc. I dont know man. You're right I should probably say that this is enough already. But I will go no contact and reply when she reaches out to me. With time I …
/r/askTRP27/03/17 02:56 PM
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Thank you. I will consider this. She got before me with breaking up though. She broke up with me last night when she finally contacted me after the night before. She said she still sees a future with me and that she just needs space, peace and quite. And that she's still in love with me. She just needs to feel safe with me again. So what ever. I have to forgive myself before she forgives me.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 06:09 AM
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Thank you. I don't know what I'm afraid of. I will think about it. It is my first relationship. And I can't think that I am obsessive. Never have been earlier either. I was spinning plates non stop for over a year before i met her. And she was a plate for 6 months before I decided to make this real. Dropped everyone off and then I became needy and obsessive of her. I think the reason she's accepting it is because she's in love with the guy she met. And I'm obsessive because I'm in love with the …
/r/askTRP26/03/17 02:21 PM
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Yeah but this has kept going for over 2 weeks now and its needy behaviour. Im obsessing about this girl. I dont know how to break the spiral Im 22.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 01:37 PM
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For instance, last night I had way too much to drink. And instead of hanging out with my boys I spent all the time on the phone with her and when she didint reply to my messages I asked her why she didint reply which escalated in to a big fight because I was a needy disgusting little bitch! I dont know how to make up for the needy behaviour these last weeks and turn it around.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 01:26 PM
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Try reading never eat alone
/r/askTRP19/03/17 01:51 PM
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High standards and is intimidating enough so that the men she met can't handle her like the girl she actually is. Tall af Hot af Not amused Hard time opening up Hurt in the passed Making more money than most men
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:06 AM
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Or what makes you think that rather?
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:34 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP11/02/17 09:56 PM
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Yes thank you. I was thinking of ltr and we had started that path when she asked me if I saw anyone during the time we were dating. I was honest. My frame broke instantly. Yes, plates like plates. Thanks. I've been slipping there a lot lately. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:16 PM
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Not beside her as before but during. During seing here. If I in the last couple of months have been with anyone but her. Yes I lost frame. Thank you man. Good read to consider.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:12 PM
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This makes sense. Cheers
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:36 PM
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Means a lot to me man. Appriciate it. And e falling on a sword while gives zero fucks couldn't be more true. I will keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:32 PM
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I dont think anyone on here should be telling eachother what sub and who and what this sub is for. The pill is a hard one to swallow, and for you to come in and say that certain men shouldnt be allowed here because of his struggles puts you in a very weird light my friend. For me, we are brothers on here and I have experiences that I can share and have fieldtested a bunch of theory to be of help to anyone needing it on here. And to be honest I see where you come from. You put yourself above pett…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:30 AM
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Yeah I can see that. But I have two theories of why. Either you've come so far in your jeorney that you feel contempt about your old self and see you in this scenario yourself. Or you havnt met a high enough quality woman for you to even know what kind of shit a man can go through when it comes to this. Thank you for your imput though, how condecending it may be.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:27 AM
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No I dont see that as a misstake. If there's something I've learned about being a man and a leader among peers is that I have to stand for my actions and accept the consequenses. I would never lie to a woman I love. As wrong as TRP sees that I seriously dont give a fuck. Its about character and being able to build real trust with another human is very important. So I told her, I have. And thats that. The thing though being about SVM is that its been her constant strugle. She's known that I've be…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:25 AM
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Yeah, I've been on here for awhile and I've read all of it. I've had an extream amount of success and I still do. Only though emotions and thoughts like these when they really happen (as rarely as that is) hits super hard. And Im just learning how hard they do hit when you're exposed and in deep in a real human pairbond. No matter how much theory or knowledge I have I just need to go through the motions and feel forward and get these experiences to make it stick in the future. And if you laugh, …
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:20 AM
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Yes thanks man. Everything is fine now. I felt weak as fuck though. And I showed her how much her tantrum affected me. I really showed her. I know it was bad and she knows how much power she has over me now. Im still young and its a very good learning experience if anything. She came back telling me how much she loves me and how all she wants is for me to be close etc. I guess contacting her didint make things worse this time. But I did show her how much that shit affected me. Anyways. Thanks br…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:16 AM
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Seriously you better not contact her or reply to anything she says until she apologizes to you, if you don't heed that advice you're gonna completely fuck yourself over. That shouldve been in your first message. Its too late now. Ill just leave it from now then.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:15 AM
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You need to do a lot more reading In what department? Get on with your life while you wait for her to end her little tantrum Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 01:09 AM
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Okey thanks man. It is to try and draw out some jealousy isn't it. So far when we've discussed jealousy she goes on and on about how much she loves that i don't get jealous. She's really trying though. Appreciate it.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:00 PM
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Yea, I know you're right. I guess Im just getting in to learing the cold hard truth and how manupulative women can be. Getting in to a position of being an emotional tampoon was the last thing Id imagine here. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:25 PM
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Right now it was a little over a month ago. This particular girl lives in a different city and when I stayed there the last time it was like 3-5 times a day. Im going to be there for a week again in less than one week.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:20 PM
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Apart from the sex I wake up to nudes every other day and messages about how much she craves it. I doubt that Id fall in to that cateogry.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:12 PM
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Who are you to tell people what and who this sub is for?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:12 AM
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This is something I first read in Attraction Isnt A Choice by David Deangelo. And man did it fuck me up in highschool! I became a arrogant jerk who never apologized while thinking I was being cocky and funny. Dude. Dont take anything to an extream. A man who has a strong character and a steady overflow in confidence should be able to apologize to ANYONE, even women if he truly thinks he's done wrong. And doing wrong is human and by being a respectable man all around and then giving out an apolog…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:47 PM
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Thank you for proving my point dude.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:36 PM
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Instead of seeing things like a threat just joke with them, smile and high-five them. Even guys like that can be eased in to laughter and if you show them you're a cool guy they'd probably respect you more. About the chairs from the start instead of being offended just let them take the chairs if they're presenting. It doesn't hurt you. Just get new ones.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:29 AM
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Sense strong case of low vibration and anger phase in you bro. You havnt fully accepted reality nor have you come to ease with just being yourself, offering value and being comfortable doing so. True characteristics of an alpha male. At ease and has so much fucking value it doesn't hurt if you share some. Have fun, be easy going and smile! Relax dude. Reality is brutal but once you come to accept it you'll calm down. Breathe through your balls and stay pressent to the moment. What has helped me …
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:51 PM
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You've never had a ltr have you?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 07:00 PM
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They do date down. They follow the tingles man!
/r/askTRP26/01/17 06:33 PM
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I dont really believe in handing you exactly what you should say so that you can follow some script in life. Id probably never have a girl give me that shit though becaus if Im exclusive with a girl and I love her Id make her feel really good all the time. Just as she'd make me feel really good all the time. I think a relationship should be win win. Not something where you try to compete or blame on eachother. If this is a really big issue for you try explaining your side. Like "Id drop you off …
/r/askTRP26/01/17 06:29 PM
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Id say it can be like a comfort test aswell. Try tuning in to her a bit more and show her that you truly appriciate her and that you'd do stuff for her to feel comfortable around you. Equally important. Or if a shit test just joke it off. Remeber it from this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5nm0mu/part_2_of_2_40_classic_shit_tests_what_they_mean/ "15 “[Other guy] always does ___ for his girlfriend/wife. How come you never do that for me?” Translation: Can I extract resources…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:30 PM
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You can! Everyone can. It all depends on how you want to achieve it. First of all you should try to find other pleassures in life outside women. Start some hobbies, reading. Find stuff you like to do and when you're happy without them they'll come of themselves.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:16 PM
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haha there's no arguing with that "next" but the situation Im in is sooo real dude. I cant shake it.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:22 PM
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You're so fucked up. I'm sorry bro but you have a long way to go. Now you insulted her and gave her closure. You're freaking out over this girl. If anything you have to learn how to keep cool.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:01 AM
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Why do you know all of this about her?! That's one good way to fuck your brain up and get a really weak frame around her. Don't give a shit about her sexual passed. Recently talked about orgasms with my chick, she tried going in to detail but I just told her that I don't care for the details. Like, why would I? Now it's my turn. But yea, Id never date a girl who didn't fuck me on the first date. Not that I'm so eager for sex. It's just because I really don't want to spend time with girls who doe…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 11:43 AM
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This is big! The fact that she's comfortable behaving this way reflects on how OP has handled her. Any girl I've been out with would be embarrassed to even bring up the subject.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 11:34 AM
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If you really need to eat on a first date grab a pizza slice in between bouncing bars. I've always told the girl to ear before she comes see me because we're just having drinks on my first dates. She respects that. And the drinks, just tell her we're splitting the check. Don't ask don't be awkward - be in in charge. Maybe she won't like it but she won't say anything about it either. And if she's really in to you she'll ask you what you want to drink and get it for you without hesitation. After t…
/r/askTRP16/01/17 11:30 AM
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Woa I'd never be with a girl who didn't worship me. I've never been the first one to text when I've started seeing someone for a longer time. Set boundaries. Internalize in her that you could leave any day.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:59 AM
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This is tough, I've had work to do to next day and she won't leave untill I go out the door to work and she'll follow me for a bit. Lately with her I've just sat down to take a massive shit in the morning and act suprised she's still there when I come out. That usualy makes her leave. I've even said get that fuck out! Like screaming at her to get that fuck out of my apartment. She just laughs though. She finds it hilarious. It's rare to find a girl who's not intimidates by me being 6.7tall with …
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:54 AM
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As long as you never agree to exclusivity.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:54 AM
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That's easier to handle though. I see her just playing him and as I never spend money on girls this one just makes me laugh. She doesn't even take the dick? Poor guys.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:55 AM
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Can confirm. Met two Australian sisters when traveling in Asia who were both early 20's. Both of them had boyfriends back in Australia. But while traveling with their family he younger sister (who fucked my friend) told me that her older sister had fucked around 9 different guys in 4 days. The night they came to our hotel room they had alrrady been to two others same evening. I almost puke thinking that my friends fucked one each. Al while their mother was sleeping in the hotel room thinking her…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:58 PM
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The timing with this post in my life was sick. Thanks alot man, just what I needed to read now.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 01:43 PM
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Don't just be at home watching TV or surf the web. Get a bunch of hobbies so that you spend more time out than at home. That will make sure she can still think about you. If you want to go clubbing, only do it if you're 100% secure you won't be jealous or spin your male hamster if she does the same. I would assume. I've never lived with a girl so I don't really know but I think these two points would be solid. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 10:53 AM
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Totally! Greed feeds on greed. I wouldn't mind affording the nicest clothes and having a big flat in Central Paris. But honestly, once you get there you'll be exactly the same person on the inside. Nothing has changed!!
/r/askTRP21/11/16 02:19 PM
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I'm not the right person to say this as I'm not studying and I only make 2000$ a month, but no matter how much money you make you'll always run in to people with more. When you make 1mil a year you'll run in to people who make 10mil a year. When you make 20mil a year you'll run in to old money wholl laugh at you as if you were homeless with their fortunes. You'll NEVER have enough. So just drop it. And you don't need money to attract girls. You'll attract them alright, but in the wrong way. You …
/r/askTRP21/11/16 02:14 PM
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Very true. Personal favorite I've done for over 3 months now is chicken, rice, broccoli for two meals a day. Add fish oil for healthy fats and oatmeal for breakfast. A lot of fruits and vitamins, protein shakes between meals. Super easy and time efficient. I have it stocked up in the freezer and I cook 3 times a week. Before I started this you could've called me skinny fat. Now my abs are almost always visible and my chest pops out as muscle instead of tit Being on a constant low carb diet will …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 11:45 AM
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Question : how to go about the girl who constantly hits you up and reacts incredibly well when you give fast and sincere replies?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 07:08 AM
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I've done it like 3-4 times. Problem is she may start to complain that you're not treating her that way later on. I'd rather have her cook for me. And when a girl suggests that she instantly reaches the top of my rotation.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:05 AM
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I moved out recently, 21 y/o. My sex life is insane now when I have my own place. But I'm dependent on my job which leaves no freedom to study and get moving to a better career. And that's where I'm stuck now. I bought the apparmtment so I see it as an investment. But I recommend you to get going on a good career and study. Move to a dorm and get your degree and then start looking for your own place when you have the $$$. I had a short term thinking were I just needed a better place to pull to, …
/r/askTRP14/11/16 03:31 PM
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Please just go no contact and next her. Don't waste your time and energy on this shit.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:22 PM
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He has a point. Could you imagine the men fucking the kind of girls you're talking about having this "debate"? They wont. They live it. And for you to reach that point I suggest you fake it untill you make it. I for one never kiss and tell. There's no point. Id rather A&A in the other direction. That Im a virgin and saves myself for marriage. Because if you're the kind of man who has a lot of options and sexual experience it'll shine through your eyes. And the weekends I've had more than one gir…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 04:01 PM
1

Are you sure? She night just go along with the logical and then it'll be even worse
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:43 AM
1

Yea not texts as much but maybe when talking over the phone etc.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 08:43 AM
1

Thanks for the in depth response on so little context. Appreciate it. I think what I've done is overthink it as soon so she goes logical as a sign of interest dying rapidly. I just need to get together with her when I'm in a better vibe myself so it might contaminate her more.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 01:22 PM
1

Sure one might think it's in lack of interest that she refuses to go on that level with you. But let's say you still have sex and she hits up your phone like twice a day.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:50 AM
1

Yes definetly. As long as the sex is really good.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:11 AM
1

Just fyi I've been rereading this comment alot. How its just normal for her to treat me this way etc. Because with some of these hot 20y/o girls they can tell me out loud that it feels too mature to go out and grab a drink before having sex. Just wanting to come over to my place from the start. I dont mind it, but I dont really like it either. It feels like Im sliding my dick through an empty shell most times. And lately I've even passed up on some of the hottest, tightest young bodies I've fuck…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:34 PM
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Just tell her: "Id love to feel your lips around my dick, right now!" Much more effective than trying to shove her head down there and hoping she'd get the hit. It works too but she'd be more inclined to do it if you were 100% comfortable with talking dirty. And tell her what you like, how good her pussy feels, how hot she is from this angle etc. They get a kick out of it! Sure, I wouldnt say it if I didint mean it, so with these chubby girls maybe I wouldnt. And about chubby girls, Id rather je…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:22 PM
1

Tall! Dont know exact.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:45 AM
1

Ok thanks! I notice the comforttests has come already. Like "Oh what if some young girl just takes you away" Mentioned running in to an x girlfriend and she was like "Oh maybe you're ment to be together, I really want you for myself" etc But I've just A&A'd everything so far. Maby I should start being more comforting instead. So yea, experience in tests is a big part of attraction with women. Thanks for your insight.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:44 AM
2

This is some real shit. Ill keep staying aloof to what ever it is and just enjoy the moment and have a clear view of the inevitable end to keep my emotions in check when it does happen. I've been very clear with her that I in no way am looking for a relationship, and that I probably wont be untill Im her age. Also mentioned that Im not exclusive with anyone etc. So Im very clear with not wanting more with her, and she knows it. I wont forget my place. Thanks alot man!
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:41 AM
2

I wasnt even thinking about that. But solid experience advice eitherway. Thanks for sharing bro!
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:35 AM
1

haha deff not a keeper. But Id still like to be able to increase her attraction for me after I see her friends, and being prepared for it seems like a good start. Thanks though!
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:34 AM
1

Yea thanks for being clear on that point. Really sets a nice mindset to protect me when things starts to go downhill. Cheers bro!
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:33 AM
1

Haha no I couldnt do that. I would love to have a nice watch, but Id never ask something like that from anyone.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:32 AM
2

Thanks bro. Yea experience is key in any scenario I feel. This is a really good heads up and mindset to carry through out it. Will keep it in mind!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:29 PM
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Ooooh yeaa that is true. Thanks a lot bro
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:28 PM
1

Ok I can get that to some extent. I just dont have enough experience with it. But itll be interesting to see how it goes. "the kiddy table at a dinner party." Thats a very good mindset. Thanks man, appriciate it.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 06:37 PM
1

Alright, Ill not try to take the lead as Im used to doing. Im allways the one taking charge of the situation and getting almost every party moving from location to location. Im just like that naturally. But I needed that detail. Ill just be relaxed and go with her flow in things. Cheers.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:58 PM
2

Thanks. That made it feel a lot easier and comfortable. Im still young and just enjoying this ride with little to zero emotional investment will be a good time. Ill keep this in mind!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:28 PM
1

Yea Ill keep it in mind. Ill go in with an attitude that I have nothing to proove. Solid advice man!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:26 PM
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Ok cool. Thanks man! I guess that as soon as I enter the room with her all my thoughts of this will disapear instantly and Ill be able to be charming af with her friend since they allready have sunch a good impression of me from what she has told them! Thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:13 PM
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This completely stunned me. Thanks I really do need to turn this mindset around and see me as the prize. Thanks Ill internelize this. Meeting her social circle is nothing else than her prooving she has a cool crew to me. Amused mastery(?) Thanks bro!!!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:10 PM
3

Apart from the sex I wake up to sick nudes in 500$ lingerie.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:07 PM
1

Thanks bro. Great motivation. Ill keep doing stuff if I ever find myself sitting quietly in my mind!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:09 PM
2

Oh good point. I have and she usualy drinks like every weekend. And then she has dinner with gf's like 2-3 times in the middle of the week, I take it they have some cocktails with that. Still she hits the gym like 5 times a week and runs marathons. She's usualy up before 05 in the morning for an hour run aswell. So I doubt the alcohol has a big effect on her health. (Not defending just stating facts.) But yea, I dated an x modell 2 years ago and she was a real alcoholic. So I know what its about…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:09 PM
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Yea thanks man, Im not taking it seriously. This is just breaking new ground for me and Id like some kind of preparation before I begin gathering the experience with this whole thing. I've read TRP, Im only 22 wtf! Spin spin spin. I wouldnt even concider viewing a woman as something "Special" until Im her age. And I've told her too! Thanks for the advice about just being silent. Ill try to be silent, hold eyecontact and just transmit a nice chill stoic energy. I would be affraid of approaching n…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:39 PM
2

Funny thing is when we first met she lied about being 24 and she seriously thought I was about the same age as her. So all this kind of developed as I confronted her about lying about her age when I found out about how successful she was. But yea, we're just having fun. haha right, she'd be the one paying child support ;)
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:37 PM
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Thanks man, this is exactly what I was looking for. Ill just be cool and have a good time on my own. If she's there, good. But if she's off doing shit with her girlfriends I might aswell just sarge with anyone to keep preselection going.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:30 PM
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Alright thanks man! I can see this striking very true. Im 6.7ft tall, aryan looks, strong jawline, intense blue eyes. And she has mentioned too many times how hot I am. Im probably just some arm candy. I dont mind, I can live with that, and as Im still spinning other girls Ill never get attached enough to her. But tbh I feel a stronger connection with her than with most girls. Thanks for the feedback, Ill find some mindset to work through it and keep strong frame.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 03:21 PM
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Thanks man! Ill remain stoic and aloof with all of it and just let her dance around me. Itll be a hard frame to keep around all of her friends and the settings she'll bring me to but Itll be good practice if anything.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 02:37 PM
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OK thanks for clarifying. This is a good mindset!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 02:27 PM
2

Did you even read the thread? Thanks though
/r/askTRP05/11/16 01:55 PM
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Did you even read the thread? Thanks though.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 01:55 PM
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Thanks man, the last paragraph is very obvious. But as I see it she's even more fungible. But might be a very good insight in to what she wants out of this. But you didint give me any actual pointers just a bunch of theory around the situation. I gave you the information you needed. I am 22, no money. She's 30ish A LOT of money. Her friends are her age with also, A LOT of money. Do I try to take charge of the situation and show them I can take her of her and be a man. Or do I just lean back, rel…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 12:06 PM
3

The sales analyst seems more like what you want. But I'd choose the money with less work hours and just dedicate the free time for growing.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 11:40 AM
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This could also be a sign that she's thinking about you and that she just doesn't want to know what to tell you in order to start a conversation. So whenever a girl hits you up like this just plan the next date. But I also had this happen with a girl I wasn't attracted to so I told her firmly. I don't have time for your fucking bulls hit. You contact me with nothing but bad vibes, fuck off!! And blocked her.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:19 AM
1

This is her not wanting to give you sex too early. Sure she says she's not interested in a relationship because she doesn't know you. Everyone wants to tame the wolf. This happend to me too. So I set a new date and told her to come straight to my place.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 10:39 AM
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https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/09/the-tool-of-asd/
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:55 PM
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Just internalize theory. And don't overthink things as if you'd try to manipulate her to sleep with you. Accept that women love sex as much as men but also understand ASD.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 12:17 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 12:03 PM
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You just say no, we're just meeting for drinks or hanging out. Just act as if she's being really dumb by just assuming you want to sleep with her instantly.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 09:56 AM
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How is this a shit test? She's looking if you're open for a casual hookup
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:22 PM
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I know a few who do it and some who has done it. Just keep in mind that it's very stressful. This is when one of my friends got his first visible gray hairs after doing this for 6 months. He bartended at a few places and worked in sales on the week days. On top of this trying to live healthy and tend to your body and workout, and setting dates, and hopefully moving forward in your career at the same time is really hard.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:40 PM
1

Exactly what i've been feeling now. Been hesitant to showing her my current place as Im far from equally well of as her. Having her walk in to my appartment with shoes for the same price as a one month salary of mine. Never got the feeling it had any meaning to her though. knowing there's no motives outside of who they are, and who you are Couldnt agree more.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:14 PM
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Just embarking on this now. Ive been extreamly aloof with her becaus of what you first mentioned. Have the same attitude towards it. Enjoy it for what it is as long as it lasts. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:09 PM
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Took me 2 months to completely let go of my first oneitis. Time will heal it, just dont forget to approach. What i did was even approach and whine to the girls about how much I liked my oneitis. Better do that than not approach and stay in sobbing all day.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:00 PM
1

This is true. I have really strong feelings for a girl right now but she the most stable and beautiful girl I've ever dated. Six months ago I had the same feelings for a girl who at that time in my life was the most beautiful and stable girl I've dated. Oneitis comes and goes, but if he met such a good girl now imagine what he'll have in 6 months to a year. This is my current view all though I'll just embrace the feelings as long as they're mutual for both her and me.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 10:05 AM
1

Have her sleep over at your place then go out for breakfast and do stuff. And dinner at the night and have her sleep over again. Boom she's your girlfriend
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:42 AM
1

Meditation is the best thing here. I'd you start to do 20 minutes a day for 3 months and then increase to 40 or so. It's fine if you miss a day but try to be consistent with your meditation and the focus will come eventually. And as mentioned, sugar. Don't eat it. Drink more water. Deep breaths through your nose from time to time to bring a lot of oxygen to your brain.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:22 AM
1

Meditate
/r/askTRP18/08/16 10:02 AM
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Gftow bro. You'll gain nothing through her man. Hit up your boys instead. Smile and sarge. She'll contaminate your mood no doubt.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:55 AM
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Some girls are just like that. If you're happy fucking her continue and don't bother if she wants to boss around. As long as you don't take it to the extreme blue. I've ditched girls after the first date(lay) because of this kind of attitude. I'm way to dominant to accept the friction of her trying to boss around. Instant good bye.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:47 AM
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Thanks man. She's fishing for compliments a lot but I always point it out and she gets embarrassed. It's all fun. Currently rewarding her with sex. Told her she'd get a lot of dick when her period was over. She was extatic to hear that lol.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:37 AM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:50 AM
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Yea she is bro. Extreamly loyal. Doesnt give me any shit. Shows appriciation for the simplest things as if it would mean the world for her.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:02 PM
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100%
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:59 PM
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Was easy. She was on her period. She came and got me off with her mouth and left. Smooth and easy. Good girl.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:57 PM
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Was easy. She was on her period. She came and got me off with her mouth and left. Smooth and easy. Good girl.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:46 PM
1

Was easy. She was on her period. She came and got me off with her mouth and left. Smooth and easy. Good girl.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 07:45 PM
1

It should be meaningful or expensive as fuck! A ring on your little finger should be a family heritage or gift. Same goes for necklaces. Otherwise just go for the clock. Preferably given to you or bought after you've just made your first million. If you don't have the cash just go with a classic good looking watch. These things are all status symbols nothing else. It's not like you can't check the time on your phone. As sad, if you don't have the money don't wear it.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 10:51 AM
0

Assume value. Why wouldn't you let her?
/r/askTRP07/08/16 01:32 PM
1

Most days I don't even make eyecontact with anyone except my boss. Stay cool. Do your jobb. Low-key
/r/askTRP05/08/16 03:11 PM
1

It's all in your head bro.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:53 PM
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Just consider that she respects your time and will do your bidding when you want her to. She knows how to not scare you away. Those are the girls I generally spin longer than those who text me often. Don't hamster about this just be glad shes leaving you to so your shit untill youd like to do her. Or she's fucking other guys. Girls have cravings too and she'll want to be with you when she does.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:50 PM
1

In my experience when I have abundance or a lot of dates planned I don't even think about jacking it. But when I slip in to scarcity for what ever reason my mind starts to go at it again. My first abundance started with me jacking it almost everyday and going out alone on valentine's day. Met a really cute girl which my scarcity mindset didn't think I'd be able to pull. So I treated her like shit dgaf all the way. She took my number and planned a date with me. Here's when I stopped jacking it. O…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 11:49 AM
1

Go to the gym. Go to the club. Approach random girl. Grab her waist. Recieve slap across face. Repeat.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:13 AM
0

Yea i have. Shes drinking and she tasted bacon at my place. She is Muslim but she's not Muslim. Good girl.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 06:14 AM
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Up and down. Never stop working on my self but plates come and go. Dryspells come and go. I'm kind of young and been too cocky while I'm in abundance so I reject lays untill I'm alone. Build it up again only to repeat.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:17 AM
0

Shaking hands is business between men. Just grab the tip of her fingers with yours. I've opted for the high-five more recently. Their puzzled facial expression that says: "wtf I'm a lady I don't high-five" is priceless. Instantly forcing them in to your frame while working awesome as your first and instant compliance test.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:11 AM
1

The mating mind: how sexual choice shaped the evolution of human nature - Geoffrey Miller. I haven't read all of it but gone through quite a bit. More interesting than actually applyable to your game.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:06 AM
1

Maby. Just next
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:18 PM
2

LMR DUDE! Its completely normal. It would be kind of wierd if she didnt give you lmr.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:58 AM
3

Next.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:54 PM
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"fuck off you angry asshole" calm down boy. Men in your situation rise up. Get beaten down seven times get up eight. Try meditation. Read the power of now by Eckhart tolle. Unless procrastination had its turn on you as well. Then maby you're not worthy.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:09 PM
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Lmr. Thinking in terms of "does this girl like me?" Is what's holding a lot of men back. Be dominant and take what YOU want. What you want is what matters. Women feel turned on by men. It's biology dude. And women not keeping their hands of you is all about the frame you've set. I have a strong frame of "don't disturb me unless I let you." and of course that will lead to me taking the initiative. Women don't WANT to take charge. But if they have to they probably will. But you'll be far more attr…
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:06 PM
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My narcissism what over the top back in high school and it didn't result in more lays, more friends, more of everything. I was a fucking beast who wrecked shit. I was the king of everything and few were worthy of my sincere attention without getting insulted. Turn it back a few notches and be honest. Brutaly honest with the people you care about. This has been my frame lately. It's not about how far you climb, but how many you bring with you. Confidence is grown inside you. And for it to be real…
/r/askTRP30/07/16 05:56 PM
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"what can I do? Give me something that will fix me! Let me read your advice on how to not be a cunt!" Fuck you man. You have to internalize this shit. And realize that there would be no top 5% men in smv if there weren't people below them. So, where are you on the ladder? How long is your current dryspell?
/r/askTRP30/07/16 05:48 PM
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My point being GO OUT MORE. All the advice I've taken and practiced is videly avilable on both here and other sites. How dumb are you if you've managed to miss that out of my first sentence. No offence.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:51 PM
2

Ghost them. Get busy.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 10:22 AM
1

Took me 3 years of clubbing to learn how to otally own the place. (without spending money)
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:21 AM
1

Don't. Honor and respect your fellow man.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:19 AM
1

Friends or "friends". It's cool to have a bunch of girls to hang out with that you have no intention sleeping with. But it takes A LOT of abundance for you to not even see them as potential lays. And by the time you have that abundance you'll not even think about trp theory before you decide to hang with them. Sexual tension can't be avoided but you have other girls and you're just enjoying their company, for what ever reason. If you find that the reason is female validation or the idea of how c…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:34 PM
0

Lol. A great post on this just hit the main sub. Spend more time there.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:27 PM
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Not really. Just stay in bed. Don't get dressed. Joke around with her. Get a glass of water and before you know it you'll be at it again.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:26 PM
1

I always initiate kino with a "neg" for "reassurance". Classic push pull. Neg her > place hand on leg and squeeze.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:08 AM
3

This is kind of true. Long before I started my rp journey I embraced rp truths without a platform to discuss it in. This led to me not having more experienced people giving me tips and ideas on how to handle shit. So, I became the way too blunt black Knight in my surroundings. Posed as the Devils advocate and spoke clearly about everything to girls to show them how stupid their reality was. This drained my energy hard and I kept fighting with these people (dispite still having good success with …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:19 AM
0

No
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:25 AM
1

Last question: how do you know when a girl being treated badly by a guy/asshole starts to become attracted to him vs really dislikes him for that? When he starts to walk on overyones feelings. But they'll not bother if it is about themselves. But if he started to hammer at some really lowlife neckbeard faggot who you're att still friends with they'd like him to stop because they're mother instincts kick in on a defenseless big baby.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:07 AM
2

Should have told us bro. I know negative energy is killing the mood in the group. Just be strong man. Create good vibes and if you'll be strong enough to uphold the good mood in the group he'll eventualy be so pissed about it that everyone will start to complain about him. The girls might even tell him to lighten tha fuck up. This is what you want. Dont get yourself involved more than blowing the attitude in the right direction. If this is hard for you to do increase your meditation hours each w…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:48 AM
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Dude, you have A LOT to learn about the female phsyce. 1. He's condecending towards them. Note: Women register life through feelings. This will lead to her FEELING him as superior and she'll want to PROOVe herself to him. Through this she'll feel COMPETITION with. If he then gives a SLIGHT compliment to another girl in the group shell want the attention for herself so she'll go though extreams inorder to get his attention back. Dude, this guy has game. You have poor attitude towards him. Serious…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 06:41 PM
1

Dogs are not respected in Muslim countries. Dog or "kelb" is one of the worst insults you can give. Don't understand it either though.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:07 AM
1

Lol look at him as her gay friend. Laugh at it with your boys. Abundance.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:38 AM
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You're going to let her because you don't have the balls to be alone. You're placing too much value on your dependency of this relationship. You'll let her bend this rule while thinking "strike one". But in reality you're only showing her how much more of a fag you are. And this will lead to massive disobedience.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 10:25 AM
1

Don't isolate yourself. If you don't have any friends fill up your free time with classes and gatherings for w/r hobby you're interested in. By doing this you're too busy to spend time with the friends you don't have. Worst thing possible when you're alone is to get stuck in front of the computer screen aimlessly scrolling through reddit and YouTube. Be proactive and if you don't have any friends you'll still have tons of activities to do with people you'll get to know through them. I go to spin…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 11:03 AM
1

I keep my chest hair for the Tom Ford look in suits. Trim everything else.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:29 AM
1

Truth, but is faking dread not a good strategy if you're unable to employ it naturally?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 09:02 AM
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You shouldn't, but you could lower your standards. My only plate right now had stayed through 3 different cycles of plates. She never texts me. She never sends me anything she's radio silent until I ask her to come over, then it's a quick yes. And she keeps all her attention on me. Looks me directly in the eye in silence and is receptive towards everything. All other girls have been nexed because of what you're saying here. I've been working to hard to find new ones right now but I know they alw…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:28 AM
2

Call her
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:34 AM
2

Dread
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:31 AM
1

Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 02:48 PM
2

12 actually. Surround yourself with people who challenge you. Surround yourself with men "better than you" and you'll reach infinite growth.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 02:43 PM
3

I'd be pissed if I was him too. You bring a loser with you? Have you never heard that you're the sum of your 5 closest friends? And he fucked you over, because you hang with losers, and you're probably a loser. Build a strong ripped loyal crew and moral will be sky high!!!
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:55 AM
1

Im doing some art. I keep distant and do my own thing. Just do your art and keep your mouth shut. Do not spend time with these people. Find other social circles so you can avoid them as much as possible. It will either contaminate you in to becoming one of them or frustrate you so you might loose frame and inherent a negative attitude and mindset. Not worth it man. Art is lovely but being happy and surrounding yourself with shit that builds you up is more important.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:37 AM
1

Can confirm church isn't the place to go. Good cute girl, extremely active within the local church just cheated on her LTR 6months ago with a church-boy. How do I know? Her last boyfriends was an elite cyclist whom I knew and also told me. Sidenote: while 15 I gave this girl her first make out confirmed by 5 of her closest friends at this age. I had a girlfriend at the time... Awalt
/r/askTRP10/07/16 12:26 AM
2

Talk less and slower. Get good at formulating your sentences before you open your mouth so you can get to the point fast with less words.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 08:44 AM
2

Lol. I guess it depends on how well you precieved environments and how aware you are of what's going on around you. It's cool that this doesn't happen to you though. But I can feel when I have competition in the room. 6'th sense style.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:31 PM
1

Ugh... Keep her spinning for a while. Approach more girls.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:53 AM
7

Go back and spend summer in your university city. You're a grown ass man now.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:49 AM
3

You'll know it once you encounter a man like this. And if you haven't you're probably not exposing yourself to life enough.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:23 AM
2

There's a pro hockey player at my gym. Actually his aura makes me nervous. NEVER happens to me otherwise, I'm disgustingly confident for the most part. But I always make eyecontact and give him a nod. Some small talk to him in the locker room. Just let go, take action.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:40 AM
1

Great. Ill increase the meditation this week to 30 minutes a day and hit the streets this saturday.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 08:36 PM
1

Thanks! Sounds good. I acctualy sunk in to some beta shit today. Man, Im embarresed. Its funny to observe how I could be on top of my shit and 2 weeks later go back 1 year in progress to how I would play shit back then. Atleast it was only with 1 girl though.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 08:30 PM
1

Thanks man. But Im not goint to go through the hassle of getting my dick wet with a girl who's trying to get me to meet her parrents within 1 week. Maby I should be more openminded though. Thanks for the advice with lifting and exercise. But Im biking over 120km each week. And lift 5 times a week. Should I bang my head against this wall and spam approach in clubs untill I get it going again? But it feels as though my approaches would be bad since Im in such a bad mental state...
/r/askTRP04/07/16 08:27 PM
1

Remember awalt. Oneties dude.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 04:42 PM
1

Dnb, classic rock, instrumental beats.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 04:38 PM
3

Swede here too. I disconnected myself from all of that. Deleted Facebook and kept a blunt approach on the subject as I meet new people so I quickly can sort out the ones who I'd like to spend time with without letting anger get a hold of me. I live my own life and from my perspective nothing of this is happening. We know what women want and what they respond to. It's universal. They can keep their weak front up, it doesn't hurt.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:35 PM
2

Age?
/r/askTRP04/07/16 04:31 PM
1

Or the fat girl who have some kind of hot friends who invite her to parties and shit. She might get a lot of likes mostly from other girls and have other girls comment on my beautiful she is which is a big fat lie. But then again delete Facebook fellas. Live your life outside the screen and if she asks you about it just laugh it off and ask her why she Googled you.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 06:16 AM
2

No its not only about attractiveness. The person can have a lot of friends. The "wtf" because why even think about it? Facebook is bullshit
/r/askTRP04/07/16 06:08 AM
2

Wtf
/r/askTRP04/07/16 06:04 AM
1

You remove it by doing it. Talk to 500 random people and see if you'll be anxious before 501.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 07:12 AM
2

Yea, cycle, eat snickers on the bike. Grab some food or ice-cream. I don't have any lakes or water in my city so I like to bike to where they have nice lakes and take a dip. It's good cardio man.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:59 PM
2

Haha fuck would I care. Never once when mentioning a hobby have I received a puzzled facial expression. Standard reply from women : oooohhh I love that too. Dude idgaf about what's precieved cool by the general masses. I am the definition of it in my own world. And that is my final say on hobbies. Do what you want and express love to it and women will love it too, just because it's you who are saying it.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 10:15 AM
2

I ride a long-distance rodebike to different cities on my days off. I enjoy painting although that's too time consuming to do right now. I could easily call cooking a hobby of mine, if I have time I can spend an entire day in the kitchen. Sunbathing. Fashion.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:15 AM
1

There's no limits to how we treat each other. I had to wrestle my closest mate to the ground until he taped out yesterday because he was being too much of a dick. Are you a sensitive bitch who can't handle when your friends are shitting on you they won't become friends. Sidenote, if they're being straight up honest with you about your decisions and get angry at you theyre good friends. If they are silent towards you but speak about it behind your back they're not. Your best mate calls you Jesus …
/r/askTRP26/06/16 09:02 PM
1

Happend to me too. I chose my friends extremely carefully. So I gave my blessing, if she wanted to date him I'd be glad. But I'll ALL WAYS choose my sisters side in everything involving them. Didnt tell him though. Turned out she didn't want to date him so I forcefully pushed him away from her and continued being friends with him. He jokes about her still but I laugh at it since he couldn't get her.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:26 PM
5

And how is that working for you?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 05:22 PM
2

I don't drive. I have them come to my apartment. And I live 5 minute walk from all the night clubs and the town square. So if I take a girl out for a drink we always do it walking. So depending on location. But if you're enough of a stud she'd be glad to drive you around. But you should try to get a car.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:10 PM
4

Get rid of it. That is disgusting. Chest hair, hair on your stomach, armpit hair (as long as it doesn't stick out when your arms are closed.) lower back hair down to your ass I could see ok. But should try to keep everything short, I trim everywhere except chest and legs. It looks good on me. It's preference mostly but back hair is universally ugly.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 12:06 PM
3

Big smile and turn your back on him and walk away in the middle of his sentence. Or just agree with everything he says. "Yea you're right" "so true" etc just to drop it.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:12 PM
6

Before ever stumbling on this whole "pick up" stuff online I used to go out and approach without even knowing it was a "thing". So, me, skinny cocky mother fucker leaning towards a pillar in the smoking area of a club. I spot a group of 5 girls in a corner all with their backs out. One of them was really hot. So I wanted to approach her but I had to scan for the "perfect" moment first. So I stood there against the pillar stairing at them for about 5 minutes untill she finaly walks towards the ba…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:12 PM
3

I've made tons of friends at the gym. What started with a simple nod each time I saw them now evolved in to high-fives and ass slaps and great conversation. And if I was new in the city I could ask anyone of them what places are the best and if they're too busy this weekend to show me. Get a part time job. Co-workers can be cool. Get an after-work beer and maby they'll introduce you to some of their friends. Be a cool guy when you're out, I met a guy on my level in life 2 weeks ago. I ran in to …
/r/askTRP17/06/16 01:24 PM
1

Always lean slightly beyond your comfort zone in everything you do. Infinite growth. Follow the upwards spiral of growth: learn, implement, do, learn, implement, do, learn, implement, do.....
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:11 AM
2

No loosers with no mental strength smokes. It's all about mental strenght and smoking shows everyone that you're a weak mother fucker. It smells like shit and it costs unessecary money. I look down immensely on people who smoke. I don't date girls who do it and I have zero respect for men who do it. Get clean white teeth, apply some lui Rochas to your collar bone and live a healthy life. Go out for long jogs and join a bicycling team. BTW you're the same guy who can't even approach, and you give…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 11:56 AM
2

He is not worthy of reproduction due to this and there by his genes from a biological standpoint will be extinct. Natural selection goes hand in hand with survival of the fittest. Both theories by Darwin.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 11:22 AM
2

Natural selection
/r/askTRP16/06/16 05:56 AM
3

Start to acknowledge girls love sex and spin plates until you've felt REAL abundance then consider upgrading your best plate to LTR status.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:55 PM
1

Google "italian male clothing "
/r/askTRP13/06/16 11:41 AM
1

Lol, if you can't stand for it you shouldn't do it. Part of being a man is being rock solid in his virtues and see every one of his moves as a winning one. Of ours one should also accept defeat but this is nothing else than a guy throwing some banter at you for something you do occasionally. If I find something unsuited for the situation I usually approach it seriously to kill the fun vibe. "no, I don't. It's something I do but I don't brag about it. I find it easier to keep my head straight on …
/r/askTRP13/06/16 10:06 AM
1

Yea he's not living in the now. His "mental movies" are obscuring the pressent.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 09:58 AM
1

Lol. Fill your own cup man and don't let outside shit affect your mood. He can sense you're being bitchy, because you are. And that makes it more fun to keep it up.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 05:58 AM
1

Read The power of now by Eckhart tolle.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 06:40 PM
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Haha this is great. When I had oneties I just started my harem because of the idgaf attitude. Find other pleasures in life. Hobbies, friends etc. Keep the girls rolling and keep changing plates and always upgrade. If you work in this way you'll forget her. Keep it up brother.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 07:30 PM
1

Sit next to her. Put your hand on her leg. Feel her leg the way you want to. She's there for you so take advantage of it. Shell like it. Tease her, squeeze her leg as you do so for push pull dynamic. Only go for the pussy if you're about to pull her. If she moves your hands that means you have to be more careful and don't go too aggressive. But keep a friendly touch on her legs and as conversation gets better you can escalate more.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 08:56 AM
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Congruence. You can't walk around and be assertive unless you're in a position to. At work, are you the boss who've worked there for 10+ years or the kid who just started and barely know anyone? The mere act of you analyzing wether they find your jokes offensive or funny is what causes people to get offended. Get free from outcome and dgaf.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 08:51 AM
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Theory can't save you here dude. Get in the field and experience them. I remember not knowing she was shit testing me until I got home and replayed the date in my mind back a couple of years ago.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:52 PM
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Ok cool I'll do that.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:39 PM
1

I don't. What do I tell her?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:37 PM
1

Next
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:59 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/40m1er/the_chameleon/ I wrote a thread about it a while back.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 05:55 PM
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Yea personal preference I guess. But always working towards getting new plates will keep your mind in abundance setting for ever and you'll just keep growing and growing. The longer you've had mad abundance the more it shows on you. If you only want one, try changing her as often as you can to keep feeding yoursrlf with reassured abundance!! Which is the most attractive trait a man can have on a subcomunicational level!!
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:40 PM
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No its all mindset. Make up your mind that you're a closer and work towards turning g all potential numbers in to plates. If they flake you have more to work on. And I think it's the age as well. You're young. Keep working on yourself, keep approaching and you'll see a big difference once you hit 23-24
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:27 PM
1

Relax. Take the first step to meet a girl out for a drink or w/e. And when you're with her escalation should come naturally. I get your thoughts about validation being more important for you but that's just a mental barrier you have to get through. Follow up on your numbers!! https://youtu.be/v9XW6P0tiVc
/r/askTRP28/05/16 12:10 PM
1

Ok cool.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 01:01 PM
1

Yeah she was on top of me most of the time because I'm too tall to kiss her while I'm on top. And she wanted to make out meanwhile. But she was awesome at riding. It was when I got on top and put her legs up my shoulder and she told me to put the leg down that I kind of lost it.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 12:50 PM
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Naaa i don't think so. What ran through my mind was that she could have been too tight. I could barely fit my index finger in her at first. So my Dick kind of sliped out of her from time to time. And that made me flat. Maby
/r/askTRP27/05/16 12:49 PM
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21, used to smoke. 6 hour sleep and work. So I think tiredness could have been it. But it's the next day and I still feel as though I don't have any power in my Dick. Like i lost sense in it or some shit like that. I didnt have morningwood either.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 12:44 PM
1

No, no. Could it be? I'll get her over when I know I'm completely rested to prove.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 10:43 PM
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Only on those who I find appealing to look at. The world is pressenting itself for me. Im taking advantage of it by doing what ever tha FUCK I want to do.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 02:20 PM
1

I've been caught staring at ass. 90% of the time this happens: She turns around to catch my eyes resting on her ass. She laughs and asks me: "What?" Which makes me smile.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:23 AM
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I didint read everything but I dont need to. I can tell whats wrong here. You're looking deep in to her eyes, smiling. You're getting some kino going, you're laughing with her, teasing her abit. Maby you mention something in a jokish way about a future together. As: "We should do that." "Ill take you there some time." If you want fast lays you have to be more of a dick bro. And "Im not comfortable" ALL GIRLS SAY THIS! Its called LMR. EVERYONE DOES IT! Exceptions ofc if you've been witholding sex…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 08:10 PM
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This comment made me think. I dated this 21 y/o tall swedish girl. Virgin before she met me. The first date I had she told me that she had showd her father a picture of me to show him who she was going to see. She told both her parents and they were happy for her. She had never kissed another man than her father before me. I "deflowered" her on our second date, which was a month ago. I havnt seen her since. She cant satisfy me sexually, even though she's thin, tall, beautiful eyes. She's still a…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:57 PM
1

Good, strong, tall, nordic genes to match my own. Preferably studied to become a kindergarden teacher but chose to work with something else. Allways takes my advice as final. Her eyes should be resting on me in every situation. This shows me that she trusts me to take the lead and will follow.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:52 PM
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Its not. She wants to know why youre with her like: "why do you like me, dont you have other options?" Tease. Comfort tests usualy start with them being needy of you. "Do you really like me?"
/r/askTRP27/04/16 10:54 AM
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Have standards with whom you spend time with. Id rather be alone then surrounded by loosers. Bring people in to your frame and enter social situations with a prenotion that you are the shit and they have to proove themselves to you inorder for you to really accept them. Sure, be polite and nice. But dont alter your Opinions and views becaus of others. And never be affraid to vent them if discussion arises. But simply put, be 10% cooler than the guy next to you and allways offer value.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 10:49 AM
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Olympic lift up dat bitch in a snatch to overhead squat.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 12:03 PM
1

Call her over to your place sober and relaxed.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:48 AM
2

Dont EVER aplogize. Unless you reaaally fucked up bad. Dont appologize for your actions or your values. That is textbook beta.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:50 AM
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Theres no reson to next is there? Why not continue bro? And you dont know shit about oneitis untill it happens. Its progress to get oneitis becaus its a lesson.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 08:39 PM
1

Ok thanks. But I thought there might be some articles or more detaild info about it. W/e then. Ill just keep going!
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:40 PM
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Na man, not escalating is a mad sticking point. Being a cool guy who girls are interested in will take you NOWHERE if you dont atleast try for the pull or set up a date. "Natural game". Im not shit talking my wing. He's an awesome guy. But he's not a natural mate.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:40 PM
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Its important, we men have no idea what its like to be attracted to someone so much bigger than ourselfs. Men can be intimidating as Fuck. Im 6.7ft tall and well built, i can freak girls out. But, i have an artitistic long hairstyle, blue eyes and a smile that puts them at ease.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:16 AM
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Its about your priorities. 3 hours at rush hour in a major city is possible man. Time flyes. And, take instant dates in to account. Girls are everywhere, The grocery store, cahsiers, shopping clothes, having coffe, on ger way to and from work, at the gym. I didnt say it was easy though, so you can stop being bugged.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:14 AM
1

I ended a dryspell with a hooker once. One week later i pulled a ONS from a nightclub. One week after that i fucked a girl on our first date. One week after that i poped a girls cherry. And then it just kept building. Idk if it started with the hooker though. I hadnt gone out in 4 months prior to that. And the weekend before the hooker i went out. And becaus i was so free from outcome from not going out in such a long while i got a number who i started dating before the hooker. And The abundence…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:33 PM
2

Ofcours! Swedes are generally extreamly aware of how they pressent themselves. If you dress sharp and care about how you are precieved youre good. But swedes are annoyed of americans aswell. With your loud and obnoxious conversations. Taking up alot of space, being loud etc. You can allways spot the american. Miles away by hos blazer 2 sizes too big.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 09:45 AM
2

Approoval seekimg vibe.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:35 AM
2

Is he?
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:06 PM
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Sweden: I find that mostly swedish males have it easier. But, only the top % that have been hitting the gym since age 14 and play soccer or some other kind of sport on a high level. Generally I tink alot of the girls my age are single. And those who are in a relationship often are so with kind of lame guys. Just for the sake of being in a relationship. The top % here where I live have no need to enter relationships. Fuckbuddies is the thing around here, where alot of girls compete for the same g…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:28 PM
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No, but ive been in intense situations. I often times have complete control of the situation. I take action fast and i feel as though i have superpowers. But, after the event it feels as a blackout. I cant remember details, its all just black.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 12:21 PM
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I do it the next day
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:17 AM
0

Zyzz is motivation imo. Sick cunt, ceck him out on YouTube
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:36 PM
0

Best bj i ever hade was from a hooker. The swedish unexperienced girls im spinning now dont know how to suck dick.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 11:48 AM
1

Dont see it as being convinced though. Just not passing any leads or opertunities no matter how weak they are. Same thing goes for cold approach. Only now she knows him from somewhere.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:00 PM
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These kind of comments piss me off. Do you honestly have this mindset EssexMum? My first reaction and only reaction would be that she wants the D. And why believe in anything else? Mindsets and thaughts that doesnt benefit you should be eradicated. So drop this attitude now. And dont spread it for fucks sake. Imagine if there was a really shy guy on the other side of the screene and your comment pushed him in to not even trying? Fuck you man! Women love sex, its all they ever think about.(probab…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 08:47 PM
1

Get out of your head.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 08:38 PM
1

If you impose sexual "threat" they will be. Becaus they initially feel the need to "defend" themselves against the dick. But, if you approach them like a nice guy. A friendly nice guy. She'll be nice to you too, and becaus all the hot girls in magasines say they want a nice guy she wont be able to tell the difference from a douchebag and a high SMV guy. So she'll assume you're a dick douchebag who's just mean. But when you're nice she'll think you're hitting on her. Same thing goes for looser gu…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:49 PM
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Unattractive girls. Who probably went through alot of bullying in school do find beta males more attractive. Becaus they give them some attention at all. But attractive girls who've had attention on them since the age of 8 grows tired of it. They've developed an addiction to the likes and the status their looks have given them. But when they stumble on an alpha who has more shit going on in his life than hers and can display this to her. Often through not caring so much about her she'll get intr…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 01:09 PM
1

Omg sidebar
/r/askTRP11/04/16 09:09 PM
2

What does it look like? "Yea you probably were a shark in your previous life" While showing affection through kino. Classic push, pull.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 07:27 PM
1

Sounds like an IOI to me. Just laughinh at ger rediculess asumptions would have worked.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 05:58 PM
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Can comfirm. I got nexted becaus I didint push through LMR. LMR is the final shit test.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 01:54 PM
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Should have escelated. And then maby she would drop the real reason like: Im on my period. Or: "alright but you have to be quick i have blablabla to do tomorrow"
/r/askTRP09/04/16 07:02 PM
1

This is confusing me abit too. I've had women in my parents basement several times while the whole family was upstaris watching the TV. i want her to be quiet so they are. Maby small moans. But, if the screams and moans are uncontrollable this must mean that I didint fuck any of them good enough? Or, is it controlable and they're quiet becaus I and her both dont want my family listning to it while it was good? But, as long as I find it pleassurable and I get off Im happy. lmao
/r/askTRP09/04/16 12:01 PM
1

Do you? Then just don try to hide it. This is easier when out clubbing. Just walk around with 1 girl on each arm and display preselection infront of the entire crowd. Even open new sets while you have then with you etc. Otherwise just go have coffe with them, or lunch. Let her post it to her insta and tag you, which she would do without hesitation as a "braging" tool that shes with you. Now, i dont use social media. This is merely theory crafting.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:54 PM
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You still have to presue. The art of making a girl chase you really comes down to female competition. So you'd like to make her jealous and have her see that you have alot of other women in your life. Preferably in the same "league". Becaus if the girls you're with are less attractive she'll think you're a looser. And if they're too good looking she'll give up. So, show her you have alot of women in your life and she'll think you're a catch worth presuing, becaus the abundence she knows you have…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:34 PM
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The only thing i hate about veganism is the fucking cult. You guys are worse than the Jehovas whitnesses. "Hey im a vegan" "try vegan" "vegan is good for you" "suck a dick" bla bla bla. Live the life you want to live man, fuck everything else.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:28 AM
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Radiate sexual intet along with tons of kino and tease 2/3 of her statements.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:21 AM
1

Usualy. Now read all the forum Posts from all girls worried that they didnt bleed when they lost there virginity. Yea, who cares? I dont want to destroy her bro. Women get sentimental with the man they loose it to. W/e till just be kind to her when it matters.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:47 PM
1

Not necessarily bro. Show me legit facts to proove that all virgins bleed and ill rest my case. Also, hate going in to details like this but she was tight. I felt my dick tearing her open deep in there while she was aching in pain. Took it slow though...
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:40 PM
2

Nevermind then, still believe she was though. Wouldnt suprise me one bit.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 07:51 PM
0

Why would she lie about this though?
/r/askTRP06/04/16 07:44 PM
1

I dont have to explain myself to you. Im giving you advice, but why bother taking time to. You use the information as you wish. Good luck my friend.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:39 PM
1

No what im peeching is mental game. And what being a silverback gorilla is all about! One look should be enough to settle him. You can and should have an aura around you that makes other men nervous and that provokes them to proove themselves to you. I wish i could sit down with you irl to explain how you through mental toghness and a strong worldview can have men do your bidding with pleassure. Im not talking some mediocre shit like having a guy stop amoging you. Im talking about truly become t…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 12:40 PM
0

You should have more going on than her. Work on it. Dont go through her phone. Youre the prize.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 11:11 AM
0

If a man is shit testing you it is becaus you are weak. He shouldnt have the balls to. So, work on your confidence.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:56 AM
1

Yes. Make sure to build a body to enhance it.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:54 AM
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Youre in scarcity my friend. Your mind wouldnt even register this if you were comfortable with your ability to meet and fuck new women.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:05 PM
1

Haters gonna hate
/r/askTRP05/04/16 07:57 AM
1

Its how you deal with it once you hit that point that defines your succes
/r/askTRP04/04/16 06:03 AM
1

Go to SF and see her. Raise ger emotions, create tingles. And leave as soon as shes hooked. Then maby shell be intrigued and willing to come to your place.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:56 AM
7

Watch the video. She wants to share something with you, stop being stubborn.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:21 AM
5

First of you need to come from a position where she needs you more than you need her. On top of this you should be so comfortable with your ability to meet new chicks that it honestly doesnt matter if you loose attraction for her. Be the buyer. So when you stop responding to her or aply dread it will hit her hard, becaus youre a man of value. If youre not then dread will only make your situation worse.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 01:00 PM
5

Meditate. Dont let him phase you. The wolf does not care of the opinion of the sheep. Be smooth and let his shit pass through you like air. Its all inner game and mental state, which you dont have much of.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 12:44 PM
2

Youre the man! You have to call. Women are like flowers, look how pretty i am, i attract alot of calls. And men are councerers, warriors who have to take action to get what they want. So what if she doesnt call you? Why dont you call her? Check this out: https://youtu.be/4gVX5siXhXM
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:20 AM
1

Youre in scarcity my friend.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:13 AM
8

What all high value girls do. Just stops responding.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:09 PM
3

Yes, smv and status. She will shit test weaker men and comfort test stronger ones.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:29 AM
1

Depending on how cool this guy is. And what kind of life he's living, maby its good to get sucked in to his frame and live there for awhile. Learn from him and see him as a mentor in life. Friends rarely last. So, by the time you two find your own paths in life you'll have a stronger mindset aswell. I had this alpha friend when I was a around 12-13. He was a real dick towards everyone, everyone hated him! But since he had alot connections and got invited to every party I just became his right ha…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:21 PM
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I love you. Ive been saying this for 3 years ever since i deleted my facebook. I now started it again to keep tack of the girls im dating by stalking them on there. But i have 0 pictures, 0 information. So if they go on my page its just as if i didnt have it. But yea, not posting your life goes well in to staying low key and letting them assume. Super efficent to create mystic or intrigue. Make sure to still be a cool guy though. Becaus otherwise theyll just think you dont have it becaus you hav…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 02:48 PM
3

In other words. You are affraid that your brain isnt capable of analysing information from multiple sources inorder to form an accurate understanding of the subject. Which makes you in to a dumb fucking idiot who shouldnt be allowed to vote.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:17 AM
33

Why didnt you just tell her? Going defensiven like that will produce that reaction.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:11 AM
2

I spent alot of time there becaus i love fashion. But that place makes me furious to no end. Theres no fashion or style in that place. The practical advice, like how a suit should fit is never produced by the sub. The sub only links from external sources for upvotes since they have no fucking clue themselves. Fuck that place!
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:23 PM
4

Dont go to malefashionadvice. They talk about swestpants and airmax. That sub is a fucking joke. And anyone who disagrees with sweatpants gets downvoted and hated to no end. Start by looking around. Look at men who are successfull in life. Living the way you want to live. Men who are good with women. And copy their clothing down to the fucking wrinkels in their shirts. Get comfortable wearing it. Dont think about what your wearing while youre wearing it. Any male outlet or male store would do. N…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:56 PM
2

Some people just dont have what it takes. Maby youre just a beta who should accept it then? What do you want me to tell you? Stop over analysing everything and start with getting comfortable with yourself and form your own worldview and ideals. Stop fidgeting aswell. Work on silence. Work on feeling the room, holding eyecontact and not letting anyone or anything phase you. Either you get it or you dont.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:51 PM
1

Im in the same position. Cant stop thinking about this girl. But with this oneitis ive managed to build abundence with the idgaf attitude towards other women. Started with only dating this girl, but went out while dating her and i now have 3 dates planned this week. Still, they dont seem to matter as much as her. But IF i go out on them and start to get to know more women im sure till feel better. Another thing i kept looking in to 2 weeks ago when it first struck was "filling your own cup" by R…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 06:18 AM
4

Could be an IOI aswell. Treat it as such
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:01 PM
1

Its a good frame to start with and monkmoding will deffenetly remove the feeling of loneliness. But, women never "just happen" unless you run some sick social circle game. And then its rarely a girl you want, but rather a girl you can settle with. Putting alot of effort and hard work in to approaching and number closing will be the way to get a girl. Activly pressuing it.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 01:51 PM
-1

The cause youre pointing out might be right. But being defensive and making him in to an enemy is the worst thing you can do. The man is obviously higher value and should be made a friend. He should even try to learn from him and in some way copy hus behaviour.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 01:42 PM
1

Wish I could help you. I've never felt this TBH. Just work on your inner game. Create your own worldview where you're in the center of it. See the world as your movie and try to understand that when he's teasing you he just wants to be a part of it. So by accepting it with a smile, small banter back at him and overexaggerating what he says followed by a highfive will make him a bro.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 10:51 AM
1

Ok then option two should do the trick.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:47 PM
8

Imagine that with a body like hercules.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 05:33 PM
1

So, why do you have a girl friend if you want to act this way? Its not fair to her. Atleast establish with her that shes free to sleep around aswell...
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:57 PM
2

Dont tell her you have a girl friend. Tell her youre dating. That could mean anything. Its common to date more than 1 at a time.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:53 PM
3

Nothing to do on the spot. She should want to...
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:51 PM
1

Overanalysing. Be comfortable talking about sex and masturbation. And youre clearly not.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 01:35 PM
2

Did you fuck any of them? If no, you dont attract as well as you think. If yes, treat singel girls as you treat occupied ones.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 01:10 PM
2

Im 6.7 and i have to work hard for women and alot of then flake. Maby its the swedish climate and my young age.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:08 AM
1

Could be true. Thank you!
/r/askTRP27/03/16 08:14 PM
1

In theory yes. But ive found myself thinking about one girl while im fucking another. Dating 5 girls at the same time, the occational ONS and still walking around with one girl on my mind is my way of getting in touch with my instincts. Ofc everything is relevant.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 08:08 PM
1

I get where you are coming from but the main reason for being emotionally uninvested in women is to defend yourself from being hurt. Same thing goes for marrige, to defend yourself and your assets. But this and understanding that biologically you can have feelings for a girl and embracing that dont have to exclude eachother. As long as you are aware of rp principles and can watch your own mind with critisism youll be fine.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 07:36 PM
1

No nothing wrong. Women believe in love. We dont. But biological factors should be respected.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 07:06 PM
5

Dont tell her over text. But tell her in person. The main reason to LMR from a biological sense is in short that she needs to know that your "protective" instincts have kicked in. Which they now have. So, telling her that you missed her in a "cool" way. "I dont know whats wrong with me, but you're taking over my brain sometimes, its so annyong. Im just thinking about you all the time." This will make her "sure" and "comfortable" with you. https://youtu.be/L-O7L2GaWqY?t=1478 I trust this guy. I k…
/r/askTRP27/03/16 05:54 PM
3

OK then you wont get any results. Its up to you if you want this or not. The surroudnings shouldnt phase you. Be unapologetically yourself, and if they dont like it they can go fuck themselves. Be the wolf, not the sheep!
/r/askTRP27/03/16 01:27 PM
1

Goes deep in to AMOG theory that if you AMOG a guy the girls interest in you will spike DRAMATICLY. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qmfkIY86Sro But, coming from a frame where I know what I am capable of and being extreamly confident I rarely go out of my way to amog. I just assume. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=deN-kebtpV0 And, creating friends is more important to me. Which could also work in your favor to gain spotlight and enter the zone where the girls eyes are on you. https://www.youtube.…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:23 PM
0

Good looking Swedish man like myself. You're going to slay. But as the others said Id ditch the photo in the bathroom. Maby include some photos of your friends or when you're doing some kind of activity aswell. To show them that you're outgoing. Have any photos from traveling add that too!
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:18 PM
3

Get some wine or beer, liqour or what ever. Meet her outside, at a local "landmark" or w/e. I allways meet up with my girls outside the local artmuseum. Its close both to the bars, and my place. Take a walk, maby a slice of pizza. It will be on the go, if you sit down dont sit opposite of her. Sit next to her for kino. This will reduce the formal "date" feeling you're talkin about. Then you could just go back to your place, drink the alcohol to some good music and talk. If you're in to that kind…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:07 PM
2

Where is that even coming from. The issue here is that you come from a mindset that everyone on the otherside of this screene is a newly babtised bp beta lad who weighs 66lbs on his 5.4ft body. "Sound creepy" might be the stupidist shit i've read today. This works. I can stand for it. Everything I share on here is fieldtested and approved by multiple refferences. Id never make up bullshit through theory reading only. Thank god for the internet so you dont have to go through the old archives. But…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 09:55 PM
1

Thanks brother.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 06:15 PM
1

Yea, ok thanks! Next time she should come prepared if anything. (Hopefully)
/r/askTRP25/03/16 06:12 PM
1

This girl just got off work and had 30 minutes to get home, get ready, and on the buss to see me. And I just took her out for coffee in the middle of the day so I assume she just thought we were having a chat. IDK though.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 06:08 PM
2

Dont be shy about it. Im not braging, but I get kino going so fast these days its insane. Start by grabbing her thigh and squeezing as she says something "stupid" or "offending". Even after you do it. "hahaha Im so mean, sorry!" While grabbing and squeezing her thigh. You can release and after a while just place it there. If sitting next to a girl just put your arm around her and stroak her shoulder. It can feel wierd for both of you at the start and especially if your both sober. But after abou…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 06:06 PM
1

Sorry. I had been working for 15 hours with little to no sleep at all. I was typing this in a deep haze of stress. Thank you for your input though! Another thought, could radiosilence have any effect on a chick like this? Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:09 AM
1

Thank you man. Means Im on a good path then. Im pretty new to dating girls this good looking. All girls I've ever met before have been showing texts down my throat daily with "How are you?" "What are you doing?" "Im thinking about you." Etc. This girl is completely silent untill I hit her up, then she gives me brief responses. Do I just keep hitting her up with time and place then?
/r/askTRP24/03/16 08:25 PM
1

Brands, no. The most expensive brands rarely show a logo anyways. But fashionsense and something that looks good can be found at h&m. Fitting is the most important thing. Just dress the way you want to be adressed.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:27 AM
0

Friend zone yourself. No sexual vibes what so ever.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:04 PM
-4

Holding eyecontact with a man untill he looks away is a Very good display of both confidense and superiority. I allways do it. Only works with "Alphas" though. A rarely look a "beta" in the face when he tries to talk to me. Just scanning the room. Mostly becaus "beta" energy makes me uncomfortablr as Fuck.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 01:07 PM
1

Get drinks at a bar. Go with the flow the first 5 minutes...
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:32 PM
1

Thats a tough one. Allways mention drinks so she has something to eat before. Or you could grab something casual like a pizza slice on the go.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 12:47 PM
3

Keep calling her curry. But make sure its flirty and teasing. Preferably not infront of other people.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 08:50 AM
0

Ive started reading alot about EQ. Check it out!
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:06 PM
1

Was a mod posted thread couple of days ago telling people to leave politics outside of trp.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 02:15 PM
1

Design your life to meet your needs. IF you want her today try to get her today.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 02:13 PM
2

Money wont compete with tingles. But if you go out and buy vip areas and champange bottles youll not have to approach.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:33 AM
0

Yea im not saying he should. Simply her thoughts
/r/askTRP20/03/16 08:34 PM
-5

Maby she wants to breakup but do it in a good way. Not just throw 6 months away with a "fuck you"! Maby she wants to explain herself.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 08:14 PM
1

Dance classes are scheduled far ahead, so she already knew she'd be having this class by the time she agreed to see you that one time she said the class she already knew about is the reason she's cancelling. I knew about it, I asked her if it would be too stressy to come see me after. Becaus I didint mind it being late. She said, No I dont mind it being stressy, I want to see you! And then her danceclasses got extended and she was tired. Thats the story I got. But yea. If she gets catty / offend…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 06:58 PM
1

I get where you're coming from. You dont know who's on the other side of this screene. "Beta orbiters" I can get in to details of how we spent our time together if you want. If I were to judge her actions Id think of the second time she saw me a saturdaynight when she had a crazy party planned with 10 of her friends at some guy's house in another city. And she dropped on all of them to be with me. Yea she cancled on our date this friday. She had dance classes late in to the evning and she has 40…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 06:42 PM
1

Make it clear when you take her number that it is so you can see eachother again. Set the right frame from the start so there is no doubt what your purpose is. Then its up to her, if she wantd to see you or not.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 02:36 PM
2

You dont need texgame. And bad texgame usualy comes with scarcity. The thought of what shell think of you and over analysing everything. Stick to location and time untill you have abundence, and then texting isnt even game anymore, its just a constant stream of value.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 02:01 PM
1

What you need to do is approach more women, NOW! To get out of that scarcity. Keep your gf for a while. Cheat on her.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:56 AM
1

Ugh... Love is not real. Keep her while approaching new women. Then you can have a natural transition in to a new relationship. But sounds like you have more to work on before you can make that happen. Read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:53 AM
1

Never ask. Just keep pushing and escelating carefully. If she stops you you know youve gone to far. So pull back abit, make her comfortable and push again...
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:49 AM
2

I had my "anger phase" in highschool. It was 3 years of making every woman in my class my sworn enemies. I didint know about TRP back then. I just thought for myself. And I acctualy think that helped. Everything I went through I did alone. I didint talk to any of my buddies about it becaus they were not on the same wavelegnth as me. But instead I channeled all my anger towards the women in my life. By creating arguments and making them hate me to the point that they acctualy went out of their wa…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 08:24 PM
4

deal with opposing alphas Dude, there's no such thing as "opposing". Everyone is your friend man. Stop walking around in a frame that you're threatend all the time. If you feel threatend that means you're not even close to being alpha. You're a weak pussy who thinks he's alpha like: "Yeaaa, Im alpha get out of my way arrrg!!!" WTF dude. The key is to be so fucking comfortable in situations, and with yourself that you just assume that everyone loves you. Everyone thinks youre the boss. And how do…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 08:12 PM
1

Im kind of the same as this girl. I know EXACTLY what she mean when she says she push people away when she's close to them. I do this with my own family for fucks sake. I do it even more so with girls. But, even when I feel putoff by the whole thing with a girl, if she asks me to do something on a specific time I usualy say yes. So just try it. Give her time and place, set up a date. And make her elaborate on it face to face, which would make her feel alot better. Or, you could just tell her to …
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:42 PM
3

Yea, what the fuck. You have to want it to succeed.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 06:58 AM
3

Do as you wish. Discussing this, or pressenting this as a valid tactic probably comes from a guy who have tested alot of options, and found that this works from time to time. This is no fucking religion. You should try your thing, and see how it works. And then compare, and try more things.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:30 PM
0

I delete numbers all the time. For the smallest thing aswell. Say its a guy who doesnt fit in to my life anymore, I delete his nubmer within a week, or a day even. When it comes to girls I delete the number if she's not avilable or flakes. The best thing to do as soon as you get a number is to tell her that you'll text your name to her. Do it infront of her, so she can save the number as your name and there wont be any confusion at all! Becaus that is honestly the lamest thing when it comes to t…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:28 PM
2

I dont have either. Cold approach and numbers do the trick. And when they try to search you up and dont find anything it will take alot of currage from her to mention it to you. Becaus, hey, she wants to act cool enough not to search you up. And finaly, when she does ask about it you know she's invested enough. And your confidence and game will cause alot of intrigue and mystery. I've only found upsides with not having facebook. She has no idea what Im up to, what I have been up to or who my fri…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:14 PM
1

I told the last girl i met the real truth. No one has made it passed the second date. Ive never been in a relationship. But my confidens, and the way i cold approached her has certainly put that hamster in motion. Ive told her how often i do it and just give her all the info she wants. She can take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 10:59 AM
1

I used to be like this. But the more i started to have higher standards and see myself as above the general masses i chose those i open up to extreamly carefully.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 06:55 AM
2

My first boss. He had a specific energy field around him that made men nervous and women giggily. I wish i woulve absorbed some of it while working under him.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 08:55 PM
2

If you were to leave her better than you found her you should have insulted her more about her weight untill she got so uncomfortable with it so she started workout out. Better is not nessecerely done through nice words.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:53 PM
3

What I've found with cooking is that its a fucking art dude. There's no recepies or bullshit learning to be done. Just get a basic knowledge on how to match ingredients and how to treat them on youtube. I recommend foodtube by Jamie Oliver. And then just get at it in the kitchen, pour your fucking soul in to the food. Honestly its all about love to the ingredients and the art of cooking that makes it good. Thats why programmers and IT people usualy are REALLY bad at cooking, but they make awesom…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:22 PM
2

I dont want society to be RP. It gives me way too much of an advantage.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:18 PM
4

You live in scarcity. You havnt forgot her IOI's for 8 months? That must mean you dont get that many IOI's on a daily basis. But, dont try to get her this night. If you're hitting it off with conversation, touching etc. Get her NUMBER. Set a date. And get to know her that way. Dont be honest with sexual interest right of the bat though. She'll get spooked since she's in a relationship. Say you'll meet her as a friend. And then continue to do "friendly" things with her. Kiss on the cheek etc.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:15 PM
1

What do bring you to tinder? (I've found that being serious with questions like theese make her more comfortable with me. I say it as it is, maby I undertone sexual passed to make me seem more attainable and keep certain parts out of the answear. But I mostly set a honest and clear tone so she feels she can trust me. Women are affraid of getting played. Sure there are exeptions where you can just be blunt as fuck and order her to send nudes. But you have to get a feel for that.)
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:10 PM
1

Dont worry about anyones feelings. You're being a nice guy. The world should be your oyster and you shape it as you wish. "Sorry chubby, I dont want to see you anymore." Followed with radio silence.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:07 PM
3

Wow you approached 3 girls? Thats crazy!!! Look here man. Its good that you've become more serious. When you were the loud guy no one took you seriously, so the girls flirted with you as a game, yes for her own validation, becaus, hey, it wasnt serious! Now after TRP you can finaly breathe and you've woken up from that haze of flowers and rainbows. You see it as it is. When girls TRULY are interested in a guy they're often too shy to even catch his eye most of the time. So its up to you to take …
/r/askTRP15/03/16 11:59 AM
1

This has happend for me too. Or I get it up for 5 minutes and then it dies again. Usualy if I dont have great chemestry with the girl. Or if she's not submissive enough. Alot of parts play in to why this happens. Alcohol can be one major concern aswell. I usualy try to blame it on her in a really subtle way. I dont want to offend her, I just want her to feel abit self conscious about not being good enough. This can spark even more desire to please me later on.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:21 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:20 PM
10

Sorry, not everyone has english as first language. How many languages can you type in without hesitation? I shouldnt even have to explain this to someone so low vibration as you but I was on my phone aswell, and it tries to auto correct to Swedish all the time!
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:15 PM
4

Work on your game and smv. I just had a girl cancle on 10 of her friends and 1 date to be with me after i just said: "i want to see you this weekend." And she used seing me as braging to her friends. Smv!!!
/r/askTRP14/03/16 03:30 PM
2

Ive tried to talk about rp. Or atleast help other guys out with tp truths. But they get mad. Really mad! Try it yourself and see what happens. Its the best way to learn. Or you could trust the guys on here telling you how it is through their own experiences.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:57 AM
3

Its cool to be acuainted with everyone. Friends, like going out for frozen yoghurt with a girl who you cant see yourself having sex with? Id NEVER do that.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:27 AM
1

If youre not getting laid, either its becaus youre too aggressive, too much push. Compliments and showing her that you want her. Or its too much friend. Being nice, not talking to her sexually or not showing her from the start that youre sexually interested in her. Try to pull more, make her doubt how much you want her and be outcome independent. As if she could walk away any second and you wouldnt care. It sound like youre mediocre. I allways have a mindset that no matter how it goes ill make s…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:13 AM
1

Yes. Thank you for your reply.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:11 AM
14

She needs a man who isnt you. A real man who can satisfy her.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 08:28 PM
2

When i feel girls kissing my neck during sex i tell her: "no hickeys." id have to hide it Very good. Otherwise this would cause alot of questions from other girls...
/r/askTRP13/03/16 08:20 PM
5

Reddit, when bored. Facebook - deleted 4 years ago. Video Games - No time for it anymore. TV - Dont own one. Netflix - naa Porn - 1 time a week, maby less. I wake up at 05 in the morning, eat high calorie breakfast. Go to work, hit the gym, go home, eat, read and then its time to go to sleep again. Thats my cyckle right now. Ill keep at this job for 2 more years becaus I cant leave now as I just got promoted. But after that Ill try something new or climb another ladder. All I do is working on my…
/r/askTRP13/03/16 02:23 PM
3

Ok, if she wants to change place you've been sitting there for faaar too long. When I take girls out we usualy just have 1 drink at each place untill I move her. "Finnish your drink, lets go! (grab her hand or arm)" People talk about leading, but it is THAT simple. You just have to get her to follow you to another location. It could honestly be 10 meters away. "Come with me outside to get some fresh air." "Lets go to the bar." "Follow me!" And then continue the conversation at the next place. Yo…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:07 PM
2

You didnt set the right tone from the start. Lead when you fist meet. Make her doubt that you're in to her after she got mad tingles, then ask for her number. And when it comes to texting a simple: "Hey what are you doing this weekend?" "Ok cool, meet me at x at x." I have girls who constantly type me aswell. I usualy reply with smileys or simple "heh ok". Nothing more than this. I give her NOTHING to work with when it comes to texts, untill I ask her to meet up! Some girls, who are abit more fr…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:06 PM
1

Meh, night game is better if you do it with a guy who have a simmilar goal as you.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:11 AM
1

What do you have to loose?
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:53 PM
1

Eye contact and a sincere and wild "Ooooohohohoh, (laugh) what are you doing? "
/r/askTRP09/03/16 10:50 AM
7

Same girl same night. Rejected first kiss. Told me to gtfo, and when i did, cried to bring me back. Kiss other men on the neck infront of me, when i found other girls infront of her she came back again. Brought me up to her apparment just to stare at her phone, pushed me away when escelating. The most confusing date ever. She called the next day, i didnt answear. Approached this girl at the gym btw. I even changed gym to get away from her. Another time: Approached 2 girls at a bar. They were tou…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:27 AM
2

Hot blond swedish girls with work out as main priority. Who wont put out untill you move in together and get a dog. Girls here are comitment horny......
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:05 PM
2

Carry this mindset if you're doubting your smv. I never had to. The number 1 problem I EVER have with women is comfort. Im an intimidating guy so if I just turn abit blue girls around me try to get me in to LTR's. Im giving advice out of my standpoint in life and never thought about the fact that the guy could be on his path to becoming high value. If just swallowed the pill your thoughts are spot on and this mindset should be carried by everyone who haves doubs. But man, I dont even care. I do …
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:52 PM
3

She doesnt deem him high enough SMV. If she did, she would not have cockblocked herself! Very good. But as that dynamic is established there's nothing wrong in listening to her and treating her as a female friend. My starting point was that there was no sexual intentions between them what so ever. "being blue" is only effective IF SHE ALREADY DEEMS YOU HIGH ENOUGH SMV. True!
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:29 PM
10

No what you lack is social calibration and emotional intelligence (which can be one of the most attractive traits in a man) Women want to connect on a "deeper level". You have to show her that you're socially aware and can be humble and sensetive too. Walking around with a blindfold and treating everything with a caveman attitude will get you nowhere. And I think redpill should emphesise this more.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:09 PM
9

Yea she did. Nurture it by taking care of your flatmate. Take care of her as a friend, make sure she's comfortable around you. Turn alittle blue around her. BUT remain on your path and display to her that you're growing and working hard on yourself everyday. You want to be 60% blue and 40% red around her and listen to her problems and shit. Then she will trust you alot and give you warm intruductions and warm arpproaches to her female friends. Unless she falls in love with you...
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:38 AM
7

Watching a movie with a girl should be about KINO, and kino only! Sit next to her, put her legs on your lap and stroke her on her inner thigh while massaging her ear etc...
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:59 PM
7

If you had enough game she wouldnt care. Create tingles and fuck what she thinks about your height.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:51 PM
1

The next day after that, she finally texts me back saying, "Oh gosh, I'm so sorry that I never got back to you". You should have replied here. You're loosing on not doing so. Sounds like she doesnt care enough about you to feel bad over you not replying. So you're just being childish imo. I should have replied something like "Its fine." and suggest the date again. She should have the answear there. If its a No you can move on. If its a yes its all good. So I dont understand why you're playing so…
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:18 PM
3

Yes, read the power of now. And approach girls on daytime. You only brought exuses that your mind creates. Its fine if you black out out of adrinaline and stutter when you approach her, everyone goes through that in the begining, it will get easier. Once youve done it enough you start doing it without thinking, its just your normal response to seing a hot girl. The only way to get there is to grind.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:50 PM
-2

Female friends is the best thing ever!! Your friend will have more female friends and if youre a cool guy theyll give you a warm introduction. Check out Richard de la ruina on YouTube. He helped me ALOT! Also he speaks alot about this topic and how effective it is. And you should listen to their problems, make her comfortable and make her trust you. Take care of her as you would a friend. You dont get put in the friendzone, she is!
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:45 PM
2

Meditate. Just get a clear mind and let your desire evercome your mental blocks. If your mental blocks are impenetreble that must mean that you lack desire. Also push through it. Just PUSH out of your comfortzone DAILY!! By doing this your comfortzone will expand and youll be laughing at your current self. How many women have you ever cold approached at daytime?
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:40 PM
2

Dont be a pussy and look her directly in the eyes.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 09:03 AM
5

Girls talking about you being with girls is allways good.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:09 PM
1

Im torn between this and just fucking her becaus Ill never see her again. She lives in another country that Im just visiting. She doesnt even know my name. I dont even know hers. We'll just run in to eachother tomorrow on the same train and she wants to fuck me in the bathroom. So, either I have standards or Ill let this random fatty blow me at 6am on my train home.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 08:02 PM
1

Rly? Well, Ill never see this chick again in my entire life.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:23 PM
2

No, becaus i dont enjoy it. I have bigger pleassures and hobbies that id rather work on than porn. Its all mindset and you lack determenation. Nobody can help you with this except yourself. So just find something youd like to learn or read about. My personal favorite is sketching and painting. I work on my art in silence, rarely talk about it with anyone except my art friends. And i recomend you read The Way Of The Superior man by David Deida. It will tell you how to push out of that comfortable…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 02:38 PM
6

Dont take it so seriously. Sounds like a cool dude! If someone said that to me Id just laugh and keep walking. He wasnt making fun of your family. He was just being extroverted and taking part of his surroundings. You should do the same more often. Unless you run in to some nervous fucker like yourself.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:10 PM
0

Most of the theory has already been covered in there. Just look at highest upvote and you have years of gatherd knowledge in theory crafting. Once I experience something that hasnt been covered yet Ill let redpill know.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:24 PM
0

There is no question, I just didint want to post in in the main sub becaus this exact thing has been described so many times allready.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 08:40 PM
1

I went out alone ALOT a year ago. It was really fun and awesome in everyway! The more I did it the more fun I had. The thing is, what my "friends" ever added to going out was a pillar of comfort to lean on once you get a dull in conversation, or between sets. It is comfortable to keep the flow going through your friends. But with enough practise you dont need it. And another thing, go to places early, people might just sit around the bar and have some drinks, is a more chill atmosphere and you'l…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:03 AM
1

Overthinking.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:39 PM
-1

I like to stay humble here. Id like to provoke her in to continuing to validate me becaus it feels good. So i reward her. Maby by throwing one back at her. "Thanks baby" and slapping her as. Or grabbing her hand and putting it around me.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 07:15 PM
4

This defeats all purpose imo. Using escorts is a lazy way of not improoving in this area. The point is to have an abundence of women CRAVING to fuck you. If the girl bores you, work on self amusment and just enjoy the moment. Shell sense that too and its a Very attractive state.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 12:08 PM
6

You really want dicipline you need someone to stomp on your petty self for you to rise in to a man. Do you really think id say something like that out of spite to someone i dont even know? For fucks sake. Dicipline only grows out of your decire to achive. And that insult makes you look weak. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 11:28 PM
8

You dont deserve it. Some are weaker than others. Have a comfortable life coward.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:59 PM
0

Ive never tried texting with girls so I dont know how it would play out. Sure, Ive had girls who just has to talk about her day with me over text and ask me what Im doing all the time but I usualy dont reply since redpill told me not to. I trust the guys on here with more experience to know what tha fuck they're talking about. So I just keep it at: "Hey what are your plans for this weekend?" "OK great, drinks friday at 7 or 8?" "See you then!" And once you're with her thats all that matters.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:54 PM
2

POV vid of a guy who looses his job and his girlfriend. He starts to lift and travel, approaching woman and livingin a boss life.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 03:40 PM
2

I smoked on and off for 6 years. When i wanted to pick up running with a friend of mine i stoped. Now cigarettes disgust me to no end. What that fuck are you acctualy doing? Smells like shit too. I was a smoker but now i look down on them. Its all mindset.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 10:50 PM
1

You can have facebook without any pictures
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:47 PM
2

Just enjoy it man. Just stay sharp and have a clear mind. You know what you can get dragged in to so dont worry about it.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 10:59 AM
8

This is why trps main focus isnt game or how to get women. But how to improove yourself to be the highest valuble man. And in that order women will follow.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:43 AM
1

Good luck man. Im the same, there hasnt been a single date where i didnt get "God i just cant figure you out" "Who are you truly mr frerri?" etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 10:39 PM
1

Yea or try something different faster. It doesnt matter just show her youre socially aware.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 10:38 PM
5

Speak through playfull and flirting eyecontact instead of words. Its soooo subtle. Its fucking insane. But once you feel it you'll know. I can look in to a girls eyes while she's talking, Im 100% pressent in the moment. I have all my senses on hyper mode. I can smell her so clearly, feel her. While holding eyecontact and I can see her pupils dialate. I smile, she feels the tention and breaks eyecontact with a small giggle while hiding her face blushing. I dont have to say a single fucking word. …
/r/askTRP20/02/16 10:18 PM
1

Be patient with girls. Sense her off. Push in alittle, if she's recipient keep pushing. But if she closes of, just pull back and act as if nothing happend. Then continue this cycle untill your dick is entering her vagina. Dont be a "confident" male without social knowledge.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 10:11 PM
3

Then dont man. ABUNDENCE!
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:48 PM
15

Ok. The only reason why a girl would deny me a kiss is out of comfort. She's not comfortable, so I pull back. Touch her, keep the tention going. And try again. But, if she denies me a kiss on the first date either I didint be sexual enough with her. Or, I didint comfort her enough. In your situation it sounds like you're just pushing too hard! You're just PUSHING. Its like you're so desperate for that kiss, or that pussy that she can sense that you have absolutely NO abundence. RSDtyler talkes a…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:46 PM
3

Problem with my little sister was that she acctualy just instantly dropped everything and walked out on me. She didint find my teasing funny, ever! She just stared at me "You're such a dick" and walked out. Sometimes she just acted as if I didint exist when I teased her. And it was simple stuff! Nothing out of the ordinary. And now she's a party slut planning to travel the world alone. I just gave up on her. So I never really learned to do this the right way. But Agree and Amplify as I see it is…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 07:12 PM
2

Perfect example is my date yesterday. I just sat opposit of her on bar chairs. Her thighs inside mine. I just felt her legs, touched her everywhere while holding eye contact and smiling. I barely said a word. She kept talking and i just answered questions. Great tention and attraction. While remaining mysterious.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 10:57 AM
-2

Never break eye contact first. I stare women down daily. Im 6.7 so i get ALOT of eyes on me when walking down the street or what ever. Allways search up and remain eye contact. Theres a subtle comunication going on there.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:53 AM
5

You should try
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:05 AM
2

Group dynamic is wierd. Ive been a part of several groups through out my teens. They've split and I got stuck with my closest mate from that group, he'll then find another one and Ill be alone in the middle of several groups. Just recently I got a bunch of guys who I've allways kept in touch with together. Its awesome, Im the center of all the comunication but they hit eachother up too! Just make sure everyone is of value. If you bring in a "geek" or some fucking wierdo they might remove you fro…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:24 PM
1

This is something that bothers me. Been there multiple times. I force interaction HARD! Call her name out when shes walking passed so she cant ignore me. And then show her what a cool guy i am and diss her and continue with work or w/e. But when shes pushing interactions i ignore her. I decide when to talk!
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:09 PM
1

Get used to the situations that make you blush. I blush sometimes when speaking infront of a crowd i dont know becaus i do it so rarely. But i interact with people everyday, i work in sales and i push interractions all the time. Go do cold approaches untill your mind is numb.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:58 PM
6

Follow your dick mate
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:48 PM
1

The advice as I saw it is reading the book. But Eckhart Tolle writes about something called "No mind". Which is to keep your mind COMPLETELY blank. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KNefVPDbsQ I recomend you watch this strongly!
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 06:35 PM
3

Remembering names is a HUGHE hack right here.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:29 PM
2

I got the exact same realisation after the book. I had mental movies aswell. I still do, but only about events that will happen or dates that i have planned. Its not as bad. When walking in my currently mediocre life im happy and walking around in constant pressence is too fun when people around you get mad over nothing.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 10:51 AM
1

As the girls get older and more interedted in stability and family. And a breakup isnt just a breakup but move out of house, split possesions as car everything becomes a big comitment. Ofc everything is possible, but youll still have to be around collage age girls becaus the hot ones your age are probably taken.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 07:03 AM
1

Havnt even tried anything yet? Why next without even asking her out?
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:52 PM
1

Yes but as long as he doesnt find it awkward i suppose. I was mostly worried about how awkward id find it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:32 PM
1

I guess youre right.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:31 PM
-1

My father employed my sisters boyfriend. He dumped her 2 years later. She was devestated. My father is the typical nice guy and so he let hem stay at the job and acted as if nothing happend. I've tried to talk sense in to him. But to tie this in to the topic there are exceptions.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:41 PM
2

Ive had this happen alot. The latest one was a "friend" telling the girl i was talking to i had an extream foot fetish out of nowhere. (Which i dont) Just a&a'd. She laughed and used it as an inside joke with me for the rest of the night.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:52 AM
2

Ive done this alot. And when i finaly tell them my real age they wont believe me.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 11:18 AM
2

Lol thats good. I live in a small city and the girls here are generally looking for someone to move in together with and get a dog.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:21 AM
3

Haha i have the reverse problem. The interaction is awesome alot of flirting etc. She asks for my age, Im 20. She looses interest instantly. Starts looking on her phone, Very defensiven body language. Girls 2 years younger than me are so easy though.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:14 AM
1

yea you should have asked her out the last time you met. Just wait for the next time. Better go all in and have a clear answear if she wants to go out.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 04:53 PM
1

why does it even matter? Nothing is official, theory crafting is theory crafting. TRP isngt allmighty you should view everything from a critic standpoint and develop your own set of ideas and values out of the scraps of information you are fed.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 07:08 PM
1

Have sex but if getting the sex takes so much time that you forget monkmoding (which you should at that age) its not worth it. You can gain hughe leaps ahead of other guys at that age selfimproovment wise.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 02:36 PM
3

Its not only about stds. Most rp mens concern is that they have so high smv that the woman wants to lock him in a relationship he cant refuse so she just decides to have his baby. Idk if this fits in on you but id advice you to keep wearing a condom.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 11:35 AM
1

Ive told oebiters to leave 1 on 1 without her knowing. Theyre usualy understanding: "oooh gottcha man (wink)" But she can loose alot of interest if she finds out. One girl comes to mind who went cold as fuck becaus of it. So, be careful.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:23 AM
2

My father giving up 2 children and a house, car and all his stuff. EVERYTHING! To my mother, the woman who cheated on him.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:18 AM
1

Im going to write a post about this is the future but basically you want to enter through the back door. Dont be the center of attention prior to the event where everyone hits you up for details, youre being used as a rally point. But, find this guy and be cool towards him, highfive him when ever you see him, shout his name though the corridore for a "yoo!". Youre offering him value through this and he's More likely to invite you. Then you can enter the party or the gathering without anyone know…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 09:33 AM
3

Why is this in asktrp?
/r/askTRP05/02/16 04:34 PM
1

Men meet men through working towards a common goal. Examples: buisness partners, soldiers, team mates (in any sport, esport aswell.), junkies (fighting for the next fix.), wingmen etc...
/r/askTRP05/02/16 01:54 PM
-1

"Hey (reach out your hand) whats your name?"
/r/askTRP05/02/16 01:40 PM
6

Yes and sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:40 PM
1

You have to get more important shit in to your life. My space, my peace of mind and what Im doing right now. Even my breathing is more important than answearing to a text right now. Put the phone on silent on the other side of the room and focus on your shit! Just check it later.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:52 PM
1

It is stupid, believe me!
/r/askTRP01/02/16 03:10 PM
-2

Hahaha it was kind of funny acctualy. Mean but funny.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:58 AM
0

What i like to do is ad rediculess details to the amlpifixation aswell.. "Yea i have like 4 Justin bieber posters at home. Only one of them is framed though. Im thinking of framing the other 3 too but i dont know."
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:31 AM
3

Yes. I dont go out. Havnt been out since december 5th.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:22 AM
5

Wake up before 5 in the morning has changed my entire self. Im happier and more driven through out any day. Removed my depressed friend from my life 2 years ago and it felt as though i finaly could breathe when i removed him.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:03 AM
1

You are if your dick didnt enter any holes. You fix it by putting it in a hole. Escalate, kiss, touch...
/r/askTRP31/01/16 07:21 PM
8

The wolf does not care for the oppionion of the sheep. You did good. Just smile at this small dog trying to show of his masculinity and continue what you where doing calm and steady.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:25 AM
1

I only think of it as holding eye contact until he/she looks away, then Im free to look away too. And repeat.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 02:38 PM
1

No, they're just sweet. Its cute. Its romatic. What its not: Sexual, hot, rude, what she fantasies about. You could call her sweet when she's fighting for your attention while you're busy in your phone. Push her away lightly. Then on another random occation just throw her against the wall and drag your hand along her thigh.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 08:23 PM
1

No you dont. Bring her in to your frame. Be you and dont force yourself to anything. If that basic talk bores you just tell her or change the topic. And, are you attracted to her? Show her, show your sexual interest and shell be draged in to that frame too. Dont loose eye contact!
/r/askTRP29/01/16 07:22 AM
1

I did the same. Its all fine unless you tell them your age. Girls in that age are generally attracted to men 2-3 years older than them selves. But, never lie. Have a friend tell her "He said he was 18? Wtf, youre 23 bro!" And youll be like "No honestly i am 18" Her: "why are you lying about your age? And younger? Haha hehe"
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:22 AM
1

Im doing art. Drawing, painting.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:33 AM
1

wat?
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:03 PM
4

Id act as if she never said that. Unless it was a stupid hint from her that she really doesnt want you talking to her. Or its her being over validated and knows you show way to much interest. Then she might drop something like that. "Oh gosh, cant you go 1 minute without talking to me all the time?" Its hard to read. You should know.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 05:52 PM
0

Thats the trend for me too.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:05 PM
0

OK sorry but I have to be blunt with you. How sexually attracted are you to your wife? Does she meet all your sexual needs and your desires? Do you feel as the king of your life and as if her only desire is to serve you? If no you could've done better. Honestly. This is not about women in the sense that it is ABOUT women. It is about creating a world that completely satisfies you. And for alot of men, including me that is having a truly good woman. Then again, the theories about women and what y…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:55 PM
3

Allways be ready to leave her. Be more comfortable leaving her than she is leaving you. Keep working on yourself and display yourself as a worthy catch and she'll never get enough of you. An example: I have this friend, he landed the most beautiful girl in his neighburhood. They were together for a loooong time. All the other guys in his erea were jealous as fuck! He didnt care. One day he decided to get his life together for real. She was giving him some light shit and so on. So he moved to ano…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:17 PM
2

Its not a shit-test. She's teasing with you. Probably to try to get you to lighten up and have a good time. Sounds to me that you're being pretty stiff and goes out of your way to act "cool". Lighten up, smile. Tease her back. Poke her in the stomach when talking to her as flirting and teasing while touching her. Maby she'll push you. Push her back. Have this lightly flirty teasing dynamic with her instead of acting as if you're better than her.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:02 PM
5

What RSDtyler says about alcohol is absolutely phenomenal! His point is that the best way to learn game is while sober. Becaus it develops that personality in all aspects. While drunk you adapt another persona and what you do outside of your comfortzone while dunk is forgotten and never to be used again while sober. He then reffers to a stripper he dated who allways drank. She was dirnking out with her girlfriends, she was drinking right after work so her ENTIRE personality was developed around …
/r/askTRP25/01/16 05:41 PM
1

Its funny. I get that "what" with a smug smile and heavy eyecontact on most random occasions. At work, at the gym, when eating lunch. I allways shrug it off. Never knew what was going on when girls said that. I did shake my head in disgust once when a girl said it and she didnt speak to me for weeks. Fail.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 05:17 PM
2

Suply and demand. If your smv is lower then the guys she already fucks its impossible.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:57 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP24/01/16 09:42 AM
1

Its about preference. But it seems to me that youre using this as a cruch not to ask her out. Just do it.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 08:39 AM
9

High value girls only branch swing. They cant stand the thought of being single. So dont worry about that. And this is how a relationship naturally should occour for you. You start thinking about one plate while fucking another. You should be glad. Unless you acctualy dont want a relationship with her and keep spinning plates. Its up to you. But relationship are healthy and you should embrace them with the right woman.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:38 AM
2

I dont drink either. The only problem is girls dont trust you as much when you dont drink. Girls have been trying to force down shots and beers in me. Sometimes theres litterally no way of sleeping with her if she knows you didnt have anything to drink. So sometimes i have to. But spilling beer on the floor works unless youre buying alcohol free drinks.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:57 AM
1

I dont like to think in these terms. I try to improove my self daily in all of the aspects Im involved with. And this is a mindset that I never really figured out! Why guys need to put them selves in specific folders of "Im this and that." There's no such thing! You are you, nothing less nothing more. This is the same mindset that created Goth kids and Punkers. They have to "be" something. Just aim for the closest target and thrive in it! Beat all competition and dedicate yourself to win! And on…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:35 PM
-1

I allways do this. I throw insulst and banter right at other potential "alpha" guys. Why? Becaus I want to know how alpha they are. If my words move him, or if he gets the slightest upset, he's not an alpha and certainly not more alpha than me. So then I know and I can tone it down to a level where we can be friends! If he throws something back with a sincere smile we just became even better friends. What happend in the situation you described was that Pete got nervous of loosing his position in…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:27 PM
1

Isolate her after class, put her up against the wall. "What are you doing after school?" ... But show her you're not exclusive, talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:20 PM
0

Meditate.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:11 PM
2

Get out of your comfortzone! A man who wants to move forward in life should constantly be moving outside his comfortzone in EVERYTHING he does. The comfortzone constantly expands so you'll have to do more and more and more to keep expanding it. That could be good motivation if you dont feel motivated to approach. Feel motivated to expand your comfortzone instead!
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:01 PM
0

You're just neglecting one of the major aspects of abundence thinking. This is not about being passive. This is about not caring wether she goes out or not. Becaus why would you? Honestly. Letting her read through the lines is serious dread. The goal should be to have so much SMV that you have girls lined up just waiting for you to be single again.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:13 PM
0

Could you link it?
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:32 PM
0

Just asume value. As if she'd be stupid enough to do something with that poor fucker over you. "Sure, have fun!" Be comfortable enough in your ability to find new women so that jealousy wont phase you. And, after a reply like that she might hamster about if you even want her anymore. Which is a good dynamic since this often times lead to her investing more in you!
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:27 PM
0

You're creepy becaus you think you're creepy! Check this out! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZyYFpYdIxrw
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:32 PM
1

Not worth it.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:10 PM
0

Im not talking about dry humping her with your dick out seconds after seeing her. It shows in the way you look at her, how you touch her, how you push her up against the wall and kiss her.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:01 AM
-6

Show her how horny you are. She'll get turned on aswell. Dont hide your sexuality.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 05:35 PM
1

Sorry to hear this. But you should appologize for your outburst and wish them luck if they want to continue seeing eachother. Be a man. Why did you get angry though? She's a whore so you cant really be mad at her. And he's a looser who probably doesnt have other options.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:03 AM
3

It is a red flag in terms of LTR material. Sure, use her for sex but dont get emotionally invested in this chick becaus she might hurt you down the road. Nothing more, nothing less has ever been said on the topic.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 09:26 PM
0

I think so. She sounds great. As long as you get what you want its fine. But remain emotionally detatched from her becaus she will hurt you later.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 08:48 PM
1

I like to have alot of tention around the first kiss. I like to sit oposite to the girl with no way to reach her so I have to stand up and walk towards her while holding her gaze and slowly move in for the kiss. Making it a long process with ALOT of tention. She'll feel it, you'll feel it. The nervous energy is great. And when? When I want to kiss her. There can be a certain light that hits her lips, something she does with her hair. A small moment of beauty.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:35 PM
4

That feeling is scarcity my friend.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 07:56 PM
0

"Be tall" ok? Yea seriously dude. Theres so much stuff on the internet that can teach you. And you dont need a gym membership to increase in size. Pushups and alot of food goes a long way.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:02 PM
0

She could be too shy to be direct too. You shouldnt ask about a relationship. It should happen naturally after having a bunch of sex with her. Just be her "friend". ;)
/r/askTRP18/01/16 12:08 PM
4

Peer pressure can be devestating in a group of men like them if you dont have enough smv. But it can be good too. Becaus they force you to face your fears and step out of your comfort zone. Be smart when to follow through and not. If they force you to push through your excuses often you will learn and grow alot.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 12:05 PM
1

Wat.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:53 AM
1

Im not saying they shouldnt. Im simply stating that someone who dont have kids would be more loyal to his/her work.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 04:56 AM
0

Very good. Only downside would be that the mother would hold her children in higher esteem than the company. I believe the reason why only young, free men where allowed in to ancient greece voting chambers where becaus of this. They have nothing but the state (company) to care about, it is their most valuble asset and they would risk their life (all extra hours of the week) improoving it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 04:11 AM
-2

Thanks for the input man. But, you have no idea who I am. lol.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 07:55 PM
123

As well as the theory about hiering women is really good i think it will be a hen house. Ive seen female dominated work forces drag companies in to the ground. Without consant supervision they will run an anachistic society with out any heirarchy at all. They freeze out other women and create a ton of social issues in the office. Not to talk about loyalty. They're not loyal to the buisnes and they dont care. Find a young man without experience and mentor him and in 2-3 months he will be shining.…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 02:52 PM
0

Very good. Thank you
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:39 PM
0

To be blunt i do it becaus he doesnt have the character to target me and make fun. Its so transparent. Hes a beta targrting the alpha to gain approval of the Alphas friends. If this guy was high value id find his banter funny and hed be smart enough to know when to tone it down and show respect. This guy is so oblivious to social ques and settings and his approoval seeking behaviour towards the others make me disgusted. My character flaws stem from his unwillingness to smoothly interract with my…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 12:21 PM
8

I think a healthy relationship with a good woman who respects you, nutures you, takes care of her body and who you can spend alot of quality time with is one of the best things any man can experience. A woman who you can grow as a person with, someone you learn stuff from and makes you a better man. So when you walk out of the relationship youre better then you were before. But we dont say these things to blue guys becaus it takes alot to find such a girl. You need to platespin a while and plow …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:51 PM
0

Buy clothes that fit. Best shit ever. Rather too small than too big.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 04:56 PM
0

Is he unemployed? As u/thrcenterbullet said get him involved in labour. If he got a job at the docks or any physical and male dominated work he would change fast.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:28 AM
2

Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:32 AM
1

I am too. But i enjoy the validation alot! When shes there all touchy and i get to push her away or slap her hands i feel awesome. I love that!! But, shell tire of it and when shes gone the validation is too. Thats mostly when i start thinking about having sex with her. But in the moment i totaly feel you.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:30 AM
2

That is true
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:43 PM
5

I know, and so? I find it extreamly stimulating and I dont care what anyone thinks. Sure there might be some wierd people around but IDGAF about them honestly. Im there for my own enjoyment and not someone elses. I've never had ANYONE say that to my face. When ever I say that Im in to art or dota they try to find resemblence and search through their brain after a memory of when they did something in the same category. A well built man, 6.7ft tall with piercing eyecontact. I do quick pose sketchi…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:19 PM
-1

Im in to art so im going to quick pose sessions at the local art highschool once a week. Crossfit is awesome. Generally sharp people with good jobs. Very enthusiastic workout. Pushing eachother etc. And the internet. When i played dota i made friends for life. I had alot of options since i were pretty good. Im still in contact with 5 driven men and we travel together etc. This is the best place to meet good men imo. I dont play anymore though. Downvoted without explenation. Whats so wrong about …
/r/askTRP14/01/16 09:02 AM
3

Depending on how desperate the chick is. You can tell if she hasnt had sex for a while. Talking dirty and touching will turn her on massivly. But if she feels as though she has other options you should let her chase abit.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:56 AM
5

Any man should prefer to be a wolf for one day over being a sheep for an eternity.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:13 PM
5

The chameleon I am thinking of when typing this cured himself in one way. Not completely but he removed all of the friends who didint ad to his life and started to travel alone. While traveling though the cultures he comes across with are so compelling to him that he alternates his behaviour and lifestyle to suit the culture and the people who live there. It was pretty extream when he came back from Hawaii and he suddenly was a surferboy in the -20°C Sweden.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:06 PM
8

Yes, if the chameleon is smooth enough and able to keep you apart from his other friends then you'll never really see his personality disorder in action. You have to embark on him when he is with the other group.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 03:53 PM
2

Just be the kind of guy youd like to meet. Be awesome and fun. It is high value to have so much shit going on that you litterally forgot they rejected you.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:48 AM
4

Read the power of now and meditate.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 02:30 PM
1

Deffenetly. But alpha is the characteristic of a leader of the pack. If not for his medicin skills he'd be left alone to rot. Which he him self mentions several times through out the show. The alpha has social skills to such an extent that people are drawn to him. He is deffenetly a cool guy and quick witted with all the skills TRP try to teach blue pill guys. If you are new to being a stronger man using house as refference is perfect. But calling house alpha is extream. He is a man who does wha…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 07:09 PM
1

Hahaha corrected.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 11:21 AM
1

You fuck her and then you buy her a steak Voualla
/r/askTRP06/01/16 04:57 AM
1

He is no alpha. He lies through life and acts childish. He refuses to take any responsebility for his actions and he steps over line on a daily basis. He has so much selfpity that he forces his boss and coworkers to involve them selfs in his personal life only so he dont kill him self. He argues as soon as he can and thrives in enviroments where peolpe are suppressed ans nervous. He excells in medicin but he is no alpha.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:15 AM
1

20+
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:47 AM
1

Its a really interesting topic. Im disgustes by facebook generally and those i cant network with without it i dont find any need networking with. Thats my view and my life quality has increased 10 folds since i deactivated my account. Its about preference. I know some dudes who have crazy facebook game and get laid from it and thats nice for them.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:39 AM
1

I dont even have social media. And it takes about 1-2 months of knowing a girl before she even has the balls to bring it up.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:28 AM
1

Sports team is awesome. You're still young enough to start. It is an extremely good way to increase SMV.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 07:02 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:51 PM
1

You have to understand that she's a weak human being. What do you think drives her to act this way? It can be multiple reasons, but nothing has to do with YOU really. Its all about her, she's fucking weak bro. She has a weak mind. Why would you be in a disadvantage? You have to understand that some people just dont click. You will have tons of people who hate you. The more the better usualy, becaus it means you stand for something nuanced, that the general masses cant comperhend, so they have to…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 11:43 AM
1

Work on your inner game and confidence. This shouldnt phase you at all. Meditate. Its the hard truth, and the way to live a stronger and happier life. Let me clarify, you should have so much abundence in your life. So many girls spamming your inbox and wonderful sex with beautiful women outside of work that her powerplay wont even fucking register in your brain. You have so much shit going on that your brain dont even recognize it.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 11:28 AM
1

Meditate, stop thinking in terms of beta and alpha. Just be you with 100% confidence. Youre putting a lable on alpha, and placing it on everyone who does good.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:15 AM
2

Completely ignore her. Keep talking with all the others and make sure to be a cool guy. This can have two good outcomes. 1. They realise youre a cool dude and start to dislike this girl for talking shit about you. 2. The girl gets jealous when youre laughing with her friends so she steps over the line and says things that make everyone around her disgusted. Eitherway, as long as you dont directly act on this youll be the winner.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:12 AM
2

Google approach anxiety. Theres sooo much stuff about this. I know rsd provides some awesome stuff about it aswell...
/r/askTRP02/01/16 06:57 AM
2

Neither ?
/r/askTRP02/01/16 06:52 AM
1

Approach more
/r/askTRP30/12/15 11:24 AM
2

With the right mindset and enough mental strengh it is the best way to handle it. But yea, I get you.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:05 PM
2

Embrace your humor without thinking of what people will think of you. Seems to me that you're the guy who's making pleasing small talk and says the obvious in interactions instead of suprising the counterpart by displaying your own views and morals. Lets say Im discussing some bullshit with a coworker and he says something I disagree with, Ill tell him instantly! And from there create a very small argument over it. BUT, this is improtant. I allways let the other persone win (depending on how wel…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:37 PM
1

Join him in mocking you. Laugh and be very at ease with it. Just take it easy, find what he's saying funny and ad on top of that. Change directions and find certain words he uses against you to create inside jokes with them. You'll be the center of attention as it is YOU everyone is talking about. And you're just standing there being a fucking cool guy! Everyone will like you, join your side in things and the douche who started it might become a good friend to you aswell. Dont worry about it man…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 05:01 PM
2

College, why not. Play the forbidden fruit and make sure she keeps it secretive. She will find that a thrill and she wont be in the way of other prospects.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 07:05 AM
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