Is this a phase? After learning game, etc., I've gotten disgusted with women. That they could be so easily manipulated, and their stupid shit tests and other behavior.

RedSeddit · 2013-08-13T04:41:26+00:00

This is a common phase. This is the way things ae supposed to be. You had an ideal of what the world was like and what women were like. That Ideal has been shattered and is now replaced with reality. The key is to demphasis the role of women in your life. You have made the. Your mission in life, know you must find fulfilment elsewhere. Focus on your health, happiness, and career. Make women secondary. They should be a passenger in your car, not your destination. Even if they get off you will still keep it moving. Do what makes you happy.

You should be spinning plates. Once you set up fwb, semi-gf, and fuck buddies you can call up, you won't need to chase. Get to forming your harem.

2013-08-13T06:32:51+00:00

You are disappointed with women for not being more like men. This will pass as you internalize the idea that it's unreasonable to expect women to think or act like men, just as it would be unreasonable to blame a cat for not being more like a dog. They are what they are.

n0c0ntr0l · 2013-08-14T08:59:53+00:00

You have to realise women aren't going to be the primary thing to make you happy. Stop defining yourself and your value by how you can bed a woman. Set other goals in life to achieve.

You should be striving to better your life in other ways really.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-08-13T07:24:45+00:00

I'm going to x-post an answer I wrote to another post here:

Cognitive dissonance.

You are hating women because you have the wrong expectations for them. Don't hate someone for something they CANNOT be. Women are, by nature, manipulative, image-conscious, attention-seeking, inconsistent, emotional and hypergamous. Accept this truth. Once you do, you can game women for what they truly are...not what you want them to be.

Once you get to this point, it's all fun and games~

footballtrav89 · 2013-08-13T03:08:59+00:00

Things to think about:

Not every woman you gamed had sex with you.

Men can be manipulated as well.

I would ask myself what my goals are in life and then apply yourself towards reaching those goals. If you don't want to get laid, don't. If you want a LTR, make that your goal. Either way, women don't have to be an important factor in your life all the time. Nothing wrong with taking a hiatus.

Pillarch · 2013-08-13T11:40:57+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/Pillarchy/comments/1k9su7/pillarch_my_transformation_story/

Read.

Zackcid · 2013-08-19T02:51:11+00:00

If it's been going on for a couple years, something's seriously wrong or you're just lying. I've had my fucked up stage where I hated them to hell and didn't want anything to do with them. Lasted months tops and I saw the positives after meeting more and more of them. I'm tempted to say that it's just a phase, but these phases don't usually last more than a year. Maybe something deeper is wrong with your psyche and you might need weed or LSD to solve it.

Title	Is this a phase? After learning game, etc., I've gotten disgusted with women. That they could be so easily manipulated, and their stupid shit tests and other behavior.
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Date	August 13, 2013 3:01 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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