I dont know exactly why I do this, but does anyone else occasionally soft next their ltrs randomly even if they haven't done something worthy of it. I have done this and Im not sure if its right or if it even helps at all, but sometimes I feel like it keeps them on their toes. Please give your opinion. Most recent time I did it, girl has no idea what was wrong started freaking out and sent me like 30 texts apologizing for whatever she did after just 1 hour.