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| 5 | Should I get revenge on my so called “bro”?Let it go. Ignore him. Let him reach out if he wants. If he does. Express your disappointment and state specifically what your expectation was in that situation. Tell him if he does it again. The two of are through. End of story. GL. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Is traditional pickup artists dying out to Red Pill truthsLife is what you make it. Online or ir cold approach success is up to you. Online is "easier" but getting to top girls will take more investment online. Play to your strenghts. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | First date during the pandemic?Dispense with the issue immediately by walking up and giving her a hug or kiss. Should she recoil or otherwise object, ask what her boundaries are. Also you could ask over text before meeting. You can do it flirtatiously... when i see you, I'm going to give you the biggest hug you've ever gotten blah blah... Most girls expect at normal date if they are willing to met. Don't tip top around it. GL. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 05:37 AM |
| 34 | Who are girls fucking on tinder?Tinder is not a good representation of chicks. The vast majority of profiles are fake, snapsluts, attention whores, fatties, and the like. The truth is that the amount of eligible attractive women is relatively small with a vast number of men competing for them. Then if you get some good matches your ability to meet them is based on alot of factors out of your control- high flake factor. You can take a spam approach swipe on everyone or an extremely targeted approach which requires more effort. … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Is being the life of the party a good strategy to gaining reputation/female interest?You mean the confident guy who dngaf? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | What are some good books/knowledge sources on diet?Any high quality egg or casein protein, three servings spread out throughout the day. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What are some good books/knowledge sources on diet?Yes, whey spikes insulin more than casien. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Picking up girls at gym?Girls will spill an IOI if they are interested...chat about stupid shit and dgaf. Check out her ass, whatever. Wait for it and then maybe. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys hang out with plates if no sex will be involved?You said "plate" which you means you have been banging her already. So the occassion chill without sex is okay (although it what would be the reason?) If you mean a girl who you have -not- banged then you're an orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What are some good books/knowledge sources on diet?Keto adding in some carbs if you are athletic or otherwise do cardio. The main thing is have as close to 0 sugars and processed foods. Switch out whey from egg or casien protein if you lift. I basically eat meals with steak, fish, eggs, avocado, some veggies, olive oil and green smoothies (kale, spinach, broc). Coffee and tea. If you can stick to this for 12 weeks then cycle off for a couple of weeks and see how you feel and look. GL. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there any point in saying anything to a hot girl on online dating besides saying "hey" or "what's up"?Umm YES! Cuz all the other fucking lazy ass dudes say the same shit...BoRING bro! Look at her profile and comment about something that you can start to move towards either meeting up or sex. PERIOD. ONLINE is similair to F2F- KINO. Escalate with your words until you can escalate with your COCK... | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Tips on College Chicks (18-21)You don't blame me but on the other hand...which is it? Young pussy is good bro, why not... | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Tips on College Chicks (18-21)I should add I've been out of college for about 15 years ;-) | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a young manA lot of your questions can be answer- in theory- by reading the red pill literature, internalize the framework, and experimenting with it. No one is going to give you a manual for approaching hot girls a certain way that will always or almost always get you laid by that one hot girl. You should be able to interact with any girl in the same manner- confidently. So just to get you started, approach women with confidence without the explicit intention of seeking sex. The girls that want to fuck yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 05:04 AM |
| 4 | Advice for a young manRed Pill is not about getting girls or fucking girls in college per se; trying to do that primarily can land you in a lot of hot water. Rather RP is about being the guy that girls are dying to fuck (versus a pickup artist). That starts with you genuinely developing yourself into that guy. So stay focused on your mission and the college chicks will be knocking. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Negging is Dumb.This^ The example is a proper neg. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 5 | She begged me to go raw ?Always wrap your shit with random plates. I would only consider raw dogging a girl that you've vetted properly (girlfriend material) took for a blood test verified she using birth control Only then should you consider going raw. Because you could end up with an STD or getting her pregnant. Quick story- on a tinder date and the dates tells me she is stressed because one of her friends got pregnant. Yes she was on a 1st tinder date with 40yo guy got drunk and got pregnant. And she decided that she… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend says she’s not horny anymore. What to do?She is most likely fucking someone else, loss some interest and is looking to branch swing, or has psychological issues, none of these are favorable to you. Find other chicks asap. Minimize contact with for her. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Can any degree of looks or personality compensate for bad sex, or will you always be dead in the water?Step 1. Tell the girl to flip over let me hit it from behind? Slap her ass a little. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 01:56 AM |
| 9 | Fat boss girl is hitting on me at work. How to respond without fucking things up?Yeah bro, tell your boss she's fat and see how that go down. eye-roll. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that when really hot girls are mean as fuck to you at first (shit test) it means that they want to fuck you?Your highest smv can be just scraps to these hot bitches. So you might think you can approach. But you need game... | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | A Fucked up but real question for very experienced guys.Probably. I am not quite 7.5 but 6inch girth...the girls tell me girth matters more...they like the feeling of my cock spreading they open... I think the average penis is something like 5 x 4.5..so anything over 6x6 are extreme outliers. There are some disadvantages of having such as large cock because many girls have small jaws and facefucking them becomes a challenge (hitting the back molars). Unless your under 5x5 I'd say just get fucking amap. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What to do when sexual activity slows down with her?In my exp. When a girl "pulls back" for her normal , its almost always problematic. You should always be banging multiple women...so the first step is to get some other plates.. your desire to figure this out is problematic and self defeating. Don't invest in a bitch with issues bc you'll never understand... let her come to you. I think you've over invested.. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 07:01 AM |
| 1 | “High value”... you are either it, or not.I thought this redditt exist to help the so called losers improve. The disdain for them is inappropriate. Why the fuck are you on here then??? Either enlighten or fuck off... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Treating women like children, but how so?Yeah you kinda have to feel it too...you can't really fake it, so cringe, I agree. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Why do women wear thongs?And almost all women are aware of this to varying degrees, although they hamster it a lot such as looking cute around other girls and making it about being fun or letting loose or whatever the fake reason is...the key is too not get sidetracked by this one bit. You'll rapidly understand this when take a chick home and she wakes up next to you or has showered at your place... | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Just moved to a new city (I’m 18) and looking to get some plates, how should I proceed?If you can't even ask a girl out on bumble ... umm you got problems. Maybe just ask a girl within a mile radius for a drink and kino for there GL | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Making her chase?Do not spend a whole day with a tinder date until she is a bona fide plate that is hooked on your cock. In which case, you spend the entire time using her holes until you've have your fill then simply bounce, leaving her pussy, ass, and throat sore... | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Not Reading the SidebarAnd if you have a question that has to do with this ONE girl that is not responding or fucking me or some variation of that...the answer is Almost always next... game other girls! PERIOD | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 04:21 AM |
| 5 | Girl says we'll never meet to fuckIgnore the comment. Kino. If she rejects. Ignore her then...see if she contacts you. Dont need to compete for her attention. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Should I rent a house or apartment to avoid medication from psychiatrist?Do you need help? Get it. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How can I finally be at peace with the state of society and women being hoes?Not all women are hoes. Women are hoes for the right guy(s). The purpose of trp is to become and be that guy. Ask yourself, if you were the guy smashing hot pussy-- would you care? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:34 AM |
| 9 | Jury rules against dad trying to save his 7-year-old from gender ‘transition’The jury ruled to give the "mother" custody and because there are no laws stopping her behavior, the kid will be ruined. Nevertheless, the suit wasn't about what the mother planned to do but more about custody. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is it an issue for an LTR to go out to a bar with friends when I do the same thing with mine?If you are just curious why gno is a red flag then you've been given that answer. Either the intention is there and/or a strong possibility exists she will be interacting with other men. Think of bachelorette parties. GNO is just a version of that. Their boyfriends are not there and the other girls are complicit or accepting of the slutty behaviors. Just take a look at how they dress on a "gno" slutty or at least the standard tight dress or skirt. Just take a look at if your girl deviates from h… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Why is it an issue for an LTR to go out to a bar with friends when I do the same thing with mine?If you have to ask trp then you seem to have a concern. You seem to be one that may be insecure. We are just positing the possibilities. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Why is it an issue for an LTR to go out to a bar with friends when I do the same thing with mine?Hmm, you think you're in a LTR but apparently you're not. She still feels the need to go out on a girls night out to bars...which means you're probably not high enough smv or just in a STR...treat her as such by going out and upgrading yourself...certainly dont act butthurt..you cant control her behavior/choices so dont do anything stupid. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 03:59 PM |
| 6 | What's up with girls flaking?She had other options and choose another option She is just being nice because she likes the attention Something completely unrelated came up and she being nice to even tell you. <insert other reason> All part of the game...have more options and you can quickly schedule another date or something else to do. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | When a plate knows they are a plateIt depends bc some girls know they are plates such that I have told them that I an not monogamous and they agree. So they think it's ok to talk because they think you dont care... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/19 01:28 AM |
| 5 | When a plate knows they are a plateI mean you can fuck a girl every 30 minutes over the course of 2 to 5 hours. That's about 2 to 10 nutz. You'll need more recovery with each nut in my experience. In the time between, you should be cool and a good conversationalist and mix it up each mini session. Some doggie, some kinky, some toys...at the heart of it is staying in the lead, ensuring she hits an Orgasm a few times during your sessions. Most girls want to please. Command them. Control them. Talk to them. Fuck them hard and deep. … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is TRP being run over by incels?I am talking about trp not about what individuals are saying. I thought you are saying there are inconsistencies with what people are saying about trp theory. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 03:22 PM |
| -7 | Is it just me or is TRP being run over by incels?Name me one inconsistency? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls bringing their guy friends into setI have to agree. You have to roll with it and use it as a display of your social skills and confidence. And it is your responsibly to build comfort and escalate. If it happens often then periodically, just say I got something to do and go about your busy. Also remember that if she sees him she might felt obligated or guilty to say hello to maintain the friendship orbitor. She might be clueless... | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 10:18 PM |
| 0 | I've allowed myself to become an orbiter, any advice on breaking free from this?Can you be an orbiter if you fucked her several times already? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Religious/Shy Girl Last Minute Flake But Asked To Reschedule Immediately. Change Date Location To My Place For Movie?Ignore and delete flakes unless they immediately reschedule with a date and time convenient for you...simple | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Friends bashing me for not lowering my standards every now and thenI had a side plate that I owned in college... she was 6 at best but i did what wanted with her and if I pulled hotter I ignored her...she was always there... | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Revenge, worth it? Self respect issue?All i read was revenge and ltr... dont be a fool... trying to exact revenge is demolishing your frame .. the best revenge is getting a fucking life | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 03:00 AM |
| 2 | [Asexual] Am I missing out on not having sex?You're missing out on something that you mighy enjoy immensely. If you actually asexual and dgaf about sex...then move on...pour your energy into something else | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How much will my progress in gym suffer if i will go out once a weekWhile yoir liver is removing alcohol from your body, it stops MPS...if you must drink... don't workout 24hr beforehand..that's my rule of thumb. I don't go to the gym on Fridays before I know I'll be drunk that night. Otherwise, do not worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What stage of the red pill am I in? Is this all really worth it??I'd say your in the contemplation stage...do you want to devote time to maximizing your smv and plating chicks or other things...i see no reason why you can't incorporate some dates/plates while you pursue your other interests... | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 02:52 AM |
| 13 | Brutal honesty: How many men has the avg. western women slept with at age 25?I met a girl 27 said she's been with 100 guys... mostly drunk fucks in college etc.. so a girl can get laid any night of the week esp. In college..do the math. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:59 AM |
| 0 | TRP’s opinion on “Nofap”Use porn as a reward for fucking chicks, that's it. The more girls you fuck and plate, the less need to jerk off you have. But in terms of any long term testosterone boost or other claimed side effect is doubtful... | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good reason to run a train on a girl?Why are you still dealing with an ex...move on. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Attracting girls because of my workMake a leather collar or whip or some bdsm stuff and ask if they want to try it out... | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I told a girl I would hit her up to hangout on Friday or Saturday. So which day should I choose?Delete this post bro... really?? Trp says nothing about what day you should chill with a girl given you proposed one of two days.. pick one move on | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Both post and pre SMV rise guys around my environment hate me. Why is that? (Insight below)Maybe probably more examples of what these guys are doing/saying... Ive encountered some of that, very rare, here and there but they were amongst former friends or guys I went to college with. I never made sense of it because at the time i wasn't even thinking along smv lines... Sometimes the converse is true... guys might be dicks to show you how tough they are in hopes you befriend them as oppose being nice and sweating you... | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Upgraded fuckbuddy and got flakedYou fucked up by saying you wanted more than just sex...doh! Why you caught oneitis and see what happens...you blew it. Game other girls and let her initiate contact again... | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 08:13 PM |
| 10 | I’m completely lost in college girl wiseSince you are just starting out: don't make girls your mission nor priority. Build your standing in your school and frat but most all--build up yourself first. Thinknof the adage: if you build it they will come. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Match on Tinder says she’s busy, is that a signal?Ask her for phone number, if she provides it, ask her to come over or out for a drink.. if she doesn't provide a number, forget her... | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | girl says she wants a serious relationship -how should i play thisIt's a standard play by her.. let me guess its been a month or 2, you fucked maybe 10 times...? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Why do women love nightclubs?Why don't you go to one and ask them... | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Need Red-Pill instructions for dating a hardcore Christian women/How to prevent a sex-dead marriage.Progressive roughness is one approach. GL | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Need Red-Pill instructions for dating a hardcore Christian women/How to prevent a sex-dead marriage.Dominate her. Make her do things that are taboo. You own that bitch. If she protest, say you'll go to confession ask forgiveness and then repeat. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys feel about raw dogging girls you recently started seeing?Put it this way, is it worth the risk of getting a strange girl pregnant or acquiring a STD? Almost always the brief 5 minutes of pleasure is not worth the potential life long consequences. I wouldn't make it a habit with casual partners. LTR, yes. Go get tested and make sure she is on birth control and willing to have an abortion in an emergency. You are making assumptions that because the girl is in medical school etc... that she doesn't want a child 99% true..trust but verify! GL. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Got my first handjobGot to start somewhere...know teach her to blow you | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Fucked a girl and now she’s acting distantDon't read into anything. Not all girls are the same. The solution almost always is forget her for now and game other girls. You can ask her out or over in a week and do the same thing. If she is down, shell come over. In the meantime, keep your communication to the minimum. Maybe... a had a nice time, let's do hang again (on x day). | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Why does dating seem significantly harder in North America than in more traditional countries in South America, Asia, Eastern Europe, etc.?Our culture that's why. It is what it is. But in many ways it ups your game tremendously and pull non american girls becomes much easier. So hang in there and look for opportunities to pull non Americans to supplement your roster. Always keep at least 1 american though...keeps you sharp. Gl | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | What is the best way to invite a girl over without being too direct about wanting to have sex?Sure, but here the operative words are without being too direct" perhaps the OP means something different but for what I can tell he wants to imply sex. If he doesnt want to then that's easy... hey wanna watch a movie... hey wanna have a few drinks... Hey wanna come help me cook dinner... If it's a first time kinda deal....things change a little...particularly if he is going to escalate towards sex without any indication. Too me that riskier. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to invite a girl over without being too direct about wanting to have sex?Depends on how strong of an implication you want to convey. Your question still implies some degree of implied sex. So drinks and movie, as someone said, is indirect but still may be missed by the girl. You still need to bring up sex or sexual innuendo. Ellude to clean sheets some way... Straightened up my bedroom for you, I never do that... Dont worry the movie is not x rated You see my point? For many women the fact they are coming over to your place carries the possibility of sex...but some i… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to invite a girl over without being too direct about wanting to have sex?Sure, but here the operative words are without being too direct" perhaps the OP means something different but for what I can tell he wants to imply sex. If he doesnt want to then that's easy... hey wanna watch a movie... hey wanna have a few drinks... Hey wanna come help me cook dinner... If it's a first time kinda deal....things change a little...particularly if he is going to escalate towards sex without any indication. Too me that riskier. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to invite a girl over without being too direct about wanting to have sex?Depends on how strong of an implication you want to convey. Your question still implies some degree of implied sex. So drinks and movie, as someone said, is indirect but still may be missed by the girl. You still need to bring up sex or sexual innuendo. Ellude to clean sheets some way... Straightened up my bedroom for you, I never do that... Dont worry the movie is not x rated You see my point? For many women the fact they are coming over to your place carries the possibility of sex...but some i… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 09:09 PM |
| 2 | TRP in nature. Goldmine video demonstrating hypergamy, awalt, and many other redpill mantras.The story is 100% true... i don't need to lie or brag on the internet for praise. I guess there will always be non-believers and trolls. But if you don't think this is true then you are not out there enough or haven't been paying attention. Remember this took place in a college house party environment. Everyone is drinking and trying to get laid. So this shit happens all the time and not just in a movie..trust me. It might not be an actual fistfight but the games and verbal comfrontation between… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | TRP in nature. Goldmine video demonstrating hypergamy, awalt, and many other redpill mantras.I had a situation in college very similar in dynamic happen. And looking back it is almost such a blatant example that it still amazes me. This is a true story and not a brag. Basically Alpha Male (AMOG) --captian of a sports team-- starts a fight with me for inadvertantly knocking his beer and spilling some of it on him or the floor (I don't remember) at a house party (not my house). I get the first punch in as he approaches (I always strike first no matter what), we wrestle and he does eventua… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Good Place for Second Date (Both College Students)A bar near your dorm room or hers... | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 08:18 PM |
| 5 | LTR wants to get sexy/topless photos doneWho cares as long as long as she shares them with you and isn't hiding some cam shit behind your back | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Tinder GirlWell you have more problems... raw dog a chick off tinder for the first time and didn't last long...no good all around. Always use a condom and if you want the girl to crave your cock do better...try more foreplay | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 11:32 PM |
| 8 | Tinder GirlA. They just wanted a quick fuck B. You didn't fuck them got enough | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 11:20 PM |
| 4 | Opinions on modern pornModern porn is arousing and lucrative, relatively anyone with a digital camera can film porn and upload it. Sex is a primative drive like hunger. It is no wonder porn is ubiquitous. I would advise using it as a reward for actually gaming and fucking girls IRL or to get some ideas about what you want to do to girls irl. I wouldn't worry if its not alpha if I rub one out etc..but it shouldn't be seen as a viable substitute. And forget about the moralism of it all, some girls are getting paid very … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 08:05 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid fightsAmused mastery. Don't respond physically unless you perceive imminent harm. I know, in my cases, the upper-middle class college town I go out in, getting hit is extremely unlikely because everyone has a lot to lose. So I play it cool and try not to get sucked in and will even just stand and drink my beer as if they are not there. In other words, I don't provoke or escalate the situation by adding fuel to the fire such as making a threat or disrespect. Also, if you are getting approached by an ag… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What to do when hot girl matches but doesn't respond?Sure. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What to do when hot girl matches but doesn't respond?Few days is cool...harder to get a read but sure. Do not call it a date, ask her to chill, hang out, meet up...come over...etc.. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Getting matches, convos flow well with replies, but when mentioning to meet up it's always the same storyI'd say for most young and attractive women they 1. Get too much attention and plenty of options 2. Generally insecure about meeting a random guy "for drinks" which generally means "sex" 3. Many use it for attention and passing time (entertainment) because they already have a crush or "bf" or someone they are fucking but not paying attention to her. 4. Often they talk while further vetting your profile so they are just buying time wnd talking is not an indicator of interest. That's why you bring… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What to do when hot girl matches but doesn't respond?Not unusual bro. It you have enough matches, you will get a few responses but be prepared to capitalize immediately as in an instant invite for drinks near your place and be prepared to kino and move to your crib after about 1hr or so. Build Attraction Build Comfort Kino escalate Want to check out my book/music/cool apartment..? It's a block away! | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Possible to get laid without preselectionImagining that only bad people are having sex with women and that you are somehow better than those bad men if only women would be less stupid and notice guys under 6'3" is you ego-protecting yourself. You're hiding from the fact that you're below average by pretending that is all the doing of bad men and stupid women.<< Aka: hamstering | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to not make girls cum when you first have sex with them? I stopped after I finishedSex god always...practice like you play. If they don't cum then you need more practice. If you are concerned then ask them, how do you normally cum, they know and will tell you...gl | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 03:15 AM |
| 3 | How to get plate out of house quickly after sex.Set rhe parameters upfront. It's your show. Girl comes over treat with enough respect to build comfort and trust but also imply you are using her holes....the right plates understand that and appreciate that...thats what they r use too...make sure you skull fuck her or otherwise dominate her.. this is a display of your superiority. Wanna come chill..im free for a few hours this evening from 7 to 11... | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do people pick up girls in clubs/barsNo one cares...most people cant dance really well. Dancing is about enjoying the music and the girl. Even if you cant dance, the girls can and they will dance if you just gold there hips and rock to the bass. Find a club that plays music you like... | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do people pick up girls in clubs/barsDrink and just bounce to the music like everyone else...take lessons | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 05:08 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck do people pick up girls in clubs/barsMost of the time, neither person can hear well...but they find it each other attractive enough to pretend. Eye contact is king. Talk to should be kept to a minimum in a dance club, you should be dancing with her, touching her that is how you talk | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Cum way too quicklyTry having sex doggie style with you standing with your feet on the ground grabbing from the waist. Bend at the knees with legs spread. Get a rhythm going, slow down or stop when you feel u r going to cum. Then ramp back up. Once you get passed a point, you'll be able to last longer for that set. Cum on her face and take a 30 minute break. Start over again. GL | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Did you notice an improvement when doing NoFap?Stop watching porn, get your test levels up to where they are for you by lifting, keeping better, sleeping well, and getting out in the sun/play a sport. Spin plates and only use porn as a reward and to get ideas on how to treat you sub slut plates. Rotate at least spin plates a week or every other week, off week to recruit more plates. Spend more time with plates that obey and otherwise follow your lead. Otherwise soft next them and promote the new plates..eventually problem plates will break a… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 12:53 AM |
| 20 | Asking a girl for sex.Then wait three weeks and ask her out and to buy you liquor. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 03:22 AM |
| 3 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?I tell all the girls they are the best I've ever seen...with a little more practice (with me of course) they could be pushing goddess status...wink! | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?I have to agree. I thought you meant triple digits. I was double digits my first year of college by 19.5yo. I'm pushing 65+ and i wouldn't maybe say i had a fair share, lol... i am definitely looking forward to hitting 3 digits... | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?Ummmmmmm....you text her to hang out to fuck her brains out again. I usually text, luv fucking your brains out...wink. or we're definitely going to do anal next time..damn your pussy was wet af. If she is just a sex slut treat her accordingly. Again dont be a complete dick and belabor the issue she is a slut. After she replies "no doubt" or some equalivant...hold a very sporadic and shory convo and eventually invite her over.. I recently had a plate open up and show me her phone etc... she is co… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Bundy: Ted And His Women (an analysis of why women love killers)The irony for me is that after about 30 seconds into a cold approach last weekend, the girl says you know who you look like...da dum... ted bundy...eventually she asks...are you going to kill me...?? da dum, i said only after I am done with you...where do you prefer to buried? i banged her that night many times. Is there a ted bundy series now showing on netflix or something?? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Went out last night...couldn't approach a single chick.I literally said hi to chick and asked her where the band was from blah blah... she held the convo as i appeared cool and relaxed. Eventually she said you look like a serial killer blah blah..said something like don't worry I'll bury you under your basement floor...smile. took her home and banged her. All started from eye contact when i walked by her.. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Want to set up a Threesome with 2 plates but they both call me “daddy”Set up the threesome and let them figure it out while their sucking your dick bro... | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 01:53 AM |
| 18 | Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War.Wny exactly is this happening? And what is wordpress that the guy just can't host his own site with the materials...like just save rhe site as a text pdf and upload it for download. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/19 11:27 PM |
| 7 | How does one behave in a "sexually assertive" manner?It starts with your eyes. Are you afraid to check a girls ass out and wink at her? What about use the word fuck in front of her? Can u make a sexual innuendo like..."that's what she said...!" ?? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 11:24 PM |
| 6 | (Little off topic) Which underwear do you buy? Is Ck worth it?Cuz you don't want to be caught with your pants down. Zip open your fly and pull it out...anyway probaly should focus on bigger things buy what u want | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 07:19 PM |
| 7 | (Little off topic) Which underwear do you buy? Is Ck worth it?Just make your underwear has an opening so you can slide your cock out in the bathroom to get your cocked sucked. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Dating a girl just for sex?I read the first sentences and i think you have to adjust. Cuddling and dinner dates signals relationship. You already fucked her? Keep it at that by NOT doing dinner and only cuddle briefly after she's swallowed your cum. Best way to exercise dominance is cum on her face or make her swallow. Always game other girls. Keep her once ot twice a week sex only. If you must take her out, keep it close, make her split or pay, and make sure she knows you want sex and talk sex e her...so to answer ypur q… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 06:41 AM |
| 0 | Understanding the weaponization of sexuality, Libido DominandiI sorta hear the conversation taking a stance against promiscuity, pornos, and singlehood. I understand the dangers of porn. But the other two facets...? What is he suggesting, purple pill? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/19 02:08 AM |
| 3 | When is it okay to tell the woman that her behaviour fucking sucked? Always stfu?Play it cool. Redirect the interaction to something fun. Escalate. Bang her good. Soft next for a week. If you decide to see her again, your place for a fuck session. If she hasn't changed her tune, soft next again and game other girls. Rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Dealing with public humiliation?Leave town you're fucked... | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with public humiliation?Leave your small ass town that had nothing going for it except writing articles about a fat citizen...what was the title of the article...please tell. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Tell tinder girl I’m into choking, treat her like a little girl she bombards me with shit tests and remain OI and treat her like a little girl than she says she’s a feminist but if I “behave better” she will let me take her out for a coffee. Pics included , give me your thoughtsWay too much talking.. have said meet me here latet for drinks.. ? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The sheer benefits of calling girls (any girl) you're trying to woo "Babe"This^ nothing beats being an attractive, socially dominant, and high value man. Just don't shoot yourself in your cock...with stupid showy behaviors. You dont need to constantly display your superiority, non-verbal communication is very powerful. Don't be a bragger etc..dont have to revved your mustang exhaust every fucking street light or talk about how much money you make or all the people you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Style advice for men.real simply pick your style (preppy, edgy, hip-hop, muscle-beach, outdoorsy, hipster). make sure it fits properly and suits the environment (day, work, club, event, sports, gym). Clean and ironed. Don't be scared to try something different and stand out from time to time. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Style advice for men.This is my style boys: http://imgur.com/a/12OEzPu | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Reminder to not assume that being alpha is not showing any signs of interestyou can do "back-handed" validation by using words like "kinda cute" "maybe if... you put your hair up" or "picked a better color..." you are still showing interest but its conditional or incomplete... or "some guys would find you attractive for sure..." the implication is you're completely NOT sold on her but you acknowledge some aspect that is pleasing... I usually push... like yeah your ass is cute but its getting a little juicy (fat) or I bet those jeans help a lot...I need to see the real t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Got her instagramWait two days. It nothing, forget her. End of story. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Tinder questionThis. If you can actually meet her in person always choose that option. But don't shit where you eat..in university you can obvious fuck girls but don't be a dick about it. Best course is establish a Fwb. And try not to fwb someone in your major cuz you'll likely have courses with them. And better to find a studious non party girl for that. GL | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | DTF vs. Just Down For Attention?Umm, escalate and you'll find out. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Am I breaking the First Rule of Fight Club?The emperor has no clothes. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Girl I am dating has asshair and wont give blowjobs unless I shave too/lick pussyEasy i told the chick to get in bath room and bend over i shave her myself she loved it. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Dating show proves that looks is everythingLooks are not everything you described him as a chad so he had more than looks. Otherwise go back and replace handsome guy that wasn't into her | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | A girl has been giving me mixed signals. How tf do I interpret them...You lost your chance. Or the girl is playing massive games.. eitherway move on. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | About to chill with some sognificantly higher smv broadsActively game other chicks in the vicinty; dont try to hard with them. Focus on the chicks you feel comfortable escalating with. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Serious question: do you enjoy the company of a woman when there is no sex involved?Some women are real chill in the sense that they relate to you like men (open about real shit, sex, and sports). They don't create drama and are generally helpful and accommodating. If they are not attractive, that doesn't get in the way and you can be friends. If she has hot friends your golden. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Feeling of lonelinessDo you feel as if you are no longer connected? Like because you see things differently the environment just doesn't do it for you? To me sounds like a withdrawal symptom of unplugging...need to create step and take action more..be more of leader. Just a thought | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 04:31 AM |
| 7 | 19, in college, and need solid advice and/or criticism.You changed your behavior and now girls are showing interest. But you feel uncomfortable with this new attention. You re 19 so now it time to learn, make mistakes, and improve. Approach girls, flirt, and escalate. Repeat. They are making it easy for you so find one you want and roll with it. Get experience applying sex god method. Don't over think. Focus on your mission=> learning and getting good grades then blow off some steam banging chicks. My advice? Use this to build a troop of a few guys … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 03:17 AM |
| 14 | Baby Did a Bad, Bad Thing (a comprehensive essay on the red pill written for beginners)Good basic introducion with movie references which are part of the cultural make up of society and illustrative of what men and women are taught (socialized). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Don’t hate me but... does anyone else feel like half the stories in TheRedPill sub are totally made up?Yes that shit happens...now is the guy who posted that he did it always true, no. But now that i know what to look for, i see all kind of shit happen and have done. For example, a basic one. Pick up a girl at a bar and fuck her. See her again next weekend on the dance floor, start dancing grabbing her ass, and she says not tonight I'm with my boyfriend, so you back off and fuck her another night. Another experience is of picking up girls and they give it up that night and they all kinds of kinky… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Closing and Asshole(s)Listen to what girls tell you but don't read to much into it. Take her exactly at face value. Sounds like you need to calibrate a little bit more. Girls want to have fun so don't treat it like an interview any more than you have to in order to get some basic facts to play off of. Once you have a few basic facts' use them to joke or tease her as the conversation ebbs and flows. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 09:56 PM |
| 4 | "Let's hang out some more first", is it time to next?Maintain politeness and professionalism. But don't pursue a date or hanging out. If she asks' be honest' "probably not the best idea since we are co-workers..." but if either of us quits' then game on <wink>".... leave it at that. She gave you a yellow light for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 08:54 PM |
| 3 | What it’s like to have lots of sex?I read the post but answered the question. This is asktrp no? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 08:52 PM |
| 3 | What it’s like to have lots of sex?Having lots of sex is good. Immerse yourself in the art and practice different techniques. Have fun with it. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What's the ratio of hot chicks to alpha males?All that matters is you become one of them. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Girl lied to me. Next her or forgive?And she lied to you...next her | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 05:20 AM |
| 8 | Girl lied to me. Next her or forgive?Bros b4 hoes | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 05:19 AM |
| 16 | Girl lied to me. Next her or forgive?She gave your 9th grade 15yo? brother cigarettes? Next her and tell your parents' wgaf . | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Plate Spinning Alpha Male's Worst Enemy isn't Another Alpha MaleThink of it as an upward spiral' you keep spinning upwards as lower plates drop' you pick up better plates with each dropping plate and a new pick up you gain abundance mentality.. Tbh' after a while i forget about some of my plates' no joke...then they hit me up and i was oh yeah come entertain my cock for a quick hour or so... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/19 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Plate Spinning Alpha Male's Worst Enemy isn't Another Alpha MaleIt's not about redpill' its about dudes that never needed trp' and yes they exist... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/19 04:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you be upfront with a woman that you just want to have sex?I agree with this. You have to build attraction, tension, and all that...once you have established that, simply ask her if she is good kisser, and then whatever her answer is say I dont believe you're going to have to prove it or "oh, really i cant wait..." then grab her and kiss her...then invite her back to your place... really simply. The harder part to is arousing her emotions and developing rapport..once that is done, you don't have to be "upfront" GL. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Going to a girl means she is in position of power and you're pursuing her !It's perfectly natural to vet a total stranger. If a girl just accepts your advances, what does that say about her? These are the unspoken rules, you should know and accept. A man is a sexual pursuer, there is nothing weak about that. You are pursuing sex, you are seducing her...she is in the position of rejection at first, that is how it works. Sure you can raise your value really high, but you'll still be expected to pursue, to demonstrate your actual value. You dont just show up to a job inte… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on 48 rules of power?You're not going to get cliff notes, read the book. Otherwise don't whine if you find yourself detesting your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Going towards a women means you owe her something?What? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 02:24 AM |
| 1 | I'm a slave to my sexual desires and I can't figure out how to stop!Get a girlfriend? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 01:43 AM |
| 6 | What is the RP view on sexual harassment?Trp has nothing to do with sexual harassment. You should not sexually harass anyone. When you have enough smv and pick up on ioi, you'll be able to properly calibrate an ass grab or waist clutch, or bump and grind... | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How to cancel on girl?Call her and say i must cancel because i am sick...talk to her for 5 minutes and reschedule with her before you get off the phone. Otherwise, cancel now and forget it, she'll move on imo | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 2 | (NEWBIE) Completely Clueless Assessing situation.You're the prize, you haven't internalized that yet. Lay low, maybe in a week take her temperature by texting her but not asking her out...no response to that, then don't bother. Otherwise wait and ask her out when you have a plan. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | (NEWBIE) Completely Clueless Assessing situation.I think you've answered your own question. What was her nationality? I've dated several european women. Ive been told that American men are more passive than french or italian men, so the women expect the man to lead and initiate aggressively. Everything you describe fits with European women, paying etc... they think why should a man pay for me, i am equal to him. They usually will pay or split. I stopped reading when you said this guy talked shit over the chess board, it was over at that point … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Hello TRP, Any advise for 33 year old Virgin. Its like burning volcano in my mind.You like to travel, travel to holland or thailand and drop 1k fucking a ton of hookers | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Less sex more talkSorry bro, your are 21, hello 21! Immediately stop contacting her. When she contacts you, fuck her brains out. And soft next her. Either reset the tempo or move on. Infinite trp wisdom . The longer you stay, the harder it will get for you. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Talked to at work for "aggressive behavior" towards older female coworker. Meeting on Monday with the CIOYou didn't have sufficient rapport with Rosa to make the joke or you haven't established enough smv/respect by that group of individuals. You choose poorly despite the remark being relatively mild. She was also older and not your peer group to get the playfulness. Agree to many attending a sensitivity training ot some remedial act to demostrate contrition. Ask for a meeting to bury the hachet or sometime to smooth this over. GL. DEFINITELY look for other options as this plays out, keep a low pro… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 03:50 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with other guys interrupting pickup?It depends on how invested the women were. If you just opened say within the first 15 minutes, you could befriended him and passed off the other girl to him, like yo what's your name, and then say she's yours like you owe her. At that point, the girls may react or not but if he doeant catch that drift, then after 5 minutes whisper in the girls in ear like let go dance or do shots, get up shake his hand or say have a good night and lead them away.. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I feel too weak to get over my porn addiction.This technique is worth a try. Pick a previous lover or someone you are fucking or about to fuck and imagine yourself using them however you please. It might take a few times, but give that a try. You could do a harm reduction approach such setting a limit such as every 3 days for a month, then 4 days, then once a week etc... The goal is to reduce your use gradually. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Reputation as "misogynistic" -> Learn from my mistake -> Heed Law 38There is very little point to exposing these beliefs openly in a public forum. You are there to work, create, add value, all you were doing was soothing your ego. But yes, now u know better. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm good with women, but how do I increase my status around men?A made friends with three men, one of which we will text when we are out on the town, giving updates on clubs etc. It started when i said something about one guys rock t shirt, then girls walked by and kickdd it with them pulling a girl into the group. They liked me style and bought me shots. We established our mutual goal to pull tail. The rest is history. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] She Belongs To The GameIt's clear she is NOT a unicorn but a normal hot chick maximizing her options and exploiting her duel strategies. This bitch is a plate, you've already gone to far imo. You need to spend some time with the two other plated and see what happens when you contact her to smash again. First couple of times she might give you full service but i can bet she's getting railed while you are banging your subpar plates. You are not in control she is atm. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] She Belongs To The GameIt's clear she is NOT a unicorn but a normal hot chick maximizing her options and exploiting her duel strategies. This bitch is a plate, you've already gone to far imo. You need to spend some time with the two other plated and see what happens when you contact her to smash again. First couple of times she might give you full service but i can bet she's getting railed while you are banging your subpar plates. You are not in control she is atm. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you connect with female coworkers? I’m a manager of a group that’s about half women, and though I can ostracize half my staff (the female and gay ones), I don’t exactly feel it’s politically safe ATM.If you find that either yourself or a co worker has made a statement that can easily turn into nsfw type conversation like something related to sex, illegallity, moronic, or otherwise not appropriate by decent moral standards. It typically happens when someone says something that can be construed in a different way. Like say a girl is playing with a pencil, maybe she touches her lip with the eraser. You might say, you have an oral fixation i see...well you can see how that might lead to whole ot… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do women really sleep around as much as trp makes them out to?The most typical college girl finds her stud and fucks him regularly and she'll get a booty called when he failed to get another girl. She might fuck other guys here and there but generally that's risky he'll find out or see them at a party. 8 to 12 range seems fairly standard to me. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 02:28 PM |
| 2 | But to fuck tomorrow, no access to sex god method, any thing else I should know?Sex god method not hard, 1) you're in control of what happens so: you direct her non verbally (take her bra off) and verbally (tell her to spread her legs). You pound that pussy, from different positions, and vary from rough (ass spanking, hair pulling) to sensual (stroking, kisses, tickling). Psychological you compliment her (hair smells delicious, ass is yummy, wow, such dreamy eyes), as you caress her hair, look into her eyes. Eye contact is extremely important. If you can't look a girl in th… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it really bad if I prefer porn over women?Well, do you find it problematic? How many women have you fucked? | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you connect with female coworkers? I’m a manager of a group that’s about half women, and though I can ostracize half my staff (the female and gay ones), I don’t exactly feel it’s politically safe ATM.I worked with almost all females. I say all kinds of shit, namely innuendo. If your smv is decent, some may ask you, if you have a GF?. I say, wait "a" GF, I start counting on fingers, think to myself, might say outloud, well technically she doesnt count..so umm, i guess 3 right now, we'll see after this weekend...a female co-worker might come to my office, and I'll say, u need to knock or I'm busy, ill let you know...or otherwise just give them as little as possible without being a jerk. Polite… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 04:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with a girl trying to sabotage for you?I just read the title and the answer is a long soft NEXT if not a Hard next depending on the severity. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 03:07 AM |
| 6 | Tips for Poker Tournament?Play tight but aggressive. I say over protect strong hands. 1010 or better three bet pre - flop. Avoid all-ins without the nuts and fold to all-ins unless you have them covered ny half. Play position with suited connectors. Just some thoughts GL | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How to handle LTR becoming a "Model"I like that line "TSTF" of you cant handle the amount of frame youll need. You'll either throw her for a massive loop or she'll care less and move on. But if you decide tonplay this out, I would game other girls and play it real cool with ltr. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | This Girl Is Really Trying to Get Me To Orbit Her (A Question About Nexting)I understand what you are saying. People act towards things they value, so yes, value yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I give advice to my brother about his blue pill behavior with his girlfriend?Depends on your relationship with him and his level of maturity. If you guys are tight and he trusts you, and he's semi rational and open to new ideas, he might get it. I wouldn't use any tep trp terminology tho. I'd frame it is a "game" and see what he thinks. Generally tho, unless people are seeking assistance, the odds of them listening and modifying there behaviors are low. GL. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:30 AM |
| 1 | This Girl Is Really Trying to Get Me To Orbit Her (A Question About Nexting)True, one think to take pride in your hard work and another thing to think your so "special" that you can't initiate or otherwise accept you're not the center of someone else's universe. That being said, I do think relationships are two way streets and there are give and takes. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Blacked out last night, was told this girl seemed really interested in me and we talked all nightNo mention nothing. Proceed as if nothijg happened, its all in the past. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Blacked out last night, was told this girl seemed really interested in me and we talked all nightHave u blacked out before ? Blacking out is a very very serious problem. In my years of heavy drinking, i think i blacked out a hand full of times. Nothing good ever came of it. R u in college? Anyway, just text her and see if she replies. Thats all. Switch to beer and keep it xool. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 02:49 AM |
| 8 | How often do you see your plates?The more frequently you see her, the more she will think a relationship is devleoping and less time you will spend with other plates causing them to eventually break, leaving you with less options, less abundance. This will make you susceptible to acting more beta as this girl starts to make her push for more of your attention, committment, and to spend time outside of the bedroom <why don't you take me out?>. It might be harder to maintain frame when your sources of pussy dry up. You have to ac… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)Then you're done contacting her. Game other girls, don't think about what she did or what she was thinking...she's a single mother? Who cares. GL. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Why am I struggling so hard to seal the deal with girls? (especially ONS's)Forget her for now. Move on. See if she contacts you. Depending on how it ended exactly, you could just text something simple, had a nice night, ttyl or something. Or you set up a "Sunday" date at your place. Gl. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Heading to bars, nightclubs, etc. at 20 years old, Bad Idea?What is your alternative ?? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | If I don’t nut soon my dick will explodeWhat? Delete this. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 10:59 PM |
| 3 | The Root of the Purple PillI agree that purple pill defintion needs a little more clarity here. Sounds like a blue pill mqn finds red pill and then uses it to achieve some level of success with women or a woman, then they start to hamster how their newly found LTR or GF is someone different than previous relationships and absolutely justified. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/10/18 09:24 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to deal with all the soreness the morning after the gym?If you are sore the immediate morning after then that is unusual to me. Usually there is a delay maybe 48 hours or more. You are likely over training for level of experience. Reduce volume/intensity slightly. How long does the soreness last? | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Approach at partiesThere is no right way. You walk up, say hello, hi, or something, everything is about how you say things and how you come across. Women are the sexual selectors so to speak so they'll evaluate you quickly, and send a signal one way or the other, just be relaxed and "outcome" independent. The ratio to approach leading to a f close is low...numbers game. No pressure. Play to your strenghts, the more attractive you are the less you should say imo. She's likely already attrcated to you. If you strugg… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Why does trp advise not getting involved with woman who have flamboyantly gay friends?Where did you read that? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 02:23 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with being afraid of breaking up?Maintain frame. She'll respect you more. If you act weak and fade away, youll still be faced with the convo. You think shes just going to say, well, ok...bye. ghost you? She'll confront u. Do it on your terms, maintain frame, keep the door in her mind "as friends" its better for the both of u imo. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Analyzing my Night OutAll i got to say is that she "ELBOWED" you, that's a big tell that she's not sexually interested or that you crossed a boundary without building more attraction, yes, you assume attraction but did she give you any green light to touch her?????????? My bet is that she had an eye on someone and played you, any sign upu may made to claim her <hand on shoulder> she rebuffed What were they??? I would have ignored and games other chicks especially if you were dressed dope and out with friends. Let her… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I just realized that I've never fucked a 9Anna has great tits and a perfect ass with a pretty but not beautiful face which i suppose why you consider her a 9. I wouldn't be "pissed" that i haven't fuck a chick like that unless you have really really tried. How many chicks like that have you ask to come grab a drink or meet up? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 03:03 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with being afraid of breaking up?You've been with her for 14 years, hmmm. That mean's this your first and only girlfriend of your adult life. You, imo, need to own up to this and make a clean break. Remain friends. Ypuve lost that loving feeling. It happens. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | I just realized that I've never fucked a 9Ok, what are we talking about? How would you rate her: 1. https://imgur.com/a/XXPZFDV What about her: 2. https://imgur.com/a/AEljjYJ Now what about her https://imgur.com/a/U3PDJaN | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Do drug dealers/users or people who look like attract more women?too broad of a generalization to make, I am sure some drug dealers are attractive and are socially adept but also take risks, have cash, and are exciting...so they attract women and some are NOT attracting women. Some of them have women around simply because they flaunt their cash/lifestyle and throw it around, those women are gold diggers, users, or escorts etc... | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 03:17 PM |
| 5 | I have to wrestle a girl, lose-lose situationThis^ youre learning to be a professional. Do your job no matter who the opponent & under any circumstances: hype, trash talking, personal adversary. you focus and win, shake her hand and move on. No one will care in 1 week. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Getting called cute and pretty boyAt a club last week, girl approaches and says you are cute, like really cute..said thanks, made some comment about her shirt being from a thrift shop or older sisters handmedown. Anyway,i fuck her later that night...i progressed into sexual talk about her tits, grab her ass after she later followed me outside and her friends left her alone, was a clear sign to escalate. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Second date, she grinded on me but no sex, what next?"Let's progress slowly" I would have said, "we only have an hour so let's break it up in 15 minute segments then..." grind, foreplay, missionary, and then doggie, how does that sound? <massive smile> You should of continued to escalate, she was testing you, playing with you, she wanted you to escalate, because she is grinding her pussy on your cock, doesn't get any clearer signal than that... if she is a complete cock tease and rebuffed your escalation, NEXT her... I can only remember once in th… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 11:14 PM |
| 4 | High SMV hobbies for teensBuy magizines and read blogs, youtube videos on the topic and see of it appeals to you. If you're good, it can be lucrative, nice side hobby, promotes self independence...can convince your parents it takes math and engineering, etc... I think there are vocational classes in some school districts, volunteer at your local bmw or Porsche dealership if u can or befriend a mechanic...work your way...but find a car or engine you can passionate about. GL | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Guns In Tinder Pics?What is your purpose? What r u trying to convey? Seems weak to me. Guns are manly, but gangster type displays are weak, anybody call pull a trigger but run qhen it comes down to going toe to toe. Forget it. Juice ain't worth the squeeze. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 10:58 PM |
| 28 | High SMV hobbies for teensSo no sports? What about how to build car/motorcycle engines or to rebuild them. Autobody. Btw, tell your parents to fuck off, what about swimming or track, low impact sports? | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 10:55 PM |
| 3 | I beat a guy up, and it backfiredI would, based on what you posted so far, making a report with the school guidance counselor or vice principal. Simply state that this guy has repeated call you 'gay' and goes out of his way to say this to you. You told him to stop and he won't. You can write it in a letter and have your parents sign if you want. Regardless, of what you think, you are being harassed and bullied, and that kind of behavior interferes with your learning. I would try to record him making fun of you a few times. If h… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 03:33 AM |
| 2 | How do I turn the conversation sexual with women (without coming off as a creep)?This. Escalate step by step. Pull back with any red lights. Yellow light, stop temporarily and try again in 10 minutes etx...continued green lights, progress, isolate, and leave back to her/your place | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Should I pursue this girl any further?Umm, so there is this chick..FULL STOP.. Answer: next her and game many other girls. Problem solved, crisis averted. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Girl invited me into her carSlammed the car door? I doubt she'll talk to you EVER again. Very bad. Work on your game. She shouldn't have had to invite you in, you should have been gaming her, kino from jump street. You managed to get a date which is good but you seem way too emotional. Did youbtake ger out for dinner and pay, by any xhnace? Just as an aside, i am looking to kiss or throw sexual innuendo with a girl within minutes of any iois. You don't need to talk or impress, she accepted a date so shes attracted to you o… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:41 AM |
| 2 | If a friend asks you if he can date your ex would you let him?You say yes, go ahead and wish him the best. You know the type of person he is. You don't own him or her, let life move where it goes. That's it. Maybe they are better with each other. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 11:34 PM |
| 7 | I got laid last night on my Tinder date. How do I proceed with this girl?I wouldn't see her again. Major red flag. The fact that you are even asking this question is a head scratcher. If you get an std or her pregnant, dont come whining here for advise. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Should I wait or start gaming now?Generally speaking yes they will. It's hard to reverse peoples bias. And quite frankly i wouldn't try. There are more factors involved but based on your questioning, you have more basic and immediate concerns like lifting, appearance, and social skills...that is what i would be concerned with. Forget how these people might think of you for now. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Should I wait or start gaming now?Yes. They will find ways to be around you. They may not and often don't approach but they'll be around, eye contact, hair flipping, laughing, drawing attention to themselves. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Should I wait or start gaming now?You just started to make changes, I personally would wait, because it takes a while to internalize all of this. Life is the best teacher though. If you are okay with rejection and making mistakes, then go for it. If the outcome u seek only getting laid, then wait. If there is a real risk of you coming across as a pervert and undermining your social status then DON'T GAME girls directly. Be patient, build value, and let girls show IOIs first...better chance at not being a pervert. Low value male … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Might be having sex soon for the first time... Help?She told you what she liked...start out by choking her a little and then tell her get on her knees so suck you, make her gag a little. She likes kinky make sure you embrace your dominance. Sure start gently, then say like, now your ass is mine...grab her throat and gradually squeeze. Say oh, you like that..good. now get down on your knees as you are still choking her and then grab her hair and say put mypur hair in ponytail... | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Winter / Summer differences...Clothes dont make a man, the man makes the clothes . If u are relying soley on muscles, well, this winter will force you to grow | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I behave at a Sit-in situation to get the best out of the situation?Go, make an appearance, be freindly and quietly bounce after you properly greeted and hung out a bit. Don't be the guy making it seem like hes got better things to do. Thank the host, say you had a great time but you have to go...old friend in town etc..you'll pique someones interest and next time you'll see who it was...if you hit it off make sure to say goodbye to her and aks for her number...make sure you text her within 15 mins, have a great night... she may later say where r you? Get drunk … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Tinder match wants to "get to know me" before meetingNext. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Ever Get Up And Leave in the Middle of a Date?Yep, she started acting emo..waiter came w the appetizer, i said take it back and give me the check. I paid and walked out. 1 minutr later she came running after and jumped in the cab i just hailed. Went back to her and fucked her..never spoke to her again. TRP in action way before i knew about it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:10 AM |
| 2 | One night stands/casual sex leaves me feeling empty and seems like a waste of time?You're probably just not doing it right or with the right girl. You're still young. Don't think too much into it. Just have fun with the girl, plate her, and develop the sexual relationship you want. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Do y'all let in the easy bangs when starting outYep, it's practice, practice, practice.. difference between easy bang and fucking a hideous monster tho. You have to draw the line somewhere. Just imagine that the condon broke and the bitch got pregnant, would u want the kid? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Romeo of Rimini, aged 63, dies while having sex with a 23 y.o. Romanian touristHe looks like a mix of Rod Stewart and Al Pacino, RIP. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Hit the gym up againAMRAP is a good training tool for CNS development but used too much I think you can fatigue and overtrain. So yes, if you only doing AMRAP once per exercise that would be ok | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Hit the gym up againThis is/was exactly how i trained for a long period of time during my beginning/intermediate stages. Pick a weight and do 3 sets of 8 then add 5 lbs or go up a level on the machine and donthree sets until you hit 8 reps again and so forth. You don't stop at 8, you should have to push to get that eighth rep some, maybe need a spot. Once you plateau of a month you can switch it up. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How To Approach Girls That Appear Occupied?If a girl doesn't want to be bothered, she will have no problem telling or showing you. Don't be dense about it though. I normally interrupt and quickly assess if she talking to someone else... i might then say, oh, excuse me to the other person...and then turn back to her...any receptivity by her, i might address both of them, to reverse block the cock block...and then qith any IOI...ill say well I have to run... lets exchange numbers or invite her out or if i know I'll see her again, leave and… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Finally quit alcohol and drugs four months ago.....how long should my Monk mode be?Monk mode lenght is subjective. Set goals and accomplish them. Dont go monk just to go monk. Know what you are trying to accomplish. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Stretching routine for lifting, where to find one?Exactly, first hips and hamstrings, special emphasis on hip flexors. Then shoulders but also work in some static exercises for shoulders and don't over do shoulders. Hold the stretches for 30 seconds each. As you lift more and develop you really have to hold the stretch to get the muscle to relax and DONT forget to breathe. You shouldn't be in pain, just tension. There are a ton of videos. All find one that talks about opening up the body, do that in the morning or during lunch no more than 10 m… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 02:12 AM |
| 2 | 2 girls 1 nightBoth appear to be putting you off, either because they have something they are more interested in or they are trying not to be too easy, too eager. Have other plans and invite them out to join you, first 1 then 2. No response or further resistance..soft next, game other girls...That's it. Don't pursue. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Frame is impossible without abundanceHow do you get abundance without frame? I'd say frame comes, u grab a plate, develop stronger frame, add another plate, so on... you've built abundance on developing frame. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Military?Your life > 150-200k What career, a lawyer? Better career development opportunities than military for law. Unless you're shooting for a very specific law career. Sure serving in the military gives you great experience, it's a resume builder, but at what cost. *My assumption in all this is that you wpuld be or could be placed in combat or harms way during your service. Otherwise, then yeah, no risk of bodily harm, go for it. What branch would you join Navy? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Military?Do not go into the military just because youbdont know what else to do. You have a degree and no debt. Why do you need to go? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Trying to plate a girl that barely knows EnglishIt's called fucking her, she knows that langauge trust me | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Let's quarantine r/TheRedPill then link to a site that perpetuates how "toxic" men are and how they should behave in ways that best serve feminist ideals.They took down theredpill wtf? Is this communist china or the United States? Fuk redditt. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/09/18 07:53 PM |
| 7 | How to become more MachiavellianSpoken like a true Italian American. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 12:59 AM |
| 3 | How do I increase my low testosterone?You mean 1 gram per lean muscle mass | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why You Need To Get Hugeall i have to say is that when I bang chicks they rip my shirt off, they say damn, your body baby..I love your body... then I grab their ankles and spread their legs wide and lift their ass up a piece and pile-drive them...they never forget it. Other chicks love my arms, constantly touching them...so yeah LIFT, EAT right, and don't stop.. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Where to chat up hottiesTo be honest, lately I've literally wrote down my number and handed to the girl, saying tezt me your number later, i got to run, nice chatting with you...if you are on the train, maybe say hi, where you headed..oh shit this my stop coming up, grab a pen and write down your number on some bs shit receipt or you can find a copy of someone bank withdrawal slip with a nice balance and copy that or not and use it...you don't have to spend more than 1 min chatting...just make sure you have good eye co… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 05:06 AM |
| 37 | Needy Behaviour in Moderate Amounts Acts as a CockblockerThey will justify either way. Why are you looking at things from her frame. When you have plates, abundance, and confidence, you don't care, you keep moving. If a girl is into you and you bang her good, she'll be around...if not, go get another one. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/18 03:15 AM |
| 12 | Tinder, What I Have LearnedYeah the best when you invite her over for Netflix and chill qnd you either dont have netflix or you don't have an account... be like well lets just chill, pop the champagne, and talk for 15 minutes and start making out. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | End Game or Handling Life on Your Own TermsI promise I won’t quote “The Shawshank Redemption”. That would be too much. That being said, the title of the post could be a quote from Redemption, and that is "get busy living or getting busy dying.." I think that sums your post up nicely, feel free to add it in~! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 3 | TRP Observation from when I was homelessNOT CONDONING GANG activity but I will give credit where credit is due. What exactly are you giving the "gang" credit for? I do not see what if anything these members should be given credit for other than the fact that they 'stick together' and defend one another, that loyalty is admirable but often necessary for the gang to survive, so it's not exactly done out of a higher moral standard, get me/? I'd also surmise these bitches had nothing going for them that they would hang around these losers… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Activities to meet high value menHere and there, micro interactions of about 30 seconds to a minute to build rapport. Little by little, you might talk more. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Advice on Tinder and interacting with women.You don't need anything but your own self respect and esteem. You don't need to get laid or to get friends. Focus on yourself and eventuslly friends and getting laid will come. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 02:19 AM |
| 3 | AMOGedGo with it, don't compete, watch and learn, be supportive and not envious. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Going Out vs. Staying InSleep by a certain time for work the next morning, otherwise play it by ear... | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 01:10 AM |
| 14 | [Reader Question] Just starting university, what do?Depending on the size of the school, the higher quality girls were taken fairly fast by Junior or Senior guys, who had something going for them like a car and off-campus housing, also they typically played a sport, were the known rich kid or dad was somebody, or the playboy types. In other word, they also high SMV. Those guys were also friendly and liked by underclassman. I'd advise you, to focus on building a relationship with one of these types, fairly quickly, even if that means, asking to he… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Why can’t i always be like my drunk self?The fda is considering the use of hallunigentic drugs to treat ptsd and depression among veterans i believe. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Activities to meet high value menYou really have to put yourself out there and talk to people. It also takes time to breed familiarity, so I would start as local as you can and then branch out from there. Have your shit together and be willing to put your money where your mouth is. I just got invited to go to Spain to party because i befriended a man at the gym and he thought of me as someone cool to party with and already booked his flight hotel and was like if want to join, let me know. So, there it is. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Got fucked drunk and fucked a random girl and i regret it big timeTake the "dont get so drunk" comment to heart l, seriously. Especially at a party. Drink your beer but dont "pound" them. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 07:00 PM |
| 8 | Why are girls conservative in high school but go wild in college?They were closely monitor by parents and other adults for 18 years, then bang...under only their own supervision mixed with massive alcohol consumption...Do the math. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 12:43 AM |
| 3 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSthat's important BUT when you are alone, you have to build your status in places by being more than just another consumer. When you develop an acquaintance with the bar staff, they will say hello, good to see you, get drinks quicker, and certainly free drinks and shots from time to time. You can also talk to them in the bar when things are slow. All that adds up. And in the context of girls, they see this, they see that you just walked up and got a beer while they waited or that the bartender ga… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach lifting as I get older?I would say, as i age, it becomes a shift from heavy weights to an emphasis on overall fitness, so you are doing more cardio, stretching, rest, diet...all these things become so much more important as u age. And the big one is time, having the time to remain consistent. To slow decline over time is due to a lack of discipline and failure of adaptation, so overtime calories might need to decline, extra cardio, avoiding injuries... | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 04:35 PM |
| 13 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSIn some sense, you going to your room mutiple times was a good idea. It's the equivalent of moving around a bar floors or changing spots. You're not the same guy standing there all night. New people come and see you coming in. In the end, your 2 minutes of being social and holding frame , is what scored you the chick BUT the initial interaction was with the bartender that pulled her in. When u go out alone, those are the little things you have to do... i think you got lucky and capitalized on th… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meI agree, i came back to post the same analysis/conclusion..see you already arrived there. That's the feeling couldn't grasp right away from the first read... but i had figured it out by rereading his post. And all through jt is a pining for her... He dodged a bullet, but goes to show, the pill not only needs to be swallowed but also-- digested. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meLet's be honest, you fell in love with an extremely hot and smart women but she turned out to be a slut. You desperately and secretly wanted it to be different. The fact that you were married and had some sense not to get involved with her sexually., saved you. You all but had an affair with her to get your emotional needs met. If you hadn't let her confide her sluttiness to you, you might have fell into that trap and ruined your life and marriage. Right? Hindsight is 20/20 but probably was best… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meWell the last sentence makes sense. So you're theme is: "don't be captain save a ho" which is essentially what you thought you could do. Other than refraining from sex with her, what? You were her emotional tampon? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meAh, delete this post or break it down for me...cause umm, ypu had oneitis but were to scared to fuck the hottest ass you've ever seen. Help me here. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 10:19 PM |
| 0 | College cuntIt shouldn't be a personal attack more of when you do x it makes me feel or think y. More educative than anything. It should come from a place of support, the kid should feel that you're trying to help. But be clear about what the issue is. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Never getting Tinder matches into datesHas nothing too.do with text game. It's pics. Of u ask a tinder bitch out, shell meet if she' want to get fucked, just stay simple. Short and direct. Mix up new pics and see. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Starter Pokemon: Where did you start?Poke there pussy bro... | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Power stance?The stance starts in your mind, then it becomes natural. Your body will respond, spreading out. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 07:10 AM |
| 7 | Teacher Tales: opportunity costsDoesn't blow my mind. To some men. pussy is everything cause they got none or just weren't guided properly. The allure of 16 yo pussy is just too much. I just thank god ot was never me nor will be. That's the lesson OP Is putting out there. Dont let it be you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Random woman at the club scratched my backIgnore. Let her come back to you | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Hitting on Girls in University.Never approached a girl, you're social awkward??? Youbare thinking about a cold approach sitting at a lunch table whoch could last up to 30 mins, NOT a good idea. Approach people in passing, hey, what did you think of thay exam? Blah. Blah, blah .ok, cool ttyl BYE...just get through those obligatory hey youre in my class type convos...they'll help | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Plate texts me "Ignore?" / Weak Frame ControlRead that 10 times, seriously. Internalize it. Esp. The last sentence. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 02:49 AM |
| 0 | College cuntConfront the kid, tell him, hes acting like an idiot and explain to him the dynamic, take him under your wing, make him an ally. My personal opinion is that ALPHAs are leaders, they build a strong tribe, they help build people, they have people under their wing and these people become soilders. Now, set this kid straight, find out what his deal is, and inform him. If he doesnt like it, temporarily go cold, but polite. Soft next. When he's ready welcome him back in. As too the other fahhots you w… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Plate kind of ignored me for 4 days. I ignored her as well and ended it last night. Good or bad move?This is true, she is not acting nor are you.. like FWB...how many other girls are ypu fucking or fucked in the last 2 weeks? If the answer is 0, than likely GF... | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Abundance mentality= not caring about her sexual history?The 20 yo I banged was at 8 according to her. They fuck nowaways ---instead of handjobs and BJs. Everything is accelerated when they really need to slow the fuck down. But GL with a 3 count...or even getting a straight answer. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you cut losers out of your life without coming off bitter, entitled, selfish, superior.Working and going out on the weekends is very common for 20 somethings who are on their own for the first time post college. They are not losers, if they graduated college, got a decent 9-5 job, and have a few friends to go out with on the weekends. Pretty Standard. Rather you are coming across as "better than them" because you don't drink and have "goals." I'd dial that back. You can have friends for different things. Showing up once a week for a few drinks with these friends is what id recomme… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Plate kind of ignored me for 4 days. I ignored her as well and ended it last night. Good or bad move?Huh? "With feelings?" What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Plate kind of ignored me for 4 days. I ignored her as well and ended it last night. Good or bad move?Bad move. Never explicitly end anything under normal plating circumstances. Just soft or hard next depending on her behavior. You withdraw attention and focus on your life and other plates. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Tinder pics - yay or nayBro you want tinder advice, scrap all those photos. Take 4 photos, 1 in normsl jeans and a tshirt, 1 in some business clothes like you have a job, one with friends, and one active shot. If any of them are in Europe, use that one, cause then at least they know you can talk about traveling. Your jacked, any clothing is going to reflect that. You don't need any gym shots or tank shots. Set up a date within about the first 5 messages. Make sure you try to set the date at least 2 days out. Then just … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 03:30 PM |
| 0 | She asks if she can brings a friend, I told her it depends if she's cuteI would call the date early and say nice to meet, got to go, that you have plans. 1 hr max. Treat it like a normal date, if her friend is literally sitting right next to her, well interact with both of them, maybe pit pit them against one another. I did this once, treat it like a dating game. Ask them questions like.... bachelorette #1 your on a date and the date takes a call from his mother, A. Oh, that's Cool, he's a keeper B. Weird, see ya, or C. Sweet but he needs to keep it short. Question … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Think I fucked up on this one chick...Question: "This one chick..." Answer: move on and find other chicks (period). Don't be a little bitch and try to text her or spend any more time thinking about her...that's your answer | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Why women find tattoos so hot?Don't put too much stock in tattoos, like a lot of fashion, it comes and goes. Yes, there are some badass motherfuxkers with tattoos, there is also bitch-ass wannabees too. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many older dudes think it's okay to date 18 year olds?You know what they say, don't hate the player, hate the game, bro. You should have seen the ass on this 19yo slut from last week. Hardwired into my brain, that's my explanation. Edit: i should also say i had no idea she was 19, thought maybe 23.. she asked how old i was and was perfectly happy with it. Maybe you should ask the 19 slut why she craves 30yo dick. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Get over girls once we fuckTake a break from plating. Continue to build SmV, graduate, and and zero in high quality pussy. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Are one night stands really that common as some of you make them out to be?Very common. You'd be surprised. Now what? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach - tips request for first stepsIt's different when you approach a chick when she is alone or in dyad (2) or 3 or more. If u approach a dyad i typically try engaging both to avoid getting cockblocked and I sometimes ask for both numbers or use "we" and "us" to keep them guessing. Sometimes you follow up and the girl will says youre her type or my friend thinks youre cute. Theyll sort it out. 3 or more, you can probably isolate more. But you shpuld factor that in to your approach. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?Ah, no. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Do I have a F-closable situation here?I can personally attest to this. Try it tho. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I become "alpha" despite being an innate introvert?Courage to talk and make mistakes, we are in the same boat. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 07:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I last longer??Practice bro. Practice. And Practice. Develop a rhythm. Once you bust. Take a 5 min, break, remove the condom, flush with your own eyes, relax, lay with her, grab her ass, have her blow u again, shove it on again...after 100 times, ypill learn what to do. Coincidentally, i busted 5 nuts tonight, drink water, give each nut about 15 minutes...you'll learn your body. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 05:25 AM |
| 6 | Is a ltr pointless in my early 20s?Read the sidebar. Too young to commit to marriage. You'll be eaten alive. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Im having problems with sexualityYou definitely need to talk to a therapist. If you are male seek out a male therapist. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Using prillgy/dapoxetine, anyone used them?Right, that too. you need to take at least 20 mins to recover. Go get a drink, take a piss, and then make out with her, keep her horny, and then tell her ok your turn... | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Using prillgy/dapoxetine, anyone used them?I think he meant use her hands and mouth until you're ready again. I wouldn't mess with anything on my cock, best to practice a lot so that you can last longer. The tighter the pussy, the harder it is. But that's what you want. GL. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to proceed with this match. Any advice?Well go without a chick and find out. Go with a friend. Go for dinner and watch the bar area. If you've never been to a bar, are u underage? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 06:45 PM |
| 3 | What to respond to this new Tinder user?not that hard here: you can just say, well how will we get to know each other if we don't meet... or I prefer the old fashioned way, you know, like meeting in person and talking.. or you can say, I am from x, love bunnies and cotton-candy, play a mean air-guitar, and a sucker for blondes (whatever her hair color is) and then be like "what more do you want to know?" Your proposed response, no offense, is poor. and yes, butt hurt. Tbh, i think you moved way to fast, a few more lines, before moving… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to proceed with this match. Any advice?I would have not have asked her out for the next day. I would have proposed at least two days or asked her when she is free, but that me. Mainly because I date women who are working professionals and find I get more results when I say, let's grab a drink...I'm free on Thursday at 8. What's your schedule like? I agree, do not take a Tinder Date to dinner and especially not pay for her. I would not even propose it. Drinks best, maybe coffee, or some fun activity (dancing, mini-golf, party) EDIT: I… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Found gf of colleague on tinder, do I tell him?None of your business. Don't get mixed up in this. If it were your best friend(s) then they would know you're looking out but this guy is not a close friend and who knows what she's doing. Leave it alone. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 01:26 PM |
| 18 | Fucking an older, less attractive girl for practicejust go over, have her suck you hard, put condom on, bang her as you wish...wait 20 minutes, then say I have to work in the morning, got to go, let's do that again sometime... reflect on it | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:46 PM |
| 6 | What to do when you reject a girl and she talks shit about you to some white knights who come to confront/fight you?When you are not interested in a girl next either just "would you please excuse for a moment..." and wall toward the bathroom or another bar within the club. You are walking away but have not explicitly rejected her. You may also just get her number and tell her you'll call her and leave. Just be gentle. IF SHE said take me home or let's fuck, you can just say "not tonight" give me your number/instagram/snap though. Use a family obligation, like i need to visit my mother, father, grandmother in … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Tips/advice/links for tinder dates?If you don't hear from EX wife, not wife, by 10...you could text her to ask if she has left or tell her to bounce, esp if the chick is raging hot. If the bitch is banging and ready to rock and you have everything under control, try wife, if she is bitchy and still there, hit the hotel...but only if that bitch is stellar.. gl and report back | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Tips/advice/links for tinder dates?Ok, sounds like you're best bet, since this is your first date is to follow your plan to 1. escalate as normal but either stop at going to a hotel to fuck and act as if they'll be another date which unless she's just looking for a ONS, will be fine. Or 2. escalate and be like we are going to hotel and see how she reacts. Each girl, locale, will respond differently. I dont think that'll fly qith the chicks im dating because they might think that sketchy. I probably could still close but would hav… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Tips/advice/links for tinder dates?Why not. Know where you are going though. Know the hotel, the rate, whatever. Don't want to drive to far after drinking. Could try to see if u can book online possibly. Not ideal. Better is her place or your place. You could time it right to be coming as she's going. Tricky if she asks why hotel unless you have been unfront with said about your situation. Try for her place initially. GL. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:38 PM |
| 19 | Tips/advice/links for tinder dates?Quick Guide To Banging in 2 hours or Less Tinder Sluts. Edit: Assumption: TINDER Chick is a slut down to fuck under the right conditions that you create. Arrive 5 minutes late <she will usually text you "here.") Kiss cheek and hug immediately upon greeting. If she met you out front of venue, you lead her inside and select the seating. You want to be able to easily touch and kiss her from your seat. AAA Game Bonus: if she suggests a place or says here's cool, say no, i can't touch/kiss you from t… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 06:53 PM |
| 10 | Bouncer Tales 5: Jerry's bluesI like this story in the sense that it depicts a promising young alpha turned beta-bucks who orbits his oneitis the bar slut and seemingly deluded that if he just buys her enough drinks or ingraitates himself, she'll sleep with him. Lesson, is if you see any part of you in Jerry, STOP and change that shit because you ain't banging Blue-Hair or anyone else for that matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone levels in blood test high or low?876ng here..so that make me a top man. It what respect? Reminds me of movie scene.. i think it might have been indiana jones..he says i got my top men on it, what top men, he's asked? He replies, top men.. real slow. Lol. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Accepting TRP Will Make You Unhappy: Your Choice if That's PermanentJulius Evola's article "Civilta" Americana (American "Civilization") was first published in 1945. Amazing how long ago these observations were made, yet they seem perfectly applicable to today. Maybe it is less of a decline and more of a chronic cultural stagnation. On another note, the author is critical of America but fails to see that any other culture adopting these standards are just as worthy of criticism or 'tard' worthy. Rather he states that a particular statement from an American Socio… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | The Tinder ExperimentI've done probably +5000 swipes to get 600 matches > 2 dates and 2 fucks > still plating the two. It's all about pre-selection, you should "know" before the date that you are going to f--k them and the date proceeds on that trajectory. Kiss of cheek with hug immediately, then make-out within 15 minutes-20 minutes. If she touches you at any point within the first 15 minutes and esp. during making out, you touch her back on her ass or leg or you grab the side of her neck while kissing. You maintai… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I probably broke the rule by saying an uncomfortable truth during first day of college orientation. Did I do the right thing?Yep, and watch my word, you'll be at party or something and thinking your cool, in the clear talking to people, maybe even chatting up a got chick etc.. and her friend will come and bang... you'll get "aren't you that guy from orientation who say that...x,y,z..?" And the chick you just kissed or whatever is staring you dead in the eye What's your answer? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Women have a lot of sex. It's there for the taking.don't forget when you have a LTR or steady girlfriend and 3-4 other plates, there comes a day where you want a break, so I will be like babe, I had a massive workout at the gym, I'm tired, night... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Keeping plates feels like a chore. Am I missing something?I have not had much success initiating anal with my plates, either they already love it and ask for it or they are cold to my conversations or sticking my finger in there is met with wtf? i continue to bring it up but there is not movement. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck is my ex texting me this shit?I concur. Hopefully you have a good sense of just how crazy she might be and the risk she poses to you, if you were to try to get the phone. Better to forget her and the phone. Block her and never talk to her again. Just note that this behavior might escalate her behaviors, so be careful. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Struggling socially in first few days at collegeYour on a rebuild. How did you break out your senior year? It must have taken some balls to get popular and attractive. What did u do to accomplish that? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Struggling socially in first few days at collegePrior to college you behaved in a way that others rejected you in high school and you've carried that with you. What type of behavior are we talking about: you just being different or wierd or you did some stupid shit constantly? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Struggling socially in first few days at collegeYou said yourself that you are needy for attention and approval. This likely means low self esteem despite having outward characteristics of a put together freshman. So of course you are projecting this insecurity which is picked up on and rejected. College can seem like a brutal environment but it doesn't have to be. The good news is that you have support and a map to change this, but you have to do the work. The work sounds more like personal development. Find where the insecurity come from? M… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Went monk-mode and lost desire to have sexIt's normal. Best is to wait it out and do things that increase energy levels and fitness such as sports, cardio, and lifting. Eventually your libido will return. What you previously thought was a high libido was actually artifically induced dopamine and addictive behaviors. That cycle of behavior will make you think tpu have a libido but it's actually psychological. Now that you've stopped, you are experiencing the "real" state of your affairs so to speak. You have to heal and reset your body w… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Best way to approach on campus?You could enroll in a graduate course and meet chicks on campus while learning something new. I've picked up some college chicks before, just being on campus tonuse the gym...all you one need is one, esp. a freshman and she'll be a fuck buddy for the next 4 years, esp. If you have a nice pad and car near campus. She gets to brag to her friends that she's fucking an older guy with his own apartment and car and no one on campus thinks she's a slut because you don't know anyone to start talking tha… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Lifters: What's your take on my lifting routine?both but standing barbell press should be your standard. every 6 weeks, you can do seated DB presses for additional volume to help break plateaus | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Lifters: What's your take on my lifting routine?160 lbs is tiny for your height. I can concur, I'm 195 (~18%BF) and I think I am average muscularity. I bet you are age between 16 and 21 and are a beginner. You have a four year journey ahead of you if you want to put on 25 pounds of solid mass (which should be good) while dropping BF. I think you need to rethink your program, and especially if you are young, you should train harder to take advantage of your youth. imo of course | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Stop Being Afraid of WomenStop acting so thirsty. I cannot emphasize OP's first point enough. Acting thirsty suggests a lack of abundance and desperation. This is a massive turn-off. I have had girls over my place and get turned on when they see a stray bra in my bathroom behind the door that I missed or some glitter on my cheek from the previous date an hour earlier. You can literally see them get giddy and be like " I don't wanna know.." and they are batting their eyes and you push her down and dick her again. Girls ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Field Report - Invited Tinder Girl Over, Fucked within first 5 minutes, downhill after that...Yep, L-citurlline, maca root [10g], and gingko biloba extract with tea. Just drink 1 tea of those ingredients. The gingko is usually pill form just swallow the pill with the tea. You might need to tale several doses of gingko to get the full dose which is about 240mg or so. And do cardio for 1 hr, no more and not too intense. Moderate jog (5-6mph). | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guysIt's true my market is saturated three large colleges within 5 miles disproportionately women student body (pretty much anywhere nowadays) and mid-sized city with tons of bars and clubs. But i am mostly banging college graduates. But the principles of meeting and fucking are the same whereecer you go | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 03:00 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Field Report - Invited Tinder Girl Over, Fucked within first 5 minutes, downhill after that...Straight up performance anxiety coupled with the fact you literally just met her at your door after telling her you wanted to fuck her. You set yourself up. Any pause in the action, leads the limp dick, could also suggest mild ed. Don't tell girls you want to fuck them on tinder Slow things down, get some rapport going first, so you two are both relaxed. Have condom nearby, let her blow you until when you squeeze or pump your dick muscle (not with your hand) there is a slight pressure/pain, mean… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guysIt's not that I actually dance with her (although i can) but she'll dance or shake her hips a little and it creates an acceptable atmosphere to put your hands on her waist and ass. You need to provide plausible deniability. "We were just dancing" get it? Most of the time my hand is just sitting on her waist as the music plays and we stand at the bar or club sipping our drink. Better is live music or DJ, where she stands facing the band and you stand to her side or behind hugging her or hand on w… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 10:50 PM |
| 75 | Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guyseasy way to get laid bros. have some decent pics and just invite her out for a drink within the first 4-5 texts. Meet up, arrive 5 mins late, either she will buy a drink and wait for you or you just buy the first round and by the end of the drink, kiss her, then ask her to get the next round, finish that drink and move to the next place preferably a darker and dancing venue to make out and grab her ass, in my opinion the ass grab is key to set the stage, it shows dominance and should sufficientl… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Three Harsh Truths About Cold Approach PickupIf you want results you’ll have to take considerable, consistent action – just like any other skill. I'd like to hear what you mean by "Action" Why don't you just use the word approach? tell me more? thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesU mean, walked by you to the bathroom or to leave? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Bouncer talesIf she's sucking your dick in the bathroom, that is not her BF, he just covers her entrance and buys her drinks... but sure, i bet there is some of that going on. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | do you have experience with Brazilian ChicksUpdate: kissed both of them within 15mins..strong ass grab within an hour, felt perfectly natural and they ate it up. They were the ones coming in for kissing and touching after that. Both resorted to turning and rubbing there round asses on my cock as i just sat on the bar stool sipping my beer like the mac daddy. Every now and again, i would slap there ass. Both are set up to come over for "dinner" with well established escalation that i will just likely fuck them before dinner and then afterw… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Letting our anger go and learning to enjoy women for what they areSome guys are perfectly happy being beta bucks especially if they find their unicorn. They live in a nice cozy bubble, they provide and get a hot girl to fuck. They hope it'll all work out. Sometimes it does. But once your truly RP aware, hard to accept being Billy Beta when you can be Alfredo Alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:23 PM |
| 2 | do you have experience with Brazilian Chicksyou'll have to read and translate for him, maybe the computer can translate the pages into portugues? look for it, like I just did below: você terá que ler e traduzir para ele, talvez o computador possa traduzir as páginas para os portugueses? procure por isso | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 02:13 PM |
| 3 | do you have experience with Brazilian ChicksI already had an experience with the jealousy and possessiveness, that I can handle. I don't mind providing a little comfort/reassurance. but thanks for the additional info. these Brazilians seem like a lot of fun ;-p | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 07:19 PM |
| 20 | Magic Houryou can google a venue and it will show you, in many cases, the attendance over time each day. try it. It will show you the peak attendance and then a drop off. you can calibrate using that as different venues might have different peaks but generally I find that in my city the peak for chicks is 11:45 to 12:30 and then by 1:30 it starts to level out. so that is when you would have your greatest pick of the girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 02:27 PM |
| 5 | This one thing could sum up how to get women~*Make strong eye contact This has netted me the most pussy out of all, you can't just have strong eye contact without self-confidence and frame. The eyes are the whole window to the soul thing is true, you reflect outward what is experienced inward through strong eye contact. Also, you can use your eyes to communicate a lot without words. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 06:15 PM |
| 65 | How do you have abundance mentality about girls when you have no girls?Yep, you have to start somewhere. 1. You keep it strictly sexual 2. You continue to scout for new pussy as you dominant the first plate. 3. New pussy will come because you aren't as thirsty. 3. You sexual ability will improve as you get use to treating your plate like a slut 4. You eventually get an opportunity to upgrade your pussy which you'll be more prepared for subconsciously 5. If you manage to bang the upgrade, you'll set a new bar and treat the first plate like a whore, which will build … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The Monetization of LonelinessThe quality of matches I'm shown on the PAID version is dramatically LOWER! despite being in the same location as my non paid version. My experience is the exact opposite. When I signed up for GOLD and used boost, I get about 20 likes per boost and I might match on 2-3 of them. The quality, imo, has not changed, the vast majority of women on tinder are average or worse. Now when I went abroad, the ratio of hot women jumped dramatically. So I attributed the hottest to the location I was in. When … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Plate isn’t asking me to hang after sexUmm, she has boyfriend...you are her side ass. Be quiet and let her initiate the booty call. Fuck her brains and repeat. Once you show any neediness or additional texting you become a liability to her and her relationship. Just stop and find other chicks. This is almost always the answer to any asktrp question. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 03:16 AM |
| 7 | Bouncer taleswhy get a BJ in the bathroom when you can take her home and do whatever you all night? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 08:47 PM |
| 45 | Bouncer talesYou'd be surprised how many bouncers are in some of the bars I go to. If you are not paying attention, unlike me, they'll just be standing in a corner or in the back watching, they have ear pieces and any staff can put an alert like," drunk white guy with blue polo t-shirt just asked me for another drink, I denied him, he's went to the second floor." And yes most of them are "obese" big and not ripped. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 08:39 PM |
| 21 | Bouncer talesI used to bounce at a college bar. select girls would stay after closing to get extra drinks and take their clothing off to get their body's licked with whip cream among other things and allow the owner to photograph them. These girls look like innocent little church going girls, they went to church but they were not innocent. edit: the alcohol was always involved and an excuse to act slutty. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 08:32 PM |
| 19 | Realizing I can only fuck women I develop a bond with.You don't have 1 plate. You are a plate to the chick. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Came to one of the biggest realizations of my life. My friends aren’t really my friends. DamnTrue and lasting friendships are built through mutual interest. Friendships take time to develop and both parties need to invest because they each value each other for some reason. But in the teens and early twenties people are still finding themselves and their identity, the kid that use to smoke pot, drink, and hang-out might "grew up" and pursue a career or an interest to which the old group might seem lame or just superficial. So they bounce. It happens. I've let a few friends go because the… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 04:32 PM |
| 3 | 33 yrs 5 year old dry spellI'd have to agree, there is normally a period of rapid improvement over the first 6 months of swallowing trp. But that is literally just the beginning. Take some more time to get to know this new self of yours and formulate a plan to get your own place. You might want to work a second part time job to save up for a security deposit. GL. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | The truth about circumcisiontry putting a cotton sock over your cock and jerk off...you'll see an increased in pleasurable sensation...it would make u cum faster because you would not be used to this type of stimulation. I think it is a better way to get use to fucking, particularly without a condom --if you do that. i guess that was what the foreskin did. This my anecdotal evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting after sexIt doesn't matter they ghosted you. U cant make them come back...it happens, some girls are cheating for example...some girls regretted it, some girls were experimenting...in the end, you just find another slut, there are millions of them...i see them every weekend...i bet ypu cpuld crush tons of sluts if you just adopted a cold hearted approach... just reverse the mentally guy want to get laid, so do girls..all they do is spread there legs...and they are filled with semen...ive done it...just d… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Why Your Frame SucksFrame is basically your psychologically framework. Your worldview. If you make assumptions predicted on any BP tenets, you have a chink in your armor and women will eventually find it. Or you'll never develop a strong enough frame bc u believe in oneitis or other white knight shit, you literally have to burn or purge all that shit out like razing a city to the ground...aint easy but its rhe shre proof way to ensure a strong frame...if u have depression or anxiety.. you have to deal with that too… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 04:18 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts on Coach Red Pill's "You Can Get Any Girl (Money and Looks Don't Matter)" videoLooks and money are part of the pillars of attraction but there's a lot more to it. Social skills are critical and of course confidence. If you approach a girl within your social class (money) who thinks your cute (looks) you need confidence and game to bring her home but not a tremendous amount. So its better to say everything matters kinda...best to maximize all those pillars to achieve success. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Nearly had sex with a younger girl last night, how to make sure I don't fuck it up?This all shit i had to learn on my own...you are guys lucky in some sense to have this resource. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.My sense is that throughout the last half century women have had slutdom on hyperdrive, and probably for a period late sixities and early seventies...hippie culture and drugs turbocharged that shit even more. ..there was a backlash for a moment but i think after clinton stuck his cigar up Monica's pussy...the gloves came off..or some other pun that i am not going to think of... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Ghosting after sexDon't worry about it, the fact u posted this suggests you still need to swallow the pill fully. But also, you have the notion that women should act like men or have virtue. Lose that idea. She wanted to fuck and you were there. There are a thousand reasons why girls ghost after a ONS... get the next one. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Nearly had sex with a younger girl last night, how to make sure I don't fuck it up?She blew you and didn't let you cum? Shows no dominance. I would soft next her, let her invite you over and i at any sign of a repeat be ready to stand up and put your pants and walk out. In fact, i would go right to fuck her but you could run into "im not ready" stop etc.. the fact that she didn't at least make u cum or jerk u off is a red light, a cock tease...GL. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girl invited me to her house for first date, I didn’t go.Probably, no pussy is worth bodily harm or any risk. I'd be leery of going to a girl's place without ever meeting her, esp, if she invited me over. I would at least get her number and call her up to chat a bit. Feel her out. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | What if your wife did this?I would focus on you, being a good wife... he's got to sort his shit out. Certainly be straight up and tell him how you feel using "I" statements. It makes me feel sad when i see you like this. Be supportive and understanding where you can. If you have a life apart from him, use that to get you through. If not, start building one. GL. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/07/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What if your wife did this?Got ya. Have you played any role in this? Maybe their was a loss in the family, temporal stressor he hasnt resolved? GL. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/07/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What if your wife did this?You can lead a horse to water... i would ask yourself why now? You choose him in the beginning the way he was, now you want a change??? Tell me more. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/07/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | To What Extend "Don't Shit Where You Eat" Applies?just a caveat, at the gym, i think it's a bit different if girls shows IOIs and she's fit AF...and just DTF. You are not the one coming on to her or hitting on her without any IOIs. The risk is that you don't fuck her good enough but if you manage to, and have a convo with her that NSA etc... it could be handled quite well. I don't quite agree that it indicates a scarcity mentality per se. It's more like an opportunity to fuck a hot, fit chick staring you right in the face and she's showing inte… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How often do girls escalate to sex ON you?i invited a girt over that I made out in the bar the previous weekend. in the text leading up to the invite, I hinted at sexual activity to which she joked back, used winks etc... if you are inviting girls over, try to hint a little or test for their sexual receptivity. even if they don't reply with clear DTF indicators, you have set the tone so they know what you are interested in... even with the girl I had made out with and clearly indicated I wanted to fuck, I took it slow with her, wine, co… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate ityou can't control what the girls do...like it or not. stop bitching. if you don't like sluts then stay away from them. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:29 PM |
| 3 | You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every DayWasnt it the other way around...you know before monotheism?, | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Does an increase in Testosterone lead to a decrease in the amount of sleep your body needs?I had the same result, i wake up after 6.5-7 hours. I attribute it to caffine and eating late making it harder to fall asleep on time. So i go to bed late but wake up for work at the same time. Although ive tried to not drink coffee or pre work after noon, i still had the same result. I normally can just sleep and sleep...not anymore. Also i am not tired during the day and i can workout fine...could be seasonal with summer and longer days.. just as an aside, you assume an increase in testosteron… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | What have you older guys (30's+) done to improve your social skills and game?I've never experienced interference from older chicks, maybe because i look younger than my age. Maybe u live in a smaller metro or suburb were people know each other. Even then, i would not worry imo.. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 11:55 AM |
| 3 | What have you older guys (30's+) done to improve your social skills and game?To be interesting, you have to be interested. Your conversations can include questions about the other person. Ask follow up questions or "what do you think about x, y, or the latest movie, album, political event...?" To improve you have to practice, so make it a habit to strike up conversations with anyone, even small talk. If you can, spend time with children or teenagers, if you have a niece or cousin or friend's kid, make an effort to ask them about their interests. You'll find out new vocab… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | "I've never met someone like you"Either a simple..thanks and move the conversation on... or you could milk it, with "tell me more about that" with a huge smirk. You might get a little insight into what's she digging about you... | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 11:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if a girl is the town whore?Can confirm that she will walk up to guys on the street and hug them. Usually a strong sign of the town slut. Guys will joke who is she going to bang tonight. It usually well known. Just ask...or listen. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 12:14 AM |
| 35 | Feel your emotions, don't express themWithin most contexts dont cry in front of women but there a few that are acceptable places. Edit: funerals, learning of someone's death, particularly of a child, narrowing avoiding imminent death... crying is multidimensional, it shouldnt only be associated with fear and weakness. There are tears of joy, like a sports team winning a championship for the first time ever, or watching your kid grow up and graduate college... The shit you don't want to do, is cry in the face of women who just cracke… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 06:26 PM |
| 115 | Feel your emotions, don't express themCrying is important, it provides an emotional release, a discharge of painful emotions. It allows you to move on from experiences and develop clarity. It also serves to elicit the support and comfort of others. It's completely human to cry. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with nice guys?Nice is too general of a term. I think readers confuse it. I think it needs to change. A lot of posts rehash the semantics of nice vesus good versus jerks etc.. So far, my buddy has managed to marry an attractive, college educated women being a "nice guy" things seem to be working for him. He just goes along with what she wants, bought a home for them to live in, spend 90% of his free time with her, lets her have girls night out, supports her getting a job..he does everything for her, she is hap… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys here get fuck buddies without going on dates? Meaning her coming straight to your house or vice versaAll depends. Some girls will come over your place if you interact correctly...give her some basic information, a few pics, take about sex upfront...if they are looking for a hookup and think you're hot...they'll come over. Or meet for a drink and then come back. Totally makes sense. Just because a girl comes over right away doesnt mean you're alpha, some girls are dumb... | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The effects of monk mode for 2 months at age 38Great job. Have you been to your primary care physician for a complete physical and blood work up?? I would do that before you train any more (or any more intensely) because after smoking for that long, your cardiovascular system among others can't be in good shape. Take it easy...good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | My experiment running "asshole game"I agree it's risky. I am certainly not advocating just grabbing ass... the ass grab is suited after rapport and interest are developed. And certainly calibrated when you have isolated her or at least not while her friend is looking or in the convo. I wouldn't consider it a terrible move, its worked for me, so far. I'd say its part of an escalation tactic. Maybe a 5% frequency move. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Hostile reaction to giving redpill adviceYou basically choose the nuclear option, and blam, he walks. You provided no context, no lead up to how you arrived at these conclusions, you hit him stone cold hard as fuck... too much, too soon. I think you could introduced the concept of dread and how could just say No to her and then go about increasing his SMV...lift, find a mission, be more unavailable, flirt with other women, etc.. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 03:16 AM |
| 2 | You're not her top optionCan not emphasize the OP's astute observations. My mantra is that people, in this case women "acts towards things they value" If she is not hitting you up or responding to you, it's a sign, a very clear sign. They'll be chicks at bars waiting for their booty call from the guy they are obsessed with. Sure you have a chance but once that call comes in, she is gone. So you might be tempted to think you can get her next time. Well the better play is to create your own bullpen of girls rather than wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 12:16 AM |
| 5 | My experiment running "asshole game"I sorta did an experiment with a friend one night, he seemed to think that because I was attractive, that I would only need to talk confidently, nicely with girls at the bar. you know small talk, where are you from, what do you do, and where are you travelling, blah, blah... well once I had a few drinks that went out the window, I did the old ass grab and I banged both of those girls...maybe I just have an inner ass grab radar but I think maybe only once, I've gotten in 'hot water' for doing it,… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | 3 Year MRP progressWhat happened to your male friendships? Ate you still isolated or are ypu just getting dread sex more frequently because she knows you have options? I'd say thats the just start, you left a lot on the table, no? Your wife maintain her sexiness, body, and overall catering to your needs? Give you free time? Are you making more money? Got a side hustle going? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Never thought it would be me, but I want to commit suicide and feel trappedIf you really feel bad, you can call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room, get help. Talk to someone. You'll look back one day and say gosh, thank god I didn't do anything stupid. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Sick of young girlswell, then this is perfect because if you are focusing on your mission then you'll be less available to them, they'll crave your attention and 'caveman' cock..some might drop off but you'll be able to deal with a few... my advice, if you can pull 20 year olds, then my god bro, pull them when you can...just don't get into a LTR type situation with one... | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Sick of young girlsWhat do you mean by savages? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Met girl at club, started grinding, moved into isolation...couldn't f close....why?Umm, way too thirsty. You didn't lead with her at points. Plenty girls will grind and not fuck...their called cock teases. Better to lay back and be chill, let her come to u..some. investment by her as a qualifier. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | "Why are you on tinder?" How do you respond?I said to a girl after two or three back and forth, "Just to be upfront, I am in to kinks, in case that's a deal breaker for you..." she just replied, "I am into bdsm..." and the conversation focused on all the things she loved to try... after a single photo I sent her (sweaty topless with a belt in my hand," ...she replied with her number, and when can we meet? EDIT: DGAF, say what you want but be socially sensitive about it. girl asks you a question do your best to set your frame... my sentenc… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Do some girls only like certain types or is it always AF/BB?this seems to be the correct answer and often is the ANSWER to a lot of these questions... that's what I tell myself. move on, there WILL BE another. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Do some girls only like certain types or is it always AF/BB?The guy who cares and invests too much is going to lose because he's lost the power. Women can read this via the way you talk, or what your body language conveys. someone on here has termed the idea of 'beta fucks' On first thought, it sounded like a massive male hamster. I wonder what your take on that is? It's the idea, I think, that you can be beta but still pull quality tail. I suppose it's the idea that if you show enough beta to get a girl hooked, you can get her. Like drive a nice car, bi… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever felt like there is this standard that you must upkeep if the girl already lives a certain lifestyle? like has a great house/car/clothes?Yeah don't buy into it. Some of these girls, who i know, may travel with the intent of taking these glamour photos on some poor bb dime. They spend all thier time focused their status. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 02:23 AM |
| 2 | What's your best Redpill-wise advice for me?I just wanted to echo number #3. I've definitely alienated myself from other men acquaintances by being too personal or deep, like about game, life, and other topics such as politics...you know u go out for drinks and after a couple you start shooting the shit, well you are bound to disagree or offend someone before you had a chance to establish any real trust or rapport. Had you just keep it superficial and focused on women or sports for a few months maybe that comment about immigration or marr… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:17 AM |
| 4 | "You can have a threesome with me and *boyfriend* if you want, he said it's cool." - Boyfriend is moving away. Potential plate?I mean it's ok, we also took turns banging her solo, that was more fun. I wasn't really focused on him. The thing is these sorts of girls are open to lots of things so you know you can do shit with her solo which is what we did. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Women Will Be Sexual With Lesser Alpha Orbiters To Keep Them Hooked (Trap for Advanced Gamers)This only applies to women you have not fucked correct? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 02:26 AM |
| 5 | Confessions of a fine dining waiter (response to Destroyer Chad)I suppose the take away and there are a few, is that women married to powerful and rich men get there rocks off "behind their backs." I suppose as long as these husbands were in fact banging the 20 something..it's all good. But stay alert. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Girl coming over for dinner.Wine, can let her choose. I prefer white so you and she dont get that red on your lips and teeth etc.. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Girl coming over for dinner.Try to relax and be outcome independent as someone has already said. Don't go into this thinking I got to get laid. Do be able to tell a few stories about yourself, hold eye contact, and smile here and there. Have a few pictures around of family and your friends. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Why Giving Too Much Information Is BadI needed this reminder. Less is more. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 03:48 AM |
| -2 | When Should a Man Apologize to a Woman?I would apologize if you open hand slap a ONS across the face during sex and it wasn't received well, then just make sure and fuck her good... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Dare The Red Pill.its not the act of lifting and dressing well, it's the psychological by-product of those activities that gets you IOIs. You literally have changed your brain by lifting and projecting an image to women by dressing well, that you will feel different and slowly act different... | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Dare The Red Pill.believe me there are guys swimming in so much pussy, the average incel will hang himself immediately if he only knew the amount of debauchery that goes on. so when you hear of dudes banging 100s of women, do not think that way... imagine yourself in those situations, because I can tell you, it's real. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | My plate just told me she had a gangbang with 5 guys not sure how to reactthere you go! everybody is happy. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | My plate just told me she had a gangbang with 5 guys not sure how to reactAhh, pussy that's why... dudes wanted to fuck, it's alot more common than you think. Also, some poor dudes can pool there money together to pay a high end escort that they couldn't afford... Also sometimes only one girl at the party is hot, the alpha grabs her and offers her up to his boys after he fucks her...this shit is common. Nobody is looking at each other dicks etc... fuck the chick and bounce... | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 03:45 PM |
| 4 | My plate just told me she had a gangbang with 5 guys not sure how to reactAhh, pussy that's why... dudes wanted to fuck, it's alot more common than you think. Also, some poor dudes can pool there money together to pay a high end escort that they couldn't afford... Also sometimes only one girl at the party is hot, the alpha grabs her and offers her up to his boys after he fucks her...this shit is common. Nobody is looking at each other dicks etc... fuck the chick and bounce... | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 03:45 PM |
| 2 | My plate just told me she had a gangbang with 5 guys not sure how to reactJust follow up with her about protection and getting tested. If she's clean, then keep her around for your sexual whims. Communication is key, since the stakes are high: pregnancy, stds, and other drama. She already seems very open about her sexual activity, i would encourage that so you know what's she's doing. As long as she is obedient and respectful to you, no drama, and of course os attractive, she merits keeping around for the time being. Of course you've got to figure out why she is shari… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 02:59 PM |
| 7 | My plate just told me she had a gangbang with 5 guys not sure how to reactId imagine and not in all cases, the girl wanted this and invited or just openly declared i want to be gangbanged and the guys were like ok, and they all got off...i doubt the five guys got together and said ok lets find a girl we can gangbang. Girl driven in most instances. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Do girls start hopping on the cock carousel once in college?true and can come out of college in 100s if they are not studious types who study a lot and don't party. In college I had a freshman girl (my senior year) just come over at night just so she can suck my cock because as she would say I just love to suck..after a while it got old because she wasn't lying, felt like a vacumm cleaner at times | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lift for strength or size?You should be lifting for strength if you are a beginner. get your bench, squat, and dead-lifts up to your body weight for 3 sets of 8-10. Learn the form, learn your body, and then start to tailor your program based on your initial results. I started off in college doing traditional body building 3 sets of 10-12 reps, it's a decent middle ground, as I got stronger, I did pyramiding like by adding weight until I could only do 1 rep. Now I train within the 6 to 8 range typically because I feel lik… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Meeting gf's parents for the first time, should I buy them a gift?good advice. definitely calibrate yourself to the class of the family so as NOT to alienate yourself. yes, its a bit superficial and you have to stereotype a bit but that's life. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Meeting gf's parents for the first time, should I buy them a gift?a positive attitude towards the OP from the father esp., will enhance his value and lead to more approving seeking sex. Parents are different, he's already supplicating himself by coming to her home for dinner which means he is already allowing the beta-zation to occur. He might as well not rock the boat at this point. without any other background information, its hard to tell.. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Meeting gf's parents for the first time, should I buy them a gift?yes, either bring a bottle of wine (15-$25) or a small thing of flowers to be placed in the vase within the living or dining room (maybe kitchen if it's an open format). You immediately shake the father hand and look him in the eye and stand there holding eye contact <don't stare>, let him invite you to sit down or offer you a drink. Assuming the mother answers, you hand the gift to her... the rest, well, talk a little bit about yourself, enough to give them some follow up questions...good luck | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:21 PM |
| 18 | Accidentally swiped Tinder matches right in front of my date. Then she offered to come back to my place.if she suggested that you leave, she was fucking horny and basically all you had to do was show up and play it really cool...I bet she was like, I want to get this over with so let's go, she led. Let me know if she is contacting you again to slam..seriously, I'd be curious. Maybe, if you really rocked her good... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Statistical Proof: 20% of Men Dominate 60% of the Sexual Marketlooked at more microscopically among a set of 100 men and 100 women. 20 men are banging 50 to 60 of those girls (2.5 to 3 partners). Leaving the remaining 80 suckers only 40 to 50 women to choose from. Does this not mean that 30 to 40 men are shit out of luck? I think it does for 1) the bottom 50 to 40% are less attractive and 2) there has to be some of them not getting any at all, particularly when those women at the bottom will hold out for the chance with the top 20%. The article was written … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The First Commandment. Go LIFT.If anyone said that negative shit to me, id drop em like a bad habit. Fuck em. Spend much less time with them. Go out and game girls...they'll change their attitude real quick but either way, keep them at a distance as long as they are saying neg shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | 23 virgin want to bang a hooker with the "gf expierence" but where do I find that?I was 17, i had a plan to lose my vcard with my girlfriend. We both cut school, i drove my mom's car to her school parking lot where she was waiting. I drive her home, climbed through the window, opened the door, and took her straight to my sisters room because she had an AC. I fucked her doggy style without a condom and came almost instantly. I don't remember much else. But i did it. You can too. Spend the 200 on new clothing, a haircut, and some pocket change for drinks and a cab. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 05:27 PM |
| 3 | The Truth about MarriageThanks for taking the time to explain that dynamic. In your case, you were putting your life on hold to do things for a woman that she should or could have done for herself way more than you should have. It lower your value significantly and they couldn't handle when you said no. Edit: let me ask, when you did say no, and they flipped out, what happened next? Did they start treating you differtently, call you names, what did the NO period look like... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | The Truth about Marriagei want to know why you think it is "foolish" to marry a woman in her 30s, I understand what "the wall" is. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | The Truth about Marriageyou are a fool if you marry a woman any older what do you mean by this statement? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The Truth about Marriageyeah because liberal college turn men into beta bitches and the college female graduate gets what she wants, a bitch male with high income who will pander to her etc..and not cheat on her etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The Truth about Marriageand don't turn into her bitch. What are some examples of this type of behavior(s)? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Keeping in touch with girls over the LONG TERM?This is my experience unless.... 1) you were one of her firsts 2) you rocked the shit out of her (just right amount of whisky dick) or 3) she was so enchanted that she'll never forget you (visting a foreign city or your game was out of this world). And a maybe a distant 4) is that you were at the time viewed as a top alpha and she hasn't been able to replace you. She circles back. Otherwises girls move on. Tables turn. Your just another horse. You had your turn. LESSON: Accept it and keep the st… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Getting out of vanilla sexTell her lay down on the floor, squat down over her face and tell her to lick your ass, while your massive quads burn you jerk off and cum over her body as she lies there wiping her cum all over her body totally turned on that your vanilla ass broke the monotony. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | "You are fine, you are a cute boy, but I am looking for a man."well i guess it's moot but if you don't care..then a no response should have been the move. delete her from the phone. done. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Secretary hitting on me?take her for a drink, have fun, make her laugh, keep it lite...give her one or two small glimpses of your personal life but nothing deep... like some trip you took to x or your favorite book or bar. Then see what she remembers over the next several weeks..if she is interested she will use that as an anchor of sorts...on the last week of your internship, you can invite her out or over and bang her...and then say something sweet, like i wish I did not have to leave or "we could have been doing thi… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 02:52 PM |
| 5 | "You are fine, you are a cute boy, but I am looking for a man.""welp, alright then" bad response, sounds butthurt and like you are giving up and don't care...meak. second as others have said don't re-engage a woman on non sexual terms...you allow yourself to be seen as beta to her. IN the end, fuck her.. move on. That's where you are getting stuck. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Not Going Naturallet me explain, she expected you to provide some validation and you gave her some crumbs.. on some level she recognizes this, probably frustrated because other men have done that, she senses the games you are playing, hence "not natural." Off the jump I just sense that she likely has over-inflated her value, she's probably not all that but wants to be treated like a princess.. she's trying to manipulate you. She might think you are weak. So I agree, just ignore her and move on...don't try to con… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Woman(26F) looking for advice on situation and in general"...if you’ve committed yourself to someone?" First, look at that statement above. Sounds one way to me. You are saying one of you (him or you) have committed to the other. That's a one way street. Are you saying he has committed himself to you? Second, the word train might seem harsh to you but let's just change it to "coach" does that sound better to you? The assumption is that the man is the leader of the family unit, therefore, it is his job to train or coach or instruct or lead you to be an… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 02:26 PM |
| -2 | Any tips on dealing with woman who feels like you're too high value SMV compared to her?she doubts you because you are with her (insecure). I'd say you should accelerate this out and soft next her for a week. Yes you are semi-god and you are (probably) banging other chicks, and she should be gracious you are paying her any attention...this way she'll work harder for your attention when you are with her. DON'T take it easy on her and risk failing down to mere mortal status... such a let down and she'll bounce cause you are just whatever... that's my take | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 02:15 PM |
| 2 | A question regarding Game/PUA for RedPillersThere's being a dick for no reason, being mean, cruel, and offensive. A high value man doesnt need to act in such a fashion. Then there is not caring what other people think or doing what other people expect, not having the same opinion because you don't care if they like you or not. You don't give in to others, you might command them to do something. You're selfish because you put yourself first. You make sure your needs are met etc.. if thats any asshole well, you're just being an independent … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/18 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Becoming more relaxed around women"If you regress into the unattractive characteristics of betas..." IF you have fucked a girl multiple times and she's really into you, AND you are still walking on eggshells...then you have still have serious work to do on yourself. You are still probably the 'nice guy type' beta male that is YES man, people pleasers. So you basically got really lucky and will likely fuck it up...you have not REGRESSED. That's my take. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | "Lifting" Is Not Enough"I fully believe that's because you finally gave yourself permission to start acting like an alpha." Maybe. But I know that people will start to comment to me about my physique even after I started to "act more alpha." People at work, people from around the block, friends, plates... I was already implementing TRP when I knew these people...so, I do think that having an attractive physique can create attraction with women (and men) even if you are already confidence etc.. The same is true for wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping with too many girlsOut of curiousity what is your n count at 14yo? I know youth are getting to sex earlier but at your age, I'd be careful not to knock a chick up so young you're parents and her parents would have to raise it. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How much does size affect SMVI'm 6 and 195 probably 15% bf. I were a large, fill the sleeves out but i consider myself skinny. Adding 20lbs and you'll be solid. Most likely likely going to be in your legs though. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 04:18 AM |
| 2 | How to really succeed at Tinder (not just another Tinder guide, this is a detailed Tinder roadmap)I agree. I've left some in the queue until I knew I had time that day or night to pursue them. I've been so busy that they just accumulate, and I was smart enough not to open them... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | How to really succeed at Tinder (not just another Tinder guide, this is a detailed Tinder roadmap)I have approximately 456 matches in my queue. What would you recommend I do? I generally just swiped right massively and used boost and only pursued the ones that would respond to my overt sexual advance. thoughts? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 08:56 PM |
| 4 | How to go out solo to a bar and pickup?(without looking like a creep)You have to first be comfortable in your own skin, bw able to step out of your head, and go with the flow. So half the battle starts before you even wall into a bar or club or other social environment. Going solo into bar to pick up girls is not for everyone. So self assess your abilities and comfort confidence level. It seems you have some level because you have already tried. It takes basic social skills to see who is open and is into talking. You need tp able to see yourself as others might s… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What to do with my beta friend who holds me back?this is the best thing to do because just as you "discovered" TRP, your friend may experience insight himself and then he will grow. However, in the meantime, it is best to expand your network of friends and don't share so much with this other friend about your sexual conquests. If it comes up, just keep the info to the basics, "yeah I went out on a date, it was cool, banged her, not my type..." downplay your success and change subject. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Garment care and you. Why it matters and how to do it.I just dropped $800 on clothing, I am set for a few years. Nordstrom Rack and Premium Outlets buy spring.summer in the winter and winter in the summer to get big discounts on high end clothing. I use to rock cheap sweats and t-shirts to the gym, now I have dry-fit, fitted athletic wear that I look great walking to and from the gym where I grab tons of looks... at the end of the day, the man makes the clothing. Worship in the Iron Church.1 | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Stuff has ChangedTrue but who the fuck is clicking on that shit when their jerking off and hanging around after they clean there pipes. I guess there is money there cause they keep pumping out the smut. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 3 | The power of not getting her numberi randomly exchanged numbers with a girl at the bar. an hour later she texted me to say where are you>? Well, I took her home and banged the shit out of her...always tell the girl to text you her number by giving them your number first...even take her phone and enter your number in their phone and text yourself... that;'s how I do it | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 19 | Stuff has ChangedThe porn is free, so i don't get how the industry is making money at this point. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting your ass kicked.Avoid fighting at all costs since it presents with enormous risks even if you are justified or in the legal right to defend yourself. Even big strong guys get sucker punched. The world is not fair and most people don't fight fair. If possible, change the scene or bar area you go to. Most guys that are being disrespectful are low class losers or entitled colleges kids with beer muscles. Avoid them. And if you need to fight or feel compelled, pick your battles and hit first. Typically, in a street… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | BulliedBuy a secret video recorder and record the idiots bullying you. Gather enough evidence to make the school take action or have your parents sue the kids directly. Parents dont care, retain a lawyer yourself "pro bono" if you can or sue the kids yourself. GL. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Might need 60k to finish last year of university, is it worth it?Sure, there are those types. But is that going to be OP? He wouldn't be on reddit asking such a question imo. Maybe if this was op freshman year or something, he's too close to drop with no solid plan b. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Might need 60k to finish last year of university, is it worth it?I dont know anyone that doesn't have a degree, the ones that don't aint doing shit, college is a rite of passage for the upper class...best to get it dome and move one is my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Might need 60k to finish last year of university, is it worth it?Degrees are important even if you don't work in the field of your major. They have social cache and while his credits wont vanish, what is the op going to do in the meantime?? He still has to pay, he can work and save up to 60k, good luck it qill take him years. And motivation and other shit happens. Get the degree done and move on, its one year. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Might need 60k to finish last year of university, is it worth it?Just get the degree and move on...65k is probably average debt for a college graduate. A college degree is a passport socially up the ladder. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Might need 60k to finish last year of university, is it worth it?One year left or be a college drop out. Do u actually have the 60k in your bank account? | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Might need 60k to finish last year of university, is it worth it?1 year left for 60k and you'll have a Bachelors? Do it. Or transfer to less expensive college if you really worry about the money | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if youre intelligent or average?Most people fall with one standard deviation of the mean on IQ test in both directions. That means roughly 68% average to below average. That's about 2 out of 3 people. Also, did you graduate from college or graduate school, another general indicator of intelligence. Intelligence is a general term, there are varipus forms keep that in mind as well. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:49 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many gay dudes like meShrug it off dude.. you probably present as clean cut, attractive, and well dressed likely also social, tolerant, and friendly. Its bound to happen. Say thanks but no thanks. Or im flattered but i have a girlfriend or im straight. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | something is wrong with my shoulder what should i do?There are probably some exercises you can for the shoulder to rehab it a bit. I believe there is yputube video on that issue that I watched that made sense. But your legs can be worked no? Work them. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 10:16 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid relationship and just have sex?Yep, ignore, escalated, push.. even tell her you'll think about as you grab her ass. If she is not receptive or after the second time of this just soft next her for awhile. But sont get sucked in and don't spend time or money on her... | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 09:05 PM |
| 15 | Anybody else noticing more blackpill/incel-esque posts making it onto the main sub?Not really, but what do you mean by black pill? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The Laws of LiftingWell some people like my workout partner drop the weight and count to 30 sec for each rep for 1 set of 8-10 reps and say thats equalivant to doing 3-5 sets of the same exercise because of the same total tut. I don't buy it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The Laws of LiftingI've heard mixed things about TUT. Form being absolutely a must to total non-sense. I think you choose a few exercises the use TUT but otherwise a slow controlled tempo is ideal imo. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I have four months to go from a Beta Bitch to an Alpha. How do I change?First, why don't you worry about "learning" and mastering your major and really important skills that you'll need later like writing and public speaking for example. Social skills are important for sure but it'll take more than 4 months to change your behaviors (emotional system/psychology). Change is a gradual process. Small changes over a long period of time add up. Second, continue to read the sidebar and practice and apply those concepts seek feedback on your weaknesses. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Are threesomes realistic?Same here 2 times, both times the girls were "best friends" and felt like sisters. One girl blew me so the other one could fuck me. The one was visiting her friend and staying at her place... perfect storm Are they realistic, sure. Id say keep your ears open for these type of girls (beasties)...grabbing two randoms probably unrealistic for the average guy. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to Better React To Women’s Fluctuating EmotionsBecause a) womens brains are wired that way.. they can good to zero to 60 and back to 0.. like a lambo in 2 seconds... it could be called "poor emotional regulation" but thats not pc. b) the initial emotional reaction was just a manipulation so when they are caught or it doesnt work or they get what they want they srop the act.. those are two quick ones right there | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 01:11 AM |
| 2 | How to Better React To Women’s Fluctuating EmotionsI just read the title..first are you reading sidebar? Cause its called frame, abundance, and not giving a fuck... don't be an an unnecessary asshole or cruel... but dont pay much attention to their emotions and shit tests...if they cross the line withdraw attention for a period of time, theyll get the message, what you dont do is get sucked in, dont prove yourself etx... | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Keep second guessing myself all the time.Stop guessing by telling yourself that you cant look back nor go back to change the past...so what's the point of unnecessary anxiety. You have to start catching yourself when yourself guess and shut it down immediately with self talk. Eventually you learn to tall to yourself more compassionately...it's a habit and takes time...good luck. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | When it's been a while since you've had sex...Just out with friends and talk to girls. They are out for the same thing, standing there waiting for a guy to approach them. Ex. Last night i was standing next to a few girls talking.. one of them, i was there bday...someone mentions tequila shots, the girl next to me says to me.. will you do one with me.. ? I say... ill do one ON you...lets see i want to lick the salt off your neck... she clearly liked that. Then i tell her to scam the beta guy to buy us a round.. she smiles hard and we laugh t… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How to hook a set?Stop using the word "set." As someone mentioned read more of the sidebar... youre falling flat because youre still one dimensional. It's ok, but nows the time to refine yourself a bit and act more naturally. Always assume attraction btw... | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Asking for “space”It's not about worrying about it. Quite the opposite. But thats what she is telling him That's what "space" means in girlspeak.. 99% of the time. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 02:32 AM |
| 16 | Asking for “space”Space means she's has, is about to, or intends to fuck another guy or guys. You're done at this point. Accept this and go complete radio silent and do not respond to her texts, unless its I'm sorry...in which case, you immediately fuck her and kick her out. Any other response and you'll forever be a bitch to her. Sorry. GL. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Got my first HB10 on the first try. Always go after your 10’s! (Long but good story) Feedback and thoughts appreciatedWait what? OP says "its NOT LIKE I GOT LAID OR ANYTHING? If so, delete this post asap. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How I Manage My LTRI mean I wouldn't think too much into. If the two of you enjoy it that's cool...as long as you are doing it out of genuine love of eating pussy. I'm just saying its different if she is or you feel you must do this or feel guilty about it because you want her to suck your dick. Barring that scenerio, it is true that you are placing yourself in a submissive position to her, maybe unconsciously that fact is registered by her brain... its unclear if that lowers your smv or not...and that is to say a… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Can I change my GF's attitude of BJs?I did even take one step towards the door before she said "okaaaay" in a childish whining voice... | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How I Manage My LTRWhat if you genuinely like eating pussy, to eat his own. ;-) But i am referring to it, as if a girl is making you do it or saying you have to go first before she ll blow you etc.. eating her pussy is a naturally submissive position you place yourself in. Just be careful, she.might view it differently and view you differently too | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/18 04:38 PM |
| 22 | Can I change my GF's attitude of BJs?Really only one way to handle this: if she refuses to go down on you, you get up and say i can't do this anymore and leave. That's what i did and she immediately reversed course and sucked my dick and did so everytime since then. Abundance and frame. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Are the women that approach me a good indicator of my leagueYep, the reference to the word league as in say baseball is the game your playing... you play with women to fuck them...thats the game right? So look at the women your fucking and you will see what league your in... bitches who approach are playing the game yes but are ypu winning the game or are you just giving them valdiation ?? Edit: i can to a mlb game and be a fan but i aint playing. Or be on the team and i can ride the pine, still aint shit. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What should I do at gym based on my big 3 lifts.Farmers walk, weighted dips, bent over one arm rows, and Fucking pull-ups bro. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:20 AM |
| 5 | I'm a 22 year old maleYour welcome, it's also human to be sad, maybe you do just need a hug, nothing wrong with that either. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 6 | I'm a 22 year old maleYes life...when look at objectively can seem pointless. However, we can choose to create a point to our lives. That's what makes us human imo. Right now ypu haven't found a point or perhaps are too depressed to get back in touch with your dreams. Get up and get back out there.. find meaning or create your own. GL. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 12:05 AM |
| 6 | I'm a 22 year old maleAny idea why? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | My sex life is broken, even 20 mg Cialis doesn't help. How can I fix this?I think this is a significant problem...what about anal sex? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Erectile Dysfunction has lead me to become a BetaProbably a combination of factors. I wouldnt worry about cheating or ethics. Your goal is dominance, dominant men dominate others, esp women right? That being said you in my view have clear performance anxiety that may be rooted in a perceived or false problem. Ypu may have an underlying ED issue that is made worse by your anxiety. So your goal is to resolve this issue asap. Probably could rectify in short order with one or two doctors visits to eliminate an organic cause. Once ypu know what you… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:21 AM |
| 20 | The Three Types of Red Pill HatersReal quick anecdote: years before I found redpill i was on a date. Things were going well and i was ordering a food/meal for us. After the meal i then order dessert. While we were waiting for it to come, i said to her, so.... <paraphasing>...things are going well, we seem to click, what do say about another date...something to that effect. She shook her head..and said No...i don't think so... that really pissed me because i just feed her and appeared to me we clicked. I said to the waiter cancel… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?I dont see the inherent problem with banging a pro assuming she doesn't have a STD. If you like to fuck hot girls and its 200 or so (or ypu can afford it) then whats the difference if you pay for it, we live in psuedo capitalist society, you practically pay for everything one way or another... | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | 33 years old. Never had girlfriend. Socially isolated.You don't have your priorities straight. Build male friendships based on common interest. I don't inherently desire male friendships either but they useful and necessary. Is your physical and financial house in order, if not, start there. Otherwise make a friend or two to get out in the world. Anti-anxiety medications ineffective? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 01:49 AM |
| 1 | A few questions regarding the soft nextYeah "brush it off" as hard is it might appear because they'll have it seem like you just nuked Japan and shit. Don't fall i to the trap. I use the line "youre psycho, crazy, sick..."...thatll piss them off a bit more but redirect them towards that comment rather the soft next. GL. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Random Thoughts While Watching Random Thots"I'm not a slut.." silence and keep banging...I have yet to have a girl take offense when she's in my bed of course | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Game topic: Cold Readingthe thing is, I generally get it right and they get intrigued...great skill to have and a great way to build attraction/value... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 08:23 PM |
| 4 | How to go from vanilla sex to kinky - a guide.The last five girls I fucked, I did anything I wanted, ass slap, hair pull, called a slut or some derivative (only one objected and one insisted), face slapping, forced oral with hand on pony tail...variety of girls, working professionals. Just do it...they love it | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 01:22 AM |
| 5 | According to Mark Manson, is natural game the only way?Game attracts women that play games. If your smv is decent, all you have to do is say hello. Holding frame is "game" if game is defined as developing attraction and seducing women. Reading pua books are only good when they lead men to talk to women, just fuxking smirk/smile and say hi. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain frame in an argument/fight?Always be the one to punch first if need too. It's never failed me. Most dudes can't take a punch. After you hit him, step back and tell her to fuck off or you'll put him in a hospital ...if he took a solid hit and hes not scared of you then reassess. Ypu. An then Back peddle and be like i don't want no trouble or u can double down and go toe to toe. It's good for the soul. I grew up fighting, as long as you're not getting jumped or stabbed etc. type situation, you can just be.. ok you won;and l… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:23 AM |
| 2 | I’m Broke and in DebtFirst thought, sell BMWs. Focus on selling very expensive things. I am not sure if commissions dropped over the years, but ypu dont need a college degree to sell cars. Read everything u can on rhe bmw or other luxury cars and be about it. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Post-ChadismOne thing i noticed lately is because i was really dominate with one plate who ive sponned for like months now like choking her, calling her a slut, slappong her ass, fucking her brains out, telling her to shut up...that behavior starts to slip out more mote naturally towards other women, most of then go with it. There is no post chad bs. There is always a hotter chick, more xhallenging chick...keep improving. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 2 | No sex for the first few datesTo be honest, i cant remember when i went on a date or pulled a girl from the bar and didnt fuck her within a few hours. I always try to fuck or get a girl wet and horny as soon as possible. My assumption is that i am on this date to fuck you to see if i want to fuck you again..that's my frame. If i approach a girl at a bar, its to see if she's down to fuck. Any overt resistance to my overtures result in a next. If a girl isnt receptive i don't waste time. The assumption is that under the right … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | [Seeking Advice] Manipulating Rich WomenContinue to bang her royally. Wait for her to suggest you go shopping or out somewhere, first see if she offers to buy you something. If not, act entitled and spoiled...like wtf, you make me come out shopping with you and don't buy me shit?? Or if your bday coming up, drop the hint that you want this for your bday...wink. make sure that what you point out is expensive... if she gets it, then build on that. If not, its unlikley she'll sugar you. Ive been a sugar baby just because my girl at the t… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | 3 days a week workout?I hit my muscle groups every 48 to 72 hours. I never work through pain or extreme soreness. Pain equals rest, soreness equal more protein/less cardio and an extra day. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | 3 days a week workout?Ive been lifting for a year solid, while adter 3 months a few people noticed, it wasnt until the 9 month mark that random people would notice like the bank teller. So you want fast results give it 3 months. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Wingman SelectionReal simply, the person who you enjoy talking to the most. In meantime, you and him are kicking it. You can roll with these bitches are not, you're still have a good time. Sometimes, the guy with the best game is not that fun to interact with or he goes his own way and you are rolling single anyway. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl does something you don’t like or is not how she ‘should’ act, and TRP preaches “Next”. Surely you will end up alone, right?Let us not confuse the behavior for the remedy. The first assumption is the girl acted wrongly (as you state in your title). So that's the fact we are starting from. Trp is saying, with a next, you dont validate that behavior with your attention. That's what a next is, you attend to another activity, interest, or women. Otherwise, you are conditioning yourself to tacitly accept 'bad behavior(s)' from women. As to ending up alone, that's not a accurate prediction of not tolerating bad behaviors. … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How to turn girl into plate without having to Invest a lot time & money ?First, you have to have enough smv, fuck her well, and play it cool. Invites should be inviting her over with sex on the agenda. She'll eventually test you and push for you to treat her better, you have to hold frame and soft next. If she comes around again, then you can plate her and repeat the cycle. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I get over girls?Takes time. It gets easier the more women ypu date and fuck. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Lost control in the relationship. Just discovered TRP. Better to move on, or try to regain control?Always better to move on since ypubshpuld be plating anyway..get started | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Why do I feel like nofap fucked me up?My perspective is masterbation should not be a substitute for the real thing. While there nay be some benefit to masterbating (enjoyment, "keeping the pipes lubed") and some drawbacks (not cold approaching because yoir sexually satiated, compulsion, ED) in the end, you have to decide what is going to work for you. The simple truth for is that now that i have regular plates (3 of them) i have sex everyday minus a day here or there... i dont need to masterbate. However, i notice no psychological d… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 07:22 PM |
| 3 | How aware are women of a high value males game?I'd say the plates I'm with consider me high value and they simply understand that men like that fuck a lot of girls...there game is be confident and escalate and dont tolerate bad behaviors. Girls know this already. They dont see it as Game, it just is...does that make sense ? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How to "soft ghost" a girlThey get mad. No they are testing your frame. Hold frame and soft next, she'll either ghost you or fuck you. This being mad shit ain't nothing. Simply ignore. Don't respond in any other way then to initiate for sex. She acts out or refuses, hard next. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 11:08 PM |
| 4 | All my friends are getting married and I can't understand why?Its sexual warfare. They are causalities because they either didn't have the weapons or didn't know they were at war...or are willing a copying the conquoring force...that's why, dont let it be you | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to being roasted by someone when girls are around?Typical of guys that need to show off around the ladies... | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Weekend stay at hotel with girl. How to overcome the commitment talk before sex?Uh, sex... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Weekend stay at hotel with girl. How to overcome the commitment talk before sex?Tell her you are not sure what you want right now but you are sure you want her and slap her ass...if anything tell her that you'll tell her in the morning after u fuxk her, you need time to think about it. Pussy for commitment doesn't work long term. And if you can't feel good about fuxking her and not being her bf then don't do it. But I would read the post in trp adout this, something in the title about using women for sex... | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How to/is it worth to cope with a girl with Daddy's issue?This. Use this to sharpen your skills. Use her for sex, keep it at that... don't bend for one minute. Keep your interactions face-to-face and on your terms. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 04:24 PM |
| 2 | How to/is it worth to cope with a girl with Daddy's issue?This. Use this to sharpen your skills. Use her for sex, keep it at that... don't bend for one minute. Keep your interactions face-to-face and on your terms. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I get out of a downward slump?Other than diet and sleep, what do u think influences you to feel like shit ? It could be a variety of factors, is it your mental health? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain frame in confrontation with a larger guy?my take away is best to avoid fights but don't be a pussy about or shy away from verbal confrontations because might be scared of getting beat up. It's true you can be brutally beaten these days, best to learn when you are alone and run away and not start stuff. but when you are in a social setting where the risk of death is low, better to stand up for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain frame in confrontation with a larger guy?This is not true. A full strength punch to the head has a chance to kill you. Every fight is a potentially a life and death situation of course, but I've seen my share of fights at a bar and they get broken up fairly quickly, I do not think I've seen anyone get hauled in a way in stretcher. The vast majority of men are average and are not going to kill you with one punch. you'll likely take a few licks and shit gets broken up. If you think to yourself, shit I could be killed, then you are unlike… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 04:23 PM |
| 8 | How to maintain frame in confrontation with a larger guy?If you dont maintain eye contact, you present as prey/weak and may induce a beat down that stare usually avoids. The truth is most people are evenly matched, because most people are average and never been in a fight. Even if you suxk at fighting, give off the appearance. At the end of the day, it's just beatdown..mostly likely it'll hurt a bit that's it. So have courage. GL. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Constantly feeling like I should be doing somethingi should have been more clear in that I also experience the perception that there is a lot of things I should be doing that I am not...and when you think of all the things you need/should be doing, nothing gets done. I had to write stuff down, do it, and cross it off to get focused. dietwise, I am not a sugar junkie, no cookies or cakes or candy. no soda. Caffeine, yes | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when, right as I am walking past a girl she rolls her hand through her hair and tucks it behind her ears?Not necessarily attraction but anxiety. Do you notice all the girls doing these things randomly. If girls see a gmcute guy, it creates anxiety, among other emotions...the hair touch is a way to ease the nervous energy. That energy has the capacity to be turned into attraction when you approach or otherwise display value. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Constantly feeling like I should be doing somethingI'm the same way, tons of energy but massive lack of focus...you need to write down your goals and objectives both short-term and long-term and set out to accomplish them...that'll keep you structured and moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 08:47 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean when, right as I am walking past a girl she rolls her hand through her hair and tucks it behind her ears?it's sign of anxiety...the precursor to attraction. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 08:10 PM |
| 45 | Ex-girlfriend, now turned plate, refusing to have sex unless we have MFM threesomeYou plated your ex? Refusing sex? Wants to fuxk another dude? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Redpill has destroyed meyour notion of wanting love has nothing to do with it...your definition of love is the problem. Sounds like u still hold on to the BP notion of love...you're still weak and needy. Are you developing a rotation of at least 3 plates of girls you only want to fuck? Try to do that for 3 months and see... | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Plate cancels plans and vaguely implys something tragic happened in her lifeokay and move on to another girl or plate, that's it. You can't negotiate desire remember? if something happen,let her handle it and dont pester her..if that something that happened is another dick in her mouth...well, you never know..keep moving | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Do women still shit test even if they ZERO attraction/interest in you?yep, and you can see the attraction change, there eyes will get bigger and they will stand up straight and fling there hair...you hold frame and some girls will respond. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you gauge where you are on the SMV scale, as far as looks and personality goes?It's a paradox. On one hand, it is irrelevant to think in these terms because you should assume attraction and act accordingly. However, it is true that humans tend to pair-bond and form relationships within their social class, level of attractiveness, etc... But the irony is, unless you are public figure or riding the jet set, no one really knows who the fuck you are. You know? My quick answer is there is kind of threshold if you will, top 1% and the rest of us. If you want photos to be rated t… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:55 AM |
| 2 | How do you minimize general anxiety/depression.what's the quote, men are not disturbed by things, but by the views which they take of them (Epictetus) You start by identifying the stimlus for the anxiety, then change your perspective on that stimulus. Approach anxiety becomes a challenge that you enjoy rather than find anxiety provoking | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls end up going on a dick/hookup spree with other guys after they are dropped/ghosted by their “chad?”quite frankly, who's cares? The fact that you are thinking about this is suggestive... you jealous possibly? Next. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your beta orbiters?consider yourself a squad leader..help them get laid, maybe one has connections you can use, maybe one is good gym partner...have fun with them, they'll come back to your security. Remember girls want a guy other women want to fuck and other men want to be...don't look down on the beta orbiter...because its only a matter of time before a few become your competition...get it? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | 40+ year old father gets laid like a warlord and here's howI'll give advice only to be met by an emotional self-defense barrage of excuses and gets mad at me. To which I stopped letting him complain to me about it. This speaks to a lot. I find that people who get mad when you try to help them or lay it on the line, have deeper emotional problems and insecurities. Sounds like rather than deal with them himself, he brings that into the mix with the girls. The defense is also related to NOT being able to fix or understand those things you are telling him t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Working as a doormanI'll add that in some ways you should want the tenets to shit on you...WHY... to practice emotional control and how to stay loose and graceful under the stress of someone being rude to your face. They are actually helping you if you see it that way...who cares what they think of you, you are going to be outy-5000 in one year. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How is it that my friend who's considerably less attractive/sociable than I am, managed to swoon all the females at the bar last night? [Field Report]You answered your own question in the first few sentences. He's chill, funny, and someone you can just shoot the shit with...watch and learn, practice. Like talking to him. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | How to keep yourself occupied while going out by yourself in between meeting girls?My best buddy is now married and generally limited to going out because he can't leave his wife alone right now. So I found myself in the same situation. It took a while but I made friends and at least now how the option of meeting other people out even if we aren't that tight. Acquaintances basically. It's not hard, it's all in your head. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | I am Going to my first House Party Tomorrow Night - Any Advice?Dont get smashed. Have meaningful conversations if you can. Dont talk shit about anyone. Bring your own beer or offer the host 5 or 10 bucks if there is a keg. Don't try to hard. GL | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Tinder girl flaked, at what point should I consider her again?i disagree. the problem is that you are not leading. You are waiting for her. Text her "drinks at Joe's at 8pm, I'll be there OR whatever you want to do/meet. "I don't reply. Day goes on and we don't meet, obviously." When she said NOT MUCH just at work..that's where you say, lets meet at x at y time. OP, OK? Now do that one more time and if she does not respond within 2 hours or less, make other plans. Forget her and if you are new to this, delete her profile. Don't get bogged down... | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 09:23 PM |
| 6 | How often do you see your plates?it all depends on the assessment of the plate and the reference point you left them with. If you f--ked there brains out the first time, you are fairly solid for a good two weeks with no contact. I would shoot a random text every week or so in the beginning. There should be some give and take, meaning that she should contact you at some point during those silent periods, if you are checking. Some plates you can just not contact and they will eventually contact you. The key is not to care if they… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | fucked up kinda bad, fucked a first date tinder girl with no condom last night.You fucked up, learn from it and never do that shit again. I fucked many chicks and for time to time can't get hard for whatever reason...try not to stress about...nothing wrong with saying to the chick, I need some help...let her suck you for 10 mins. If you are still soft, just say I must be coming down with something or stress...blah blah...finger her or eat her out if you want...Sony apologize, suck it up... | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:35 AM |
| 2 | I'm here epitome of a pathetic beta male and need advice desperatelyCan you literally make friends over the internet and chat with then on messenger? Much of what and how we talk originates first as thoughts which you can type out online like you did for your post. Once you can maintain a 30 minute chat with someone that feels ok, then maybe graduate to real life. Your description sounds so awfully awkward that you just might want to start online to get the gist. Unless you are fine online and it's the social anxiety that cripples you, maybe find someone that wi… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Wife seeks MRP husbandWell I dont see it as she wants a MRP guy... she wants her way... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/18 11:00 PM |
| 3 | A MRPer's Divorce Tale50/50 asset split ? I dk the averages but that is the best you can hope for these days ? What kinda dough we talking 500k+??? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/18 06:00 PM |
| 11 | Working as a doormanYou're a doorman, you've placed yourself as a servant, people's natural inclination is to treat with low value because of your position. I have a doorman in my building and generally I'm polite to them, Hi, thank you, good bye. I'll make small talk because that's my nature and a lot of opportunity has xome.my way based on small talk with what some people might call the underclass. The best way is to dress impeccable, be ultra polite, and absolutely unfazed by any indifference you receive. "HI Si… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Hey fellas, how to stop feeling like trash?It's a journey, period. You slowly pull yourself out of the deep dark hole that is your life. Of course, it didn't have to be that way but right now it is. Mostly because of poor choices you made like smoking weed for 10 years. But you can't go back and the future is uncertain. Therefore you exist in the now...so ask right now what can I do to make me a better person, feel better, more successful whatever or however you define it. Right those things down on a piece of paper and set out to accomp… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Plating a one night standThe goal is to plate a ONS. My experience with ONS is there is a percentage of girls, don't want anything more. There are some you can hook up with again and then some on the fence. If you are not having multiple ONS a week, then you need to optimize your conversion rate from ONS to Plate. One way to do that is give some rapport but wait some time because the ons that really liked you will be there to fuck next week. You fucked her good and she's been fantasizing about you at work all week. The … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Plating a one night standso you did pick her up at a bar and took her home and fuck her and then again in the morning. It's been two days. She's a complete stranger still. I would not just "invite her over." I would text a bit, not much, to establish rapport. The key is not to not make her feel like a slut but to be normal. So you would meet up for drinks, talk a bit, and then bring her home. You want to plate her, right? She has not reached out to you?? At the very least wait a week before you invite her over.. to me, … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Plating a one night standI would just text her to reaffirm the ons. Like "hey, we really held it down last night didn't we" Did you pull her from a bar/club? Where you guys drunk? If yes, it might be best to spent just a little time rebuilding rapport and then maybe a day or two later inviting her over. How long has it been since the ons? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Do I Wait for Her To Reach Out or Set the Next Datetwo days is rather short. give it another 2 days and send her text basically touching base...maybe give her a response or two. then let it die down again. when you are ready to invite her over, if she has not contacted you again, then invite her out or over to your place. in terms of plating what I am finding is that you either simply sit back and let them contact you for sex or you or you take the lead and make it happen but if you do it, you got to add variety because if the girl is not just l… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Bar Game - Close vs NumberNumber ain't shit as another poster stated. You should be going for the kill and find out fairly early in the encounter if taking her home is in the cards. So Any girl resisting your kino is obviously not a good sign, so sure grab her number and bounce if you want but you goal should be to find a girl take home and fuck. So making out and then the ass grab is a strong move. If she's allowed that, then I would move out of the bar with her within 15 minutes by simply saying let's go out of here, i… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I could use some advicetoo late bro, sorry. but good that you don't want her back...to good new is that based on what you said, she's irretrievable...time to get to improving yourself and banging other chicks... | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 01:58 AM |
| 10 | What would you say is the concrete list of must read books related to TRP?quite frankly internalizing some pretty basic concepts is all you need. You are the prize, let bitches get on your train.. All women are whores, treat them as such In, bed, sex god method (pull there hair, smack there ass, tits and any part of their body, you own it, but vary the experience for them and most of all harness their imagination) if you want to keep them whores around any time you feel you get stuck with a girl because she's not responding to you, just forget them and move on to the … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | I could use some adviceI would like to be with her. I'm sure she'll get more crushes and soon enough will want to ride the CC. do you still want to be with knowing she is going to ride that CC...? she's going to get used and love almost every minute of it...you still want her? edit: just to put it out there: my first TRP experience before I even know what it was, was when I took at girl home from the bar and banged her. I saw her again the next night and approached her, she said something to the effect, not tonight my… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | High SMV, but hate socialising, especially bars, clubs, parties etc. I know it's important to do well socially but I just can't stand ityou can't stand socializing but asking for advise ?? are you asking how to make socializing more comfortable>? be more specific | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 12:59 AM |
| 2 | AWALT In It's Truest Formwomen are getting both (beta and alpha males)... that's the dirty little secret. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 12:54 AM |
| 3 | AWALT In It's Truest FormI just can't believe how perverted and fake everything There is nothing perverted or fake about anything. Everything is taking place in full view, just pay more attention. I could add some of my own recent experiences but I fear I'll send you through the roof... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Does getting angry turn women off or make you less attractive?Lean of the side of controlled anger..meaning don't be quick to fight or get out of control and make a big scene. There are situations where you need to be angry and should be angry because someone completely was disrespectful or worse. Its more of the times that you overreact that will make you look weak. Spilled drink, some one cut you in line, or some minor transgression that you can laugh at... | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 02:35 AM |
| 0 | How do I increase my duration during sex?Stand on your feet will give u more control. So bend her over the bed or any thing else or lean against the wall. Try it. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 09:54 PM |
| 120 | Autists vs BorderlinesNo girl wants to feel like a fucktoy to be used. I beg to differ. Girls will tell you to use them. No girl will fuck a guy who considers her meat or No girl can respect a guy who only sees her for her sexual value. really? doubtful...girl know this deep down and many man treat and fuck women precisely this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Matched with my ex on tinder. Should I try plating?She is just curious about you, that's all. If she was interested, she could have texted you. Say hi, wish her well, everything is great, and move on...of she suggests anything, agree in theory such as yeah sounds like a good idea, I'll let you know...night. then move on. I'm a believer in keeping shit tight and on good terms because it's a small world. You just never know esp. If you smash a lot. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm done with tinder now.I'm not saying it a conspiracy it's just their alogrym changed | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:54 PM |
| 2 | I'm done with tinder now.It's a trickle. When I pay for boost, my match jumps x50.... im not the only one who saw this | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:18 PM |
| 3 | I'm done with tinder now.I'll likely drop tinder because they don't give you matches unless you pay now. Bs. When I hit boost I get 100s of matches in a week. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 10:10 PM |
| 9 | finding out it was a whole easier for chadYour problem is that you believe slut = bad. its true. you need to drop the pretense with them. once the lights are out, she's your slut and that is what she wants...she will give it up fast to the guy that gets that...once you backed off, you were not giving her what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Nice guy 2.0 (Self Improvement is a byproduct of loving yourself)Than the rational male is beta by your logic the rational male is a book. It is my understanding that TRP does not advocate monogamy or marriage. IN fact, they are considered blue-pill, perhaps I should have used BP instead of beta. "fucking many women at once gets boring" whoa, really> ???? More boring than banging the same chick for eternity? you are in the wrong subreddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Nice guy 2.0 (Self Improvement is a byproduct of loving yourself)well I realize love is not as simple but whether fucking is boring or not, is irrelevant to the main question. You said loving women is a major part of a man's life...I suppose if you mean loving many women at once and fucking them, that's better...but IF you are talking about loving one woman monogamously that shit is beta AF | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Nice guy 2.0 (Self Improvement is a byproduct of loving yourself)Loving women is a major part of a man's life no its not. fucking women might be but loving them? i thought that was beta as fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | If a girl cancels meeting and doesnt counteroffer/reschedule then its over?what do you mean by that? Like from a date or an approach? My f-close is like 75% but I am selective in who I approach. Now if you are taking about tinder matches that I chat with, that's different. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Using hands for expression and gesturing, how much is too much?nothing wrong with talking with your hands, but there is a difference between expressive and flaming homosexual...it all depends on your hand gestures | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Asked girl out to coffee, she says yes, however...You are the TA. All she has to say is you made her feel uncomfortable and you're expelled. I shit you not. She saved your ass in a sense STOP | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 02emotional intelligence, involves more than the neofrontal cortex. sounds like youre a fan of all of our abilities | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Gym Girls - Good or Bad?i flirt with a very few girls at the gym. I've rarely encountered any girl dislike me flirting with them. I am rarely explicit, I try to peak a girls imagination but with some girls you can just be straightforward. Like, saying "looks like you've been working hard..." She knows what you mean, she might say excuse me what do you mean... you can say..oh, babe, nvm..now my name is X...go with the flow at that point. flirt but only pull in situations that you tell you're "goddamn, I want to fuck her… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Male Behavioral Archetypesanother post basically saying the same thing.. .that the proverbial "chad/alpha" can come in different packages and that we should be less concerned with reaching this ideal but rather developing the behavioral traits that make-up the so-called alpha. I see nothing else useful in the post. EDIT: In fact it incorporates some BS such as the concept of AB/BF...I do not think these concepts have been accepted as consistent with the theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 08:19 PM |
| 4 | LTR issuesBad news. She's unhappy with you or maybe just her overall life. Be wary. She could already have another guy and she's tiring of you...reread the side bar and definately spend less time at her place, until you get a grasp of the situation. Best case She might need more comfort, worst case, you're on teetering .. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How to train for hypertrophya buddy of mind states that all the muscle need are 1 exercise for 1 set (although he'll do 3 sets for his workouts) with sufficient time under load so that means, slow reps. His workout would be 3 sets of bench for 8 reps using a slow tempo for about a total of 24 seconds under-load or something to that effect. what would be your response to that? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever comment or make a remark on another girls attractiveness while out with a plate?I wouldn't consciously avoid it or feel it's wrong. The plate might react but it's just a chance to hold frame...why are you jealous? She might see it as you fucking with her as oppose to a normal reaction. I deliberately say all kinds of shit in front of my plate to remind her of her place...idgaf of she likes it or not..she can walk if she doesn't like it...but if your frame or abundance is weak, you might not want to take these type of plays... | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | I don’t feel shit for women anymorewhen I hear this I think depression. are there other things going on in your life? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | “Women can smell desperation a mile away”. How the hell do you not be desperate when you’re doing NoFap and given up porn?themanwhoslays is actually a 20yo virgin. I dig the enthusiasm but bro come on with the handle. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Hello fellow redpillers, I'm going out tonight and need some advice because I have been out of it for a whileare you going out alone or with a group of friends? I reread your post and u seem a bit all over the place (making out, getting numbers, FWB). you might be out right now...persistence is important but you really have to know when you are not getting anywhere...that is why you need to be able to escalate either verbally or physically...and be confident enough to withstand the rejection. I know its easier said then done. If you aren't out yet, reply and I'll continue but otherwise... | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Hello fellow redpillers, I'm going out tonight and need some advice because I have been out of it for a whileRandom shit off THE top of my head.....Pace your fucking drinking, dress to the type of area and venue, if a girl makes eye contact with you, You MUST hold it and give her a little smirk. Don't stand in one place more than necessary, if you are going to stand somewhere, hold frame...don't get nervous or gittery... approach someone and talk to them, make small talk, no connection, u say nice to meet, have a good night. Move on. ....I'll give u a part two when I get home.. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 12:03 AM |
| 13 | Exclusive But Not Committed? Translation RequestIt's bullshit. Exclusive sexually but not committed socially...translation, don't fuck any chicks but me but I reserve the right to bail on you when i find better. She is starting the betaization process on you...don't agree, ignore, and bang other chicks. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Quitting weedits not just weed, it a substance and substances impair judgment and other negative consequences, you have to treat any substance as equal. The mindset "its just weed" is another hamstering...would you say... oh, well.. it is just my life!...no. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Breaking a woman inI've found the opposite to be true that is >27 girls are much more skilled in bed but maybe I just found some real sluts... | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Quitting weedIs a voluntary 28 days rehab program feasible ? If so, you might consider it.. if you're real serious this might be the best bet. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 11:53 PM |
| 24 | Still Wanna Get Married?SIX of my friends are married and still married. Actually there have been no divorces after 10 to 15 years...I actually don't know anyone from my group of friends that got married within 3 years out of college that got a divorce. For all intents, they were equal to higher value than the girl... maybe that explains it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Relationship with HB8-9 while I am ~7/10 in looks?I would ride her out <pun intended> but I would not stop gaming other chicks and even fucking them. I would make sure, damn sure, you do what you want and when you want, like hang with your friends, go to the gym, take a trip, sleep in...otherwise you will have just been or will become beta-fied and there will be nothing long-term about this. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Advice for moving to NYCNYC is one of the largest cities, you are literally a forgettable face in a sense. It's best to stay within your 1 block radius and get to know people by name....have a base. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Advice for moving to NYCAs much as possible | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice for moving to NYCI would recommend Brooklyn. Live with a roommate. Don't go out alone or get black out drunk. Find a cool place within walking distance from your place and hit happy hour amap <even if yoy don't drink> to become a regular. Occasionally try the big clubs just to see but unless you're rolling deep, id avoid large night clubs. Your from the Midwest, nothing like NYC. Take it slow, focus on the new job, and building a network. GL. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Would it be fine to ask a plate about her other romantic interests outside of our relationship?Wait, you told her that she'll..."find some other dude ??" Why? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 01:54 PM |
| 4 | The Sarlac Pit of being a betaif she had a glass in her hand, I would have ignored her and said to her "cheers" clicking her glass... you were doing something right...i say nothing wrong with banging her again and then next her... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/18 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Sheet/Duvet recommendations?Something that you personally like, is quality, and goes with the room...they should run you about $100+ at least. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | After a year of redpill, I've hit a wall. I keep reading things I already know and hearing/seeing suggestions of things I'm already doing. Now what?It's a saying I've heard...don't know who said it. I think it pertains here. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 03:01 AM |
| 6 | After a year of redpill, I've hit a wall. I keep reading things I already know and hearing/seeing suggestions of things I'm already doing. Now what?To know and not to do, is not to know...apply the material and take a fucking breath. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I take my relationships to the next level?They SHOULD not just be friendships... are u inserting sexual touch or touch..if u are not STOP...you have exp. Talking now move to kissing... Edit, after a while you just start with flirting and sexual energy... almost any thing says a girls can be redefined by u in a sexual way.. a masculine way try it.. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 05:47 AM |
| 0 | What to do when guys disrespect or challenge you while talking to girls?id say depends on the environment and vibe...and who this guy is. Bullies need to be shut down immediately. <<This has happened many times with many people and idk how to address it.> I would probably have a talk with him, and be ready to throw down if he touches you. He's a bully, clock him and take your lumps if he's tougher than you...i dk about others but you GOT to stand up for yourself at some point. most guys will run after a cold clock...just make sure you have at least one boy there tha… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 03:18 AM |
| 18 | Always have a full pipeline.i'm ok, spinning plates, abundance mentality, "I'm the prize," "always be closing...make them qualify to you" these ideas are in the sidebar, ...but I appreciate the spin as a reminder. EDIT: when you get laid, you walk like you just got laid, so just walk let you just got laid.. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm tall and jacked, but "kind" looking facially, so can't pass as a bad boy...solutions?Baby faced? Then they can't see you coming. When u say gotta go babe..catch you later...zip, bye. If you're not getting that far, then say...I know I might look like a cub, but I'm ferocious in the sack...let's go. Now! edit: I think the biggest hurtle for a lot of guys is OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE. you really not give a fuck what she says DO YOU..have fun...dont worry about pleasing a chick to make her like u | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you truly internalize abundance mentality?Staying with chess analogy, opening moves are typically memorized, both players know the moves and so the first 10 moves is played rather quickly, effortlessly, and without any analysis. Same with the sexual market place: guy approaches girl, girl shit test him, guy counters, maybe some questions or small talk, dancing...all formulaic, look around the bar, everyone is basically in the opening... How do you stop analyzing, practice the opening until it's "memorized" or becomes natural...just play… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you truly internalize abundance mentality?Two sides of the same coin imo. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | why isn't RP advice "be chad"?Because Chad represents "ideal masculine qualities, never perfectly attained by anyone, but are the psychological goals which give meaning to our movement towards TRP integration." Weather or not a true "Chad exists on earth only "the wise man will strive to live like Chad, having absolutely nothing to do with any other model, and in doing so sets his own life in order. Read it several times. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it wise to have sex with DOMS?I would never not have sex if I had a little bit of doms...just have her ride you. You're in control, remember? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth studying lifes of celebrities/important persons?You'll find that many an important person at one point was a nobody...not all but many. There grit, determination, and confidence helped to get them to the top...some sacrificed a great deal...learn from them... | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing aloneIf u have never done it before, I hear it builds character. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Do Women really care about your physique?Broad shoulders and muscular chest with a nice jaw turns a girl on, games and trp frame gets them into your bed. Girls notice that shit it's just doesn't close the deal it only makes it sweeter... | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 01:01 AM |
| 2 | I've slipped back into my nice guy ways.Is she hot? Then say Yes, meet me here...meet her, and be cool...then look her in the eyes, with a little smirk <when u are smirking imagine her sucking your dick > when she smiles and looks away...then within 5 minutes or less, u need to escalate with a kiss...start on the cheek if u think the religious shit is in full effect..but do something. Let the elders bitch u out.. it draws attention. Any attention is good attention. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Dominating a dominant womanThis ^ She'll probably let you do some stuff the first time but she'll also try to get you to submit at some point too. You have a choice, allow the give and take or maintain a dominant posture and deal with shit tests and power struggles. I have a plate that is like that, I thought i would just slowly wear her down, but it's clear she's not 100% submissive. Don't get me wrong, I don't hold too much back but it's definately met with some resistance and later on, maybe the next time, shell try to… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to have a healthy relationship with porn?Best to let a sleeping dog lie. You once had a serious problem with porn and now you report you Don't. First, congrats. Maybe share with the group what u did to reverse the behavior. But let me ask you, do you thinks it's a good idea to view porn again? The only reason I view porn now is to get some ideas and reward myself for actually fucking chicks, if I am still super horny. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 10:54 PM |
| 7 | TRP in LTR / or how not to be beta-ized?this is or should be rule number for anyone considering a LTR. If you feel or know that you cannot "walk away" in the face of her bad behaviors (blatant disrespect, refusing sex, constant nagging or financial demands) then you are walking into a trap and not a relationship. You still lack an abundance mindset and she will fuck you, make no mistake. Nothing wrong with taking out the trash or buying dinner from time to time. But most of the time she should come after you've handled your business. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [Dread] Disappearing for one day, how to make it more effective?You lost your phone, misplaced it, tried downloading an update and the phone got messed up...any number of reasons...just find something else to do and dgaf. . | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 03:11 AM |
| -1 | How to keep emotions under control during altercations?I agree. Strong emotional triggers suggest underlying psychological conflicts or unresolved issues <for lack of a more precise understanding>. You're best exploring them with a professional or trusted confidante. In those situations, if possible, is to take a time out as soon as possible, like at work. What I wpuld say to the person is hey, we don't agree atm, but let a continue to talk until we find a solution we both feel good about...and take the time out. It's really hard. I had a girl get i… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 08:44 PM |
| 5 | When it's the best time to go on a date?I would select 7pm or later but no later than 9pm. Give yourself two hours to establish rapport and build attraction and to escalate. If by 9 to 11 things are progressing you can move to place closer to either her <preferably> or your place. As soon as you leave one place I would kiss her <if you have not already> or once you get to the second place. Your transitioning now to sex...if you ain't making out by now, you can still bail and pick up girls at the bar or nightclub, that's your plan b. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | When it's the best time to go on a date?depends on what your intentions with this date are? are you someone that will meet up for an hour to chat and then leave? Or are you trying to f-close? | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How to have a convo with plate about other plates ?Major mistake. I tried to play it real cool and as a matter of fact..nevertheless no good. Thanks for the feedback | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Critique Of This Research?Maybe in a relationship but male dominance in the bedroom I bet they leave that out of the research. Ever read a research article that ended, in conclusion a majority of women reported that they actually wanted to be slapped, choked, hair pulled, and used hard in all their holes...?? I just don't think they ask the right questions. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How to have a convo with plate about other plates ?I originally said my sister left it...lol. probably not that plausible. But thanks for the feedback!!..I still to practice up since im.not used to being grilled by chicks because normally they are ONS or FWD...and they're cool or don't care. Edit I think bc I have strong sex God method I am getting Away with my flaws | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How to have a convo with plate about other plates ?You know I think what you are saying was optimal. However, I was thinking, since she found the bra in the bathroom and it was obvious I was banging other chicks...I was just like I think she should know that I have plates...she seemed to understand that concept because she used the word "regulars" I have four plates and so i need to have some order to this...she has to be okay with the fact that we just fuck and that I'm fucking other girls... she seemed the type to blow up my phone and be deman… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How to have a convo with plate about other plates ?I have no contact with her for two months. She blows up my phone a couple days ago which I ignore. The next I invite her over and fuck her. Afterwards in bed etc.. then comes the questions... | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 09:38 PM |
| -1 | Old LiesSimply because someone such as Rollo states oh, TRP is an ideology does not make it so. it seems that trp is an actual coherent and rather parsimonious framework for interpersonal dynamics between men and women AND for men's self-improvement. If someone adheres to trp principles and there life improves then the theory has meaning...the proof is qualitative. But i think the admonition that trp is a toolset is important and how it should be propagated so as to not fall into the ideology trap. Afte… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Threatened breakup w ltrJust a real quick check...would u define cohabitate if I were to: 1) have my own place and 2) stay at my place 2-3 times a week but remain at theirs for the rest and have many item of clothing at here place ?? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Help with shit testNot entirely lame... any response that is even marginal would be fine as long as u are not volunteering... | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 04:08 AM |
| 15 | What are some common personality traits of women who were "late bloomers?"They are still insecure...psychology takes a long time to change.. but they may present to you as more entitled, play harder to get...unless u actually knew them through the process...I doubt you notice much... I guess the typical one is chubby with a nice face that now lost that 40 lbs... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Third lay (can't get it up)In now particular order: Get a really good night sleep. Minimize stress going into the date. Work out your legs at least 36 hrs before. Stay hydrated. Visually imagine fucking her, your dick getting hard, and her screaming... Don't force the sex encounter. Definately guide her to your dick, gentle caress is what you want her to do. ***what I do..in the shower before the date..I'll jerk a little to see how responsive it is. If u can get a hard on then, then it likely be all nerves unless your sub… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever date a girl who has a history of eating disorders?Don't get involved...there are other behaviors that accompany the food restriction/binging that are adverse to relationships. It is important to note how severe the disorder has progressed. Be sure you are clear that she actually has a disorder versus temporary change in diet or exercising | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Help Scheduling A Tinder Datesilence. let her contact you and go on to the next match. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Farmer's Walk: The best full-body exercise?My gym has limited amount of kettlebells. Maybe tops 50lbs ones bit they do have a hex bar where u stand inside. What kinda of weight are we talking about. I don't deadlift right now because I am playing it really safe with my back BUT...i want to try this. My lats and calves are strong, forearms are getting there. I wonder if 80lbs on each side of the hex would be sufficient?? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Tips in instant escalation without looking needy or desperate.Selection bro. Look for slutty party girls that are drunk and ready to go...should be all the girls spring break if you go to the right spots. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Angry TinderWhat if I match but don't contact until I'm ready to invite out? I think I've been doing this wrong. I just normally swipe, briefly text with a girl and then I say lets get together soon...then when I'm ready I invite them out. The thought of only swiping when I am ready is basically Friday or Saterday which is when I pick up girls irl... | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Bulletproofing shoulders. Keep yourself in the gym and off the sideline.what kind of volume and intensity is recommended for OHP. Right now I am doing 5 sets of 5 for pressing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Can girls sense when you've had sex recently???Yes, when I wall put my door after I kicked the bitch out, u definately feel and move differently. Amd one of my plates definately smelled me and looked at me..she knew. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 27 | Walked in on herYou sure there wasn't a guy under the bed...?? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Advice for lust?I think u have confidence issues that u need to resolve. And the rest may take care of itself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/18 08:23 AM |
| 1 | A question regarding the sidebaryou can interview 1000 women and ask them...and you would not be manipulating variables. don't tell me I misunderstand science a-hole. you dont know shit... | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | A question regarding the sidebarI think u fucked up. When she said that she had feelings, u should have completely ignored thay statement. And continue to escalate toward fucking her. She didn't necessarily want to "be together" that's your interpretation. Almost always a girl will want to lock u down and all that girl shit...when u rejected her, u shot yourself in the foot...she's playing the game and literally opted out.. sure she might try to reengage you but there is no guarantee. The fact that she had feelings means she w… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | A question regarding the sidebarExperiemental.design research does. Not all research is quantative how would u study if women prefer rough sex it not ?? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | A question regarding the sidebarI can tell you that the over arching theory and the basic concepts are very REAL. Let us remember what research is...empirical observation. Pick up the Apple and throw it in the sky a thousand times and it falls down to the ground...can u see gravity ? No. But you know it's there... I've seen Trp in action. Keep reading the sidebar and lurk to read people's experiences...eventually you'll see. In fact start trying to get laid and u will see | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 06:24 PM |
| 2 | The truth about Anger PhaseQuite accurate. I was into the self improvement genre from college and so reading about how to improve myself was natural for me. I worked hard to improve at various behaviors like public speaking, writing, and sales. And women too. I got laid and would have fwb...that smoking hot model was never quite in reach and when u can get average pussy fairly easily...I just got comfortable...then u get the hb8 or 9 and you suddenly go all in like fuck yeah...then all the BP mistakes slowly erode the rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How I Manage My LTRI turned into a savage: I grab my girls hair and tell her to do her job...that she's my sex-slave and that I own her pussy, her ass is mine, and she if says any BS I tell her to "shut up." I smack her tits when I am fucking her. I make her lick my balls and she knows I need to fuck every night...you are not in LTR until this routine and acceptable...fuck that... you need to OWN your girls and make them submit to YOU in this day and age. EDIT: sex is literally a microcosm of the entire relationsh… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 04:09 AM |
| 33 | Women Have NeedsAlways throw the knight away and become king. Nice one. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 03:55 AM |
| 2 | The truth about Anger Phasethe truth is I never hit the anger phase, it was more like the "disgust" phase...but the disgust was with myself and what a fool was trying to be this awesome worldly and cultural gentleman that romances women and gives them what they want...I literally almost threw up when I was reading a book about this....for that point I realized I was a fucking pussy ( at least partially, I never committed to bitches tho)... anyone else just skip the anger phase?? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 03:20 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 07you can't be alpha all the time and there is nothing wrong with that. YOU JUST have to ACCEPT that fact. the worse thing you can start to do is try to be alpha or prove yourself rather than accept that fact. luckily there is an order in the universe, so maybe you don't get the attention of the top pussy, I am sure there is plenty of pussy to go around... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | 7 Science-Backed Ways To Increase Testosteronedo i have to take them together or can I take them hours apart. like my D3 before bed and my k2 upon waken...I take a variety of other supplements during meals and sometimes forget to take them all. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Dates are for weeknights, weekends are for the boys (and picking up new girls)I am a bit torn by this. On one hand, weeknight dates are lower investment and generally I would not get too crazy because I have to get up early in the AM. So that with the gym that leaves me about 3 hours for a date. Where as if you meet up on the weekend, you have more time and you can segway into fucking much more easily imo... the irony is that I wind up not lining up dates on the weekend because I prefer to game chicks with my boys...but I've noticed that many guys will bring girls out on … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here an objectivist?I believe a core tenet is that mankind is the only standard of value. Her philosophical heir gave some lecture awhile ago and used to be on the website but it looks like that revamped and monetized it with the rise of libertarianism the last 8 years. Google ayn rand interview with Chris Wallace. https://campus.aynrand.org | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 03:19 AM |
| 2 | I got accused of sexual assault and I might actually be guilt of it, what do I do?Say nothing and delete this post. Let the process unfold...if u blacked out how can you know anything. You simply I have no memory of these actions occurring or flat out deny...it would boil down to witnesses...do u have any? If she does and they say you grab her butt and they have wintesses...well time to get creative ..she offered, we were dancing, inadvertently brushed up against her etc...GL. shit sucks these days... | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Maintaining frame/dominance?It's hard because if a guy interupts you he s not showing mutual respect. I see NO reason to extend him anything. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is going with this chick?Any recovery...simply hard next and if she contacts me cool or simply DM her on IG...umm, phone number? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is going with this chick?Assume attraction and act accordingly, that's why. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is going with this chick?Yeah that was thinking...just forget it. However, when she approached the following weekend telling me to DM her...I was like well she already had my following her on IG...if she really wasn't interested then it seemed silly to ask me to message her... But I am just going to ignore her..I just never encountered that type of behavior before. Normally it would be..sorry I have a boyfriend, or they'll just give you there number and not respond. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is going with this chick?It's not like I'm socially deaf autistic. How else do you propose I would escalate on a cold approach? And I if i was really a creep I don't know why she would give me her Instagram and then asked me to contact her. And then approached me a week letters asking me to message her. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:12 PM |
| 0 | What do you think is going with this chick?Kissing her on the cheek was beta AF. I have to disagree with this. 1. I spoke to her once prior for like 5 minutes while she was waiting tables. 2. I grabbed her and kissed her while she walking to a wait on a table. 3. do you propose I just try to make out with her?? I do not think that was appropriate since there was little rapport built. That would have been overly aggressive. but i do appreciate the feedback. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | The man in the mirror.Fix your shit before you start trying to fix anything else. underappreciated or perhaps overlooked piece of wisdom right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to nudes/cleavage pics on Snapchat?Apparently not. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 03:01 AM |
| 2 | I Have perfect girl, but I'm not satisfied and want to be single.And oh..there is NO such thing as PERFECT... | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 12:16 AM |
| -1 | I Have perfect girl, but I'm not satisfied and want to be single.Just do what u want until she has had enough...just hope she ain't psycho... | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Does she really mean it when she says she will not cheat?Who cares what kinda girl she IS... if u want to fuck her then do it.. wait until she breaks with him and then ask her to meet up at your place or where as a sophomore in HS who have the privacy to do that ??? And don't be her GF.. just fuck her.. even if u other call u her bf who cares it's HS and you'll forget that shit once u hit college anyway... | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Recoveries, drop the remnants of your Blue Pill pastI think this is the reason why you should not be friends with a woman. If your thinking is, well if I be friends with her, I might eventually fuck her...you've lost and chances are high you will not fuck her. I have friends that are women but I don't expect to fuck them nor am I aiming to. They serve another utility...namely they have a talent that I admire and want to be taught, they have connections that I want to use, or they simply make me smile from time to time...but I am not actively hang… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Simple Text Game Strategynot plates. but prospects. the conversion rate on tinder is low. Sure, I can f-close chicks from tinder but turning them into plates is different. So often happens is that I'll have a girl that is interested in me and texting me and its clear that she will meet...then I get a better match and I engage her...putting the other prospect on hold...and so on. Then on Friday I have 1-2 dates arranged out of the 20 girls that I matched with and that I have opened or opened me. If a girl says HI first, … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to nudes/cleavage pics on Snapchat?When u look at the photo, they can see you looked. So ignore them until you have the time for them.. don't look at every single one. It's just a form of attention seeking...fuck them don't attend to them | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl’s parents?Well I guess then introduce yourself. I just think there will be time for a long term relationship later on... And people tend to be creatures of habit, So be careful. Because you can slip into those tendencies later on. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Simple Text Game StrategyI definatelty have time, particularly in the evenings after gym/meal...I don't go out during the week.. so sure I read...but lining up 20 something yo pussy for the weekend not a waste of time if u ask me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl’s parents?No... I wouldn't. We're you invited? I mean are you trying to be in a LTR?? Be social and polite but unless you see them and run into them why not let things progress normally. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 05:44 PM |
| 6 | How to reply to nudes/cleavage pics on Snapchat?Don't...or immediately set up a fuck session... Most of that is from snaphoes get in to get you to venmo them $ to receive daily photos..delete them. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Girl’s parents?Introduce if the opportunity presents itself. If u are going and they are going to watch her play then unless you run into them, you'll meet them after the game when u both go to see her...that s when she should introduce you or you introduce yourself...that simple. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Creating stronger investment in night/bar gamemy little tactic for a while was when I found this one bar... I would get there at like 10:30, set up at the bar with my buddy. Right around 11ish, pairs or groups of girls would show up and get there drinks at the main bar because the dance floor was not packed yet...so the main bar is upstair with the music not too loud. So you can chat up girls for 20-30 minutes and eventually they would go downstairs to dance and you chat up the next group...if the girl liked you she would come back up to gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Simple Text Game StrategyI use texting intermittently to keep women on the hook that I have not met yet... I have like 400 matches on tinder and I am talking to say 20 girls at once and I can't meet them all at once, if I were to do three dates a week..the final girl would wait about 7 weeks to see me...in that time, I have to keep there interest a bit (a lot)...periodically texting between long silences...helps to keep them interested. So for example: The context was she was like "how was your day..." I mentioned somet… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill way to get Ex's stuff out of house?Besides throwing it out... mail it to her...u cares if it costs you 25 bucks the real issue is want to move on asap...if the items are bugging u and making it hard for you to move on...box am up and mail it to her or drop it off...don't wait for her to come get them with her new boyfriend or whatever... | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Is this bad practice?I don't think it can hurt to have "me time" and not to be up someone ass all the time. Even one day of not communicating at all...can have a girl think about what she might have done...so really soft next periodically can be beneficial even if the girl has not deserved it...you be the judge tho | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Guy on my Rugby team was denied by girl but tried to go after me, I said No but I'm not sure if I regret it.I suppose it depends on how into this girl he is/was where if he found out u fucked her he would be upset with you and create a problem. Only you could know...besides in HS/college Every one is fucking Everyone...just do what you think is best...fuck her on he DL and don't tell anyone.. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do women find mutes attractive?Mystery.. they also communicate with their eyes and non verbal which women can hamster over more... | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 01:40 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread February 28Yes and one variant is to find that song that activates your inner drive as a male...you connect with the music and lyrics that you become emotional with an inner drive to walk through a wall type shit... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 01:38 AM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread February 28sometimes you have to blend to be accepted and reap the benefits...I had to learn that the hard way...I could have gotten so much more pussy in college if I just toned it down with the tough guy stuff...so, I'd say make an attempt to be cool and friendly without shining too bright because you need to get a good grade and learn the material and you'll probably need a partner to work a project and study with | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 10:08 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread February 28just a quick idea... what I have been toying with using music to access my inner strength. So for example, listen to a song that gets you "pumped and motivated" first thing in the morning...the song should make you feel an emotional response. That response can later translate into energy because you are activating a part of your brain that you would not have otherwise or has remained dormant. And see how your days goes. it is important to talk to yourself when you have those emotional response f… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | You’re Not Going to Be 100% All the Time - Forget That IllusionThis is true and its important to not get into a spiral of negative thinking. Keep fighting and striving for excellence, perfect is a made-up word..no one is perfect and it idiotic to think you can be perfect...when you fail or "fall down," get right back and try again...that's what you do. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with aggressive Guys?it is a catch-22 imo. Last friday I was at bar and I believe I briefly spoke to a girl and touched her waist shortly like invited her to stand closer to me...she reacting positively to my eye...in any event, I don't recall what she did...but maybe 20 minutes later she was up at the bar getting a drink or something and a guy starts talking to her his back to me. Then he starts dancing and backs into me a couple times... I nudged him and he kept doing it, so I shoved him and didn't look at him, I … | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 09:54 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I've hit the wall at 34Yep. Apparently Sundays at 9pm is primetime. So I spent $25 on 5 boosts or whatever and boost 1 time per week on Sundays. Girls are most likely to contact you or reply on Thursdays and early evening Friday because they are lining up dates...then they drop off until Sunday if they are depressed cause the dates sucked or because they had success at getting laid and they try it again... | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 09:45 PM |
| 32 | Why Tinder is Fine - You're Not.Tinder is supplemental. You can swipe for hot young girls and if you manage to plate one or two I would call that a success for a 35yo+ male who works full-time 9 to 5pm and hits the gym hard each day. When I go out, which is really only on Friday and Saturday nights, tinder is not used. I game girls IRL. Sure, if a girl needs tinder she's likely got something going on but if you are not looking to LTR then who cares...you plate them if they are DTF and drop them when you want to. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Tinder in North America vs Europetinder has definitely altered something...I only get matches now with paying for the boost. I don't think that's right...but it is what it is. Could be particular to the NA market because it is saturated. I find that bumble is just as good and its free. I basically paid for my boosts and have 100s of matches to go through..so I am not going to pay anymore until I go through my matches | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 09:30 PM |
| 5 | I feel like I've hit the wall at 34Yep, Tinder is pay to play, I rarely get matches unless I use a boost. When I get boost I get like 20 to 30 matches in the 30 minute span. Normal swiping gets me like 5 a week. Once the girls hit 26-27 the quality drops. Sure there are hot 30 yo, but between 18 and 25, the amount of bangable chicks is at least 50% then it drops because those chicks got married, have steady boyfriends, or just swarmed with quality men they don't need tinder. The hot chicks that I get in the 30-35 range are almost… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What Makes a Man?Central bank extracts value by devaluing the currency. That's the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What Makes a Man?umm, they don't cover the specifics or debate the merits of fiat currency, gold standard, and fractional reserve banking... maybe in a private school they might by and large they don't | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Friends say I do not show enough emotion?I get this all the time... that I am detached and only interested in sex BUT I get this from plates and not friends it's a little confusing for me since guy friends usually not like that. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 03:40 AM |
| 3 | I was beta. Should I ignore a girl?Play it cool. Really busy lately...I'll catch up with you soon... | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Where to meet red pill wingmen friends?They have that i thought. Try bumble friends maybe... | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Telling a girl to text you whenever she's hornyI said to a girl after a f ucked and asked to leave...text me when you get bored with a smile...I dk if that was best But I wanted to convey to her I was unlikely to follow up or get serious w her... | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 12:58 AM |
| 3 | What Makes a Man?follow the money to the root cause. The Federal Reserve Banking and fractional reserve banking, aka fiat currency that that government can print out of thin air to support the big business interest's speculative and shady financial instruments. I think some people woke up enough and that is how Trump beat Clinton. I just think that unless you had investment accounts or owned a home or were on a fixed income...you don't notice wtf is going on. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 05:34 PM |
| 7 | Jung’s Concept of “Individuation” - Why You Should Be Aware of the Whole.Jung's concept of individuation is a bit more nuanced than you describe. It can be thought of as 'congruence.' That is to say, there is a match between one's inner self and outer self (i.e. unconscious and conscious selves). We all have inner desires that we may or may not be aware of and so when our inner worlds match our behaviors...that is to say they are congruent, we have achieved a greater degree of individuation. The BLue-pIlled strategy of 'giving women what they want,' being a provider,… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Picking up a milf.A lot can go wrong if you manage to piss the wrong chick...for one, she'll know we're you'll be, the gym has your DL on file...no escape and you'll likely have to change gyms...what if u have a good thing going .routine, workout partner, close by. I'd say it's only worth the risk for the absolutely top pussy...5ft 45 yo 6.5 asain milf ain't top pussy imo | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | The reason why your dating profile sucks.yep, I had to go to boost to get any matches...when I boost then all of a sudden I get like 50 likes and my match count goes up. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread February 21If she truly loves love is ideal never perfectly realized but simply strived for...you know, like reaching for the stars...rethink the concept of love...its romantic...but who does it really appeal to, WOMEN...men have been conditioned to accept this social contract... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Lifting: muscle recoveryThere is pain and then there is soreness. Mild soreness is ok...pain..not ok. Rest. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Is spilling out brutal redpill truths from time to time good and beneficial to show a woman "you get it"?No, talk is cheap...action only. Keep your mouth shut. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | What and when to text after ONS?I guess... it should relate to something you talked about...in my case, the girl mentioned how smiled at her when she was sucking my dick...so she's get it... | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm socially retarded and under a therapist.Setting terms aside, let me ask you...if could change one single thing, and only one single thing about your life what would it be? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Increasing SMV in BarcelonaThis, I'm going to Barcelona soon and I spoke to a few people and they all said go to the Cathedral. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 08:05 PM |
| 3 | I want to help my dad. Should I introduce him to The Red Pill?Depends on the context I suppose. Is he still married or single? Is he struggling or does he appear happy but acting BP according to your perspective. Tell us more why you are considering this? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How would handle this situation?Yes I was extremely aggressive and pushy...my last five encounters I just did what I wanted and it was easy and so I was thinking she wanted me to push it...i really didn't know what to do when I have naked chick in bed sucking my dick and not wanting to fuck...I means it's been years. I'll just sit tight for now. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 07:52 PM |
| -1 | What and when to text after ONS?I see nothing wrong with a one liner the next day...something like "I woke up with a smile on my face..." and then wait until you want to invite her over to have sex with her...this is fairly standard operating procedure. Don't wait more than two weeks though. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I just got firedGood luck. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 04:37 PM |
| 6 | My female homework partner always goes out of her way to do most of our homework and help me on other course works voluntarily. Why?She deserves a reward, which is your dick bro...thank her properly fgs. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Sex God Method: Is this a must read?google it bro... i think you need to download an app and then you DL it. i found it | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Sex God Method: Is this a must read?you can Dl it for free and read it for yourself...test out the theory. Then you can come to your own conclusion. I think it is legit. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | They say we can judge whether someone is submissive or not by asking them this one question about sex~there is a subtly to sex and domination. If this were a true Master/Slave relationship where you literally owned the other person and could whatever you wanted then yes, it would not matter one bit about the person's well-being. But that is NOT the case in most inter-sex dynamics...a woman to a large degree has to submit to your control because she does not have to. I wouldn't "worry" but some girls want it and if you want to control the relationship, you have to at least make an effort. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:02 PM |
| 3 | February 23 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI'm 6' and 196...BF about 18%...not a bad place to be at 40yo. You could probably get up to 210 and 15%. That's my goal! | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 08:17 PM |
| 3 | I just got firedCarefully plan out your education and the costs. You can work over the summer to save for tuition too. I always advocate a college education because you enhance your reading, writing, and public presentation skills NOT to mention the social connections that you should make there. You don't need to go to a fancy and expensive school because basically in college, or a good college makes you teach yourself....but be certain that the degree will OPEN THE DOORS you want to open otherwise, it might tu… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:57 PM |
| 8 | I just got firedDo you have six months worth of expenses saved? Can you downsize or reduce costs immediately, do so! I advocate finishing or starting college, as a degree is usually the min requirement for many jobs...if you have the money, I would invest in your education AND IF you have a very specific educational goal in mind. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Going out alone tommorowI've gone out alone for the last year. My buddy/wingman got engaged and that was it. I have at least three bars where I know the bouncer, manager, or bartenders...I interact with them in the early beginnings so when people come in I look normal...but in your case you might want to call the club and ask when it opens and add two hours to that time. 11pm is usually a safe bet as most bars peak at midnight. I would not stand in one spot for more than 1 drink unless you have made a connection, conve… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEas soon as your perceived value is lower than hers, then you set yourself up...the key is to raise your values as high as possible and then the 9s and 10s are not as intimidating. you have to work harder if you want the top pussy until it becomes more natural | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEHB9-10 really don't need to be on tinder...they have men swarming them IRL. So, you might have to be exceptional and suggest doing something exceptional to get them to meetup. Older women go in either direction, really easy or looking for relationship and so they interrogate you, make you jump through hoops. Older women you need to impress less imo... you just need to carry yourself well and your demeanor needs to be comfortable and relaxed. They need to invision you as husband/dad even if they … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Why am I losing boners mid sex and so depressed?Almost everything you're doing is not go for boners. Drinking, smoking weed, jerking off... You should be dominating this chicks and that should turn you on... What kinda condoms are u using, some are thicker and if u are already having trouble it's tip the scales... | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEFor newbies it's better to just fill the typical male role and just buy her a drink if she already agreed to go on a date with you. Sure, for newbies it might be best to not create that tension and have to deal with that possibility. In that case, I would recommend, buying the first round and see if she offers to get the next or you tell her, ok , you're turn... I think the concern here is not be too easy and provider-ish. Imagine going out on three dates a week or more. Beers are $8 and mixed d… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEIf you have high enough SMV then bringing you back turns into "look what I got..." I had one girl that deliberately who moan loud so her roommate heard it. It was so loud I would cover her mouth because it was fucking with my concentration. The difference I think is if they TRUST there roommate not to tell everyone, think college freshman or just immature chicks i guess | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEGood luck. I managed to get her talking about herself a lot and i talked about the music or the bar/area we were in. I asked her questions, so what's your favorite x,y,z... This made her more interested in me and eventually she asked me questions and then I could play and tease...keep the mystery going a bit longer...you'll have to answer some questions of course and you can reward her with a drink if she's being extremely good and she's touching you a lot. And after she's already bought herself… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | How to act in a environmentn where LTR ex's are around? Please share tipsSay as little as possible. Play up your strengths (job, degree, school, or some other accomplishment) when asked specifically but be vague about what you actually do. Don't ask or show interest in other guys there. It'll be one big pissing contest...hi, my name is so and so, nice to meet you...don't offer your hand unless they offer first. Sports, cars, liquor...keep it to bro talk...definitely don't be up your girls ass...make sure you dance with her and that you are the one to get her to dance… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Plate datesDancing in a dark club for no more than 2 hours and go home and bang her. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Best reply for this tinder message?No best response...something that fits your personality...I would reply with I thought tinder is for...[something else that is equally as absurd but from a male perspective...] flip the frame... | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:41 AM |
| 5 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEMe: "Let's get atta here..." Her: "Where do wanna go?" Me: "How close is your place from here?" Her: "Blah, blah, blah.." Me: "Ok, let just go to ypur place then..." Her: "Ok, I'll get an uber..." Me [change topic] I fucking hate blah, blah... And that was it... I never drive to "dates" unless I am going to their crib specifically and I've banged her already... ****And always bring condoms, at least three...and don't be a pussy about it...if you don have any, tell her I have to stop at the 7-11 … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I gently tell a girl I'm seeing to relax because she's ruining my vibe?Well sure that's cold...and if that congruent with u that cool. But you could prematurely push a plate off the shelf. GL | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How do I gently tell a girl I'm seeing to relax because she's ruining my vibe?You're not completely numb if you haven't already handle this situation with either take what you want or a next... you want control, you have to lead..."cold asshole" thats not you talking...I've been told I'm a cold asshole all the time but I know I am not, i just want what I want... | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 01:00 AM |
| 3 | How do I gently tell a girl I'm seeing to relax because she's ruining my vibe?As a man you have to lead...coach or guide her to what you want...just flip her over after 10 mins of missionary...if she balks, you'll have to address this afterwards by telling her you want to spice things up...soft next her...let her think about that... | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 12:39 AM |
| 3 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEYou straight crouch but you do it with legs wide apart part of the dance move...your job is simply it rub that pussy a little and pop back up and then dance upright and then crouch again...you need a heavy rap song that allows for the move or it's dark enough that it's not fucking obvious...the point is show her you want to fuck and get her horney without getting way into it...you know what I mean...both knees should be bent... Edit: if you're really on point and she's dtf and worked up...litera… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 12:26 AM |
| 2 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEYeah because my music was whatever I could find on YouTube and the wine was 9 bucks because who spends money on wine like that...I also played it real cool with this chick...kept my distance just had my hands on her legs and tights..went in for a few short kisses...backed away...I deliberately didn't act thirsty because I wasn't...I had a take it or leave it attitude...I got up and said let's go to my bedroom, walked in, and plopped down...I woke up and she's cuddling with me...then I fucked her… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 11:52 PM |
| 19 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEyes, I kiss on the cheek and hug...it is a must to show your confidence and to immediately get physical...she smells you, feels your muscles/strength...should set the right tone for the rest of the encounter. If she pulls back then you know you have some work to do or you might not be with a girl ready to fuck...yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 09:50 PM |
| 16 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEI'm getting laid...sprinkle in some tinder chicks and keep the rotation moving. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 08:36 PM |
| 7 | FIELD REPORT SAME DAY F CLOSEI have one report from last weekend cold approach at a bar 24 yo French girl...took her home and banged her at 2am... but that was real straightforward.... just, hey want to come back to my place and listen to music kinda thing...get back, crack some wine, play some music and then escalate...not much to report about. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The Downsides of Prostitution: Don't Hire an EscortWhat about just if the girl comes to your crib alone. Sounds like the safest route. You can PM any suggestions or specifics if you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | The Downsides of Prostitution: Don't Hire an EscortThanks for the response. What do you mean that "shit can be dangerous?" | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 05:21 PM |
| 5 | The Downsides of Prostitution: Don't Hire an Escortcall up that escort agency how does one get an escort anyway..is it really just call up an agency? Anyone know of websites that walk people through the process. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 05:13 PM |
| 2 | The Downsides of Prostitution: Don't Hire an EscortI like your point about how there are some people that need to pay because they have some problem and would otherwise be rejected if they tried to pick up a girl on their own. There is also a field of sex therapy which intends to be therapeutic but it is not legal in many states. Prostitution can provide some therapeutic value to men that struggle with sexaul performance, intimacy, or just inexperience. But it should not be relied upon, just like anything else. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I can't get over it what I said/did to my ex-LTR gf after I found out she cheatedLesson learned.. I can't honestly say that I have only one cringe worthy experience similar to yours and so ducking grateful... never be that guy again...delete her number and move on... | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Trying to raise my 15yo son RP. How to handle results of searching his browser history?It's your job to raise your son on how to be a man...he is clearly at that age. Make that clear to your wife that you'll be handling that discipline and all. You're son job is to respect his mother. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Club Game: How to pull lays?penetrating eye contact...dominate her with your eye contact...of course have a smirk on your face and when she breaks contact...pick up the conversation...then touch her leg, I grab the quad with my hands and squeeze...I try to move them up as far as she will let me...be comfortable with touching her...if you are cute girls will let you get away with tons of sexual touch and talk...they expect it...but you have to get her one on one... | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Guys in LTRs: How do you go about plate spinning?You have to take more time prospecting them, Meet briefly for one cocktail and get a sense of the girl. You basically want a girl who is DTF not looking for a relationship...so younger types or girls cheating. Then you set up a meet up or whatever u want to call it...You can use airbnb or get hotel room for a weekend. Although it shouldn't be hard to go back to their place. Make sure you find out if they live alone or that they are comfortable taking you back. In your case, you really have to fi… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 02:05 AM |
| 13 | Tips when falling into scarcity ?Too much is revolving around women and not yourself. Get back to you. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | On Status: What it is and how to improve itAlthough again, you will learn more by associating with people that are better than you It is a balance. I am humble enough to learn from others and then strike out on my own to test my newfound teachings. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Going for sex on the 2nd date rather than the 1stIt's not really a tough call...your job is escalate until she draws the line. There may never be a second date...right ? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I want to slap a bitch but I don’t like prisonDon't open hand slap a girl without doing everything else...seriously. the slap is the last and final measure imo. You have to achieve domination first..then you can slap. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else think women just want you to open up?I'm with a girl right now, she taking a leak...u open just a crack and listen to her spill her guts..she's feel connected...you'll still be a mystery...escalate. all girls know the deal...yoire either an emotional tampon or guy who wants to fuck.. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 05:49 AM |
| 1 | If a girl changes the time of the date..Say nothing, sure, ok, don't be cute... 30 mins is nothing. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Nothing works, I prefer killing myselfPM me your general location (city and state) and if I can help, I will. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Couldn't get hard on a same day lay with new platelet me ask, can you imagine in your mind, a vivid sexual scene where you are the one dominating a woman and get yourself hard within seconds? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 05:29 PM |
| 3 | How to convert a great lay into a plateI mean, for me, I learned just to continue prospecting other women and letting them come to me. I don't pursue them or bother with texting back and forth. If a girl wants to hang out again, she'll let me know. Of course, that can cause a plate to lose interest or drop... in your case, you seem pretty smitten with her and so you don't want this ONS to fade away and so you might just invite her over again to your place specifically...edit: within a week or two TOPS..after 2 weeks you run the risk … | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 05:13 PM |
| 6 | How to convert a great lay into a platewell, you did the first and most important thing...fucked the living shit out of her. If she wants your cock, she'll contact you with a text, probably saying something like what's up? or Hey! If you are NOT the type to play it cool...then you can invite her over again when it is convenient for you. And escalate. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 04:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I lose feelingsyou don't "Catch" or "lose" feelings...you manage them internally. Feelings provide information to you...you interpret those feelings and act. the fact that you started feeling after sex should tell you something...that it was the sex and NOT her..because if it were her, you would had feelings for her already...if you DON'T want to lose the relationship then STOP fucking her...although, the seal is broke and you could lose the friendship if you don't fuck her...cause now she'll be like, wtf.. ju… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 03:39 PM |
| 2 | LTR is depressed and has lost all interest in sex, including masturbation.. what to do?If she is consistently denying sex because she is not in the mood because of depression over an extended period of time, like more than 6 weeks...it shows she doesn't care about your needs...I would dump her. But your job is escalate with her when you want to fuck ..let her say stop...but I would find a plate asap...this probably gets worse before it gets better. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 10:14 PM |
| 4 | LTR is depressed and has lost all interest in sex, including masturbation.. what to do?just be chill and listen to her for about 30 minutes, empathize and then move on to something you need to do. women's depression is exceedingly complicated because of a lot times they do not come out with x makes me depressed...its like x+y pissed me off but then A happened and I was ok then my mother hung up on me...blah blah..you got to just listen, say something, and then go about your business. Trust I am a therapist and I have dated a depressed girl...9 times out of 10 it is complete non-se… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Be prepared to walk away from anybody.sometimes you have to be humble enough to say I looking for a wingman or i'm new to town and trying to meet people OR just let's grab a beer sometime...you'd be surprised on how you can make friendships over that beer(s) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/18 09:15 PM |
| 25 | The Alpha and the High SMV woman.hot chick testing your frame...I think this is par for the course. Do I sense a budding One-i-tis...are you developing other plates? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | How to Proceed after Sex with potential plate?i took a girl home from the bar and banged her, in the AM, when I kicked her out, I said, text me if you get bored...that is what came to my mind..i think she got the point that I would not be the one to contact her...if she hits me back, she hits me back, if not...i might text her one night or NOT... you should be able to grab another girl an repeat | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Making girls slutty.FYI: if you meet resistance, sometimes it has to do with a history of abuse, some girls get triggered, and if you experiencing that or they allude to having been abused, it might be an uphill battle OR you literally just have to not care..but be prepared for a massive shit storm | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/18 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Approach girls @ the gymApproaching? More like fucking those tight asses | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Approach girls @ the gymYou can be cool and talk with them sure...but keep it lite | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Randomly asking a girl for her number you don't know?I approached a girl and asked her to dance, she declined and I walked up to the front of the stage and rocked out to the band. No sting, no more. She approached me and asked me to put my number in her phone. I asked her to step aside and let me do it, she said no...I took her phone in the middle of the bar and called myself, told her my name and she walked away...got a text 15 mins later...asking questions about me...why was i alone...where were my friends...I said we'll when I approached you, Y… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 12:42 AM |
| -1 | completely not interested after what I'd call a succesfull cold approach. Why??I'm starting to see they are way more fickle now you see. delete this post. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How to go clubbing with an ltr?Buttery nipple? Red headed slut? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How to go clubbing with an ltr?State side bro. Big city. Probably at least 100+ bars where I live. what drinks do females order the most at your bar? Typically | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How to go clubbing with an ltr?Well whatever my point was limit your alcohol...I call em cocktails because where I go out, they say do you want a cocktail menu...so i stand corrected...GL | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 06:17 PM |
| 19 | Plate says “I have to stop seeing you because I have feelings for you” Over text. What do now?Just got done with a plate, she stayed over after I banged her and she opened up to me... She spewed some straight up TRP shit... First of all she admitted that when I kept her at a distance, not alwaysbreturning text messages and turning down booty calls... it drove her nuts and made her to want me even more. Second she said that she wanted to be "that Girl" who tamed me...she put it as the girl that I didn't want to just be sex...special. and that was why she tries not to give it up the other … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 04:00 PM |
| 7 | How to go clubbing with an ltr?You never heard the term? Cocktail is basically a mixed drink. For example, cranberry with vodka is a cocktail. But the point is for this particular night with your girl, maintain control and your head, the easiest way to lose control and your head is to drink too much... But get her wasted and make sure she has a good time... Inassume that's the point right? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 03:49 PM |
| 6 | How to go clubbing with an ltr?Lead the entire time, have a plan, keep moving, and hit the high lights, get her drunk, but don't have more than 3 cocktails yourself... | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 08:52 AM |
| 0 | Field Report: Tinder date with unexpected snowflake/feministI've been on trp since July pretty hard. I've learned one overarching principle. .LISTEN pussy is great... but you have to internalize this, your time is the most valuable element you have... there are plenty girls bro.. don t waste your time with them. You don t need to have the answer... keeping moving and have fun, don't stress over anyone... period. Just don t. Ask for what you want and if you don't get what u want fuck em seriously.. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How to convince her to blow me?Either hang in and wait or find someone else on the side to give you oral...you've got to be young so just play the field | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Tinder game and mindsetI guess you win some and lose some. I got her number and I'll follow up in a week to see if I can close her... Thanks for the feedback. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Tinder game and mindsetExactly...that's the thing...I had a great night dancing, grinding, talking about sex, kinky stuff...and at the end of night nothing. I didn't buy her drink, I drink from hers..talked explicitly about sex and she opened up about her kinkiest fantasy...I thought it was a slam dunk..NOT. Edit I should add that I live in a high class area and I just get the sense that women will NOT just over a stranger home to fuck...these are lawyers, doctors, business chicks with graduate degrees and money...I a… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Tinder game and mindsetI am in your camp. I want to display that I not some passive guy looking for girlfriend. I want to go out, have fun, and close out the night...thanks. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I constantly bring the ball in my court?Women don't come to you, but they will be around men they want to desire them... that was a big mistake I made cause I thought i was the shit, I wasn't. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Tinder game and mindsetI don't want to know the line but the gist of it...but thanks anyways | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 11:10 PM |
| 2 | If You Saw a Therapist...sounds more like you are looking to develop TRP interventions...ethically you CAN"T..your theoretical orientation should be transparent to the client, if asked, So what is your orientation or school of thought, you should be able to give a fairly short and sweet answer to the client. Otherwise, you would be "backdooring" TRP into the session. I have male clients that have TRP type issues and I always focus on the question "what are YOUR priorities?" What do YOU want out of this relationship? Wha… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Tinder game and mindsetShe knows why she's going on the date. what do you think the common perception of tinder is of women...hook-up or dating app? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Tinder game and mindsetok, what is the gist of the one line (theme or emphasis)...what does the one line aim at achieving, for example humor? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Tinder game and mindsetthat is why I made this post because as I suspected I am getting too caught up in tinder as almost like a meat market...and way too thirsty. I can do the date thing and try to move into a ONS. Going to do the date earlier so I have time to bail if she is not moving in that direction. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 06:53 PM |
| 8 | If You Saw a Therapist...but I recently realized that I have no idea how to start to help someone unplug So you are trying to get a sense of what men need to learn at the very beginning of the journey? Well unless you market yourself as RP therapist, you have to be careful that you are NOT pushing your RP agenda on the client. I would frame things as 'positive masculinity' or how to feel better about yourself as a man...some men don't see things that way. You know what i mean? They have a specific problem that they want… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Shelve Plates Before They BreakFinally some good posts that remind and expand a bit on the sidebar...this is what I like to see. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 05:19 PM |
| 2 | I always get laid on the first date but struggle to keep girls aroundI have a similar experience and it's possibly because they know it really is just sex with you and they don't want to just be your slut. They realize you are probably fucking a lot of other girls and they know they'll get hurt if they keep seeing you. Your better off, playing it really xool and saying to them I'll be out of town for the next week (or two) for work but let's do THIS again sometime and go radio silent. Let them reach out to YOU for another date...and if they don't just continue to… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Girl tryin to get me to orbit again ?what the whole point of this type of petty interaction...all the back and forth texting... decreases your odds. make a move or just keep moving and ignore her | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | how manage plate creep?i don't know how that (friendzone) has happened since every other time, we have banged and she leaves and I do not contact her. This time, I was all over her body (everywhere) and she not resistant at all but refused to fuck. I did tell her that I am NOT going for this shit.. Kinda confused. I basically not going to text her again... | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | how manage plate creep?are you sure? If you soft next a girl by simply accepting whatever she says and never initiate contact again DO YOU NOT demonstrate that you don't need her and not submitting to the frame she is demanding. For example, a plate stated to me that she wanted me to take her out and be a gentleman towards her...so she was not coming over anymore for booty calls...I simply said, "ok, good luck..." she replied, "you too.." And that was it. I walked away and was not a bitch calling her to take her out t… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pill Petersonyou can be a blue-pilled provider and reproduce...if you go to college, get a good job, and make a decent middle-class salary...then you court an attractive female (dates, gifts, demonstrating your provider prowess, and fawning dedication that you are a nice guy..)...then why need redpill to reproduce... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 04:44 PM |
| 3 | This is Why You're A Fucking Loseri find it somewhat paradoxical (and that's fine but it is probably confusing for people that don't realize life is a series of paradoxes) THAT you can have a theory on sexual strategy that fundamentally is NOT about getting laid/pursuing pussy BUT rather quite the opposite. As someone said, "as human's we are steeped in contradiction." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Can I even meet this girl???Of course...are u going to convince her otherwise??? You'll get 100s of matches, moving..GL | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Guys who live in big cities, where do you make friends?Gym and at bars...I've made several friends last two weeks just engaging them in a convo about music then engaged chicks in front of them...they bought me beers, I steered some girls to them, we started having a good time...and exchanged numbers by saying "if you need a wing or want to play poker..hit me up." that's it. They hit me up next weekend and we pulled a group of chicks to club and bumped and grind with all them...repeat and repeat. Only contact has to revolve around the chicks we mutua… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Women and Money: My personal experiencecould it simply have been that if the guy does not have money, the girl knows she does not want a LTR and so she can safely fuck him and leave if she wants and not care because he has no money...but if a guy has money then she wants to hold her value in his eyes because she knows if she gives it up, it would ruin her chances and he'll go on to the next girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you need to do to get on the fucking radarI went to club for the SB. I simply walked up to a few girls and asked them who they a rooting for. I generated conversation with at least 4 women, flirted with them, touched them, and tried to kiss one of them (she backed away but gave me her number and invited me out later that night). Girls will tell you yes or no. Assume YES until you see indictors of NO.. You really have to make things happen but be cool and causal...small talk, joke, flirt, tease...dont try to hard, dont try to impress, do… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Keeping frame after the C wordIt's means you are attractive to them...they're not going to say you HOT because they gives away too much...it's a way of conveying interest without gussing over you like a teenage heartthrob. Accept it and take it as a compliment. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | first date questionDates should be about fun...focus on helping her and giving her pointers and touching her...Cool to talk trash and flirt, she may not be that type...GL. of course show her a little dazzle...but unless she is super competitive, just have fun with it... | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Going on a vacation without girlfriendWhat? Delete this plz. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 11:48 PM |
| 0 | What are your tips and tricks in making her cum during sex?Besides not caring about her pleasure...which is rule number 1, if you are so inclined to concern yourself with that focus, then you practice, which boils down to having lots of sex...Like anything else. You experiment. My experience is that a girl will either assert herself and tell you what to do if she wants to cum...talk dirty to me, stick your fingers here, be on top, fuck me harder, don t stop, I had one girl ask me to choke her hard when I was about to cum. For some it's psychological...t… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 07:49 PM |
| 5 | I Got Cheated On and Dumped by My LTR of 4 Years: TRP LessonsAll I read was she was 24...trust me...Too young to ltr...Just keep moving bro...spin plates until you are 32ish...gain experience. But most of all build your base, your passion, your future..birches ain't shit man.. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Is "looking serious" a bad thing?you are getting told this by girls you are talking to? sometimes its because they can't read you AND they try to get you to open up...DON'T worry about it...ignore or brush it off...BUT maybe take it as a clue and loosen up just a tad...make a joke BUT don't immediately put on a smile or defend or explain yourself... | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 07:55 PM |
| 4 | What do you do if you run into a plate while on a date with a new girl?she's a plate which means you meet pretty strictly for sex. if you go on a date with a girl you have not banged yet, then you play it cool and say hello, no need to introduce your date. Hey whats up...see you later...take care, whatever. keep moving. Your date may ask, who is that..oh, just a girl I know from school/gym/neighborhood that'sit...and focus on the task at hand, which is the DATE...deflect, ignore and further attempt to give her any information. don't even break your neck, nothing. E… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | those in LTRs, how often do you fuckFairly constant 1 time a day at bedtime. If one of us is really tired and passout...oh well. Period week, drops the frequency. If I use dread or joke about her sex drive or being repressed, there will be an uptick. Rarely turn me down unless she's sick or I went mia for a bit... We both work stressful full-time jobs and I hit the gym 4 days a week. Night is really the only time for it. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on taking a "gap year" after finishing highschool?like you were straight A student in high school with multiple awards and scholarships...supernerd type..you probably could complete college in 3 years if you wanted..take any AP classes? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on taking a "gap year" after finishing highschool?I don't recommend a gap year from High School to College. Maybe a gap year between graduation and working. You want to go into college with all the information fresh in your mind. Unless you are super-high functioning or have NO fucking clue what you want to do, I do not recommend a gap year. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 08:05 PM |
| 8 | Sometimes it isn't your lack of game but your lack of testosterone. If you have the test levels of a 80 year old cuck how do you expect to have any drive? Here is a science based guide to getting your T levels up naturally.there is "thirsty" and there is "desperate." Both guys have sex on their mind but one is not pushing it so hard that it's a turn off because he did not take the time to build attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/18 03:20 PM |
| 18 | Sometimes it isn't your lack of game but your lack of testosterone. If you have the test levels of a 80 year old cuck how do you expect to have any drive? Here is a science based guide to getting your T levels up naturally.bro, we did that 20 years ago... riding bikes over town for miles, handball, you name it...all summer sun up to sun down..recess was the best!...freeze tag, stick ball, kickball, tackle football and the occasional fist fight. you had one busted ass female teacher sitting on a milkcrate, dngaf.. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/18 03:16 PM |
| 2 | The Curve of Looks,Money,Status, Gamenothing wrong with opting for the nicer place that will clearly help with women BUT if you soley bought for the purposes of impressing women than that's still BP thinking... just saying. i mean do you like the apartment? Can you really afford it? Would you still get laid without it? I happen to have a dope place too but it was less expensive (rent controlled) and I was thinking it was great for me to be in thick of things and so turns out that women love it..you should be getting laid regardless… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/18 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of an Alpha Widow/Branch Swingereven old ladies, Damn, that's hardcore...but thanks for bringing that point up...i don't mind setting out of the way for the sake of keeping things moving. Real quick example, this guy at the gym I go to will use both the smith machine and one of two flat benches. he moves between the two. I wanted to do bench one day and he was using one. So I hit some warm up sets while i watched the benches. he walked away and was doing lat pulldowns and the bench was clear for at least 5 minutes. So i starte… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateI am not so concerned about her and what she is doing. It is more about what dr_warlock said, I was seeking the "magic reply" to get her to fuck me on the side. I wanted to reply to her text in such a way that maximizes my chances at maintaining her as a plate/fuckbuddy. I do believe she is seeking out a BF and wants a guy to take her out and do things. However, TRP also teaches/explains that women have duel strategies. I was trying to optimize that strategy and I wanted to convey to her indirec… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 08:16 PM |
| 8 | How to dominate club game and get laid every timemixed but majority girls, everyone will want to join. it sounds weird but it is NOT...what the OP is suggesting is being a leader and showing these girls a good time AND all the while having a large selection of women to choose from. You're NOT focusing one of them a like a thirsty fuck.. IT's perfect BUT I would say you have to be extremely socially adept at conversing and being fun, center of attention to be the GLUE...Not everyone can pull this off and it would help if you have a tight pad to… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | The Curve of Looks,Money,Status, Gameit's an often lengthy journey of self discovery. that's the reality. Often times years and years of self-discovery and failures. Like anything else, "it don't come easy.." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 03:33 PM |
| 6 | The Curve of Looks,Money,Status, GameDon't be red pill looking beta blue balls by changing your life for women. I agree. And I have fallen into that thinking from time-to-time. Doing anything with the sole purpose of attracting women is still Blue-Pilled thinking because the underlying intent is female attention and validation from their frame (girls like big biceps, so let me work on that). Women will get pick up on your desire to please them one way or the other and they will exploit that or be turned off by that. Good point. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.good, just remember that at 24 she's still very young. You have to focus more on YOU and less on HER... that's the whole point of TRP, your life, your mission, your happiness as a MAN. You start to realize you can't control others but only your actions. I just get the sense from reading your posts/comments that you are a little too focus on controlling the situation rather than playing it cool and being in control of YOURSELF... I just think that at 24, if you take a firm or daddy/authoritative … | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 03:22 PM |
| 6 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.She's 24yo bro. She is still in party mode. You think she is going to stay with you forever? You might want to soft next her into a plate and find some other girls to date and go out with...I dk what your long term plans are but she's got sometime to grow up still...and u need to tighten up too...GL. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone asked for brutal feedback from a failed date?It's possible she was looking for a relationship but you escalated and fucked her same date. She may feel like ok he's not going to want a relationship so she ghosted you... | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Approaching: First Impressions and MoreSimple: Only approach women who give you a bunch of IOI's. Bonus points if she floats around in your vicinity to make your approach easier. At this point its all about having the balls to talk to her. This is for beginners...establish your presence and immediately move on IOIs, this will build confidence and learn what it's like to f close. Simpler: approach any female you find attractive. I don't need a reason to open a dialogue. IOIs can mean fuck all. You need to be in permanent abundance fra… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | [Repost] Why women in relationships deliberately beta-fy their menjust ruin her relationship and fuck her why can't you just fuck her and not ruin her relationship...that shit ain't alpha that's just plain old stupid... EDIT: there is one thing I learned relatively earlier in life, stay the fuck out of people's business, be fucking discreet if you banging anyone, and you want to respected and admired...not hated and despised. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | FR: They like it rough; thinking I had to add some "nice," I learned the hard waydespite saying how I'm not very nice and wouldn't make a very good boyfriend. yes, they said this constantly and they won't stop...I've been asshole for so long its not funny...but thank god I am actually an asshole.. EDIT: I should add the NOW...I wasn't always... | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 04:36 PM |
| 10 | FR: They like it rough; thinking I had to add some "nice," I learned the hard wayWhen you want to show her your altruism, be nice to the elderly, kids, and pets. In my blue pilled days I was at a museum alone. I had just moved to the city and decided to just get out and do something. When I was walking in, I noticed an old lady alone and made some comment to her about the painting and offered my arm because she was shaky...anyway, I don't remember exactly but a girl was working there watching over people as they move through the rooms and she saw the interaction and was smil… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Is this means to soft next? LTR flaked on date.you consider her a LTR and she made plans but then cancelled them. first offense, it is not the end of the world but it should be tended to. I definitely do not like the "your good babe" part...because that reinforces this behavior right? like with many issues related to this, I am concluding that you just ignore or just say "ok" and divert your attention to more important things in your life and certainly have alternatives whereby something like this doesn't make you post on askTRP. You know wh… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.Rock and hard place. That's were you put yourself. The focus is saving your job and reputation from the fact that you are cheating with a co-worker who is dating another employee who just happens to be a complete bitch but seriously even if he weren't, your job could be in jeopardy anway. Either you coach her to break up properly with her BF and make the smooth transition without you being the really bad guy (either way you are going to be a bad guy) to mitigate any professional or reputational … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 03:52 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Getting rejected multiple times at a nightclub while soberyou did some things right but your statement that you were first seeking to NOT GO is a red flag, I've been there...and it sets your mindset going into the night. It shows hesitancy and insecurity (lack of confidence). Unless you were sick or exhausted OR had a booty call lined up, there is absolutely no reason to second guess an invitation to go out to a club with a friend...not putting you down, but take a look at that aspect to your mindset. Also, if you can do sober, that's cool but if you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl on tinder asking me if I'm available on the weekend (3 days away) looking for advice pleaseonly a very little to set the tone of the relationship...so try to focus on verbal seduction and escalation because you have no idea who this girl is and you don't want to waste your time. So see if she likes innuendo and if she does not she will delete you or cancel and you arrange another date with a girl who is into you. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.Play it cool. The more you distance the more crazy she will get. You have to get her under control until you find a new job and get out of the situation. I don't see how this resolves itself unless she is able to come to grips it is/was just an affair and NOT a branch swing to you which will then create a problem with her ex...but based on what you are saying, it does not sound like she will accept her role as a plate...so worse case, it comes out and you're a dick, eventually fired for violatin… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Addicted to everythingBro, sell your fuxing console because that's an anchor, it brings you back and isolated you...get rid of it...Seriously. you can always buy one again when you have gotten out of this join a recreational sports or hobbies club, gym is a no brainer but that's only 4 hours a week... | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 01:53 AM |
| 4 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateYou're right. Funny how almost much of what happens, the conclusion is eventually...do nothing, ignore, next and find more pussy...that's what I have concluded...keep moving. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 01:10 AM |
| 2 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateOk, I can see the various types of interpretations and ways of responding here. I can take a humble and benevolent wishing them the best...or ignore and pressure flip and pursue or a nonchalant cool, later. Those are the three general responses I've gotten. I think I am getting the slow soft next here... because prior to my last text, the previous of what's up blah blah blah...she eluded to like yeah we should hang soon let me know...then I did that and now she's seeing someone...prior to that s… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl I just started dating uses "white male" or "old white male" as pejoratives when talking about her boss, politicians, or any other authority figure she dislikes...it all depends... have you banged her brains out multiple times?? do you generate the tingles...if not or you are not sure...then either do it or get rid of her...think about it, what kind of relationship is going to develop with a girl with this type of axe to grind...major hassle. get some sex from her, see how it is...and move on | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 10:06 PM |
| 3 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a Platei am starting to get it now...thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/18 09:59 PM |
| 2 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateSo ignore what she just texted me last night and maybe text her sometime after (another wee or two) to meetup/hangout...and then ghost if she declined to meet. what about what about "Jane, swallow your pride for once and invite me over fgs, [maybe add] "seeing someone" is no reason for exclusivity.. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/18 09:42 PM |
| 3 | LTR "Why can´t you just cheat on me?"yep, you have to distance yourself from her and focus on you and other plates. If she contacts you, reply but only from your frame, so sex and that's it. Or do as she says and fuck another girl and then tell her ok, I cheated on you, NOW break up with me...but what's the point of dealing with her at this point, find another GF until she learns.. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Logistics not working for me and Tindersuccessful in what sense? My experience is that the girls want actually real life experiences...they want to set up a date asap. So within the first couple of exchanges I am tell them I am going to take them out dancing...and try to set up a time and place. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Is it beta to let your LTR change your fashion and buy you clothes to wear?if you have to ask | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a Platein some sense BUT it was I who ignored her mostly because I was banging other chicks...and could not get around to schedule another date and I turned her last invitation down because I was out with friends. I purposely did not make self so easily available to her. So I guess she gave up pursuing me...then I texted her and she replied that she is dating someone now but she'll let me know if that changes...I would only be "taking her back" if she wants to continue a sexual relationship or cheat on… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Do I approach First?at the end of the day, you want to be the guy in the class that the girls are talking about or competing for your attention. If you give your attention so easily or have lower SMV then you are not really on there radar which is why IF YOU don't approach/orbit they don't talk to you. So, by building a network outside of class, which is abundance OR by ignoring all of them and pursuing life outside of class, I think you will give off a different vibe...the girls already had time to assess you, so … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Do I approach First?Ignore them all, try and go after hot chicks NOT in your classes. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 07:31 PM |
| 0 | The fear of rejection, i can’t approach no matter what?Supplement real therapy with this course. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How did it feel when you got over your Oneitis?This. It's like ypu just forget about them..they don't occupy any space in your mind...more important and pressing issues occupy ypur attention. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 07:19 PM |
| 10 | 7 Tips on KEEPING a PlateEnsure regular meetups & Take them out, play the dread game All three of my plates dropped and broke within the last month. I attribute to the failure of the two actions above. I went to the other extreme of not contacting them at all expect for sex and because I had three plates plus working on expanding (replacements)...the gaps between encounters were too long. The most recent said she found someone else because I waited too long to see her again. The second wanted me to "take her out" and "d… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Girl not responding on tinder after matching me, common situation. How's my solution?What other apps are good | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How To Command Respect In A Testosterone Filled POKER Room?totaljackass is right, use judo...pretend he has got you upset and act on tilt...make some reckless plays for small stakes, flip your cards showing your chasing or otherwise weak, then when you get a hand, you just continue the same play but you'll get people going along...he might be helping you... | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 04:13 AM |
| 5 | The Essential Power of Subcommunicationyep, good reminder that there is more than"non-verbal communication" which is part of sub-communication. It is something I pay attention when I go out for sure...I ask myself, what is my body language communicating to others...some basics...strong posture, head up, 3 second eye contact, feet shoulder width apart, leaning on something, never hands in pockets (EVER), paying attention to others body language when they see you act accordingly and immediately, don't let people get too close to you (g… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/18 04:01 AM |
| 4 | How much of an impact does a big muscular body have on women?Let's just say that when you take your shirt girls will be in awe as they see your massive chest over them as you pound them...I have a had a girl hug me and put her face to my chest and wouldn't let go...she said OH just give me a minute please...that will turn her on even more. Look at the cover of romance novels the guys shirt is open and his massive chest is exposed... It's really common knowledge and I can't believe your asking... | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Nobody came out for my birthdayShake it off...build that one friendship. No shame in saying to your friend who's taking you for dinner, "hey man, thanks for dinner, you're a good friend, and I let's make sure it stays that way..." never take a friendship for granted. Edit: I periodically will state to my friend, hey man I really appreciate your friendship and want you to know that. I want people to know that I care about them and feel it. I don't give two fucks..when someone takes the time to "invest" in you, I think it's pro… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 02:16 AM |
| 6 | How To Command Respect In A Testosterone Filled POKER Room?As you probably know, poker is about creating a very marginal edge over your opponents which among grinders and professionals is difficult. This guy has or is trying to create an edge that is to get under your skin, deflect attention away from him to you, and in some ways deter OTHERS from messing with him because he might pick on them. No one likes to be picked on in front other men in the way he is and he is unlikely to stop until you have taken quite a sizeable chunk of his money... Here is o… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Dry Spelldress/carry myself well I just lack initiation and fall back on what I have already because im lazy. Who cares what we say, you admit you're lazy and lack initiative. delete this post and stop wasting our time.. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Handling male competitionyou should know if a girl is attracted to you within fairly short order of interacting with her. If she is, then you should have made physical contact with her and established some sort of dominance. So, you can just chill out if a guy talks to her, let him make his move and trust that you are the man. treat it as a normal social interaction, don't get angry or try to hard. Especially if the guy is drunk. you can join the conversation or not. But the battle is in your mind at this point, ask you… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Girl in her underwear - Green flag?You have to ask? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 05:23 PM |
| 2 | The demise of guys - Philip ZimbardoTherefore, many men and boys just drop out of this game, never even embarking on the long, cumbersome journey of building themselves. Yes, this is absolutely correct. And many young men lack the male guidance that sets them on this journey and helps them along the way. Many men are simply cast adrift without much clear guidance and therefore miss the growth opportunities before them. Or they pampered and cuddled by their mother/feminine caretakers. So they just give up at the first ever hardship… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/18 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Rethink the time you spend hereI disagree. TRP while might seem simply to understand...is NOT. There is nuance. Some say you might need a couple months to get it, but there is a difference from understanding something and knowing something. I think people should spend time here as much as they need. Of course, they should be going out and practicing but spending time when you are not out here is fine...there is a lot to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Elite university official admits to faking concern for victimsUniversity's have historically been granted deference from the Courts to handle their own disciplinary issues. They operated by the concept of "in loco parentis" which basically means that they are the "parent in charge." This means that they are granted the authority --at their sole discretion-- to make decisions, as if they were the parent. Now there are some limitations to that...but they are minimal and by and large, this concept has been upheld by courts. I do not see this practice changing… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How to find balance between too much care vs. rudeness?maybe you have not gone through the anger phase yet... you still need to examine yourself and how you have been conditioned to be a pussy...which is why you can't throw a cigarette butt on the floor. I would go out sit on the street and smoke the pack and throw every single butt on the floor in front of you until someone says something and then tell them to 'fuck off...' seriously | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Asking Diet/Calorie advice from educated men.I was going to post a questions related to this. It has now been 1 year that I have been in the gym consistently at least three times a week ( I took two 1 week breaks during that time and missed only a couple of days for various misc reasons). I had volume concerns so halfway through I added in a second leg/upper-body day and then rotated each week (1 week 2 leg days, the next week 2 upper-body days and so forth). My rep range is fairly consistent 8 to 10 but have done a brief stint trying out … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 03:45 PM |
| 6 | NoFap: Does it work or should it be avoided?I've concluded that an occasional rub-out is ok. But IF you aren't fucking any chicks or haven't in the last 3 months and there is nothing on the horizon..You should stop. I think of it now as if I want to get some ideas on to mix things up or get kinky I might jerk off to it...But make sure I implement whatever I saw somehow... I agree, nothing beats the real thing ( no pun intended) | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | If she acts like a whore, treat her like one.risk of complications with your job how so? I am talking about just dealing with professional women outside of work that you might meet out at the grocery store or online. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | If she acts like a whore, treat her like one.""Once it's established that they're going to play nice with you, then you can return the favor, at least until she goes bad."" I get the first part (assume she is a whore) but what do you mean by the "playing nice." And secondly, I have struggled with certain girls to treat them like whores I am typically dealing with working professional women and they don't outward present like a whore to me (like some of the girls the club/bar)...any suggestions? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 22Gotcha. I'm in the states dealing with educated professional women that ask 50 questions...I've resorted to having the dates on Friday and Saturday evening and always drinks...escalate and see if they want to go back to my place for some reason...sometimes takes some fanagling but once rhey gwt in the cab at that point I'm probably 99% fuck closing... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 22is that what they are doing now?? I have plus...wtf | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread January 22how did you evaluate if they were down fuck? Ask them after a while, if they wanted to go back to your place? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Lifting: joint health + longevity; CARs to improve mobility and flexibilitysuddenly benching 225 for reps doesn't do shit for growth why is that? If I am able to bench 225 for three set of 8 to 10...I am progressing. Are you advocating that I stay below 225 and just press to failure?? Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason Women Don't Want YouThe OP is right in his overall assessment. Women want MEN, not children to tend to. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I help weak men?depends on what kind of help they need. Is it just a conversation type advice giving help about a particularly situation or are they in a tough spot financially/socially...do they have a very specific problem or is it in your estimation they are just BP and you see what is happening in their relationships?? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 03:27 PM |
| 3 | The psychopathic relationship...why does it work?you don't want to be a true psychopath nor would any women really want that either. both are damaged people that are playing games with one another...its only a matter of time before something goes wrong for one or both of them. What I have come to realize is that (as someone else mentioned here) there are sub-clinical traits that are border on this psychopathy skill that are actually healthy.. ability to be cold and rational in the face of drama, stone cold decision making without much regard f… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I go out with friends as a teen or should I stay at home and study on weekends?MY opinion, your personality is shaped through experience over time, the more formative experiences and exposure to others and environments, the better. For better or worse, early social drinking experiences can be valuable.. of course there is a downside if you drink too much. My thought is to limit your alcohol consumption to like a beer and be out on with your friends rather than stay in. Unless you seriously considering med school or some other very technical profession, I'd say those early … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How to manage plates properly?I recognize the fact that I can just move on and that it just might be the case that this chick will NOT be "plated." She says she wants to be with someone that wants to spend time to get to know her, take her out, and just not treat her like a hook-up. I wonder if that is all talk and that she is just trying to get the upper-hand. I was thinking about countering by just saying to her something to the effect. "I'm casually dating several women right now. If you want to go out on a date that's co… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 08:20 PM |
| 5 | [Field Report] TRP principles work and it is FUN!Use the words of the statement that the person just said and reframe it. Example, girls says "damn John you can really slam those shots..." I might respond, "Stacey just think how good I can slam you..." Not the best example but you get my point. Or a girl says stop that (or stop doing that) you're driving me crazy..you can say, I know something else I can do to drive you crazy (smirk on your face). You see, I guess its called word play or witty banter... I was never that good but these are the … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/18 06:19 PM |
| 4 | My wife took our daughter to a feminist rally with a friend. How to respond (if at all)?Everything boils down to male leadership and unremitting masculinity. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | I'm stuck in a huge rut right now and could use some adviceTake any fucking job that you can do and save your ass off. Tomorrow wake up and go ask a neighbor if you can help him/her for some money...put yourself in survival mode...GL | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | I'm stuck in a huge rut right now and could use some adviceFind and then re-enroll in a technology program that you think u can complete. How far along were you? | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 12:56 AM |
| 5 | How do you determine your personality?start or continue therapeutic work to get that GAD under control. Anxiety will make you avoid a ton of social activities and people that you need to actively grapple with and work through. Try to see others in a less personal way, aka don't take things do personally...guys test other guys...know who testing you and who is just being a jerk..those who test you, usually like your or at least will like you if you handle the test well..I know that is anxiety provoking...but you have to learn to hand… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/18 04:37 AM |
| 6 | What actually happens to a woman's brain when she sleeps with a lot of men?You found nothing. Did you conduct a controlled experiment? No. A girl that has fucked tons of dudes, has a fucking ton of experience with men and it also shows she is constantly either 1) branch swinger or 2) has been pumped and dumped repeatedly. Either she has decided to end the relationship or he has. This results in a high N count. A girl like this will likely not bond because either you have not done what you needed to do (like the others) or she's simply searching for her own "prince char… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/18 04:21 AM |
| 2 | The Four Horseman of the (Divorce) Apocalypse according to Traditional Marriage Counseling: STFU IS NOT "STONEWALLING"Then the woman files for divorce. What I am also saying is that 'most of the time', by the time the couple gets in to see a MC, the damage is already done, the relationship is on life-support, and whatever the MC tries is futile. As a counselor myself, I simply recognize that possibility and accept that sometimes it is about allowing the couple to come to their own conclusion that the relationship is unhealthy and best to part ways. Closure, damage control, and ok, what's the endgame (best for t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/18 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Dropped a plateI think u fucked it up with employment analogy...way too harsh imo. And not quite similar. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | What is the exit strategy for dealing with a break up in high school?Yep go for the hotter model or just another one...I dated like 6 girls in the span of several months...no one knows what they want or what the fuck is going on. If you do, u have an edge. GL | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Never satisfied in my relationships ,need advice.You don't know what you want nor how to get it. You're lost. I think it comes back to you and for you to seek out some new experiences that will broaden your base and inform you of what you like and don't like. Selection is half the battle. Don't "fall" into relationship seek out what will make you happy and if you don't know figure it out first.... | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 02:01 AM |
| 2 | On the Topic of PornographyPorn can help role model and motivate you to take those actions with a women...similar to sports psychology, you see yourself doing whatever it is that you desire and then when the time comes you ACT... I can imagine most BP men can't or won't have dominant or rough sex...but if you watch it enough it seems normal enough...otherwise jerking off for me is my melotonin when a plate isn't around... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy – The Misconceptionsone of those days... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you go about meeting girls new to your social group?what I am saying is use caution, that's all. If you have decided that you really want to bang one of the chicks in the circle then there is a way to go about it to actually ensure best possible odds to bang her. You don't want to trip over yourself or set up roadblocks. Early on HS/college that is how much of the sex is happening anyway (within groups of friends). It usually best to have the girls put out there IOIs..that was my experience. One girl will tell me so and so likes you...or a girl w… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The Four Horseman of the (Divorce) Apocalypse according to Traditional Marriage Counseling: STFU IS NOT "STONEWALLING"I think your perspective about what actually takes place in therapy is a bit skewed. Marriage counselors, like most counselors, are trained to ask the couple what they think the problem is. The presenting problem is what the counselor works off of. There are cases where the wife feels like she is doing everything and wants more help from the man (household chores, raising the kids, and going to work). And she nags, bitches, and withholds sex...because she is like WTF. If a man enters this arrang… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Ideas for easy/cheap/quick "action dates", especially for first dates?is that the same for online dating, she sees the pics and determines that? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 04:40 PM |
| 3 | To get girls to want to fuck you in high school, should you talk to them almost everyday/ everyday?<<There's a girl that I think might like me>> 1: assume she is attracted to you <<how much should I talk to the girl?>> 2 Talk is cheap. Interact with her just enough to convey sexual interest and arouse her emotions yet be a mystery/intrigue. <<Like during lunch I usually like to practice basketball in our gym or hang out with my male friends, should I abandon that to hang out with her?>> 3 NO and NO. Do what you want and be with your friends. At your age, your immature friends can be your wors… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Ideas for easy/cheap/quick "action dates", especially for first dates?MCVaghunter, taken literally, I think this is a bit idealistic. Of course, if you can do that, that's fucking awesome but I think even just a 30 minute date, doing practically anything, just to break the ice and chat and then say let's go back to my place would have more success. But I guess you got to reach for the stars... | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Ltr considering leaving from lack of comfortTwo choices: focus on law school and end the relationship harmoniously (agree with her, state that law school is very important, bad timing etc..) Or try to hit the restart button with her by providing her with a little more attention and comfort. You might want to start by saying you love her, since you already broke that seal. Meet her out an additional day...see if that changes her attitude. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP actually want from women?Umm, unrestrained SEX, hello...that's what TRP wants. Marriage is no longer seen as a means to that and it's questionable if it ever was. LTRs are a bit more effective at providing a man with that because it doesn't carry the same legal downsides as marriage. You should just follow what your own desires...GL. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Manipulation"NLP reminds one more of an unstable house built on the sand rather than an edifice founded on the empirical rock." Witkowski, T. (2010). Thirty-five years of research on Neuro-Linguistic Programming. NLP research data base. State of the art or pseudoscientific decoration?. Polish Psychological Bulletin, 41(2), 58. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy – The Misconceptionsok got it...thanks it was just an excerpt. missed that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy – The Misconceptionsi didn't even see it was RT that posted this. If that is his style then so be it. I'd prefer just a little summary/conclusion for posts here as opposed to his blog/books./ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | The Four Horseman of the (Divorce) Apocalypse according to Traditional Marriage Counseling: STFU IS NOT "STONEWALLING"Marriage counseling should NOT be based on giving the female the upper-hand. It is about mutuality. More like the concept of egalitarianism. Mutual respect, love, and communication. When either the female or the male depart from that framework, it sends the couple into a tail spin. Almost always, if the female is being critical, the male will eventually stonewall because he will begin to get resentful and rather than blowup at her which only makes matters worse, he learns to just tune her out an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy – The MisconceptionsI think you start off well but you fail to connect the dots for the reader. I am left asking myself, ok, how is this useful for me? Sure, these are 4 misconceptions, nevertheless, hypergamy is exists in full force...what actions are you implying by clearing up these misconceptions. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/18 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Could you please recommend legit redpill game material ?chazthundergut is right. There is game (small g) and then there is Game (upper-case G). You can learn social tactics that within the encounter may product attraction, interest, or desire..these micro-skills that can be used with one woman at a time. Then there is the big picture that does not necessarily involve having to game women because they will see or sense your high SMV very quickly...and you would create attraction, interest, and desire without as much as opening your mouth | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Are There Non-Materialistic Girls Out There?Find a male, in their mid to late 30s, even early 40s. I would avoid LCSWs...training is different back then. Call and talk to them by phone. You have to feel them out. You might end up seeing a few different ones a couple times each until you feel you have a good match. It's more about how you relate to one another that is key. Therapy takes time, at least 12 sessions since this is a deeper issue. But a good therapist should be able to hone in fairly quickly...you should sense that... | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Are There Non-Materialistic Girls Out There?My sense and I can be wrong is that you are disgusted with materialism but that is exactly what you sought out yourself...its not the women who are the problem, it's YOU... my advice besides hiring a high quality male psychotherapist.. is to go on a "spiritual" retreat for a while (long weekend or week long). You need to search within yourself I think...don't externalize this..what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 6 | The Four Horseman of the (Divorce) Apocalypse according to Traditional Marriage Counseling: STFU IS NOT "STONEWALLING"OP is talking about John Gottmans research...it was my reading of his work that the presence of these "four horseman" was a red flag for the marriage...when one or more of these behaviors are present in the behavioral patterns of the couple then the couple was heading for divorce. They represent very classic responses to relationship dissatisfaction by the couples. They are both maladaptive in resolving the underlying problem which is why couples eventually divorce. Stonewalling is simply when t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/18 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Can't connect during sexHow are establishing an emotional connection? Need more information. I'm not sure I see the connection, in fact, it should be the opposite. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 01:10 AM |
| 3 | How to split beta / alpha personality?Well, is work "working" for you? Paying the bills and having the time for he real self on the weekends. Why rock the boat, unless your beta behavior at work is starting to take a toll. Just one way to look it. Work generally had the master/slave dynamic. Are u able of moving up in the company? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Physically "Loose" girlsRandom bro. Typically younger girls are tighter. I've been with taller girls and one had a tight pussy and the other was like fucking air...I'd imagine the pussy stretches a little over time but probably negligible. Childbirth is a different story of course. Are u trying to figure out if your girl cheated or something | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I should be proud but I'm so fucking conflicted right now...True, in a sense, although cohabitation is much more common these days. The fact that they still live together suggests it's more likely a soft break up...he just won't commit any further. Sure she could be "done" with me psychologically referring to him to you as an "ex." But in reality they haven't actually broken up...at this point it's moot I guess... Good slay, move on... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 08:34 PM |
| 2 | I should be proud but I'm so fucking conflicted right now...Shmog is right, your post has a glimmer of "wow, did I just scored a hb8, omg... she's perfect..." and now your considering a LTR... she felt it. She still lives with the alpha that won't commit to her but is fucking her brains out...she made you wait cause she doesn't want to repeat what the dynamic she got into with ex... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.We are saying the same thing but from opposing vantage points. I happen to agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.your point is clear: You DON'T have to be CHAD to get girls. That's true. However, what I am saying is that you employ a very deceptive style rather than strive for "chadhood." Does that make sense? To me, intuitively, you are a sophisticated player, you know you are not chad or you could be but for some reason you developed a different strategy, a much more complex and sinister strategy (imho of course). It might have to do with your intelligence or some other aspect of your personality. But wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Dangerous Times – Part 3one disagreement, I think the alpha, the true alphas don't value their women and won't simply be in the gym....they may enjoy more sex but their is always something that motivates the alpha besides chicks... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Dangerous Times – Part 3most men are pussies now... the ones smart enough to be aware of whats happening are not tough SOBs, they went to college and been diluted. they have no balls like our GPs generation. My sense NOW is that most of them are secretly embracing Blue Pill strategies and crossing their fingers they don't get divorced raped or smart and crafty enough to appease the feminine imperative...its like cuck is ok as long as I get some kids and monthly sex...just leave me alone to work and do whatever, watch t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Dangerous Times – Part 3but this is no surprise for me. Women almost always married a man for resources relative to her own and they still do. It's men that have changed. It is men that have lost their self-esteem and strength. That's it, period. Women are just cleaning up the mess...the difference is that the entire social-cultural and therefore legal apparatus is deferring to this imperative... there is only one solution TRP...unfortunately being a vocal TRP is like being an vocal atheist... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Lost frame after sex rejection, dealing with text game and flaking - need advicestop and chill. do nothing. you took a girls virginity as a stranger...now she feels cheap...your play was to cuddle a little and play it cool...now you fucked it up. back way off... wait she fucked you and she did deserve some affection...i think this the case of taking too much stuff here literally... | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | HB9 tells me "I used to get up to no good"What do you think? Rule: Always assume sexual interest/attraction. Just ask her out after work for drinks and plan on sexual contact of some variety...report back | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Trying to use girl as plate for experience for escalation, where did I go wrong?good luck. she should already be showing IOIs...in my experience, girls this young are conflicted internally for variety of reason (although we live in more sex positive culture), i would not take things too personally...you have to keep pressing, she says stop (ASD/LMR)...you back off and try again...don't get discouraged. but yeah if she is not even down to kiss...find the sluts..at 17 find the more feminine looking girls, keep your ears open...we all knew who they were... | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.that is a little more clear to me but not 100%. You are suggesting that women play dumb to manipulate men, meanwhile its all a ploy to capture them?? But what does that actually look like?? What behaviors should a male look out for? and conversely you suggest that a male should act beta?? just to fuck her and then dump her? that's dark beta? <<A bumbling idiot with lots of earned skill you are an equivalent of a female bimbo.>> not sure I get this analogy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Trying to use girl as plate for experience for escalation, where did I go wrong?<< If she resists again move on>> No, do not move on. How old is she 17? As long as she is willing to meet you and kiss you and allow your hand to roam around her body, you are still in decent shape. Escalating is not just in the moment, it is with each sexualized encounter. So for example, first date -kiss, second date kiss/titties, third date kiss/titties/rub her pussy...fourth date add it up/BJ or handjob...you get my point. You have no idea but the chances of her being a virgin are also high… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.since she wants to pretend to be the hopeless romantic partner to trick you please elaborate a bit on this point...thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Trying to use girl as plate for experience for escalation, where did I go wrong?how can you plate a girl, when you can't even properly escalate? the title of your of post should be: how to grow enough balls to kiss a girl or something...if you can try playing truth or dare or spin the bottle. you need to get comfortable kissing and touching girls... in elementary school, then middle school...we would be play spin the bottle after school in the playground....then in high school at parties or whenever, we would play truth or dare...it was basically cover for all of us to kiss… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up LTR she still wants to talk to me?now that wasn't so fucking hard ...and yes, thanks. that's what I was looking for. Girls are always hedging their bets due to their experiences with players, assholes, and the ilk. And men should do the same.. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.I think you wrong and respectfully disagree. I think you are wrong because I think you misperceive the big picture. Learning to be alpha means you are able play the game on the best possible terms a man can hope for and in the process BECOMING the best possible man you can be. Forget about the ultimate outcome because once you learn the rules, YOU now have a choice in what path you take. I call this being AWARE. That's why the theory is based on the scenario depicted by The Matrix scene. Many me… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.I understand what extrasuceplz is saying because I can relate. What I hear him saying is that he is a chameleon. He can display some beta or some alpha when he determines it is necessary to bang the chick. He is appealing to his audience for the purposes of sex. He is by definition, a PLAYER. On one hand, he doesn't really care about the girls he is interacting with because its all about him and his needs (narcissist). He has no trouble lying or manipulating to get what he wants (psychopath). He… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Protectors vs providers, AFBB. Killing the blue pill dream.not just about commas but the alpha of them all, the Oxford Comma!! (pussy drip when I use them in my tinder banter.. ;-) What am I looking for? Sex, sex, and more sex..heheh | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Hanging out with the rich crowdI am not sure exactly what you are seeking...you ask how to sugar mommy her?? Well, as I understand it, you should be higher value who provided good dick and companionship (your comment she just wants "look what I got.." points to that) and in return she pays for whatever expenses there our in the process of partying and having a good time. There just needs to be an implicit if not explicit acknowledgement that you don't have a ton of dough and she is ok with that because you make up for it in t… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | She isn't kinky, advices?Seem to me he had a specific location(s) in mind...but of course you can just see who will accept that type of behavior. However to me that's throwing out the baby with the bath water...I mean of you have a viable plate, why spoil it with malice. Malice I am not sure is necessary part of bdsm either | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Fucked up LTR she still wants to talk to me?Lol, your on asktrp why? Not going to point out the sidebar to help out others...then don't be on here, spoonfeed? I fucking read the sidebar...but you seem to have something specific in mind that you don't want to share, it is like whatever bro | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Hanging out with the rich crowdSo a pretty cool rich chick wants to be your girl, is that right? You just want to plate her, right? But the problem is money ?? Does she even care or is that even on her radar or is that just your own insecurities? Because right now it doesn't seem to be a problem to her since you always fuck. If you have much higher smv than her I'm sure she'll have no problem paying the way. Just act like a prince. But don't be a bitch wanting her to support you just because you can extract benefit of these p… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up LTR she still wants to talk to me?Which article or link? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up LTR she still wants to talk to me?relax, you said she got railed by an alpha she had in her backpocket, she was in a relationship with OP the whole minus two hours after they broke up...so what she ran and banged a guy within those two hours immediately felt dirty and called him back... please direct me to the sidebar which one, which article/blog...thanks | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 10:18 PM |
| 3 | How do i break up with my gf?its hard bro..but if you are absolutely sure this is what you want...then you need to tell her directly that you want to break up. Don't bring the whole n-count into it at all. Just tell her that you are not longer interested in a long-term relationship and it's not fair to string her along. If she puts up any resistance, say fine, well ok then let's try and be friends and then soft next the friendship.. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:59 PM |
| 9 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?the cheatin/breakup is only part of the equation. if any man "falls" for one woman and lives with her for decades, revolves his whole existence around her (massive blue-pill mofo), and suddenly his wife betrays that...it is such a shock, its like tearing apart his whole world...and I would be willing to bet it was the guy who married his first fuck or crush or "hot" girl without as much more than several dates of experience with women...and furthermore, some women are so good at what they do, SE… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up LTR she still wants to talk to me?so you assume she was cheating on him too? how did you determine this from the information above? I am curious to know your thinking. THanks | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | GF won't do analumm, have you read up on it, I did...its different for everyone. and a finger is enough to be painful so anything bigger than a finger could be really painful, I hope you are bigger than a finger tho..so.. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you go about meeting girls new to your social group?let things develop organically. i disagree with some on her about that. you have to learn group dynamics as well as male-female dynamics. If you start banging one girl in the immediate social circle, the others will eventually know. Go back further, if you flirt with one, then they talk ..all the girls will evaluate you (and you'll be judged and the new will have been biased). so there is a risk with approach. A good sign is when if you enter, the other girls find an excuse to leave you alone...… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | GF won't do analI would say, get a small plug and have her wear that while you have regular intercourse. And see how she liked that. inch by inch...inch by inch.. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | GF won't do analits amazing what girls will do when there drunk..totally amazing in contrast to when they sober up the next morning. that hamster. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | She isn't kinky, advices?and where would that be? Unless they are overt with signs of submission (choker, fishnets, black nail polish) kinky comes in many packages, no?? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | GF won't do analplay it cool. you told her already that anal could be a dealbreaker. Ask yourself, you would want to immediately forced to do something that might be a little painful, wouldn't you stall a bit..? If in fact, she tries, don't you want her to enjoy it so she will continue with it? Don't try to force that shit (no pun intended), give her some time, try it a couple times, but if she eventually says NO WAY..well then she's calling your bluff (or not). | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have immensely high status and/or great looks, can you describe how women respond to you?I don't have immensely high status or looks (probably top 20%) but I think you're getting lazy too soon. You are just now getting around too closing and still have several points of SMV to gain. BUt I can answer the question based on my experiences, with high enough SMV, particularly relative to the woman, women will allow you to close with virtually little resistance (LMR) or they may say outright, I want to fuck, I am horny, or let's go "somewhere else." So as your SMV increases, the LMR will … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up LTR she still wants to talk to me?2 hours later? maybe she knew well before she told him and try to bang a few guys and when they bailed she is trying to keep her option open?? is that what you are thinking | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | She isn't kinky, advices?I started to become emotionally involved with a woman I don't like and have no future w/ so if you are honest, i bet you each other using each other for sex...what makes you emotionally involved? are you just sexually involved with a woman who you want to fuck and discard with NSA somewhere down the line...she has the power because she can refuse kinky stuff and has the nerve to put you down... | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | She isn't kinky, advices?she's 47 and took many cocks??...my gut is saying she is using you for sex, she wants control, she doesn't care about you...she puts you down...maybe she had weak guys that do what she wanted and she is use to that...she expects the same. soft next until she geta her mouth in order...am I wrong here? edit: ex husband sounds like a monster (or she is making it up) (stamnia and multiple orgaisms) so he spoiled her throughly (or she is bullshitting). But seems like you're competing with him real or… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:49 PM |
| 3 | I learned an important lesson, but at what cost?<<I think I lost frame because I got angry at her incessant efforts to get under my skin.>> You lost frame <<I fucked up by getting drunk>> Yep, you did. <<I angrily declared I would never move in with her>> another fuck up for getting angry <<fucked her like nothing happened>> should have fuck the shit out of her like she committed a fucking sin of great portions <<he thanked me that she knows what to do now>> Yeah, thanks bud for giving me some power and insight in your dumb ass... <<she's bee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/01/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Crazy boss pls helpcrying to other people to solve your problems is what losers do yep. stop crying and start taking action. when you cry other people lose respect for you (even if they don't show it) or you only bond with other losers who reinforce your victim mentality and eventually you'll be fired for acting like a bitch. Harsh but that's life. edit: the other manager is a female, even worse...you are making her fight your battles. Why can't you say to the boss, look I get it, but please don't yell at me..if y… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | She isn't kinky, advices?you best bet is to keep pushing for what you want. you could make some off hand comment like her 'being sexually repressed' or start to call her a 'starfish,' it is entirely possible that they just don't get it or have not had any training...so you have to be the one to break her. Alcohol helps create plausible deniability, get her drunk maybe?? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Fucked up in LTR & girl is pushing for power. What do I do?Yes, you are experiencing a shift in her mindset towards you. She knows that you held the power and now she is trying to shift it in her corner. This is ALL ABOUT POWER... This is so classic and predictable it's really no longer amusing but trite (to me at least). In my opinion, you are not going to win at her game because it will cause you to stoop down to her level which is precisely what she wants and ENJOYS. On one level she is just amusing herself and on the other its a deadly serious game … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeBecause any rallying cry would be condemned as racist or bigoted or whatever... white nationalism. I don't get what the problem is with enforcing our fucking immigration laws, how is that racist? BS. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeI had a girlfriend who was on the verge of breaking up with me. I didn't know it then. But she went out with a girlfriend one night. Coincidentally I ran into her out and she was with a group of people and quote shocked to see her out and drunk. I bitches her out and made a fool of myself. She went into the club and I basically was pissed and went to another bar with my friends fuming. Anyway I go to get her and I'm trying to convince her to leave with me and a fight breaks out between guys she … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeYou seem to understand this much more than me. For the sake of this argument, I'll defer. I guess what I mean is there is a identifiable group of people who have consolidated power in this country and generally impose policies that ultimately benefit "their" agenda and don't actually seem to stand for anything....which is way we have way too much socio-cultural disarray. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Beta BucksYou mean as these women copulate (have kids) the distribution of men would shift higher ??? Again why do you assume that physical attractiveness is a normal distributed variable? The 1 through 10 scale is just arbitrary scale no? Edit: maybe the mean is actually not 5 and the median is actually 6. Anyway examination of assumption is uber important in these of discussions. Faulty assumptions and your study is toast most of the time, although there are statistically corrections etc.. Edit 2: I see… | /r/askMRP | 11/01/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeI hear you. I didn't study cultural anthropology or take any class that would cover this type of subject. So I concede some ignorance. It was just my common understanding that there were two groups of Jews. The orginal Jews from Palistine way back and then with the spread and migration of the religion eventually non-palistinian white Europeans coverted religiously but didn't interbred. So basically most Israelis that came back are not really palistinian but coverted religious jews...I never unde… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/18 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Date has plans for after date.As others have said, she "made plans" to give herself an exit strategy if she doesn't dig you. The fact that this is now the second date is troublesome. She should know if she wants to fuck you or not (attraction). She may be giving you a second look. How did the first date pay out, did she bail early? The day date is a tough one imo because naturally their is a progression to a date that is more conducive to sex. Earlier dates cab be more problematic because of work the next day, people drink l… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Women who hate being dominated in the bedroom suffered sexual assault in the past?Gotcha. My experience is they either break one way or the other. I had a therapy session just tonight with a sexual abuse victim genuine. For a long time they didn't feel comfortable with men. While others went "emo kinky..." for a lack of more apt term. any extreme is possible, I haven't yet read any research on what would differentiate the direction. But I'll read up shortly. And it would be unethical of me to inquire specifically for the purpose of my own curiosity. It's their time not mine..… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeWait what? So the European Jews are not white? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Women who hate being dominated in the bedroom suffered sexual assault in the past?There are varying degrees of dominance. All of my plates allow me to spank them and hairpull. So doggie style ass smacking and hair pulling that is not too overboard or painful. Are you getting this far? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Building upper chest?experimentation. I've done the whole incline, decline, flat rotation. I have not seen any massive upper chest fill in. When i focus on overall chest development, I've seen the most overall growth. In other words, do not focus on 'upper chest' development per se. have a balanced chest program that includes flys and everything will grow is my philosophy Here is a quote: "Anyone believing that you can isolate a part of the chest needs to go home and do their research. As it stands, the chest is 1 m… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Beta BucksBut in an equally distributed field, where the women select men through the female imparitive I would expect a normal distribution of beta bucks. Please explain why you would have this assumption? What is equally distributed exactly>? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/18 03:26 PM |
| 2 | My Marriage: Red Pill to Blue PillSeems like you have a gotten a ton of good advice or at least a shit ton to think about. Regardless of how this plays out which is basically up to you, try to maintain your dignity and self-respect. Do no begging, pleading, crying, or any other emotional weakness. There is no bargaining or negotiating once you have made your decision. Be a very good listener of what is and WHAT IS NOT being said by her so you can put the pieces together because you are certainly not getting the whole truth. It s… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | My failing marriage?Or didn't think you would come look for her...Eitherway she made the decision she needed to do that...I personally don't think we are made to be monogamous...and in today's world, women are taught to be sexually liberated...it's not easy. You mean her girlfriend's male friend ? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/18 02:17 AM |
| 2 | My failing marriage?Well, considering she was caught red handed (although no guarantee she admits fault) you might try to swing this into a seperation. You both are good parents who take care of your children. I imagine it's what a lot of couples do. In all of this, you have to regain frame, increase SMV, and take control of your life...that should be the focus. She's essentially made no guarantees to you...the key is not to get caught up in her...you know? She's no longer special.. she has duty to take care of the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/18 02:03 AM |
| 2 | My failing marriage?Sorry to hear about this. You have to set your emotions aside at this point. Writing her a letter, not good. Any thing you have to say, say it to her face. You've been married for 10 years. This calls for face to face discussion. If in fact, you ultimately stay, ypu need to generate as much respect as you can. You can write out a letter to her but ONLY for your own memory. Ask her what do YOU want to do at this point wife? No sense is rehashing the past. Ask her, point blank, it light of your re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/01/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeIt not mutually exclusive meaning all elitists are not beta and all beta are not elitist. It's the beta elitist in a position of power would is a problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/18 12:27 AM |
| 3 | My friend thinks I'm using him.the fact that he is telling you this means he still values the relationship...you have to apology and reaffirm the brotherly bonds by bring this man a fucking bong and a ton of weed...sorry bro, you're right, I've been a dick lately...let us smoke the peace pipe and put it behind us... that's all guys want...we move on very quick...that should be your plan of action. And IF you are really using them or being greedy... then they are not your friends anyway..leave them alone... | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 09:31 PM |
| 4 | LTR of 1.5 years doesn’t seem to enjoy sexI've done marital counseling, two biggest reasons purported or stated for problems in relationships, money and sex. either the man is not being beta bux enough or is not being alpha fucks enough. Now this of course is a simplification. But ask yourself, what happens when people get bored? They get there needs met elsewhere... or suffer in silence and go through the obligatory/duties. Of course, you can try to improve your sex life, might as well try, just take control and do what you want. If sh… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Women are the cause of the fall of Europeit goes back to my story about the fight i got into in college. Me and some dude get into a fight. He's higher status that me because of his role of captain on one of the sports teams. He picks on me for (*accidentally) knocking a beer out of his hand to maintain his status (weak anyway) and I win the fight because after it was broken up, he was bleeding so he ran away. his girlfriend immediately grabbed my arm and was like take me back to my place and 'do want every you want..' pretty simply an… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Women are the cause of the fall of EuropeIts not just any white man's fault, its the elitist rich betas like weinstein, they can't win by strength so they devise a system where they can make the rules in their favor and whore themselves out but they are just a bunch of pussies anyway...they give in to whats in their best interest and not the best interest of their civilization. Look at Congress..bunch of pussies. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What Would Chad Do?There is noise and signal. You want to hone in on the signal. Its hard to do that with tons of noise made by people who have not yet internalized or mastered the theory and its intention. There is reading the side-bar and there is understanding the sidebar. Many people read but do not understand the side bar. The missing ingredient is experience. that is what connects theory to application. there is a ton of very practical rules of the road that will guide you in the right direction. But you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 08:52 PM |
| 6 | For a female of any species to facilitate a methodology for breeding with the best genetic partner she’s able to attract AND to ensure her own and her offspring’s survival with the best provisioning partner; this is an evolutionary jackpot.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOnYY9Mw2Fg You never close your eyes anymore when I kiss your lips And there's no tenderness like before in your fingertips You're trying hard not to show it But baby, baby I know it You lost that lovin' feelin' Whoa, that lovin' feelin' You lost that lovin' feelin' Now it's gone, gone, gone, woh Now there's no welcome look in your eyes when I reach for you And now you're starting to criticize little things I do It makes me just feel like crying 'Cause baby, some… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | The Shadow Is Where Your Alpha Essence IsI am a skeptic and I generally don't accept much until their is at least some empirical support. That being said, do not be so quick to dismiss new-age ideas such those presented in the 'the secret.' If you have been in "the zone" where life seems to just come your way? I have found that 'mindset' is an extremely powerful tool. Also, there were some articles I've read that suggest the brain is interconnected with other brains...sorta like wi-fi. Now I am not saying its true, remain skeptical, bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Building upper chest?I happen to believe that you can't target the various parts of the chest. Work for overall chest development. ALTERNATE through db, barbell, and flys...Incline brings more front delt into it. Find what works for you. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Should I be worried? What would you do???Bro, you're already cooked. Face the fact that's she going to get fucked in miami. She'll likely get drunk and pick a really cute guy, she might not even remember it. There is nothing you can do to stop and the more you try the more likely it will occur. The fact that your worried leds me to believe you need to find some other girls for yourself...forget her for now. Go on your own spring break with the boys and bang some chicks at Fat Tuesdays... | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%all i know is that on NYE, I was getting many matches and quick contacts by the girls...now I am getting a lot more matches than ever before. The only variable is that I used photos that have me at top 20% on photofeeler. But as it turns out, most photos that I thought were good, I was already using. SO I do not think that is a variable. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/18 08:16 PM |
| 3 | When a girl does not cum.I've refrained from using the word bitch...rather I say "play with your pussy FOR ME..." I've just recently used the word slut...as in "come on ride me you slut.." the first time she ignored it, the second time, she "don't call me that..." I backed off for a while. Then I reintroduced the word as "you're my little slut..." and she seemed to go along with that..all about how you package it... But another thing, is after you slammed the fuck out of her, let her cuddle with you, play with your hair… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | What are books on sex I should read to be confident in myself?Takes a lot practice...find a 5 or 6 and fuck her for several months...start there. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 03:01 AM |
| 3 | What are your qualms about paying to lose your virginity?Pay for it and get it out if the way...can't cost more than maybe $200-300. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Women can be fucking evil... especially the ones you don’t expect.Look.... worry about the things you can control. I think it's rare that someone actually sent that complaint in...the odds of this chick doing the exact same....we'll who knows...but that's out of your control. Don't get me wrong we all know bitches are vindicative...play beta, maybe they'll let it go. Remeber the rule keep two in the kitty?? Well are you increasing your EMV (Economic Market Value)? You should be applying and interviewing for better jobs anyway... I learned that lesson a couple … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 06:30 PM |
| 21 | The Alpha investment.I read a study or article once, I don't remember which but it stuck with me. They interviewed millionaires...the most common car, a 5 or 6 year old Jeep Cherokee...not a BMW, Mercedes-Benz, or Ferrari... can't judge a book by its cover. I think it's "alpha" to have compassion for the poor and weak and certainly not get caught up in your own superiority based on materialistic comparison. I would add that to this list. Compare yourself to no one but your yesterday self. Your own estimation is all … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to approach an women in an open marriage?Yeah, that what my instinct was to just interact as i would with any other chick. But you make a good point about confirming that its actually open. Not sure how I could do that other than have her call text her husband and get him to be like yep, all you bro. Lol. Thx. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 12:27 AM |
| 2 | How do you request to split the bill with a girl when you order shared stuff?I agree here. Talking about money, in my experience, almost always is an unnecessary complication. I use to think that I had to "impress"a woman by taking her out for drinks and dinner. Luckily, most women offered to pay, I would typically decline or make them pay the tip. After finding TRP and increasing my SMV, the first two dates, the chick offered to pay and refused my offer to split. But a good indicator of strength (courage for some) is your ability to assert this fact to the woman. If you… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Failed ONS ignores my insta message and unfollows memy only thought is to say to her... let's finish what we start and bang her... if you she shows any resistance or whatever BS, just move on and have a good time in the club. do not obsess over anyone. don't act angry or anything...just do you. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take to start seeing results at the gym (on average) ?you mean the week off type rest. I would say when you think you have plateaued. An example, I got up to benching 190x3x8 and then I stayed there for months. Sure some weeks I hit 195 but not as consistently as I could get 190. I thought it was diet or that I needed to switch to dumbbells. But after that 1 full week off, I am now at 205 for three sets. So, if it is unclear to you when you are going plateau, I would take a full week off every 3 months. eat and sleep well during that week if you ca… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Are you a troubled teen with no direction? Enlist in the Military.we bombed the fuck out of the middle east, let's see.. Libya, Iraq, and Afghanistan. And we provide support to factions in Syria. Drones deployment and there hellfire missiles too. I've read of estimates up to 500,000 civilians killed. Nevertheless, the Congress has not declared war against anyone...so everything that is being done is unconstitutional and illegal. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Are you a troubled teen with no direction? Enlist in the Military.Under no circumstances should you enlist the military in a form or fashion. Unless, you like being a slave of the multinational corporations. You might as well let them tattoo a serial number on your forearm. Only way to go, if you must, is there officier school and get a commission. Even then I would not advocate to anyone that they enlist. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | For a nuru body to body massage how much should you tip ?So 60 for the massage and 200 for the ending. The girls are top less or nude? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Failed ONS ignores my insta message and unfollows meI didn't read much, I read the questions you were asking and they sound beta as fuck...wondering why she did what she did rather than see what she did and respond accordingly. Fuck wasting time hamstering about why she did x,y,z...she deleted you...delete her. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Failed ONS ignores my insta message and unfollows meOne thing to do. Forget her. That's it. As you say it was a failed ons and that's all it was likely to be...move on and succeed next time. If you see her again, IGNORE her, she unfriended you instantly etc... judging by your questions, no offense, you're deep in beta land despite almost banging her...keep at it. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | found out girlfriend had 3 ons but made me wait for sexWhizkid says what I was thinking. She made you wait because you are her beta/provider. She doesn't want to risk that you'll bang her and leave because she sees some value in you besides sex. In some ways, she didn't care about the other dudes so she banged them and figured it was ons only. You fell into the beta frame by waiting too long...have u banged her yet? I would distance yourself from her a bit by not being too available to her...go out and pick up another chick in the meantime..have you… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | For a nuru body to body massage how much should you tip ?What's nuru exactly ? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:54 PM |
| 5 | How long does it take to start seeing results at the gym (on average) ?90 days. If you train consistently... 72 hr recovery for each muscle group. Proper/normal sleep and diet. I plateaued at the 6 month mark in terms big jumps, so i would focus less on the short term gains and have plan to get yourself over that hump...because I took me about 2 months weeks to figure out I was in a plateau and needed to switch up...now I am growing again. So I suggest switching up your routine every 6 weeks...and one other thing, taking one week off to rest everything is important… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:18 PM |
| 4 | I need help, Will hookers and erotic body rubs help you get comfortable with women ?This guy gets it... our brains are so powerful at reading faces and underlying emotions... if your nervous most women, most of the time, can tell. And most of the time it will hurt your ability to attract them. When you get nervous, you have to short circuit it by positive self talk and then do some approaches with basic conversation. What I'll do is talk to anyone around me about the music or what other club is cool...and then after I settle down...try again. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Is asking questions/advice/explanations and showing you don't know something a beta trait?Well make a commitment starting now to get a grip on this...you are letting other people control you. Have you read... no more Mr nice guy? Maybe join an assertiveness training group. See a therapist, a male one. GL | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Is asking questions/advice/explanations and showing you don't know something a beta trait?I understand your perspective. It seems you are anticipating an awkward situation arising...you have developed a series of automatic thoughts so you have assumed a negative situation will arise. You are paralyzed in a sense before you even act. One way is to ask yourself what's the worse thing that can happen and develop a plan to handle the situation should it arise. Most of the time what you anticipate never happens because it's all in your head. Start small. I would ask the question to the pe… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Is asking questions/advice/explanations and showing you don't know something a beta trait?My impression is of someone raising their hand in class asking a question or stating I'm not sure I understand can you explain? You ask the question with purpose of acquiring knowledge. If you worried that people will think your dumb, that's entirely either a false they won't and even if they do, what impact would that have on your life? I've always been the one to say I don't understand, please explain that again...you'll come to find out, not only are you NOT the only one who doesn't understan… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Snapchat - A Tool to Passively Game a Wide AudienceAloofness is certainly one strategy. However, when dealing highly educated women, I find that if you can convey your insight and intellect through conversation, particularly in topics she's interested in, she's develop a certain level of respect for you and at your social mastery and the fact that you understand something that she likely has studied immensely. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Is asking questions/advice/explanations and showing you don't know something a beta trait?It's beta to worry about what other people think of you. If you are trying to learn or get advise about something important you that you shouldn't care. The key is asking the right people. So that you get the correct answer. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to find a redpilled shrink?I'm a redpilled licensed therapist. I'm licensed in 1 state. I am researching the ethics of tele-therapy across state lines via Skype. I suppose u could pm me your state to start. Edit: don't buy into the notion that if you trp you don't need therapy or just do self therapy. If you it were that easy, there wouldn't be such a huge demand for services and furthermore, everyone has "blind spots." | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 03:23 AM |
| 2 | My favorite RED PILL conceptsI like the reframe as 'financial independence.' That's a better way to look it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%can I increase my elo by reverting back to swiping with more discretion? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | My favorite RED PILL conceptswhat if she's not ugly at all.but just an average girl with money. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | My favorite RED PILL conceptsWomen know where they stand. I do not buy this entitlement spell that women are under. They simply push the envelope as far as they can, just like men do to women...weak men get pushed around, most men are weak, and so like the animal in skinners box, they are conditioned to push until someone pushes back...then they feel like of maybe I got something here...but since at first they don't believe it true they test some more... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 4 | My favorite RED PILL conceptsThe rough estimate of millionaires in the US is 3.4%. I am not saying don't try but the reality for most men is that they will not be millionaires. But of course having that sort of wealth will attract the most beautiful women. The down side, is that you would be also attracting gold-diggers. And my sense is that hypergamy amongst those women will be at an all-time high. And the motivate to divorce you would be very high as well. I look at a lot of rich and powerful men (mostly politicians becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:10 PM |
| 2 | How to transition one night stand to plate?I third. If you fucked them silly, generally appeared to them in the morning as normal and handled the situation like a gentlemen l, they'll text you back within 2 weeks or sooner. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Did my wife cheat on me? If so where to go from hereYep, this right above is the game plan. Most importantly is show NO EMOTION about this. Sure you feel hurt, betrayed, angry, and whatever else. You want to talk about those feelings, pay a therapist... do not show any of these feelings towards her. STONE COLD. Buy a cot or another bed and sleep in that. Carry on your life and don't let this impact your work or job or income stream...and cautiously interact with her, once she gets the sense that you are done, who knows what she might do. reconcil… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%more like accentuate the positive, and if you have very little positive, then really accentuate what you have going for you and quickly work to improve whatever else as fast as you can...don't lie on anything that is likely to be immediately apparent. I tend to deflect or omit any negative information as skillfully as I can. Most women are living in a fantasy land and subject to wists and whims of the social media landscape. If you are just looking for a good time, most of that shit won't matter… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 09:26 PM |
| 17 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%there was post about this on askTRP... short of it is: Professional photos or at least high quality photos that show several angles to your personality and body... (pic with friends, pic doing some activity, pic with no shirt but not a selfie, pic that should show your status (like somewhere you live, clothing, or area of town)... Only swipe within immediate area that you are willing to travel for date. I would add probably within city limits or a relatively affordable cab ride (major metro area… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 09:04 PM |
| 23 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%On new years, the amount of women who contacted me exploded.."hey, going out for new years??" "Any big pans tonight??" Amazing how they all turn into whores that one night...I used the opportunity to set them up for later.. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 08:53 PM |
| 14 | Hinge data: top 10% of men get 60% of all likes, bottom 50% get 4.3%can someone explain what practical impact the elo scores has. I usually take my time and I am very selective. Then I read somewhere that it is more efficient to simply swipe right and then select from those that match with you. So I started doing that. While I do get some matches, the matches that I actually meet, almost always have converted into lays same day/night. So from that limited perspective online dating has been hugely successful for me. Of course, I am not meeting girls every week bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Talk to alot of people at parties and such, but never make real friends out of itYeah that one kid that has the house who throws parties is where you start...you need to have fun regardless. Eventually as u get to know more people, you'll go to different parties. Quite frankly, I would just walk into parties after a while...after 1am most people are fucked up and don't care...some colleges are different tho. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 12:24 AM |
| 10 | Women at my workplace made me a mysgonist.Yeah I agree. You have navigate the social aspect gently...show everyone above a 4 attention. I completely ignore the land whales... most have either resigned to the understanding that they ain't getting you or really crave your attention that just saying good morning is enough. The problem is always that one mother hen, she's always on guard for the SWJ angle...the only way to deal with her is build up the other chicks so that if she challenges you, the other girls don't support her...they may … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Women at my workplace made me a mysgonist.To be honest you may not be playing these situations off right...the key is to actually convey higher SMV so that in their mind, they wouldn't dare NOT keep you around while at the same time you give off the cool air as having a girlfriend but it's clear you "getting action" whenever. You become untouchable. And if the specific situation is they actually hit on you hard or make overt advances, you have to deflect without turning them down...flirt back gently but then say let check with my girlfr… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/18 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Talk to alot of people at parties and such, but never make real friends out of itI can say two things. If you make one friend from that group, he or she might get invited and then you ask that person if you can join them...who gives a fuck. Just be humble. That how it is in college...someone knows someone etc. If you are still struggling making one friend, then you'll have to find a way to make meaningful connection within one group. You could be the one to suggest to the group that they host a party. So you help organize a party for say the international students group on s… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | With every NY that goes by...You know, I think each of us "wants to explain" ourselves..make people understand. Everyone of us has our own struggle, journey, etc...that we want to get out but to what end? The people that care, won't really care what you've been through anyway..they'll accept you. The ones that don't care, could care less...sure there might be a few that after hearing your journey will be sooooo touched , maybe you'll change their life. I say it's not as important as to what you went through but where you're… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | With every NY that goes by...My biggest and toughest pill to swallow had been learning to embrace suffering...suffering is part of life, learn to suffer happily...of course not all of life is suffering but if you can master the down times, imo, you are a strong and wise person...better able to meet whatever ypur fate my be...no one knows... | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Losing virginity to family friend?If she's down, go for it. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Learning Calibration ?Relationship in college? No. You should be dating as many girls as possible...getting to know yourself and how you interact with women. You should learning and growing. Developing your mission and purpose. But don't be overt about it. Do broadcast this preference. Be smooth and subtle. If a girl tries to lock you down, have a very reasonable justification. Need to focus on studies or career...i would get a summer job that would get you away too. GL. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 08:31 AM |
| 2 | How not to suck at night/club gameUnless you give off a really goofy or awkward vibe.. someone as you describe should be getting some attention in a bar or club. Just chat up a few girls about non-sense, see what happens. Not sure the type of environment you're in but maybe switch up to bar. Maybe they are intimidated by you and since you ignore it confirms their assumption. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 02:38 AM |
| 2 | How to get nudes from a girl with an ugly beta bf?It's been a year... think it too long and kinda wierd to ask now...that's just my opinion. Gl, let us know how it goes | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Here's how to fuck one girl/week from swipe apps in 2018 with little time investmenti can attest to increasing their age. A girl I banged, eventually matched with me and it had her age 3 years older (23), she was 20 a the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Must Read Book on Body LanguageI happen to agree that smiling is submissive but when a large, handsome man, smiles (high SMV), it's a little different. A girl who would normally be intimidated now feels just a little more comfortable showing interest...and then once the man has the green light, he can demonstrate dominance. I often smile to make others feel a little more comfortable around me because I know my presence can be intimidating. I smile at the weak and the eldery | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Must Read Book on Body Languagebody language books are a form of hamstering. Any girl that is paying attention to you, should be a signal. my rule of thumb is that people act TOWARDs things that they value. Even if a girl is being bitchy, she is acting TOWARDS you. a smile, eye contact, a touch, getting closer all suggest some degree of interest. those books are only as good as you have mastered your own calibration and social skills. For example, approaching from the back. I've deliberately done it. WHY? To create anxiety in… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Lesson learned: NO sex talk. How I messed up her shit test. Need input.I really started to cringe though when you said "I cut my losses and told her it was cool and that if she needed to talk some day she can call me. The end.< this was the worst possible response out of all possible worse responses. You are cooked. you are basically saying you are one huge fucking tampon... in the future, say I am not interested in talking about your 'marriage' right now, I am more interested in talking about what I am going to do you when we meet..she'll say something like , oh, … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Learning Calibration ?calibration is KING. its the goldilocks principle. not too hot or too cold. the girls are already giving you feedback by telling you that you are 'too hot.' I would slow down and be less sexual and less teasing. Sprinkle those in like on top of a cake. A cake has a large inner layers with icing covering them up, and only a little sprinkles...you obviously see the sprinkles but first focus more on letting them get to know your layers too. i dk, but your best bet might first be to get a 'girlfrien… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you become a part of a big social circle or network that consists of hot girls?i agree with responder that suggest finding a 'social node.' Not all of them are hot but they have massive connections and know a lot of people. Identify those types and get to know them...they'll likely invite you out, friend them on FB or whatever | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl gets guys to threaten mei wouldn't bluff. If you feel that the calls are inflicting emotional distress such that you are worried about physical and emotional harm, act accordingly. Make no mistake, you are being emotionally abused. As others have said, that's harassment. Did you tell the caller to stop? If not, then send a text to the phone number stating "stop calling me." Screenshot it. I would avoid all of the people you suspect are involved. I would confide in at least one trusted faculty like an academic advisor O… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Importance of Perceptionmy female supervisor gave me bottle of vodka for christmas... i think she has the hots for me...i flirt a bit back then turn to business... don't be the guy that plays it straight when clearly the boss is cool and open...all you have to do skirt around the edge just a bit. don't be a poindexter. you'll get further. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | If you aren't lifting then start now. Story about a bar fighti don't believe I saw any comment about the girls behaviors. Don't let girls get you into a fight, you had two chances to avoid anything. And why did the girl throw her beer on your brother. What did he do or say? and why did both of you get kicked out. you failed to gauge the two skinny men properly. a girl breaking from her two men to dance with you, most of the time she is making them jealous or trying to get away from them. you did not properly consider these two possibilities. One is to shu… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 07:21 PM |
| 69 | ..and it checks outso when you say TRP held up, it sounds like what you are saying is that in this case the concept of hypergamy was illustrated to you...right? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 06:59 PM |
| -1 | Need more BJs from LTR, how to get there and overcome shitttestsI can't seem to find it online for free. I am not paying for any ebook since most of then are shit... | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Need more BJs from LTR, how to get there and overcome shitttestsFirst, stop going down on her. Rub and finger her until she's wet and then fuck her. You going down in her and she is not reciprocal, is a big STOP sign. I had this exact situation happen to me. After maybe 10 times of this, I basically just got bored and I said to her " I can't do this anymore" and stopped mid-sex. She immediately cracked and started sucking my dick. She does it lazily now and I just stop and wait or say got back on it or grab her head. Overtime, she will do it longer and give … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 05:12 PM |
| 2 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.deserves a shot no one deserves anything, either you take your shot when presented to you for whatever reason or you create "your own" opportunities. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 04:44 PM |
| 2 | A scary truth I am learning about success in both life and with women.I am not sure that people are even aware of what they do. I think that they actually view your behavior as wrong or incorrect rather than come conscious attempt to bring you down. Or they have bitterness and anger because they are losers and they can't understand why. You can sometimes interpret their behavior as an attack or criticism but it's ultimately a defence mechanism where they project or displace onto you. It's best to say to yourself, "he or she's projecting, it has nothing to do with … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Women's problems: how to deal with preciselyAn offer of help can be seen by her as 1) you don't get it or 2) you don't think she's capable... almost always when my girl or plate launches into her bad day or situation and regardless of what offer to do, she forgets and either magically she says "it'll be fine" or she forgets it was even a problem. Its at those times they are seeking comfort and validation, that what you should provide in a very small dose. A little hug and something like ""I'm sure it'll be alright" or" you'll work it out.… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 05:33 PM |
| 50 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Yep. Sometimes you got to cut your losses. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:01 PM |
| 3 | LTR oraganising a canoeing trip abroad. Didn't invited me. Help with frame and confront, please.It could be that you don't canoe and she knows that. It could have been one of those trips where if you don't get into the canoe, then you're a third wheel and logistically it would be like you aren't there anyway. She did the trip last time without you ? It could be that she just thought it's her thing and not yours. That's the only valid reason for not inviting you. If you get the sense that the above is not the real reason, then GHOST her...you've been banging her for almost two years exclusi… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Best places to a first date after barely talking to a girlMy opinion. Wait until you see her at the gym again and approach her. Act like your kiss was just whatever. I think you're setting yourself up here. You were black out drunk when you kissed her. Do you think you have enough courage and game to do all that without drinking?? You know what I mean? Was she just as drunk? Are you going to be bf/gf? You need to slow down and establish yourself...so moving to kissing again right away..I dk. You don't know anything about her... that's just my gut react… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else thinks photoshooted pics of men are beta?Come on. We now live in the "insta-age." Most 20 somethings are on instagram, snapchat, and facebook...that's their social landscape. Getting professionals pictures that make you attractive or look cool is what IT'S all about for these groups...its not beta because they are in fact increasing their value on social media...its a new age bro. Either get on in or get out competed, if you are in that realm. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:41 AM |
| 1 | There's a really intense AWKWARD tension whenever I talk to people."People respect me, find me attractive....." But either they are intimidated by you or socially you are judgmental and critical and they feel that. Alternatively you are intense and give off an aloof vibe...people don't know how to engage you, so they avoid you. I feel the same way as you many times...quite frankly I just don't like a lot of people and they feel it OR at times I can be quite serious and really focused on something. It's going to happen, either you just these people go OR you rem… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:36 AM |
| 2 | How to improve charisma/tone of voice?Charisma comes from inner knowledge and confidence. You "know" that you know. You have had enlightening experiences, almost spiritual like. You have at times, gotten in a "zone." And people just respond to you, you have developed profound insight into something such as some aspect or many aspects of life. You convey that through ypur behaviors...imo most charismatic people know other people who are charismatic and watched the interact such as family members ot friends...or you pick up on these c… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:26 AM |
| 1 | What's the trp opinion on career oriented pre Wall women?I think it depends on their careers. Some are "set." They have a job they enjoy and make good money. They have enough flexibility to handle family life if they want. But they all know they have a few more years to wait. The job is unlikely to change. They have a house/condo, luxury car, and all the materiality they want. They are well traveled and cultured. The more attractive they are, the better they will be because they can afford to keep themselves sexy, clothing, nails, hair, spa, trainers … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Shame, Fetish - Porn AddictYou may try therapy or group therapy to explore more what is actually going on. Is may be simply a fetish, gender identity conflict, or something else. The triggers and feelings of shame need to be explored. It could be a matter of changing your perspective on the behavior itself. There seems to be a lot wrapped up in this concern. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Ever went to therapy ?Anhedonia? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 04:33 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this workout programNo. Follow general principles. Rest and recovery beside appropriate stimulus (volume, intensity, and load) is the most important. It's the other side of the coin. Recovery also includes nutrition. If you're young and healthy, it's the one area ypu cab get away with for a while...just eat normally and basically stay way from junk. You'll be fine. Start there and read and watch. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:33 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of this workout programUmm, sorry scrap this completely. Without knowing anything about you, even assuming you are not a beginner, you are clearly over training, like not even funny bro...when do you recover?? Real quick: I train upper and lower body seperately twice a week. So Monday and Thursday Legs. Tuesday and Friday Upper Body. Wed, Sat, Sun, are off-days. Anyway because of the Thanksgiving holiday I took off a week after training for months straight. I started to plateau a month before thanksgiving. When I resu… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Lifting is great but in what ways can I train the muscle in my head?Read and expand your vocabulary. There are vocabulary builders. Vocabulary is a vastly under appreciated and neglected piece of TRP. I bought two vocabulary bools: one was by Merriam-Webster, where you learn each day or week 10 words or something. The other was a book on common words that shpuld be in your vocabulary. You think in words and communicate in words, the more words you know, the more effective communicator ypu become and that helps your brain form new connections... | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What is trps view on giving gifts ?I recently been given the advice within a general conversation to give a plate or GF some chocolate when you visit or they come over "because girls love that shit..." the individual suggested that it would help promote the relationship in some way. I've seen my friend do this after he comes back from being away from his fiancé. Intuitively it feels beta to me...suplicating-ish..to make up for being away. No? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Is it unreasonable to expect an LTR to have sex every time I want it?To answer your question, it is unreasonable for you to expect her to have sex every night. Sometimes people have other stress and illness that zap there energy. Relax. As long as she is genuinely not in the mood for whatever reason, just accept it. Look at it this way 90% of the time she's DTF which is a positive indicator. Don't expect sex on demand, give them a break to recharge, and just otherwise act completely unfazed. Every once in a while just rub her back or cuddle, it will reap dividend… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Is the TRP that accurate?Perhaps ypu can explain what truths are being bent to the extreme. If you can't list several with a reason why they are too extreme then you have no idea what you are saying...so please explain. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How do i cold approach without violating social norms"Mask his sexual intentions.." exactly the best way is not have them on the initial approach...that's my point. You don't want to be a thirsty mofo dripping in desperation... | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How do i cold approach without violating social normsTell that to the rookie who telegraphs his sole interest in sex...walk before you crawl. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Where to game 18 year olds as a 27 year old?I wouldn't focus on age, you basically want young attractive women between the ages of 18 and 25...18 through 21 go to Mall or college area...21 through 25 go to night clubs and Bars...for a mixture of both go to the college bars...but if you don't go to that college good luck...you need to big an urban area where the college is in the city for that to work... | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Can’t get laid to save my life. Some real advice would be greatly appreciated.Don't try so hard...relax and have a good time. I think getting laid consistently is about proper "prospecting" and I mean being able to tell which girls are down to fuck and work on them. If you are going to a large club scene that means the places are swarmed etc..maybe find a slightly smaller bar nearby, where is less going on...take it slower. Have more natural conversations. You'll be able to "see" more in those environments and allocate your time better...once you learn how to read them be… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 03:32 PM |
| 8 | How can i replace porn addiction with another habit?Develop plates and fuck them instead of porn is the way to go. ..in the meantime, downgrade from Internet porn videos back to just pictures...use your imagination. Instead of porn every day, go to every other day...every two days. Once you've exercised some control over it, you'll be in a better place to deal with cues...cues are typically visual images of women on TV or on the Internet. You'll have to limit tv viewership for a while but when you hit a cue...instead take a walk, do jumping jacks… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 06:05 AM |
| 28 | How do i cold approach without violating social normsApproach women without the idea that you want them or want anything from them, other than to elicit positive small talk/chit chat. For example, today I am traveling home for xmas, I'm at the bus stop, I get inline for a protien smoothie at some hipster juice shack, there is girl in line with a tight ass, black yoga pants...i order and step aside sorta looking at the different products, she asks the clerk what do u recommend, blah blah blah, I say to her just get what I got...and the clerk says i… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Social Science is too broad of a catagory to paint as totally blue pill. What you learn in college and if you consider a PhD is that the academy is made of schools, departments, and individual professors. Each department has an overall focus or speciality or specialities, and then you have the individual professors who's interest are so diverse it's not funny. So you can have a blue-pilled department with a minority of professors who are not, especially if they have tenor. However, in many profe… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Never went, two graduate degrees tho...in the social sciences... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Yep, professors driven to publish or perish, for the sake of the institution prestige. No joke when I was interviewing for ph.d programs I was asked..... if accepted to the program would I be willing to retake the entrance exam to get a higher score on one of the sections...that my entrance exam score might bring down the reported entrance exam score average that they list on their website. Higher entrance exams gives the perception that the school is selective and elite...meanwhile, I fucked a … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?Well the primary problem is the concentration of females on campus and the bubble that forms around them because universities are too scared to take any real stand on issues. They become echo chambers and empowerment centers. Universities are only worried about enrollment and their reputation. I went to a liberal art private school and I took women's studies and maybe one other course that I thought indoctrinated social values. Besides the content, I was excluded from at least two classes as one… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | quick text question. question about attractivnessI would respond, something to effect...it's between us guys...sorry. don't shit on the male space. He interrupting male time...I wouldn't respond, unless u already fucked her and or youre about to go fuck after the boys go home.. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?I'd say that the rise of identity policies is straightup degenerative across the board, not just ruining male - female interpersonal relationships. But you could be right that it has exerted a massive influence on them. And I'd say it's not just the communists who propagate identity politics, it's the corporate state that also swoops in amongst the chaos and exerts pressure to get laws written to increase profits... I orginally was a Federal Reserve critic where by the elites controlled our bank… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?My rough guess is with Trump's election, over alpha Clinton (shock to most uninformed people) got women and the welfare state extremely worried and so they are pushing back on men even harder to exert more pressure on men collectively. Female railing cry. But men did unite. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Did patriarchy evolve by natural selection? If so, is feminization of men the death of a society?""Today, the male sex is targeted for social and legal domination via the female imperitive"" First off, nice job. I agree with your conclusion that men need to regroup so to speak. I think your socio-cultural analysis is incomplete. I think you need to expand more on what factors have engendered the shift towards targeting males. What you present I think has been fairly well put forth already. Males>females in a very specific time period and life circumstances through natural selection. Q: Is i… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 09:08 PM |
| 3 | How can I carry on with a conversation in an interesting manner?To be interesting you have to be interested. Get it? Yes mutual attraction first. If she's interested, she start with something...usually "what exactly do you do? Or "what brings you to this city?" From there be as vague as possible with clearly trying to not answer (that takes skill). Nevertheless from there you can be interested in things you already know about her or that she starts to reveal as she speaks. Girls don't want to sit through a lecture nor do want to much interogation. I'd 70/30 … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 07:34 PM |
| 6 | What should you do when a girl asks you for help complaining about a guy?Just say "quite frankly, I can think of better things that you and I can do....than talk about him. And kino. You either fuck her or she'll stop talking about this guy... | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?I knew of a skinhead guy who had one of the hottest gfs around. I couldn't take my eyes off her and kept thinking how the fuck did this guy pull her. Needless to say, they were all into tattoos, hipster type...he could have been the tattoo artist, I think. Anyway point was he was short and bald BUT jacked and tough/dominant. So you can pull hotty. I think you're psyching yourself out. Start off with 7s...then 8s...maybe that'll help show you that you can pull them.. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 07:23 PM |
| 4 | How long did it take you from beta bucks to alpha chad?That's life Bro. Get used to that aspect but hedge against by always expanding your social network(s). Take some to work on yourself and your career. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 07:12 PM |
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