Try and keep this brief. So, I've been seeing a girl for about a four weeks now. And over this time we've gone on four dates, predominately bars and mini-golf.

She usually will pay for some drinks for the both of us without me asking which is a good sign. And lately, she's been talking about the future and asking me to plan trips with her and buying a ticket to NYC for new years with her (which I've always played off as no because committing to that this early is crazy) and basically showing a lot of interest (always being available when I am, mate-guarding me, etc.)

However, here's the kicker. We haven't fucked yet. We've made out, she's been on top of me, slept over, but the time I went for the move she said: "not yet." And last time I dropped her off at her house, she said she didn't want me coming in because her place is trashed because of construction (which isn't a lie). So, now after reading everything on Red Pill for awhile now (this is a burner account), I'm curious:

Do you guys think I'm just the guy taking her on dates, then she goes and hooks up with someone else? Or is this just a girl with values? (AWALT I know) Her friends that set me up with her said that she's never slept around and she has a great family. And, I'm not doing stupid shit like texting her, being her emotional tampon, or not being assertive. But, Red Pill preaches that she should be fucking you by date 2-3 and here we are.

Tldr: Girl is showing great interest in me, buying drinks, planning shit out, but we haven't smashed after 4 dates. Am I getting strung along? Or am I overthinking?