Im really trying hard to be less invested than her and don't wanna ruin it with my autism. I hard nexted oneitis for 3 months. We met drunk at a party and she asked me why I keep ignoring her. I escalated to holding hands and stuff (3hours). We were heading to my house but she rejected my unintentional lean in and I knew she thought I was about to kiss her so I got butt hurt and sobered up. I kept her nexted after that. I Ignore her messages but she keeps messaging and approaching me from time to time. Shes treats me very well, like I didn't do anything to her. Who the fuck would he nice to a person that ignores them? I was wondering if asking her why she keeps reaching out to me when I'm clearly trying to ignore her a good idea? Setting up a date is impossible now since it would be 0 to 100.