Coworkers, buddies, or whoever essentially keeps calling me a virgin or saying some shit along the lines of "we need to get x a girlfriend" or " x needs to get laid" or essentially accusing me of having a tiny penis. is this just regular fuckin banter that i should shrug off or does it ultimately mean that a broad audience of people just gets the vibe that I'm a fuckin loser? Usually upon hearing one of the statements I'll retort with " ask your sister" or "why would I want a long term commitment for something i could get anyways haha" in a joking manner. Just the thought that people might think I'm a loser virgin fucking cripples me. I don't do bad in social situations, I've got multiple people that hit me up at least a couple times a month to hang out, but this is singlehandedly the thing that fucking grates on me. I feel it automatically sets me at the level of a literal fucking autist. Anyways, I'd appreciate any input.