Keeping interest in between dates/hanging out?

DiscordantMonk · 2017-12-05T17:14:13+00:00

I don't text first. If they do text me I will talk though.

quicklogaccount · 2017-12-05T18:58:27+00:00

You're right there, keeping her interest for a long time between meet ups has a knack for being a hellish task if she's an attention seeker. But at the same time you don't create attraction through texting, you create comfort and often lose attraction.

The idea is, don't text. If she texts, show interest and look into setting a date.

askmrcia · 2017-12-05T19:20:47+00:00

Women get so much attention that it seems they'd forget about you.

So be it if that's the case. This is why you should always have other girls of your own.

As far as your question? It really depends. Sometimes I'll send a random text about something they mentioned to me before.

Here's an example:

Took this girl out last Friday. She mentioned she has no car for this week due to it being in the shop.

Haven't talked to her since Sunday. Its Tuesday now. We have plans to meet Friday. So I'll send a text "how's carpooling to work this week been?"

Depending on her answer (I expect it to be really short) I won't respond until Thurs (day before we meet up).

That's it

supermanlarry · 2017-12-05T20:21:27+00:00

you got to have push-pull. Not texting her is kind of like push. As long as you see her a couple times per week then she won't "forget" about you. However if you just have conversations over txt that aren't logistics then you could be pushing her away- whether it be because she thinks you're too clingy or she just gets tired of you.

ScottDurden · 2017-12-05T22:31:52+00:00

If you're worried about maintaining a girls interest you're not spinning enough girls.

The only time you're worried about keeping a girl on the string is if you have a scarcity mentality. Spin 2-3 girls at a time & you'll never have to worry about this.

Title	Keeping interest in between dates/hanging out?
Author	pepperoninips7
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Comments	7
Date	December 5, 2017 5:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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