So I'm 38. I'm in good shape, good career, and I don't take shit from women during the dating process. They appreciate the fact that I have backbone without being a dick.

I know the general position of TRP regarding post-wall women and single moms (regardless of hotness) is that they're both to be avoided - and I concur - but even with maximal realistically achievable value on my part, there's a limited supply of hot, pre-wall women that are also down to get with an older guy.

I'm not going to be a Hollywood actor, I'm not going to be an astronaut, or a fighter pilot. I work in tech, my monetary affairs are handled, but I don't think superstar value (where I can just pull any pre-wall chick of my choosing) is in the cards.

So how do I know where my selling price is?