Lack of direction. Help?

RyanoftheDay · 2015-09-24T16:00:18+00:00

I'm no red pill myself, but my fathers wisdom that has gotten me laid that probably has red pill science behind it is: nearly every girl is going to reject you at a base. Seriously. They have their own life going on and there's nothing you can do to become part of it. So, just keep approaching girls until one says yes. Every door you don't try to open is a closed door. Who fucking cares if you're that weird STEM creep from the fraternity who tried asking me about the weather, you literally don't exist to these women and you never will. Those who you do exist to, the ones you get positive responses from, they're all that matter really.

One thing that works for me is fishing for a common interest between the two of you and hitting that topic hard. Like, I get overly excited when someone likes what I like. Usually when that excitement peeks, I move on. If it's a party I'll approach them later, if it's in some non-enclosed situation I number close and maybe text them later. My second "father" who taught me a lot about being a slut always told me to be there, be excellent, and be gone and to act as if you have no sexual desire while you maintain sexual motivation. I'm new here so I can only imagine that there's red pill science behind these philosophies as well.

Like the 99:1 rejection deal, keep your sexual motivation up with these girls when meeting with them. Try to invite them to your room or get into theirs. Can be for donkey konga, net flix and chill, w/e and escalate the situation. If nothing happens, it's just another 99:1 rejection deal.

Me Tip: try to keep all girls as friends regardless. More girl's who are friends you have, the easier it is to talk to and meet more girls + friends are rad as hell. It also establishes to other girls, imo, that you're a guy who can be around girls which makes you far less of some virgin STEM frat loser, you feel me? Don't get caught up in "friend zone" psychology. Just think about the term "Friend Zone," how is that NOT the place to be?

Disclaimer: I don't think you're a loser. I mean, I honestly don't know you but you sound like an alright guy looking for sound advice, I'm just using the "loser" stuff as a harsh example. Like, how I imagine you seeing you when you have approach anxiety. That is to say, my self talk goes to "creepy loser" whenever I hit an approach anxiety wall so I assume you feel the same.

abdada · 2015-09-24T15:31:59+00:00

Practice makes perfect. Just need to go out and open women.

FrameWalker · 2015-09-24T17:37:21+00:00

Warm up. Practice eye contact and a smile, then say hi as you pass by, then chat for a bit, finally go for number etc

Title	Lack of direction. Help?
Author	Blash300
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	September 24, 2015 3:27 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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