I have come to realize that most of my shortcomings are due to the fact that I just don't know how to interact with women and also other men, the way a man should. I'm a 22 year old heterosexual male but I have never really felt like "one of the guys" and I've never been much of a ladies man.

I'm starting to realize that much of this can be attributed to the fact that I never had a male mentor or significant masculine figure in my life to teach me how to be "a man", not just regarding women and "game" but even ways of interacting with others the way that masculine men ought to. Now at age 22 with a late start... where do I begin?