In LTR for 6 months. Due to jobs and schooling we were going to be apart all summer for 3 months. As much as LDR’s are frowned upon, I have not been in a more enjoyable monogamous relationship. Although unicorns don’t exist, she is all around great and I would like to continue this in the fall.

It is now the middle of the summer. I have not cheated on her and am as certain as anyone could be that she hasn’t and won’t cheat on me. I feel like a vampire that hasn’t blood in weeks though, and there are several women I work around that throw IOI’s at me. It is driving me insane.

Should I ask LTR about me being with other women? I am morally against cheating and the guilt would eat me alive, but if she said it was okay for me to be with other girls I’d feel fine. I think it is more than likely she wouldn’t want to be “cucked,” and I don’t want to blow up the relationship over a few lays. I would much rather we just be together and I’d rather bang her than these girls I’m around, but we can’t for another 6 weeks or so.

What would you do?