Alright men, I need advice. This is gonna be long, but I would rather detail this issue to you guys rather than go to some shrink.

I’m 22 yo. Graduating college in less than a week (USA) with a job in a stem field that pays really well. 0 debt. I’ve been lifting for a little over a year now and have gained 30 lbs of mass and I’m 6’2”. Getting women is somewhat easy for me now, now that I’m on this journey.

I was in a LTR for 2 years that should have ended 1.5 years ago. It was toxic yet the sex was great which is probably why I stayed with her for so long. I cut it off about 3 weeks ago.

I cheated on her two times. One time was about a year ago with a decent looking black chick. Went home with her after the bar. Made out with her and fingered her. I couldn’t get it up. I rationalized it that I was too drunk (and I was actually pretty wasted).

Fast forward into this past summer. A girl from my hometown was really interested in me yet knew I had a girlfriend (I literally told her that I wasn’t interested in breaking up with her at the time, girl didn’t care. Also very eye opening) We went hiking one day and then went back to my house. Again, made out with her and fingered her and no boner in sight.

(Yes say what you want about cheating, but my LTR wasn’t an angel either. I felt bad though and that’s why I broke up with her. I never told her about it either. I’m about to be in the prime of my life right now and don’t want to be tied down as well, especially since I didn’t have the best intentions in mind)

My problem is that when I was with my LTR, I would get easy, instant erections. No problems with that ever, even if I was drunk. She wouldn’t even have to touch me sometimes and I would get hard.

I met a girl in another city a week or two ago that I wanted to bang but I didn’t make any moves. I was literally laying next to this girl and wanted to make moves but again no hard dick was present. I then told her I was too drunk even though I only had two or three (which was never a problem before).

Just made a tinder account, literally yesterday, and already have 12 matches at my college town. I really want to bang some of them before I leave but I don’t think I will be able to.

I don’t understand what’s wrong. Did my ex put a spell on my dick? Do I have low T? Am I in my head too much?

I gave up porn about two months ago and also don’t masturbate anymore as I heard it was good for a natural T cycle and also gym gains.

This situation sucks major balls. I feel like I have everything else going in my life so well right now but I can’t get this issue out of my head. Maybe I’m caught in a thought loop. I really hope this is just a phase. A yoked 22 year old guy should be pounding every pussy that comes his way, especially when bitches are throwing it at him. I don’t feel like it’s a libido issue as I get wood at random times (morning), but when the time comes to put the cards (cock) on the table, I’ve got a dead man’s penis.

I can’t stop feeling like a loser.

How can I get over this?