I've been working hard at losing weight for a year now. Lots of running and keto. I've now added lifting, and already, after only a couple weeks, I'm feeling a boost in my ambition and sexual appetite.

Is this placebo effect? Am I projecting this? I imagined it would take a couple months or more, before any change would take place.

I'm a little more of a jerk.

Also, during sex, I find that I lose myself and tend to go off. I want to let loose and go to town, but I don't want to hurt her. She seems keen on it and appears to like, even encourage it. A couple times, only after climax do i realize how hard im holding her or how rough i was being. Like i said, she's cool about it, but I'm not sure how lost I might get. :/

Call it the last of my blue pill programming.

I'm a little insecure. I have chicken arms. She keeps feeling them up. Swolling me. She says she likes what she's feeling. Inside, my insecurities kick in. I dunno if she believes this, or if she is just trying to encourage me.

I'm asking cause i need input. Reassurance, not validation.

Thanks