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It's possible he's a bad husband and she's not wife material. Sounds like both. OP, your wife should not have to tell you how to take care of your shit. Take care of your shit. Including leaving her if she's toxic for you. Your wife isn't your problem, you are your problem.
/r/askMRP11/11/20 04:30 PM
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I can't like this post enough. Good shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 09:35 PM
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Having gotten out of an abusive relationship with a pscyho nutbag, your text chain gives me PTSD. I can tell you confidently that when this relationship is over, and you've moved on, you will be so fucking thankful that it ended. I'm about 8 years out and my life is 1000x better without that kind of stress. Just make sure you put in the work and figure out why you were ever in a relationship in the first place with someone who was so clearly insane, lest you end up with another just as crazy. Ge…
/r/askMRP07/03/20 10:17 AM
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Sometimes you get in a relationship with a woman because you're not acting right. Sometimes when you start acting right the relationship becomes untenable. Hard to tell beforehand, but it's why you focus on yourself and the mission and not the woman. Eventually when you're living right you won't mind if she chooses not to join you, and you won't tolerate toxic behavior.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 01:54 AM
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Is it confirmation bias? How many people stick to any diet?
/r/askMRP26/10/19 10:57 AM
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It's true but two things helped repress. One was that it was way more difficult to seek out and find due to lack of technology. The other is that society, namely other women, were extremely antagonistic to slutty behavior.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 01:31 PM
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You already fucked up at this point might as well ride it out.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:15 AM
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It's awesome while you're getting free easy pussy. Watch what happens when he brings another girl back. Or she does. You don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:13 AM
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What makes you think sticking around will make her responsible with money? Have you cut the bleeding?
/r/askMRP09/10/19 04:18 PM
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How many of us get upset about the woman who stays in a marriage she can't stand due to the financial stability? This is the same situation in reverse. My motto is to live righteous. Everything you do should be from a decision of strength and honesty with yourself. If you want to leave the bitch for cheating on you, leave her. If you want to work it out, work it out. I think sticking around for half-ass pussy for some random arbitrary date in the future is a cop-out TBH. Make a decision and stic…
/r/askMRP09/10/19 12:40 PM
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The archetypal modern "man": bitches about women who fuck high value men instead of pussy boys while trying to get laid without putting in work.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 12:51 PM
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Go to forum.dadsdivorce.com . If you want to be in your kids life you certainly can. You need to get educated and you will have to expend energy towards it. Don't give up control just because she has a vagina, your kid needs both of you in her life. The guys in that forum are real smart with this stuff if you listen to the experts you can save yourself a lot of trouble.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/19 04:35 AM
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It doesn't look like you've found meaning to your life. Yeah you have a nice job and money but that doesn't bring meaning. Honestly neither does being in a marriage and having kids (just for the sake of it). Sounds like you need to do some soul searching and figure out what you really want out of life. It's not going to come from Reddit either probably.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:01 AM
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That's pretty nuclear for one lay. You only get one reputation in life.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:41 PM
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I'm late 30s and I can say with these younger girls they're surrounded by effiminate attention seeking boys. Turn off your phone and be one of the 1% of young men that can make a personal connection with someone in real time. If you have balls and game IRL it will serve you way better than competing with 1000 orbiters on an electronic device. It's almost like a story they can get excited about, "I was out last night and this guy came up to me and we just immediately hit it off it was so cool!"
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:33 PM
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You're a classic nice guy (read codependent). The kind of guy that would start a marriage with a clinically insane person and then make excuses for her behavior. What she did is insane. Yes all women are a little crazy, this is outside of normalcy. She literally kidnapped your kid at 4am and assaulted you and your blaming yourself.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 07:00 PM
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I've never heard of FA but the symptoms sound similar. A hallmark of BPD is constant "splitting" between black and white. Someone with Bipolar goes through cycles of mania then depression every few months, someone with BPD will appear to go through these cycles multiple times a day. Another hallmark of BPD is fear of rejection, so they will be terrified of losing their spouse even though they do things to reject them first. ​ I'm not a psychologist and I'm just googling this on the spot so my te…
/r/askMRP10/06/19 01:51 PM
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Where'd you hear the term FA? It sounds from your post like it's an alternative version of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). I've been around marriage talk for a long time (years before TRP was a term). Almost all BPD relationships end the same way, this kind of hot and cold behavior ("splitting" between you being her knight in shining armor and you being the devil), years of her pushing you away then crying for you to stay ("I hate you, don't leave me"), and then one day 5-15 years later t…
/r/askMRP10/06/19 11:11 AM
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Your wife sounds like she needs serious mental help. I'm not sure your actions alone are enough to right this ship. Better question, why do you want to be in a relationship with someone this crazy? I was married to someone with BPD you have no idea until you leave how exhausting and draining it is.
/r/askMRP09/06/19 11:59 AM
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I have a good neighbor friend going through the same thing. If people aren't familiar with the LDS they may not understand the dynamics. When you give up your church you become a pariah to your own family. That takes courage and I wish you the best on your journey. It sounds like you're doing things right even if you have some setbacks. Staying together in that situation is hard. You have some serious road bumps coming either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 05:02 PM
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It has to do with the amount of money given by the Federal government for loans. There's a market for college here because every non entry level job requires a degree (even if it doesn't make sense). So the expectation on kids is to go to college. Then the Federal government started guaranteeing school loans, buying student debt, and they made it so student loans don't discharge in bankruptcy. So there's a metric shit ton of money floating around and colleges realized they could charge ridiculou…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 12:12 PM
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Ok. So he watched other guys fuck his girl but wasn't into cuckoldry. Got it. Thanks for clearing that up for me. Hey can I come fuck your girl since you have abundance mentality and frame?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:56 AM
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I think she's scared because she's not able to manipulate you anymore. Seems like extinction behavior to me. Honestly she sounds like an asshole. Don't doubt yourself. Be reasonable, fair, and firm and don't accept her assessment if you disagree with it. How often do you just give her a bear hug? My wife gets scared of weird shit all the time I just wrap her up and she relaxes most of the time. Like a child hugging his mother.
/r/askMRP04/06/19 10:29 AM
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A pimp doesn't stand there and watch And it's also his job. What do you call a guy who has one girl that watches her get taken for free?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:15 AM
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Proof that men have hamsters too. I've listened to dozens of hours of BP and Dante Nero. He absolutely let that happen.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:13 AM
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Oh ok... So watching a guy rail your wife isnt being a cuck as long as it's for your own health? Cognitive dissonance much?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 09:20 PM
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Nvmd found it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1JhnlTZaaQ I think it's around minute 3.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:28 PM
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For real? It was one of the first few episodes of Black Phillip. I'm paraphrasing but he said something to the effect of "everyone should watch his girl get railed by another dude. It removes the thought you have in your head that she's on some pedestal." I'll try and find it but I can't transcribe 9 hours of audio.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:18 PM
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Patrice O'Neil did the same thing and people quote Black Phillip on here like the Bible.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:13 PM
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One of the things that has helped me grow is understanding your psychology and how to overcome it. Your childhood programming is loaded with all sorts of crap about how and why you should behave in a manner that limits your potential. Part of being the man you want to become is allowing your intentions to lead your actions and not your emotions. Your brain will put up defenses about how you should quit or never start important behaviors. Understand that they are just emotions and if you allow yo…
/r/askMRP30/05/19 04:14 PM
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Once you get past your emotional baggage and can see clearly you might have a different view. Sexual chemistry is awesome, women are great at developing social lives, and they have interesting (ie different) views than men in general. Women only make me angry when they don't act like I think they should. Namely, like a man. Or, like someone who has options and doesn't just want to be around me for whatever I've allowed myself to become. Those are my issues though.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 05:51 PM
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If you do it right you shouldn't have to say anything. If not, just keep it light, "that was fun we should do it again sometime." You sound like you're on the spectrum. Honestly how did you get laid in the first place?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:12 PM
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I didn't mind her reading her dad's script till I realized she has FAS and that her parents are assholes.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 11:42 PM
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It sounds like you're creating a false dichotomy. It's possible to move past the situation and keep in contact with your mom. Your mom screwed you because she was in a position of trust. If you don't put her in that position again will she still be toxic in your life? If the answer is no then there's no reason you can't still keep her in your life. If she is toxic to your life then it's a different story.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:24 AM
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It's like they forgot that hipsters don't shave and the target market is the people that buy their product.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:51 PM
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That doesn't happen in the first few months normally. That's why the first sign is how fast you bond and also look for the victim mentality. Do you feel like she's had a tough life or is dealing with a lot of BS in her life?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 10:44 AM
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Just as a heads up, if you were in a relationship with someone with BPD you're likely to end up in a similar relationship. The biggest red flag is a relationship that moves very quickly. Crazy people have to develop an intense bond quickly in order to keep you strung along. A normal healthy relationship with a girl progresses slowly and allows you both to keep your own identities. Be careful with the new one...
/r/askTRP15/12/18 10:05 AM
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We've all been there man. What was fun for me is learning to be an asshole. Honestly if you're a "nice guy" you can't turn it up enough. When I got back into dating I thought "this will surely turn them off." Nope. If you're confident and have an abundance mentality you can pretty much get away with anything.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:39 PM
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It sounds like based on your questions that you want to know a friendly non confrontational way to sexualize a conversation. That's not really a thing. If you want to be sexual you have to be confrontational. Be provocative and polarizing. Stir shit up. Make them uncomfortable. That creates tension which creates desire. You're not the little bitch boy that makes her feel good and comfortable. You're the engaging man that keeps her on her toes. Challenge her. Make fun of her (lightly). Tease her.…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:28 PM
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You can try spitting on her or in her mouth. You can try shoving her own panties in her mouth. Call her a filthy whore while you do it.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:34 AM
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The Japanese have a word for this : kenjataimu. It's the period after ejaculation when you can think clearly. In 3 days French fry pussy will be all you think about.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:10 PM
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You handled it well man. Embrace the suck for a few days/weeks, use it as fuel to be a better dude.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 03:05 PM
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No plate lasts forever.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:57 AM
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Move states every 6 months and never divulge your address to her. Likely you would need to work under the table and probably not get a driver's license. They're getting better at beating runaway dad's so this may stop working. Sounds like a shitty life though.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:03 AM
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I think potentially life long damage to your face is just punishment for getting the wrong ratio of cream and sugar in my coffee.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/17 01:53 PM
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You lost when you reacted. Practice stoicism.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:29 PM
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Way to stay indifferent
/r/askTRP23/08/17 08:28 PM
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Crazy bitch 101. If she says something to you and you get upset, she wins. If you respond, she wins. If you care at all about her, she wins. Only way you win is not to play. I had an ex wife with BPD. I regained my sanity when I stopped trying to figure out why a crazy person would act crazy. Just live your life man and be thankful you don't have kids so you can actually cut ties. Block her ass.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:01 PM
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It's kind of a weird hill to die on. I don't give a shit if my kids' mom ever shows up for their birthday party. Worry about what YOU can control, which is essentially yourself. Throw a party for your son and let him know that you are behind him no matter what else happens. Getting involved with your ex's family drama and shenanigans is not worth your sanity.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 06:25 PM
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She's picky because she can be...
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 05:47 PM
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You're trying to be cute but you sound like an idiot.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 06:26 PM
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Or go completely nutso.......fake a pregnancy, poke a hole in a condom, allege abuse, allege a rape, make up stories to your employer, sabotage future relationships.....
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:34 PM
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"Being jacked" is the dumbest thing I've seen repeated on here. I'd much rather a beefy guy beat the shit out of me then some pencil whipping nerd shoot me because he knows he couldn't kick my ass in a fight. You NEVER know how someone will react to finding out their wife cheated. I can tell you when I found out I went into a seething rage like I've never been in before, and I'm generally an emotionally level headed person. I knew a guy who went into a catatonic state for a few days, just sat th…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:41 PM
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Yeah basically. Constantly escalate and if she doesn't reciprocate you stop giving her attention. Basically get a busy social life so that you don't feel like you have the time to waste on someone that is just sucking your time.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 02:04 AM
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you can't replace your whole starting team. The implications are much larger than this game too, it can affect future alumni donations which is where most of the university money comes from. The program could be set back decades for shit like this. As they won't have booster money, or good talent.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 08:28 PM
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What's your goal man? If you want to get her back you have to ask why (she's cheating on her future husband and clearly has terrible boundaries). If you just want to fuck her you're going about it all wrong, because you're giving her the validation she wants without getting anything in return (and she would totally fuck you right now she's giving you all the signs). If you're trying to get over her, stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 08:21 PM
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Yeah they'll never come out and say it though. You have to read between the lines. "My last boyfriend was such an asshole." etc etc etc. If everyone in every story was mean or an asshole or abused her or etc, the common denominator is her.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 04:51 AM
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It's easy, she'll want to develop an insanely fast attachment to you. That means wild crazy sex and telling you how amazing you are and how you're soulmates and wanting to spend as much time as possible with you early on. She'll be the victim in every story she tells. Those are the two easiest to spot. I've also noticed just a general tendency to be looking for attention, as people with BPD are social chameleons and will need to fit in.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 07:55 PM
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Because you are thinking like a normal person. She was not. Cluster B's lack empathy. They don't think of others like you do. Everything they do centers around how it affects them. The fake empathy they pretend to show is a cover up so they can fit in. There's actually a good book about it called emotional vampires. Was very eye opening for me as several of the stories could have been taken straight from my ex.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 12:39 PM
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durr hurr. Do they need to worry about dying?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:44 PM
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Just FYI there's some concern about HPV vaccines. I understood CDC was about to stop recommending it. Effectiveness is in question and there are serious side effects for increased cervical cancer (ironic) and even death in some cases. Might want to double check before you make any decisions.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:40 PM
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Here are my signs, through experience and lots of research based on my failed marriage: Any relationship where the initial phase is very intense, very "soul-mateish" after an inordinary amount of time. If you or a friend meets someone and within the first few weeks is spending all their free time talking about someone and how in love you are and how they're perfect, etc etc. That is the first and most crucial red flag. Victim status. This is tough because all girls do this to some extent. But if…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 03:01 PM
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Ironically, the letter of the law type religious dogma that Jesus decried is practiced more fervently by his alleged followers. There are many Christians who use their holier-than-thou life as justification for getting into heaven. Despite the message that was supposed to be "good news", especially to people that are traditionally shunned by the religious community: that it doesn't matter what you've done or what you do, you are blameless before God and nothing can separate you from him. Christi…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/10/16 03:05 PM
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Either she shuts it down and his pursuing crosses a line that warrants your involvement (in which case she would likely be asking you for assistance). Or she's not shutting it down and you sense that she is enjoying the attention. In that case you know where you stand and what you are dealing with.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 06:02 PM
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And I'm guessing no charges were pressed against her?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/16 12:48 PM
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You don't need a woman to do this. Your a person. You make up a story to get what you want. If you get what you want you win. If you tell a lie, you get unquestionable support from everyone around you who will completely believe everything you say and ruin the life of the person you are lying about. If for whatever reason you get caught, at worst you lose some friends (and often times if the person lying doesn't completely recant people still refuse to believe they outright lied). From a cost be…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/16 12:48 PM
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No worries man. It gets easier with time. Ride the ups and downs and just commit to not making the same mistakes. Progress...
/r/askTRP18/09/16 06:07 AM
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If you had sex with more than 3 people you pretty much have HPV, since 75% of people have it that have sex. There's no test for it, even in women. All they can do is test for abnormal cells that tell you you already had it...but only for women. So as a dude, unless you got vaccinated, you probably have HPV.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 06:56 PM
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Well I mean you're not interested in banging her right so do you really care if you fuck it up? Think of it like a science experiment to see how chicks react to DGAF mentality. I had a similar situation, decent looking girl that for whatever reason I just wasn't attracted to. She was a great wingwoman because I'd take her out, be all filled with confidence, and other girls would see this decent girl all over my sh*t and think I must have something to be not interested. And if things didn't go ri…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:36 PM
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I don't think you understand my point. If she's a bitch, it's his responsibility to bounce. I'm not saying she is or isn't a bitch, just that the responsibility to either keep her from disrespecting him or leaving the relationship is 100% solely on him.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 07:54 PM
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Brad Pitt rule. If the guy she was dating was Brad Pitt do you think she would be talking shit about him? He's not man enough to keep his girl in check and I doubt this is the only disrespect he gets in the relationship. If he had nuts he'd bounce.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:09 PM
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You gave me more than enough info to come to a conclusion. If you can't see it you're deluding yourself. You argued with a girl incessantly about how she was wrong and you were right.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:00 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction man...if it's not there it's not there. Stop worrying about it. If you really want to turn her on (not sure why), just tell her. You'll get to see some TRP concepts up close and personal. "Honestly I really like you but I'm just not attracted to you. Want to be friends?" Watch that chick's head blow up while she does whatever she can to turn you on.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:40 PM
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"You know you're not getting any sex tonight" is the ultimate of shit tests. Translate to: "If you want to fuck me you have to be man enough to handle my shit-test/LMR." You failed that test, so she is moving on. Happened to many of us, so don't feel too bad. Your second big mistake is your response. You got defensive, trying to logic your way into her. Good rule of thumb is you should never use more words than she uses. You used like twice as many words. It's always better to say less, and if y…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:38 PM
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Why? It's his fault he's with her and that she talks shit about him.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:32 PM
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She openly disrespected you in public. So I'd fuck her one last time like you didn't care about her......and then bounce for good. Out of curiousity, how do YOU think the sex is?
/r/askTRP15/08/16 03:31 PM
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So cringey man... Whenever someone demeans you and you start justifying it and get defensive it means it's hitting too close to home. She was right, you were acting like a puss. You should have ditched her when she said "I'm not going if something better comes up." She basically told you where you stood up front and you continued to let her trash you after that.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 03:27 PM
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But you've already failed, because in "confirming" you are still open to hearing what she has to say. Accept that you won't get finality or closure or a logical response that makes you feel better. Once you accept that it is what it is you can move on and won't require her to validate your feelings. Trust that your assessment is accurate and that's all you need to know.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:14 PM
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I think that PUA and TRP are very similar. In that there is a lot of bullshit on both and a lot of useful information on both, and if you want to paint one as all white or all black you are too mentally attached to them. As with all things, keep what is useful, discard which is not. Trying and effort and having goals is the most important part of any journey. If you're sitting at home watching PUA vids you're failing just as much as if you're sitting here reading TRP all day and never accomplish…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 04:12 PM
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What planet do you live on? You do realize like every ethnicity in the world has a fetish for fucking black guys right? You might as well complain about being tall and in shape.........
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:55 PM
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If you make her cum first it won't really matter how fast you go. Eat her out then have your fun however you enjoy, it will take the pressure off. Also, making a girl cum from just sex is not really about thrusting at all. Actually when I make girls cum from penetration it actually doesn't feel that pleasuring. You're doing a lot more grinding then pumping. Drop your hips so your weight is on her clit and then focus more on rubbing your pubic area on her clit then actually moving your penis. I'm…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:48 PM
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The problem with confirming it is that it proves nothing. If she tells you something she's lying. If she comes clean she's admitting it. She already told you want you needed to know with her actions, she doesn't want people to know she's in an LTR.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:42 PM
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Haha good reaction. You're still too angry though, girls like that will feed off that anger. The best revenge is to ignore and be fucking awesome. She saved you a lot of time by being a cheating whore.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:31 PM
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For how to do it, I haven't found a good guide online but it's pretty simple, just cut out all food and drinks (except water) for a few days. Best to start like the night before you want to do it with some fruit or vegetables, and don't eat a huge meal before you want to fast. Also when you come off take it slow and eat healthy food or you'll get the shits. Some people do vegetable fasts or juice fasts (I would stay off fruit and juices for reasons I will outline below). The real reason you are …
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:14 PM
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Then go nuts man....Like I said you can't really screw it up unless you tell one of the girls you want to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:43 PM
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I think it's a personal call just depending on how serious you are at the venues. I'm talking a little from personal experience but I used to go dancing a lot. One place I went was kind of my "home base." You build a lot of close personal relationships at a dance studio that you go to regularly. So when I brought a date there, and then a different one another week, and then went out with a few people there, I quickly realized that it was affecting MY home base. Now there were plenty of other pla…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:41 PM
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Yeah sure, but if you hear every girl mention it in every conversation, especially at the onset, then I doubt that's the case. If you walk up to a girl and say "Hey nice shirt" and she replies, "Thanks, me and my boyfriend bought it together." You've been rejected at the onset. If she mentions it slyly a few minutes into the conversation that's already been escalated, then maybe it's a shit test to get her off her current dude.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:37 PM
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That's not usually how it works. Usually you get tons of action up front so they can hook you in and then they slow it way down once you've allowed them to move in and started providing security. Single moms don't have a lot of time to fuck around. They need your security fast and they have to hook you in to get it.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:36 PM
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Well you can be pissed off about the current situation or do something about it. There's a 1000 things I wish I would have started when I was 20. You're not old or over the hill by any stretch....write down goals and go after them and you'll be in the top 5% of successful people in the world.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:02 PM
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I disagree. If you give off the beta bux vibe you're going to get laid by a ton of single mothers. They are looking to hook a provider....
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:58 PM
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Been through a divorce and a 4 year LTR breakup, here's some things I learned. Anytime you spend that much time with someone you're going to be hurt. Nothing you can do about that. You're withdrawing from a drug basically. When you feel sad, there's a reason for it. Instead of pushing it away, try to understand it. In your case it seems like you're tying the relationship to a failure in your part to act in a matter that you would have wished. You can't change the past, so understand the drivers …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:45 PM
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It's a way for them to communicate that they aren't interested in you without outright rejecting you.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:01 PM
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Migraines can often be an auto-immune issue and back pain is usually tied to inflammation. As an alternative to expensive medicine or surgery, have you ever tried fasting? Like no food, only water for like 5-7 days? There's a lot of research into this lately but it's really like a torpedo of anti-inflammatory goodness and so far appears to be the only healthy cure for autoimmune diseases like shingles, psoriasis, etc. I know a lot of people that received lifelong migraine relief from changing th…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:56 PM
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How much do you like the Yoga Class and Swing Class? In general I found it best not to shit where you eat. If you're a regular and it becomes "your spot" then you'll quickly get a reputation as the guy who fucks all the girls who come in and it won't do you any favors. Especially if you start bringing drama into the circle. If you're just there for the girls, then keep doing what you're doing. You really can't go wrong with two women interested in you. The more jealous they get the more they wan…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:45 PM
4

You can google the side effects...certain percentage have random pain in the balls for life. Certain percentage develop antibodies and get swelling in the balls from it. Not sure why you'd ever tell a plate unless she didn't want you to go raw because of potential babies...but you should wrap it up for plates regardless unless you're cool with your dick touching 1000s of others. And if a plate lets you put it in raw you definitely NEED a condom.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:06 PM
1

Sounds like insecurity on your part if someone's idea of your life makes you come off at the hinges. If you feel confident about your life goals you wouldn't really care what someone else thinks....amused mastery.... Great thing about TRP and stoicism: when I get angry now I know whatever happened is a source of insecurity for me and I need to figure out why I'm not confident enough to handle what was said without getting mad.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 11:56 AM
7

I only get blue balls if I get a bunch of boners before I finally cum. Are you getting aroused repeatedly throughout those 4-5 days?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 11:49 AM
1

6 times in a week...dude you WERE in a relationship LOL. You might be better off just telling her you want to break up because you're not ready for this or some other shit. Last thing you want is drama at work.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:18 PM
1

Common law marriage is very uncommon (google it in your state). There's only a handful of states that still allow it and there's usually very specific things you have to do to have it (like telling people you're married).
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:14 PM
1

The moment is there, you want to do it. You start second guessing yourself and pussing out. When you feel that, just do it. Get comfortable being uncomfortable. The rewards are high. This works for almost everything involving women...when most men puss out, be bold and go after what you want. Worst that happens is she says no and then at least you know where you stood.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:09 PM
1

It might be easier to work on correcting your stuttering problem if it's treatable. Either way, I think you are overly focused on it (clearly by making a post on it). Instead of treating it like you should be ashamed or uncomfortable speaking, treat it like you had an amputation or cancer. It's something out of your control, and it's not a big deal. I know a few stutterers of varying degrees and if they didn't bring it up I would never care. If a girl sees that you are comfortable with it she wi…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:05 PM
1

Mate guarding from a controlling perspective (like "you're not allowed to hang out with so and so") is bad. I'm not sure of the right call on this for an LTR, I'm still figuring that out. But I can tell you that if you verbalize that it makes you uncomfortable, you want to make sure that you're in the right head space so that you're not trying to control her, but you're open enough to letting her show you how she respects you. If you tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and then she stops seeing…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:55 PM
0

"I enjoy seeing you but don't want to get serious yet." No need to play games...she's either cool with it and you can continue or she's not and she'll hop off the train. 10 months is a long time for a plate, it's going to happen sooner or later.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:46 PM
9

Is a girl telling you she's a whore in bed a red flag? Possibly... But fucking you on a ONS without a rubber is for sure a sign that she's a whore. Don't listen to what they say, listen to what they do. Not LTR material sir.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:38 PM
1

First off, you do realize that some men (I am one of them), actually WANTS the mother of their children to stay at home? My first marriage that was my intent, and I didn't want it any other way. That's how cave men operated for hundreds of thousands of years. Calling someone a beta because they want a traditional family is retarded. You're confusing being an alpha with wanting an open, promiscuous relationship. They are mutually exclusive. The founder of TRP is married.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 05:31 PM
2

I don't mind alimony on an individual basis and I think it's a much more palatable concept when viewed as rehabilitative rather than punitive for life. A stay at home wife who didn't work because both parties wanted her to take care of the kids shouldn't be dumped out on the streets if her husband wants to fuck his secretary. There are also circumstances (I have a family member in those boat), where she stayed at home watching the kids and was a homemaker for 35 years. They got a divorce and she…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:57 PM
3

Also, as an FYI if you're married when you have a baby establishing paternity let alone getting any form of custody is extremely expensive. Imagine if you had a baby with your wife and some psycho stalker claimed it was theirs. Our legal process doesn't make it easy to take children away from their legal, established parents. The process is different in every state but essentially you have to get a court order to establish why you have a right to subpoena a paternity test. There's tens of thousa…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 08:43 PM
1

Really depends on the state. Some states you can end up paying support even if you have primary physical custody.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/16 03:25 AM
1

My $.02 from someone that isn't a psychologist: The hallmark of Cluster B is lack of empathy. The manifestations of that categorize the disorder. A sociopath is a narcissist without the self-esteem issues. Or a BPDer without the fear of abandonment. Lacking any empathy, they all have a very vague concept of being selfish/selfless. That IMO is a shitty way to go through life, even if it makes you more successful at work and with women. My best life experiences were making connections with people.…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:34 PM
3

Then hang out in different circles. Despite the fem-hating you see plastered all over this sub, there ARE places where you can find girls that don't go on daily tinder fuck binges. Like 90% of the girls you interact with in real life probably aren't that level of slut. Just like not 90% of the guys you interact with aren't spinning 5 plates at a time. There are plenty of girls that don't fuck unless they're in a committed relationship. You're probably not going to find them at the bar or on Tend…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:53 PM
7

Or one every other weekend starting at 18? Which is when college starts........
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:50 PM
1

I think of them like Androids. They look human but they do not think like you or me. It's the female version of the Dark Triad. Men typically have Narcissism or Anti-social disorders, women go more histrionic or borderline. The hallmark of all of them is a lack of empathy, and essentially they are completely selfish and self-centered. It's why I always find it interesting that guys on TRP want to be more Dark Triad...like as a pickup technique that's fine, but you don't really want to be a socio…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:41 PM
2

It's different with personality disorders. Someone with BPD for example will feel so rejected and fear of abandonment that they will cling to dear life for anyone that will act like a caretaker. They try to find codependent white knight types that will never leave them. Then they test that person by doing insanely stupid shit in order to make sure that they'd never leave. Then when that is established, anywhere from 1-10 years, for fear of abandonment, they will commit unpardonable sins so that …
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:37 PM
1

It's actually reassuring for me. Once you know what to look out for it's impossible to miss. I can read the signs so fast now I can tell in like 15 seconds if someone is Cluster B and/or their likelihood of cheating. My girlfriend actually gets pissed because I'll call out people we meet or friends and tell her exactly what's going to happen in their relationships. Sure enough a few months later she can't believe I could know what was going to happen. I haven't been wrong yet.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:18 PM
3

Like with most things, context is probably important. If you're doing it as an avoidance for bettering yourself then it would be much like jerking off, doing drugs, playing video games: a way to escape. If you're doing it so you can focus your time on bettering yourself and not having to spend time on superficial girls to get fucked....good on you. Just be honest with yourself before you make the decision.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 06:20 PM
6

FYI you shouldn't put baking soda directly on your skin. It basically gives your skin a chemical burn and can cause it to get rough and leathery. You may be able to tolerate it but it's still not the right pH and others might get burns from it. Skin products with baking soda have a very low amount for that reason and other products to balance out the pH.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 06:10 PM
3

It's difficult because it's the opposite of what we grew up with, and as I've noticed, most of us have very few real world role models to emulate. TRP is nice but it's not going to undo years of programming and societal pressure without serious effort. TRP = The Red Pill. The Matrix. Most people don't even want to admit it exists, let alone get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:59 PM
10

Man that totally would have been me. Engaged to a girl from church. She's a good girl. We're going to get married and live together one day. I'm helping her with her dreams! Of course I'll pay for her groceries, I want her to be happy! I don't understand why she's acting distant. What can I do to fix this? I still really want to get married. She told me she was attracted to the guy, that's good that she's being honest about it! She said nothing happened, she would never lie to me or do something…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 05:44 PM
2

Was the best thing for me. Wish it would have happened earlier in my life...before I had kids.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:55 PM
2

Been there...parents tried to warn me, I didn't care. Went back and talked to them after the divorce, "Why didn't you tell me you thought she was crazy??" "We tried, you wouldn't listen." Lesson learned the hard way..............
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:23 PM
3

That's exactly what white knighting is. You feel like you need to save this girl from the world. She's a princess who needs saving or fixing. She isn't, and even if she was, it's not YOUR job to fix other people.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:50 PM
18

I came on here to say immediately that this girl probably has some sort of Cluster B disorder and to brace for the impending shit storm in 6-12 months. Been there, done that (with kids).... Number 1 red flag to look out for with any woman is a very intense soul-mate-esque relationship that happens very quickly. This is because a manipulator wants to build a very intense connection rapidly in order to have a basis for manipulation. This will also only work with a guy who's codependent (ie Nice Gu…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 05:47 PM
10

There's a lot of ways to make $150K. I will tell you one surefire 100% way to make $150K a year that requires nothing more than an 8th grade education and $150 of starting capital (which you can recover in one day). Go buy a lawnmower, walk it around a neighborhood. Knock on doors and say "I have my lawnmower right here, I'll cut your grass for $xx." (where $xx is a reasonable number for the size of yard). Do that all day. Keep doing that until you have more business then you can do yourself. Th…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 02:08 PM
11

Jesus Christ press charges against this bitch. That has real consequences..........
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 06:53 PM
10

I doubt she does that.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:10 AM
1

Just remember that as a man, your most valuable asset is time. You are freely giving it to her over some sort of puppy love infatuation, with an unrealistic expectation of her falling madly in love with you (which will never happen). A woman's most valuable asset is her pussy, and a woman who gives it up without getting anything in return is called a slut. You are the male version of a total and complete slut. Just like a guy will fuck a slut but never marry one, women will use a "nice guys" tim…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:50 PM
2

There's a thought pattern that if you have a girlfriend and you've fucked it up with her that you could amp up your game and start to turn the relationship around. Probably without exception the amount of skill and game that would require would be higher than someone who has been a "nice guy" could handle, and definitely not worth the effort unless one was married with kids. However, your situation is even worse than that, you get literally 0 benefit from this woman, besides her company. There's…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:58 PM
2

Have you seen how fast a girl can be ready to screw a guy then changes her mind because he dresses weird, or farts, or has dirty nails, or laughs weird............. That can happen after sex too. For whatever reason she's not attracted to you. She's screaming it at you. You're still trying to logic your way into a relationship with someone that clearly doesn't want you. When she says she misses you, what she is saying is that she misses your validation. Stop listening to what women say and start…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 07:20 PM
1

As someone who married, had kids with, and then got divorced to a BPD woman, RUN. Do not marry her and for god's sakes do not have kids with her. She WILL fuck you over. You will go from being the best man to ever walk the earth to the devil at the blink of an eye, whenever it suits her. And she will try to fuck you as hard as possible whenever you split up. The fact that you're in the relationship in the first place is a huge red flag. Healthy people don't tolerate unhealthy people in their lif…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:15 PM
1

Would only be for a limited amount of products. In this case there's no money to be made for the injection since it's non-patentable plastic. But there is clearly a need and audience for the product as no reversible vasectomy exists today.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:53 PM
1

I pledged twice before the thread went up. Been following this since some doctor in India made the news for shoving plastic in people's sacks for the price of a needle. I'm hoping to be one of the first people in the US to get plastic nut injections.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:51 PM
1

Sounds like my ex's new Mr. Wonderful...he knows she totally whored out on me. She already cheated on him and he found out. She's still living there rent free and he just bought her a car. I love the guy because he keeps some stability for my kids when I don't have them, but good lord what an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:45 PM
2

Would you ever consider an LTR? If so, what would you do if she fucked another guy?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:19 PM
3

Agreed. And all this anger at women is because men are comparing them to man-traits. She's not loyal, she's not rational, she wants 100% security without having to work for it. These are all man-traits that men value. Women are good at different things from you. They're way better at nurturing and caretaking for the grind of life. They're awesome at communicating and setting up social structures. They're better at connecting emotionally with other people. Embrace women and not the idealized vers…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:01 PM
1

I started taking a play from Beige Phillips playbook. He advocates saying, "This story suuuuucks." I will give minor variations of that, "Wow your story is super boring." "I stopped paying attention a while ago." Or I will tell them a story about my day like they are, with tons of completely impertinent facts and information.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:51 PM
1

The "normal" term for this is dating multiple women at once. That way you aren't beholden to any one girl and are much more likely to be dismissive of behaviors that aren't acceptable. It also helps cultivate the abundance mentality, as if you have only one prospect for sex you are much more likely to get over-invested in that one relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:11 PM
3

Do you understand how easy it is to comingle assets? There are so many situations it is mind boggling. I saw a story on our forum where a guy had a rental house covered in his prenup. They replaced the carpets in the rental, she used her credit card to pay for it, he immediately paid it back. The rental got deemed community property. Sad thing is, you don't know you screwed up till half your shit is gone. Even if you win, you end up paying tens of thousands defending it. If I'm wrong and prenups…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:00 PM
1

You're ignoring the fact that any comingling of assets basically nullifies your pre-nup. You can't just sign a piece of paper and call it a day. It requires a life time of constant and unending financial management. It doesn't take a lot of googling to see how often this happens.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 04:49 PM
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Please provide facts verifying this assumption, because I've spent thousands of hours discussing divorces with men and still am not aware of a state that doesn't either use equitable distribution or community property. Assuming you are not talking about hiding assets illegally?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 04:16 PM
1

Most people won't get help till they hit rock bottom. This is true for drugs, relationships, and life in general. I let my ex-wife ruin my life because I was addicted to her. Why I allowed myself to be addicted to her was a matter of my own personal shortcomings in my head. Outwardly my life was great, so I never should have been in that position, but understand that what you see in people and what they see in themselves are two different things. Also know that in my relationship, NO ONE could h…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:58 PM
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I enjoy my LTR. My kids know and like her, we do fun activities together. She compliments my life in a way that gets me to do things I wouldn't normally do or have access to (suburban mom type stuff for the kids that no one would invite the single dad too). I also enjoy the emotional connection we have during sex, it's much more meaningful than just banging a slut.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:52 PM
1

Thanks for sharing man, really helpful. As you discussed, we're loathe to talk about this stuff even to our guy friends, so when we go through it we all feel alone. A reminder to all of you that cancer is serious shit and your odds of having prostate cancer at 50 is your age (50% at 50, 60% at 60...ONE HUNDRED FUCKING PERCENT AT 100). So make sure when you're old enough that you let your doctor finger your asshole. And do what Tom Green says and make sure you rub your balls.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:35 PM
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Guys also need to know, very explicitly, that prenups will not under any circumstances cover anything related to custody of your children, child support, or 50% OF THE ASSETS YOU ACCRUE DURING YOUR MARRIAGE. So if you're a 28 year old banker with $50K saved up, you can save your $50K from divorce raping, if you manage that wealth separately. But the $2 million you earn over the next decade is ripe for the picking. Good luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 03:13 PM
1

I like the last story because it cements something that I had to find out the hard way. If you're in an LTR and you have LTR friends, they are your partner's friends and not yours. When the shit goes down you will always be the asshole outcast, no matter the cause. The people that stick with you are your real friends, and you may not have many of them. I hear this all the time with my girlfriend, bitch whore cheats on her husband, they all rally behind the woman because he was an asshole. When y…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 02:59 PM
1

Here's true facts about sex. If you have an LTR and don't ever please your partner, they'll get it somewhere else.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:59 PM
1

If you think TRP means you get on an LTR with a girl who gives you tons of blow jobs and you don't ever have to consider her desires, you are doing it wrong. A relationship by nature is give and take, where you as the leader should be looking out for your girlfriend. What you are looking for is a whore, who sucks you off when you want and then can discard. Your expectations are immature, and you shouldn't be in an LTR. Let me be clear, wanting a whore is not a problem, but wanting a whore from y…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:58 PM
5

Why wouldn't you want to rock your girlfriends shit? If you just want to receive blow jobs and not have any obligations then you shouldn't be in an LTR. Spin plates. You're girlfriend is just trying to get satisfied and you aren't interested. She should dump you.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 12:09 PM
7

Confidence is first, I'd say drive/passion 2nd.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:20 PM
1

Here's an idea. Buy a lawnmower and go cut people's grass. Go to a neighborhood and knock door to door with your lawnmower saying you're there right now and can cut it right now for $xx. You can do this on nights and weekends. Keep doing this until you have enough people that want you to cut their grass that you can hire someone to do it for you that takes a cut of what he makes. Keep repeating until you have a million dollar landscaping business. No risk, almost no capital, very simple. The onl…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:27 PM
1

Full trials will take 1.5-2 years, but they'll start opening it up more and more so that if you wanted to you could probably trial it in 2017.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:12 PM
3

I'm in an LTR, I just want to shoot blanks. I'd wrap it up for da Tinder hoes. Still got enough BP to think I might find a unicorn some day, so reversability would be nice. Haven't been snipped because I don't want to be one of the unlucky 20% that gets ball pain from the snip.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:11 PM
1

They didn't test for reversability because the burden of proof is much higher and you can't really find suitable animals to test it on. Much easier to say it's not reversible, and then find out in human trials that it actually is reversible.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:05 PM
4

That and you don't want a scalpel anywhere near your nuts?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:04 PM
5

I'm in this boat and signed up for it. I'm looking at Vasalgel because I don't want a 20% chance of having random excruciating pain in my balls. The reversability would be cool but I'm good with no more kids, plus I love the foundation and want to support it however I can.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:04 PM
2

It's not a legally binding document to give up your rights before the child is born. Meaning, that as soon as the kid is born she can say "I want custody of my child, pay me CS." And the kid will be more hers than his at that point, as she will have a birth certificate and he won't have any legal presumption of being the father. Likewise, a father can not give up his rights before birth either, and can never waive his right to paying CS unless someone adopts the child after birth. Meaning, that …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 02:38 PM
2

That plan can't fail...except legally she's the mother and at the day of birth she can stick you for child support for the next 18 years while you spend your life savings trying to establish paternity and parental rights. There's no such thing as forfeiting custodial claims. How do you think that sperm donor got bilked for child support?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 12:30 PM
3

The only way to win is not to play.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 12:27 PM
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I mean how many times have you met a girl out and really hit it off, only to text or call her the next day and not get a response? Never, because I'd never call a girl the next day, it reeks of desperation. Rules are rules for a reason. For example, let’s say you meet a girl at a bar and for the next few hours, continue to escalate to the point that you’re very physical. You're at a bar filled with beautiful women and you hunker down and spend hours with one? She knows you don't have any options…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 12:23 PM
5

As someone who has been there (there are a lot of us), the thought of my ex cheating was not believable for me. Cheating was something that whores did, having sex with someone outside our relationship. My ex was not a whore, she was a GOOD girl. What other truth could there be than the one I was being told? And then in a flash, the veil comes down and you realize you were a fucking toolbag and the world doesn't work the way you thought it did. Some people choose the red pill, some people get it …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 12:05 PM
1

As a tall person I get comments about this constantly. Like multiple times a day. Stupid questions or remarks, they get really annoying. TBH just don't bring it up and if you do make it really casual and be sure there's a point to it (not just remarking about her height for the sake of it). I think you'll make more of an impression not giving a fuck about it.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 02:54 PM
2

This was the show I was talking about: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Moment_of_Truth_%28U.S._game_show%29 I read it and you were right, they did the polygraph before but then on-air they did a "live" one where the guy gives the thumbs up or down for each question.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 06:22 PM
2

I'm referring to a few TV shows that were on prime time where they do the test "live" and just ask one question at a time. And the lie detector guy gives a thumbs up or down depending on their answer and the result of that test is what moves them on in the game or not. I guess it's possible they did it all backstage but I doubt it.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 03:33 PM
0

It also assumes you completely buy into the myth that it knows when you lie and don't know how the test is performed. If the machine wasn't bullshit it wouldn't matter how the tester did his job.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 11:57 AM
1

If you read how they work you would not call them reliable. Also, once you know how they work it will never be reliable for you since you know the tricks. The accuracy is a reflection of how strongly the person believes that it works correctly. This is why a lot of polygraphists will do a card trick at the beginning to "calibrate" the machine, reinforcing to the taker that it is very accurate.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 11:55 AM
4

The actual test is bullshit but the fear of the detector has gotten tons of useful information out of people. The information is gotten from people who admit to things during the test. Those shows where they just ask one question and say lie or truth though are complete horse shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/16 11:52 AM
24

Sending her pics to her family and sending her threatening emails. This whole story is so weird. She's a fetish model who did phone sex, she doesn't want to be called a whore. He's a gay guy who gets mad at a whore and spends his time harassing her. They both agree to meet up for coffee??
/r/PussyPass22/02/16 12:17 PM
1

Billiards, race car driving, video games. All should be equal right?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/16 11:22 AM
3

A plate is someone you're fucking. So no she is not a plate. Sounds like you're trying to run game instead of just being a man that values his time and has other options.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 01:05 AM
19

I believe in doing things if I feel like doing them. I don't believe in doing things for the sake of doing them or out of obligation. So if I want to get her a card I'll get her a card, sometimes it's on a holiday and sometimes it's not. This year I wanted to do something nice for her on Valentine's day, especially since she wasn't expecting it. If I get the feeling that she's expecting something or will be disappointed if I don't, then I won't do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:03 PM
14

Oh shit if he ever found out he'd probably have a heart attack. I would never do that though because I actually enjoy the stability he gives her. If she ruined it she'd probably be on the streets and given my kids spend half their lives with her, this is much better. I do wonder what the hell he's thinking though. Surely by this time he realizes she's full of shit with everything she says? I can't figure out how one could be so naive.......
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:33 PM
49

Mine goes something like this: "I'm really sorry for how I treated you. I really did love you and wish we could just have a fresh start. I miss how happy we were." 10 seconds later: "Fuck you I hate you you're a POS." Cluster B things....
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:47 PM
30

If you listened to my wife I'm a dead beat dad....you would be ignoring mountains of data that directly contradict that statement and in fact, prove the opposite, but that's what women do.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 03:44 PM
3

It's probably GE since they do appliances but also a million other things.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:30 PM
26

Funny because I thought this was a metaphor for dating. Some hot girl who's a 9 wants in a relationship with you. You kowtow to her every request because she's so amazing. She has power over you, she can fuck you over. Meanwhile if you have a pool of women that you can pick and choose from, she doesn't have that power. She pulls some shit and she's done.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:58 PM
4

What makes someone "Alpha" is living their life unapologetically. Being the best version of themselves and not caring what others think about that. You can be an introverted, D&D nerd and still be alpha. You can have feelings and cry about puppies and be alpha. You can enjoy wearing a dress and getting pegged and be alpha. Regardless of your personality and hobbies and interests and quarks, you are going to get shit tested by people around you. How you respond to that is what determines your soc…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:32 PM
1

Yes this is a natural instinct. There is a very real biological effect that a woman's crying on you has. Specifically it lowers your testosterone immediately. I'm not sure why this makes us more willing to give in at those periods, but it's not just you. Cheers for not caving. She sounds like a real manipulative headcase.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 04:23 PM
1

Shows me how you can't trust anything a woman says. When the hamster is spinning it will say whatever it can get away with.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:29 PM
1

This is probably the dumbest thing I've ever heard. You're assuming the guy is big because he's making fun of other people? I'm a big guy...with big guy friends. I never act like this, because I don't have anything to prove. The biggest assholes I know are little Napoleons that are insecure and need to be annoyingly over-aggressive to make up for it.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:07 PM
1

You're still finding ways that you can impress her by taking her out and spending money on her. You've already lost. How would you treat her if she was ugly and had a bad personality but you were forced to spend that time slot together?
/r/askTRP09/12/15 08:28 PM
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Lifting weights increases Testosterone, so there's definitely science behind an increased sex drive. Stop second guessing yourself on your girl...
/r/askTRP09/12/15 08:24 PM
1

If you have to ask us, it's not a date. Also, asking a girl out for coffee as a date, after you've already met her, is kind of lame...almost like you are afraid to put yourself out there.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 07:26 PM
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If you're not aware that a game is being played, you've already lost. Almost all women understand the game, most men do not. In fact, you may very well get that response, but even the response of "what do you mean?" is a part of the game. It's a dance, to get you to reveal more about yourself and your worth and value and what you stand for.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:38 PM
1

People everywhere will give everyone shit for everything. It's how we determine the pecking order of life. Today I opened up my Facebook and saw Tom Brady getting shit all over by thousands of people. He's a legendary quarterback in the NFL making millions of dollars and has a banging hot wife. You're always going to GET shit, whether you're able to take it or not is up to you and how you live your life.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:04 PM
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Echoing the "drink whatever you want to drink crowd"... Also curious why you dissed Long Island Iced Teas...it's the most economical drink to order if you're looking to get smashed.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:45 PM
2

My ex-wife "wasn't like that" with me. Till she ended up fucking half the town. Funny how that works. Since then I've heard a variant of the story hundreds of times. Mine ended up being quite normal in comparison. At first it's a difficult thing to accept. Eventually you will be happy to understand how it works. Good luck on your journey. Your fate is in your hands.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:04 AM
2

Just keep practicing. If you're the guy you want to be 1% of the time, in a month it may be 5%, 6 months 50%, a year 90%. Eventually it will become second nature. Going from 0-1% is the hardest step, because it requires you to be self-reflective, a skill most people don't have or want. The fact that you understand you have an issue is well over half the battle.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:14 PM
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Vasalgel should be out and proven to be reversible by the time my son is a teenager. I plan on getting it for him. I'll also offer it for free to any guy my daughter dates. I plan on starting a non-profit that gives them to inner city kids and prisoners about to be released that can't pay for it themselves either. I can see it going one of two ways: 1. Destruction of our country. Low population growth kills our growth economy, low education work force is too small to do the jobs no one wants to …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:23 AM
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Reading your post you come off as butthurt and emotional. WWBPD, what would Brad Pitt do? I'm pretty sure he's got enough pussy that he would have just stopped texting her if she was taking too much of his time. She power moved you, wanted to see where she stood, and she won.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:15 AM
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"The second video I ever made did have something DISTINCT to Logan. I was wearing a pair of lingerie he bought me and said something like "You still like these right? Remember when you bought them for my birthday last year?" So when we talk tomorrow I'll at least be able to show him that." The amount of conclusion jumping in this sub is getting ridiculous. First off, who cares if she's making it up. Second off, you don't know anything about this situation, it could be anywhere from 0-100% made u…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:51 AM
1

I do. I love watching girls touch themselves. You could say the same thing about any video. Do you really think a girl is making a sex tape for YOU or her own validation/self interest? It's porn man....it doesn't need a holy purpose.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:48 AM
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I've actually noticed an interesting trend since my divorce. My wife pledged her undying love for me and how amazing I was, only to fuck around like 2 weeks later. Since then I've been watching other relationships and so far have not been wrong. The MORE "gooey retarded" a chick is with her man, the more likely it is that she will terminate the relationship with extreme prejudice. My theory is that a woman who can be so overcome with her emotion that it seeps out into public awareness, will have…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:31 PM
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The sad part is once this sets in their brain patterns are already set for the most part. Very few would have the fortitude to decide to change themselves into something beyond their looks. Basically, at that age, their life is a meritocracy. They aren't used to having to rely on the foundation of their character for recognition. Whereas we as men have it forced upon us at a young age, so we are already prepared for the challenge.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 10:03 PM
2

Both? I love eating pussy, I love fucking, I love getting a woman off. I think you need a healthy dose of pleasuring and getting pleased. There's a time and place for everything and variety is the spice of life.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 11:20 PM
1

I'm downvoting this because it's not the right venue for asking such a question. How is this appropriate for a subreddit about male/female dynamics / sexual strategy? If he had asked in the context of TRP it would be a different story.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:15 AM
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Why would you talk to her about it? Do you expect to get a straight answer out of her? You know everything you need to know about this girl already. She has bad boundaries and hides things from you. If you want to chit chat about it you're probably in the wrong sub.. Try r/relationships
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:30 AM
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Based on the information she provided, he was getting rough, she told him to stop, and he pinned her down and covered her mouth. That's rape. If a woman wants you to stop fucking her, you stop. Don't try to argue with that or outgame her. Taken at face value, this woman was assaulted and we should all just leave it alone. This isn't the case of retroactive consent removal or "feels like rape". She clearly said no, he kept going.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:02 AM
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You're a 23 year old girl fresh out of college. You're surrounded at work by young guys in entry level jobs making $15 an hour, still living in a shitty pad, trying to keep the frat party going. In walks a 30+ guy. He's got a career, decent car, decent place, some vision and experience. Who would you rather spend your time with? All you have to do is be in a target rich environment.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 09:19 AM
2

Have you found something in your life that you enjoy yet? Maybe you need to try some different things, purely for the purpose of finding something that you enjoy. When you have passion and interest, it gives you perspective. How can you care about your macros when you are too busy enjoying yourself because of your interest in martial arts, or painting, or archery, or dancing? You haven't created a life for yourself, at this point you sound like you are living everyone else's life. Doing what you…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 06:20 PM
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The odds that the ex was abusive are the same odds (maybe even less) that she THINKS he was abusive because she has a personality disorder. Ever notice how the crazies are always victims? All of their exs are abusive? Guess what, if she is crazy (sounds like it), you'll be the abusive ex to her next victim.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:49 AM
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I view it as a social idea that can be observed through anecdotal evidence. Similar to Poe's Law or Godwin's Law. It's a fancy way of saying that women will terminate a relationship with extreme prejudice when it no longer suits them. Anyone that believes this is scientific fact need some screws adjusted.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:43 PM
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Step 1 is acknowledging you have a problem. Step 2 is fixing it... I'd say right off the bat you know the bitch is crazy but you still are with her. Also, I think you can see that arguing with crazy is pointless. Don't talk with your words, talk with your actions. You're not going to change her mind with logic or well thought out positions.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:15 PM
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Standard female manipulation 101. Women fear rejection, they can't handle it like you can. She can't come out and say, "Let's share accounts." Because if you say no she'll cry herself to sleep for a month. So she sends out a little quip. If you bite, she's in. If you don't, she says it was a joke. Then, she "gets upset" and now you're on the defensive. "I'm sorry baby I didn't mean it...here let's share bank accounts." Game, set, match. You only win this game by flipping it on her. "Joint accoun…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:04 PM
1

If you think it is, then it is. The thing is, no one but you really gives a shit, but you've already psyched yourself out. Seriously, repeat after me: no one gives a shit about your height. Stop thinking about it. Stop caring about it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:50 AM
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Use it as a positive change in your life. Be thankful you found out about the true nature of things before you gave up 50% of your personal property and had kids with her. You're going to be angry, it's a fair emotion. At some point you'll look back and be thankful for it. Ride the wave for now.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 08:00 PM
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When I realized that the original forefathers and soldiers were people like us who had a good life and plenty to lose, that is when I fell in love with our history. People wrote inspirational works and speeches that rallied men to die for their cause. We are lucky to be a nation and the courage we displayed caused a domino effect in regards to representative government.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 01:04 AM
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If you get a no, it should be followed up with: "but here's when I can get together." If she's interested but unavailable for that specific date/time, she will make alternative plans with you. TBH though, you're too into this girl, you're putting all your eggs in one basket. If you have Asperger's you're going to need to get rejected...a lot. You're social interactions are going to be very awkward and come off as creepy and the only way to get over that is repetition to realize what works and do…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 03:19 PM
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They were the days that included cannons, massive warships used to blockade ports, and artillery that could bombard a town into dust. Those were the helicopters and tanks of that generation. The thought of removing that right from private hands and consolidating it only with the government was not even a consideration. The question is not, should we allow citizens to have chemical and nuclear weapons. The question is, if we don't trust private citizens to handle these weapons, why would we cede …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:18 PM
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Before the US had a permanent army, it was actually reliant on privately owned arms. Militias allowed the winning of the war, and our naval power was almost entirely private war ships. That was the context of our 2nd amendment. Seems odd that now we allow our army and navy to have massive death machines and we are restricting ourself to 7 shots. The thought of citizens being able to defend themselves from the federal government is a nightmare they can't imagine.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 01:49 PM
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I used to feel like that, because I was somewhat insecure and fearful. The shit tests challenged me and upset my balance. As I've changed, I view them differently. I'm not going to be defined by a woman, and therefore a shit test is not going to upset me. Once I got into that mindset, they are fun for me now. Almost like a joke or social experiment.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:57 PM
1

Wouldn't the easiest route to be having a drug sniffing dog at the post office? That would be my biggest concern, getting popped by the USPS... How do the guys that do the deliveries make sure they don't get caught?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:32 PM
1

Isn't that true of most women?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 01:21 AM
1

I think there's an important distinction between BBW and just a fat ass. I'm a face guy, if a girl is attractive it doesn't really bother me if she is big. A lot of women use BBW but actually just mean ugly and overweight.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 03:27 PM
1

There's not one IMO.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 09:39 AM
2

The direct approach: "Sign this pre-nup or I'm not marrying you." The pressure flip: "If you don't want to sign it I'll know you're just marrying me for the money. If you know we'll be together forever then you'll have no problem signing." Don't forget that prenups are often thrown out, make sure you hire a good lawyer. Also remember that a prenup can't protect you against child support or custody. Many states also limit or ban alimony waivers in prenups. And as always, a prenup does not cover a…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:59 AM
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I'm definitely challenging the assertion that if I cheat you getting half my stuff is fair. We live in a strange world where pledging not to fuck around in a church warrants the loss of ownership of half your property. Maybe an inconvenience payment or something but if I fuck your best friend you get half of my million dollar estate that you didn’t work for at all?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:40 PM
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The simplest HIIT program I ever did was 4 minutes, you sprint 100% for 30 seconds, walk or jog for 30 seconds, you do that 4 times (4 minutes). If you do it right you'll feel like dying after 4 minutes. You do that 3 times a week, and every 2-3 times you add a minute till you can do 20 minutes. You can literally do that with anything (sprinting, biking, rowing, swimming). The point is you have to have MAXIMUM exertion and then a period of rest to just get so you can do it again. I think the spe…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:58 PM
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It's a really great book and one of my first acknowledgements of TRP (before I knew what that was) from her research. This woman interviewed hundreds of people and only found 2 that actually had any gonads, not surprising that they were worth their own section: Did you interview anyone who made it through this? Yes, I did. I interviewed two men who handled themselves much differently than most of the men I talked to over the years. The first man took the initiative and filed for divorce after hi…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:45 PM
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I think people will, rightfully, question your use of must and have to. This is not a requirement to land hot women, but it does make it easier. Just like having a wing woman work you from the inside (ie the bathroom) is better than a cold approach. Being a friend of a friend or a friend of a woman immediately gives you credibility and removes the risk of being a rapist/violent predator.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:28 PM
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Most of the tricks they will teach you for selling to strangers are to instantly build rapport. You want to make a connection, and then the person feels some trust and loyalty in doing business with you. The goal at the end of the transaction is for them to feel like they've met a new friend.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:24 PM
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Ugly women don't get that kind of sympathy, not from my experience. But to respond, the fact that you don't get to spend your summer getting blowjobs from models is entirely up to you. There are certainly uglier men than you that do get blown by models on top of buildings all summer long. They have to work for it though. The possibility exists and is entirely dependent on your willingness to achieve that goal. You are feeling sorry for yourself because you have limitless potential but not being …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:58 PM
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I disagree with your premise that a man's life is more difficult. That is clearly true if you look at the things you value as a man (fucking and having influence). It is also true if you are comparing an average male vs an attractive female. However, imagine how difficult life would be if you were an unattractive woman. An attractive woman can be a total bitch, lazy, dumb, and not contribute anything to the world she lives in, and still be desirable and successful at life just because men want t…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:36 AM
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And women are going to dish out shit for both. "Look at that tramp!" "OMG I hate cocky guys! <starts squirting>"
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:06 AM
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Think of it like a job interview where they ask what your biggest weakness is. Your answer to that would be like a superficial vulnerability. ie it would be something that is a non-issue, or a strength made to look like a weakness. "I love my job a little too much." It makes you sound vulnerable but what you are saying is that you drive towards success. A substantive vulnerability would be like the real truth, but never something you would admit to in an interview. "I'm afraid of success." Makes…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 11:04 AM
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Thanks for putting this together. I like how this kind of succinctly points out all the "rings of truth" that make sense in our observations. It is very convenient to have them all in one bulleted list. If I was telling someone about the reality of women and they were interested, I could just say, "Here, read these." This was my favorite: "A woman starved of emotion will become desperate to sustain her psychological onslaught. As such, she will attempt to pry it from the dead, exaggerating obser…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 10:57 AM
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You need to read the whole story. While I completely disagree with your premise anyway, the details are she completely fucking ignored the guy for like 4 months. Like wouldn't even talk to him. Then she fucked another guy and still kept ignoring him. And then one day he says hes breaking up with her on the internet and she comes back and starts being super loving...miraculously she's healed.....
/r/askTRP23/07/15 10:25 AM
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The reason you will see many people here who post hateful or idiotic comments like that is because they are angry. It's not an excuse, just an explanation. Many of us are here because we made really stupid decisions, trusted women at face value, and then got burned by it. Now that we have a much more realistic point of view in terms of female behavior, seeing a story like yours can be frustrating. For some people who are newer along their journey, they aren't yet comfortable with the truth and s…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 10:17 AM
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Sounds like a good reason not to have her in your life then. Hope she turns it around for your sake.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:40 AM
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Two things from your post: 1: You are obviously angry at your mom for doing what she did. While it sucks and she's obviously got her issues, she's still your mom. What we discover with TRP is that we all have biological instincts (men and women) and that it's silly to pretend they don't exist. It would be silly to talk about TRP and it's truths and then use that to justify never speaking to your mom. While I understand it may take time, you should work to getting to the point where you take your…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 10:52 AM
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Spending an entire night with a girl you barely know is not a good sign, it's a bad one. It shows you don't have any other prospects. In that situation you should have been physically escalating (touching, then kissing at a minimum) , and set up the next interaction while you were still there. By spending all your time with just her and now spending time texting without getting to the point you are becoming an easy source of validation (a male whore). In the future, strike while the iron is hot.…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 12:08 PM
1

No worries bud. Congrats on your success in terms of changing your life around.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:37 PM
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At the end of the day, the only person who you need to answer to is yourself. If you feel guilty about it and you don't like what you did, change it. TRP is amoral, but part of being a man is knowing what you want and going after it. If that means you live with a certain set of moral guidelines, then follow them full-heartedly. For some, this means fuck anything that moves. For others, it means they abstain from sex until marriage. Both are equally as "Alpha" or "Beta" depending on the man behin…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:27 PM
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You're not angry at women. They have always been the way they are. You're angry because you've been lied to. Reality did not meet your expectation, the world you lived in was a lie. Anger will go away as you begin to accept a new reality. TRP isn't just a clever name. It's very similar to the matrix in terms of acceptance of the way things really are.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 11:06 AM
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So your question is should you break up with her or not? It sounds like you could be Ok with the possibility of ending it, great start. Start invoking some dread game with her. You're already working out. Flirt with girls in front of her, look at other women when she is talking to you, make sure you are dressing sharp. Basically act like you are hanging out single with a buddy when around her, it will imply that which you don't want to come out and say. Which is, "If you aren't going to fuck me,…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:49 PM
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hypocritical: "pretense of having virtues, beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually possess: " As in, you expect your former drug addict ho wife to have never had sex or made a sex tape before your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 04:03 PM
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I don't see a white knight. A guy's wife made a sex tape before they got married. It was released, he stood by her. Yeah he's a dumbass for marrying a drug addict ho but I would expect that a majority of women have some sort of material out in the world they don't want people to see. It would be pretty hypocritical to dump a chick because of something she couldn't control that happened before they were together.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:15 PM
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Don't misunderstand me, I'm all for going on your own and it's probably the right decision. Just saying that from the other side's perspective, they would prefer the safer alternative.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:53 PM
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Hypothetical situation, but you're unable to work and the only way you can get money is to snatch a rich guy. What strategy do you employ to maximize your financial security? If you look at it that way it makes sense. For every guy that quits their job to earn more money, probably a good portion end up broke after a few years. There's not a good way for the woman to tell who that's going to be. So in that situation you'd probably pick the guy who can make $100K+ a year vs the guy who "might" be …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 11:03 AM
1

After getting stuck in family court I understand the difficult situation here. Bottom line is the court system doesn't want to be inundated with day to day bullshit. They want to hit the gavel, collect their support fees, and never see you again. When you go against their orders, you are taking the law into your own hands, and they absolutely hate that (assuming you're a dad). Even in the spite of overwhelming evidence, you have to do it their way or they punish you. In this case, not much he co…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:41 PM
2

You absolutely can make a ho a housewife. Watch American Pimp. Lots of pimps marry their hoes and they stay faithful. If you're on your game they won't mess it up, and if you aren't on your game any woman can cheat.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:34 PM
1

If you aren't sure of yourself and need validation, a woman who supplies it can be like a drug. This is something that I had (still struggle with), and it's very easy to get caught up in it if you are looking for others praise instead of knowing your value. Imagine you're a beat puppy just looking for love and then all of a sudden someone comes in with a saucer of milk, hunk of meat, and starts petting and playing with you. You're going to think it's the best feeling in the world! But it's a rec…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:31 PM
2

I'm pretty sure the lethal hit bullshido has been thoroughly debunked. With money on the table. If hitting somewhere was lethal, then hitting there less than lethally would be debilitating, and thus would be a huge competitive advantage in a fight. Example: punching upward into the lungs is not illegal in MMA. Nor is punching to the temple or throat or other "pressure points" that are considered deadly. Yet we never see anyone pull it off. Because the first thing you learn when you learn to figh…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:21 PM
2

Since I started MA training (MMA, boxing, BJJ), I've realized how dangerous getting in a street fight is. When you train with people who are very unassuming and look like 140 pound nerds who would get destroyed, and then find out they could kill you with their bare hands without breaking a sweat, it removes your certainty in a fighting situation. Not to mention that you have no idea who are the people in a bar who would stab you in the eye socket before the first punch was even thrown. Best advi…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:12 PM
1

A good boxing gym will spar very light. It's a training experience it's not meant to be knocking eachother out. It's almost like shadowboxing with a partner. The goal is to learn timing and technique. You can also take your own experience in your hands and tell people you want to spar light, and avoid sparring with hot heads. Training boxing for fitness will be a good workout, but without putting your skills to the test in the ring I would not consider them muscle memory. A bag won't teach you m…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:59 PM
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Why are most small business owners and entrepreneurs men? Women don't enjoy taking risks like that, they want security. If they did enjoy taking risks, they would start working for themselves more often. Therefore, a man who quits his job and takes a paycut to start his own business is seen as too risky, similar to the risk of them quitting their own job and doing the same thing. Sure, it may pay off more in the long run, but again, it's a risk to security. And since they are really after the se…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:46 PM
1

You could always just continue living your life and get something on the side if you desire. Might be cheaper that way. Honestly you'll probably be the most happy paying the piper and just getting a divorce. Before you do, go to mensdivorce.com and read "the list." It will maximize your chance of getting shared custody of your son (if that's what you want), and help you protect your finances as much as possible. I got taken to the cleaners in my divorce but it was well worth it, and in the end I…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:08 PM
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Why go through that effort? In all but a small handful of states it will have no bearing on his outcome. A cheating whore still gets alimony, custody, and child support unless you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:06 PM
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Even Jezebel turned on her.... Like the feminist version of ISIS.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 10:45 AM
2

The branch swinging isn't as indicative if you're leaving for the right reasons. No one's going to fault you for leaving for a better opportunity, and you can clearly say that. These days companies expect people to show no loyalty, the system is set up that way. Now what looks bad is if you're leaving every 6 months from every job for lateral moves.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:24 PM
2

Best way to get a raise is to have options. Go apply and interview elsewhere, then you can leverage offers against eachother and your current position. And if they don't buck up, you just pick the other position.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:31 AM
2

If you want to learn to insult properly, go to a brunch with a group of southern women. They are the true masters of the back-handed compliment. If you're not careful, you may think they're complimenting the target of their scorn.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 08:32 PM
2

http://www.amazon.com/48-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene/dp/0140280197/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1433359050&sr=8-1&keywords=48+laws+of+power
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:17 PM
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http://www.ezlawpllc.com/blog/2014/6/11/show-me-the-money-tracing-passive-growth-on-commingled-retirement-assets-in-kentucky-and-ohio This is a good start, may want to try reading it a few times until you understand it. You have a 401K before marriage, any investment in that 401K prior to your marriage and the growth it accrues is yours and yours alone. However, once you get married, you're going to be putting community money in your 401K. As soon as the community money gets mixed into one of yo…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:03 PM
1

Does it apply to you? Are you getting married or are you recently married and have 401K assets? If it does I can point you in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 02:21 PM
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Looking at it another way, both sexes will spend money on things that create value in their life. For a man, that will be things that tend to get him laid (cars, tools for improving homes, gadgets that show status). For a female, they are usually things that make her look nice, which gets her toward her goal of snagging a provider.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:43 AM
0

Good thing I like fat chicks...
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 12:48 AM
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Whatever you had in your 401k prior to marriage, and all of the growth that it accrues, is yours and yours alone. Where men end up losing it is when they comingle it with post-marriage money. Then it becomes very difficult to prove what was growth from pre-marital vs post-marital contributions and growth. To get around this you either need to have a 401k provider that allows you to label assets in different "buckets", and then never use new 401k money with pre-marital assets; or you need to put …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:10 AM
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We as men see romantic stories and attribute females love of these stories with our idea of romance. Not realizing that the reason women love these stories is not why we do (unconditional love). Eg Cinderella. Guy doesn't care woman is poor, he loves her anyway and will do anything to find her. Girls like it because a broken, poor woman hits the lottery.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:20 AM
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I know from being very experienced in divorces that pre-marital assets are protected in divorces. I'm not aware of a single state that doesn't do that (not saying there aren't any). The site I quoted verified that. Your lawyer is not wrong, an ex can fight for anything, and if your records aren't clean you could in fact end up having to pay out the appreciation. The mistake most men make is that they don't plan for that appropriately and do stupid things like co-mingle premarital and post-marita…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:20 PM
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http://www.divorcenet.com/states/ohio/ohfaq04 "Marital property does not include either spouse's separate property, as described below." "Separate property is property that is not marital property, but is instead owned separately by either spouse. It includes any real or personal property (or any interest in such property) that falls into these categories: property that was acquired by one spouse prior to the date of the marriage, passive income and appreciation acquired from separate property b…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:13 PM
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This actually isn't true. If you have an asset pre-marriage, it and all of the accrued interest are yours and yours alone. Where guys get effed over is when they comingle pre-marital and post-marital assets. For example, you have a house you owned and purchased before marriage, but then you use community money for upgrades or repairs (ie you let her pay to fix the house). Now all of a sudden the house that was yours becomes a house that is both of yours. Same thing with 401Ks. Proper planning ca…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:23 PM
2

LOL is that what they tell you? "I would never do that. Honest."
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:45 PM
0

This is a blurred line, since the woman knew full well that it was both morally and legally wrong. It's a bad example of your point (which I agree with for the most part), because there's just as many examples of perverted female teachers throwing their careers and family lives away for a student/students that were obviously not Alpha bad boys.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:25 PM
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I've read an insane amount of these stories in the last few years. While I don't disagree with your theory, I don't think it applies here at all. These teachers are getting busted fucking 6th graders, 7th graders, 8th graders. Many times they get involved in group sex at parties they throw. This is a fucked up form of narcissism, it has very little to do with the male's game or status and very much to do with the personality disorder of the woman. You think the 6th grader who knocked up his marr…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:44 PM
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How is an open relationship different from spinning plates? Other than the fact that in an open relationship you KNOW the other person is fucking around, and when you spin plates it's inferred. You got oneitis for someone you shouldn't have, that has nothing to do with open relationships. It should have made it easier for you to see the relationship for what it was, a good time but not to be taken too seriously.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:38 PM
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When you're 30 you'll look back when you were 24 and wonder what the hell you were thinking trying to decide the course of your life. Not to say it couldn't work out, but man you got a lot of life to live, and you're whole world is going to change a lot in the next 5 years. There's no rush to get married, only the social pressure you've placed on yourself. If you want to stay with her, stay with her, but make sure she's on birth control and don't sign away your life needlessly.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 11:44 AM
1

His counter-suit was for slander. False rape accusations should have been at the top of that list for slanderous activities. He didn't even mention it.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/15 01:48 AM
3

Things aren't alpha or beta. You can be Alpha wearing a dress listening to the Backstreet Boys while you're getting pounded from behind by Richard Simmons. What makes someone Alpha is knowing your plan and going after it, and not letting anything or anyone else deter you (ie not giving a fuck). If you have a shit job just own it. If you have a traditionally female job just own it. More than likely you have a valid reason for working that job unless you really are just lazy. Be passionate about y…
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:44 PM
2

This is awesome. I'm thinking about it this way: This guy is talking to you, he asks if you want to hang out and play chess (assume you like that). You're unsure if he's gay and trying to get in your pants or just trying to hang out. You assume, since he hasn't overtly flirted with you, that he just wants to play Chess, so you agree. You go play chess, you're having a good time, nothing weird. A few hours later you're leaving and he tries to kiss you goodbye. Eewwwwwwwwwwwwww!!! "I'm sorry but I…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:34 PM
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I view all the problems as my fault because, if she is just a crazy bitch, then it's my fault for keeping her in my life. Either you're a bad leader or they're an unfixable problem. If the former, it's your fault for not being a good leader and you need to fix that. If the latter, then you are responsible for cutting dead weight.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:54 PM
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She's acting like he's allowing her too. AWALT right? Any person would get away with this if they were allowed to. Reread my comments. He can right this ship and get her interested in him if he establishes boundaries and a frame and isn't afraid to lose her. At the point that he does that, he's probably going to realize that she isn't anything special.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:15 PM
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I can't agree with this enough. You are in an incredibly selfish relationship. You basically do all the charming, wonderful things a boyfriend does. You have, for the most part, one very basic and very instinctual desire, and she can not even give a half-assed attempt to meet that. The hardest truth I had to find out about women is that they will drop you in a heart beat. Some call this Briffault's law, some call it a fish being a fish. You can marry this girl, giving her your entire self and al…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 06:07 PM
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It wasn't, but it should have been a big part of his counter-suit for slander. He failed to even bring it up.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/15 02:55 AM
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I view claiming someone raped you along the lines as someone accusing you of being a child molester. That's something that's going to stick even if it's untrue. It can have a detrimental effect on one's social life and career. Whether it's reported to the cops or not is irrelevant IMO. Slander/Libel is more about the damages done to the victim than the outlet of how they accused.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/15 11:41 PM
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Isn't this a clear PP? She makes a false rape claim and only gets verbally admonished. He did a bad job stating his case, he should have gotten damages for false rape allegations. Was hoping the judge would at least call it even.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/15 12:01 PM
2

Maybe I have a special demeanor that can pull this off (I'm very lighthearted), but I generally just call these women out. "Wow, you hate gays? You're a real asshole." And then I will find things to tease them about throughout the night. "Oh that waiter looks gay, we better leave before Jesus gets offended." Now you're on the offensive. If she continues to act like a bitch, you didn't like her anyway. My goal is to make them laugh at themselves, if they start realizing they are being an idiot, I…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:55 PM
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Then you also have to factor for previous experience, vacation, and overtime. I've read that when you account for all that it is anywhere from 7% for women to positive for women. On average men work more overtime and take less vacation days. Anecdotally the women I know in my office and in my social circle are bad at asking for raises and promotions. You can't really fault employers for that. That being said, if one could save 7% by simply hiring only females, it would be a pretty lucrative arbi…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:26 PM
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If you came here with your mind made up, you would get the validation you need. See, when you read threads you disregard the dumbass comments, and take things with a grain of salt (eg the guys who are in the anger phase and spewing women hate). Someone who doesn't want to swallow the pill will use that as evidence that we are all misogynists.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 08:13 AM
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It's not pulled out of an ass, it's a faulty premise. 77% is the number if you divide the average female salary by the average male salary. The pulled out of an ass part is calling that figure equal pay for equal work.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 08:08 AM
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Why are you still putting her (or anyone for that matter) on a pedestal? Spending all your time with one person? Getting angry because she's acting how she wants? She's not an angel, she farts, burps, and her shits smell bad. Stop idolizing the pussy.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:04 PM
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You can't act like you DGAF because you clearly do GAF. Why is your esteem so low? Why would you ever delete a girl's # who's into you? She proposed an alternate day and time. If it doesn't work fine, but don't throw away your bat before you even strike out. Relax bud....
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:01 PM
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If you're hanging around a girl waiting for some action, and you aren't getting it, you're not AF.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 05:38 PM
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Sounds like you don't have much self-esteem and are looking for success with women to validate your self-worth. If you're using women for this purpose you're going to be really disappointed and always "chasing". You need to change your paradigm. Become the prize, and find value in yourself first instead of looking for others to improve your self-worth. Things that help with this: Accomplishing goals, lifting heavy weights, martial arts, sports, building something, etc. Get out of your comfort zo…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:58 PM
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I've done high school sports and MMA. While MMA is definitely more practical and useful in the real world, the best times of my life were in high school team sports. These are the kids you go to school with, there is a huge social benefit to playing on a school team at that age. I remember the handful of kids that did interesting martial arts were always kind of outcasts because no one ever saw them after school. If you can, have the best of both worlds and do high school wrestling. Wrestling is…
/r/askTRP19/04/15 06:25 PM
1

Well if you want to not listen to research because your mind is already made up, I can't argue with that kind of ignorance. But if you're open minded about it and interested in being a better parent there are plenty of rational, non judgemental studies you can read. The good ones will admit that spanking is not ineffective, and better than no punishment at all. Resorting to physical punishment is a cop out. It's a result of a lack of planning and patience. For some reason it's not OK to discipli…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 07:55 AM
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You HAVE to be consistent or else it's not effective. You can also apply better leverage than timeouts when they hit a certain age. For example, losing a toy he likes is a much bigger motivator for my 5 year old than a timeout. To respond to your point, consider if your sons fear of physical harm from the father he loves is a good motivator for approved behavior. Spanking may be getting the results you want, but it's not as effective in the long run and definitely has negative consequences as we…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:52 PM
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I'm in agreement with you in that consistency is the most important thing. However, there's been enough studies to show that spanking is not nearly as effective as isolation in correcting behavior. There are also a lot of negative effects to it as well. Consider that you are a small child, your parents are your security. You do something wrong and now the person you are supposed to go to for comfort and security is hurting you physically for something that was not a physical act. Imagine the con…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:47 PM
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You can isolate them in a corner (time out). Get a kitchen timer, set it for one minute for every year of age. If they talk back or try to leave, reset the timer. This is much more effective than physical punishment. But you need to be consistent with it. They have to know the direct consequence of their action, it's their job to test you.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:21 AM
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My ex cheated, that screwed me up for a few months. I was just learning about RP concepts (though no one was calling it that). I tried working it out with her, but I had a few months to kind of get my mind in order and figure things out the hard way. That was about 6 months. The second time she cheated and I knew the marriage was over, I felt like dying for about 6 weeks, then I decided I was going to get out and live my life. I went dancing one night and I did a complete 180 and never looked ba…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 01:51 PM
6

Can you go into more detail? As someone considering a first trip I'm curious as to what your experience was like.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:22 AM
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Yeah life doesn't work like that. She'll probably find another way out, using her beauty, charm, or vag. In the real world, cheaters win all the time.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 10:42 AM
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Would be nice if both of these people got locked up for a long time, regardless of the actual chain of events. The whole thing is disgusting.
/r/PussyPass03/04/15 06:47 PM
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I don't believe there's enough information in this article to make a valid assumption. There is very likely more information that is not being shared.
/r/PussyPass03/04/15 03:48 PM
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Straight up PP. Girl claims rape, guy's life is ruined.... there is no justice here.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/04/15 11:20 AM
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You have to have calm, assertive energy.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:30 PM
6

You sound like a real elitist asshole.....maybe you should work on that.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:46 PM
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Depends on what you want. Personally I have guys for mental stimulation, I get with women for the tits and ass. Being able to have a decent conversation is a plus for me, not a requirement. Obviously if you're just spinning plates, looking for a woman to flex your brain muscle is a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:38 PM
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She asked if you had a girlfriend, trying to qualify you. You responded by getting defensive and making sure she 100% knew that no current girl likes you that much. Which you demonstrated by spending way too much time texting someone who was not that into you to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:53 AM
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Let's not get retarded. There are plenty of mentally stimulating women out there, even if it's not the cultural norm. A beautiful woman in this culture has no reason to have to be mentally stimulating, which is why you don't see those traits together very often.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:43 AM
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There are people in this world who will "fight fair." There are people in this world who will stab you in the back, literally, when you aren't looking, if they feel threatened. You usually don't know which is which until the time is up. You made a big gamble when you thought your friend was in the first group and not the second, considering he was holding a knife when you confronted him. There is a reason that when it comes to self-defense you run away or you fight however dirty you need to rend…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:25 PM
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What was your point in mentioning Phineas Gage? I'm inclined to believe that it proves the opposite, that we're all animals, but our brains are capable of changing our behavior based on our will. Phineas lost the part of his brain that allows him to control himself, so he was acting 100% on pure impulse. That means that anything we do that is "normal" is because we will our actions against the 100% natural animal instinct. Curious as to why you mentioned this, maybe you have a different point of…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:37 PM
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Relevant Prank: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZoTn_hxAMc I'm all in favor of this kind of protesting... It's a real shame women can't walk around topless.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:20 PM
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"MAN UP!" and hold the camera why I get pounded by a giant black cock. If you don't like it, it's only because you are insecure.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:33 PM
2

If you actually read about HIV, the tests they give you for free only test for the antibodies. Those antibodies only show up 30-90 days after infection (sometimes it takes a year). That means if a chick just got infected in the last few weeks , she would pass the test. If that wasn't bad enough, you are most likely to transmit the disease when you are just infected. There are tests that check for the actual virus. They aren't 100% accurate and they are expensive as hell (last time I checked arou…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:18 PM
2

Honestly, Poe's law is a real thing. I've sworn people were so radical in their beliefs before that they were kidding and....had a reason to be disappointed in humans after that.
/r/PussyPass23/03/15 12:48 AM
1

So you completely agree with me then?
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:38 PM
2

I believe it was CS Lewis who put this down to paper. A child has a blissful joy of flying. He dreams about it in his youth. As he matures that childlike ignorance changes into a more mature appreciation of flight. As he trains to be a pilot, the immature yearnings are replaced with a deeper and more complex love. As his understanding of his skill grows, so does his love, but it is redirected in a completely different way. The desire to fly as a child is different but far inferior to the love of…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 07:00 PM
1

I enjoyed reading this, thank you. $.50 /u/changetip
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:26 PM
4

Anyone that knows how to fight wouldn't pick fights with random strangers.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 10:55 AM
1

Does it matter? Do you get mad at the female peacock for liking the feathers? Or try to rationalize with them that their behavior is detrimental? You can't fight genetics.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:08 PM
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Earth? Don't be bitter...Are you mad at butterflies for just floating around all day from flower to flower? Accept it and move forward.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:08 PM
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Get a fucking lawyer. Don't say or talk to anyone. If you don't speak to the police or tell anyone, how would they get proof that you even had sex with her a few years ago? The worse thing you can do is talk... Beg, borrow, steal to get a lawyer. However expensive it is, it's a drop in the bucket if you have to register as a sex offender for sleeping with a minor.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 01:04 PM
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Man I was just thinking about how there's all this hatred lately for women and the current "society." Negative talk about feminism and the current cultural trends, etc etc. Women are acting like women. It's not a construct of society. Maybe "society" in the past altered women's natural behaviors, but you can't blame women for acting how they are wired to behave. Guess what, if society accepted that men could marry a woman with no financial consequences, and that she would stick with him for his …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:30 PM
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Funny how two generations ago women were the ones afraid to come forward on domestic violence charges. The great pendulum of life....
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:16 PM
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The only thing that make my life complete is to turn your face into a toilet seat.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/15 11:41 AM
6

She might get fucked by a .00000001% guy.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:46 PM
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This was my thought process, you said it better. When it ends, no matter what happens, in her head she will have dumped you because you weren't rich/tall/ripped enough.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:45 PM
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Just like we only use 10% of our brains. Someone hears something, distorts it, and suddenly the false information is truth. The best argument to this is that if women make 77% of a man's salary for the same job, you could start a company of all women and kill the competition by reducing your HR costs 23%.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:02 PM
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Cognitive dissonance. It's a real thing. "I'm not a slut...I was looking for the right guy and just didn't realize it was in front of me the whole time. I had to wade through the bad apples to appreciate him first." If they feel it, they believe it, and if they believe it, it's the truth. Not good, bad, or evil, just how they are wired....
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:56 PM
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I might have a Unicorn. It's called a Unicorn because they don't exist. And if they did, I'm not sure she would be hanging out with the unsatisfied computer nerd with no confidence who can't afford to move out of his parents house and revolves his life around a woman. Sounds to me like you need to reflect on the reality of your situation.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:52 PM
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It's not the typical "do I look fat" shit test I think that's a text book "do I look fat" shit test. Your reaction was to get defensive, and then try to reason with her. Agree and amplify is good and works well for me for these because I'm always making jokes "I didn't call you fat, I said you were a disgusting whale." But if you're having a tough time being funny or on the spot you can also handle it by being short or ignoring her. ie "That's not what I said." And then closing it off. Paying it…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:47 PM
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If you actually enjoy where you dance you may want to invoke the policy of not shitting where you eat. Since you don't want to be known as the guy who always brings his bitches around and it can blow up your spot if you're surrounded by a bunch of old flames. That being said, you're dancing with a girl, you're talking. If there's mutual interest there just be casual. "Let's meet up for drinks on tuesday." Or "Let's go grab a drink after this is over." Don't over complicate things.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:38 PM
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My daughter is still kind of young but she is already starting to learn to be manipulative (she gets that from her cunt of a mom). I'm not claiming to be perfect, but I do my best to teach her to ask directly for what she wants, not to be passive aggressive or whiny, and to be self-sufficient in all things, even if they are typical "man things." Still working on what I'll say when she's a teen.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:32 PM
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Write down a list of stuff you find interesting. Commit to doing something off that list. I read the book "Yes Man" for some inspiration. There's opportunity every day that you pass up being afraid or boring. Once you start living life you'll wonder why anyone would sit at home and mindlessly watch TV.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 06:01 PM
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I think they both have similar but slightly different approaches. Patrice will piss a girl off and then use that anger to hook them in. Dante is a more of a traditional player type. Different strokes for different folks but Patrice made for some amazing radio because he's so fucking funny. I've learned a lot from both shows though and respect them both for what they bring to the table. I'm really glad the spirit of Phillip is still going.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:36 PM
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The last couple shows he had these girls on that were real bitches. One was just so angry and full of herself. You can listen to it for 3 hours she goes from angry, hot bitch attitude to submissive and agreeable because he just wears her down with his game. The second time I listened to it you can see the depth of his game. I don't even know if it's intentional or it just comes from him naturally. What he does is say things like, "good girl" like a dog, when she does something he likes. When she…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:32 PM
1

Honest question. I posted this to off topic a few weeks ago. http://imgur.com/oQcrPR8 Would that be grounds for a permaban?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:21 PM
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My opinion on this has changed, and probably still is. Coming from my BP days the thought of of a train (the correct term), was appalling. I would never let another man touch my girl. I would feel completely jealous and insecure watching or taking part in it. The first time I considered that maybe this was up for review was on the Black Phillip show. Patrice is my idol. He made a comment that every man should watch his girl take some other guy's dick. Over the months I thought about it and let i…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 04:52 PM
1

I get that you had a revelation, but your title is clickbait. An entire genre of music is blue pill?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 03:53 PM
1

Yeah, it's a huge red flag. As you said if you have nothing to hide it wouldn't be an issue for you to look at. Most men and women have bad boundaries in relationships and this is why a lot of married people (men AND women) end up getting cheated on. They wait until it's too late to establish proper boundaries. When I'm spinning plates I'm communicating with lots of women. Until you have a frank and honest discussion about it, that kind of behavior isn't likely to stop. If you never have the con…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 09:22 PM
1

If you're taking this kind of sh*t two years into a relationship, how bad do you think it's going to get 10-15 years from now? You need to detox...you're not going to be able to salvage this without a ton of work and if you're let it get this far you don't have the skills to recover. At the end of the day people will treat you how you let yourself be treated. You need to work on you or you're always going to be getting stepped on.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:44 PM
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You can't solve a problem you don't have yet....you're going to have to wait it out. Tax for sticking your unprotected D in crazy. BTW, BPD girls #1 MO for keeping a guy hooked in is faking a pregnancy. Think about that............
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:36 PM
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I think that's why the first time hurts so much. It's more of a loss of innocence and a shattering of all the fairy tales you had in your head about how people were SUPPOSED to act. Well the world doesn't work like that, people lie. You'll get over it man, especially if you're bettering yourself. If you let it, it can be a positive life event.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 07:35 PM
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You have all these questions because you're hurt and your body is trying to make sense of it all. You will stop having the questions when you learn to accept what has happened and understand that you will NEVER get closure on this issue. You were betrayed, lied to, screwed over. It's going to hurt for a few weeks, maybe months. In short order you'll realize she's a bitch and you're better off that you found out before you got married and had kids. Eventually you'll realize that it was a good thi…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:45 PM
2

"That's good because I'm gay."
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:40 PM
1

That's not how the world's greatest stories are made....
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:36 PM
6

hahaha
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:34 PM
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Seems like a lot of different takes on this. I'm a firm believer that in a committed LTR you need to have boundaries. A plate can go and fuck whoever she wants, but if you're both agreeing to be exclusive then I'm not sure why either person would be cool with eating alone with opposite sex, and especially not being forthright about it. You can't act emotional about it when you argue though, you have to completely factual. My friend told me this parable and I try to apply it to my conversations w…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:31 PM
1

My personal take, and I'm not a sex expert so take this with a grain of salt. There are some girls who need a big penis. There are some girls who don't like big rods. Regardless, it doesn't matter because you can't change what you can't change. Be lucky that you're a guy in that you can be short, fat, ugly, small dicked and still pull in attractive women. Accept that you have a small wang and then control what you can control. Get good at oral, get good with your fingers, get good at fucking her…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 05:01 PM
3

Started choking her and then I told her I was gonna fuck her like I fucked my ex and started calling her my ex's name while I pounded the shit out of her. She was cumming so hard she was drooling and mumbling like a baby. Hot
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:57 PM
2

Nope, because he didn't have those up when I posted.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:27 PM
14

That's not an even trade. Sex is standard relationship fare. Whenever my girl starts offering sex for something she wants I say, "I promise if we do what I want I won't fuck one of your friends." The first time she said, "How is that the same thing? That's awful!" And I replied, "You're offering to get your way with something that you should be doing as a typical girlfriend. I'm just doing the same."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:26 PM
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A few weeks ago I sent some flowers to my GF's office that all her jealous co-workers would see. She must really be anticipating Saturday, "OMG he sent me random flowers?? Can't wait to see what he does for Valentines!!" I'm actually looking forward to the shit-test that comes this weekend when I don't do a gosh dang thing for her. No card or nothing, just a "Happy Valentine's Day."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:20 PM
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I'm making this a strike through since your edit shows some pretty normal behaviors. In the case that you really do think your fiance is like all other women, and has bad boundaries, you can take the following as advice. Questioning her because she has sex in a committed relationship and doesn't wear a burqa is not something that's going to translate well with most people here. Do you realize what you're saying? Are you on crack?? The woman you're about to tie yourself to financially, AND HAVE K…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:07 PM
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How would you decline to be involved in a conversation with a disgusting land whale when you were psyching up to do your 1-rep max bench press? "Hey that's great but I'm really busy. Tell me later." Make sure later never comes around. "I'm not sure how this affects me..........." make it awkward <Continue doing whatever you were doing and ignore it> Whatever you can pull off that is natural. A lot of it is just depending on the dynamics of the conversation. Actually breaking down and explaining …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 03:50 AM
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Also the fact that he fucked the young ones too... Advice I'm sure he learned from first hand experience.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 11:18 PM
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The case could be made that his dick single-handedly won the war for us. There's actually a good documentary on it, I'll try to find it. Basically he went to France to secure support for the war. He was a fucking party animal and they loved him. Especially the women. He used his influence with the ladies to garner support for the war effort. The end result was France offering their support to the colonies. I think there is a site with some of his love letters on it. He was a mad plate-spinner. W…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 09:37 PM
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I know plenty of guys that do nothing but sit home all day on the couch on Sunday and watch football. That's completely unproductive. I'm not poo-pooing unproductive hobbies, only when it takes up a significant chunk of your time and gets in the way of personal development. If that's not you, then I'm not talking about you. But again, we all know people in our life that use sports as an excuse to not better their lives. If all you do on the weekends is watch sports and your identity and life is …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 09:32 PM
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If you really had more important things to do you wouldn't have to take the time out of your day to announce that you're too important to be talking to her. Like those people at work that type out a 30 minute email to tell you they don't have time to do the 30 second thing you asked them to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:25 PM
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I'm probably in that camp. If it's an excuse to sit on your ass and drink beer and never do anything with your life. Having fun with the guys is one thing, claiming your identity with a sports team is weak IMO. Alphas do, they're not content to watch other people get all the glory.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:20 PM
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I think you may not realize the impact of being saddled by crazy can have on your parenting. Where do you live? I have 50/50 of my kids after the divorce (not going to lie where I live that took a lot of fighting), my life has never been better. I think when you stick around you make a subliminal comment that the bad behavior is acceptable. I know it's hard but I'd much rather see my kids every other weekend + thursdays knowing that two people shouldn't treat eachother that way then be like my r…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:15 PM
1

Reminds me of a time I was with a guy at a bar. He's pretty BP, not one for the ladies. We make up a story to get him talking to this girl. She bites and almost as soon as we get in the bar they're together chatting it up. When we left the bar a few hours later, he was still chatting her up. He gets her number and then asks us when we get home, "Should I text her now or wait?" Long story short, he texted her that day, against my advice, she replied back standard cordial stuff, nothing ever came …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:00 PM
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Sounds like you're bitter. Announcing that you don't have interest in speaking with someone, because they turned you down for a date, makes you sound butthurt and childish. Being aloof is not the same as being aggressively cocky. Try to act like you have more important things to do and she's wasting your time more than that you don't want to talk to her. The easiest way to do this is to actually get busy, having important things to do, and not really caring about her all that much.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:47 PM
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One of my all time favorite historical letters. From the country's first Pimp and Savior, Ben Franklin. Pay special attention to #5 http://www.swarthmore.edu/SocSci/bdorsey1/41docs/51-fra.html I will paraphrase in my own words: "Hey bud, I think you should really get married. Young girls need a big strong man and his rationality. Young men need a soft body and a discerning woman. It will help your career. But if you still want to fuck around and spin plates, you need to go for cougars, and here'…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:41 PM
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Did you hear about the one for the men? The first floor had women who could cook. The second floor had women who could cook and loved sex. The third floor never got visited.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:09 PM
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Oh God, please refrain from posting about divorce if you don't know what you are talking about. Community property states just mean that everything you buy is held in joint ownership. If you get divorced in any state you're going to lose half your assets acquired under marriage unless you have a really bad ass judge. Even then you're still going to lose, just less. Read this: http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/propertydistribution/f/propertydistr.htm Any property acquired in marriage is marital …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 12:47 PM
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There is nothing going against her. She's going to get half of everything they got for the last 8 years. Making $120k a year that's going to be a pretty good check. Imagine if you could get a payoff for fucking around.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 12:41 PM
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If you're worried about being confronted it means you aren't feeling righteous about it. There's no need to explain yourself, but make sure in all things you act how you feel best. When you do that you won't be concerned about what someone might do or say.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 03:20 PM
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I want to hear the update to see his face when he realizes that his prenup isn't going to protect him from all the assets he's accumulated over the last 8 years. This bitch has the life, she gets to live in wealth for 8 years, fuck whoever she wants, and then get a fat check for it.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 02:51 PM
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Girls want a wedding yes, but primarily they are looking for security. They want to be taken care of. It's genetic...
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:45 AM
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Prenups don't protect you after marriage, only the debts and assets before you marry. A woman who sucks with money will still bring you down and you'll still owe her half of everything after you say "I do".
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:17 AM
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You're going to feel like shit for a few weeks. Prepare for that. Accept it. Don't let that feeling allow you to make bad decisions. You don't want someone like that in your life. The best revenge is indifference, live your life well. At first you will do that to get back at her, eventually you will no longer care, and that's when you've won.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:21 PM
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If you put yourself in enough situations where you are forced to confront your fears, you will eventually have enough confidence to handle any situation. "I've been through worse, I know what I'm capable of under pressure." Keep it up.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:54 PM
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It's a really insecure way to live,and saying that makes it obvious. Makes you sound like a chick. And guess what, you won't get the truth that way either,because few people (women or men) have the self-actualization to be honest about their own emotions, or they will flat out lie to get what they want. This is why it's better to look at actions and not words.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:51 AM
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More so that they didn't point their phone a foot to the left during the main action.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/15 11:07 AM
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Yeah, like a no look pass. That's a decent game highlight. A one handed dunk from under the basket, good play. Best highlight of the season?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 03:55 PM
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Here are, the 10 BEST plays of the entire season.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B373-l_XuwQ
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 10:38 PM
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Exactly...she was DTF. So go fuck her. Anything other than fucking her is a bitch move.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 06:38 PM
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In this case, what she wants is exactly what I want to give to her... And unless you're gay you do too.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 03:09 PM
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Worst cameraman, ever
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/15 02:52 PM
1

Awful advice, a girl tells you she wants to get her brains screwed out and you call her a tease and ignore her?
/r/askTRP04/01/15 02:43 PM
1

Dude she literally told you, explicitly, that NOTHING IS TOO NAUGHTY FOR HER. You should be saying and doing the nastiest shit you can think of, she WANTS that.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 02:42 PM
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What if they had bareback anal during a one night stand?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 12:02 PM
1

Where are you getting $1000? I thought it was much cheaper than that. The inventor said it could be done for a few dollars... I'm trying to get in the trials, I've been watching this for several years hoping it gets out in the US
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:35 PM
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cc= cock carousel She's "experienced"...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:38 PM
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Irony: getting a divorce instead of working out because she is lazy. Post-divorce, she'll want to attract another man so she'll start working out and looking better.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:11 AM
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I'm going to side with /u/dorrog , putting yourself first is not being DT. Putting yourself first by manipulating other people or by not caring if you totally fuck someone else over is being DT. Being selfish is not the same as being psychopathic or narcissistic.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:22 PM
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Someone just made /r/pussypassprevented a few days ago, might want to try that. He's actively moderating it and basically just taking the real ppd videos on it so you don't have to sift through the BS.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/14 02:02 PM
1

Forced and threatened by who?
/r/askTRP26/11/14 05:13 AM
2

He could have put out his own media reply without having to be shoe-horned into the kind of interview CNN wanted. Bad idea.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 01:23 PM
2

I don't know if you can do a textbook definition of healthy vs non-healthy hobbies, but I think we all know which ones are which. Painting, carpentry, working on cars, martial arts, writing, hiking, hunting. These are things that add to our life beyond the hobby. Video games, watching TV, movies. These are things which are relaxing, but they add no value to your life outside of the original gratification. They are also time sinks. A hobby is something you can do with your free time that won't ma…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:19 PM
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Thanks for this post, great stuff. I'm going to start doing this.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:09 PM
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No I don't think she'll hit you back up. Because you're an asshole. And not the good kind of asshole, just the garden variety version. There is nothing even closely resembling frame in your posts. Your feelings got hurt so you started namecalling, like a little bitch.
/r/trpGAME21/11/14 01:06 PM
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I'm simply saying that it's the nature of all of the animals that the strongest get the rewards, and as soon as you show a sign of weakness, don't expect to get any slack from biology. We live in a civilized society but thousands/millions of years of survival are hardwired into our impulses. You can complain about it as much as you want but it won't change what is.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:24 PM
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This board is always talking about Alphas, Betas, Gammas, etc etc. In nature, the king of the jungle gets tested his entire life. As soon as he can't stay on top he gets kicked out of the pride and another guy screws all of his chicks and eats his babies. In the wolf pack, the Alpha gets tested his entire life, as soon as he loses his edge he loses his woman and has to go find another lady somewhere else and start all over from scratch. We're all animals...
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:10 PM
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Would help if people also put in more descriptive titles in the post. IE "Man slaps woman on subway after she grabs him" is a lot easier to see than "Guy makes bitch pay for being a douche"
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/14 02:57 PM
1

I think my approach would work faster and require much less effort and discipline. And that's why you'll fail. You can't short circuit self-improvement.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 07:04 PM
2

They're both bad analogies. Reason is that doing the things that BBs do to change into being an AF are the same things that a complete social reject should do to become an AF. To improve your SMV and start being successful with women, you do not need to know how to be a white knight, or a provider, or a doormate, or anything else. You need to learn confidence, social skills, how to be interesting, how to flirt, you need to improve your looks as best as possible. Look at the successful guys who w…
/r/askTRP17/11/14 06:05 PM
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Ballroom is more sophisticated. You will meet older and more sophisticated people, but your practical application outside of a studio dance party will be limited to conversation only (not a negative from your post). Basically any time I want to have an interesting conversation I let it slip that I like to ballroom dance, it's very intriguing for people. With salsa you will get a lot more younger people and guys that want to hook up. Your practical application will increase heavily though as ther…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 09:36 PM
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Latin/salsa works too.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 09:18 PM
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Yep and that's going to happen over and over again, so you might as well get used to it. Bars and clubs are places for natural extroverts and for someone with your levels of experience would probably be a bad starting place. You're going from 0 to 60. I suggest casual meetups where social dynamics are not the focus but a byproduct. Try going to meetup.com and selecting some activities that appear interesting that you would never normally do. Hiking, game nights, night on the town type stuff. Tha…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 06:35 PM
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And you will find that when you get out of your house and become an interesting person. If all you play is computer games and read books, that's all you'll have to talk about. Why don't you try doing something exciting and adventurous and then telling people about it? That way, you get the benefits of doing something fun, expanding your frame of reference, at the same time you're improving your social skills. You're also going to be in a no pressure situation if you're at an activity where talki…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:10 PM
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Women care much less about looks. If you're the man you're the man. Own it...
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:06 PM
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I'm a big guy. If someone was to say to me, "You're small." I would look at them, smile, and then finish eating my burrito. Then there's a skinny guy who's maybe 5'10 standing next to me, he's been working for a year to put on weight at the gym. Someone says, "You're small" to him. He loses his shit because he's been working his ass off and just now starting to feel like he's not "small" anymore. I am absolutely confident in my size, someone contradicting that is like an amusement to me, it woul…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:04 PM
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I read that book back in my BP days. When I became a parent is when I saw the validity in it. You really do have preferences in how you feel and communicate love. For example, my son and myself are exactly the same. We both like physical touch and words of affirmation. We tell each other we love each other all the time, he is always telling me he loves me and runs to hug and cuddle me. I could tell my daughter I love her every day and give her hugs and kisses, but if I didn't spend time with her…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 04:54 PM
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I'll give you my feedback as someone who was a virgin until marriage. If you're righteous about it can be Alpha as fuck. I used to take a lot of shit from my college buddies. One time they tried to use it to make fun of me at a bar, I was proud of it and wore it like a badge of honor because it was a choice I made and not because I didn't have options. By the end of the night the women were swarming me, had a couple girls explicitly tell me they wanted to take my virginity. The public humiliatio…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 04:00 PM
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Maybe you should focus on some hobbies that push your comfort zone, ie getting out of your house and talking to people. Have you ever tried ballroom dancing? You need to pick something that challenges you and forces you to talk to people. You can't learn to socialize by only reading books.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 03:39 PM
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As a 6, you could get 8s or 9s, see the hot crazy matrix. However, if you want to consistently get 8s and 9s, you need to become one yourself. Don't confuse looks or your job title with the only thing that determine status. Your SMV is an entire package consisting of your looks, your financial situation, your sense of fashion, your social status, your communication skills, your confidence, your charm, your intelligence, your power and influence, and your seduction abilities. You can overcome def…
/r/askTRP14/11/14 03:18 PM
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To further what other people have said, the friday/saturday night should be reserved because it's a high priority slot and has a lot of social value. You want your best woman in that slot. Telling a woman you just met that you want to go out with her on a friday or saturday night is like announcing that you have no social life. It's also dangerous if you aren't sure you are getting laid you are giving up your prime spot to someone you can't trust yet. What if she flakes on you? Or it doesn't wor…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 08:17 PM
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It sounds like you're being coy about not being on the same page. As a man it helps if you're just direct. "I'm not comfortable having sex yet, it makes me uncomfortable when you keep bringing it up." Your date sounds a bit much, like he's being way too overt about it, but I do respect the fact that he's at least being open and honest about it. That being said, the only way to make sure that a guy isn't with you for your vagina, is to make sure you don't give it to him. Understand that this may …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 07:35 PM
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Are you wanting an ass whooping because you won't delete the pictures or because you keep looking at them and getting sad? I won't whoop your ass for #1. If it's #2, I'll just tell you that you're going to be sad for a while no matter what you do. Go have some fun, do some man stuff. Nothing will make you feel better than improving yourself. After my divorce I picked up a few new hobbies and they really changed my life. Like 6 weeks after the split I was having so much fun I was thankful for the…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 07:30 PM
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You've gotten sound advice and it sounds like you already know the right thing to do. So all I will say is, it sounds like a chick that is adamant she wants a two week break but wants to get back together after it is after some side D but doesn't want to cut you off totally in case it doesn't work out. You are acting scared like this woman is your soul mate and if it doesn't work out you're going to curl up in a little ball and cry yourself to death. You have a connection with her, but she's not…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 07:24 PM
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Beautiful scene from Swingers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tu-QjTNtDz8 Mike: Okay, so what if I don't want to give up on her? Rob: You don't call. Mike: But you said I don't call if I wanted to give up on her. Rob: Right. Mike: So I don't call either way? Rob: Right. Mike: So what's the difference? Rob: There is no difference right now. See, Mike, the only difference between giving up and not giving up is if you take her back when she wants to come back. But you can't do anything to make her…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 07:21 PM
1

Judges still have leeway in awarding the marital estate. I would like to think that attempted murder would be one of those times that it would be exercised.
/r/PussyPass13/11/14 01:21 PM
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"brother, sister" kinda thing A brother she fucks? Was never a huge fan of the idea but didn't want to seem paranoid, insecure, so I never forbid it You caved because you didn't want to be "one of those guys." Now you're paying the price. You're really coming off like a doormat here. First, never believe anything a woman says, listen to their actions. She fucked the guy, that means she likes him and is attracted to him (girls don't fuck guys they aren't attracted to right?). You allowed her to k…
/r/askTRP12/11/14 08:01 PM
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Love it man, good shit.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 04:54 PM
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There are worse places to get divorced than America??
/r/PussyPass12/11/14 04:29 PM
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Are you feeling guilty about what you're doing? Are you afraid of the repercussions? Are you doing something wrong? If not, then why do you care if she knows you're on Tinder? Be righteous about what you're doing, be righteous about everything that you do. Or, propose to her and tell her you only want to be with her for the rest of her life.
/r/trpGAME12/11/14 04:26 PM
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That is a great example of the rationalization hamster. I'm sure during that night she thought he was charming and funny and <insert whatever tickles her fancy>. The next day she regretted it, couldn't accept the fact that she made a bad decision, so it became his problem. The charming, confident, funny guy suddenly became a "loser". It was his fault, not hers. I've never met a woman that would sleep with a guy she found to be a loser, unless it was for money.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 04:17 PM
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Financial advice from JP Whoregan, love it LOL. You're philosophy is sound but the application is off. On the spectrum we move every day from free market capitalism to crony capitalism. Wages are stagnant but wealth is not. All of the regulations are essentially forcing middle-class business owners to sell their business to large corporations. Example: In the trucking industry you used to be able to get financing for a truck over the weekend and start driving on monday. Today, with all the restr…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:32 AM
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The problem with shared parenting agreements is at any time the woman can go back to court for custody and it will be as if it never existed. These things only work when both parties are in agreement. You absolutely can not pre-empt the legal process for child custody and child support. Many have tried, and all have been disappointed. The only way out of it is if you have one of these agreements and the mother is not intelligent enough to know they are toilet paper in the court's eyes.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:20 AM
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Yes it's a massive shit test. You fail if you do anything but next her and never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 01:33 AM
1

There's different kinds of abuse. Withholding love and affection is a form of abuse. Your son's outlook on life has been altered to the point where he thinks he's alone and doesn't want to be a burden. To the point that he'd rather be homeless than accept help from family. That's not normal.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 10:02 PM
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Pretty shitty. That's definitely not a healthy response for a kid to have. Have you thought about taking him to counseling? Let a professional decide if he's OK. Personally it sounds abusive to me but I know different people have different thoughts on this kind of upbringing.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 09:37 PM
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I don't use Tinder, but you spent an inordinate amount of time chatting up one specific female who you've never met. It sounds like very friendly banter. While you MIGHT get success with it, you're going to waste a lot of time and energy validating girls that don't pan out. You're also increasing the likelihood that you dry up a vagina. You're basically broadcasting that you have a lot of free time and energy and that you like to spend it making women feel good.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:02 PM
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Well, short of divorcing her and fighting to spend half your time with him, or having a come to Jesus meeting with her and getting her to change his ways, it doesn't sound like there's a lot you can do. Just be there for him, and parent the best way you know how. You'll always have opportunities to show your love and support. Remember that kids learn more from your examples then speeches. Have you had opportunities to model to him showing love and support to other family members or friends when …
/r/askTRP10/11/14 08:59 PM
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Great example of how not to use Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:34 PM
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Sounds like a lot of energy to put into someone you don't know at all.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:30 PM
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One of my favorites: "Flex." <feel her guns> "No seriously, flex."
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:29 PM
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OK, well when you're with him, you tell him he can always rely on you. And that no matter what happens you'll always do your best to be there for him, because that's what family does. If he tells you it's a contradiction to what mom says, you tell him you don't care what his mom says, you'll always be there. If your wife tries to give you shit over it, grab your cajones and stand for what you believe in. Your relationship with your son is what you make of it.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 08:17 PM
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The fact that you're falling for her after one date is enough to know you're not acting rationally. Also, you're 21, you have no idea what you want. Do you remember that first year after you came back to your home town from college and met some of your friends from high school? Remember how dumb and immature they sounded and acted? That's how you'll think of yourself at 21 in like 2 or 3 years. No reason to make long term decisions at this stage in your life. Have fun, do what you want.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 08:12 PM
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I read through the stream, I think you did well just by pointing out the irrationality and hypocrisy. I think everyone knows that no one is going to change their mind from a Reddit conversation. Those that are open-minded will form their own conclusions based on facts. To be fair to them, there is a lot of misogyny and hatred on TRP. Some of it is in jest, some of it is manifested from hurtful past experiences, and some of it is justified criticisms of women in our society today. You'd have to b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/14 04:30 PM
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OMG that was so hot and sexy. See? Consent can be a turn on!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:08 AM
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I think you already know the answer, but honestly you should go pay a few hondo for a lawyer consultation. If you've been living with her for that many years you're jeopardizing your wealth and could end up giving her community assetts (ie your house and savings). Also, never move out of your house when you split with the mother of her kids. Unless you want to pay her to live in it and only see your kids every other weekend. Get a lawyer consultation and take his advice. Don't fuck around with y…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 01:03 PM
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You're too invested, you need to get your heart tore out of your ass first, I say stick it out with her. If she will ride the CC after you break up, she'll do it while you're together when she's tired of your boring beta games. If you don't like her, and you had options, you wouldn't care what she does. Her screwing a bunch of guys is painful to you because you have no value in yourself, it would be a hit to YOUR esteem. What are you doing to improve your value?
/r/askTRP06/11/14 07:19 PM
1

Why did you wait to close? You had your opportunity and the emotions were ripe for you to seal the deal. Carpe diem buddy.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 01:48 PM
1

I like the approach of not paying and if she looks offended add something like, "I'm seeing someone else and I know you have a boyfriend so this can't be a real date." If a girl wants to be single she'll get really pissed if she feels tied down to one guy. "He's NOT my boyfriend, we went out on one date!"
/r/askTRP05/11/14 10:17 PM
1

You can't be a bitchboy if you don't want to be a bitchboy. You know you're a bitchboy when you're doing what she wants and not what you want. If you feel that's what you're in, you simply hit the next button and walk away. The friendzone isn't a death trap, it's a room you can voluntarily leave at any point. In this case, she obviously isn't in to you. Find someone else. This will have two effects. First, not pursuing her is in fact, the only way you're going to build interest if she has alread…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 01:08 PM
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You don't have to look hard to see countless examples of ugly ass guys who get hot chicks by the dozens. Women are attracted to things like power and prestige and charisma and confidence. Looks are a part of the overall package but if they were that big of a deal then Gene Simmons and Patton Oswalt wouldn't be pulling 10x the amount of ass as the most successful PUAs. You can't control your face, but you can control your body, your fashion, your confidence, your influence, your attitude, your pe…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:58 PM
1

Yet you are exclusive with her, see her every day, call her YOUR girl, and get jealous when she interacts with others....
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:25 PM
2

always check urban dictionary for TRP terms, it's on there.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:39 AM
1

Was wondering if you used the full face stuff that protects your nose. I have the style with a more open face and no jaw padding so my jawline and mouth are mostly exposed.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 04:18 PM
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Really? Maybe it's because you know what you're doing? My nose is always swollen and I regularly get swollen/split lips. The shiners aren't so much from MT with gloves as they are from takedowns / accidental contact. I get them in BJJ on occasion too, not nearly as much when sparring though. What kind of headgear are you using?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 03:29 PM
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Quality women are made, not found. Brad Pitt would make a housewife out of a $2 hooker. He's not going to put up with her shit and she's going to be so excited to be around him that she'll do what she had to to stay in his good graces. That's why I'm learning it's more important to find women that are compatible with your ideals than "the perfect woman." I'd rather be with an abused whore who likes the thought of me being King of the Castle vs a conservative woman who thinks that she needs to be…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 03:25 PM
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You will always be at a disadvantage when you start training, there's always going to be some kid who started when they were 2. But starting today is always better than starting tomorrow. I wouldn't expect to be kicking ass any time soon. The best part of real martial arts training is the ego check you get. You suck, you will suck for several months, you will be reminded of this almost the entire time for about 6-12 months. At any point you forget that you suck, you will be promptly reminded by …
/r/askTRP04/11/14 03:15 PM
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I don't think anyone advocates that a person does not have the ability to change, only that most people don't. In general, a person that acts consistently in one manner, will continue to do so. Or at the least, revert to their natural state when under stress. Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. I do not think that changes for a beta man, a slut, a drug addict, a cheater, etc etc. Some people do change, this is a fact. But you don't know who is who until they've given you ampl…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 03:03 PM
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Digging your posts lately. Another red flag, "I don't like drama." Never met a girl that didn't love drama. And I certainly never met one that said that and wasn't a raging drama queen. Me thinks she doth protest too much. I've been really focused on my reaction to sexuality lately. Friday I went out to lunch at a pub and there was this really sexually amped up server. She was maybe a 6 in the face but she wore really short shorts and a midriff shirt that showed off her six pack. She was extreme…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:53 PM
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I think in this case it's worse than that, they checked and actively ignored the results. Now they're "shocked" about it, like they didn't know before.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:39 PM
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I was originally agreeing with your point, but then I looked at the article and the truth is, this isn't a sexual equality issue. Men and women are equally fucked in developing nations. Maybe in different ways, but it's not like the men at the factory are making 20% higher wages. While one could argue that doing aid work there would be much more helpful for the women, it doesn't really advance the cause of sexual equality. Though I do think it's a valid argument that if they wanted to help women…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:38 PM
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What is it exactly that bothers you about it? I used to be nervous about whipping my D out and pissing. College Rugby cleared me of that, now I'll piss in front of anyone. Is this a psychological disorder or is this a confidence thing that you could overcome? At the worst, can't you just go into a stall?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 02:31 PM
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See my post below for some background info. The answer to your question is really what you are trying to get out of it. The problem with training MMA is that there are only two levels: Guys who are training to fight for real, and soccer moms who want to punch bags to keep from getting fat. There is no middle ground. If you want to take a real fight, you should not mess with anything but an actual fighting gym. If you live in a reasonably sized city there should be at least one option. The downsi…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 12:29 PM
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That hasn't been the case for several years. MMA is essentially its own martial art now, where MMA gyms train all arts that are effective in the cage. Essentially it is a combination of BJJ, Wrestling, MT Kickboxing and some elements of western boxing and Karate. Older guys and some newbies get started with a background in a more traditional art and transition to the whole package, but most of the new crop coming up has trained exclusively in MMA gyms their entire life so they are very well roun…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 12:15 PM
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Considering that she doesn't sound interested, this would definitely create interest. "WE'RE supposed to be on a date! Why are you ignoring me??"
/r/askTRP04/11/14 10:40 AM
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What specifically do you like about this specific guy, that especially you can not get from someone else? Considering that he feels guilty about being friends with you and views it as something immoral (his words not mine). That's pretty telling in itself. I've said this to girls before, it was basically self-admission that I was using them.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 09:28 PM
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You can only feel "right" when with someone who uses you, that's an issue. A normal, healthy person would run from this situation, you are clinging to it. Why is that?
/r/askTRP03/11/14 05:31 PM
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Are you looking for an exclusive committed relationship? If so, work towards that (of which talking with ex's is probably a bad idea). If you want to continue to play the field, then you shouldn't really care.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:36 PM
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So if you're an uneducated idiot you can't swallow the pill? I like learning as much as the next guy but this appears to be a self-improvement post for things that you enjoy. Some of us are intellectuals, some of us are athletes, some of us are ex-cons....Not sure what calculus has to do with it. If someone is serious about learning and getting educated, there are better places to go on Reddit. Similar to how the page isn't filled with workout ideas, even though everyone tells people to lift wei…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 04:26 PM
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I and one of my friends were both virgins longer than what was considered normal. I waited till marriage, my friend waited till he was 30. My friend was a ladies man and always had women coming on to him, he refrained only for religious reasons. We both said exactly the same thing after we lost it, we didn't understand why we waited so long and it wasn't really that big of a deal. That being said, I don't judge anyone for doing what they want to do, that is the essence of TRP to me. If you don't…
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:17 PM
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No, because guys are only friends with women they want to screw. He's keeping you as a back up bang. You're getting strung along...
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:10 PM
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You and him can't be "just friends." He's definitely not TRP-material, mainly because he apologized for being your friend, and then continued to do it anyway. You're emotionally connected with someone who is toxic to you. You're pulling the bandaid off slowly and then putting it back on only to have to start over. Just let him go and move on.... Figure out why you don't respect yourself enough to be in a real relationship with someone who wants to be with you.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 04:08 PM
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Edit: rephrased my comment to help you the struggling newbie. Before you do anything, you need to figure out who you are and what you want out of life and women. You are a woman with a penis at this point, floating wherever the wind takes you, waiting for life to pigeonhole you into a decision. You will never land a girl or be successful in life if you don't know what you believe and take a stand for it. I highly suggest you get involved with some confidence building activities and do some soul …
/r/askTRP03/11/14 03:56 PM
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This can't be the US. You are in student housing with a female, and your landlord is getting involved in the dispute? You also have no ability to pick your roommates? Please describe your living situation. And protect yourself, because she's already displayed signs that she'll use her Pussy Pass to get you in trouble.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 03:52 PM
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You need to really figure out what you want first. You also need to visit dadsdivorce.com and read up on "the list." You said below you don't want to confront and have it blow up in your face, that's only going to happen if you aren't prepared. First off, you can't be an involved father if you don't live in a place where you can have regular interaction with your kid. So decide now if you want to be a father or if you want to get out of this with as little investment as possible. You made major …
/r/askTRP03/11/14 03:39 PM
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Good work. What is his typical reaction when you give him a list of things to do?
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 03:34 PM
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Why'd they shut the video off at the best part? I wanted to see how she was going to spin it to show she was the victim....
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/14 01:12 PM
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That takes some nerve and balls to outright lie, then when you get caught in it pretend like you just didn't do that.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/14 01:03 PM
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Great read and I enjoyed the structure penned down from your earlier posts. I'd love to see an article on how to identify people that have this disposition. I'm sure many people I work with suffer from this, but how would I know?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:58 PM
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Psychopathy is not common in females. Because men are logical creatures, our disorders affect the mind (psychopathy being 100% rationality and logic). Women are emotional, their disorders affect the emotions. BPD and histrionic is the female equivalent of male psychopathy. Basically, an inability to regulate emotions. As someone who's ex suffers from BPD and Histrionic PD, I can tell you it can be much better to have them break up with you than the other way around. That being said, if you're sw…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:44 PM
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To be fair, the 22 year old virgin didn't do anything to get laid either, except play WoW. There's a relationship partner out there for everyone. Someone's got to date the 2s and 3s....
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:36 PM
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I think you should do this for all the BPs out there and just fucking ignore her. Maybe neg her a little. "Sorry you just aren't girlfriend material. I need someone with more substance, less of a whore." Either that or make her do ass to mouth ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:21 PM
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I'll agree with that.
/r/PussyPass02/11/14 08:08 PM
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I don't know, 6 years for inciting a riot? Seems more like /r/pussypassdenied material to me.... I'm surprised she didn't get off all together.
/r/PussyPass02/11/14 05:40 PM
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Could not disagree more. Catcalling is a way to avoid rejection without the appearance of being a vagina. It's aggressive passive aggression. It takes no balls and it doesn't work as a way to pick up women.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:58 PM
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I'm not someone who implies worth by a high number, but at the least, it is an objective measure of a man's abilities. As was mentioned, for a guy to get laid, he has to have some level of game (power, communication, wealth, charm, humor, etc). It is very similar to the way that money conveys power to others. Money is just pieces of paper or a number in an account, but if you have a lot of it, others can infer that you are intelligent, hard working, know how to lead others, etc etc. Now there ar…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:45 PM
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I'm having BP flashbacks....He needs to stay with her, just so that she can really fuck him over good to the point that he finds TRP. If he leaves now he'll think she's one girl that made a one time bad mistake and not that you should look at actions not words.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:38 PM
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They aren't shaming you, they are shit-testing you. Trying to get you to change to fit their best interest. Shaming is like calling you out: "You fat bastard why can't you do anything right??" If that's happening, you're doing something wrong. You're doing good man, keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:23 PM
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Also factor in that she diluted 10 hours of footage into a few minutes. 10 hours is a long fucking time to walk around a city, if you averaged it out that's like a "cat call" every 15 minutes. And some of her footage was shit like , "Have a nice day!" and "You're beautiful." Oh the horror....
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 02:18 PM
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Haha this was great, never saw anyone quote their own post in their story. Good work.....faggot PS The Red Pill subreddit is loaded with priceless information about the nature of women. None of it is my contribution. Now you're a lying faggot.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:48 PM
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She's lucky she only got maced and didn't get knocked out.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/10/14 12:09 AM
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"It's what's on the inside that counts!" Unless you are a scrawny, pimple-faced guy. Ewww!!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:44 PM
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LOL I love how I can read a story on Reddit and just know I'll get the TRP digest on it later. I read the whole post and first few responses shaking my head.... "I should be entitled to the things that other women are entitled to purely on the basis of their looks, purely based on my looks." Sometimes I wish I was gay.......
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:41 PM
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Yes this is called abundance mentality. You loosen up around the fat uglies because you have outcome independence. Your not concerned with how getting them to like you because you aren't interested in having sex with them. This is exactly how you should act in front of all women. The easiest way to do this is to cultivate abundance mentality. As others have said, when you've got 3 or 4 on the line that you can fuck at any time, you're not really going to care if the hot one isn't interested.
/r/trpGAME23/10/14 08:23 PM
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One of the false legends. http://www.snopes.com/language/acronyms/fuck.asp There was the concept of "Droit du seigneur" or as Braveheart coined, "Prima Nocta/Noctis" but historians are pretty sure this was in fiction only and that no one ever actually used it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:17 PM
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Please stop talking about things of which you are clearly ignorant of. Technique is a million times more important than strength. Remember when lanky ass Royce Gracie tapped out Ken Shamrock? Train one time at an MMA gym, partner with the smallest weakest kid there, and then tell me your deadlift matters. Strength and size play a part when you are maxing out your technique, not when you have no idea how to fight. I'd say you have to train minimum 6 months to a year before you would have effectiv…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:50 PM
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Still shitty advice. Because the first thing you learn when learning to fight is that you have no idea who else trains or who could literally kill you, until you either see them train or fight with them. Especially scary now that UFC is a fad. My gym is filled with a range of bodybuilders, bros, and middle aged unassuming IT guys that could kill you in a few seconds. Second, if your goal is to get good at fighting, you would do better to train fighting for a few weeks to get real experience over…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:44 PM
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All three. The court system doesn't care about you, they want your money. I know guys who make $80K a year who have $1200 a month to live on after alimony and child support.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:23 PM
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You MUST go to dadsdivorce.com These are the experts of custody and divorce. What TRP is to relationships, they are to mens divorce. As someone who has spent a significant amount of time dealing with this, and reading others' stories, I can tell you that there is rarely a "winning" when you have a penis in family court. What you must do is fight very hard to not get screwed over. A winning scenario will not look like you keeping all of your stuff, it will look like you getting half the assetts a…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:19 PM
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Any art that doesn't practice full contact sparring is pointless. This has been confirmed in the last 20 years thanks to MMA.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 11:58 AM
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As someone who trains in fighting this is flat out wrong. I'm one of the biggest and strongest guys in my gym and for 6 months I got my ass beat by just about anyone and everyone. You may have an easier time with a weight and strength advantage but if you don't know how to fight and someone else does, you are going to get your ass kicked. And if you don't believe me, spend a few years powerlifting then go to an MMA or BJJ or Boxing gym and do some live sparring, let me know how that works out fo…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 11:55 AM
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I've had good luck when I go out meeting women who had drive and passion for their activities. Most of them when dancing or doing martial arts. I think the TRP paradigm is going to see it as women are boring but truthfully there are just as many women that go out to do fun things that find it difficult to find men that aren't boring. And for every woman with no drive or interests of their own that just do whatever their boyfriend likes, there's a boring guy who would sit at home all day and play…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:45 AM
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I wish I had gold to give for this.... Excellent analogy
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:45 AM
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It's not always the best plan, but I guarantee it's better to leave than stay in a situation where you are overly emotional.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:06 PM
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"Yes I'm seeing other people." End of story. If you aren't comfortable saying that without shame, you are not ready for a relationship. There is nothing to be ashamed of if you haven't committed to exclusivity. Be comfortable with your situation and you will act appropriately when it comes up. Similarly, don't brag, boast, or use it too invoke jealousy.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:04 PM
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You like her too much, so you are overly concerned with what happens. This is why you spin plates, so that when one stops spinning you focus on another. You will also care less about what she does because she will be one of many. Holding dinner with both hands is not spinning plates.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:58 PM
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I'm at the point now where I'm just starting to get comfortable with the shit tests. Had some bad ones this weekend and I seriously was just amused and light hearted about it. Just kind of brushed them off or agreed and amplified like a champ. As she started to back down when she realized that she wasn't getting the response she wanted and her emotions calmed down a bit, we ended up having some amazing sex all weekend and she was gaga over me. Instead of placating I just teased her about it late…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:54 PM
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To be fair, most guys are boring as shit too.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 07:35 PM
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Oh shit......https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=VLnWf1sQkjY
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 05:42 PM
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I'll be in the ironic t-shirt and jorts. You're paying for my cab too right?
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 05:20 PM
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What I lack in girth I make up for by having bad rhythm and going too quickly...
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 05:10 PM
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What do you think I should do now, keep complimenting her to let her know I'm attracted to her? Yes! Tell her how beautiful she is and how you think she's the most special girl in the world. Buy her flowers. Call her all the time. Make big plans for the weekend and when she calls you to talk about her dates cancel your plans so you can console her. Do this for a few years until you know everything about her and you know that you love her! Then tell her about it.... She'll probably want to f*ck y…
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 12:06 PM
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Could I thank you with my dick?
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 11:57 AM
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"I don't usually talk to girls with less than 3 breasts...but here we are, breaking all the rules"
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 11:55 AM
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My $.02, I like the reply and I think it's money as long as you haven't been validating her the entire time, which judging on your comments, you might have been. <insert your name here> that's great stuff... But freaking out because she hasn't replied in 30 minutes? First off, why the heck are you texting her so much, close a date not a text. Second, are you so desparate that if one girl off text doesn't respond to you you're going to be crushed? Stop putting all your eggs in one basket, there's…
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 11:54 AM
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Those who can't seem to decide what movies, bands, food, hobbies they like, well you catch my drift. If you fire off questions like these you're going to get dull responses. These are closed ended questions that stifle the flow of conversation. Unless you're interviewing a job candidate you shouldn't really be talking to people like this. Instead, make interesting observations about something. Talk about an experience, ask about an experience, ask her opinion about something. Your goal in conver…
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 11:48 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Fascinating stuff to read for someone who can not relate to you at all. Questions: would you choose this for yourself if you had the choice or would you choose to be "normal?" Second, why do you choose to act "good" if you don't care about how people feel? What's the driving force behind that? Last, how would I be able to identify someone like you in my day to day life? Can you identify others like you easily?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:46 AM
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http://illimitablemen.com/power/ Some good info there about it. Basically the combination of Psychopathy, Narcissism, and Machiavellianism. Some TRPers believe that embracing the positive aspects of those personality disorders can help in leading a successful life. Example, not caring what people think helps you stay calm and act cool in front of women. Acting strategically can help you in business.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 02:17 AM
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I think as in with most PDs everything's a spectrum. We all display tendencies, some more strongly than others. Not every one with a diagnosis is extremely clinical like the chick in the article. Like Autism, some people with autism are pretty normal and you'd struggle to notice a difference, yet some can't even function in society, yet we all get socially awkward at times. As someone who's on that spectrum, how do you feel about people glorifying the lack of empathy?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:39 AM
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Yes and give lots of examples. Basically it would be a guide for the clueless on how to determine if someone fits the bill for DT. Kind of like the book Emotional Vampires but focusing more on the DT areas and less on Antisocial, NPD, and Borderline disorders. Almost everyone is dealing with a psychopath or narcissist on a regular basis, we just don't always recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:34 AM
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OK yeah I read that off the sidebar a while ago. BTW I took the tests and scored pretty low, 20/6/14 percentile LOL. Definitely not DT-worthy. DT isn't really my style but I read about it for two reasons. One is to attempt to not give a f*ck as often. The other is to better recognize social predators. I used to take everything at face value and after getting dicked over by my Cluster B ex-wife, I'm a lot more in tune with predators. I think all in all though I'm pretty bad at detecting psychos. …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:09 PM
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That's a pretty bad-ass post. What is your background?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:00 PM
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My take on it is that psychopathy may work well for personal advancement, it's hard to argue against that. However, just advancing is in itself not a superior goal. To me the best part about life is enjoying it with others. If you have no empathy you're never connecting to people on anything more than a superficial level. Viewing people as tools is a sad way to live life IMO. This is the logical conclusion of that train of thought.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:28 PM
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It can be a valid tactic for picking up women. And in general caring less about what people think is not always bad advice, especially for guys who are coming off codependency (read: doormats). But this article shows what happens when you take that to its logical conclusion. There's a time and place to shut down this part of your brain, it's not all day every day.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 12:38 PM
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If "equal pay for equal labor" was a real problem, then a greedy businessman would hire an all female workforce at a 25% labor cost reduction and kill the competition. It's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. "Well Jane we were going to hire you at $15 an hour but since you're a woman we're only going to give you $12.50"
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 02:46 AM
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That's because delegating effectively is a key to success once you get beyond grunt work. A bit like how rich people have their money work for them. The sign of a good manager is that they don't need to be there.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 02:43 AM
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Well in your current strategy you're going to see two outcomes: You're going to turn off any sane woman - reinforcing the time sink You're going to attract crazy whores. If you're looking for #1, you're going about it wrong and wasting your time. If you're going for #2, you'd probably be better off on Craigslist or Adult Friend Finder. You get out of things what you put in.
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 07:21 PM
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How was the pass denied? She got to hit 3 guys and nothing happened to her.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/14 05:46 PM
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"I don't have a clue why this red haired gentleman is so upset." hahahaha
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/14 05:32 PM
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PPD? Looks like she got away with it...
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/14 05:21 PM
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OK so it's clear, if you are batshit insane you don't get the pussy pass....
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/14 05:19 PM
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Girls are like Sales. If you're going to go out and sell, you have to expect rejection. You can't go out as a salesmen and expect to make a sale every time. But a good salesmen knows it's part of the game and stops taking it personally. He may not like being rejected but he understands that it's normal and it doesn't affect him in the same way it might a new guy. That's how you need to be with girls. You haven't been rejected or flaked on enough. You haven't been successful enough either, so you…
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:22 PM
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You seductive little Beta Bitch!
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:14 PM
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You don't have to be awkward about it. it appears that you have some level of rapport. Just play it cool. "3 weeks abroad? That sounds interesting, tell me all about it when you get back. Let's do drinks on the 17th, <place> at <time>." (and I'd schedule that date for like the week after she gets back, since she'll probably be busy at home. And then I'd do your best to forget about her and find other dates since you know hardly anything about her and have never met her in person.
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:12 PM
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LOL don't stop talking to the girl you chatted with from the internet a few times, because you could end up in an awesome relationship!! Or she could be a complete psycho who's dog-ugly and he's just wasting his time...... The internet is like a box of chocolates! Do you expect a delicious piece of normal-tasting milk-chocolate from every piece?
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:09 PM
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It's the start of it. Because if she was just another girl he wouldn't really be caring if he didn't see her for 3 weeks. But to be fair, almost every question about "How should I react in this specific situation with this specific girl?" is the start of oneitis. The difference between an abstract "Here's a situation, how do I react better in these types of environments?" And a specific, "I really don't want to fuck it up with this specific girl <because she's the cat's meow and if she rejects m…
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:07 PM
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If you're asking her where she's from and what she does and what the weather is like, you're doing it wrong. It's awkward because your conversation is boring. The best way to keep conversation interesting is to BE interesting. When I was spinning plates I would just ask them if they had ever tried <insert some crazy ass thing I had just done>. Ask them what the most interesting thing they've ever done was. "Hey I just moved to the city, what's your favorite place to go/thing to see/etc." Make th…
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 04:00 PM
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Where do you go from here? Hopefully into your own fucking place... Hooking up at your mom's house is cool while you are in 8th grade, tolerable in HS. After that.....notsomuch
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 03:54 PM
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Reading your OP and comments you just come off as desperate. It's not flirtation or seductive. In the OP you reeked of desperation "Go out with me? Please go out with me? Please do this so we can go out?" In your other responses you're just hopping from a greeting to trying to hook up in a few lines. That's fine if you just want your dick wet and you don't want to waste time with pleasantries but unless you look like David Beckham you're only going to get with the dirtiest of whores this way. Se…
/r/trpGAME06/10/14 03:47 PM
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I've seen this video before, as a Christian I find it awful. There is almost a shaming that goes on in churches today, and I believe that it fully contributes to the rash of Beta doormats in society. The message is, "Don't be selfish." Which is a biblical message, but they take it to the point where instead of not being selfish, we actively hate any notion of self-preservation. This woman could have taken care of this man all she wanted from a friendship capacity, but she gave up her entire roma…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:39 PM
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Don't argue logic with someone who is arguing emotion. You will always lose that battle, I promise. You can only win by not playing. She's trying to draw you into an emotion, when you're emotional you've already lost. If she did something wrong and you get angry, you've entered her game. If she did something wrong and she's being overtly emotional, all she has to do is ramp up the emotions, and instead of having a rational discussion about the behavior, you instead are stuck in a heated discussi…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:32 PM
3

They got a bunch of negative feedback from gamers, and they pulled the ad because of it. They made a clear statement that they are supporting the gamers but not shitting on women in general (which is the only responsible way to handle that as a corporation). I give them mad props for it. I'm sure the SJWs are sending them hate mail by the metric ton.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:06 PM
2

Intel's market is not one of them. I'm not saying they don't exist, but I've met a lot of people who build computers and never met one that was a girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:05 PM
2

The false dichotomy is that it's feminists vs MRAs...It's not. That's the shaming that happens by the feminists. If feminists wanted equality, then they wouldn't be excusing one woman who is clearly acting unethically and shaming the people who are requesting journalistic integrity. Imagine if John Boehner started fucking all the women anchors at MSNBC and they stopped criticizing him because of it. Would the feminists approve of that behavior? If people then called for MSNBC to start acting wit…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:03 PM
1

Someone who cheats on people hurts people.....not all sluts are cheaters but I've heard cheaters say the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:34 PM
1

While I agree 10 months isn't long, and I could be off base in this situation. Her text seems really dramatic. He mentioned he was blue pilling at the beginning and the way I thought of it was that he was probably soaking that sh*t up when they first started dating. Now that he's asserting himself she's clinging to try to awaken the old White Knight. There wasn't a lot of details on the thread but when I see text messages like that it screams out Drama and clinginess.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 01:19 PM
0

Holy shit she sounds crazy. Tread carefully. Often chicks with a personality disorder want to build intense connections quickly so they can get their emotional meat hooks into you. see comment below
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:43 AM
1

/r/Relationships keeping it on point! Nice to see for a change...
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:42 PM
4

I think it's just solid advice all around. You can pick a good looking Alpha who will have thousands of other options and you're just a fish in the sea. Or you can pick a 7/10 Beta boy who will worship the ground you walk on, answer to your every whim, provide for all your wants and needs, and castrate himself before cheating on you. If women could get past their biological urges it makes perfect sense. To be fair, same for men. If I could get past it, I'd scoop up a chubby 3/10 and be her King.…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:29 PM
3

Enter: Robo-Rape. "Vaginas are people"
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:12 PM
23

Only a rapist would worry if he was raping.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:07 PM
7

The pendulum has to stop swinging at one point, we need something to reverse the momentum. A college agreeing to use this could be what we're looking for. What comes next? "Wave of women continue to be raped at college campuses even after consenting to sex and verifying they had a good time." "Great work fellow feminists...now it's time to work on our next pieces of legislation: 'Yes means no!' otherwise known as 'Penis=Rape.' "
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:20 PM
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Could definitely see the guilt trips and shaming start because of the app. In an ironic way it could actually show strength. "I'm not fucking you without the app." Shows that you've been there done that and aren't going to put up with her shit. A doormat would cower to her desires if he encounters any resistance. It's all facetious though, I don't know if anyone takes this seriously. I would consider using it in a light-hearted half joking manner. If anything I think it has merit if a lot of peo…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:26 PM
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I think there is merit to some sort of consensual sex formalization for men with high SMV, only because they have more to lose. The last thing a pro athlete wants is some girl claiming she was raped.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:22 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jo4568PIRnk - Yes but we're leveraging the power of The Cloud here...
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:26 PM
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This is exactly why everyone needs to do it. If ALL men from Brad Pitt to the Pokemon nerd start requiring it, women are going to start turning on eachother. "OMG just be a man and fuck me!!" Then we'll just start spouting out the feminazi bullshit back at them. "This is a patriarchal society and we are just looking to protect the women in these encounters. Why don't you want women to be safe? Do you hate Women? Stop propagating rape culture!"
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:14 PM
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The following sexual acts are desired and consent will be implied unless the code word: "CheeseWhiz!" is uttered. (check all that apply) -Biting -Scratching -Whipping -Derogatory Namecalling -Choking to the point of passing out -Choking passed the point of passing out -Choking via fellatio
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:09 PM
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It just gets better the more I think about it. "I agree that I am currently on birth control and in the event of pregnancy, agree to terminate the pregnancy. In the event that I change my mind, I agree to pay the initiator a non-termination fee which will be calculated as the annual court ordered child support multiplied by 18 years."
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:07 PM
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We should make fake usernames and start posting ridiculous rape stories to see what they support. "So my fiance called me over to his house. He told me to wear something sexy. I honestly thought we were just going to have coffee. When I got there he started kissing me heavily. I didn't say no, it's because I was thinking about how good it felt and how excited I was getting. We'd had sex hundreds of times, so I felt like I would feel weird if I said something this time. So I just went along with …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:34 PM
1

You're comparing apples and oranges. Ali was fighting other MEN. A better comparison is if a bunch of natural fighters were fighting against ONE fighter who was doing serious doping. The women's division was started solely because they could not compete with men because they are not as strong or fast. Essentially you have a man fighting in a woman's division. If women could fight men they would. They can't, so they have a protected division where they fight other similarly strengthed women. This…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 03:33 PM
1

It's not a BS excuse. If women could fight men they wouldn't need their own division. Many well respected fighters have made the same comment about "her" power.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 10:47 AM
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OK but no one fighting Invicta or StrikeForce or UFC is inexperienced. After a baseline level of skill, strength plays a major factor. Which is why an amateur MMA fighter could hang with a professional woman fighter at the same weight class.You're talking about two professionals with many fights each, squaring off together. Except one had 20+ years of natural doping from birth into adulthood and the other didn't.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 12:49 AM
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I wonder if N knows how good of a friend you are. You must have really had some extra free time.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:33 PM
1

Only if you're the same gender. A 135 pound guy will be significantly stronger than a 135 girl. The same as a 135 woman that heavily juiced for 20± years in her formative years will be stronger than a one that didn't at the same weight. Science has spoken, having balls during puberty massively increases bone density and strength. You can't just chop your balls off and expect that to disappear.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:13 PM
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You are really talking straight up nonsense. I can end your irrational thought pattern in one point of data, that every single weight class the fighters are within 2 pounds of eachother at weigh in, because every single oz of strength and weight makes a difference, even when fighting people of the same gender. Going up a weight class, only 10 pounds, is a completely different ball game. I hope you are trolling, if not, I recommend you stop fighting immediately as you need to retain as many funct…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:45 PM
1

Also false, because if that was true then girls would still be competitive with men, or there wouldn't be weight classes to begin with. Notice how they started divying up weight classes in UFC after a couple tournaments? That's because after a baseline level of skill, strength plays a huge part in fighting. I'm guessing you've never fought before or you wouldn't be saying these things.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:48 PM
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Truly awful advice. This isn't a random plate, he will have to deal with her for the rest of his life. Much better and safer to go NC. FYI this is the kind of person that is most likely to make false abuse/rape/molestation charges. All actions must be above board. If you ever have confirmation of this kind of crazy, do not make it a plate. You are flirting with disaster. No pussy is worth a false rape charge.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:12 PM
2

There's different types of PDs. Narcissistic, Antisocial, Borderline, histrionic. A true borderline is the type that would push you away and then cling like crazy, the catch phrase is, "I hate you! Don't leave me!" But even then, usually around the 10 year mark people with Borderline will do something to make the relationship unsalvageable (cheating, calling the cops, sexual impropriety accusations). Someone with BPD can't handle grey areas, you are either all good or all bad. Someone who's hist…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:09 PM
5

I must be fucked up because I think it's hot. Especially the gum smacking.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:58 PM
2

If she's got a PD (which it sounds like she does), it doesn't matter who initiates the divorce. For these people you're either Jesus incarnate or the devil's spawn. My wife fucked half the city and yet when she tries to make jabs she says things like, "YOU were the one that wanted this, I wanted to stay together." You can't rationalize with crazy, just nod your head and say, "thanks, have a nice day."
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:35 PM
2

I've got a crazy ex. What helped me the most is just coming to acceptance that she's always going to be crazy and there's nothing I am going to be able to do about it. I document what's necessary and am just the best dad I can be. I expect that any interaction with her will be a shitstorm and that she will always fail when I need her to come through. If you plan and expect this at every turn, then you will never be caught off guard, only pleasantly surprised when things turn out well. You're nev…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:33 PM
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Really?? I didn't feel like that. He was dating a woman because she was pretty, and he was going total BP on her (ditching his friends, doing things just because she told him to, changing his life to revolve around hers, not getting the sex he wanted). So he ditched her to work on himself. He didn't settle down to marry the broad at the end, he enjoyed the fuck sessions and left it at that. At the end he was living life for himself and doing what he wanted. Maybe not a perfect example but better…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:25 PM
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You're suggesting that a woman at 135 fighting a man at 135 has any chance? You're flat out wrong. Take a man, cut off his balls at 18. Take a woman, pump her full of testosterone at 18 so that she grows a nub. Let them fight at 135. The M2F is way stronger, he received 18 years of testosterone during the formative years of his body.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:19 PM
1

I think someone needs to read the dictionary definition for violence.... Ignoring someone is not violence. If I ever hear this crap in person I'm going to start saying, 99/100 college students are raped every year. Rape includes things like talking to another person, or thinking about sex. If they keep this up the definitions they use won't mean anything, like saying 4 out of 5 kids get the common cold in Kindergarden. When everyone is being raped and sexually assaulted, it won't be a big deal. …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:09 PM
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The beginning of it all. Adam and Eve. Adam knows what's right, he doesn't want to eat the apple. Eve rationalizes why it's OK. She uses her wily ways to get the man to do something he knows is wrong. Moral: Don't listen to women, trust yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:03 PM
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Go to dadsdivorce.com , they are experts in these situations. Without a court ordered action you will always be at her whim. Also, until ordered any money you give her can be considered a gift. You need to get a lawyer. Trying to cheap this out will cost you more in the long run (it likely already has).
/r/askTRP24/09/14 10:27 AM
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"Let's stop teaching men to not hit back and instead teach women not to hit." God I love this.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/14 10:11 AM
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A) I'd say about 90+% of the words you use in a given day were at one time considered nonstandard. That's how language works. B) A pedantist. If you want to help someone, do it in a noncondescending way or do it in a PM. The way it came off is that you're trying to make him look stupid. Which backfired on you. No one likes a grammar nazi except for english teachers. If you understood what he meant, there's no reason to correct him.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:12 PM
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I think the only hamstering going on is with you, thinking that you're going to be able to land this one without getting your shit jumbled. You openly admitted you still have feelings for her.......so you're plan to get over these feelings is to have sex with her a lot?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:09 PM
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It depends on how it's worded. You're not allowed to threaten people. Just whistling I can't see how that would hold up. Just as an FYI, you're totally allowed to yell fire in a crowded theater: http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2012/11/its-time-to-stop-using-the-fire-in-a-crowded-theater-quote/264449/
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:57 PM
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A) Yes it is - http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/irregardless B) Don't be that guy
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:51 PM
0

I view TRP as much higher than just the sexual aspect. To me the sexual aspect of TRP is just a symptom of becoming a more attractive person. We become attractive by being true to ourself. TRP is similar to religion in that one can look at an action from two people and one can be considered right and one incorrect depending on motives. Example: A guy who feels strongly that women are just dick lockers and fucks a different one every night. He is staying true to his frame by being a man-slut. Ano…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:41 PM
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You don't have to be a dick to be a strong male. Here's a guy with high SMV: Bono. Prince is a sex god, yet he dresses like a girl and acts like one too. You're looking at a hammer and saying, "I haven't learned how to bludgeon people to death with this yet, how did you get started?" All the while ignoring the fact that it is just a hammer. In itself it is neither good nor bad. It can be used to build a hospital for children with cancer or to end a man's life. You will never be an "Alpha" fittin…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:33 PM
1

I don't disagree that what he did was wrong. If my wife gave away my fortune to charity without discussing it first I'd be pissed off as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:57 PM
1

Unless you know something I don't I think you're reading way too much into this story. The charity he gave his house too was HIS. Hard to be seduced by yourself... And again, you're assigning intentions and motivations to his giving that you don't have evidence to assert. It is possible that he wanted to and enjoyed giving the money away without caring about what his wife or others thought about it. Again, not everyone values possessions and money the same. The happiest people I ever met lived i…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:14 PM
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You make it seem like he was giving charitably for pussy. I'm not sure if you've ever tried it, but it can be really rewarding on its own.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 03:18 PM
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Was going to post this till the very end and it said they paid her tab. Act like a twat, get free dinner and drinks??
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/14 11:09 AM
10

How dare you touch me! I'm a woman!
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/14 01:41 AM
4

I've watched two episodes so far. What I like is that it so obviously shows the game plan of the women. They aren't there to get the man, they want to win the competition. It also very quickly shows what works and doesn't work for the men. They all will go for the instigators. Also, for the love of God, if your underwear is off, make sure you're not wearing socks or shoes.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:58 AM
3

Looks like there's full episodes on youtube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xB-ExWZjb4
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:35 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eV-2qAYzWvE
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/14 01:01 AM
7

Why didn't they call the cops and have her removed? He just let her ruin his show by standing there refusing to leave? I want to watch security drag her out kicking and screaming.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/14 12:53 AM
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So at first she says she's his sister. I thought he was an MMA fighter or something the way she was talking smack, thinking maybe she knows how to fight. Funny that he's just a funny fat kid. "Hey my brother's funny and fat, so I can say whatever I want to you and you can't do anything about it." But about halfway into the video she changes her story and she goes from being his sister to his cousin.... So she's the cousin of some fat kid.......thanks for letting us all know before making an ass …
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/14 12:48 AM
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LOL being an american citizen gives you the right to decide which police officers can be around you? Man that would be an awesome power to have.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/14 12:30 AM
1

They're both awful ideas. As soon as you are found to be attempting to cheat the system, you are going to be on the short end of an already short stick.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 12:29 PM
2

The first, so advise him to see an attorney don't provide false information.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 12:28 PM
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That way, he can lose his money and go to jail for fraud. Don't try to cheat the system. It is not worth the risk. You did the crime (marriage) now you got to do the time (divorce rape). There are no shortcuts.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:25 AM
2

Don't say things if you don't know. Inheritance is not community property.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:23 AM
2

Trying to cheat like this is just fucking stupid. If you do stupid shit the judge will just say, "You squandered marital assets, therefore you owe the money you lost back to the marital estate." Judges aren't stupid, they've seen it all before and they have the leeway to fix stupid ideas like this.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:20 AM
1

Watch the documentary "Murderball." It's about wheelchair rugby. They have a few awesome discussions on their about sex. Most of those guys are pretty strong alpha types. For the most part they can have sex. A few can't. I'm paraphrasing but one guy said, "I may not be able to get hard but I can eat pussy like no one's business."
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 03:33 PM
1

some people act like that. In that sense then yes, I am very blue pill. Because I understand that there are people that view others as tools purely for their own personal benefit and I reject that for my life, because life is boring if you don't connect with people on a deeper level than a chess piece. AFAIK TRP isn't about this kind of philosophy. If it was there would be no subreddit, because helping strangers over the internet provides no benefit. TRP is about getting out of the cycle of subs…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:00 PM
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"rational analysis" = psychopathy Because the Matrix was about taking the Red Pill so that everyone in Zion could fuck each other over right? You've made the false dichotomy that morality = blue pill. Funny too, because this "ideal" is what allows you to type to me over the internet. If everyone lied, cheated, and stole to get ahead, there would be no advanced civilization.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:12 PM
0

Consider a game where players are divided in two groups, group A can score points more easily early in the game while group B can score points more easily later in the game. Each group can at any point decide that the game ends and you tally up the score. If you knew you were being placed in group B, would you play the game? If forced to play the game, would you play by the rules? OK let's take this analogy. Imagine with this game there are hundreds if not thousands of people that will play a si…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:09 PM
2

Thanks sugar buns.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:56 PM
1

Exactly, society is only as good as the forces that compose it. I don't want to live in a society with a bunch of lying psychopaths who treat people as tools. Therefore, I will tailor my actions accordingly. You've made the decision that without the consequences of society, any action is acceptable to you. That is, by definition, psychopathic. While it may help in picking up women, it's a pretty shitty way to live if you ask me. I view people as more than tools for my own personal gain, and that…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:55 PM
1

So you're telling lies that compromise your character in order to lull a woman into a false sense of security to avoid an argument? Whatever floats your boat man, I want to sleep at night. If that doesn't bother you, you might be one of the lucky ones that has no feelings...
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:40 PM
1

Sex may very well be amoral, but telling someone you won't sleep with other people, and then doing it is a lie. If you view that act as amoral, then you have NO morals, and there is no point to the discussion. Do as you please. If you view lying as immoral, then cheating would be immoral, since it is doing something dishonest. As someone who viewed lying as immoral, you would be doing yourself a disservice by hurting your own character. If you viewed lying as immoral but sex as amoral, then you …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:36 PM
1

If sex is amoral, then why lead the woman on that you are exclusive? Why not say, "Sex is amoral, so I'm going to sleep with whoever I desire." The only reason to lie about it is if you feel ashamed of the behavior, or you are a true psychopath.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:30 PM
2

Well then definitely ignore the girls. Very rarely will they improve your situation.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:28 PM
2

By that logic, any two conclusions you draw that are not the exact same situation are straw men. "John Boehner voted for tax breaks for the rich as a representative he'll do it as a senator!" That's a straw man.... The whole argument is ridiculous, this isn't even close to a straw man fallacy. A straw man fallacy is where you build up a fake argument and then attack the fake argument assuming that it is the actual argument. If you wanted to make a claim that I'm committing a fallacy, it would be…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 05:22 PM
2

I know what a strawman argument is, this is not one of them. Straw man: "He killed a fly in cold blood, he'll do it to you too!" Not a straw man: "He killed his coworker in cold blood, he'll do it to you too!" A man who does not have the character to stand by his word in one relationship, absolutely positively can not be trusted in other relationships. This is why, for thousands of years, the word and honor of a man was so important. People in Japan still kill themselves over it. Someone that sa…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 03:03 PM
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"This one time I asked this girl out, she was goobing it up hard. She wanted me to go out with her and her friend together. I had to shut her down hard. She practically begged me to go out to dinner with her. She showed up all nervous. I was about to blow her off because she showed up late, and then she started asking me all these silly questions about who I've dated."
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:47 PM
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That's not a straw man. A man who says, "I will be faithful to you" to one person, and then acts unfaithfully, will in the same way tell a different person, "You can trust me" in another area of life and have the same compunctions about lying to that person. You either are a man who does what he says, or you aren't. Rationalizing why it's OK to be dishonest with one person but not another is what we rail against repeatedly. Male hamstering. If someone doesn't care that's on them, but part of bei…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:26 PM
2

Money is high on the list because it is an objective measure of power and prestige.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:11 PM
2

You didn't lose frame, you never left hers. You can't ever have frame if you're afraid to lose your partner. You lost your shit. Hard. Figure out what you stand for and who you are. Right now you're defined by a woman and the thought of losing her brought you to a panic. You can't have a healthy relationship like that.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:09 PM
2

This should not be making you jealous because you should have other plates and more important things to keep you occupied than making plans for other people. Best answer I can think of as to why you should ignore. You have time out of your busy day to tell her where to go with her friends?
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:05 PM
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Being a man of my word is important to me. If I don't believe in myself and the value of the things I say then other areas of my life will be affected. A man who cheats on his wife will also not be trustworthy with his business partners, friends, etc.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:00 PM
6

You want to settle down with a woman who isn't happy with just you in the bedroom? Have your fun if you want, but relationships like these almost never work out in the long term.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 08:58 PM
1

It doesn't have to be complicated. If you like someone ask them out. Going back in this situation with the INTENT of asking her out will likely seem contrived. I suggest not having any pre-conceived notions. Chalk it up to a learning experience and try to do better next time... She may or may not just being nice, but who cares? You like her, she's cute, if she was just being nice and she turns you down, it's not a big deal. Get over the fear of rejection.
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 08:45 PM
6

Sounds awesome if you want a threeway. If you're looking for the mother of your kids you just got a pretty big red flag.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 08:34 PM
1

The con is that she's going to be getting so much attention that she never got before that she's going to have an inflated sense of value. Like someone else said, they usually still have body issues too, "I'm not comfortable being naked." Additional cons: extra skin, stretch marks, and you're with the addict hoping they don't relapse.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:09 PM
1

You'd be making it easy for her to hamster out a reason why it was good for her. "He just wanted to get with me and couldn't handle it." If you just leave her alone and get a life, she'll wonder what happened. However, the correct play is to ACTUALLY move on with your life. Then you will be both better emotionally, and not acting.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:06 PM
5

So you're surrounding yourself with a woman who escalates to violence "or a scene"? Does her vagina turn condoms into gold? If not, I'd hit the next button.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 11:48 AM
1

I also think they talk to him and tell him what to do sometimes. I've seen pranks where they have to say whatever the guys say over the earpiece. The gags are set up but I'm pretty sure the reactions are real.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:04 AM
1

You can fake abundance mentality, or you can have it forced on you through...............abundance.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 10:09 AM
3

Sounds like you're working towards the same goal. As someone who's been married before and then got burned, I'd offer this advice. A year into a relationship you still have all these hormones when you see him. The annoying little things he does you will find funny and cute. At about the 2 year mark these hormones start going away and people's "mask" falls off. The things you thought were cute will start to piss you off. I let people know that you don't really even start to know someone till abou…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 12:38 AM
8

I'd go with the A&A personally. "Yeah he's pretty hot, I'd fuck him too." Go over the top with anything she says. Make it disgusting and always one-up her. If you make it nasty enough she'll never bring it up, or you'll have a great time laughing about it. I think anything else makes you seem insecure. Ignoring her definitely makes you look butt hurt.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:25 AM
3

I struggled/struggle with it still. One of the best ways I found was to date more than one girl at a time, "spinning plates." Hard to idolize one girl when you have another date the next day.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:21 AM
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My feeling is as long as your honest and forthright about your intentions, it's not your responsibility to make good decisions for her. If she wants to continue fucking and sucking off a guy who obviously is bad for her long term goals, that's her issue. Just don't tell her lies stringing her along, which it doesn't sound like you're doing.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:19 AM
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I think you understand this is not going to be a relationship. The fact that she actually reschedules and finishes with you means that she's not just jerking you around. Sooo....that being said. I'd always have a backup plan and if she flakes, no big deal. That way, if she shows, you have sex. If not, you do whatever else you planned. "Gaming" her is not going to make her change her ways, so I wouldn't waste time trying to make her jealous.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 12:14 AM
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My first marriage was exactly like this. Just like the OP, I once would have laughed, now I cringe. A) Dude should have told the woman, "If you don't like the way I do it, do it yourself." B) He's so beta, "I don't know, what do YOU wanna do?" Guy needs to man up and start making some decisions. But in general, this is why I never want to get married again, the amount of contempt is just too much.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 12:06 AM
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No in that year my CPI could not even be defined by mathematics. I'm talking a real year of marriage. I think we had sex 3-4 times one year and I probably shelled out $40-50K on her. The divorce raping hurt temporarily, but I'll be in the black in short order.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:15 PM
3

Sorry I never hired a hooker. I assume $100 would get you a decent lay...
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:05 PM
3

I think in one year of my marriage my CPI was probably in the tens of thousands of dollars.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:05 PM
1

First off, as a beta, it will be a very difficult few days, possibly weeks for you as you deal with the breakup. You MUST find something new and exciting to occupy your time or you will eat yourself alive with depression and self-loathing. Next, you sound like a giant ball of depression with no self-confidence. Because of this, you need to make a firm commitment to improving your life by engaging in confidence building activities. You need to hit the gym and make a commitment to getting physical…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:54 PM
2

If Franklin hadn't tapped so much French ass you'd be speaking with a British accent right now. His boner saved us.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:34 PM
3

Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an o…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:33 PM
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Just sent it to my GF. We'll see how this plays out. I re-betad at some point in the relationship and just got my balls back a few weeks ago. Sticking around as a social experiment to see if I can turn it around.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:25 PM
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Not hard, you add up all the money you spend in a given year on your wife. Clothes, food, presents, eating out, decorations to keep her happy, etc etc (only her not stuff you get mutual satisfaction on). Then divide that by the number of times you have sex per year. That is your CPI (cost per insertion). If your CPI is north of $100, it would be cheaper to hire a high class prostitute to service you.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:19 PM
1

Awesome feedback, thanks.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 07:40 PM
1

Understood and this is generally what I do. But at some point you date someone long enough you're going to be out somewhere to eat or doing something that costs money and I'm wondering what people do in those situations. I guess what I'm wondering is if people take the, "I'm not paying for you" road or if they buck up and pay. And if it's the former, what are your responses to the almost guaranteed shit tests that come from it.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 06:27 PM
3

I'm initially skeptical of this. You ask a girl out and say, "Come over to my house on Saturday, I need to fix my car?" How does that play out? My initial thought is only the lowest self-esteemed girl would agree to that.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 11:04 AM
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Not a woman but I'll give you my take. I would wait to have sex with a woman if I knew she was worth it. TBH, I question the LTR potential of any woman who gives it up too fast (yes I'm judgemental in that way). The problem is though, separating women that are worth it, from women that are just low drive or prudes, without wasting all your time. So you do run the risk of driving off good catches because they're not going to waste all their time on a chance that you're a good catch, when they are…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 02:02 AM
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You're not responsible for making anyone happy. In fact, you CAN'T make anyone happy. You're setting yourself up to be a doormat. Do some reading about codependency, you have it.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:49 PM
1

I like the cut of your jib - Can I get a pull from your handbag?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:45 PM
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She wouldn't be talking to you if she wasn't already interested. You don't need to "win her over." That being said, your words sound like you were trying to hard to impress her and make her feel good about herself. Chillax a little bit, don't be so eager.
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 05:57 PM
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Two comments: 1. Prenups. Prenups are like minimum requirements. A prenup ensures that you the stuff you have before you're married stays yours. It can also potentially save you from spousal support. However, you can still very easily get screwed in divorce. For starters, prenups are frequently thrown out for a variety of reasons. Second, judges have a lot of room for personal leeway in their rulings. "Well the man has all this inheritance, so I'll award the majority of the marital assetts to th…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:00 PM
2

Work your confidence first before you try to get girls. Get some accomplishments under your belt that are unrelated to women. The gym and martial arts are great ways to do this. Right now your confidence is low so you're afraid of approaching women and you have the scarcity mentality so if someone shows interest you think, "OMG I finally got one!!" Imagine fishing for 6 months and never catching a fish, what would you do if you caught one (even if it was small)? Imagine going fishing and catchin…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:10 PM
1

Not so much during, as after. Everyone is feeling good, releaxed. Might be a little weird the first few times but if you've been going a while you see the same people day in day out, just introduced myself and got to know the people in my class. The BYOB painting places are awesome. If you live in a medium sized city I guarantee there's one around you you just don't know about it. It's a 2-3 hour class where you go in, they walk you through how to paint a pretty cool painting. While you're paint…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:54 PM
1

You can be strong and true to yourself and do nice things for women. Just don't let it cloud your mind. At the point where you start putting up with her bullshit, that's when you've gone too far. You don't HAVE to be aloof all the time, as long as you are willing to walk away if she acts a fool, you're still on the right path. Having good guy friends helps with this, guy friends will help keep you centered. If she is 100% of your life you're going to have a hard time staying balanced.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:49 PM
1

For guys whose social circles and events yield only un-bangable women and for whom the nightlife scene is not compatible with your newly-productive lifestyle, how have you adjusted (have daytime cold approaches become your bread and butter and if so, how did you learn)? I'm not great at cold approaching women, I'm not afraid to work on that but I'm really great at building rapport in less threatening situations. When I was single I had a few activities that were really awesome for meeting great …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:37 PM
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I am divorced now. Some people want to have a partner to share their life with. There are some shitty parts about marriage but it is not all bad. There is a lot to be said about valuing one person over a multitude of superficial women. This is all assuming that you have a healthy relationship with a woman that is based on sound principles. Like most things in life, there are pros and cons. Marriage, when done right, can be incredibly rewarding and fulfilling. When it's not going well, it can be …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 01:00 PM
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A lot depends on where you go to meet women. Obviously a club or bar scene is going to have skankier, less wholesome women. You have to put yourself in environments where quality females are plentiful. I did a lot of typically non-male stuff while single and I was amazed at the quality of women that I was around, and the ratios were great for talking and meeting. Painting, ballroom dancing, and yoga are some of the best places to meet women I can think of. Most of the women are normal aren't doi…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:03 PM
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Why not? If you think TRP is all about banging chicks you got it wrong bud. It's a path to manhood. A 40 year old virgin can be just as Alpha as a 25 year old pimp. Manhood isn't about staying single or f*cking chicks. It's about living the life YOU want to live without compromising on your goals and dreams. That can take many forms as we all have different desires.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 05:56 PM
1

I have a ton of hobbies but I usually rotate one that I am focusing on. I have kids so that makes it way more difficult. Once you have kids you really only have time to do one at a time.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:06 PM
1

Maybe before you try to man up by getting with other girls, you figure out your shit first. You don't sound ready for this, spend some time with the bros, develop your hobbies and interests and passions. Hit the gym. When you try again in a few months you won't have to do as much acting to be confident, it will be a result of your lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:04 PM
1

This is why you don't get married without properly vetting your partner. This girl has a really immature attitude, not all wives act this immature. Not encouraging anyone to go get married, but they aren't all this bad. The importance of having a pair throughout the relationship and not rushing into anything.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:00 PM
3

Yeah except in this case, if someone writes a review about how you sexually harassed someone, you would likely lose business. This is a serious matter and the business isn't wrong to address it. However, should the employee be found innocent, they should go after this woman to the fullest extent possible.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:15 PM
1

If you're not in a committed relationship, these kind of questions should be off limits. Stop engaging. Either ignore the questions or say, "Sorry I'm busy" or "I have other plans" and cut it off there. But in general, if you're spinning plates you shouldn't be engaging in a bunch of meaningless text conversations.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:25 PM
1

When you lie, you make a statement about your actions and your integrity. What you are saying is, "I know what I am doing is wrong, so I will lie about my actions to appear in the right." or "I don't feel like standing up for myself, so I will take the easy way out." If you're dating multiple people, you should know or feel that it is acceptable and should have no need to lie about it. If the woman can't handle it, you need to gain the self-respect to let her go. If you feel it's wrong, you're n…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:23 PM
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To be fair, I think most everyone is like that.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 11:05 AM
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I'm going to say she was both. She probably did get taken advantage of because you shouldn't finger a chick when she's blacked out. But the fact that she called a guy over to party with and then went out drinking with him alone...and kissed him back...that's cheating in my book.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:57 PM
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I've seen a lot of cheating, if you don't go nuclear you're setting yourself up for a repeat. Honestly I think the best course of action is to hand her the D papers...If she wises up and gets her sh*t together, you can always call it off AFTER A FEW MONTHS (all women when caught will put on an act for a few weeks). If she continues on with the cheating, you've already started the paperwork and are in a better position to move forward. It also helps with custody because usually during the first f…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:47 PM
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I typically don't tell women about other women. If they ask, "Yes I'm seeing other people." Not sure what could be gained from mentioning other women unless you are looking to be controversial or stir shit up.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:53 PM
0

Why can't you run behind buses or trains?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:38 PM
2

Even if she's a troll, this kind of stuff definitely happens every day. You could still learn from her story and the comments.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:37 PM
1

She pressed on #2 because you gave her the inkling you would give in, which you said you did. You need to make it obvious that you aren't going to answer without having to say, "I'm not going to answer that." You've only seen her a couple times, there's no reason for her to be doing a full court press on stuff like that. As for #3, what's "stuff like this?" You need to elaborate a bit more on what exactly she was calling you out on. I'm not a pro by any stretch but I've learned that if you screw…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:59 PM
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A lot of us have been burned by women who were in a relationship with a "bad boy", and then they seemingly transferred to a loving caretaker (ie beta doormat). Eventually they get bored and go screw around with the bad boys again. Look at how many guys pay for kids that aren't theirs (beta bucks). If you're going to be in this equation, you want to be the one f*cking, not the wallet. It's fine to be both.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 12:01 PM
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"OK thanks! All this pretending was making me tired." "only a few thousand" "I'm not doing this just to sleep with you....... I heard you make a great breakfast in bed."
/r/askTRP20/08/14 11:48 AM
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Because people that make games DO pay attention and it's affecting the content they produce. To the point that games are changing to fit their warped narrative, especially at the smaller studios.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:31 AM
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I'm certainly no pro and I don't pretend to be an expert in marriage. I think if I get married again, one thing I will do is let my wife know that divorce will always be on the table. I've found in my experience that sometimes to save a marriage you have to be willing to walk away. Having 'oneitis' and your wife knowing that no matter how bad it gets you will never leave, is an invitation to a sexless, no respect marriage. That being said, I would have ridiculously high standards before taking t…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:02 AM
1

Discretion is the better part of valor.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:24 PM
1

Can't get behind this, too much homage to my BB marriage. Promised I would never do it, unless I took a camera with me and sent it to him afterwards as proof his girl was a ho. Kind of like The People's Jiggalo.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:17 PM
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Some of these are pretty jacked but I was following on a few at the beginning. Personally I think part of being a man is being responsible for your own shit. So I will gladly do 50% of the housework and be 50% responsible for my children. It started getting silly after that though.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:08 PM
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Having flashbacks to my first d-day and forgiveness of my mega-slut exwife. I remember thinking at the time, "Wow she's really sorry for this and there's no way she'll ever do that again." I definitely deserved everything that came after that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:45 PM
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