Men and women are not meant to be friends at all.

Of course there can be exceptions, but The Red Pill deals in generalities.

Men and women are as different as dogs and martians, but are socially conditioned to follow a script that all things are equal between the two: physical ability, mental prowess, emotional stability, and sexual marketplace options and eligibility; if we are EVER to skew one way or the other, the belief must be that women have a more difficult time securing opportunities and equitable treatment- and, because of this, a woman who succeeds has moxie and tenacity.

A friendship you have with a woman must rest on these terms as a foundation.

Furthermore, female programming runs on the idea of categorizing all men whom a woman will meet as potential mates (Alpha fucks), useful in some way (beta bucks), or disposable (omega gross). Even if the friendship is sincere to you, that you don't judge her just because you don't want to stick it in her, understand that she is indeed judging for the very same reason.

These two elements together form a climate where your interactions with her must be slanted in a way that favors the Female Imperative, which means, NO UNAUTHORIZED OPINIONS.

I illustrated this idea in my blog: “All vaginas are the same size~!!11″ and the Unequal Nature of Equality

Since the idea of TOTALLY EQUAL EQUALITY must be the foundation, if a man is a failure where a woman can easily succeed- say, getting laid consistently, she will judge her pal as pathetic because the differences in difficulty cannot be acknowledged.

If the differences in difficulty of accomplishment were to be acknowledged, her feels would take a nose-dive because competing and winning against just women isn't as sexy and exciting; this is why there needs to be such constant chatter about whether or not Ronda Rousey is good enough to compete against men- because her competing against, and beating, women isn't satisfying enough to people. But this is at the heart of why she CANNOT fight men, why the best team in the WNBA cannot play the best team of the NBA, and why there are separate male and female chess leagues- men and women should not compete against one-another, and if they do, the best males will beat the best females. And that's kind of a bummer.

So in order to preserve a feeling of accomplishment and meaning, women must believe that all things are equal between men and women; that the "daddies" of society are not letting the "little girl think she won," even if that is exactly what is happening. Why do you think women always specify that they are female when posting a comment on Reddit? Because they know that it will be more warmly received; that the community of Reddit will stand down and "let the lady have her say" without real criticism.

Essentially, NO WOMAN will ever admit that life as a man- all facets of life as a man- is more difficult; getting laid, getting a job/succeeding at that job, staying in attractive physical shape (all they need to do is to stay thin vs juggling body fat and muscle mass), socializing (respect must be maintained for a man to socially succeed, where-as women can always fall-back on being sympathetic if need be).

TLDR: Essentially all facets of life are more difficult for a man, and a man has a greater potential to fail without a safety net in place, and since this dynamic will never be addressed or dignified by a female friend, and the social narrative is always on her side, men and women cannot truly be friends.

Edit;An ANALOGY: A woman's life is like having a ticket to an amusement part, and a man's life is like having a membership to a gym. A woman EXPECTS certain things from her life and since she has a ticket to the amusement park, she feels ENTITLED TO SUCH EXPECTATIONS. A man has the OPPORTUNITY to be the best man he can be, and then surely he can enjoy the benefits as he works to upkeep his awesomeness , but he doesn't ever think becoming awesome will just happen.

With that said, how can the two ever share a world-view enough to meet in the middle as friends?