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You don't have 3years back to relive or 3 years ahead to look forward to. You have every opportunity to get laid tommorrow. That'll never happen if you focus on whining to dudes on the internet today.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:52 AM
14

Ffs what the fuck happened here
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:46 AM
1

You don't need advice quickly. You need to wrangle the anxiety and make better choices day in day out. There's no wall for you. As much as you pray for it, nothing will end the misery. You can do difficult things or you can settle in for the saddest most comfortable life that you will regret until your dying breath. Step 1. Lockdown dopamine. Cold turkey. It'll fucking suck. But youll live. And you'll perceive time differently when you do. No special month. No reddit circlejerk. Stop making your…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:43 AM
2

That's cute. You're leverage against the manager. She wants under his skin. Go for it. At very least itll be excitement. No guarantee on the job after. Live it up cowboy. Don't get played.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:34 AM
2

Jesus wtf is anyone supposed to take away from this apart from op being a waste of humanity
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:21 AM
1

If you're feigning interest in information that you have none for that is your fault. If you express indifference and a lack of interest in a subject she'll eventually lose interest in sharing with you. If you playfully make it painful for her rational mind to discuss the topics with you she'll be averse/short circuit
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:00 PM
2

For the love of god find better people to spend your time with. Its worth more than whatever bullshit you typed above. Her goal wasn't to make sense, it was to stir up emotion in you, and she did it as relatively well as any Sphinx type bombshell you could only dream of
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 04:28 AM
0

He's pissed he's not fucking them, simmer down boy
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 04:20 AM
2

I fucked a chick in a field a while back. Just brought a few beers and blanket
/r/askTRP26/10/18 07:29 PM
-1

Dude there isnt a formula that wont make you come off as a drone
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:00 PM
13

Stop eating like a fat person
/r/askTRP01/10/18 08:46 PM
2

God forbid you enjoy life. Stop associating with misery
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:53 PM
4

Weak men need to take care of women to feel needed. Once you understand the pattern its entertaining to watch
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:02 PM
1

Chicks fuck. You would too. Get over it and stop torturing yourself speculating
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:19 PM
1

It sounds like you are exactly where you are putting yourself. Assuming everyone is against you and that they percieve you as a lost will 100% project the vibe that you are in fact a loser. Ergo its a vicious feedback loop where you assume shit, people give you shit, so the shit shitballs. You find self confidence from yourself before anyone will have confidence in you
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:16 PM
2

Self certainty = frame. You saying shit you can’t back up? She calls your bluff and you scurry off tail between your legs. You stood up too soon and she made you sit the fuck down. Frame is looking back at her and saying “make me”. She knows exactly where you stand. changing her perception of your mindset is tough. You need to convince her you have a bulletproof positive playful attitude through either time or preselection in interacting with other chicks. Judging by your post, focus on time and…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 06:14 PM
1

You must be an expert on the subject
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 04:09 PM
1

You’ll get it when you get it
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:07 AM
1

Why not 5/8? Unambitious chode
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:05 AM
2

Spend time learning. Not self help/sidebar books. Actually dedicate time to something you find interesting for your own sake.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:03 AM
2

You arent working hard enough
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:42 AM
1

Plenty, you’re in the wrong room
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 02:34 AM
0

Doesnt sound like you know either
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 02:29 AM
1

Why settle for a 5 when you can beat it watching a 10 get bukkakied
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 02:28 AM
1

It’s a binary are you ok with where you’re going or are you bitter and cold on life
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:59 PM
1

You talk like you are attached to reciprocation
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:04 PM
1

And you’re there?
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:56 PM
1

Pleasant to fun gets you a phone number. Fun to sensual gets you laid. Don’t rush it faster than you can defend it
/r/askTRP19/09/18 04:49 PM
2

Make the conversation go from pleasant to fun to sensual
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:43 PM
3

Surely after an exchange of pleasantries he is deserving of her womb
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:41 PM
0

Lol I cant if its already lost on you
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:16 PM
8

These would make a strong soap opera
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 02:14 PM
-7

Herrr de durrr I am man hear me rerrrrrrrrr
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:38 AM
2

Light cackle, go about my business Don't go out of my way to chat up chicks. My openers are socially acceptable. Then steer red. If she drops this late then "I'm nobody" sly smirk defuses "What's it to ya?" "Josh wants to fuck" ignore proceeding rationalizationsgo about business* "Josh wants to fuck" ignore proceeding rationalizationsgo about business* "Of course not" slight pausewink* "Sure thing" forget about her "you don't know half of it" "what the fuck are you talking about?" treat her like…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:27 AM
-3

Point a finger and youve got 3 pointed back at you
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:53 PM
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You absolutely can do both. You can gild a turd but its still a turd. My emphasis is specifically on timing and depth. Spergs have more than enough to do with a weak power of will where this can very easily be used as a distraction from physical discipline. It is no doubt a valuable step, but approaching it early and with this level of detail would be overkill. New guys are better off getting a quick rec or playing scent roulette at tjmaxx. Depth on a topic comes with time. Or this is a wild goo…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:48 PM
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I’d argue this is an advanced optional topic. For guys still getting their life together don’t get caught up in cologne intricacies before you get the fundamentals down. Ie Spend as much time as you need prepping meals sunday before you run around dept stores looking for perfume. When you have the basics down pat youll have time for accents like this
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:26 PM
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This is a whole lot of ra ra shiskumba. Top tier athletes have outcome independence because they assumably left no margin for error in their routine. They trained HARD and they respect themselves for it. They didnt skip shit because they were hunover or to sleep in. They did not waste because they had a goal in mind. They’re on their path and nothing can pull them away. They know that after the game they will return to honing their craft, win or lose. Theres always another game
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 11:20 AM
1

Keep running just to stay where you are
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:44 PM
2

When in doubt, sniff out new bitches
/r/askTRP11/09/18 02:37 AM
1

Interesting, would she be telling people that you’re overly invested in controlling the perception of others and laugh joyously as you get wrapped up in defending yourself in retaliation, and sink your own reputation? What are your other hypotheticals? Her game is to make you play. Take a position against her and you’ve already lost. She doesnt matter and neither do you
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:47 PM
1

You didnt answer my question, how do you punish her? You are severely misdirecting that premise. If a woman is your enemy youre wasting your energy
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:46 AM
1

How do you punish?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:53 AM
1

Move forward
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:14 AM
3

She’s in control of your emotions. Thats why she kissed you. Hence whining about it here. Who gives a fuck what shes doing. Reward good behavior. Ignore bad. Correct her when she gets in your way. Your words are meaningless in negotiating with this chick
/r/askTRP10/09/18 12:54 AM
2

If youre generalizing sides as good and bad you’re delusional. Your duty is to do what’s good for you. Trust your gut. When its wrong the world will punch you in the fucking face. Then it wont be wrong the next time. Grow up
/r/askTRP10/09/18 12:47 AM
1

Have you asked yourself what you want to do?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 12:39 AM
2

What isnt physical about performing?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 06:02 PM
1

Keep speculating on duration and routine if you want to go mad. Eyes shut, loose mind and let the world in
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 03:53 PM
2

The last thing she wants to see is you doing well. Know that
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:27 AM
1

Try drugs
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:17 PM
7

Leftists repress masculine aspects of their personality, shit makes them unstable, tread lightly
/r/askTRP27/08/18 02:34 AM
2

He could have a higher smv, you don’t need to be top dog to snake a chick
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:10 AM
1

When women start physically putting themselves in your way, you can decide whether or not to slow down, but never stop
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:06 AM
1

Lol the financial and emotional support doesnt have to come from me
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 07:21 PM
5

For starters, using social media at all is not needed. It’s a vice
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:16 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:41 PM
1

Yo sidebar
/r/askTRP21/08/18 12:40 PM
2

They conciously want to have it easy. They unconciously need an actual man. We stand at odds with their concious hamster
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:56 PM
4

“That’s my business?”
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:29 PM
1

I thought I was just crazy. Thanks for the post
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 05:29 PM
1

Yea dude, I can’t take my Dad seriously anymore when he tries to give me advice. He seems so delusional. Fuckin hurts
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 04:48 PM
3

If we can call “love” a psychological game, it’s pretty certain that a party will stop playing when the frequency and reward of winning is skewed drastically to the other party. If a dog never wins at tug of war with a person, it loses interest. Unfortunately, moral shame is the default mode of correction for a society rooted in western religion. And japan is VERY westernized.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:53 PM
2

Lol she’s been plowed regularly while you send her naughty texts
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:19 PM
81

Welcome to the muthafuckin JUNGLE
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:03 PM
1

Bring her for coffee or drinks and plan to pay. She gets a gold star if she insists on paying
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:37 AM
2

Her shit isnt your shit
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:10 PM
3

It sounds like you might already be gay
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:07 PM
46

Put our top scientists on this shit
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 08:55 PM
42

Let the loneliness galvanize you
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 06:13 PM
3

Be careful romanticizing it, doesnt sound like you are, just watch yourself. Work out your exact goals. Where you see your life path potentially going where you would look back and be happy with where how it turned out. Think experiences, girls, life chapters in different places, mad gainz, buisiness pursuits, connections through all of it. How will the relationship effect these targets? Could you hit half? Girls demand attention, costing you energy. Take a swing at how much this one costs now a…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 02:15 AM
1

Lol he thinks there’s a magic answer
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:44 PM
2

If you are an asshole to a chick that isnt attracted to you she’s not gonna stick around
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:23 AM
4

Slow down, go before her, say thank you, see if she has a name
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:11 AM
2

There are infinity better ways to spend your time, but you do you
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:08 AM
2

No matter what she dares you, shit in your hand and throw it at her
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:42 PM
1

It's fascinating to watch just how ignorant a guy can be when his chick is throwing herself at other guys
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 07:09 PM
8

Escalate with the brother around, he’ll fuck off real fast
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:10 AM
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Consider the possibility that he does understand AND accept this logical truth about the sexual marketplace. His definition of moral truth is the values and behavior that will yield the highest probability of survival for the individual or group over time, or something like that. It’s fundamental knowledge with TRP that you can’t unplug someone through your will. They either seek it out or come to the conclusion on their own by way of trauma. So he understands A) his credibility would hurt if he…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 04:27 AM
1

Your identity as a humongous vagina limits you to ejaculating in your hand
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:24 AM
1

Try the socratic method next time
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:20 PM
2

As if he has any merit to spin Alan Watts anyways
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:05 PM
1

He’ll learn real fast from trial and error. Or he’ll be ostracized. Play it don’t say it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:00 PM
2

Orrrrr who the fuck cares, he's got better shit to do
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 04:45 AM
4

If you're shit at negotiating as a man you get used for money. If you're shit at negotiating as a chick you get used for sex. They aren't the same, the words have totally different letters. But the foundation is that we're trying to get something we desire from someone else. For the sake of being aware of your own actions.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:07 PM
21

Yes, women look for provider potential in any man. Just like men look for aestetics in any woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:52 PM
3

Yo getting pissed off at the world isnt going to solve your problems
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 11:15 PM
3

And you're overthinking the whole point of tatoos. Do your own shit, your body is temporary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 07:16 AM
4

oh yes, we all play the game
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:23 PM
110

I struggle with open communication to my IRL tribe because its still heavily plugged in. It makes candid and intimate conversation difficult giving me a sense of isolation. Really looking forward to this.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 07:23 PM
1

Dont be a nervous fool around her
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:08 PM
4

She's giving you sex as a chore
/r/askTRP11/01/18 03:02 PM
1

Thats a lovely opinion you pulled out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 05:36 AM
1

If you're getting into a ltr with a chick she should be improving your life in some way. No, regular pussy alone is not a strong enough case. If she understands that she is giving you nothing but sex and has your commitment, she'll keep you around while shes comfortable and until she finds a better dude. That dynamic reeks your desparation and she doesnt value you. If you have power or the drive for power, a chick will WORK to keep you around. Pussy, gifts, cleaning, cooking. She won't have time…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:01 PM
1

So a mans perogitive is to swindle a chick out for booty and a womans is to swindle a man out for financial security. You sour fucks really don't see that it's a balanced relationship? Know the game and dont get got
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:44 PM
1

Your school level is a big factor here dude
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:56 AM
1

Nah dude, punching down is generally poor form. Who gives a fuck about the chump
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:47 AM
2

We still fail and fuck up the same things except we realise very painfully as it happens. Really feels like a nightmare where you have total clarity of the situationbut are too panicked to fix it
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 01:33 PM
5

Nice job man. hookups are 50-50. Chicks are all different in bed, like theyre advertising their own brand of "love". A lot of them are just decent advertising
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 01:13 PM
2

You are her play thing. You didnt fuck her because she feels immense attraction for you. She fucked you because you seem interesting and might be a fruitful bounty. She honestly doesnt know but shes loving the attention.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 02:28 AM
1

Never. how dare you even consider asking that
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:34 PM
1

Festival portojohn, somewhere between proud and disgusted by myself
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:11 PM
2

Festival portojohn, somewhere between proud and disgusted by myself
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:10 PM
1

You can be a narcisisstic twat all you want. You arent getting laid because youve got no ground to be so. If you were right in any capacity you'd be getting laid, its not difficult. Instead you're a resentful fuck who is so locked into his own perspective you can't see how fucked up your worldview is. If you're lucky your ego will crumble under its own misery and you'll drop all the hate you carry. If not...
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:58 PM
1

You got duped, hate the game not the player. We're all fools and thieves but nice guys never trust the thief. Congratulate her and grow some teeth
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:08 PM
4

Your mummy wants you to stay safe and warm, not become a man of danger and excitement
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:54 PM
1

Impressive mental gymnastics sir
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:49 PM
1

Ignoring the obvious awful idea of a fling at your office, she can read you like a book. You definately made it obvious that she could have a relationship from you so she didnt have to pit out and started playing with you. Good on you for pulling back at first but when she reinitiated and you were giving her the time to chat on the phone, then actively calling her, she was getting what she wanted without giving what you wanted. And what does this girl have to say thats so fucking interesting tha…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:35 PM
2

That means its working, keep up the good work
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:52 PM
1

You should first understand that these problems are inherently your fault for failing to command, but secondarily that you likely were never taught masculine values that would guide you in command. You got a dog and you never trained it because you were told that you and the dog were equals
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:49 PM
4

HOW DARE YOU PLAY WITH HIS TOYS
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:13 AM
2

Oh shit you're RP now? Don't forget to wear your badge Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water. If you understand the rules of the game then you should be a better player. Don't fuck up
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:43 AM
1

Stem employees are typically easy to push around. If you havent gotten progress from stamping your feet you need to go to him with another offer you're considering and tell him to beat it or be prepared for you to walk. 10 years exp isnt something they want to lose, but they understand that 90% of employees want the raise but will just whine if they dont get it.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:36 AM
1

If you're sending dirty texts Id hope youre getting them too
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:33 AM
6

Slow down
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:18 AM
1

He's probably thinking about the task in front of him
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:17 AM
2

Remember that the best way to fight illogical narcissism of the infected is not to return the same emotionally unstable noise, but to playfully disrupt, disarm and remove yourself. Watch their ego explode from a distance. We play by our own rules
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 11:26 PM
3

She wants drama
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:54 PM
3

She wants nothing more than for you to text her "who's this?"
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:09 AM
3

You make her feel needed more than the others
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:01 AM
11

My family/extended family hasnt divorced. Generally conservative even. You know what the old ass men tell me? Not over family dinner. But when they have my ear isolated for a split 5 seconds? "Dont get married". Like its the only serious thing theyve ever said. The middle aged men are more optimistic. I've been told by a lot of them, even my own father. "Dont get married young." I'm watching some of my friends preparing to get married in happy relationships, but even they send semi sarcastic sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:57 AM
3

She's young and immature like you. She was going cold because your interactions were in the direction of a ldr. She probably liked you but subconciously understood a ldr was a bad move hence the indecisive chaos of interactions because YOU didnt make the firm call on commitment. She's panicing because she doesnt know wtf is going on. You blow up at her because you don know wtf is going on. She wipes her perception of the situation to simply that youre emotionally manipulative and writes you off.…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:05 PM
1

Probably not long, but have fun
/r/askTRP01/01/18 10:40 PM
46

Sounds like self preservation
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 06:47 PM
3

If you life life out of a textbook you're going to miss a lot
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 05:21 PM
3

No one can tell you for certain how to handle an ex. If you can live without getting hungup on her, let it be. If its something you cant get past, either from your or her immaturity, remove yourself. But this is your decision to make, not some internet sperg
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 03:03 PM
1

How is it expensive to read, write, cook, meditate, hike, widdle, etc. stop making excuses for not having a mission
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:45 PM
1

Try Alan watts
/r/askTRP24/12/17 02:38 PM
2

You move on, be glad that she had the maturity to make that decision, I can almost guarantee youve got a lot of work to do on yourself
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:37 PM
0

send her a picture of your butthole
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:24 AM
1

nobody cares, work harder
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:22 AM
3

Fucking sociopath, stop spamming your dick for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:19 AM
1

Youve gotta let some devil out and fuck with people, sly and suave, be a rat tatting chameleon
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:01 AM
5

Trp fundamentally pushes men to pursue themselves first building a life that leaves them fulfilled in old age. Old people are promiscuous as fuck because physical appearance stops being a drive. They let go of that pride because trying to hold onto it leaves you miserable. You dont need a fairytale lifetime romance to feel pure joy in the company of someone else. But you do need to accept that everything in life is fleeting and you let go of it all with your dying breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:57 AM
1

nope you might as well pour sand in her pussy. she jumps through hoops, not you
/r/askTRP24/12/17 03:45 AM
2

read the sidebar
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:52 PM
3

You got wordy with it
/r/askTRP23/12/17 08:46 PM
1

haha blow me
/r/askTRP23/12/17 01:42 AM
10

Im lost, if shes too far to fuck why would you talk to her?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 06:03 AM
2

You're getting spun into a nightmare. I'd start fresh
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:54 PM
4

Muzzleloader season
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:50 PM
6

Fuck that sounds amazing
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:48 PM
1

You should stay away from vegas
/r/askTRP15/12/17 10:58 PM
1

catch or get caught
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:35 AM
1

People are uncomfortable with people who have never made them uncomfortable
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:28 AM
8

Thanks captain obvious
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:27 AM
18

The beauty of it is that theres a lot of hers and ignoring all of them takes very little effort. Its a relationship between narrowing your focus as much as possible where women have to work harder and less subtlely to put themselves in that focus. Its a hilarious cliche when you literally have women "falling all over you". Then you live the rest of life with a shit eating grin
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:41 AM
6

ololllllolllololo 5 dolla says you cant
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:21 AM
2

Because your already getting butterflies
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:33 PM
1

You shouldnt invest in someone who hasnt proven to be worth a damn
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:27 PM
3

If you havent had the darkness close in at the ultimate mercy of your sparring partner, you havent LIVED
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:26 PM
7

She's ready to walk away and you arent
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:36 AM
1

Youre gonna catch what you can catch. You should have a decent idea of how you stack against guys around you
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:15 AM
1

Bjj is dope, but youve gotta throw heart and soul at it. Martial arts are more than a workout
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:38 PM
2

Yea last first, I'd say lose the middle 2. You dont need to use as many pictures as it lets you
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:37 PM
2

Its like learning the rules to a game you never knew you were playing
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:31 PM
1

Someday I'll fuck that dudes wife
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:28 PM
1

You can love but love for what she is, awalt, and not for a self defined fantasy
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:05 PM
1

How in a flying fuck am I supposed to know what you want
/r/askTRP06/12/17 04:32 PM
2

Youve gotta do soul work man, its not all mind and body
/r/askTRP06/12/17 03:52 AM
1

Tell us when you get there, sharing your goals is a fast way to sink them
/r/askTRP05/12/17 02:41 PM
2

Soft next means your desired outcome is indifference to hearing from her again
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:54 PM
7

feel free to take that personally
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:11 AM
4

stop giving your attention to this garbage
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:39 AM
1

I can barely keep track of how many dicks this chick took in the context of just this story, then you called her girlfriend? Wash your hands and start fresh
/r/askTRP26/11/17 12:43 PM
40

If you havent been under a barbell lately, you should change that
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 03:52 PM
6

You get to start at square one with so much experience on how to not be a chump. And you're still in shape? Youve got nothing but opportunity
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:36 PM
1

Travel to peru and drink the jungle medicine
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:04 AM
2

Light the fuse and run like a motherfucker
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:46 AM
2

"How about I pick you up from work?" is a loosey goosey indirect way of talking to her. "Come over for a drink" is better. If she cant get there she'll let you know.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:46 PM
1

Failure is part of the process. You'll be less nervous next time
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:35 PM
6

Take a sabbatical dude
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:23 PM
1

pain is the little bitch in you dying. HOLD IT LONGER FAGGOT
/r/askTRP21/11/17 04:15 PM
7

This is a concept a lot of guys miss. You need to be realistic with the rate of change you can achieve. willpower needs conditioning just like muscles and mind. ie dont bite off more than you can chew
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:55 PM
4

You made her threshold for looks and proved to have what I can only assume was a much stronger emotional frame than that poor dude
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:56 PM
1

Who would have fuckin thought that the list of traits prescribed by women about what they want would be ass backwards because women ALWAYS know what they want. Blows my fucking mind Your hypothesis is wrong. You even made the point it was wrong. Have you ever seen the attractive guy who runs his mouth trying to captivate a group with exciting stories and conversation? He's popular but he gets laid a lot less. If she fucks the center of attention, thats way more likely to go on her record. Beyond…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 04:44 AM
1

Let her catch you sniffin around some half dressed ass
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:11 AM
2

Starting a new habit demands willpower. Youve only got so much willpower to expend on a given day. Take each change, focus enough willpower to make sure that just that gets done along with the existing habits of your life. When the new habit is built into the order of your life, start again with a new habit. This also helps for addictions. Maybe youll find you can take 2-3 news habits on successfully for a week, but the idea is to give your willpower a load that it can manage
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:24 PM
3

Do it, take yourself out of the race
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:14 PM
1

You're doing it wrong
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:54 PM
2

No you're gross and ugly
/r/askTRP10/11/17 09:01 PM
0

That sounds like quite the run around for some tail
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 02:47 PM
3

When you are learning you will suck, but youll suck less each time. This is why the first piece of advice is to lift. Iron makes you honest about where you really stand but you are guaranteed definate results if you put in the time and calories. Every measurable skill in your life needs fuel and time to improve
/r/askTRP08/11/17 02:30 AM
1

After you conduct primal mating dances with the chick, its important to pull her aside for light chit chat/teasing, freshen your drink etc. Then back to more dancing or change the venue. Then demand that she come check out your new fishtank and smoke a bowl.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 09:20 PM
1

Youre running on the assumption that all red pillers have passed judgement on feminine nature that it is horrible and despicable. You can judge truth in any way contrivable but after your emotions settle, you're still an animal driven to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:43 PM
7

If I ever meet a man in your position, I will give him compassion
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 04:29 AM
2

Theres a fair to good chance that if its about you, she wont tell you or she wont be able to explain it. If its about something external, she may or may not tell you on her own, but either way your best response is fatherly affection and comfort
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:49 PM
3

Think of marriage as a really shit deal. You marry because you want children. After you get children you pay your wife until she stops fucking you and you buy out for the low price of half your shit and monthly tribute. If you're a skilled negotiator you can have that child outside of marriage but im no legal expert and Im sure the long dick of the law would find a way to get your money in her pocket. What do you stand to gain from marriage?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:01 PM
1

Read the fucking sidebar for this shit
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:53 PM
1

There's always another hot chick you havent fucked up royally with. Rub some dirt in it and move on
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:20 PM
2

Explaining your lifes mission to every bimbo in a bar or every halfwit who dares to ask is a waste of your time. Discern who it matters to share that with. Otherwise youre touting it for validation. Your mission in that moment at that bar is to get your dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 02:57 PM
6

No they didnt. They might have thought it was interesting but she's out at a bar looking to get fucked. So are you. He got distracted so far from the moment that she dried up. Then he was upset because she never had the immaculate orgasm from his beautiful intelligent words.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 01:14 AM
2

Nice. Now jump off a bridge you miserable twat
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:22 PM
116

The smart girl still wants to get fucked by the guy who has fun. Not the guy who drones about waveforms in a confused attempt at getting her wet. Listen to whatever nonsense she's spouting and give her shit about it here and there. If she wanted to fuck a waveform she'd get a vibrator
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:07 PM
1

I'd start sniffing that out
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:41 AM
4

It sounds like youve got everything figured out that you were told was important but you never stopped to ask what YOU were passionate about. It doesnt have to be your career or lifting weights. What was the last thing you dove head first into just because you saw it and thought "fuck that looks fun." ?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:27 PM
2

I wouldnt date a woman because of her career or education, and I wouldnt complain about paying for things. I wouldnt pay in the first place. If a relationship developes for me it does so with mutual investment of time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 08:58 PM
-2

I'm not your fuckin friend
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:24 AM
4

Stop freezing up around chicks. Make words with your mouth thatll probably sound like dogshit. Repeat until you sound less like dogshit
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:22 AM
7

First and foremost, a dog is a companion. That is the only motivation you should have. If your first move after picking up the animal is to start sniffin for bitches you need to reconsider. Others have hit on it. Don't go out and claim responsibility for an animal if you do not fully understand the responsibility it entails. Yea, having a dog that is trained and obedient is a display of frame. But if you get a dog while the rest of your life is still a mess and that dog becomes a part of your me…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 04:21 AM
2

Fuck off loser, respect the art
/r/askTRP21/10/17 02:28 AM
1

Get a side hustle
/r/askTRP20/10/17 10:15 PM
1

camhanes
/r/askTRP20/10/17 04:45 PM
1

Lmao youve got a year. as far as prepping for school the only thing on your mind should be hitting the ground running with your classes. dont go overboard with it but expose yourself to the material and chart a tentative course for your studies. spoiler, itll probably change. As far as everything else, that should be steady state for life. lmao you dont prep for school by lifting. good diet will help you mentally but if the school is going to put you in uncarted social territory relax. don't "tr…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 02:19 PM
8

It isnt a matter of TRP spreading through society. It's the pendulum swinging in the other direction where society has rung out every bit of masculinity from the majority and 'men' collectively chop off their dicks out of shame. We're in a societal surge of blue. society has a tendency to overcorrect
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:20 PM
2

ahahahahahahahah she caught you choking the chicken
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:22 AM
1

Sounds like bartending. Either way be cool. Keep focus on the job at hand, that's your priority. Give her a line or two of superficial small talk if you run into her. Keep it pleasant, zero drama, because if she wants anything itll be drama. There's a good chance she'll be overtly flirty with guys there. If its getting you distracted remember thats exactly what she wants and dont give her the satisfaction. Dont base your actions and words on trying to get a reaction out of her either, they smell…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:31 AM
3

If you want to see the practical inverse of this, and you have a dog, spend some time at a dog park. pay attention to what kind of owners a dog walks all over. It's almost exclusively soyboys and carpetmunchers. Suprisingly the soyboys roll over and accept the poor behavior. The lesbians frantically struggle to control their animal, then spout to anyone in earshot about their bullshit training.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 08:25 PM
1

Real friends and pussy dont come from logic. The fact that this guy is comfortable shitting on you should show yall are close. He's being fully honest with you because he has an investment in you as a person. You're still here because you're invested in him. You guys have foundation. If you're boring and serious, not fun to be around for the record, ask yourself why he'd want to spend time with you because he doesnt want to carry a wet rug around his whole life. Would you want to make him do tha…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:36 PM
2

Dudes jest with each other. If you guys have any shread of status, odds are its an unconcious fitness test. He doesnt want to wing for a miserable chump with no sense of wit, thats a waste of his time. Just do it with a shit eating grin. Making playful banter a regular thing with your friends makes it a regular thing with women. It becomes instinct. Nobody wants to fuck a senseless accountant. One last thing, you're putting a lot of stress on making connections in your senior year, its not that …
/r/askTRP17/10/17 12:07 PM
1

Lmao these fucks have no sense of humor
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:58 AM
1

Wtf you actually read that waste of time list?
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:55 AM
2

If this is her Idea you wait for her to buy tickets. Dont say anything. Dont mention the musical again. If she doesnt because she expects you to, that's her loss, you could give a fuck about the musical. If she gets both, cool, you got a free ticket to the musical. If she gets mad at you for not investing time and money in your big night out with her, laugh in her face and watch her go haywire. That's when you get real sex. But overall, unless she brings up the musical again, do not speak of it
/r/askTRP17/10/17 11:47 AM
2

I'd start looking at the men above you instead of the ones below.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:16 PM
12

Life is great. I look forward to the normalization of open relationship where I get to stuff every poor chumps wife because society shamed him into it. The idea of offspring spread far and wide amoging their "fathers" stirs my loins. When the actual majority of children is genetically predisposed to strength and discipline, thats when the pendulum swings the other way and the west becomes a masculine powerhouse. Keep swimming against the current
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:10 PM
0

You're going to laugh at yourself for this in a few years
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:11 AM
3

I'm two months since a breakup. It still hurts. Be patient dude. you'll heal. you'll think less about your ex. You'll find your mojo. Keep making progress and taking care of yourself. diet, sleep, exercise, stop watching porn/facebook. Take them one at a time as a focus if you have to. one a week. dont obsess over getting laid again. Keep going out and getting shot down. recognize progress when you see it. You'll live to fuck another day. reaching out to male friends helps a lot too.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:38 AM
3

I'd ask yourself if she's in love with you or the idea of having a family. She knows she's gotta put in legwork to get a husband. She could do way better than you but at the sacrifice of comfort.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:30 AM
6

Cut her out. That relationship will always be exhausting and distracting and it will certainly not positively contribute to your overarching goals. She's trying to create emotional spikes in your life that keep you hooked on a feeling. The eclectic feelings from sex, to the nausea of infidelity, to the anger from insult shes playing your emotions like a fiddle, and you can be sure that will not change if you go back with her.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 01:39 AM
3

Yes. Those lower than you on the sexual totem pole know it. They get flustered and avoid looking you in the eye. Be patient and unjudgemental of them in this state and they will come to favor you more for it
/r/askTRP15/10/17 12:50 AM
25

And when did yall break out into song and dance?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:14 PM
37

This post lacks substance and basic composition
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:05 PM
1

Woof yea that last one hits close. I dated a girl in a group like this and got woven in with the crew for a while. I started out as just a connection to my buddy who was good with the lot of them. alone and taggin for the ride at a festival. I had no idea the type of insidious BP attitude and angst that a lot of those dudes had under the surface. I got such a mix of love and hate from them because the guys saw me as a threat to their order but I was just having fun enjoying myself. Shit was supe…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:56 PM
1

Who gives a fuck
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:00 PM
8

You asked her for a breakup? Thats not how it works. You're the man, you do the dirty work, you declare your intentions and embody them
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:56 AM
1

she was a succubus that stole your fire
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:55 PM
1

Remember to slow down and breathe. follow your gut and don't talk too much.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:02 AM
5

do things that make you uncomfortable. slow down when it gets to the point where discomfort means actual physical danger
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:58 AM
1

Buddy. Lies vanity and manipulation are just part of the jungle.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:52 AM
1

You dont learn to be witty or funny or "strike up a conversation with a female"... you talk to people. dudes. chicks. kids. dogs. you stop trying to put a smile on peoples faces and speak the most brutal truth you can almost comfortably muster. rinse and repeat
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:42 AM
3

When she didnt say no, she was testing to see if you followed the order of weak men or you were a man who would relentlessly fuck her like she so desperately needs.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:26 AM
1

If you have to ask probably not
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:20 AM
1

Haha youre a virtuous loser. most men are weak pushovers who need a taste of raw human nature. if a man lets a woman destroy him he deserves to run extinct. to either be strung up as a financial bloodbag for a clever woman or cucked to provide his resources to the child of a stronger man. have a lovely crusade against pussy you miserable fuck
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:20 AM
1

how old are you?
/r/askTRP08/10/17 07:58 AM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:34 PM
2

Dude, her biological clock is up. Youve got time to be wishy washy and slow with a relationship but her best odds for reproductions are to spray and pray at this point. She's spent 38 years learning how to manipulate and engrain herself into your life. She's a flawless actress with one goal. Convince one of the dudes Im fucking to jizz on my last egg
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:23 PM
1

They were probably making fun of you
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:12 PM
1

Nope, this dude knows nothing, ignore him
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:05 PM
1

Go outside nerd
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:04 PM
1

J cole, led zepplin, the weeknd, G eazy
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:21 PM
1

You arent ready to be in this relationship. You arent mature enough for a ltr. Good little christian girls turn into strippers because daddy tried to use force and emotion to control them instead of leading by example. This relationship is dead. The image of you're broken immasculated frame is burned into her memory like a scar. If you can't hold yoursef together over a digital connection between colleages how the fuck are you supposed to be her rock of protection when something actually comes a…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:09 PM
5

No idea who you that is but no, develope your own brand
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:51 PM
1

Work smart and hard, you havent earned respect.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:51 PM
6

You're gonna be alright man
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:48 PM
22

Dude, I read through the posts on your situation and you need to let go of your anger. You had the opportunity at many points to drop this chick but you didnt hold frame and things got messy. You say she's dead to you, but you let yourself get would up in all of her nonsense and rationalized going on a vacation with her that you obviously werent ready for because you still had the idea that you could keep fucking this girl. Because you wanted her for something you got nutty about her and who she…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:32 PM
1

oloolololloooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 04:05 AM
2

slow sown with the things you are doing, you suck at them and need better practice
/r/askTRP30/09/17 12:47 PM
1

Stop putting so much pressure on what you think might happen or want to happen, thatll will just make sure it doesnt. Go share a drink and catch up with this person. Be the genuine improved version of yourself and flirt with her. There's a decent chance you can fuck her if you dont walk in with a look that says "I really hope I get to see you naked after this". After all, you're valuable and you need to vet her too. Maybe you'll fuck, maybe youve have fun getting a drink with an old friend, mayb…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:21 PM
3

This is straight arrogant. You did cannabis wrong if it made you a lazy glutton. You're parroting what you've heard about it. You can enjoy weed like you enjoy any other vice. Should I never drink alcohol because theres a chance I'll become an alcoholic? Should I never eat a cookie because it could make me diabetic? Lighten up and have an ounce of willpower, nothing should be polarized down to an absolute yes or no
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:12 PM
1

Best he can do is walk with his head high. the less reactionary he is to the hate the more attraction will swing back his way when the girls get bored
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 08:55 PM
4

I fucked this up last night. Went out without weed last night and could not bring myself to approach a girl that literally waved at me giggling with her friend from across the venue
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 06:21 PM
3

This dudes seen the inside of satans asshole, he'll be fine
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 10:12 PM
2

Treat the women you work with like men.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:03 PM
1

I'd argue that spending some amount of money on her as a LTR would benefit the relationship. Don't operate on the expectation daddy will pay for everything. pay half and half regularly but operating under the frame of, "I don't care if you spend daddys money but I'm going to provide for myself" will reinforce the dynamic that her Dad's money doesnt matter in the context of the relationship. There's mo way you can outprovide the father, but so long as you operate independently, that fact will not…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:02 PM
3

It sounds like youre asking if you should ease up on your life because you're fucking a girl with resources. Accept her gifts but in no way should you slow down on making your nut. If you arent providing for her at some point she will get bored and discard you. She's 18, her mood and perception of things will change drastically over the next few years. Enjoy the ride howerever long it lasts
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:20 PM
1

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Go for a walk, ideally in nature
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:37 PM
1

Positive. I'm tall with a good build and it doesnt matter if I'm 2days without shower, hair's a mess and my scruff is long. I'm in sweats and a tank. Chicks get wide eyed and dudes glance at me repeatedly with a look of what I can only describe as a mix of hate confusion and terror.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:34 PM
1

"Daddy's home"
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:27 PM
2

I swear undergrads are the laziest motherfuckers in the universe
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:24 PM
3

You're going to school more mature than the standard 18year old. Get in the habit of treating school like a job. Be on campus and taking care of things by 9, leave when you've taken care of everything you need to for the day. This will give you free time to live an interesting life outside of school. Stem majors complain about not enough time but my better guess is that they suck at managing it. My students(frosh and soph) always seem like convicts trying to bust out of class early by any means …
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:22 PM
1

Be careful at the supermarket, you're at risk of taking a watermelon to the dick👌🏿
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 01:54 AM
12

Nope, you're not there to "game". You're there because its a fuckin ballin party. Legality wise its a small risk to find psychoactive chemicals. No cop gives a shit about an average festy and their personal use. Its culture there. Health wise test your goods or get them from someone you trust. If you actually have lsd and mdma, and take them responsibly, they are safer than getting behind the wheel of a car. Take them at the same time even. Shrooms too. Just stay hydrated
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 09:11 PM
0

Nobody consciously knows to shit test, it's something you throw at people to test their wit and humor. Everybody half interesting knows that challenge is fun. Just don't be sour when you fail
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:05 PM
19

Silly shit works man, nonsense is fun for chicks
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 03:35 AM
60

PSA if you indulge in molly or lucy or other party favors you will be emotionally compromised. You bond incredibly quickly since these drugs amplify your empathy and let you open up. Festivals are generally places be open and expressive in the first place. If you're inexperienced you are way more likely to catch feels than at clubs and bars. The festival isnt a fairytale, its a facade. You can live in the fairytale for a weekend, but don't try taking it home. That said, those drugs are a hell of…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 03:33 AM
1

Dude, just cover your ass and have fun. Answers to those questions won't do anything for you. When your gut tells you run, don't hesitate. And by cover your ass I mean don't let her have pregnancy leverage
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:53 PM
0

Make a version of your resume highlighting any exp with the service industry, your ability to multitask in a fast paced enviroment, and your ability to stay organized. Put a decent photo on your resume. Keep it simple. They want efficiency with a smile, not chatty. Put on clean clothes that fit the style of places you want to work. I wore a black v neck with well fit jeans. GOTO the bars with resume in hand. Within half an hour of when they open for the day or during quiet hours(3-4). Pardon you…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 01:05 PM
45

I made this mistake when I was younger. It started out as a hot chick my frat bro dated that seemed super into me. Then she made herself more and more convenient for me to fuck even when he was living a room across from me. Eventually it was just more convenient to fuck only her than other chicks. Then I got complacent and comfortable, not pursuing other chicks at all. I could not have imagined the emotional battery. Innocent meetups with exes. Gaslighting my brothers and I when we were fucked u…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 08:42 PM
1

Your value as a man comes from the resources you possess and have the potential to earn. Women will never be a resource. You can't own them. The system doesnt work like that. But you get to exchange some of your resources (time, money, weed) for renting pussy. In some way we all pay for it. Some of us get a better deal, and some of you get a shit deal. You can't gamble if you run out of chips. If you're happy with the resources you have, you can just work on negotiating, but I'd argue youve got …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:15 PM
5

They go to check out my glutes and slam brews bruh. After my chick is done beating them off with a stick she fucks me like an artist. Don't shit on my party
/r/askTRP05/09/17 01:02 AM
1

This is the only rational comment I've seen
/r/askTRP05/09/17 12:55 AM
-5

Cause you're too much of a bitch to accept the truth
/r/askTRP05/09/17 12:53 AM
2

Music if you afford a cheap guitar. Cooking because you have to eat and soend money on it anyways. getting good in the kitchen makes it easier to eat healthy. Learn how to make cocktails, way to simple and incredibly useful. Go hiking at local nature preserves/ trails/ mountains. pretty much meditation and fresh air
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:27 PM
2

She understands what needs to be said for you to leave or stick around. Remember that
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:07 PM
2

Imagine you ran into a dude that you got in a fight with physically a year before, and he straight up beat the fuck out of you. This chick did that but emotionally. You know that she was able to manipulate you and threaten your resources. You don't trust her or her intentions anymore. But you understand that she got under your skin before and has the potential to do it again. whether or not you're fucking hotter chick, she knows how to whisper in your ear.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:02 PM
1

There arent many situations thatd actually warrant you telling her that, it just brings you down a peg. Silence amplifies power. She sees it from how people respond to your presence
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:51 AM
1

A mile of dick
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:41 AM
2

You can call it drones in a big corporate office but that just makes more likely for HR to burn your ass the first second you dip your pen around the office. You might not give a fuck about this job but your next job will.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:48 PM
2

Dude, learn how to enjoy yourself. You can play the game, learn everything about the game, master the game, but if you're not having fun playing the game, nobody will play with you
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:45 PM
2

Welcome to the 21st century, where the internet has turned us into high functioning autists
/r/askTRP05/08/17 01:36 AM
1

I did friday and saturdays bartending for money in grad school, stem. Made a wide group of friendly faces for me to meet at bars. Not close with any but enough to have inherent status
/r/askTRP20/07/17 05:20 AM
7

You made the mistake of asking her to be fuckbuddies. She got all the validation she needed from you, why bother actually fucking you? You killed the sexual tension by removing the uncertainty. You can't genuinely push her away and pull her back when she knows you wanna fuk. Situation isnt lost though, don't aknowledge that you ever had that conversation with her. Dominate her with eye contact and make blatant comforting physical contact at first. work to transition from comforting to sexual. An…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 03:01 PM
2

Cultivate emotional relationships that are independent of sexual relationships. In LTRs guys have an outlet for vulnerability. We let ourselves get a little blue because we feel safe and trust the girl, regardless of if we should. If you lack external emotional relationships you put it all in the girl. Diversify that portfolio so that when one relationship breaks, the others hold you up. You can trust women, just do it with the understanding that they have different motivations in life. Do not h…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:18 PM
2

Nope, do not follow a word of this dude. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. You are her safety net. Remove her from your life clean and quiet. She doesnt exist to you. If you obsess over villifying her, she'll turn it on you and play the victim.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:43 AM
2

That's his past, it doesnt matter, he's changed and just wants to be a good politician now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:45 PM
1

you arent funny because you're still looking for a formula for it.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:30 PM
1

hahhhahaaaaaaahahahaaaaaa
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:05 AM
2

april fools?
/r/askTRP01/04/17 09:36 PM
2

Why did you decide to live with 3 women?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 02:00 AM
1

sore as fuck
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:13 PM
1

She was saying long before losing that fighting wasnt her end game. thats why she started getting her feet wet with gigs like the entourage movie.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 01:06 PM
2

I've got bigger fish to fry than chit chatting politics
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 01:01 PM
1

your car metaphor is ridiculous. vehicles are delicate pieces of technology that require near absolute certainty of their inputs and outputs to "survive". Humans could live off of dogfood in the worst cases. we are garbage disposals designed to extract energy from certain sources of other organic matter. the obesity problem has only become such in the last half century or so when humans became addicted to food designed by scientists
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:24 PM
3

agreeed, obsessing over your diet as a slew of numbers is silly. Diets fail due to overcomplexity, any processed or premade food is engineered to be addictive
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 07:32 PM
0

"I'm boring" stop humanizing how interesting you are and just follow your fucking nose. do you think dan bilzerian walks into a room and talks about how he's such an interesting stud? no. Its the classic example of the archer tryinging to win the first place trophy. if you want the trophy, you give your undivided attention to the bullseye. if he looks at the trophy, even thinks about it, he misses the bullseye. In that moment, you noticed her looking at you. "Girl, you had better be careful thro…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:37 AM
2

stop taking shit seriously, life is silly
/r/askTRP02/11/16 10:13 PM
1

so fuckin what if she's blown a stranger. you're fucking this chick, not marrying her
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:23 PM
2

then what are you worried about? sounds like you have a course of action for any outcome. what you shouldnt do is come off as insecure. if she thinks you think she'll cheat, she's more likely too. slowly start taking your attention away. she'll be more worried about keeping you around than partying on the trip
/r/askTRP06/10/16 11:48 AM
0

this is a new level of idiocracy
/r/askTRP27/08/16 03:10 PM
1

Stop treating your job like highschool, grow the fuck up. Bullying coworkers is at the very least a good way to kill any potential promotions
/r/askTRP27/08/16 02:55 PM
2

having trained dogs and the majority of close people in my life I disagree. Reward what you like, ignore what you dont, correct whats dangerous
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 04:27 PM
1

A girl will never think about dropping you as long as she thinks you wont care
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 01:01 AM
2

yea, what this guy said. throwing a temper tantrum just looks like an emotional mess. Lighting all those fires has as good of a chance to burn you as it does her
/r/askTRP10/07/16 12:44 PM
1

or stop having coffee as a vice
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 07:06 PM
2

ditto, i have a car for groceries and visiting out of town relatives. biking has left me as cut as ever. plus the money saved on gas, i fill up $30 every 45 days. plus consolidating fitness with commuting. living in a city, i actually get to work faster on a bike
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 07:03 PM
105

I think we're all pete's. Chad is just the dreamful archetype we all strive for
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 05:44 PM
1

I like to think its real, but hamsters physically cant run that fast
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 05:41 PM
2

there is no situation to deal with. dont fight the lack of control. a meditation from marcus aurelius i came across recently. "ambition means tying well being to what others say and do. self-indulgence is tying it to what happens to you. sanity is tying it to your own actions". there is no sane action you can take with regards to her
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:56 PM
9

asking/accusing her about anything wont do you any good. your concern about infidelity in her comes off as insecure mate guarding. it creates the image that you are afraid of losing her. dont bother even having a conversation about it. with that in mind you should be prepared to walk away from this girl without even a conversation. any less and you might as well break it off now. im not going to tell you that theyve already fucked or that her being up partying till 5am is a surefire sign that sh…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:37 PM
-2

you must be new here, what do you stand to gain from balking at someone elses ignorance
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 10:02 PM
1

"social media account proves that white knighting and catering to women is an epidemic and out of control" One extreme social media account is not enough of a sample to propose that theory. You are doing exactly what the media does by pointing at an extreme outlier and claiming it as a generalization. As well Its not our job to control it. If some dude makes his dough by telling the weak exactly what they want to hear, why the fuck do you care. This dude could be the biggest chump of all time or…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:43 PM
2

i do some lite yoga poses as a warmup before bjj and after several months my flexibility has improved dramatically. i cant speak for its spiritual implications but agilitywise im miles from where i was
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:33 PM
1

no, the experience isnt about a dopamine rush. separate from that, you build up an immediate tolerance where the day after you would need 400% of your previous dose to have an equivalent experience. as well, the ld50 is several orders of magitude larger than the average dose. very very low potential for abuse. id urg you to do your own research on the substances. theres plenty of information on them
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 09:13 PM
0

the ocassional psychadelic experience has taught me more about myself and the world around me than anything I've ever read here. Im not tripping balls every other week, but nothing has been more helpful with deep internal thought than a moderate-low dose of psilocybin, lsa or lsd. maybe 2-3 times a year. lsd cut habitual cigarettes for me, shrooms showed me my passions, and lsa gave me profound respect for the natural world. obviously not all drugs are created equal and the term "drug" is like c…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 12:33 PM
1

You dont have to prove anything about these guys to me. I dont give a fuck what you do, thats not my choice. Its important to understand that that going greek isnt some magic solution to having fun in college. working hard at grades, your body, and networking is critical no matter what you do.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:24 PM
3

Joining a Fraternity was incredibly beneficial for me, but I wouldn't polarize it in terms of top and bottom tier. You should surround yourself with driven people because you are the average of the 5 people closest to you. Yes, you'll be closer with some guys in the house. That's how it works. In the end you're all working for the same goal. Trying to get paid and get laid. The frat with the best GPA on my campus was 100% antisocial nerds. Their rush events consisted of LAN parties and pizza. I'…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:24 PM
29

She cant play that game, she will always fold first because you don't need her. If you've been reading anything here you should have an amazing life to immerse yourself in with or without her.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:20 PM
32

I've said this before, conditioning is the same practice for training anyone/thing. Reward what you like, ignore what you don't, correct what's dangerous. Whether its your dog or a broad, the most devastating thing you can do is starve them of your attention. Attention is your most primal currency as a man.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:17 PM
1

Step 6. Read 4 hour work week for the full picture
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:35 PM
0

Your sister's soon to be ex husband isn't necessarily a perfectly good man. Just because he has a good job and provides? You can't be sexually attracted to an ATM. The way I see it she's making an economically sound decision. Not right or wrong, logical. She gets to go find men who she is attracted to yet still reap the monetary benefits of a husband. Don't hate the player, hate the game
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 10:14 PM
0

You are trying to project misogyny onto me. My statement had nothing to do with calling women inferior to men. Gender differences exist to complement each other not exceed. You are a poor reader, I said that a promiscuous woman CAN have a low smv, not does. A man of the same value will not have as many partners. Therefore a man must earn his value in order to sleep around. Again, stop projecting your own hate of women onto me. The nuclear family was destroyed in the 70s. Women work and can take …
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:24 PM
-1

If you are in the mindset that a man who sleeps around is the same thing as a woman who sleeps around, then this discussion is over. Men and women are vastly different psychologically and physically. A slut can go out and get laid whenever she cares to. Men will sleep with a lower smv woman if she makes it easy enough for him. Women are much less likely to sleep with a man who has a low smv. This is why less than 40% of men reproduce while 60% of women do. Sexual rejection for women is far more …
/r/askTRP11/02/16 06:45 PM
2

This is a fairly blanket statement about TRP. You need to understand that the anger and shaming comes from a massive overcorrection when a man is told that everything he knew about making dynamics was a lie. It depends on the individual for how long this anger lasts but everyone moves past it. Slut shaming is a result of this anger. I've come to the understanding that caring passionately about something like that is a waste of my own energy. Promiscuous women are fine to have fun with but I'd ne…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 05:27 PM
2

You can't point that example anywhere at first world culture. People complain that their water tastes funny or that they don't want mushrooms on their steak. And besides that 99.9% of the time the victim mentality is shamed in TRP. That shit doesn't fly with us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 10:27 PM
2

Some half-assed slander will only lead people here
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 09:17 PM
1

I opened with a hyperbole. Then closed with "actual racism is a rarity in young modern society." Not nonexistent, rare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:59 PM
2

There are also forums for pedophiles and gays who want to spread HIV. That doesn't make them a substantial population
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:47 PM
3

Because it generates discussion. Censorship is a toxic practice, you shouldn't ever be afraid to hear and make decisions about viewpoints you don't agree with. As long as someone is genuinely trying to add insight, why shut them down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:42 PM
-1

Does anyone actively hate black people anymore? Some people might act differently around other races because sjws have turned minorities into social pariahs that makes everyone walk on eggshells around them, but that's the fault of liberals. Actual racism is rare in young modern society and continuously dieing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 08:31 PM
4

Champ, you don't "redpill" someone. People find this place when life leads them to it.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 02:34 PM
5

I'd say this is better, but to each their own https://youtu.be/7ToGjYYJCoM
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:50 PM
1

Negging and joking about flaws isn't harmful. You're coming off as a cunt for thinking women are so fragile that they can't handle some playful verbal jesting. Dudes do it to dudes all the time, its just called busting balls in that context. It's how we gauge someone's frame of any gender. Girls don't need your rescue
/r/seduction07/02/16 01:42 PM
1

That seems over the top wierd, watch out for crazy
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 09:46 PM
1

You've gotta make your intentions known champ. You're coming off as a pussy by admitting that you lied to get her number because you were too insecure to make a move in person. More likely than not, making a move over text will come off as creepy and beta.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 08:20 PM
1

While you were hiding in the bushes stalking your prey, you failed to notice the 100 other women that you could have taken a shot at. I know for certain that they're better than this girl who complains about shitty sex from her boyfriend publicly.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 02:11 AM
3

"The cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for" -Jack Reacher
/r/askTRP05/02/16 01:27 AM
4

Glad to see Gavin's perspective on it. His view on things typically aligns pretty well with our content, but from a traditional standpoint on masculinity (ie promoting marriage). I wouldn't be surprised if he was a reader here.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 10:04 PM
1

You have chosen wisely
/r/askTRP04/02/16 07:49 PM
3

Listen to this guy, understand that your status and available women will never be what they were at this point in your life. There's a 99% chance you won't be with this girl next year from what you've told us
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:18 PM
6

BOOM
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:12 PM
1

The sooner you accept it, the sooner things get better. And things only get better, regardless of age.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:14 AM
12

I'm nearly 23 living in a major city. I'm living off a sparse income from grad school and I'm about avg in terms of bare looks. I haven't had a problem getting laid here. The last few months Ive been mostly successful with girls near the wall and post wall. I couldnt care less if they're 7-10 years older than me. They fuck like rabbits and are desparate for attention because guys their age are shooting for the girls our age. We're young poor and stupid compared to a successful 30yo guy. This sto…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:55 PM
-1

Cognitive psychology tells us that maybe 10% of people would have the capacity to react with a fight response in a situation like that. All you need is a few more armed roomates
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:31 PM
7

At the intensity most krav classes in the states are taught at, its pointless. Training with a bunch of half assed moms and weekend warriors will do shit in preparing you for actual conflict. And muay Thai is great, but you dont seem to have much a clue what it is. For starters, its striking not grappling. Very amateur distinction for someone who so readily wants to give advice. There's some work from a clinch but that's the extent of it. A well rounded fighter should have a striking(boxing/muay…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:23 PM
-3

I'm all for guns, learning wepon safety is fantastic. But unless you're trained in shooting under high stress circumstances, you might as well throw rocks. Effectively using a weapon with that amount off adrenaline pumping is a trained skill. Plinking targets at the range is a cute hobby though, keep it up
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:08 PM
2

I saw a comment in asktrp a while back that summed it up perfect, that the subreddit had devolved into "dudes asking other dudes how to wipe their own ass"
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 05:55 PM
6

I came here to berate an angry beta who was mad at a girl because he wasn't enough of a man. You seem to be headed in the right direction though. You understand that blaming the other player when you don't know the rules to the game is childish. Keep that head about you. Attraction from her is your responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:35 AM
3

"9.5 but not very smart or interesting" Well for starters she's your live in prostitute. Ask yourself honestly, would she still be with you if you cut her off? I'd argue that moving in together was a huge mistake, but I'll go with it. Lay it out that she needs to pay for her share or move out. She can feel the sunk cost fallacy growing in you, pouring your hard work into her lifestyle just because. She knows that even if you have options, you've already dug yourself into this one too deep to try…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 03:22 AM
1

A woman can do as she pleases with her sexuality. I couldn't care less. A workfree lay once in a while is great. But just like she doesn't want to date a poor man, I don't want to date a promiscuous woman. And you telling me that I shouldn't have that preference is almost as stupid as you telling me to replace the word slut with alpha woman. I'm in grad school right now and fairly poor. That word comes with the choices I've made. And even though the word slut comes with a negative connotation, i…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:50 PM
2

You don't have to say you just want a fuck and to never see her again, but lying to her actually comes off as more blue. Guys understand that they wouldn't date a girl loose with pussy and girls understand that a guy specifically looking for love probably isn't a great catch. Tread towards mystery
/r/seduction31/01/16 01:44 AM
17

Why would you think showing her RP material is a good idea
/r/askTRP31/01/16 01:39 AM
2

Game is the art of not being a goober in the presence of women
/r/askTRP31/01/16 01:21 AM
41

Trump's campaign has been a spectacle. He's held everyone's eye from every party. Whether it's a positive or negative look at him, liberal keyboard warriors are slandering him 5x more than they're supporting their own candidates. They could never wrap their head around the fact that this is exactly what trump wants.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:30 AM
5

She wants to feel comfortable again, chances are something didn't go her way and she's feeling sorry for herself
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:50 AM
1

Travel if you can financially
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:49 AM
1

Really take away from this. She didn't mess with your head, you let your head be messed with. You could've prevented it but you chose not to
/r/askTRP24/01/16 02:38 AM
-1

Get a load of the bloop
/r/askTRP17/01/16 11:46 PM
5

If you tell her to stop leading you, it comes off as insecure. As long as it doesn't mean doing something you don't want to do let the kid play. When she fucks up, don't hesitate to take the wheel. In the end, she's just a plate. If she wants to play wonder woman and take the reigns for a while, let her give you the free time
/r/askTRP17/01/16 11:37 PM
3

Why are you talking to an ex
/r/askTRP17/01/16 11:32 PM
8

If you have to ask, you probably are
/r/askTRP17/01/16 11:27 PM
3

meditate some dude
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:28 PM
2

If he had any sort of product he was pushing, it would've affected it. I'm pretty certain he's just old and wants to be left alone though. That dude made his nut a long time ago.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 12:38 PM
1

I could care less if you're trying to advertise your blog, but if you're posting here there needs to be content on Reddit w/o a link
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 12:23 PM
8

I mean, they get paid
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:48 PM
0

I can think of many things I'd rather do with that money. There isn't anything that they will tell you that hasn't already been said. What they will do is use peer pressure to get you motivated. Get some friends who aren't afraid to talk about gaming women and go out for yourself
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:36 PM
2

Make spaghettios
/r/seduction14/01/16 04:14 AM
10

Do I have to fucking repeat myself? He's poison. Stop being his friend just because he's a small connection to your ex. You're blind about this
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:33 PM
11

Bro you fucked up a long time ago. You say you're not close to this dude who's still very plugged in and then went ahead and spilled your blueprints to him. This dude who still has connections to your ex. An ex who you were "over", tried to plate, and then couldn't. And you still give a shit what she thinks. Listen to what you wrote and be honest with yourself. You wanted to find any way to put yourself in your ex's thoughts. Give it up man. It doesn't matter what she thinks. Cut the dude out of…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:23 PM
9

Ages? This is always more information than people think. She wants a child. Her medula oblaninstincts are telling her this. She may have thought she could change your mind about another kid. I'd imagine this LTR won't work out with the situation you guys are in. She wants a man to support her and a child she wants (that shit test doesnt come off as an empty threat). I'd really consider moving out of this. You can break it off now because she isn't going to change her mind, or stay in it only for…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:24 PM
3

As incoherent as that read, I couldn't stop laughing
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 06:26 PM
0

"Do you want to have sex?" Just sounds stupid. Tell her to toss your salad and be firm. You're welcome
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:01 AM
3

Alcohol is awful for you, that's no big secret. Itll will make you fat, soften your dick, and kill all of your brain cells. But fuck it, hot dogs give you cancer. Cut it out if you want, but just know that you'll probably have to make new friends. Sober. If you're in college, they probably play d&d on Friday night. After college you'll be fine. My rule is to not use anything as a crutch. I don't look to booze when I'm sad or angry. I don't light a cig when I'm stressed. But having 3 or 4 drinks …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:44 AM
6

Don't listen to this guy. You can spare a minimal "sup girl" or "who's this?" while taking a shit. Yea, there's a billion other women, but the 5 seconds it will take to respond is a no brainer when you look at the time investment of going after fresh girl. You could start a girl from scratch but why throw out cookies already half baked? Don't give her validation, prioritize the meetup.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 06:49 PM
9

Its an internet fad, it'll be gone in a week. Your summary is a remarkable exaggeration of the topic you presented. This isn't something that all women will buy into. I could care less about guys who get taken advantage of, its not going to be me. Yet you made it out to be an incoming nuclear attack on the male population while its closer to Zimbabwe threatening to invade the US
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:05 AM
2

A new years resolution is what I'm certain someone won't be doing in 2 months. Probably 1. At my bjj gym the white belts who never come back are the ones who are always the most enthusiastic.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:50 PM
2

Listen to this guy. On top of his suggestions, get your sleep straight. 7-9 hours depending on your activity the day before. Get all light out of your bedroom. Installing flux on your laptop helps too, it filters out harsh blue light that inhibits melatonin(?) Production before bed. I'd argue sleep is the most important factor.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:37 PM
4

Small talk exists to help others determine your social IQ. You might hate it but its necessary. It tells people how you pick up on social cues, exhibit empathy, and in general reinforces that you aren't a lunatic.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:14 AM
13

I wouldn't man. Playing with emotions like that is as likely to blow up in your face as it is hers. In the words of Frank Sinatra "the best revenge is great success" The most likely and effective way of getting back at her is to forget about her. No love, not hate, indifference. Giving her the soap opera you've got planned out in your head is the exact drama she craves. Don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:10 AM
4

This sounds like high school shit. Everyone around you has the attention span of a goldfish. They will be onto the new hot topic next week. Remember KONY 2013? Neither did anyone else after a month, and that guy diddled his child soldiers or some shit. I'd feign ignorance if someone starts talking shit to you. Nobody really gives a damn about what you read in your free time. You should though, stop playing wow.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:56 AM
4

What the fuck?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:48 AM
1

Take a time out and think about what you just said.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:32 AM
1

Her dad knows what 18 yo guys want to do. You know want you want to do. Don't put up a bullshit act of chivalry and honor. Be respectful and respectable
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:39 AM
2

I bet the other guy would have used paragraphs
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:06 PM
1

No man, you won't have as much testosterone as you do now ever again without gear
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:56 PM
5

RP men don't want women to have careers but don't want to spend money on them and taken good care of either if they want to be stay at home moms. They don't want romance either. That's fabricated bullshit. We don't make a point of saying women shouldn't have careers. If you're just around to fuck me, im not paying for your drinks, prostitution is illegal. Despite not advocating marriage, children are raised better in a traditional family home. I'll financially support a woman that I deem suitabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:31 AM
7

Your first mistake was believing her when she hinted that she didn't want sex. 80% of girls will say that they don't want sex at some point. Did you fuck up? Who cares, she doesn't have your balls in a legal vice
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:46 PM
1

No, just quit now and become a feminist's slave boy
/r/askTRP31/12/15 05:54 PM
2

"In jiu-jitsu there is no losing, only winning and learning" Stop obsessing over your sexual history as a scoreboard. You aren't behind or a failure. You're a typical teenager who has suffered from not learning about masculinity due to a feminized society. Think about how you're going to grow stronger as a man and woman will notice. If you fight for their attention, you've already lost.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 03:09 AM
2

Put a little more pull in your push/pull dynamic. This doesn't mean go ultra beta. If she has a delicate ego then make more jokes with her rather than at her.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 12:52 AM
20

No one owes you a god damn thing. if you want shit in this world you cut the victim attitude fucking hustle.
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:35 AM
12

Yes, you are overthinking it 100% Go out and have a good time. Don't make a checklist of goals for it. Don't focus entirely on trying to pick up girls. The biggest problem that most guys have is engaging socially like they're reading from a script. Go out, have fun, and embrace the things that make you uncomfortable. Be your natural self, then reflect on it the next day. What did you do that made people uncomfortable, happy, angry? It's not so much of learning to be social as it is calibrating.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 12:30 AM
2

Great breakdown. Another point, actually make your time valuable to the point where under-investment is natural. You might have to feign importance at first by just waiting to reply intentionally, we all start somewhere. She texted you? do a bodyweight circuit or read another chapter of something meaningful. Do not stare at her reply for 15 minutes calculating every letter you'll answer with. Get into a habit of responding off the cuff. This will make your in person interactions come off as much…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 04:13 AM
1

I need trt to get my life back to normal You need to stop looking for excuses. Men don't look for a quick fix. Generations upon generations of your ancestors got laid without hormone therapy. 450 is within normal limits. Check your diet and sleep. Hormones follow your behavior more than they determine it.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 11:20 PM
3

and even if you get a prenup, do not > get her pregnant. This seems contradictory to me. The only way I'd consider getting married is if my goals change and they involve having a child. For the child's sake, a thoroughly vetted and risk analyzed mother is essential in my eyes. I'd check any man who wants to get married but doesn't want children into a mental hospital.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 09:18 PM
1

I like that
/r/askTRP26/12/15 04:34 PM
1

Instinctually, women know that their looks are going to fade and will be useless at getting them anywhere after the wall. They want to secure a man for support and security. They want to feel safe. They don't have as much testosterone driving them to take risks.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:51 PM
0

"Then you should hit the gym"
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:13 PM
6

Move
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:05 PM
3

Honestly I don't think the topic needs broadening. "Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power" -Oscar Wilde It hits the mark. Becoming a powerful man in some way is essential to mating. That's why this isn't seddit. I interpret steps teaching in 2 ways. The first is giving me the blunt truth about male-female dynamics and theories on the matter. The second is teaching me how to thrive mentally, physically, socially, and emotionally. These aspects go hand in hand. Sexual…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:39 AM
1

Having highly emotional arguments in the first place is a bad idea if you ask me. If you're holding back discontent and letting it out all at once it tells me that you weren't being firm enough as a man to say it when you wanted too. As well, If you find yourself combining separate arguments its a strong signal of uncertainty in yourself. If you lose an argument, don't bring up how much of a cunt her friends are. Accept defeat and move forward. If you don't, both of you start taking shots at whe…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 09:14 PM
1

Jewelry is the worst thing you can get her. Go find u/gaylubeoils gift guide
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:57 PM
5

she lost attraction for you. You didn't give many details but if you're in a young(high school/early college) relationship, especially talking about marriage and kids, I'd bet there's a 99.999% chance it won't work out. Young girls want excitement, not to feel like they're an old married couple. "Heresy grows from idleness". if you're in a stagnant relationship that young, she'll get board. She wants to feel something, good or bad.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:54 AM
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I don't think TRP has to worry about be perceived as SJWs but I wouldn't be surprised if some guys here let manosphere views slip out regularly. This might be just as much of a poison for an interview.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 04:06 PM
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"That's rude" Alright, let's play the moral game even though you're forgetting the bottom line that game is amoral. You think canceling the date is more rude than wasting both of your time and money while maybe getting her hopes up? Be a man, and cancel the date. You won't survive thinking like you are
/r/seduction20/12/15 02:24 PM
6

Well shit man, you didn't lurk hard enough. It wasn't a coincidence that she became more flirty when you got more influence. Don't fuck people in your career. If you were working Applebee's for a summer, that's a different story. Best case for you, you don't get fired but your still tainted in the eyes of the company. Say bye bye to any prospects of moving up in the company. It doesn't matter if you did or didn't fuck her. It just matters that you'll be seen as an HR liability as long as you're …
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:05 PM
3

Patience grasshopper
/r/askTRP19/12/15 12:22 AM
1

No, jar jar binks was comic relief. The primary male lead in this movie was an anxious emotional trainwreck for no reason. All the time. And the dominant capable female lead still fell for him. I wanted to enjoy the movie, I really did. I know its sci Fi, but character social dynamics were so skewed it was nearly unwatchable.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:11 PM
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I had the same thoughts throughout it. line that stood out was when han said to fin. Not sure if exact but it was emphasized. "If you lie to a woman, she'll find out. She'll ALWAYS find out". Actually felt like someone trying to program a whole new generation of white knights
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:05 PM
7

The best no-gi practice is in the bedroom
/r/seduction17/12/15 04:13 PM
2

You should understand that there isnt anything special that you offer her compared to other dudes. You aren't some perfect match with her. You were in the right place at the right time. If you weren't with her some other dude would be sticking it to her. Lying doesn't matter that much
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:38 AM
3

Dont confront him. Scratch off his name and tell him you bought it yourself. Pull the same shit
/r/askTRP09/12/15 05:45 PM
3

I'm on the bjj boat. I landed alone in a new city 3 months ago. Started learning bjj from all of the recommendations I heard. Walking out of that gym is the best natural high I've ever experienced. Some primal cocktail of endorphins from fighting for your life that I've never experienced. Plus its a highly social atmosphere. Great mix of wisdom from guys at every age. I could go on and on.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:05 AM
2

It's not your job, he doesn't want to be saved. If he gets hurt then give him the truth. If he asks, don't lie but dont give your brutal opinion. "If you're happy, that's what counts"
/r/askTRP07/12/15 06:17 PM
1

It doesn't sound like it if your friends expected you to close, but was she acting this way with other guys as well? More or less just floating around fishing for attention? This is pretty common in social scenes. I remember instances when I was at a bar and met up with a girl that I knew was interested. She was interested at first, but I failed to lead her. While she's doing her thing and having a good time I didn't bring her into my frame. Lead the conversation, lead the escalation, lead where…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 05:39 PM
17

She was trying to sink a hook before the big "I have something I need to tell you". She wanted to better coordinate the damsel in distress
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:33 AM
12

It probably won't work on him, but it'll more than likely work on some other guy. Some corporate beta will be thrilled about sex for the first time in a year and be much more willing to stay. She rolled the dice and was upset at losing. He goes on his merry way.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:30 AM
17

She knows it, but game from the woman's side is amoral as well. If she's going to get the life she wants, she needs to deceive the men she dates.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:20 AM
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For your average beta, her plan would've worked. She gets him hooked on the sex, and he becomes less likely to leave when the beans spill. Even most betas see a kid as a negative. I can't blame her. Deception is human nature. Those are the logical actions necessary to get what she needs in life, whether the actions seem wrong to men or not. You did exactly what you needed to. You went in, kept your bases (dick) covered, and moved along when your gut told you to. "The cheapest girl is the one you…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 03:15 AM
2

Basic Question 1: ”Are you a player?” -I don’t kiss and tell Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” -Only because it works Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” -Have you gained weight? Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” -All of them Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” -At this instant? Nah relax Intermediate Question 6: ”Are you gay?” -When it pays me Question 7: ”Wow. Your friend Chad is hot.” -You should take notes Question 8: ”I have a boyfr…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:59 PM
1

That's amazing
/r/askTRP29/11/15 07:36 PM
1

Poop throwing? You can't leave us hanging like that
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:13 PM
3

She can't manage property while shackled to the stove, that's just stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 05:34 AM
3

shit test man. There might be another guy in the picture but she's eyeing you as a branch to swing to. I get that about 70% of the time, that there's "some guy" also in the picture. I respond with the implication that its not slowing me down. Lines I've gotten away with (not guaranteed for every situation) -"that's what they all say" -"that's cool, I've got a goldfish" "what?" "Oh, I thought we were talking about things that didn't matter" -"sure you do" -"you talk too much" Don't take her serio…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 05:31 AM
4

If he isn't being responsible for a dog I wouldn't expect him to be responsible for anything else he does. Some guys can read everything on here but its more of a second persona for them. They just like the idea of it. He might want a clean house and not to have shit on the floor (wtf) but he knows you'll cave first. Would he do chores and clean shit up if you werent in the picture? Did you find him living in a pile of his own filth? Part of being a man is being able to take care of yourself. If…
/r/askTRP27/11/15 06:46 PM
1

You're right, there must not have been sperm competition in other species. What was I thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 12:47 AM
1

Cut out idly browsing Facebook or other social media. You started seeing other people being social and immediately folded under a fear of missing out
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:10 AM
1

My understanding is that these hunter gatherer tribes were not monogamous in nature. This is when sperm competition was most prevalent. The penis evolved to have a mushroom tip as a way to suction out competing sperm. People didn't fuck because they wanted babies, they fucked because it felt good. Youd probably enjoy "sex at dawn" by Chris Ryan(?) Monogamy in humans is a product of agriculture and animal husbandry, when delayed-whatever became prevalent. Men, having more physical prowess, were a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 02:09 AM
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You made the implication that women who have numerous sexual partners just enjoy sex. Unless you actually meant that having numerous partners doesn't make a girl wreckless, which I disagree with. Numerous sexual partners in a woman shows a wreckless attitude towards their health and the health of their potential offspring. http://www.cdc.gov/std/infertility/ Engaging in this behavior simply for pleasure shows a general wreckless attitude. I enjoy alcohol but I do it with a quality bourbon/tequil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 10:50 PM
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That's exactly what I said, I wouldn't date either. You miss the implication that it isn't a fear of the girl being a trashy sociopath keeping us from dating them, its the rampant sexual activity that makes us view them as wreckless and unworthy of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 10:20 PM
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I wouldn't fuck your former example, that kind of girl is usually with a personality disorder. I'd fuck the latter, who am I to tell her what not to do? But monogamously dating either of them isn't an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 09:41 PM
1

Preach it j-cole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 09:34 PM
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Easy tootz, I plainly stated that a promiscuous past doesn't inherently imply she's going to cheat. I'd argue from my own observations that it's more likely, but the kicker is that a past history of being "young and wreckless" is a strong predictor that she'll be wreckless in the future whether sexual or not. With a LTR being exactly what it is, long, I'm not interested in taking care of a girl who can barely take care of herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 09:30 PM
1

There actually is useful to reason for disliking promiscuous women for LTR situations. There's plenty of situations where I'd prefer promiscuity but let's focus on the former. www.CDC.gov/std/infertility/ If I'm investing time into a LTR I'm considering a girl for her potential in child rearing, whether consciously or subconsciously. The wider her sexual history, the greater chance she has of previous sexual infection and in turn, infertility. Suppose she gets a fertility test and comes out fert…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:08 PM
1

He did a great interview with Tim Ferriss http://fourhourworkweek.com/2015/09/22/scott-adams-the-man-behind-dilbert/ He goes into depth on his theory with Trump using NLP heavily through the media.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 03:19 PM
2

I think we're on the same page here. But if you can't naturally break from the jealousy you still need a game plan.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 01:32 AM
1

I'd hope we all are. But if one of your plates is entertaining other guys there's 3 potential outcomes. You make efforts to stop it, whereby she falls in line or you cut her off. Else you accept her behavior because she's a plate and only there as a sexual object (dehumanize). I wouldn't place my response as anger, more of being realistic about how the situation can play out. On the contrary you seem to be interpreting more emotionally that rationally. Sexual strategy is amoral dude.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:53 AM
0

It's basic sperm competition man, your lizard brain thinks you are trying to sire a child whenever you fuck. Instinctually you don't want to waste resources on a child that isn't yours. If you can dehumanize her enough in your head you can probably get over it
/r/askTRP18/11/15 05:16 PM
3

You find friends where you share passions. When you spend time on an activity of shared interest, you don't have to look for common ground. That is what makes connecting with people come easy. Examples to look into -martial arts -book clubs -team sports - outing clubs -habitat for humanity -volunteering at a humane society Find shit you enjoy doing and there will be people there who enjoy the same thing
/r/askTRP16/11/15 06:53 PM
1

I could really care less about what the movie is called. I don't come here because of public image, I come here because this place makes sense
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:47 AM
2

Krav is as useful as the intensity you spar at. If your in the middle East that's your best bet. Those guys go 100%. The majority of krav schools here in the states go through technique and show you moves, but its rare to ever simulate going 100% power in a live sparring situation. Mostly because these moves are designed to severely incapacitate. striking disciplines can be that way as well, just make sure the school works a lot of sparring Edit: you seem to be in a similar spot to me before I s…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 10:54 PM
1

Hundreds of online retailers like teespring? That's exactly what I said.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 12:10 AM
0

I'm fairly certain he doesn't sit at home silk-screening all day. You design a shirt then use a service like teespring to produce and distribute. What ROI do you see on video games?
/r/askTRP13/11/15 02:54 PM
7

until you realize being mad does more harm than good
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:30 AM
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I came here to say the same thing. Don't make a move until you're in control of your emotions. The guy hamsters with the "lots of couples work through these things, right?", but he's going through some seriously mixed up trauma. This guy is confused
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 06:00 AM
2

You get over a girl through male friends, not one night fucks
/r/askTRP10/11/15 04:28 PM
1

Only if you're insecure about it
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:25 AM
1

You mentioned quitting weed, has this made you anxious at all? Stress is a big factor in sex drive, and chemical changes in your body play with your hormones (cortisol).
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:40 PM
1

I fucked my girlfriend in a cemetery during high school, when you're horny enough you can make a lot of shit work.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:46 AM
1

Don't overtly break up with her. Go a little silent on the topic. She's less likely to make a move if she doesn't know your cards.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:43 AM
1

I like to pretend I'm gonna bust on her stomach, but them rope it all the way to her face. They never see it cumming
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:38 AM
2

Why? Why can't we realize that traditional masculinity needs to >be changed as well as femininity? Why can't we realize that men >engage in some toxic behavior to assert their masculinity? Why >do so many of you see this as an attempt to "feminize" men? Because masculinity and femininity aren't actually defined by society. Genders have been defined throughout evolution as complementary to each other. They aren't the result of a patriarchy. The characteristics that make a someone attractive for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 05:39 AM
1

Guys who've been around TRP long enough don't post questions about theory. They post theory. r/asktrp is almost exclusively new members looking for advice on specific situations. Once they learn, they stop asking. When a man go through his life being told that they can get any girl by just "being himself" he might just believe it. When the girl of his dreams rides off on the motorcycle of a muscled demigod, he gets frustrated. He feels deceived. He see's all the time he wasted based on misinform…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 05:03 AM
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With Breaking Bad being based on a true story, you've really opened my eyes.... Oh wait On trp there are sometimes posts about tv or movie characters and how they exhibit certain redpill or bluepill traits. While it might still relate to some theory, there's always the reminder that these characters are fictional. They're about as representative of human nature as a comic book. You can write any character in the world, just to come here yelling "I TOLD YOU SO!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 04:42 AM
1

I always find it funny how shallow female relationships can be
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:16 PM
9

Just wait, the market's going to crash in 2030 from being too heavy. That's when we'll poach college girls from their obese counterparts.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 11:07 PM
6

Building off that, are you actively analyzing the situation like this as it happens? As opposed to naturally reacting in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 10:47 PM
6

Buddy, they're called unicorns because they're a myth. If you've only known her 3 months, especially long distance, it's incredibly easy for her to only tell you what you want to hear. You've only seen the tip of the iceberg 3 years of constant dicks being thrown at her , at least one is gonna get in.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 05:25 PM
0

I don't have a LTC but I've got other firearms. I don't have a problem with weapons but unless you're trained with it for combat situations its just compensation. This includes veterans or at a minimum going through some sort of simunitions training. It might make you feel better, but going to the range does nothing to actually prepare you for dire circumstances. At most you can flash it around to scare muggers off. Just make sure they only brought that knife. Otherwise, dieing/risking life for …
/r/askTRP05/11/15 09:49 PM
1

"Totally man, body dysmorphia has really kicked my ass"
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:43 PM
1

This rabbit hole just kept getting deeper
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:39 AM
2

Same thing happened with me during the last girl I dated exclusively. Gradually I stopped coming here for the reminder. I stopped wanting to believe. Sure enough things went sour and I got back on the horse, just a little less likely to fall off now
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:15 AM
8

That's a good rule of thumb, it takes a lot of effort on their part to convince you they're worth a relationship. Consider it a game of attrition
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:08 AM
4

A gentlemen's duel is the only course of action
/r/askTRP03/11/15 11:52 PM
1

This is fantastic
/r/askTRP03/11/15 11:45 PM
5

"Learn rather than lament" I'm not sure if this came from somewhere else, but it hit me deep. I think most guys going through Anger here need this to sink in as well. A vengeful mind might make for great motivation, but it will ultimately drain you.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:32 PM
1

In grad school for engineering right now. My method is to stop looking at the problem for maybe 15minutes and just study your notes, the book, or any examples similar to the problem. Get the problem out from in front of you
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:33 PM
2

You walk straight to that girl's door and reclaim your testicles
/r/askTRP03/11/15 02:26 AM
1

What a lot of others guys have said here. Girls can be bad at flirting/game. She's thinks that the social proof of having been in a relationship is attractive to you because it is to her. It most likely isn't. And on the other hand it's not unattractive. It doesn't matter. I'd only suspect she was widowed if its a constant theme with her. I like to think of it like training a dog. Reward what you like, ignore what you don't, correct what's dangerous.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:10 AM
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I substitute the gym with bjj 4/7 times a week. Still incredibly physically intensive, but social at the same time and I get to learn shit. If you don't want to cut into lifting, join a barbell club, crossfit, or any group exercise tribe. It's all about consolidating your time. Cook or prep dishes for the entire week on Sunday so you can spend the occasional half hour in b&n on your drive home. If your situation allows it, walk or bike to work/school (if it'll let you walk through a high foot tr…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 06:47 PM
1

Social media Porn Fast food
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:47 AM
2

Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu My best male relationships are with the guys that I train with. It's an environment of constant mutual learning which is great for male bonding. Guys from every age come together for what looks like aggressive spooning in expensive pajamas, but nothing has left me more humbled. Getting put down by guys half your size really conditions the ego. Before training tonight, another white belt was telling me he hit a new pr of 315 on bench. During sparring I had him with an arm bar …
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:21 AM
7

If you're polarizing her enough she'll let you know on her own. There are 4 potential ways the situation can play out. She's single and attracted to you, green light. She's single and lies about having a boyfriend because she's unattracted to you. She has a bf and is willing to cheat. She has a boyfriend and isn't willing to cheat (with you). Assume she's single unless she tells you otherwise. If you ask you put her in the ethical decision to get out. Your game may work in a different way, but f…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:32 PM
18

Free publicity is never a bad thing
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:04 AM
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No need to have an attitude bud. I've already said that she'd cheat with men below you if they were still within riskable limits for the feelings gained in cheating. She probably won't sleep with the fat fast food cashier, unless you worked behind him at the grill.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 11:51 AM
2

It's still a function of SMV, but adjusted for the excitement of cheating. Yes, she has the potential to cheat with someone a notch below you, but he's only in the potential range because cheating in itself makes her feel more on top of what his smv does. You make it sound like she would literally jump in bed with any dude.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 11:20 AM
18

While you should never let your guard down, it still has to be said that you shouldn't walk into every relationship thinking that the girl is a lieing cheating Whore. She just has the potential to be if she isn't satisfied with her man. Maintaining a masculine persona is your best defense to infidelity, but that only extends to guys who are below you in SMV. If you let her swim with sharks, she's getting eaten, all up in that puss. If your presence as a leader is strong, she'll have less inclina…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:44 AM
15

I liked reading the contrast between you and Cam. He doesn't realize it but he is doing the exact same thing on women outside of his criteria, as you do on high SMV women. Thats also more or less why many guys in relationships can seem to have better game. By behaving they starve beautiful women of the attention they expect. This is until they put papa johns on speed dial and funnel mountain dew at the encouragement of their tamer. This is a better way to teach it to new guys than just saying ha…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:16 AM
1

"I just want to reform her" This line tells me enough that she wasn't as perfect as you think she is right now. You will feel like crap, breaking up sucks. But by no means think that she was one of a kind and unreplacable.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:31 AM
1

Hari Kari dude, you lost THE unicorn
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:58 AM
0

Just keep waiting, she'll reply!
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:56 AM
1

Sounds like you need a good spanking champ, maybe mommy and daddy will buy you cocoa puffs next week
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:54 AM
1

Many guys here feel like they've been lied to for the greater part of their life. They've been told by society that muscles, intelligence, and status don't make a man. After being cheated on, divorce raped, or incelled they now want answers. There's logic past the anger here. Guys take in the theory that hits way to close to home. All of a sudden all of their problems make sense. But this also brings out vengeful feeling for whoever steered them wrong in the first place whether it be the media, …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:26 PM
1

Bjj and guitar, because fuck having any feeling in my hands.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 09:12 PM
2

Bud, easy with the rage. There's been crap music in every decade. Tv programming has barely been around in the timeline of people. As things grow, they get commercialized. Broad commercial outlets want to hit the largest target audience... Which is primarily the lesser 80% of men. Guys who qualify in the upper tier are less susceptible to consumerism and a smaller group in general. We're pretty unattractive in the eyes of marketers.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 01:16 AM
2

Yea have empathy, man or woman losing a loved one is traumatic. Let her lean on you for a day or two
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:22 AM
0

I took it like a man, as a suppository
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:16 AM
3

Like physically, socially, emotionally, and intellectually? These things have been beaten to death
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:12 AM
1

Your proposed response sounds whiny. Can you really not find another way to spend your weekend? Do you depend on her saying yes? That's how it's coming off. Amused mastery man, be playful. As far as a "what to text next" thread, guys would use it as too much of a crutch. It comes down to the proverb about fishing. You wouldn't ever think for yourself. Thats why critiquing short text conversations is alright in my eyes, as you're making mistakes and learning from them. But even that doesn't deser…
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:06 AM
1

Yes, come from a position of amused mastery. She hides things that she thinks make you upset. If you act like it doesn't and frame it jokingly, you'll have less problems getting the real story.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:48 PM
1

She could be bad at flirting. We seem to forget here that there's a women's side to the push-pull game, she failed to stroke your ego. She's still interested, but kino made here anxious and she fucked up
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:41 PM
4

It sounds like a vulnerability issue if you don't have the same problem with you ex. You're don't have the same kind of intimacy/ the sex feels artificial, like you're doing it as a chore rather than wanting to. You don't have to developed deep bonds with your plates but letting them in on your life more would help. Also, to compensate for actual intimacy it's a good idea to get closer with your guys friends. Go camping or join a band. Do something productive with them
/r/askTRP18/10/15 06:57 PM
0

"I'm more of a meth kinda guy"
/r/askTRP17/10/15 06:21 PM
0

For starters, as long as you aren't living with/ married to her its pretty hard to fuck up your life by way of a woman. Stop being overdramatic
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:55 PM
2

Don't worry your tender little heart, she'll contact you within 2-3 weeks. You'll want to respond like a tweaker looking for one last fix. The neural pathways linked to your emotional connection for her will be begging to fire. In this case you've gotta put matter over mind. She's not worth more of your time. Distract yourself by feeling good in other ways. Setting a new pr at the gym, making small talk with a stranger, indulging in a new hobby. Most importantly, build stronger male friendships.…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 02:23 AM
-9

You must be fun at parties
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 10:20 PM
0

Just don't bring her, sell the ticket over doing that
/r/askTRP14/10/15 10:17 PM
3

I like the idea, fraternities actually arose from like minded men having meetings in private rooms at taverns and pubs to discuss philosophy. There should be some level of screening in arranging these meetings. ie, dont have open attendance for these groups. Maybe interviews. The core tenets of TRP would have to be generalized in order to maintain group focus. What is concrete vs what is interpreted. Where lines have to be drawn between us, men's rights, PUAs, and MGTOW. This is where a clear mi…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:16 AM
2

I wouldnt say that he's doomed for it. Unless he's running loud high energy game, he's still mostly anonymous. People could give less of a shit of what some random guy is doing. But yea, status is dominant on campuses. But that's more or less limited to location. You can get a college girl out for drinks if you approach off campus where she doesn't see reputation being directly affected. Join general clubs, but join with intent on making male friends first. Dudes bond in growing together (enduri…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 05:45 AM
1

Focus on understanding and accepting the core values. Juts read and internalize the sidebar, don't worry about books yet. Motivation for everything else comes easy when you understand the why of things
/r/askTRP10/10/15 11:22 PM
2

Yea man, success doesn't fall in your lap, you've gotta go find it.
/r/seduction10/10/15 11:10 PM
1

It's common to project self view onto an LTR. If she's worried you're going to cheat then its on her mind because she already has or she thinks she might
/r/askTRP10/10/15 10:55 PM
1

Use flatbottom shoes or none if your gym allows it. If you can't lift a weight with good form, you can't lift that weight. Go to crossfit if you wanna lift with poor form. There's nothing wrong with taking 5 lbs off the bar for a week
/r/askTRP10/10/15 10:44 PM
0

What the actual fuck. How are people taking this seriously
/r/askTRP10/10/15 10:35 PM
3

I've been in Atlanta for a little while. Spent a weekend in Athens as well. Many girls here are similar to the northern girls I was used to from Mass. Less playful in general, less likely to put up with game. I speculate that it's from the city having a lot of imports. Athens and Atlanta don't seem like other southern places since a lot of the population isn't from there. You meet the southern comfort kinda girl every so often but mainly run into cold shoulders. Frame interactions to make her fe…
/r/seduction10/10/15 01:21 AM
0

Stop being a baby and join a sport.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 02:56 AM
1

Just do you
/r/askTRP09/10/15 02:06 AM
1

No one here knows you or your situation. you are the only one who can set your priorities. Girls, grades, gainz... These are all important. You don't have to cut everything out of your life for just one, its a balance. Build your social skills, knowledge and body to your own content. Wake up feeling excited about your day and fall asleep proud of what you've accomplished. Just make sure that your seeing it all through a redpill lens. Life is the Disney fairytale that you've been led to believe.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 02:04 AM
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From my experience, girls 1-2 points below my smv(scale of 1-10) aggressively try to make their interest known. Why? Their biggest bargaining power is sex. Girls at my smw send general IOIs to try and play a more fair game of cat and mouse. Girls above my smv send subtle if any IOIs letting you have the chance to artificially raise your smv by being daringly bold
/r/seduction09/10/15 12:38 AM
1

Let's say she is a virgin, we don't know anything about the situation. That doesn't make her special. She'll still be on the lookout for the highest value man she has a shot at. Game her, get her in bed, do whatever. You still make your intentions known as looking for a sexual relationship. If she stops short of sex, you'll need to be able to discern if she is actually concerned about loosing her virginity or if she is trying to manipulate you. Dont force yourself onto her, but be prepared to le…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:12 PM
2

Have a plate lined up if she actually is hard set on not fucking. She'll more than likely retest you about being in the friend zone. Play it off as a joke. If she persists on it or you fail it, no worries, leave with the attitude that her decision doesn't affect you. You'll get laid anyways
/r/askTRP08/10/15 08:14 PM
1

Yea man, when you're always putting wasabi on your sandwich, a month of no sauce will make mayo will taste like heaven
/r/askTRP08/10/15 03:36 AM
18

Bring girls home anyways.... what's he gonna do, call the police?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:10 PM
2

You're right, I'll sit around telling myself and everyone else I'm smart and successful. Mark Cuban will stop by any day now to ask for a business partnership. The mentality of "fake it till you make it" helps by tricking yourself into taking risks that you don't have previous experience or success with. If you convince yourself that you exceed your ability, you give yourself the chance to learn from either a mistake or a success outside of your comfort zone. Instead of telling yourself that you…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 10:33 PM
1

Blindly forcing self confidence is some bullshit self help nonsense. Confidence comes from proven success and experience. Convincing yourself that you're an amazing human being is arrogance. You don't get to be the same value as another man just by believing it. Do you want to have a sexy masculine appearance? Build some muscles. Do you want to earn a living? Developed some marketable skills. And you're right, no one will help you. But cut the victim mentality because you don't deserve their hel…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 07:45 PM
3

Jesus Christ, I'm glad some other dude is fucking this girl
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 07:32 PM
9

Form your own opinion
/r/askTRP03/10/15 06:39 PM
3

This horse died a long time ago
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 09:36 PM
1

Definitely alterior motives, she'll get you all hot and bothered right before the police sting bust's down the door and puts your cismale phallucy in a cock cage all while chanting"we got another one!!!!" You're fucked man
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:19 PM
2

Lmao she made a blatant joke and you were so focused on analyzing that you missed it entirely. It wasn't a matter of failing the test, you were so focused on studying you forgot to show up. Maybe you'll get a retake, maybe she'll assume you have aspergers. The take away from this is to enter the situation as an artist rather than a scientist. Do you know why guys spit better game while a few drinks in or microdosed? Their thinking creatively rather than logistically. Use theory to temper your in…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:07 PM
2

Atlanta
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:41 AM
1

Georgia
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:41 AM
5

You're clinging to a fantasy of her, let it go
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:47 PM
5

It breeds the mental fairytale. It's what people want to believe. It makes life seem comfortable
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:59 PM
1

"Only if you're lucky"
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:53 PM
0

Yes, undergrad girls will predominately chase relevant social status. Fucking an older man won't get her into frat parties for the next 3 years. She wants her social media to be full of blacklight parties and slutty costumes, an older man can't give that to her
/r/askTRP27/09/15 07:49 PM
1

Build attraction before you invite her to fraternity events. Otherwise, game girls there that you didn't bring. If you base you're entire status for pulling girls on being in a frat, girls will milk it from you. They want your social troupe. If all they see of you is a social group, you will be their foot in the door to find a better man. The guy who draws attention as soon as he walks in the room. The guy who gets the brothers chanting and rowdy. Get their attraction first and ideally fuck them…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 03:03 AM
1

Just had my first day of actual rolling in bjj after weeks of intro technique classes. Getting your ass kicked 30 times in an hour really humbles a man. Plus I haven't been this sore since my first heavy gym session
/r/askTRP26/09/15 05:40 AM
3

She's got the ammo now. She can fire it at their next big fight. Decide who's friendship is more valuable. If the dude is a long time friend you tell him. You explain that if it wasn't you, it'd be someone else and he wouldn't find out. Maybe he forgives at some point maybe not. If he's a "friend" keep fucking her if you want to take the chance. You can gauge the risk, you're a big boy. Just have an exit strategy when the shitstorm hits. And it will. Make sure you always have a go-bag for the da…
/r/askTRP25/09/15 01:58 AM
1

You owe her nothing, she was just mad that some other chick took her alpha dick. As far as being "the exception" her entire purpose in a relationship is to convince you that you were special. It's a whole Broadway production by her for you. Maybe it was true, maybe you the most alpha man she's ever had, but she would've told you that regardless of the truth. Her priorities are convincing you to stay. This emotional storm she's brewing is a last hail Mary at getting you back, and it sounds like i…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:51 PM
1

What a time to be alive, I can declare myself a woman for shits and giggles but sjws go up in arms when I sexually identify with being attracted to robots
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:40 PM
1

Chicks dig dudes who are sure of themselves. I'm not in the service, but enlisting for the sake of women seems like a Terrible idea. Join for humility, discipline, and a brotherly bond few people ever experience
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:36 AM
1

Just got to atlanta a month ago, and i'll be here a while. I've had a way better response from anyone ethnic. I came from up north and a large part of the population could be straight from cape cod and Nantucket. Girls who want to dress their dude up in vineyard vines and tote them on a brewery tour every Saturday. Do you have any advice as far as neighborhoods to go out in? As far as I've seen buckhead is preppy and va Highlands is almost hipster
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:29 AM
2

Bite him back
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:10 AM
1

Audibly say "I am very angry"
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:04 AM
2

Cooking isn't about recipes. Learn the basic techniques to prepare and cook whatever ingredients you may have. I do the vast majority of my cooking with a knife, a silicon spatula, and a frying pan
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:03 AM
3

Jesus get off the idea that your dick effects anything about how people people perceive you. As far as sex, and being as hung up on size as you are, girls get off on power way more than physicality. Learn to manage your insecurities because nobody has ever wished that their dick was bigger while lying on their deathbed
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:56 PM
5

Shave your fucking neck
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:35 PM
2

You're gonna fuck up in high school, its natural, you're learning. In the future you need to be clear cut on friends vs sexual interests. You can have friends who are female, so long as you arent trying to play a long con with them. Use them for their social circles/proof.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 05:34 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP14/09/15 05:07 AM
2

Every school will be different. I was at a small tech institute and joined a frat. Because most Alumni for my house were in the industry I got way more bang for my buck time wise networking through them. You can try showing some pizazz at info sessions but your connection to the employer at most will only be a common school. A connection. They have that with everyone there, making it difficult to stick out. Personally I'd recommend looking into entrepreneurial opportunities your college has. The…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 04:57 AM
1

Headphones
/r/askTRP14/09/15 04:39 AM
6

LTRs are simple, like training a dog. Reward what you like, ignore what you don't, correct what's dangerous
/r/askTRP14/09/15 04:38 AM
1

With my actions
/r/seduction14/09/15 04:29 AM
2

"FML"? Cut the shit with the victim mindset. You are the only one responsible for yourself. You spoiling her stupid doesn't entitle you to anything from her so stop wasting your time
/r/askTRP14/09/15 04:17 AM
2

love me some chinese food
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 04:01 PM
2

Those texts were incoherent ramblings. This woman isn't worth more than a fuck, and if you have to wade through that bullshit its not worth it. You've been with her for three years? She has found every button to set you off by now, and she's pushing them for shits and giggles. Your best bet is to play this one stoically. As soon as you engage in the ramblings of her hamster, you lose frame. Have no opinion on what she says, because it honestly doesn't fucking matter. Her uncertainty of you will …
/r/askTRP12/09/15 03:10 PM
1

She's fishing for validation. Giving it to her doesn't get you laid.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:19 AM
4

I avoid using word's like "kinda" "sorta" "really" and "very" They come off as indecisive/pussyfooting around
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:13 AM
2

My look is similar in price and style I buy 3-packs of vnecks and crews for maybe $20 a piece(black white or grey). Pair that with a pair of Levis for $30-40 or $20-30 if you buy house brands at target or h&m. Levis will last much longer though. More important than brand is fit. You may as well go out in a garbage bag if your clothes are expensive and oversized. If you're working hard on your body, as you should be, people should be able to tell when you're fully dressed. I wore size large tshir…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 09:41 PM
2

You sound young, good on you for finding this early. With that said, understand that whatever happens with this girl will have little to zero impact on the rest of your life. The fastest way that she'll become interested again is if you don't try to make her interested. Stop pursuit. Stop texting her day to day. Go learn martial arts or how to play an instrument. Invest in yourself and girls will take notice. She might be one of those girls but honestly, who the fuck cares
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:53 PM
2

I'm going to assume that she is just in your building and not your company. Even then, you need to be very mature about the situation if you have to see her the next day despite anything that actually happen if you go out with her. Decide very soon if you're actually going to go out for drinks with her. You seem pretty oblivious about her interest. If you've made light kino with her already, and she hasn't retracted, then she's definitely alright with joining you for a drink. The longer you wait…
/r/seduction31/08/15 03:56 PM
2

focus on making friends, male and female. Not the emotional tampon kind of friend, but someone who is fun to be around. Respect and status make you more attractive. The larger your network, the more new people will be brought into your life. The notoriety of knowing everyone also contributes to your status.
/r/seduction31/08/15 03:40 PM
1

No piece of pop media is going to be explicitly "red pill". Certain characters might better fit the archetypes we've established, but the important thing is that you view them with a realistic frame of mind. Recognize who is weak and who is strong. Recognize subtle manipulation and alternative motives. It's when you fall into the trance of accepting the fairytale that they start reprogramming you. Understand that the majority of the time, the white knight will be glorified. Just remember to alwa…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 01:12 PM
2

She's always been crazy, you just didn't notice
/r/askTRP28/08/15 12:55 PM
1

The less you brag about the women you fuck, the more will want to fuck you. They don't want to look like a slut, and you want to make your victories seem effortless(see laws of power). You want the rep from girls talking between each other, not guys. Guys talking about specific women you've been with will make you poison. Guys understand this and see it as a way to take you out of the competition. Girls want to know that fucking you won't hurt their rep, so leave talking up to them. The most suc…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:09 AM
1

Remember, trust actions not words. If you sleep with a women like this regularly, she'll develope feelings unless you do first. It's more of a long con shit test, if you fold first that signals you as admitting she's the best you can do. The longer you last without returning emotion, the harder she falls. The act she'll put on will get increasingly convincing and plateau soon after you crack. The fact that you came here with this question says that she's starting to get to you. The more red flag…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:51 AM
3

To beat a dead horse: don't plate/date coworkers On top of that, I'd bet my left nut that she was your only "plate". Get others and you'll realize how much of your time was wasted writing this post.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 12:12 AM
7

This is good, keep an eye out for my coming post "how my toaster taught me about frame"
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:47 PM
2

Understand man, women are turned on by power. It seems like she fucked you as a means to restore your self esteem and comfort you. Sex like that isn't enjoyable for her, its a chore. She's trying to prop you up because she doesn't want that moment of weakness to affect your external status and accomplishments as a man. Get back on the road to improving yourself, let her sit in the backseat, and she'll warm right back up.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:30 PM
1

Brand and quality are far second to how something fits. Fucking insane that this wasn't covered. I squat 3 times a week to have the ass of a powerful man. You can be damn sure that whatever I'm wearing doesn't hide this. I don't spend $50-100 on pants because fit and price aren't mutually exclusive. I find slim straight Levis for $30 and watch as women objectify me. The same goes for my shirts. I get black, grey or white undershirts at 4 for $20 and a size under what your avg chump wears. Women …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:26 AM
1

Just moved to Atlanta for grad school, thanks for the tip
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:20 PM
21

White shorts WAYY before labor day This is either hilarious or autistic
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:41 AM
1

-Eat less sugar -Drink more water -shampoo every other day
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:02 PM
1

Jesus, there isn't a magical number to aim for. You don't become a man after fucking 50 girls. If you let your N count determine your masculinity, you're letting it be determined by women and any dochebag that wants to measure dicks with you. As far as pussy goes, take what you need. If you want sex then go find it. What will actually matter to you when you're on your deathbed? Focus on the more important aspects of your life, because it shouldn't revolve around pussy.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 12:54 PM
4

Just went through a breakup 2 months ago. If I had to guess, you probably had a very "deep" emotional connection with this woman. This is what you miss. You should focus on building stronger relationships with your friends. I mean sitting down with someone you trust and a bottle of whiskey and being vulnerable to a degree. Don't wallow in self pity but tell him your concerns on an emotional level. Meditation is helpful as well. Whenever you avoid a negative internal feeling due to your beliefs, …
/r/askTRP27/07/15 03:06 AM
3

Women and men meet their primary differences on the field of physicality and emotion. Women are typically more emotionally intelligent while men are more physically capable. But this in no way means you have to throw friendships with women out the window. AWALT to me says that all women have the capability to emotionally manipulate men. Whether that means being assuring back home while fucking another guy on the weekend or exploiting a few pussies to buy you dinner. Some women abuse that power o…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:26 PM
28

Nope, he was putting a child in their place. If this was a dude instead saying, "I'm a man, you need to respect me" the response would be justified all the same. Respect isn't tethered to gender. I'll blindly respect anyones basic human rights to the space they occupy, and the air that they breath, but it doesn't stretch much farther than that.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:33 AM
2

Jesus, that was painful to read. The romance you dream of doesn't exist. Santa isn't real. Nothing ends happily ever after. This girl isn't special.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:14 AM
1

Women will always be way better at manipulating than you could ever imagine. To her you seem thirsty, trying to coerce her into coming over, pulling to hard. She loves it, she gets all the attention for free. She might want to fuck, but it's with the guy that she has to chase and use her pussy as bargaining power for his time and attention.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:04 AM
3

It's not your job to fix her. If she comes from the type of trash family you describe, then don't bother. She's an 8.5 to you because you're emotionally involved. This slutty fatass has you hypnotized. I bet she's taking some hillbilly dick right now. You've got some learning to do man
/r/askTRP20/07/15 04:54 AM
1

Most rap, it's good for the red soul. G-eazy, A$ap ferg, kid cudi, kendrick lamar, j cole They don't go on about love and happiness. Most lyrics are about fucking your girlfriend and making money
/r/askTRP20/07/15 04:14 AM
8

Law of power #something# - make your victories seem effortless Let her find out on her own. It'll be that much more attractive. She might've said "that's hot" but that's more likely her playing into your ego. Just like how my dick is the biggest in the universe and i'm the best fuck she's ever had. Must be true, right? You get a man hard by stroking his ego, not his cock, and a hard dick is validation for her
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 03:55 AM
23

I want to help other men. I find myself analyzing every relationship when I go out. It's so painfully obvious when I see women, either out with friends or right under the noses of their men, flirting and surveying other branches. I cant bring myself to understand that I was once that blind, only believing what my girl would tell me. I understand that it can never be that obvious for the vast majority of men. It's easier to die as a hero than live as a monster. It's not worth my time or energy to…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:24 PM
2

Pickup artist methods are centered around convincing women that you are higher value than you actually are. TRP is about taking action on yourself to actually be high value. You can do whatever the fuck you want, but if you try to compensate for a lack of social skills by using pickup artistry you will fail at life
/r/askTRP07/07/15 07:21 PM
3

Of course she's proud of it. She's using her machiavellian nature to get ahead by exploiting weak men. We do the same thing with plates who are weak in terms of valuing their sexuality. The more I read posts like this the more It becomes clear that being unplugged isn't exclusive to men. People who are able to see the dynamics of social interactions for what they are at their core become much more successful within it. This girls hamster isn't losing it's shit because she understands that she is…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 08:08 AM
2

Your primary concern should be educating yourself beyond your peers. Whether you end up at college, in a trade, or as an entrepreneur. Be smart. Apart from that, high school status wont matter for shit once you graduate. The only mistake you can make is not doing anything socially. Make mistakes and learn from them.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 03:52 AM
7

yea, she will contact you and you will want to answer. Nothing good can come of it. My ex contacted me a week after I broke it off wanting to have a discussion about us breaking up. I obliged because I hadn't actually caught her cheating and I was more or less just uneasy with how the relationship was going. When we met she came off as everything positive that we had before i broke it off. Submissive, affectionate, praising... I ate it all up. I hamstered away and we got back together. After a w…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 02:33 AM
2

Yea, along what u/humankeg said, this isn't the time to neglect her emotions. This isn't her feigning for validation. This is her needing true emotional support. Empathy in humans is incredibly important, your role in this situation is as a wall for her to lean on. The biggest misconception I see on here is assuming that "holding frame" is the practice of being an emotional stone. That showing and expressing any of what you feel is weak and inferior. This is the mindset of being scared of reject…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:57 PM
1

Sleep, diet, and exercise are what you need to prioritize Sleep 8-9 hours a night in pitch black, it seriously makes a difference. You can try ZMA or melatonin to get more rest out of that time, they made a big difference for me. By diet I don't mean cut your calories. Eat as much as you can/want but make sure your eating right. Any kind of grain or sugar will trigger your body to spike insulin production and fuck with your hormones. When you do eat it, make sure it's high fiber. Eat meat and fa…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 01:32 AM
7

Rap music, cold showers, heavy weights
/r/askTRP16/06/15 04:58 PM
2

Apart from the social circles thing, that's what I said.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 11:55 PM
13

Thats not entirely true with the increasing status to men. No dude really gives a shit if her handbag is $100 or $10000 for the most part. Women want expensive valuable things to signal to other women since they are constantly competing with other women for the best mate. It can be relevant on preselection because either she was deemed valuable enough by a man for him to spend that much money on her, or that she can provide resources of that value in a relationship by her own means. The preselec…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:02 PM
6

The fuck? Man up You come here for constructive criticism, not validation. Do whatever you want, but im on this guy's side. You're making the theme of the night, "is this girl having fun" instead of "is this girl worth fucking"
/r/askTRP14/06/15 01:36 PM
1

Engineering, as in applying science to meet the needs and wants of humans? When a fucking caveman took the scientific knowledge that sharp edges could hurt living things and made a spear to stab the jackass sleeping with his caveskank. Call yourself an "engineering afficionado" to really give them a good laugh
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 07:14 PM
1

Jesus, stop thinking so hard and lift
/r/askTRP11/06/15 02:53 PM
5

Reality is a hard thing to accept if you're hard programmed Is it worse to live as a "monster" or to die as a "good" man? this quote feels very appropriate in these situations
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:41 PM
5

Learn BJJ or judo Its more powerful to make him submit to you than to leave him damaged in the gutter. I guarantee that if you had kept your head level and made him feel powerless she would not had left you. You're stronger than him, you know you could break him, you don't have to.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:59 PM
3

Fuck a girl, do it better the second time
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:10 PM
3

"Im making sure you aren't boring"
/r/seduction31/05/15 09:28 PM
1

If he's bad at busting his ass its okay. Dont settle for a loser because "he's trying his best!" She wants the best odds for her genes just like we do
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:42 PM
3

Ill be honest, why do we crucify women who want to leave a man who is a "loser" financially while we preach that it's okay to leave women who get fat? To avoid confusion both situations are ABSOLUTELY FUCKING OKAY. Shes trying to survive and we're trying to stay sexually satisfied. She's put up with a mediocre lifestyle for a year with no sign of improvement. If there was a man who was married to a girl who kept fattening up and lost her libido with absolutely no sign of getting better, everyone…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:39 PM
14

What do you want us to say, marry her? Because you've said everything except it. Take some time alone to meditate on the matter. ALONE is the key, only you will be able to determine whether or not you want to be her partner in old age. Don't ask the internet, don't ask your buddy over a beer, ask yourself.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 12:35 AM
1

My method is to only spank the monkey sunday morning. That way my test starts to spike the next weekend
/r/askTRP15/05/15 11:44 PM
1

Start learning a martial art like Bjj. Its great for learning humility, you get your ass kicked 5 times in a row by someone half your size and you very quickly fall in line. Or take a trip or vacation absent of anything familiar
/r/askTRP15/05/15 11:42 PM
3

This concept needs to be hammered into every brain here. Half the hate that this subbreddit gets is a result of people seeing AWALT posts that are pissed at a girls because she got tired of fucking a lame dude. Of course she did. Shes fucking human. AWALT posts have been the most redundant part of this place. Equivalent of "OMG MY FISH DIED BECAUSE IS WAS TOO BUSY SPANKING MY MONKEY TO FEED IT.... WHAT AN ASSHOLE AFALT" No shit sherlock
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:36 AM
2

Yea, gotta respect the guy. He turned that publicity into a gold mine. guys who were instinctively against him wouldnt have become a customer anyways, while guys pent up and frustrated got exposure to the world of pickup. He got free advertising on the national news and was the face of seduction
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:35 AM
2

Totally I can see where we get labeled as misogynists, due to comments and posts from guys angry after internalizing a lot of the content here, but we get stereotyped as the worst for giving a place to voice their anger along with justification for it. To me, then end understanding is that women act this by nature, not because they're the devil. They have a sexual strategy, as do we. We dont fuck fat chicks and they dont fuck losers. Being angry about it doesnt get you laid. Grow up, be a man
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:30 AM
1

My opinion, tighten your frame. The first page is fine, but don't bargain for bjs. She should suck your dick because pleasing you is the most important thing in her life. If you start making it an exchange your on the fast road to a BB dead bedroom. And saying that you actually need them? I cringed. If you were trying to be sarcastic it was not obvious. All you did is give her power over you. If you "need" something, you get it because you're chad thundercock and you get what you fucking want. Y…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:57 PM
1

TRP isn't a cookie cutter lifestyle. Its been described as more of a salad bar in some post a while ago. People have their beliefs on different aspects, but it ultimately comes down to you. What do you value after looking at society and lifestyle in this unorthodox way? One our the most intriguing things when i first started reading here was that the lack of structure and organization was emphasized. TRP isnt a social club with a uniform and set of guidelines,Its a forum
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:41 PM
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OP you've got some serious internalizing to do about this girl. No one knows your situation entirely, but you've brought up a pretty serious offense. Two weeks ago I broke off my LTR for a lot of similar reasons that you posted about. Its not easy, but its a critical growing point.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 03:08 PM
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Rap music, heavier weights, and cold showers I broke up with an Ltr last weekend and this has been my healthy prescription. Rap is all about being the most Alpha mother fucker around and living like a god damn king. It doesn't dream about whispering sweet nothings into the ear of your imaginary unicorn on a fucking grassy meadow. It says im gonna fuck everyones bitch, then make some fuckin lettuce. G-eazy is a good artist to start with, then Kanye, then some A$ap. Lift. Obviously. Become your se…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 05:31 AM
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Put her on the roster as a plate as long as you have others. If she ends up being your only plate, and you are asking this, then you are delusional. Your best bet is to agree to meet her in person at your ultimate convenience. If she cancels or tries getting you to Jump through hoops, you ignore her. She isn't worth your time to pursue, you are only there to recieve.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 04:23 PM
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In the future include the link in your post, along with your interpretation of the red pill values related to the subject. Don't link directly to it. Yea, men and women evolved to be stronger in different traits.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 04:48 AM
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You will always get IOIs from girls that are too ugly. Every snaggletooth and muffin top 2-3 points below you in SMV will be over the top flirty and direct in their intentions. Subconsciously they know that you are more of a prize and believe that they can temporarily up their value if you know theyll fuck. EVERY GIRL WILL DO THIS. Regardless of where they are in smv.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 01:36 PM
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Cutting isnt that bad, i just started my summer cut last week. Gotta chisel that beach body out. Jeesh stop being so melodramatic
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 05:51 AM
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As with anything, it doesnt come down to one aspect overall. If your looks and style lack but you compensate with charisma, you can absolutely get tail. But put that same level of charisma in a fat sack on a rascal and i can guarantee he wont get laid. On the other hand, a guy with the looks of Channing Tatum and the social skills of Hodor will probably have trouble getting laid too. The point is, as its been said before, looks are the simplest and most concrete way to up your smv. But It isnt t…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:38 AM
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Baby-face might imply that he cant actually grow facial hair. I know a handful of guys like this. If you can get anything on your face make it work. I keep my face at a #2 beard trim, which is pretty short, but that just the look of slightly unkept im going for. Letting your actual hair grow out a bit is another way you could go. As with my beard im going for a "controlled chaos" unkept appearance. I use a small amount of clay and a dab of coconut oil to style it. This draws most attention from …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:28 AM
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LSD changed my life, hands down. Call it what you wanna call it
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:44 AM
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Sounds more like body dysmorphia to me
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:18 PM
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Just my own style, unlabeled. I buy solid colored shirts in a size that flatters my build (snug, not tight). Usually they end up being white, black or grey v-neck undershirts from dept stores. $10-$15 for a pack of three. I'm always under the impression that wearing a logo or brand gives people an implicit view of my personality. That's just me For pants just make them fit well. Usually slim straight fit does it for me but it depends on the brand of pants. A few pairs of Jeans and khakis. Let th…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:26 PM
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There's nothing wrong with a daily dose of rabies
/r/askTRP06/04/15 05:42 PM
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I've heard that a lot actually. I'm looking into meditation
/r/askTRP06/04/15 05:41 PM
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Few tips -Be social and engage everyone. Men, women, questionables, demonstrate your confidence in all social situations. This is the fastest way to get over anxiety. -Don't latch onto any single encounter. People notice when you overstay your welcome. If conversation runs dry, bail, because you have social abundance. Find a new interaction -Look like you're having fun. Fake it if you have to. Someone who looks uncomfortable is social poison. Finally -Don't overdo the alcohol. Nobody wants to ta…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 02:02 AM
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Totally agree. I'm currently at a STEM based institute and a member of a fraternity. I can say that its very dangerous for guys in my position to get complacent because things "come easy" Last year I was finally able to start going out to bars and reasonably excited to get into a more diverse dating pool than freshmen sluts. Im around 6' and a broad shouldered 200lbs (not skinny, but no visible gut). I didn't really pay much attention to why women fucked with me in my first 3 years, they just di…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:18 PM
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"I'm sorry" is a big do not say for me. Christ, as a professional I almost hate hearing it more. Dont ask for forgiveness or sympathy. Make it clear that your actions were intentional and defend them, or make it clear that you will not make the same mistake twice
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:40 PM
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Gauge your own feedback man. If you're set in your ways, jumping into all those changes will take a lot of mental energy. Start with one and work the others in. I've seen too many guys make sweeping life decisions only to fall back on their previous habits. Willpower is a strength that must be built up. By your existing lifestyle I'd expect that its fairly weak at this point.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:31 PM
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Step one: You take a gun, and you shoot your hamster in the face You'll get much more out of working other girls than hyperanalyzing her
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:17 PM
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Swear by coconut oil rubbed on my face after a shower. Literally makes you glow and look as healthy as ever. This is all besides the benefits it has on your body
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 02:02 AM
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For starters, approach her 15 minutes ago. When you make eye contact, dont hesitate. Take what you want. If you go for the hail Mary, I typically go with a simple "hi, I'm ****" , get her name, followed by an in the moment statement/ observation about her/something she's doing. Make the statement, put slight pressure on her to validate herself. If that's too much just get anything out of your mouth. The most important thing in my approach strategy is body language. Calm confident and direct. War…
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 07:33 PM
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Buddy, dont play into her hand. She gave you just enough of a response to get your hamster running. Kill the fucking hamster. Dont think about how you're over her. Dont think that you guys had chemistry. Dont think about her at all.
/r/trpGAME11/11/14 06:16 PM
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If you have to ask, it's a next
/r/trpGAME03/10/14 11:34 PM
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If your open to it, go out for a cigarette, or just some air(cigarette is more casual). Parties usually always have a quieter outdoor place to light up. If you have a good friend who is hosting, plan it out with him beforehand to use his room to mix cocktails. Offer to make a girl some, profit. Depending on the energy level of the party suggest you guys go to a bar.
/r/seduction28/09/14 06:23 PM
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You can use parents as a broken compass, whatever they tell you about seduction is more than likely false
/r/seduction08/09/14 11:47 PM
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Exactly this, RSD has a video on the exact thing you're describing but I can't remember which
/r/seduction26/08/14 05:35 AM
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Don't ask, tell her you're going somewhere and that she should join you. I would recommend waiting until the day of or before to seem more spontaneous. Ie "Heading out for coffee, you should join me"
/r/seduction21/07/14 01:05 AM
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Took away a lot from this, the next one won't be so ugly or long
/r/trpGAME18/07/14 07:23 PM
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We have a winner
/r/trpGAME18/07/14 07:01 PM
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