LTR Flirty comments. Is it over?

vandaalen · 2017-08-28T23:44:18+00:00

If I can smell your insecurity over here in Germany, your girlfriend sure as fuck can.

You are overreacting, but she also does not seem like gf-material. How long did you know her before you promoted her? what were the reasons to do so? Did you not see any red flags?

raisins3142 · 2017-08-29T00:25:11+00:00

This is pretty subjective. I personally can't stand to be in a LTR with women capable of this level of sexual attention seeking from random men.

If it bothers you badly enough, then that is reason enough to end it.

I'll tell you a story of when I ignored my own opinion of things.

I broke up with an ex for 2 weeks. About a week in, I look at her facebook. She posts publicly about wanting to get really drunk and is asking if anyone wants to join her. This was basically a call for pussy vultures to circle and looked really slutty/low class. I still got back with her. It never stopped bothering me that I was with a girl capable of that. I have no idea if she acted on it or not. Can't know now, don't care.

Thing is, I should've known better.

MCDownlow · 2017-08-28T23:56:16+00:00

Obvious flirting on social media, aka neo-public; degenerate posts fishing for attention; implying she's not nearly as sexual now that's she's in a relationship. Straight up disrespecting you in public by basically saying you're shit in bed so she's had to tone it down, but "I'm still a naughty girl. Won't you punish me, Daddy?" Do whatever you want, but don't try to change her behavior or keep her from cheating. She has, she is, she will do it again. She'll try to convince you and others that you're being overly jealous and controlling; might even convince you that you have "issues." Looking you in the eyes, with a straight face, she'll speak lies out of a mouth that just went ATM. Women like this are narcissists and they will destroy you. Run. Save whatever friendships you can and say good riddance to those you can't. Run.

Edit: Straight FU to any alpha wannabees saying you're insecure or it's your failings etc etc. Even if it is your fault for being too permissive or letting the sex become routine etc etc. She's publicly shaming you to some Rando. Imagine what she says and does in private. Most of her friends think you're a bitch by this point. They know who's dicks she's been sucking and they hate you for it. Completely backwards I know. Get out Dude, you already know or you wouldn't have been staking her FB. It's too late to salvage anything, you'll just end up destroying yourself trying to keep a damaged, selfish, sociopath. Run. On to the next one.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-08-29T00:40:47+00:00

Damn son, your girl is a public freak. Nothing wrong with being a freak. It's the public part that's the problem.

If the sex is good, make her a plate. She sounds like a fun girl. Not the type you claim as your girl and show off to your friends because she might be fucking one of them.

ScottDurden · 2017-08-29T03:16:34+00:00

If she "toned down" her sexuality she only sees you as a long-term platonic provider. It's beyond doubt she had a high n-count before the LTR.

scrodzilla · 2017-08-28T23:55:41+00:00

I would start getting more aggressive in the bedroom. Unless you don't want to be with her anymore, then get rid of her.

No_senses · 2017-08-29T02:10:17+00:00

This is the same girl who wanted you to build a "love shed". Why are you surprised? They told you she was a nutcase in that thread too. Time for you to start checking out. Red flags galore.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-08-28T23:54:22+00:00

I wouldn't dump her over a FB comment. That's so insecure. How is she in person with you? Does she respect you?

If she actually toned things down in the bedroom with you, then you're her beta. She would tone things up with Chad. Dump her, and improve yourself.

Title	LTR Flirty comments. Is it over?
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Date	August 28, 2017 11:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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