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| 1 | How to get loyal employees in a business?Lol. I suppose so. When it comes to money, no one will be loyal for the right price. Hence, my point about decent compensation. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to get loyal employees in a business?Give them compensation that’s actually decent, benefits, perks that most other companies don’t offer, and don’t be a dick of a boss to name a few. Even with all of this though, they can still become disloyal to you. One of the most powerful things you can do is create a culture that’s focused on positivity and teamwork. I worked for a company a few years ago that did an amazing job at this and nearly all of us loved working there (there’s always going to be miserable people no matter where you g… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with this guy at work?It’s very stupid. Maybe he has insecurities or maybe he envies something about you. Who knows. The only thing you can do is play his game or you’ll always be frustrated. Read The 48 Laws of Power if you haven’t already. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with this guy at work?You’re showing him that he’s getting to you. This makes it fun for him to mess with you. The best way to no longer make it fun for him is to play along. Laugh WITH him when he busts your balls, give him a small shove as you laugh next time he tries to rub your head, bust his balls back in a playful way from time to time. You have to play his game or you’ll always lose. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Where can I read more about posts like "Mystery Man" and "Be More Like a Stranger to Her"?That's good. I would word it differently though. It's a lot of info and is lengthy. I would say "Gotta go. My friend wants to meet at her place to pre-game." Short and has the word "her" in it. It doesn't sound like you're purposely volunteering info. But if what you're saying is working then go for it. Whatever works, works. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Recommendations on getting into MMA?MMA means you will learn multiple martial arts to become well rounded. I recommend Jiu-Jitsu and Muay Thai. Jiu-Jitsu will teach you fighting on the ground and Muay Thai will teach you striking and kicking. You can do kickboxing instead of Muay Thai if you want. Either way, you'll have solid ground and stand up game. Just remember that martial arts have an extremely high learning curve and takes an immense amount of dedication and patience. As far as preparing, you can lift to supplement your tr… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Where can I read more about posts like "Mystery Man" and "Be More Like a Stranger to Her"?Be very vague and aloof, give less details when telling stories or when talking about yourself, give vague answers to questions (answer with "Yeah, something like that"), etc. Don't overdo it though or you won't be able to build a worthwhile connection with the person and they could also become annoyed. Find the right balance. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | An hour drive to work?Look up how many miles/gallon your car gets, how many miles round trip your job is from home, and about how much gas is in your area. With that info you'll be able to calculate how much in gas per week it will cost you. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 12:03 AM |
| 2 | An hour drive to work?There's a lot more variables to consider then what you gave but after factoring in the cost of gas and wear and tear on your car, you're probably making way less than $13/hour. And I'm not sure how this is TRP related. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 11:26 PM |
| 2 | On salary...Start reading this blog: http://wallstreetplayboys.com Find out what the salary range is for your position/specialty/field. If the pay is shit then change positions or change the field you're in altogether. If the pay is good on the higher end of the scale then find a job willing to pay you the higher end of the scale. This can possibly take a long time but it will be worth it. Work at this job while you start your own business. If you have any debt, pay that shit off as quickly as possible. Any… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | 2 Hours with Rollo Tomassi live on 21 Radio (new)I'm using iOS. Is there an equivalent? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 03:58 PM |
| 12 | 2 Hours with Rollo Tomassi live on 21 Radio (new)Never understood why some people use video services to upload audio. It forces everyone to keep their device unlocked for the entirety of the video and drains battery like crazy. People also can't listen in their car and use GPS on their device at the same time for their morning commutes/drive home. Now I have to convert this to audio on my computer and then email the audio file to myself or upload it to SoundCloud in order to play it with my phone locked or while using other apps like GPS. Audi… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | The Rational Male – Positive MasculinityOrdered as soon as I saw the Amazon.com link. Ordered Mastery by Robert Greene as well since it's discounted right now for only $8. Both will arrive in 2 days. Can't wait. Thanks Rollo. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/07/17 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Which to read first: "48 Laws of Power" or "Mastery"?One of the big complaints about 48 Laws is all the history. It can get boring but you can skip those parts if you want and go straight to the explanation of the law. I'd recommend reading the whole thing though. Another thing is that many laws contradict each other and this confuses people. The reason they contradict one another is because the way the world works is not straight forward. You can't use "if-then" logic for every situation you find yourself in in life because life is more complicat… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 02:42 AM |
| 26 | Company loyalty is dead. Switch jobs every 18 months to two years. [Career]I left my job I've been at for a long time because my boss didn't want to give me a promotion I'd been going for for a while. Went from a crappy $27k/year to $52k/ year. Two years later I left the $52k/year job and got a $71k/year job. Best decision I ever made. I went from $27k/year to $71k/year in about three years. No college degree, just learned my field as best I could and jumped ship when the company had nothing more to offer me. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 01:15 AM |
| 4 | My Notes From "The Beige Phillip Show''I stopped listening for a while and recently started again. I was really disappointed with the last 3 episodes I listened to. There was hardly any sexual strategy/red pill conversation and almost all just BS'ing with their guest and cracking jokes. That being said, I'm still going to listen. I've learned a lot from his earlier podcasts and he's just a funny guy to listen to. Thanks for sharing these notes as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Confused by womans reaction to ripped male body.She caught herself admitting out loud that she's sexually attracted to an AF (in front of her husband, no less). Then she tried to backtrack when she realized what she said. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | The Weeknd is very redpilled musicThis is one of his older songs. His new stuff went way too mainstream. There's still some RP stuff in his newer music but he's trying to appeal to the masses now for the money. Can't blame him. His older stuff is great though. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Are you training or are you masturbating?He may be able to use his strength against OP but it won't work with those who use proper technique. Technique beats strength nearly every time. That's one of the great things about Jiu-Jitsu. You can be a weakling and still dominate your opponent if you know proper technique. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Male breast cancer?!It is possible for a male to have breast cancer but it's extremely rare. What is more than likely happening to you is common in puberty. Same thing happened to me too. You're probably fine. I wouldn't stress about it. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/17 04:16 AM |
| 6 | How to raise your son as an Alpha?r/RedPillFatherhood r/RedPillParenting | /r/askTRP | 22/12/16 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I'm disgustedAfter re-reading it I agree. I am genuinely curious at how others would react to these kind of situations though. You're responses were hilarious. Thanks for the laugh. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I`m starting to hate woman.It will pass. You just have to remember that they were biologically designed this way. They couldn't change these things about themselves even if they wanted to. It's like getting mad at a fish for swimming. It's what they do. Give it time. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Dad admitted to a six year affair today and other sexual conquests while married to my mom/seeing my step momMaybe I will. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Dad admitted to a six year affair today and other sexual conquests while married to my mom/seeing my step momI try to help him. I give him advice from time to time. I don't direct him here because he just wouldn't understand it and he wouldn't agree with it even if he did. He also wouldn't be willing to put in the work to read all of the necessary material either. He would also be to scared to leave my mom because of finances. He's just not mentally strong enough. Based on RP philosophy he needs to divorce my mom asap. He just doesn't have the guts to do it because of money. Also because it's just easi… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Dad admitted to a six year affair today and other sexual conquests while married to my mom/seeing my step momIt's been WELL over 10 years. My mom should either get over it (he's been faithful ever since) or just divorce him already. Enough with the games. I feel bad for him because he has to put up with so much bullshit it's ridiculous. Too much to put in this post. He didn't just decide to cheat on her because that's what he wanted to do. She's been a shrew to him even before he cheated. She's treated him like shit ever since I can remember. She would even get physical with him sometimes and he would … | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Dad admitted to a six year affair today and other sexual conquests while married to my mom/seeing my step momIm pretty sure my dad cheated on my mom when I was little too. I vaguely remember getting the vibe that's what was going on between him and my mom. They still are married but only because it's financially beneficial. They're literally roommates and my mom is pretty nasty to him. I feel bad for him sometimes. I think I know how you feel. It's weird imagining your dad doing that. You'll get past it pretty quickly though. It's still fresh. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a pussy for crying after having to have my 15 year old cat put down.Depends what you're crying about. A pet is considered a loved one to pretty much all of us. Nothing wrong with crying over pet that passed away. It's considered a member of the family even though it's not human. Men do have human emotions too, after all. The important thing is that we manage those emotions. On the other hand, if you're crying because you're girlfriend dumped you for example, then you should man up and find another woman who realizes your value because there's a trillion woman ou… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Good damn it what the fuck?You're going through the anger phase. You're right. It's extremely fucked up. The thing is, it's not going to change. Not anytime soon anyway. You're only option is to embrace it. This is the bullshit we have to deal with as men. The best thing we can do about it is embrace it and dominate the game of life. Once you find TRP you have two options: Embrace reality and become the best man you can possibly be. Remain in denial that this is how life truly is and live your life unable to understand wh… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Millennials are less likely to be having sex than young adults were 30 years ago, according to a survey of almost 27,000 people. Why?I think there's a ton of reasons for this. One thing I think plays a huge factor is that over time society has made men more and more beta. Masculinity is basically frowned upon now compared to years ago when it was more socially acceptable. Society (read: the feminine imperative) has been hard at work to make men their good little betas. Men all over the world are falling for it because they're taught this is the correct mindset to have at a young age. The mindset of being chivalrous, happy wif… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/16 02:05 AM |
| 10 | Is there a way you can speak that makes others not want to interrupt you when speaking in a group?I work in a somewhat corporate environment and we do this all the time during meetings. If you're pausing to think of what to say next and someone butts in just say something like, "Hold on, let me get this out" or "Wait, let me finish this". You'd be surprised at how well this works and people are way less likely to interrupt you because they don't want to be shut down mid sentence like you did the last guy. Say it loud so everyone can hear and with confidence. Also work on not being in your he… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipGood point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipYou're right. I'll work on this as well. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipExcellent idea. I'm gonna do this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Current state of my relationshipIt's just a username on the Internet. It's meaningless just like everyone else's. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Current state of my relationshipThanks. Good advice. She did talk to her doctor (I should have went) about paragard and mirena IUD. When I talked about it with her later she didn't even know Paragard was hormone free. That's one of the first few things i would think the doctor would tell her about it. It releases copper, not hormones. I explained how it worked to her and she just said "Well, I'm going with my gut and not getting on any birth control so it doesn't harm the baby when he drinks my breastmilk. Do you want somethin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Current state of my relationshipVery good info. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Current state of my relationshipTried to tell her this but she just says she thinks she saw the copper IUD was taken off the market because of some side effect. I told her it wasn't and then she just starts talking about what it could do to the baby. I'm working on it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Current state of my relationshipYou're right. I do get a bit riled up when she's disrespectful. I'll work on this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipThanks again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipThis is exactly right and describes me perfectly. I needed to hear this. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipI definitely will. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipUnderstood | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:35 PM |
| 0 | Current state of my relationshipShe wants to stay out 4 or 5 months. She makes it clear she hates working. She wants to be a stay at home mom. Thanks. I'll enjoy time with my kid. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipSo simple. Wish I'd have thought of this. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipThank you. I'll remember this. What's the correct way to respond to her inevitably asking where I was and what I was doing though? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Current state of my relationshipI agree | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Current state of my relationshipGood point. I didn't look at it this way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Current state of my relationshipI know she wasn't just seeing what she looked like. I'm not that naive. That's just how I was trying to say "she was seeing how she was compared to her and if it's someone I would fuck or not if given the chance and if she is someone who would fuck me if given the chance." She already knew I could probably fuck her if I wanted to. She's right. The girl flirts with me here and there. Anyway, I should've worded it differently. The advice you've given makes sense and I will apply it. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Current state of my relationshipGreat thinking. I'll do this. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/16 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Email from wifeThis makes sense. Thank you. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/16 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Email from wifeMy understanding was that you withdrawal attention until she corrects her behavior/realizes that denial of sex results in you giving your attention to other things, no? How come you should "start fresh" the next day like it never happened? | /r/askMRP | 12/06/16 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Is that a bad gym ?More so about your personal trainer: Honestly, you don't really NEED a personal trainer. A lot of them don't know what their talking about/doing. On the other hand there's some great personal trainers out there. What I'm saying is, if you want a personal trainer make sure he's reputable and actually knows what he's talking about. It's actually pretty easy to become a certified personal trainer these days from what I hear so many people can do it. The reason I'm telling you this is that it sounds… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Best martial art to kick someone's ass?Boxing and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. I just started BJJ and it's astounding how inefficiently 99% of people fight. If you learn BJJ it will teach you how to fight by using way less energy. It's mostly fighting on the ground but keep in mind a high percentage of fights end up on the ground anyway. If a guy who's bigger than you ends up on top of you do you know how to get him off? If you're on top hitting him do you know how to punch him while making sure he can't punch you? Do you know what to do if … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I don't have a phone by choice. Should I get one?If you're mentally strong enough to stick to your guns to not get distracted by the social media etc then just get a phone. Even if you just get a phone for emergencies, just get one. Example: You're on the highway and your car breaks down or you get a flat and don't have a spare or the tools necessary to change the tire (not uncommon). Do you really want to be that guy with a shirt hanging out his window signifying he needs help? And then sit there for possibly hours or all day waiting for a ki… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Ways to save cash as a 17 year oldr/techsupport | /r/askTRP | 02/06/16 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?Good point. Like I said, we're not nearly intelligent enough as a species to understand any of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Has TRP made anyone else become atheist?I think the human race isn't intelligent enough to comprehend how the universe came about or what the meaning of life is etc. So whatever that makes me, that's what I am. Don't know if there's a technical term for this or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | When is it okay to have the gf move in with you?He's exactly right. If you're not going to marry her in the next 6 months then do not move her in. PERIOD. Make sure you read this article on Rollo's blog. Really good info for your situation. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Hey Babe. Of course sweetie. Yes I will be there at 8:00, get yourself ready. Ohh, yes. I love it when you talk dirty babe, see you in a bit...I would've just said "Yeah you can call her and tell her. Here's her number." If he actually follows through and calls he would feel stupid and you and your wife can have a laugh about what an idiot the guy is. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/16 09:47 PM |
| 0 | PregnantGuess there's not a whole lot he can do other than paternity test. Maybe he'll take your advice in the future. Side note: We probably shouldn't be using words like "beaner" in TRP. We're already viewed as misogynists, the last thing we need is to be accused of being racists too. I mean I don't think it's against the sub's rules or anything and I get that it's freedom of speech but I'm just throwing it out there. Take it or leave it. Hope things work out for your nephew. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/16 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Briffault's LawI have to admit, I've never fully understood Briffault's law. Can someone explain this to me? Is it basically saying that the female decides who she associates herself with (romantically, sexually, etc) and if their are no benefits to associating with a particular male then she will choose not to do so? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/16 02:39 AM |
| 5 | The Rational Male is now on AudibleLol. Strong trolling right here. If you are serious though, you're an idiot. But I'll just assume troll. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Why does losing a job feel similar to a break up?First, get out of the mindset that their is a such thing as "leagues". Your mindset should be that you can get any girl you want. "Leagues" isn't a real thing. I'd encourage you to read Rollo Tomassi's work. Second, losing a job sucks. I've been there. Once you get a new job you won't care about your last job anymore. Focus your time and energy on finding a new job. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Best Multi-vitaminMake sure that if you decide to take creatine like a few people suggested you educate yourself on it. You don't just take it and see results. You have to drink a certain amount of water a day, for example. Educate yourself on it before you take it so you can get the best results out of it. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Hijabi Shit TestDon't know where you read I support anything about her faking wearing it but that's beside the point. If she does want to wear it then why is she telling you she doesn't want to? Why are you seeing pictures of her not wearing it behind your back? It sounds like your bigger issue is that you married someone who faked her beliefs to be with you. "Don't listen to what she says, look at what she does". She fakes wanting to wear it to please you. "Isn't it commonly said in TRP that a woman is happies… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Elon Musk is FuckedThat's the entire issue with American divorce laws. She gets at least half of everything sometimes more and you may have to pay alimony (monthly financial support to her). All of this regardless of why you're divorcing. Found her in the bathroom of a club with a dude giving it to her and now you want to divorce her? Well then she gets rewarded with half of everything and alimony. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Hijabi Shit TestIt's not really an opinion. She told you herself she doesn't want to wear it and then later you saw pictures of her not wearing it when you weren't around. Isn't this enough confirmation that she doesn't want to wear it? "...when the time comes she will actually wear it." Yes she will. And every time she does she will lose a little respect and attraction for you. What I meant by an American lifestyle is just generally being more free. The lifestyle that you want the both of you to live allows he… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Hijabi Shit TestThat's correct, you shouldn't follow it like a religion. But your religion conflicts with several basic principles of TRP. Listen, me and you can go back and forth all day on this. But the fact of the matter is your wife doesn't want to wear the hijab. Plain and simple. She wants to fit in and possibly even wants to live a more American lifestyle. You came here for advice and that's my advice. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Hijabi Shit TestYou don't have an accurate understanding of TRP based on that post. Your beliefs conflict with its principals. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Hijabi Shit TestYou're not necessarily insecure that she will cheat, you're insecure in yourself and as a result someone better will come along and take her from you. From what I can tell from your posts you're living in the US right? If so, I can tell you what I believe will happen with your relationship based on all of the info you've given us: You're wife will probably do as you say and wear the hijab. Every time she puts it on she knows it's because of your insecurity in yourself. She has already detected y… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/16 02:00 AM |
| 2 | How To Make Sure She Won't CheatThe reason this doesn't work is because hypergamy doesn't care. Hypergamy doesn't care what's at stake, what could be potentially lost if she decides to cheat. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Women enjoy sex 100+ times more than menCheck out this article from Rollo: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/04/women-sex/ Generally speaking, woman are not more sexual than men. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Using Leverage Over Your Employer - Creating a Bidding WarI have more than you think, believe me. It's a very small company so they don't exactly have a ton of resources. If I decide to just quit now then that's a ton of money they spent on me down the tube plus the money they have to spend searching for and training someone new. I'm also not considered a "trainee" where I'm at now. It's really just about learning their systems which just takes forever because there's so many variables. I already know the trade itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Using Leverage Over Your Employer - Creating a Bidding WarLoyalty? We both know employers don't even know what that word means so I could give a fuck if they question my loyalty because I always question theirs. If i ever feel like I'm getting fucked I reverse it right then and there. I try to minimize getting fucked as much as possible. "If you're going to go then go". Employers try to squeeze the most work out of their employees for as little compensations as possible. Again, we both know this. They take a look at whether you can produce for them and… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | [corporate land] How to get around corporate speaking middle management?Not sure you'll get a lot of responses on this as the info you gave isn't very specific. Specifically, what advice are you looking for? Just generally dealing with middle management? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Does Law 6 apply to Bill Cosby?No. What Bill Cosby is accused of doing is considered a terribly awful thing in today's society. An accusation like this can destroy a man's life. It doesn't matter if he did it or not because perception is everything. As long as it seems like he could've done it then it's pretty much just as bad as him actually doing. Again, perception is everything. I'm sure you've heard of the saying "All publicity is good publicity". This isn't entirely true. Take Bill Cosby for example. There's really no po… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game on my Female BossOne option is to create a bidding war between your current company and a company that wants to hire you. After you get another company offer you more money, tell your current company you've would like to re-evaluate your current package as you're being offered more money elsewhere. This can work well if your hard to replace or your company depends on you for a lot. For example, it would be really tough on my current company if I did this to them as they've spent a massive amount of time and mone… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 05:28 PM |
| 1 | First job as a supervisor at 21 years old. RP Advice?I was in your shoes only at an even younger age. I was 19. Here's some things I picked up and wish I knew going into it: Be assertive. People will try to take advantage of any kindness you have. Whatever you do, don't become known as the laid back/nice boss. People will take advantage of that like you wouldn't believe. Learn your workplace politics. Know all of the policies you should know as a supervisor, who to go to for what, what's socially acceptable and not, etc. Read The 48 Laws of Power.… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedHa!! That thread was classic. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedNice. Just read it. Solid post. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/15 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedThanks man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedThe holding her stomach thing is because she's really protective of the baby which is understandable. But at the same time It's not like I'm going to start hitting her stomach or anything. She is a bit self conscious when I think about it though so that could play a part in it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedVery good info. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedSounds good, thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedVery good advice. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedThis isn't entirely true. It's been very well established that I have options and could divorce her and bring a girl home that same night. In fact, she went ape shit when she found out the woman who cuts my hair is a platinum blonde that I went to high school with. She even found her on Facebook to see what she looked like. She knows I have plenty of options. Which is why I'm so confused because RP theory says that women love men with options and it only makes them want to fuck him more. It does… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Wife only has sex with me when she thinks I may be straying or am getting frustratedThat's actually good to hear that some of the problem may just be that she's pregnant. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Was drunk and kissed girl. You tell to your GF?I can't tell you from experience that you will regret it if you do. She will hold it over your head for your entire relationship. Save the trouble and don't tel her and just move on. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How to use flirting with other women in front of wife as a form of dread?Makes sense. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How to use flirting with other women in front of wife as a form of dread?Great advice. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/15 04:16 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: How to Handle Salary Negotiations.Amazing post. I wish I'd have known this before taking my first corporate job a few months ago. Oh well, they're at least paying me the going rate for my position so I can't complain much. I'll just do a diagonal move in a year anyway and make more. The place I'm at is fucking crazy but I'm making decent money and it will help a lot when making my next diagonal move. Thanks again for posting and keep the career related posts coming. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I peacock at work?Dress a level higher than what is required. For example if dress code is business casual then dress smart casual. See attached image for reference.http://imgur.com/M5u3q9W | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP think about hairstyles?I have the same hairstyle as Brad Pitt in the movie Fury. I always get compliments on it. Basically a fade on the sides and the top goes straight back with some pomade. Check it out: http://imgur.com/xd3EXN4 http://imgur.com/PDqv22u | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Dan Bilzerian publicly shamed Ryan Deluca (bodybuilding.com) on Instagram. How should Ryan have handled it versus what he did?Completely disagree. That's a bad response IMO. It sounds defensive and butt hurt. By saying that he would be taking an offensive position (by calling him out for telling the world) when he's already lost terribly. You know what the best response is? Absolutely nothing. The chicks hypergamy kicked in and she cheated on him. If he HAD to respond then the best response is "Well, onto the next one." It's kind of ambiguous, shows he isn't butt hurt, shows he doesn't even really give a shit (wether h… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 03:03 AM |
| 1 | How did YOU find The Red PillWas googling for a forum that strictly discusses machiavellianism after reading The 48 Laws of Power and stumbled upon TRP as one of the search results. So glad I clicked that link. It truly changed my view of the world and made my life better. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Book "Red Pill Orgasm"... Worth it?I read it. The guy himself is knowledgeable but the book in my opinion seemed like it was geared toward people who were relatively new to sex. A lot of the info I read from various websites when I first stated fucking. Compared to Sex God Method, it doesn't even hold a candle to it. I'd definitely pass on this one unless you're pretty new to the game. This is just my opinion though. I've seen people who have found the book useful. It just wasn't useful to me. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm about to start my first job, any tips?Read The 48 Laws of Power, Make sure your boss likes you, learn the culture/politics of the workplace, and always keep your options open and be searching for even better opportunities. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Doing something wrong but not sure what.Good point. Things have been going pretty well the past few days but I'll keep this in mind for when it gets nasty. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/15 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Doing something wrong but not sure what.What is an example of applying dread immediately after? This is a bit more overt which I'm not used to. I guess leaving the house without explaining where you're going would be an example? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Doing something wrong but not sure what.After sexual denial? After disrespect? Or both? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Asking male friends to hang out?You're not easing into it enough. You're going straight for it too early. Here's what I do. I actually did this yesterday: Me: hey man. It's been a while. How you been? Him: pretty good man, just working and taking care of the family. How about you? Me: pretty much the same. Just working and making money. How's the family? Him: Doing good. All in good health so can't complain. Me: that's good man. We gotta hang out sometime and catch up. get something to eat or hit the gym again. Are you free th… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 11:33 PM |
| 2 | "I cant figure you out, there's a mystic about you."You're mysterious and chicks love that. They can't "figure you out". You probably don't reveal much about yourself in conversation (not necessarily intentionally) and when you do you give vague information (again, not necessarily intentionally). People tell me this about myself all of the time. Been hearing it my entire life. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | I don't trust gyms. The industry has a history of shady billing practices. What advice can you provide?If you go to a reputable gym (LA Fitness for example) I don't see how you'd have a problem. You seem a bit paranoid. Just look at what you're signing before you sign it and ask for a copy. It does happen, I'll give you that. But I wouldn't worry about it too much. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | The Rational Male "Women in Love"I actually read this article back when you just posted it but obviously didn't internalize it enough since I've completely forgotten about it. I'll be re-reading it a few more times. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Did I do this right?So glad you chimed in on this one. Can you elaborate more on a compliance test? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here use the "Misc" section on bodybuilding.com?That's for you to decide. But I can tell you what it's not. It's not getting high with your friends, allowing yourself to be disrespected by a woman (or anyone for that matter), wasting time doing things that won't improve your future (choosing to stay at a dead end job for example), etc. Do what you need to do to so that when you're on your death bed you can say, "It may be my time to go but damn I sure enjoyed it". | /r/askTRP | 30/08/15 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone here use the "Misc" section on bodybuilding.com?Understand that 99% of the people in that forum don't know the true meaning of alpha and what it truly means to be a man. I guarantee almost none of them have read work from Rollo Tomassi or Illimitable Men or anything that give them true insight on what it means to be a man and what actually matters in life. Some of them do frequent this sub so some of them know the real deal but most don't. Browsing that forum is a massive waste of time. Spend that time reading useful info like what you see on… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/15 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Weak Beta Male Man Child Will Become My Department Head On Monday. What Do?Read The 48 Laws of Power. If you want things to go well it may prove useful to pretend to befriend him. Be cool with him. Crack jokes, make small talk, etc. I know you want nothing to do with him (I've been there) but you have to do what's best for you. Have a back up plan in case it doesn't work out and things get really hairy. It's time to put that Machiavellian hat on. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | What salary should I "settle" for?Sounds like you may be better off making a diagonal move. I recently nearly doubled my salary and now have a white collar job by doing this. I thought I was going to stay at the company I was at forever and just grow and climb the ladder there. When I realized it was taking way too long to meet my financial goals I jumped ship and made a diagonal move. Best decision I ever made. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What to do when my LTR "misbehaves" in public?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 28/08/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | What to do when my LTR "misbehaves" in public?Can't find that post. Can you link to it? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 05:09 PM |
| 3 | I'm not ready for a relationship.Drop your girl. You don't need that in your life right now. After that get your drug/alcohol problem under control. Then find a solid job if you don't have one already. Do those three things and you'll be in a much better spot. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How does one deal with backstabbing coworkers?Just do your job the way it's supposed to be done and you'll be fine. They won't be able to get any dirt on you to tell your boss. You also have to force them to respect you in a way that's acceptable to your workplace's culture. Make friends with your boss so that if they do decide to tattle on you for something he'll be more likely to believe your side or be more lenient towards you. I've been there and it took me forever to figure this out. I could go more in-depth but don't have the time at … | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm 19. How do I set myself up so that money won't be an issue in my future?15% net or gross? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Conflict at work, got fucked by power play?You come across as being new here. You also didn't read the sidebar on the main sub as TRP isn't just about sexual strategy. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/15 12:04 AM |
| 2 | A question NOT about pick up. Want some pointers for a job interview I may have missed.One thing to keep in mind is that you can have all of the qualifications they're looking for but if the rapport between you and the interviewer isn't good then it's less likely you'll get the job. Make small talk to the interviewer. Make it more of a conversation with each other rather than a typical interview. One great trick I discovered is if they ask the typical interview question, "Tell me about yourself". Answer the question the way you should (talk about your past work history and skills)… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/15 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Girls as friends, to what extent do you guys do it?Here's an excellent article on this topic over at Chateau Heartiste: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/05/13/when-men-and-women-can-be-friends/ A quote from this article that pretty much sums up this topic: "Male-female friendships only work when neither are physically attracted to the other, and they partially work when 1) the woman is attracted to the man but he isn’t attracted to her or 2) he is attracted to her but getting lots of action from other women." | /r/askTRP | 14/08/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Don't want to give out anymore info. Too many people have been doxed. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.No one in this thread takes you seriously. How does it feel to know that? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.I was in high 20 thousands and doubled that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.You didn't read the sidebar. TRP is t just about sexual strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.It can't be that bad. I've read some posts on here that aren't even readable. I did type all of that on a phone after all. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.A year or two is probably the average. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.If you're only 27 and making 6 figures then you're doing it right. That's solid money right there. Serious. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will."The best form of revenge is to be more successful than the person who wronged you." I love that. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.It's never too late. Do what you gotta do. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 12:40 AM |
| 5 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Never said I would rub it in their face. I'm going to hand them a resignation letter like your supposed to. Then enjoy the look on their face. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 08:01 PM |
| -3 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.You're in your lower 20s aren't you? You sound like it. Lol | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.And give them even more of my time? No thanks. I will be resigning in an appropriate way though so that I don't burn any bridges. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I use TRP in a corporate environment?Well for starters you should read The 48 Laws of Power if you haven't already. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What Book(s) Would You Give To Someone About To Be Get Married?Definitely these two: The Rational Male: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/745489624?utm_medium=api&utm_source=custom_widget The Rational Male - Preventative Medicine: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1223794782?utm_medium=api&utm_source=custom_widget Along with No More Mr. Nice Guy. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/15 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Very well said. I was in that situation. Now I realize that if I didn't take action I'd be losing out on so many opportunities. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 04:29 PM |
| 33 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.That's pretty much what happened to me. I took on so much extra responsibility and was able to perform well. So they kept me there because it helped them further their own agenda and made them look good. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.That's very smart. You never know how many better opportunities are out there unless you look. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.I do sense a subtle amount of anger phase but on to your point... You're exactly right. I couldn't stand up for myself. The reason being my bosses knew I wanted a promotion and I had better make them happy if I were to get it. Do you think if someone butts in front of me in line at a super market I wouldn't say anything? Of course I would. The difference is my bosses had me by the balls. I didn't have much of a choice but to try and make them happy. I had no leverage. They had it all. When I rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Thank you. And good for you. Don't stop looking no matter how long it takes. Don't lose motivation. You're worth more than what you're getting. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Exactly. No company is loyal to you so why be loyal to them? Always do what's best for yourself first. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Good for you. Keep in mind I got lucky finding a new company in a month. It can take a year or two to find a new, good paying company. Good luck in your search if you end up having to. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Looking for information/content on how a man's relationship with his mother affects his attraction/relationship with women./u/IllimitableMan and/or Rollo Tomassi has touched a bit on this I believe although I can't point to exactly what article(s) it was. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why men and women should NEVER be friendsI remember reading an article a while back somewhere on the manosphere that discussed how life as a man is much harder than life as a woman. I think it talked about how a male, starting from birth, has to become a man but a woman is always a woman. Can someone link me to an article like this? I wanna say /u/IllimitableMan or Rollo Tomassi wrote on this but I'm not sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Feminist at r/askhamsters feels bad about liking to be dominated. She's tried to suppress it but she just can't.That doesn't go along with the beliefs of this sub. Woman are biologically designed to desire an alpha male. Read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and religionThat's right. The idea of religion is a paradigm but very few people can understand that. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and religionExactly. Everyone follows the religion they were given at birth because their parents say it's the right one. We never question it because we were just children and trusted them. Find something that matches your beliefs in your heart. Maybe you don't find something and just decide to live your life to the fullest and as a good person. Nothing wrong with that. At the end of the day there is no correct religion. Everyone thinks their religion is the right one but there's so many religions out ther… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/15 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone know the story behind the creation of TheRedPill?Pretty sure it started in the PUA community where everyone was noticing common patterns in women. Eventually it grew into its own thing in the manosphere. Pretty sure that's what I read a while back anyway. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/15 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and religionSo you personally don't see it as wrong but you're following the belief that it is wrong just because your religion tells you so. That's blindly following. I'm not trying to talk you out of your religion but if you're going to follow any religion you should share the same beliefs it practices deep down in your heart. Don't follow a religion's beliefs just because. Follow it because you deep down believe it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/15 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Feminist at r/askhamsters feels bad about liking to be dominated. She's tried to suppress it but she just can't.You clearly didn't read either of the two posts. Please read again. And read the sidebar too. Here's the quote again: "...I've come to realize I'm just hardwired that way." | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill and religionIn your particular situation you have to choose one or the other. Let me ask you this, do you believe sex before marriage is wrong because your religion tells you so? Or do you deep down inside yourself believe it's wrong and you agree with your religion because of that? If it's the first one then you're letting religion make your life decisions for you instead of living your life how you want to. You're not thinking for yourself. In other words you're blindly following a religion because that's… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/15 08:57 PM |
| 5 | 50 Shades of Red - Wisdom for Men About WomenI love lists of red pill maxims. Thanks as always /u/IllimitableMan | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How do y'all take care of your face?From the movie American Psycho. Just a meme. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to recognize that I'm becoming a misanthrope. Should I work to change that?I feel the same way. I feel as though most people are just pitiful and make excuses for their own stupidity or laziness. People would rather complain about their lives than make it better. Not to mention how said society has become. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | My wife has a business management degree. Should I take over the finances? I have swallowed the pill and I am captain over the business and house but she is in charge of the finances. Should I take over that too?In short, managing the bills is seen as a man's role. Just like fixing the car or mowing the lawn. It would help you a bit to take on this role to help you be seen as a more masculine male. That doesn't mean you're wrong for letting her do it. I just see it as benefitting you to take on this responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/15 03:22 PM |
| 1 | WWYD confirms what we already know: society gives 0 shits about men.Stuff like this disgusts me. I think I'll always have a small piece of the anger phase in me whenever I see things like this. The fact that society treats men like they're worthless and then add to that the feminists who still want more and more but only when it's convenient for them just makes me lose complete faith in humanity. Who REALLY gets treated like shit, men or women? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Preparing for a leadership position while still being seen as beta?People keep saying. "It's high school so who gives a shit?" But this is the perfect opportunity to begin learning how to boss up. The last thing you want is to get a job when your older in a leadership role and you're beta as hell and no one respects you or takes you seriously. Trust me, I've been there and it make your job extremely hard. I don't have the time to get deep into this but some advice I have for you is to not care about other people's feelings and do your job. Speak with authority … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you get used to working 9-5?Pretty much this. If your complaining about the actual hours then look at it this way: I work some really shitty hours. Sometimes 12pm to 8pm (which is your entire day), 11am to 7pm (again, your entire day), 4am to 12pm (super early), and sometime even 6pm to 4am (overnight shift). My schedule is completely random too. It makes it really challenging to have a life when your at work from the afternoon to the night. I still make sure I put in work when I'm there though and don't bitch about it. Ju… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | CAREER FORM - Age, Career, EarningsI lol'd. That's a solid quote though. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman willing to be a man's mistress?My understanding of AWALT is that all woman have all of the traits but some have more or less tendencies towards certain ones. I think that's what you meant to say. To say that there's woman who don't have all of the traits doesn't make sense to me. It's in your biology. There's nothing that can change that. Although, nearly all woman are strong in all traits. Maybe a third party can chime in and give their two cents. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman willing to be a man's mistress?I would encourage you to read some posts by Rollo Tomassi at TheRationalMale.com on hypergamy. Your statement that we all say AWALT but not all woman have every trait is a contradictory statement. All that aside, it's great that you and your husband seem to have a great relationship. I mean that. That's one of the many goals we're all trying to achieve here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Today I painfully watched a bluepiller become a redpillerAahh. I see what you're doing there. Didn't notice your username before. You'll stop being a troll eventually. It'll get old and you'll move on. Have fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 01:50 PM |
| 15 | Today I painfully watched a bluepiller become a redpillerWe don't hate women here at TRP. Find another sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman willing to be a man's mistress?You're basically saying you are able to consciously override how you were biologically designed. That's not possible. I'm curious, what brought you to this sub? You're beliefs don't seem to align with what we talk about here so I'm curious as to how you found this sub. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 01:18 PM |
| 0 | What makes a woman willing to be a man's mistress?You're lying to yourself. To say that you're not sexually attracted to any other men is ridiculous. If a hot, millionaire celebrity wanted to have sex with you you're telling me you wouldn't want to regardless if you went through with it or not? It's great that you are attracted to your husband though. Sounds like he's doing something right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 12:09 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman willing to be a man's mistress?Very insightful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/15 12:04 AM |
| 10 | Increased awareness of the redpillI don't really have the answer to this. What I can tell you is that 99% of society isn't ready for TRP and won't be any time soon. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Wife doesn't go to the gym anymoreI do notice the few times I forced her to go she seemed glad she went. Maybe I'll force her to go with me more often so it eventually becomes a habit again. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Wife doesn't go to the gym anymoreI like the first point especially. Maybe it's time for a new routine with quicker results. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 04:39 PM |
| 2 | The Hierarchy of LoveThis is such a great article. Goes really well with The Rational - Male Preventative Medicine book. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 10:15 PM |
| 0 | When and how do you use the power gaze?In the 48 Laws of Power Robert Greene talks about a man who used an "up look". His head would be slightly down but his eyes would be looking up at the person he was talking to/looking at. From what I remember reading women loved it and men were intimidated by it. EDIT: Maybe it was head tilted back with the eyes looking down? That would make more sense I suppose. I can't remember. Can't remember the guy's name or what law it was though. If anyone knows please remind me. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Without Morpheus there is no Neo: When and how to Share TRPI personally never share TRP with anyone. No exceptions whatsoever. 99% of people in this world aren't ready for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Best books on moving up the career ladder?The 48 Laws of Power is a must if you haven't already. Here's some others: Be Slightly Evil — Venkatesh Rao at Ribbon Farm The Gervais Principle — Vankatersh Rao at Ribbon Farm The Art of Seduction — Robert Greene (people seem to forget this book doesn't just apply to sexual relationships but everyday interactions as well) Power — Jeffrey Pfeffer | /r/askTRP | 26/05/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a good career, need suggestionsTo quote Wall Street Playboys, "The only way to get rich is to start your own business." It is possible to make good money without doing this but at the end of the day it's the absolute best way. I can't think of anything better. I'm in the process of doing this now and it's really fucking hard. But who wants life to be easy? Losers, that's who. You're already ahead of the game by knowing some code. Use that skill somehow. Even if for a side gig. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how do you guys stick up for yourselves?Easiest way is to just laugh right along with them. When they see you laughing about it it tells them that they haven't affected you in a negative way. If they see that it has affected you emotionally then they'll keep doing it because it's fun to them. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with girls trying to make you jealous?"You're cute when you try to make me jealous" change subject | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Discovered red pill but parents pushing for arranged marriageNEVER marry someone just because it's a person your family approves of. Having someone choose your spouse for you is just ridiculous. I have the utmost respect respect for other cultures, really I do, but this is something I'll never agree with. If you're going to get married make sure it's someone YOU approve of. Some who meets YOUR expectations and standards. Not someone your family approves of. If they don't like it then to bad. It's not their marriage. They don't have to spend the rest of th… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/15 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts On Art Of Seduction (Robert Greene)Keep in mind this book isn't just for learning to seduce different women. It's to seduce those around you, not necessarily in a sexual way, as well. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/15 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Be a generous king with your attentionLove this. Never thought about it this way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I weird for like pubic hair on girls?Funniest post ever. Couldn't agree more though. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Menstrual cyclr tracking: Clue app is signing up beta testers for data sharingMy wife also uses this. I was hoping they would add this feature. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with myself being jealous?Sums it up perfectly. For example, I know that if my girl cheats/dumps me for someone else it's her loss because I know how high my value is. I would let it go, continue with life, and replace her. As the old saying goes "Don't chase 'em, replace 'em." There's a shit ton of other woman on the planet I can get with so why stress over this one? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | My wife is lazyThat's what's weird. When I first started and got some great results she happily joined along with me. Now she just doesn't really care. Possibly because she wasn't seeing results since she was working out but not counting her calories and changing her eating habits. I guess she just not motivated anymore. I tried explaining the amount of dedication this takes but it doesn't seem to do anything. I'm really not sure where to go from here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/15 12:11 AM |
| 3 | My wife is lazyI was thinking about this but wasn't sure if dread was taking it too far. I think I'll have to start. Thanks for your response. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/15 07:42 PM |
| 4 | I'm At My Wits EndHow do you manage this? You be a boss and knock it out of the fucking park. Your wife may be right about you being negative (I don't know the specifics about your work situation to really know). When things get hard in your career that's when it's time to kick it into overdrive. You have to convince yourself of how amazing you are and that you can accomplish whatever the fuck you want because that's the kind of man you are. You make shit happen. Whatever you want, you go out and you get it becau… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/15 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Woman is thinking of making her husband a 'list of chores' before he gets a blowjob.Reading things like this makes me so glad I set serious expectations in my LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 01:24 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl calls you out on kino?Sounds good. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel women use sexuality to gain an advantage in every aspect of their life?Absolutely they do. I've seen a woman get a promotion over a guy (who was without a doubt more qualified) because she showed cleavage during the interview. Guess who the manager voted for to get that promotion? The woman. The manager couldn't stop staring at her tits during the whole interview. I already knew who he was voting for. I was cringing inside. My manager also hired a young girl for an entry level position because she was cute. He smiled every time he saw her and spoke in a very differ… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Should I even bother reading "The 48 Laws of Power"Exactly this as described in my post below. +1 | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Should I even bother reading "The 48 Laws of Power"Unfortunately, this is the real world. Like Robert Greene described in the introduction you can't choose not to play the game of power because while you're choosing not to play someone else is taking advantage to gain power over you at your expense. You're better off playing. This way you can at least protect yourself from others. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I even bother reading "The 48 Laws of Power"You have to understand that this book is considered amoral. People who believe in "doing the right thing", and "the more you give to others, the more that is given unto you", etc etc. call them goodies goodies, if you will. These people go through life with their blinders on and are unable to see the world for what it truly is. As a result, when they read a book like this they write reviews talking about how ridiculous it is and how it's a book for sociopaths with no morals. Think of it like thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | From time to time my LTR asks me this. Good thing or bad thing?More than likely insecurity for reasons I won't bother going into but very good points made. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 02:24 PM |
| 3 | From time to time my LTR asks me this. Good thing or bad thing?Easy enough. I was thinking "why? Do you want me to start cheating on you?". | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls from behind?If you're behind her try to approach at an angle. Not directly behind but approach her more on her side if that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill equivalent for business and office politics?Office politics are everywhere. It's almost impossible to escape them. The best way to handle it is to make sure you have a solid understanding of your companies culture. Find out what is ok to say/do and what isn't ok to say/do. Observe and learn your employers politics and perfect them to use them to your advantage. So far all of the resources posted in this thread look excellent. I've read a few of them a while back. Read "The 48 Laws of Power" too if you haven't already. It's a great place t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 12:43 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with miserable coworkers?Law 10: Infection: Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. Always stay away from the type of people described in you post. They are of low value and have nothing to offer you. I recommend reading this: http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-10-infection-avoid-unhappy-and.html?m=1 | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend makes new years resolution to revert to celibacyNext her. She probably won't stick to it though. She's only 19. Some dude is gonna make her wet and she's just gonna say "fuck it". | /r/askTRP | 10/01/15 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Work Hard, but Do Not Tell Anyone You Do.You mean should you write those extra hours in so you get paid for them? Of course you should. You don't have to go as far as to work for free. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | A good read that helps me to Improove My Shit Test Detection SkillsTry here: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/10/04/brushing-off-common-shit-tests-from-girls/ And here: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/12/17/common-shit-tests/ And here: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/04/30/additions-to-the-shit-test-compendium/ And here: http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 10:29 PM |
| 2 | I cum too earlyHappens to me sometimes. I usually pull out right before I'm about to cum. Sometimes she gets a little frustrated that she's about to cum and I just pull out. But it's better to pull out and she's a little frustrated but you can keep fucking than to just keep going and you cum in 5 seconds and it's over. Sometimes when I pull out I'll give her oral for a few minutes so my cock has time to calm down (lol). Another alternative is if you know you're about to fuck soon then rub one out about an hour… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you turn a hot woman that dislikes you into a plate?Just move on. She's not worth the time. For the future though, when talking to a girl whose at least an 8, tell her she's "OK" if looks come up. Throw some light negs in here and there. Really hot girls are used to getting white knighted their whole life so doing the opposite Will do more than catch her attention. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 07:31 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot of people asking for RP music. I found the Weeknd to be pretty RPOne of my favorite artists. He just released a song he made for the 50 Shades of Greg movie. I didn't like it and I like almost all of his songs. Check out "Initiation" though. Probably his most RP song. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on situation at workIt doesn't really work that way in this company. He would want to know why I would need it in writing. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on situation at workSounds like this may be my best option. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on situation at workStill thinking about the anonymous option. Once I get the promotion I'll be transferred to another location so he'd be out of my hair. But I want my next 4 months or so before I get the promotion to go smoothly which is why I wanted to do something about this. Plus I don't like being taken advantage of. Normally as soon as I see someone trying to get over on me I call them on it but this time it's my boss and he's one of the keys to my promotion. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on situation at workI have. I'm usually really good at these situations but this one has me stumped. I was thinking of doing this anonymously but like you said I don't think much would happen that way. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Start my career in one month. Need career building advice.Read "The 33 Strategies of War". Especially if you work in a team environment. Also try to make as many connections as possible. The more people who know you the better. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How to assert dominance in social circles?Judging by your post he's not as high value to you as you seem to think. He's not your last hope in maintaining a high social status. Drop him from your life starting this second. You don't need him to have a high social status. Drop him. Believe me when I say you'll find bigger and better ways to obtain a high social status. He not bringing you up like you think, he's actually holding you back. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 02:00 AM |
| 24 | Found a gem on r/PussyPassDenied, decoded it into clear text:This was a great post. The ending to that video made me laugh so hard. Her response: But I have two kids! The hamstering is so strong. Thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Everyone wants to keep you down, but why?The short answer is this: Everyone is in it for themselves and have only their own self-interests in mind. When they see someone doing better than them they will try to take them down because they see them as a threat. Also, in regards to the advice your friends gave you, that's all a bunch of shit (as I'm sure you already know). Also realize that most people in life give terrible advice. They appear to know what they're talking about, even believing it themselves when really they're just full o… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 01:47 AM |
| 1 | It's not enough to know the red pillI haven't read it yet but I hear "Mastery" by Robert Greene is a great book on this subject. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistLol. Best ending ever. Thanks for sharing this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:07 PM |
| 20 | Guy waved condom at my girlfriend...how do i react?Say "Can't blame him" with a smirk. Change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 09:29 PM |
| 7 | LTR asks me to apologizeThere's nothing wrong with apologizing if you genuinely screwed up (meaning she didn't hamster you into believing you did something wrong when you really didn't). Only apologize when you know you messed up. It's important to take responsibility for your mistakes in life, no matter how big or small. It will help you become the best version of yourself you can be. People always make excuses for everything they screw up on in life. When you take responsibility for your actions it will catch people … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Some observations I've had on character and leadership.Believe it or not, retail. The company I work for capitalized on a niche and has been leading the industry every since. Retail is a whole different ballgame compared to typical office work. I'm not saying it's necessarily harder. Just very different from each other. It's also a huge challenge managing people in a retail environment. Think of all of the people's personalities and their secret self interests you have to deal with. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | TRP and 420?Weed along with other drugs are a distraction and a waste of money. I don't look down on anyone who smokes weed or anything but that's just my opinion. Think of all of the more productive things you could be doing instead of getting sky high. Just my 2 cents. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Some observations I've had on character and leadership.I came in as an entry level employee. My supervisor above me transferred to another location so there was a spot open. I interviewed for the position against a guy at least twice my age with about 2 or 3 years more experience than me. My manager and assistant manager along with a few other entry level employees decided I was the best fit for the job (my company allows a few entry level employees to partake in the interview process when someone is going for a promotion). Luckily I found a company… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Some observations I've had on character and leadership.As far as the work related aspects of your post I have experienced the exact same thing. I was put into management when I was 19 and am now 22 soon to go for another promotion. It's funny how all the older guys bitch and moan so much when the smallest things happen. That type of attitude is exactly why they weren't considered for a management position. If people don't see you as a potential leader, you will never be one. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | RumoursHere's the thing. If you come off as too defensive you'll look guilty. My advice is to address it only when someone brings it up. So if a person brings up you getting someone pregnant you say something like "Don't believe everything you here" with a smirk. If you show these rumors bother you then people will assume your guilty. So if someone brings it up, address it in a very brief way and then slowly (not immediately) change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | i would like to hear some success stories with this/r/thankTRP | /r/askTRP | 26/11/14 08:04 PM |
| 0 | The Sound of StatusI don't really agree that they are in an authority role partly because of their manner of speaking. When I was promoted into a management role my demeanor naturally changed (including my manner of speaking) without me even consciously realizing it. I wasn't this way at all before being put into a management role. Just my two cents. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 11:13 PM |
| 7 | [48 Days of Power] Day 10 - "Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky."As far as this law applying to your career remember that the "unhappy and unlucky" don't tend to last long in their position. Don't be the one to go down with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | BlackDragon's new book.Yeah, please provide a link for us to check it out. I can't find it with the little information given in the post. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a book.I believe this story was mentioned in "The 48 Laws of Power" as well. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/14 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Books!?NOT /trpbooks It's /redpillbooks | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Books!?Check out /trpbooks | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Tips on asking for a raise?Keep in mind going into this that when you ask for a raise there's a higher chance you won't get it then actually getting it. Be prepared to answer "Why should I give you a raise?" Also be prepared to hear "Realistically it's just not in the budget." That's his way of letting you down easy. Hope this helps a bit. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you rate yourself (0-10)?20/10 because I'm me. This is the type of positive attitude everyone should have. To look in the mirror and say "meh, I'm a 6" sounds so negative to me. Always hold yourself to a higher slandered in life. There's only one of you in this world. You're unique and no one else is like you. And that's what makes you fucking awesome. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/14 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about going solo on a cruise down to Bahamas; anybody done one?I've been there a few times but it was with family. It'd probably be boring to just go by yourself though. But it is a singles cruise so who knows. Have fun and try to meet some new people. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/14 12:33 AM |
| 2 | king magician warrior lover pdf?Here you go: http://bookzz.org/dl/952598/b4310e | /r/askTRP | 18/11/14 12:30 AM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"It sounds like you think these laws can only be practiced by big wigs/CEOs etc and the rest of us are using the laws to protect ourselves from them. If this is what you mean then I strongly disagree. You don't need to be a rich, head honcho of a billion dollar company to use these laws on others. You can be anyone really. As far as it catching up with you take JFK for example. He was manipulative in a sense (like pretty much anyone involved in high level politics), had mistresses, knew how to sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:21 AM |
| 6 | RSD Julien gets schooled by CNNI'm not sure why he would even agree to do this interview. He had to know he would be attacked by the interviewer. It made him look worse in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Quit my Job last night, and it felt amazing.Excellent job. Never let anyone take advantage of you or they'll keep doing it again and again unless you call them out on it. Even better job with holding frame and not giving in when they called you to come back. Keep standing up for yourself in life. No one else will do it for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 07:59 PM |
| 15 | [48 Days of Power] Day 2 - "Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies."I'm not very familiar with politics. Can you explain this a bit further and how it applies to the law? Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 2 - "Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies."Maybe Caesar didn't make Brutus feel like he had to prove himself to him enough? I wonder why he ended up betraying Caesar. Where did Caesar go wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 07:54 PM |
| 26 | [48 Days of Power] Day 2 - "Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies."Love this one. Back before I learned about TRP and the dark triad I always gave people chance after chance only for them to screw me over every time. I was putting too much trust in people who I thought were friends/people I could trust. Now I have a "one and done" policy. Meaning if you stab me in the back once you don't get a second chance. Period. Why? Because you'll do it again if given the opportunity. Think of it this way: If people know they can take advantage of you then they'll keep doi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | When a guy hits on your girlfriend/plateGood response to "he's a lucky guy!" Is "yeah, and she's a lucky girl". Got this from Chateau Heartiste. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/14 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Fun sex, afterwards cuddling and talking, gf makes horrible joke, I make her sleep on other side of bed, woke up and she left in the night.I would have replied with something like "Don't be disrespectful" in a serious voice. She would have probably said "I was just joking" and that's when you just change the subject. Seems to work well in my LTR. Although I'm sure someone has an even better response to this. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/14 12:31 AM |
| 5 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"Dude, this sub isn't for you. You're clearly not open enough to new ideas/concepts. I don't say this to insult you or start an argument. I say this because in order to be successful at anything discussed in this sub (or anything in life, really) you have to be open to ideas that go against what you've been taught your entire life. If you can't do that then you're not ready for this sub yet. Also, read the sidebar again. And then again after that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 12:28 AM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"I've actually asked for his advice a lot and tried to form a relationship to build trust with him but he always turns around and screws me. No matter what I do I can't get him to back off. I've also tried going on the offensive and argued back with him (speaking like an adult of course) but once that issue is resolved he starts a new one. It seems like he's trying to get rid of me because he feels threatened. What makes it worse is that he has that personality that makes everybody like him. He h… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 12:24 AM |
| 2 | White guys: do you notice black girls not finding your beta traits as much of a turnoff?Can confirm. My LTR (who is black) said she has no interest in black guys unless he was very successful and has a lot going for him. It seems like she's kind of disgusted by them sometimes. Same thing with one of her friends who's always liking pictures on Facebook and Instagram of typical hot white guy models. Never likes any pictures of hot black guys. Do black girls have some kind of fetish for white guys these days? : ) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 12:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond when someone tries to out alpha you in front of a girl?The exact type of person I don't even give the privilege of being in my life. Distance yourself from him starting now. What he basically showed you was that he's willing to throw you under the bus in front of others to make him feel better about his insecurity (which came from his girl hitting on you). Seriously, don't even give him another chance because I guarantee he'll do it again and you'll regret it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"As everyone is saying I can tell you didn't read the book. You really should. I guarantee you'll read things you would have never thought about and you'll see it in an entirely new light. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"You should read it though. It's a great read and there's things in it that really make you think. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 11:58 PM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"Unfortunately I am unintentionally violating this law. I got a new assistant manager about 4 months ago and ever since he started he's felt threatened by me because I know so much more than him. I could easily replace him and he knows it. He nags at every tiny mistake I make (mistakes that will fix themselves or really aren't even worth mentioning) and makes sure our boss above both of us knows about it. It's preventing me from climbing the ladder as fast as I panned. I'm just not sure how to ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 11:56 PM |
| 1 | When stumbling across the redpill what did you initially think about the content?I'm pretty open to different views or new concepts so when I read it it made sense to me and I embraced it ever since. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How to keep myself interesting without divulging too much about myself.Sounds like she loves your mysteriousness. Always give her just enough information to keep her satisfied but never the whole thing if you want to maintain your mysterious aura. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Can I get a TLDR of the "Sex God Method"Yeah I would recommend just reading it. It's not as long as you think. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 10:10 PM |
| 1 | If Squats Aren't A Part of Your Lifting Routine, They Should Be, or Why You May Want To Try 5X5 StrongliftsI've been doing a 10x10 routine myself. Definitely see the gain in mass. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?Reply "ok". And change the subject. Just use a different pet name for her. If she doesn't like it then she doesn't like it. Whatever name you choose use it sparingly so that when you do use it she'll notice it every time and it will always have a strong meaning behind it. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 01:33 AM |
| 3 | "Some guy just drove by and said sexy to me"Ha! This was hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 12:27 AM |
| 21 | "Some guy just drove by and said sexy to me""Can't blame him. Look at that ass". 'slaps her ass playfully' Or just smirk and change the subject. The smirk shows it doesn't bother you and changing the subject shows you don't care. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How do women in a LTR relationships view this?This makes me think back to a few years ago when my wife and I had a housewarming with a few friends. We were playing some games to keep the guests entertained. One of the guests was my wife's old friend from middle school and his fiancé. His fiancé (pretty good looking girl) and I were sitting next to each other while we all played the game and someone said something really funny and his fiancé started laughing pretty hard and she touched me on my shoulder briefly as she laughed. I'm thinking "… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...That's definitely true. I feel like if someone did go that far then he/she has much way deeper problems. Machiavellianism isn't about killing everyone in your way. If someone had that view on Machiavellianism then their view on it is completely misconstrued. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 05:45 PM |
| -1 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Have you even at least read the book? Seriously... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...You're taking the post too literally. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Ouch! That was good backhander. You're missing the point though like most people in this thread. I'm not even going to get into it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Gotten people fired, transferred to other locations as they were ruining my reputation and preventing me from moving up, manipulated my boss to not give one of our employees a raise when it was time for his review to save on the labor budget, etc etc. I'm a jerk and I know it. But I'm trying to climb the ladder as fast as possible and if someone's in my way I won't hesitate to knock them down. And no, I don't work in an office environment like everyone is assuming. Don't believe me? Don't care. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...But I had to. I do need a laugh every now and then you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Was going to be almost exactly my response. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Sometimes I wish I was a little less Machiavellian. I've done things at the workplace that an average person would say I'm a huge jerk for doing. But these people were in my way and they had to be taken care of accordingly. It was me or them. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Use of machiavellianism would be helpful in this instance. It can take what seems like forever to reach your end goal of ridding your enemy this way but you should be prepared for that before going into it. Although, like you said it depends on the particular situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...This is very true. Having DT traits isn't something that's glamorous. That being said it's still good to learn things from books like "The 48 Laws of Power" or "The 33 Strategies of War" or "The Prince" to name a few. Learning the types of things found in books like these can help you in many different aspects of your life, especially your career. It's definitely helped me. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Crush your enemy totally, show no mercy...Haha. No, but that's not what was meant by this post. For example say you have someone at work ruining your reputation and therefore making it harder for you to achieve your career goals. You should get rid of him (get him fired, transferred to another department, etc) before he ends up doing the same to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Understanding a superior's motivationsDo you mean what motivates them to be successful at their job or do you mean more along the lines of how do you find out their ulterior motives behind things? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/14 10:10 PM |
| 2 | The feminism movement reaches a new low - having VERY young, innocent girls swear like sailors about discrimination against womenSo obnoxious I couldn't even watch it all. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Question in regards to Marijuana. What is the Red Pill's view?Waste of time and money unless it's legitimately being used for medicinal purposes. I can think of a million things to do that's more productive than puffing on a blunt just for fun. I don't look down on people who do use it in that way though. Just my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend checks out guysHave you spoken to her about it? If not then keep it that way. It shows insecurity to complain to her about this and insecurity is very unattractive to a woman. It will make it even worse. If you have spoken to her about it already then don't ever mention it again. Pretend it never happened. That being said I'm going to tell you something that might make you upset: Your girlfriend is always going to be attracted to and checking out other men. It's up to you to show her that you're the alpha one.… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/14 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Female leadership expert tries to address the imbalance of men and women in upper management by implying that women are stupid and need extra mentoring [TEDx video, ~13 mins]I think a part of this is because women tend to rely on their sexuality to get what they want instead of actually developing the necessary skills to climb the ladder at their workplace. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Be selective about who you take advice from...Exactly. This is why I added the "ask yourself if what he/she said make sense" part to my OP. People can give you good advice but most people haven't a clue as to what they're talking about. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Dark triad argumentative theory (feedback welcomed)I actually wrote a few pages on how to win arguments/debates and a lot of what you discuss I've also observed myself. Too bad I'm a bad writer or I would share it here. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Machiavellianism discussion?I've been reading your work for quite a while and always look forward to new posts. Thank you for your contributions. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Machiavellianism discussion?Thanks. I am already. Just looking to converse with other DTs and expand my knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/14 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Presents for Plates?Ha! Nice. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/14 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with an amog? (At work)You're letting it show that it bothers you and that's why he keeps doing it. Stop letting him see that it bothers you. Call him something back (not related to race) with a smile on your face showing that your just having fun and it didn't bother you at all. Be a smart ass back to him in a fun, joking manner. Once he realizes it doesn't bother you anymore he'll stop after a while. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/14 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Test yourself weither you're darktriad or notScored a 69. About what I expected. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Others see only what you represent to themCouldn't be more true. 48 Laws of Power: Your reputation is everything. Guard it with your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 08:25 PM |
| 15 | A RP gem in House of CardsThis show is excellent. It shows countless examples from Robert Greene's "48 Laws of Power". | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Interesting RP truths that are fascinating.Could be. But how would doing things like chores around the house and making dinner help her with this? I'm leaning more towards OP's dread is working its magic. But hey, you never know. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 07:22 PM |
| 2 | The "Good" HusbandSad part is, he did all that work around the house but the next day she'll just find something new to hamster about. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How to switch to management/powerful positionsSounds like you have a power trip. I hope you're good at hiding this in real life. No one likes when someone is using their power against them just because they can and enjoy doing so. If you want to climb your way to the top then I recommend hiding this quality. Try to empathize with people, make friends, and build connections in whatever company you work for. Even if it's fake. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Stitched up at work. Held frame, but still crucified. Advice?What seems weird to me is that the person in the room with you heard nothing yet the woman you spoke with claims you humiliated her, threatened her physically, used obscene language and this guy heard none of this? Surely it would have caught his attention. He's probably saying he heard nothing because he doesn't want to get involved. Or maybe he really didn't hear anything, who knows... On the other hand, if you really did do the things she claims then of course you'll be fired. Choose your wor… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to switch to management/powerful positionsThis is going to sound typical and a bit cheesy but do what makes you happy. You should be enjoying life as much as you can. Don't change jobs just for the money. It won't be worth it. What's the point of changing jobs for more money if your just going to become miserable in the end and realize this isn't what you want to do? Do what you love and become great at it. After that the money will come. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/14 07:47 PM |
| 1 | "Something like that..."Don't be offended but are you new to TRP? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 12:52 AM |
| 0 | "Something like that..."Definitely not my intentions. I haven't seen this on CH before. My bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Others can easily set boundaries, why am I met with resistance?I know how you feel. I got into management at work when I was pretty young and I was working with a bunch of older guys. You can imagine how a young guy telling them what to do made them feel. It took me forever to fix this and sometimes you have to put people in check when they go back to treating you that way again. What my fix was was to just stop taking people's shit. When someone starts disrespecting you call them on it. If they're bullshitting you call them on it. If they're taking advanta… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/14 09:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you ask girls out?If you're afraid of rejection think about it this way: you'll feel more shitty if you don't ask her out at all then if she were to reject you. Being rejected isn't nearly as bad as people think. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | The 48 Laws Of Power + The Art Of Seduction Audiobooks for FreeI plan on reading that next after "The 33 Strategies of War". Apparently he's working on something new though. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/14 08:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you react when someone offends you?You do nothing. When you show little or no reaction to someone after they tried to offend you it will infuriate them. Let them dig their own grave as you smirk at them. They're just trying to get you to react. That's not to say there aren't times when you need to respond to them in a particular way. The key in any situation though is to always be calm and have full control of your emotions. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Understanding The Dark Triad - Q&A (Part 1)Excellent show. You'll also find tons of examples from "The 48 Laws of Power" in this show as well. | /r/AlreadyRed | 27/09/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Beware the Advice of Old MenPerfect example of "just because you have more experience in this field it doesn't mean you know what you're talking about." Don't believe what people say just because they have more experience. Nobody on this earth knows everything there is to know. Always ask yourself if what you're being told makes sense and then make your decision from there. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 02:40 PM |
| 2 | The 48 Laws Of Power + The Art Of Seduction Audiobooks for FreeThe first half talks about the many different types of seducers and gives real life examples of each one. The second half talks about how to seduce. The second part seems to be very interesting but I wasnt able to get to it before I had to return it to a friend. From what I read it is very applicable to real life. Most people who say it's not only read the first half and got bored of reading the stories of past seducers. The second half talks about real life application. I read the first half an… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Success, then cock blocked by my beta friend, didn't know how to dealI wouldn't even bother. Like I said in my previous post, just drop him. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/14 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Success, then cock blocked by my beta friend, didn't know how to dealThese are the type of people you drop from your life instantly. Don't associate yourself with people who prevent you from reaching your goals in life (even if they don't mean it). What Jim is causing you to do is waste your time. Your time is precious and you shouldn't let anyone waste it away. My suggestion: drop him starting now. Hold yourself to high standards in everything, including the people you surround yourself with. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/14 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The 48 Laws Of Power + The Art Of Seduction Audiobooks for FreeI've read the 48 Laws of Power and some of The Art of Seduction and I can say I reccommend them both. I just started The 33 Strategies of War and I love it so far. I can't wait to see what he comes out with next. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 10:51 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to 'you look good / hot' without sounding too arrogant?Arrogance can be a good thing. People tend to love those who are confident in themselves. Some people will pretend they're disgusted by it but subconsciously they like it. Think about it like this: Who is more attractive? The guy who is always unsure of himself or the one who always has a cool confidence? The trick is to find the right balance. You don't want to be annoyingly arrogant. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What happened the past two days?Redpillshadow covered this one pretty well. I should have pushed through her shit tests instead of just freezing her out. I never said she had to be there at a prompt time. She could have left 3 hours later if she wanted to. She never commited to a specific time with her mom so being punctual wasn't an issue. She just told her mom she would be over sometime today. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/14 03:16 PM |
| 4 | What happened the past two days?Exactly what I was looking for. Thank You. If anyone else has anything to add please do. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/14 12:14 AM |
| 2 | What happened the past two days?:) Fair enough. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/14 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Is eye contact OK?Exactly what I just said on another post of his. Quality contributor /sarcasm | /r/askTRP | 21/08/14 10:33 PM |
| 3 | What happened the past two days?You've contributed absolutely nothing with this post. Why are you even here? Are you sure you're in the right sub? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/14 10:31 PM |
| 3 | What happened the past two days?Why freeze her? Just throw her a "You have 30 seconds to take it off." and start looking at your watch. Good idea. But she was using it as an excuse to not have sex. She knows the dress would have come off since we were having sex anyway. So if I did say this she would come up with another excuse. What would be my next move? Why are you lying? Well I figure I can either whine like a beta about how she doesn't want to have sex or continue my freeze out by giving her a short response and continuin… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/14 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Game - A Guide for the non DT ManI don't really trust anyone but my immediate family to be honest. I'll play like I trust a person so they feel like they can trust me in return but that's as far as it goes for the most part. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Figured out something important about sexual withdrawal and the nature of women. Why you MUST not lose frame in the face of continual sexual denials....When I started doing this to my wife she would try to get my attention when I start to freeze her out. She would ask what's wrong and if I was mad she wouldn't have sex with me. I'd just respond with "no, not at all" in a very enthusiastic tone (like I mean it) and continue doing what I was doing. Next thing you know she's sucking my cawk. This works especially well if she knows she has competition. The key is to act like it doesn't phase you a bit that she denied you sex. It'll throw her comple… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed?This is what I thought. It's definitely a new me. I used to almost always let her take charge in everything but after discovering TRP I've been trying to be the leader. This change is probably what got her attention. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 08:11 PM |
| 3 | How do I proceed?Edited the OP. Thanks for your response. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed?Good advice. Her only complaint, with a bit more detail above, was with me asking her to do things around the house. I think she's not used to being the one who is told to do something. It's been the other way around for years in our relationship so I think the sudden change is why she's noticing. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How do I proceed?The example she gave me was me making her do more of the chores around the house, something I was previously the only one doing. Basically, I flipped it on her. Instead of her asking me to do all the chores I make her do most of the chores now. I always ask her nicely in a polite tone unless she gives me shit. Then my tone gets a bit more serious. But for the most part she complies with me. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 07:19 PM |
| 2 | How do I apply TRP to my personal LTR?Excellent advice guys. If anyone else has anything to add please do. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/14 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with Dark Triads in Every-Day LifeThis used to work on me. Then when I was screwed over by the person I learned my lesson. Never again will I trust someone who seems to be playing to my narcissism. I trust very few people now. If I sense someone is playing to my narcissism I'll act as if it's working but secretly I know, or at least I'm suspicious as to what they're doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Game - A Guide for the non DT ManWhen you're dealing with people, is there a "switch" you can flip to become instinctually concerned with their emotional state? How do you know when you need to turn on the sensitivity? You could say that. For me it just happens, I don't have to think about it. I never actually care but I try to relate to their situation the best I can by showing false empathy. Putting people against each other can also be useful at times but can also be risky. You can use it to take attention off of you, make p… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 06:19 PM |
| 18 | Your Blue Pill Friends Are Holding You BackAs said in The 48 Laws of Power "Law 10: Avoid the unhappy and unlucky". You should always surround yourself with those who can teach you something. Not those that do the inverse. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Dark Triad Game - A Guide for the non DT ManYeah. But like I said, I have the traits but they're not extremely strong or anything. Machiavellianism is probably my weakest of the three. Sometimes I manipulate a situation and don't even realize it until I see the final outcome months later. But I'm not manipulating situations or people like a pro or anything. In your case I would say the only option is to get over the laziness and force yourself to learn it. View each person as extremely different people and learn what makes each of them ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Dark Triad Game - A Guide for the non DT ManI agree. It's not a good thing. But like I said it can have a few upsides to it as long as it's not a serious problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Dark Triad Game - A Guide for the non DT ManI have the DT traits. The one that gets in the way for me is the psychopathy. I find it hard to relate to anyone about anything because I just don't care about them. Most of my relationships seem superficial. Other people think I care about them as a person but I just don't. I have the three traits but luckily they're not extremely strong. This allows me to use it to my advantage without seriously damaging my social life. There are some upsides to having DT traits but it has it's downsides too. … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/14 07:07 PM |
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