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Red Pill Theorydavevd/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:50 PM
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Field Reportdavevd/r/seduction30/03/15 12:54 PM
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Field Reportdavevd/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 02:12 PM
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Rant/Ventingdavevd/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:05 AM
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Ahh... Jealousy lol... I have had this, i have confronted her, asked if she has eyes for other guys, said its ok if she does but we wouldn't work out, she apologized and showed me her texts, there was nothing worth worrying about, she foolishly believes these guys want her friendship. I said 'surely you're aware they probably have other motives', she said 'I know but im using them for career purposes, i dont care if they have attraction to me as i only have attraction to you'... So i left it at …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:30 AM
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Just playing devils advocate here, unless you dont find her attractive/gf/wife material...you don't know her history... Girls will play 'conservative' for guys they like as proper Bfs... because they want to make sure he's not an 'asshole' so to speak... She might have been used before, so wants to make sure it doesn't happen again. The rules of TRP apply, but don't forget that some women aren't necessarily conscious of them... Even if they apply... Just because AWALT shouldn't be a reason to be…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 12:27 AM
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I'd like to explore this further... I've taken the stance of saying exactly what I think, it's bullshit, I say it's bullshit, to her face. I can't be bothered playing a long just for extra brownie points. For the purpose of pick up it kind of makes sense however
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:45 PM
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I love this, I already used these links haha
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:40 AM
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Shit my gut instinct tells me there is a lot of truth to that. Fascinating thought.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:13 AM
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Hi sorry to hear of your loss, Well first of all, we must never forget that life is unfair, following from that, never let it get you down, keep looking forward, enjoy what you do have. Regarding your relationship readiness, if you feel out of sync with life, give yourself time to adapt to your new situation, have patience, and try to find time meditate/clear your head regularly. That's what I would do anyway...
/r/askTRP27/02/16 12:22 PM
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I also believe in the AWALT concept, but if it was me, I'd confront her directly and simply ask is there something more than just friends. Yes she could lie, but lying is usually easy to read, there's a chance that he really is just friends. Communication is key. You're in a good situation here however, as you're not emotionally invested in a LTR. But again if it were me, I'd have a problem with it, because I generally develop feelings for the girls I hang with and bang. I struggle with the conc…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 12:10 PM
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Pretty sure Orwell nailed it perfectly. West or east will result in many poor and a few wealthy, intertwined with politics... And controlling the past present and future forever. If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face - forever.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:05 AM
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Hypotethical, let's say you told them and suggested a threesome straight up , how do you see that going down?
/r/askTRP13/02/16 10:36 AM
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Ok just so we're clear, it sounds like you are fuck buddies. You could have called her? Anyway, if she was giving radio silence, you could ask her why, she might deflect and apologize for being busy, but the reality is, she is flaky. So the real question is, why is she flaky? I'd hazard a guess, putting aside the fact she had her period, she only wants the FWB situation and nothing more. Her actions suggest she's using the relationship exclusively for some no strings sex. In my own experience, t…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 05:12 AM
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Write down your goals, whatever they may be, big or small, short term or long term. Take the time with this. Realize that everything can be changed and improved about your personality. You're young and have much to look forward to on the journey to becoming a man. Enjoy the process of learning. You will make new friends as you pursue your goals, be positive, read self improvement books, consider increasing your gym attendance to 5 days a week for a few years, follow a strict and ambitious progra…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:47 AM
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Listen to yourself bro, you have some serious deep seated anger bubbling up to the surface. You can't be serious! People like you ruin the fun of making new friends and connections because people are too afraid to open up discussion and new ideas here.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 11:36 PM
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People shouldn't be afraid to ask stuff, even if it's in the side bar
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:48 AM
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Everyone is at different stages, I don't see why you'd be expressing anger about his post.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:39 AM
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First of all, a lot of dudes on TRP do have anger issues about the reality of women. Eg Hypergamy, inability to love you for anything other than your value to THEM. Etc. guys are angry about that... And they post about that. But also because the nature of women and the fact that it applies to essentially all women (AWALT)... Is both a confronting and depressing idea and not only do people want to reject it they jump to conclusions that the concept of TRP is simply wrong. Hence they pin the whole…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:32 AM
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There is a good reason escorts aren't in your interest, putting aside the expense, it's a waste of your manhood. It might feel fantastic, but pussy should be free, and by that I mean, you should be alpha enough that you don't pay and you don't have to compromise on your values. Better to wank and save money if you're going to go down the road of relieving oneself of your mojo
/r/MGTOW02/02/16 04:25 AM
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This is pretty much why nofap exists. For men that overdid it, realised it, and realised the value of abstaining from pron.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:23 PM
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Whisper, is describing nofap from an outsiders perspective, and grossly misses the point of nofap. It's for men that have been or are currently addicted to pron. Addictions so bad that they have a need for a place to recover from that addiction. And although moderation is a good rule of thumb, you can't really expect an alcoholic to apply moderation when he's at his lowest of lows and you give him a couple of beers for free... and he knows that he can have a lot more beers for free after that...…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:20 PM
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I felt compelled to comment, as your concern of feeling lost is something I've been through a couple of times. If you actually take the time to really reflect, take stock of what you have, who you are, and where you're heading, you'll realise very little needs to be worried about right now. Take the time to build solid habits and changes that help you as person. Don't focus on women, as Colie53 mentions, the girls will come later, it will be hard, you will be challenged mentally, physically and …
/r/askTRP27/01/16 12:04 PM
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Cheers for the book recommendations
/r/askTRP27/01/16 11:57 AM
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Everything in moderation including moderation buddy. I think you can pretty much see your mistakes by putting yourself in the other persons shoes. You felt a strong sense of the love feels, it was a good feeling, you got hooked and needed more and more. She didn't share that same level of feeling, the signs were probably there early on. You probably had many opportunities to recalibrate yourself to a grounded reality but chose not to. I was you once.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 11:53 AM
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As I read this, it all makes so much sense. I want to punch my fist through a wall, I can't escape this truth. I'm a red pill veteran but I still struggle to completely accept this. I must continue to work on myself and outlook on life to survive... If anyone feels like pm discussing this stuff... I feel like I could use a red pill friend right now... Fuck... Fuuuuuuck.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 03:07 AM
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Jeez you must be from such a lower class culture if that is the case
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 05:16 AM
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I'd wager that your poor shitty muso friends don't have LTRs, they might have a great root on a regular basis with different women... but loving and being loved by a women is a different ball game. I get your point, I should have said the attributes such as looks all add up to help with your SMV, and yes confidence alone will take a man a long way. When you were broke and ugly... I bet that you weren't that broke and ugly. I think we're actually on the same page.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:58 PM
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I don't know the full story but.. The girl he loved used him for 7 years then ditched him. It... probably didn't feel like a win.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:52 PM
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If she accepts going for dinner, it can be perceived as a 50/50 transaction, she meets you, you meet her and you both split be bill. The meal voucher analogy doesn't need apply in the initial dates, but I get what you mean
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 06:35 AM
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Can someone summarise this book in one sentence for me?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 12:12 AM
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One thing you can do, is at like a weird moron, give creepy grins etc. She'll lose interest. Source: Me.
/r/MGTOW22/10/15 03:18 AM
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Is this for real? Can't be...
/r/MGTOW22/10/15 03:15 AM
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It's a liberating feeling when you truly realise this truth. We as men aren't obligated to play the rigged game. Its analogous to being in prison and realising the gates open and we can leave at any time, just no one necessarily passes on the memo.
/r/MGTOW21/10/15 02:00 PM
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A phenomenon I've noticed first hand...which I think has sat fairly well under the radar is the concept of sugar daddies becoming MUCH MUCH MUCH more accepted and mainstream. The websites are legit, and some HB10 girls models/topless waiters I know use it and they LOVE IT. They make $1500 tax free a night for draining the balls of a rich old doctor (whose wife is away) with a view of the beach. I'm a very liberally minded guy, so I get to hear their stories, which they generally keep fairly secr…
/r/MGTOW21/10/15 01:32 PM
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What you say about "Men will fuck up/down/sideways, but women will only fuck UP"... had me in complete hysterics, sooo funny and true. Great vid! I'm a single 29 year old lad, and to confirm what you're saying, as a rule of thumb, I don't date women over the age of 27... and it's not a linear scale... when I'm 35 (If I'm still single, which I dont plan to be), I'd still only be dating women maybe 30 and under... just how my Tinder preferences are set also. But a women at the age of 37... yea get…
/r/MGTOW21/10/15 01:12 PM
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Its also their achilles heal in the art of seduction. ;)
/r/MGTOW21/10/15 01:01 PM
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Yea who the fuck would catcall her... Combined with a feminist mindset... I'd rather watch porn then tap that... If we were the last 2 humans on earth and we were required to save humanity
/r/MGTOW20/10/15 01:01 PM
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I would pay money to see this character play out this scenario in the field
/r/seduction17/10/15 10:07 PM
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I laughed out loud at the cashews, racking my my brain how that could possibly be a good idea in any possible way
/r/seduction17/10/15 04:29 AM
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Brotasaurus Rex
/r/PussyPass15/10/15 01:54 AM
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Brotisserie
/r/PussyPass13/10/15 01:51 PM
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Brometheus
/r/PussyPass13/10/15 02:26 AM
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Brotegè
/r/PussyPass12/10/15 08:20 PM
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Ouch you're right, definitely going to focus on other parts of my life, and let the next piece of convo/date get initiated by her or not at all if she's not interested (which she may or may not be)
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:35 PM
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A valid point, that seriously sucks... Oh well when ya got nothing, ya got nothing to lose.
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:41 AM
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Hmm true, I'm still going to give it a go, but I'll give it some time, and be expecting a no.
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:37 AM
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Grow some balls :)
/r/askTRP05/10/15 09:43 PM
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You'll be surprised how acceptable it is to add a girl on FB for a date. How old are you?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 02:29 PM
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First of all... You're 26, you have a lot of fun to look forward to, one of those fun things is learning about women (for example how to attract them), you'll learn about not putting all of your eggs in one basket, that when it comes to attraction... 'All Women Are Like That', meaning once you've learnt the rules and how to play the game, getting laid becomes more like a... Game. Remember, 'Men are forged, it's the privilege of lesser men to light the flame'. Like many men here, they only change…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 02:23 PM
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'The deceit and lies' This kind of language requires in depth examples and explanation. You'll need to be much much more clear for anyone to make any reasonable unbiased outside advise available to you
/r/askTRP05/10/15 02:12 PM
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Oops Agro*** as in uptight...
/r/askTRP05/10/15 02:07 PM
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You like her, you want to spend time with her? Ask her out, by txt, Facebook... Real life, does not matter, just do it, regret is worse than rejection.... And rejection is never that bad....while regret can haunt you to your grave and beyond.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:40 PM
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Need some examples to be able to advise... Perhaps Pm me if you want some help here.... Its one area I consider myself very confident (and experienced) with, and would be happy to help with
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:38 PM
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You want trust but at the same time sound like you're high standards could be perceived as...shall we say, Agro standards.... But I don't know... I need examples of what you're talking about. Communication, understanding and an open mind are the way to go
/r/askTRP05/10/15 01:33 PM
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Unfortunately, true. But put yourself in his shoes... he had nice guy syndrome, and finally cracked... imagine that feeling...
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:56 AM
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Jesus H. W. Christ. This physically hurts to read. Men should be educated about nice guy syndrome in schools.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:53 AM
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Should have done the old, 'Want a massage', trick and gauged whether she was seduceable or not. If she says no, you know it's netflix and chill without the fun parts.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 04:09 AM
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I'm serious... and I understand exactly what you mean, but trust me, I've been down that road, you reach your later 20's, you've become more confident, you can easily pull tidy pussy. You decided to make up for lost time. It's a ton of fun, but I got bored of it pretty quickly, I just learnt I had a lot of other goals in life before I die, and although I love threesomes with Uni girls as much as the next guy, it can become a waste of time. Especially if that includes drinking/drugs/partying. And…
/r/askTRP19/09/15 11:10 AM
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I started out that way, now its just a way of life. Such a valuable lesson.... Like the sun comes up, they find you more attractive when you appear hard to get a hold of.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 10:30 AM
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Why make it a worthless degree? If you're in your late 20's I would recommend against hanging out with young 20's humans. It's neither sustainable or tolerable over a long period of time. If I were you I would be more forward thinking with your opportunities, this sounds like you wish to squander hard earned cash for short term fun. You can't go back in time.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 10:26 AM
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First of all, is she hot? If she's hot, it's possible that you're somewhere on the gay spectrum. Although I do understand where you're coming from, I'm also a straight guy and know my self very well. When I've got a girl back to mine, with her panties wet and removed. I'm not thinking such things, the only things I'm really thinking in no particular order: Gawd she's beautiful/sexy. Fuck... life is good! Don't cum too soon.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 10:21 AM
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I tend to disagree, he has to just not fuck up. And be a little bit more alpha than he he sounds about his actions with her. He should at the least hook up with her on date 1, and have logistics in his favour to go all the way
/r/seduction01/09/15 10:02 AM
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You got options, nice! I'd pursue both who knows maybe the euro chick is more fun
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:07 PM
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Banging her? All he has to do is escalate ( after a few wines and dinner) back to his place to #netflixandchill
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:06 PM
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My take: Should have banged her, how did you miss that cue? Beta move... She probably banged the bouncer all night long. However If you do start dating and it's going well, don't become clingy, play the long game. And continue to work on other parts of your life. Avoid that pedestal.
/r/seduction31/08/15 06:01 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction31/08/15 05:55 PM
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I saw it happening in Sydney eastern suburbs somewhere ...like Kings Cross
/r/seduction31/08/15 05:53 PM
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He's going through a stage of learning, many of us go through. If he's like me when I was less experienced his downfall will be the pedestal mentality
/r/seduction31/08/15 05:50 PM
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I was about to post the same thing.... The guy is 26, she's probably at her peak sexually... From what o can tell, he could/should/would have been able to bed her that night... Sounds like missed opportunity, also that European chick would have been down too
/r/seduction31/08/15 05:47 PM
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That your analogy?
/r/seduction17/08/15 09:10 PM
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Yep, never shit where you eat, unless the intention is to go down in a ball of flames... It can be quite fun watching time bombs like this unfold by the less mature who like to play with fire. Whether you like her or not... In the long run... If you work together you're going to be better off avoiding that road.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 05:20 AM
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Everything in moderation including moderation. Some of the best thoughts and ideas I've ever had have been through the influence of Marajuana... but definitely not something to make a habit of.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 02:14 PM
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Having other people there just means you have to take it to the bedroom... one might conjecture... that that is a good thing. I have a balcony and TV in my room... so I usually say either, wanna see the view.... or wanna watch some netflix depending on the situation... both mean the same thing... hot wild unadulterated mind blowingly good sex.
/r/seduction12/08/15 02:03 PM
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Replace Sean Connery with Hank Moody from Californication and you more or less described my f-close set up. I have a different clothing style, and get a haircut/ tidy up once every 2-3 weeks... Oh and Hugo Boss Cologne.... any decent cologne I've worn has had so many explicit compliments from fuckbuddies, girls I've just met to girls at my workplace... cologne is like a cheat... it's seriously cheating. I liked the idea of having to hold hands due to rocky area, don't know how I can apply that t…
/r/seduction12/08/15 02:00 PM
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I've since decided to not bother texting her back and stop inviting her out with my main circle of friends. As I was admittedly doing a lot of nice stuff for her that I normally wouldn't simply for the sex... dumb... just dumb. I'm going to go cold on her completely, and treat her as just a housemate. Taking back control of my dick and brain. We did today however have the convo we had to have. And agreed we can maybe be friends with benefits, including showers, sexy massages and sex from time to…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 11:38 AM
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Fark that's true and depressing
/r/askTRP01/08/15 03:57 PM
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Have the attitude of no outcome expectation... Go there with the intention to make friends and have a good time... If you end up banging a hot bikini babe, then that's a product of making friends first.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:40 AM
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Lmao it's a green flag to me personally...
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:39 AM
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You have been diagnosed with a common issue known as oneitis, common cures have been known to include, lifting, banging multiple women, hanging with your friends and reading good books.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:39 AM
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I feel like you're over analysing it. You communicated logistics... She cancelled, it happens.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 08:30 PM
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I don't think you went wrong here... People do actually have to cancel for real reasons. Be more outcome independent, whether it's true or not ... appear to have options. That attitude will help to make it true in the long run anyway. Consider not texting her for a few days at least just for that reason.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 08:26 PM
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Her fault for making a move in front of everyone. Shows she's socially a bit deficient... In saying that it's the kind of situation you could reframe to make you more desirable to the other women. If it happened to me, I'd be delicate in the let down (especially if other girls I want to bang are watching and judging)... Be carefree and focus on being a social guy. Don't sweat the small stuff, it happens...
/r/askTRP27/07/15 08:15 PM
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Where have you travelled? Get out google maps, and get pinching and zooming, talking about where you've both been, when, who you went with, what you did, you could riff on that for days. It's a great excuse to have to lean in close together.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 08:06 PM
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Been said already, but you need to centre yourself first, and for the love of Jebus escape oneitis ASAP. Be outcome independent. It will attract her more anyway... Now is the time to Diversify your portfolio of cute women in your life. His may sound off topic but How's your diet? Ensure your eating and drinking clean and healthy in this time of cantering yourself
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:44 PM
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Start working on gaining some FWBs and get to the gym. You're single now. It may take up to 6 months for the tremors to die down. Good luck
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:39 PM
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First question, do you have any wingmen with the same goals as you?
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:34 PM
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I only fuck girls in their early 20's, they're sexier, fitter, hornier and fear getting pregnant a lot more. The only women I cum inside of are long terms FWBs HB 9-10s that allow me to, for some girls it's a turn on and adds to their orgasms. The worst case scenario isn't that bad to me. There is no way I'd cum in a women over the age of 27 unless I wanted to knock her up.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:33 PM
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I'm not so sure... I believe that as we grow older, we learn the nature of our sexes, and begin to see both sides of the fence. It's certainly a different kind of friendship, when you can be openly and honestly sexually attracted to each other. We can have more respect and understanding... this allows friendships to occur where they couldnt before. With knowledge learnt from theredpill and testing theory in practice, we know the nature of women, and can enjoy the dance that we must all participa…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:17 AM
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Regarding Shit Tests, I think I was lazy in my use of words, when I say a guy is shit testing, what I should have said was either teasing or negging. As a rule of thumb, anything she tested me with was seen with complete indifference, complete outcome dependence, even a 22yo model, is treated the same, I look at it the same way I play Poker. If I'm going to fail taking her home, then so be it, I wear my Alpha frame of mind with no plan B. All in. With regards to Text game, it's just about being …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:25 AM
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Trust me they're plates now :)
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:15 AM
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Yea I know what you're saying, but I always set the frame that she's qualifying for me. Especially on that occasion, as I knew I have options. If she wanted to really make me bend over with shit tests, I would have kindly and happily gone home. Anyway I'm going to edit the original post to make some comments on shit tests and the convos on Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 09:34 AM
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Going to fix it... Haven't had a chance
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:21 AM
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I'll fix it just haven't had time
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:21 AM
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For date 1, A little bit, but we kinda became drinking buddies after we'd had a few. I don't necessarily condone the use of alcohol, but it really does create a short cut to creating a connection and of course the bedroom later. There was a point where I could tell she was bored, and I was just watching the sport with my friends, but she impressively ended up making friends with the girlmates, I felt like I was shit testing her. Date 2, again it's me doing the shit testing, I really just got her…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 08:55 PM
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Just social photos on weekend holidays, and a suited shot I use for my resume. My description is just a list of my hobbies and one of my favourite NLP quotes. I weightlift 4-5 times a week and play cardio intensive sport once a week. With building my body, I have only a few rules, I stick to my ICF5x5 program + 7 minute workout, I push my muscles to failure. I drink a shit load of water and green tea, I eat clean and healthy bulking foods (5 meals a day), I take creatine, whey protein, fish oil …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 08:35 PM
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Haha it's not what it sounds like, he was stuck in the LED timer light fitting. Trust me the place was clean
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 08:31 PM
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So your LTR is cheating on you... I personally don't mind the concept of open relationships, and I understand this sort of thing happens for a myriad of reasons some of which is preprogrammed into our DNA, but I'm going to assume you were under a fairly clear agreement that you were an exclusive couple... given the 4 year LTR... obviously it may just be best to break up, so she can do her thing and you don't waste any more time with her. If it were me, I would seek to leave on good terms and rem…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 01:02 PM
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Cheap prostitute. I personally wouldn't want that situation, because although I do think short term with women, (I chase women for their sexiness and physical attraction), I still want to have a child one day, so I would see it as a waste of time and money.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 06:14 AM
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I would have ignored her comment and just said 'Favourite position?' (Outcome independent).
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:56 AM
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Yea, I'd convert the need to wank into motivation to get laid... it's much much more social and rewarding. It's not easy to break an addiction, but being aware of it, is a good start for addressing it. Have a strategy to address it. For me I would go do something, usually in the evenings... either Gym, Playstation, Book, Reddit, something enjoyable but without the huge dopamine release that porn provides and creates a dependency on. Once I got off Porn, I became really good with meeting women, t…
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:48 AM
1

Huh?
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:35 AM
2

Bahaha I don't know you but the fact you even had that thought makes me fear you.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:19 AM
1

I may be even more outcome independent than some, but if it was me, I would have interpreted her slutty behaviour as a good reason for her to come on the trip. A friend that can act as both a wingman, a potential threesome addition, and if all else fails a FWB. But in saying that, having read the outcome to your post, given you clearly have some skill at meeting, greeting and banging hot women, you probably didn't need a back up plan or a wingman... still... In my experience as a traveller, I've…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:17 AM
1

I completely agree with that. It's tough for beginners though, because it's such a all or nothing approach. You have to make the assertion, that I'm confident and any women that gets approached by me is very lucky'. And then act out that frame of mind. But more importantly, beginner or not, be completely out come independent. If she says no, it shouldn't effect you or your ego in the slightest.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 07:31 AM
3

Ouch... pretty much true. It's the mortal realisation that I'm not good enough. I have to either shape up or compromise. Well its very motivational reason to really sharpen up my game in career and social life. She's gone, but a lesson learnt...I cant change the rules of the game, but this new experience gives me motivation to get better at playing.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 07:22 AM
1

Have you read 'How to Win Friends and influence people, with the right state of mind, I think you find that there is a lot of gems that can be immediately applied and tested to improve and maintain relationships, more for business but it completely translates for things like seduction.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 07:18 AM
-1

I actually disagree with that, I had a bunch of girls on the go before I got Oneitus and even during it. But I remember the transition clearly, from noticing cute women and going out of my way to talk to them each to walking to work and thinking, 'Not as hot as Sarah', 'Yea she's pretty hot... but not as awesome as Sarah'. I was at the stage where I was thinking, I've found 'The One'. I was semi self aware of the change as it happened, and couldnt shake it. I kind of lost the motivation and driv…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 07:08 AM
1

As I've gotten older, computer games have turned from an alternate reality to a waste of my life. 2 hours spent on a computer game is 2 hours I could have spent at the gym, preparing a healthy chicken salad, working on my business or simply socialising with mates or ladies of interest. The only game I really play is 2048 on my iPhone before bed now.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 06:11 AM
2

Last night I went to the gym for nearly 2 hours, but while I was at the gym I was passively texting people to see what they were up to, ended up going for a few beers in the city with a couple friends and friends of friends.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 06:09 AM
1

Here's what you need to do, if you like her... focus on you. Focus on your life. Focus on friends. No one likes clingy, it makes things awkward. Step out of your own skin long enough to see the forest for the trees here. You should beat her to it and break it off before she does...You should set a mid term goal while you let things cool off to equilibrium, to bang some other women, see if she's worth the oneitus when you're socialising with other girls... My gut instinct tells me you haven't bee…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 01:17 PM
1

I would strongly recommend being honest with what you want on all fronts. If you wanna fuck other women. Your LTR should be completely aware of it. She may either leave you or be open to an open relationship. I know from experience the feeling, and telling the truth always takes you on the better path with this stuff, even if it does result in a break up.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:06 PM
1

Perhaps so, sometimes lessons are best learnt from making the mistake(or otherwise), than taking it from third party experience
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:38 AM
1

Oh man so true. Glad some people are on my wave length here.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:37 AM
1

Years... worth the risk. One-itus... Yep... I'm dealing with it. Edit: That Video was quite interesting. His accent is almost robotic... kinda weird.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:40 PM
0

Bahahaha, divorce and child support are not a 100% guaranteed outcome. It's a negative assumption... I agree that the risk is high, but I'd rather have a few wild years with her ended with divorce and child support than have a life time with a soccer mum... is that so strange? We're all gonna die one day anyway... There's too much maturity in TRP, if we didn't take risks we'd never learn and we'd potentially forgo incredible experiences by playing it 'safe'. Give me the adventure over playing it…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:32 PM
1

It's as if your women are like genetically modified to be perfect. And I'm a slave to the accent too... I really don't care what the cost is, I don't really have that much to lose, but I will be looking for the red flags for the next 6 months... I feel a little more sober from the comments in this thread... I'm going to avoid any kind of neediness while simultaneously strengthen our relationship wherever and whenever I can.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:28 PM
1

The thing is I'm always going to be prepared to Next her. Unless she really drags me down... which she won't. It's not really an issue. I'm always going to be prepared to next her because I friggen love all women. I love the flirting dance... it's incredibly fun and makes me feel alive. I know I'm good with women, my career gets better by the day, my financial position increases by the day, I have good friends and family, I have my health, my strength and a Arnie gym routine that maintains high …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:14 PM
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Meh... you gotta settle one day. Abundance mentality is good for getting laid, and having options... but its just a stage of life... a very very good stage albeit.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:07 PM
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Actually that's good advice, I can see the concern that I'm being outcome dependent... and I definitely plan to do some holidaying with her...but at the same time I feel like I have a strong understanding of the meta game here. So I don't think the risks compared with reward are that high the way so many make it out to be... Even if its a disaster, It's a learning experience I'm completely prepared to have. We have to take risks in life.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:05 PM
0

She wants to marry, and there's many many other benefits... and besides she's way wealthier than me, so a divorce is hardly a concern. If she wants to throw a party and do some paper work that says we're married, and get her word to commit to me, and I'm prepared to commit to her then its all good.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 09:11 AM
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I would tend to agree, but would add that I'm a realist in this life game, so I'm not really afraid that she'dstray... if she does... that's life, I'll survive, I'm more interested in building and strengthening our relationship, so yes it's a measure for preventing loss but also for creating new opportunity. And I'm well aware of the push/pull involved and the supply/demand curve that exists for any relationship... and that I need to invest my energy in building towards making my life better tha…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 09:07 AM
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Absolutely, her beauty shows that she cares about her appearance and health. If I must settle and invest time in becoming truly close to a women, then in the short/mid term then why not let it be for someone who makes my heart skip a beat when I see her. I realise beauty fades, good, because my looks will fade too. Perhaps we'll grow apart... I don't know, and perhaps there is a shallowness to the idea of holding physical appearance to high regard... But to me I think it's something much more in…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 07:01 AM
2

There was a sexy girl I passed at the train station this morning, I vowed to never let it happen that I at least dont at least try to meet girls like her. I should have directly approached her and said: 'Hi, how are you'...[broken the ice with small talk] then 'I'm on my way to work atm, wanna go for a drink some time... whats you number'. Or something like that.
/r/seduction20/05/15 01:25 PM
1

FYI This thread has been lambasted on the Guardian today: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/may/15/the-man-o-sphere-is-outraged-about-mad-max-hand-me-my-popcorn I didn't finish reading it, as it was an opinion rant from a 'reporter' who has no idea what TRP is about with some very misguided assumptions... He waffles: "It’s puzzling that such a strong believer in the innate superiority of the male sex, a man who thinks genetics guarantee a male victory over feminism, would think that …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:45 PM
2

Same experience here... All good until you run out of dopamine to release :) that's when the suicide feelings really kick in
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:48 PM
2

You have no idea how much I can relate to your experiences described... The close relatives thing also... Except for a couple of them
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:44 PM
1

I know it's not a uncommon feeling for straight guys to feel awkward around gay guys, don't get me wrong, I could not be more of an advocate for equality regardless of sexual preference, but somewhere deep down in the very DNA inherited from a cave man time... living in small tribes where a weak male was a risk to everyones life... I find a certain kind of anxiety type emotion that is not so easily compartmentalised and ignored. I'm not saying I'm proud of it, I'm simply stating the facts. I bel…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 02:20 PM
1

Im so using this if it ever happens to me again.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 02:11 PM
2

The risk of 2 or 3 makes it a very awkward situation... But if I suspect a gay dude is doing a gay flirt, I personally find it a bit annoying because I like to think that I don't come across as gay. So I will shoot down any doubt in the situation (but just not in such a direct way) to avoid the awkwardness of it all. But I give the benefit of the doubt in any case.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 02:05 PM
1

I dont think guys care what the dude they hang out with looks like, he could look like bill gates or brad pitt... and if the dude is a interesting dude, he can be hung out with. Completely different to the SMV situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:58 PM
6

I think its not so much what you say, as how you say it. You can deliver the same sentence in a confident way or a pussy beta way.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:09 PM
1

Good points, gonna check out that book.. Thx
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:29 AM
1

Woah someone on their period? I've never read a Cosmo, wouldn't know...
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:44 AM
1

Glad you liked it, happy to share it!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:29 AM
1

Its well worth reading, and has given me some confidence with some of the tougher challenges in my career, although I feel like I need to go back and read it a second time to soak it in... I must admit that it's got the old school cheesy aspect to it, much like HTWFAIP, which you kinda have to filter through for the valuable points. On NLP, I know only the basics and enough to be aware that it is very powerful and is a part of the DNA of how we all interact.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:23 AM
5

I'm not sure where you're at, but something I definitely never realised when I was younger was the power of creating good, healthy habits... For example it can take over a month before your gym routine really becomes a habit and the benefits start to kick in, but more importantly before it stops feeling uncomfortable and before your brain stops wanting to break the habit. Your brain likes habits, you just have to push through the initial learning/experience before it stops being 'work' and start…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:15 AM
1

Well I will say that reading 'How to Win Friends and Influence people' and really actively forcing myself to apply some of the basic ideas laid out in it, helped me very quickly. I'd read a few chapters in the mornings, and find a situation later in the day where I could apply it. I'd compliment people more, and simply make friendly conversation with people that I normally wouldn't have... simply for the sake of strengthening relationships and turning people from strangers into aquaintences into…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:10 AM
2

True dat, I'd probably just say a blue pill father and mother is really more like having 2 mothers for a young lad needing direction.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:04 AM
2

Well in a nutshell my LTR was certainly out of my league (at the time), we met in my third year, she was sexy and occupied my thoughts all the time, she motivated me to shape up, I had no game, but my blind in-experience must have been endearing to her, I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me... we eventually started living together... got very comfortable, started fighting more and more and then broke up.... For me, unlike back then... interacting with women now is practically an a…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:01 AM
2

I was fortunate to have a father who from time to time had the time to teach me a few things about building and engineering, but was generally working 6 days a week, 10-12 hours a day, had back problems, drank a lot of beer... He always kept food on the table and ensured a comfortable life for the family... but he just had no time or energy to really be a father figure.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:53 AM
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I do agree but think that with the right teacher I could have been where I am now... when I was as young as 22 in some way shape or form... The amount of pussy I could have enjoyed instead of watching pron and wasting waaaaaay to much time with computer games is a tragedy of epic proportions :)
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:57 PM
2

But in comparison... Japan has an overpopulation issue...
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 07:36 AM
1

To be fair, for the majority... we'll all be working til we die... so the less competition the better in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 07:34 AM
2

She's not your SO :)
/r/askTRP02/05/15 02:04 AM
1

Set aside a full day, grab a coffee if that's your thing and just start learning, after an hour or two you'll be hooked and need to learn more.... By the end of the day there will be no going back and you'll see everything in a new light... Generally speaking as a man you will be more empowered and more happy moving forward...
/r/askTRP02/05/15 02:03 AM
1

It's a frame of mind, I agree that it's a quick short cut to confidence, and I definitely do a lot better with pick up after beer #2...
/r/askTRP02/05/15 02:01 AM
1

2 little gems of advice here, the diet that accompanies your lifting is equally as important and arguably more difficult to develop a habit for if you're used to burgers for lunch rather than chicken salad for example... And thou shall only drink water or green tea :) if drinking at the club... Low carb beer or Vodka soda :)
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:53 AM
2

That being said if he's a twig, takes on a Stronglift program, and more importantly eats clean breakfast, morning tea, lunch, afternoon tea, dinner, desert, and before bed and lots of it :) he will get a lot of gains in the first 6-12 months
/r/askTRP02/05/15 01:50 AM
1

Hmm good idea, this gave me the thought that I really don't capitalize on the beautiful women at my workplace... and shall invest more effort into doing so next week... Also wondering how easy it would be for a 28 year old dude to get a bar job or something with 0 experience and still hold on to my 9-5 day job.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:27 PM
1

Yep, the OP is clearly making some fairly rookie mistakes based on what he wrote. His first step should be to completely separate his women conquests and personal life from his colleagues lives.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:32 AM
1

Work less, and don't shit where you eat. A healthy work life balance is as important oxygen... 120 hours a week would probably kill me... there's only 168 hours in a week, so that means you'd get on average 6.8 hours to sleep, eat, relax, socialise, physical fitness. All very important activities. Where do you live?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:29 AM
3

Nothing like a psychedelic trip to humble the mind, and realise whats important in life. It's a lesson I became conscious of when I read the book the Game, joined various PUA forums, and started testing the ideas suggested specifically for picking up hot women. Its since been a phenomena that I observe and take advantage of every day more for the career than picking up women, though I certainly take full advantage of the ideas around it if I wanna get laid by a 9 or 10 on a Saturday night... lik…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 06:33 AM
1

I see your point but if I look deep down in my gut instincts... they say... I dont care if the dude is a virgin with a micropenis... there is enough pussy in this world for that boundary to not need be crossed... I put myself in the dudes shoes... in his state of mind... so to speak, and although I understand there's many shades of grey on the matter, it's a situation I'd actively avoid. The dude may be a beta, but I've been a beta for many years myself, and I know how much that shit would have …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:22 PM
7

Man even as a TRP advocate, fucking another dudes missus while he's in the house... That... That shits farken dark...
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:29 PM
1

And I'm lost... Is that a reference to a movie?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:37 AM
2

I think realising this kind of dynamic means your well on your way there to overcoming that mental barrier you're describing here... something I too struggled with when I was younger... the skill to put yourself in someones elses shoes and simply consider their wants/desires/situation can go a long way in and of itself... for answering unknowns like whats appropriate... 'How to Win Friends and influence people comes to mind here'... and a bit of trial and error never really hurt (If done tactful…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 11:39 AM
2

Good point, and I think I'm going to soak that advice right up. :P
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 11:17 AM
2

Actually, French, Irish, English, Scottish... Totally understand where you're coming from though.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 11:16 AM
1

Whats the gist here? Should have told her she's having a massage? :D
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:33 AM
2

Definitely better than most, but I've been on 7 dates on Tinder now... 4 out of 7 spoke at least 2 languages... some of them were incredibly smart yet quite humble and friendly...
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:33 AM
2

Yep the 'lucky' country, Australia. I think the rather apt saying I've heard quite often for such situations is: 'When in rome...'
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:30 AM
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I woulda have said 'Worth it'... but I spoke to her the next day and on the contrary she made a new personal best.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:29 AM
2

It was a move made and learnt from many mistakes in the past :)
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:27 AM
3

Yep, my gym routine is attended religiously. There is no skipping it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:27 AM
3

Very good points right there! Good reminder for the next date.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:26 AM
3

Haha most definitely ;) it gets 1/5 stars on Netflix.... And that score is generous.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:40 AM
2

Biggest exaggeration I've read on reddit in a while
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:36 AM
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I strongly disagree with the idea they're the same thing. I also strongly disagree with the idea that sex is more exciting on the screen and between the pages...
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:33 AM
5

These things I shall do! Cheers! Salute
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 01:23 PM
3

Bahaha I had to google Buzzer Shot, great analogy there! Thanks, I think the TRP mindset influenced my 'Buzzer Shot' action there to some degree.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 10:09 AM
1

Whats your weekly diet looking like? Water or Green Tea should be your beverages of choice at work. Always be eating green veges in your meals, Organic chicken salads, etc. etc. For me a good habit like Great fashion, or Kino/flirting, etc have all gone through stages til' they become second nature... I would say I've become very efficient with my day to day activities.. and this means that socialising is made a lot easier by the healthy habits established... but I'll point out that these habits…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 02:55 AM
2

Very Good points
/r/seduction09/04/15 02:43 AM
1

Coluld not agree more with that...I'm 28... I like to think I have some gut instinct experience and wisdom under the belt on the topic too
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:11 PM
2

Well she had nice enough tits, top on or off, so that was how her naughty pics came through. But yea her to der photos were very old it seemed and a lot of makeup was involved
/r/seduction07/04/15 10:12 PM
1

Haha I simplified it a bit for brevity, I will add in my defence that my 5 day gym weights routine and particular diet atm has my testosterone and labido at an all time high... Combine that with having had been on the rebound from a long term relationship at the moment... If you spoke to me during the week... I'm preoccupied with work.. So my brain is in a unique space when the weekend arrives. :0 :)
/r/seduction07/04/15 10:10 PM
1

I'd add that to help with your confidence, also take every opportunity where you can to keep you the best version of yourself... From haircut to clothes to shoes.. To the gym and your diet... Invest in yourself...as the confidence will help to create more confidence... It's a good return on investment.
/r/seduction07/04/15 02:52 PM
1

I always go for a lay on the first date... so kissing tends to happen fairly early on in the interaction. You cant get her in the mood to sleep with you if you haven't been feeling each other up while hooking up. Before kissing I'm always going for as much Kino as possible, hugs, shaking hands, touching arms, even massaging her hair. Before that, it's all about getting comfortable talking to each other...
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:31 AM
1

Well you're not wrong, but I'm going to say don't hate the player... Hate the game. You've identified the parameters to work within... So make you can maximise your chances of meeting great/sexy/slutty/ whatever-you're-into women
/r/seduction01/04/15 07:32 AM
1

Well I guess one point I was trying to make... Was that it's entirely possible... Though I'm aware that there are many variables that factor here... And I do agree that if you aren't getting matches then you're not even in the game... So to me it says you either need to improve your profile or improve the location you live.
/r/seduction31/03/15 06:33 AM
3

Fifty fifty, generally speaking
/r/seduction30/03/15 04:55 PM
1

Hmm can you move to Sydney, and run a similar sample set... ?
/r/seduction30/03/15 04:54 PM
2

Your subconscious may actually be very attached to your ex girlfriend, and deep down you know that committing to being single means flirting with idea that you'll never be with your ex again... So by running you can delay the ill feeling to another day.... OR You're Gay?
/r/seduction30/03/15 01:36 PM
2

Well it can depend on many factors, for example where you live and the number of people in your preferences. It can also depend on your photos... and whether or not you look 'friendly/exciting/good in bed'... My photos show me with mates at a stag do, on a sailing boat, playing slide guitar, at a friends wedding suited up, and a couple from a recent holiday. When I first started on Tinder, I created a standard message that I'd copy and paste for every single match, but that soon became unmanagea…
/r/seduction30/03/15 01:28 PM
2

God damn, 6am? Last time I had a night out that loose... was when I was about 24, and the only reason we all made it to 6am was because it included the use of cocaine and mdma... the threesome with 2 nymphos in the early hours of the morning made it worth the hangover..
/r/seduction30/03/15 01:15 PM
1

Thank you, some gems of valuable advice there. I fear I've spent a a lot of my 20's like your aforementioned friends, only the past 6 months have I really mobilised my priorities to financial freedom 1st, which included changing jobs, building a side tech business with a friend of mine... then friends/family 2nd and then women in 3rd, next to happiness and feeling 'centered'. This change of priorities has seen me spend my weekends alcohol free deep in concentration building a side business inste…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:44 AM
1

I like this thinking.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 01:34 AM
0

This is good advice and advice I do try to heed, but If I put myself in the shoes of those who have children, they spend 50+ hours a week keeping their 6 figure job, they don't exactly have a lot of spare time to spend diversifying their income streams. For them they're in a sort of trap, as the older they get the harder it can be to just up and quit. Mind if I ask what your income streams are and how you built them? :D
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:27 AM
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Woah, just feeling a little uncomfortable with how much truth is in this post. Well said. It's these kind of points that really reinforce my view that marriage is a bad idea... Amusingly the moment I tell women I dont intend on getting married, I go from being boyfriend material to friends with benefits material. ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:19 AM
0

Firstly, a matter of personal taste but I wouldn't refer to your female interest as 'bitch'. Unless you're a gangster of course. In answer to your question.. It completely depends on the context... how she said it, how you acted etc. But generally: If you forced her to have sex with you... Its rape. and the way you worded it ... does sound a bit dodgy. 'mildly tried to struggle'... Dude.... :O Dude.. Though as with most things in life its a grey area, and it sounds like she loved it... so you're…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:13 AM
3

Your story hits so close to home for me that its kind of bizarre, I too am 28, left a LTR of 7.5 years at the beginning of this year. She was my first real relationship, so I'm 28 learning about the game for the first time atm... I too resided in the bottom of the beta pit, and had been unhappy in my relationship for similar reasons to you for a very long time... The comment: "The last 3 years we've been friends with casual sex every now and then. The last time I hit it was about 3 or 4 months a…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:00 AM
3

What do you mean by 'flipping girls'? As in ignore them?
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:16 AM
1

You should wait
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:47 PM
1

True that.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:39 PM
1

Nice, regret is far worse than rejection. If you can take the rejection, you'll learn and get good fast.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:33 PM
1

So so lucky to be 19 and have such an organised place to learn this kind of stuff... Some people have older brothers or other kinds of male influence... Hat help with much of this stuff...but subreddits like this and books like the Game certainly fills a huge gap of knowledge. If I ever have a son or a niece, I'm going to relish in being able to help with all of the Masculine knowledge that will give him advantages in life.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:31 PM
1

25... Wish I had of been fed a healthy dosage of the Game and TRP schools of knowledge in my school curriculum... I would have grown to be a healthy happy man faster.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:27 PM
1

Depends if you want to be just friends with her or you have a romantic interest in her... I'd keep it short and sweet to organise something in Real life if you want to take things further. Texting has a knack for getting stale almost straight away... So don't use it for anything other than coordinating meeting up.
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:20 PM
1

I say 'what's your number?' If she says 'is this your way of getting my number' I'd say 'yea..'
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:15 AM
2

I've become more and more forward with the women I meet over Tinder, aim for her number in 2-3 messages. Generally it's to meet tonight for a drink near my place or to both chill at the pool near my place. I finalise the date over SMS. I don't waste anytime becoming friends over text. It has to added value for either party. The goal is for her to always come back to mine... Though I will consider going back to hers if she's hot.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:12 AM
3

Better to ask her to send you a pic, you need to know if she passes the standards. Though she'll deserve one in reply ;)
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:07 AM
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Takes deep breath exhales :'Faaarrrrrrrrk that's some good advice'. I'll add that I too gained unprecedented value from how to win friends and influence people when I read it. I've since re read it to refresh my mind on the key principles. It helps not only for women, but friends, colleagues, and career. It's the friggen bible for a happy life.
/r/seduction12/03/15 05:35 AM
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If it were me, I would be very explicit about my intentions and desires with her, even if you expect rejection... Once she knows what you really want it's possible to turn it around, she will respect your confidence and honesty regardless of whether she rejects you at first OR you'll discover that you had 0% chance in the first place and save yourself time investing in a LJBF situation. If you're not content being explicit or you think it will be too embarrassing, to make a smaller step .. you c…
/r/seduction12/03/15 05:19 AM
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Takes practice and persistence for any kind of transformation whether it's physical or mental. You have to really want it.
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:05 PM
2

Damn.. I need some confidence boosts
/r/seduction11/03/15 03:54 PM
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Damn it, you're right... :(
/r/seduction11/03/15 03:48 PM
3

This could come across as creepy weird no?
/r/seduction11/03/15 01:18 PM
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Make friends with everyone, be social, dress well, if you're drinking alcohol, smash a glass of water between drinks.... With women be forward with what you want... Rejection isn't as bad as the brain pretends it is. Regret however is far worse. But yea have a good time with everyone and you'll pull... Also if you look 14... Get a 5 day a week gym routine and fix this issue to increase the quality of women you can pull
/r/seduction11/03/15 01:14 PM
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Completely 100% agree here and I will add that when I show interest I say it in a way that assumes she 'gets to have my approval'. For example, 'You get points for being a Tennis fan', 'I just have to mention I find your dress incredibly sexy'. '+1 for having a accent'. I will also comfortably ask her questions that imply I'm qualifying her, like 'what do you do for fun?' While call her out on bullshit, and make fun of her if she too confident. I think there is a pua that coined the term 'Cocky …
/r/seduction11/03/15 07:18 AM
2

Learn to laugh at the game. You both know the rules, be sincere, just do it, it's attractive to her that you're confident and ask for what your want
/r/seduction11/03/15 06:26 AM
2

The worst for me with my ex was whenever we argued she would refuse to come to a logical conclusion or compromise choosing instead to either cry and go for a long walk, simply give the silent treatment and go for a long walk, or simply leave the room. Leaving the conflict completed unresolved and then letting the discussion get parked for another time.
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:13 AM
1

Yep very true, in any case I've vowed to never let it happen again, regret is honestly 10 times worse than rejection.
/r/seduction11/03/15 02:06 AM
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Thank you for this!
/r/seduction09/03/15 01:39 PM
1

How old are you and the girls you're trying to hook up with? Assuming young... I'd say Keep it simple, if I were to give you one word to learn and understand to help get to first base it would be 'Kino' followed closely by confidence. Actually they go hand in hand. And if you're not confident, fake it til you make it.
/r/seduction09/03/15 01:38 PM
3

You've never heard of FWBs in Dorms in college? Really?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 04:53 AM
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Well treat her like you would anyone else. Dont get oneitis issues with her. Hold your self respect and keep your options open. Be prepared to call out her bullshit and shit tests at all times... Worst case scenario she leaves and you lose what sounds like the perfect FWB situation... I'd also be upfront with her on rules around bringing someone back on the weekends... seeing as you're 'friends' and this is a dorm. But yea if it were me, the end goal would be to position the relationship as FWBs…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 03:57 AM
1

Ignoring it sounds like a band aid to the problem but I would take the opportunity to discuss it with her, I think she's being reasonable to expect a good nights sleep without you and your dates going at it waking her up. Do you own the lease? If so, it sounds to me that it's time you replaced her with a similar minded person. Probably a straight guy by the sounds of it. She shouldnt have any say over who or how you bring someone over... if that person turns out to be dodgy and for example robs …
/r/askTRP09/03/15 03:46 AM
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I've thought the same thing, there seems to be a sub section of people that naturally gravitate to taking everything seriously, they're clearly very knowledgeable, if not obsessive compulsive but they tend to push their serious views on to everyone else which changes the mood of the whole sub reddit, which can sometimes feel almost cult like at times. I guess the biggest problem is people forget that everyone is at different stages and circumstances in life, so they're unable to keep a open mind…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:24 AM
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Oh Gawd you just bought back nightmares from first year discrete mathematics in computer science
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 09:50 PM
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Wow, that makes perfect sense to me... I often wondered how nice law abiding females could let their hair down to lyrics like 'til the sweat drips from my balls', or 'smack that til you get sore, smack that all on the floor' but also be advocates for women's rights and equal opportunity. Maybe when the protest things like sexualisation of women in gaming, they should explicitly state that it's mostly because gamers have a high number of beta males who should be queuing for their limited attentio…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:50 PM
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Yep would not recommend going solo without experience. Join a meet up, join a club, join a group... because this will mean you dont need to go it alone.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:04 PM
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What do you mean by bring her up socially? Like introduce her to your friends, give compliments etc?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:51 PM
1

Some guys are simply Blue Pill 'til death do us part. And honestly observing how they live their lives, I know its not a commonly held belief on TRP but I still think it's a relatively respectable way to live their lives if its with a good women. Ignorance is bliss. Though in practice, the blue pills tend to attract the bitchy types. The Blue Pill guys I know derive pleasure from their work, from building a career, from building a life that can insure their children have every advantage in life,…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:18 PM
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Is your classmate a distant ancestor of Shakespeare?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:01 AM
1

Relax, keep an open mind, enjoy yourself no matter what happens. Dating should be fun.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:41 AM
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What kind of racism did you experience? Is it overt? Or subtle?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:34 AM
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You missed the point
/r/seduction01/03/15 08:05 PM
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Is there any evidence avail that points to it being purely placebo?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 10:40 AM
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Question, is something like this a steroid? -> http://www.ebay.com.au/itm/161331453630
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:06 AM
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Oh Sons of Anarchy definitely hammers it home.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 01:50 AM
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You're talking about this girl the way a oneitis would. You should have 3-4 exactly like her spinning. If you've already gone all the way, invite her round, or swing past hers. She probably wants you to!
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:39 PM
0

Ive never head of this... why do you recommend it?
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:33 PM
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If he's your friend, you should aim to just keep him social, and invite him to stuff even if he's declining to be with his chick. You can jokingingly tell him that he's whipped. Guys need their guy mates... he'll realise that sooner or later... and he will appreciate your support when the shit hits the fan one way or another.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:22 PM
0

5 reps x 5 sets. And the sets are all the Arnie classics... Squats, Bench Press, Dead lifts... Google for more info or join /r/gainit and check out their wiki and other handy links. My advice... don't waste time multi tasking, get a gym membership, attend 4-5 times a week 60 mins+ each session. Make sure 3-4 of those days are lifting heavy. And by heavy there's only one rule of thumb: You lift until your muscles rip and fail. None of this 5 KG at the computer mamby pandy shit. ;) Finally learn t…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:59 AM
1

You should have made small talk first. It's safe and rejection proof, which is what it sounds like you fear... Choosing regret over rejection. Should have asked her something like how's it going? If I were you I'd go back there and smile at her, look at her straight in the eyes and get talking to her. The words barely matter... Be bold and for the love of the FSM, don't hesitate and beat around the bush. Go all in... It's a good life habit and mantra to have. Regrets will haunt you. Rejection wi…
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:26 PM
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In Munich, mid winter, on a break from snowboarding, I went on a walking tour, met 2 Aussie girls from the backpackers, one caught my eye, she was from Adelaide. At the bar later that night we had our kino and flirt on and generally just hit it off. We felt alive together, shit we had fun drinking together. She came back to my hotel room. We had sex about 3 times a night for 3 days and then parted ways, she took a bunch of selfie pics on my Polaroid camera, shit she was photogenic... But she end…
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:22 PM
1

Girlfriends come with the possible long term outcome of having a child together and starting a family. Where an escort costs money and time for the dopamine release of sex without having to build a relationship. Escorts are really just tricking your brain... They're like an unhealthy drug. Short term fun, with no longer term gain.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:46 PM
1

26, well paid, gym 5 days a week so very fit and healthy, and mentally strong and aware of the way the world is. I had read books like How to Win friends and influence people, the Game, psycho cybernetics... Excellent material for self improvement.
/r/askTRP24/01/15 05:39 PM
1

From my own experienced sample set, I'd say 0/5 women are assaulted. The wage gap... isnt big enough, companies have to care about the bottom line, women have biological disadvantages in all cultures, this is one genuine reason that monetary equality is a silly discussion. But as someone that was raised by nuns, and women teachers, I know from many hard learned experiences that the lack of male figures in young males lives has an extremely detrimental effect and point to the trending prison rate…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:01 AM
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Can I suggest pointing out the obvious, people during the day are either very preoccupied for caring to flirt for pick-up. Obviously in College thats less so the case, but still typically smart college students will reserve their pickup time for the bar, club meet up or house party at the end of the week. Though to be fair if you have your shit together, carry yourself well, dress well, and dont look like a dodgy dude, there should be no harm in just being a little more forth coming, and initiat…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:09 AM
2

Ahhh take a joke
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:04 PM
1

Ohh lordy them sweet mini Skirts.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:33 AM
1

Ah right, well if it helps...guys have been known to sell their soul for forbidden pussy in the right context... I'm one of them. Not proud of it. I have more self control these days. :D Guess I'm saying its the game, you've read the Rational Male I take it? I wouldnt take it personally if its true.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 10:43 AM
1

tldr request here. There is no way Im reading that wall up front.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:44 AM
2

What did they do? Must have been pretty serious to want to scream...?!?? My first thought is, what are you doing at a bar, concerning yourself with mates when you should be enjoying socialiasing and mingling with the ladies in their sweet mini skirts.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:43 AM
1

Appreciate the insight, I'm a fairly light frame, well 80 KGs nowadays eince I started weight lifting, but a little intimidated to check it out, would you say that MMA has many of the lighter build types? How does one get started in MMA? I imagine the training is similar to boxing training in some aspects. I'm tempted to get my body fighting fit for a few months before starting something like MMA sparring even as a newbie. Is there typically a newbie program of some kind?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 02:38 AM
1

Consider reading a book called Psycho-cybernetics.
/r/seduction26/12/14 06:24 PM
1

Rise above it
/r/seduction26/12/14 06:07 PM
1

I really got a lot of value from that book while I was reading it and a few weeks after, but somehow I just lost what I learnt. It didnt stick.
/r/seduction13/12/14 06:30 AM
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Concentrate on the basics, fashion, hair cut, health, gym, and social skills. Build good habits in these areas, so you don't even need to think about them. They're your base building blocks
/r/seduction13/12/14 02:13 AM
1

Woah thats not RP at all. It's the opposite, there are far smarter tools and tactics he could have used to come up on top and have her embarrassed for being so disrespectful. It seems, he has issues.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:35 AM
2

Neil Strauss coined it in 'the Game'.
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:11 AM
3

My advice, get a hobby, focus on your friends, focus on enjoying your life, regardless of the status, commitment or actions of Rick. Even if it's very hard, take your mind to positive growth for yourself. You're young, so I get the 'Rick is the most amazing man' thing but he very obviously isn't looking to be committed in the same way that you think you want. But in any case there's no harm in being honest and straight with him on your thoughts... it's just... you may not get the results you des…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 01:04 AM
2

Pua, is training wheels for being the best version of yourself around women you'd like to hook up with. Once you've followed a bit of structured learning, experience and confidence building you kind of realise you don't need it to be confident and/or have a healthy sex life
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:23 PM
2

For starters Though shalt have nothing left in the tank after the gym. Though shalt attend the gym 4-5 days a week. Though shalt minimise alcohol intake. Never smoke. Ever.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:15 AM
1

Shouldn't have got married
/r/MensRights11/11/14 08:34 PM
1

Sup (city)
/r/seduction10/11/14 08:47 AM
3

Be honest with your LTR, explain that you're interested in seeing other people for a while. She may be very upset up the brutal honesty but it's in both of your interests to have this information on the table sooner than later. Once you've done that let us know how you got through the break up... Then join the pua life style. You can have your cake and eat it with out being a first class c**t to another soul. Put yourself in her shoes would you want to know?
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:29 AM
1

I personally don't hate fat women. I do dislike bitches though. And I'm not physically attracted to fat chicks. But I can be attracted to bitches if they're fit not fat. But I do agree that fat+bitch makes for a women to avoid. It is what it is. Cue Bob Marley - Don't worry be happy.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:36 PM
1

What do you mean with respect to meditation?
/r/seduction17/09/14 02:35 PM
2

Could you say the game is really the scaffolding for being a better man. Once you get good at it you can take away the scaffolding and you're still solid... If that makes sense
/r/seduction17/09/14 01:57 PM
1

The point about the diet is key, it's something that in my late 20's I keep to religiously, but when I was younger would eat literally whatever I felt like, KFC, MCDs etc the amount of energy and happiness you gain in the mid term for choosing wholesome food is well worth it. Like any addiction it can take up to a month to remove the dependence on the rapid high you get from Cocacola+chips+burger but once you're past it you can recognise the power of good diet as one of the pillers of self confi…
/r/seduction11/09/14 02:57 AM
1

You want to succeed, but not fear failure. So if you don't feel confident, adjust your frame to care less about failure and find your confidence is boosted. Or something like that.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:58 PM
2

Whats the reference?
/r/seduction08/07/14 05:50 AM
1

What university do you attend?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:03 PM
9

So let me try to get this straight, TRP, is about the meta game and reasoning for game in the first place? I mean I think I get it, /r/Seduction or PUA culture is about the moves, whereas TRP is more about psychology adjustment and discussion given the state of play in the 21st century we find ourselves evolving in?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:56 AM
2

Whats the difference between this and PUA culture?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:34 AM
1

Nice and sharp.
/r/seduction19/02/14 03:12 AM
1

This sounds like a perfect storm for regular threesome arrangement. You know what to do.
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:58 AM
7

Yea, there are certain rule of thumb social dynamics that if understood, can then be taken advantage of. In my experience body language and eye contact alone can be the make or break on first impressions. A big part of game/seduction or whatever you want to call it, is really about the foot in the door, and can really be used for good or bad (like any skill), as it's about making the best moves possible first time. I got good at it by living in a dream world where I was the man, telling myself a…
/r/seduction04/02/14 11:08 AM
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Awkward fun fact, the psychic she went to predicted we'd meet, and is be 'the one.'
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