Anyway so sometimes I have good game, sometimes I don't.

Today was not a good game day, I was shaky at best (I was a bit tired...) but soon realised this chick was right up my alley, I slowly gain my composure and this girl was sharp. After drinks we go for a walk through the park, end up making out for 20 minutes.

Of course she's gorgeous and making out so I'm horny, my first thought was, I should try and go home with her. But then I'm also thinking she may think that I think she's a slut or something given its a first date and based on her mannerisms and mention of needing to get up early in the morning it wasn't looking like I could escalate further. I had to put on the breaks...I didn't want to ruin our relationship by making the no sex let's stay the night proposition... Which probably would end in sex. So I pretended like I didn't have blue balls and called it a night.

Is this the optimal outcome for a first date like this...when dealing with intelligent cute women? Or could/should I have been going for the sleep over which my 'brain' was telling me it wanted.

She did say she wanted to do it again soon, so without coming across as needy I'll be lining up date 2...

Anyway just going to sit here and deal with a case of blue balls... Good times.