Need feedback about maintaining frame in front of a woman in a fearful situation

fnordsnord · 2015-01-08T05:03:50+00:00

Any many is capable of pissing down his leg the first time he enters combat.

Confronting a phobia is similar. The fact that you did not abandon the field, but held your ground until you worked up the courage to go into the deep end, by definition IS holding frame.

It just doesn't LOOK as suave.

Keep learning to swim. It's a life skill that's as vital as reading.

honeyimnotagigigilo · 2015-01-08T12:40:16+00:00

You aren't going to be RP overnight. You are going to come into situations where you are out of your comfort zone. Keep putting yourself in those situations. The more you put yourself in those situations that better you will become at dealing with them.

Unfortunately in the meantime when you go into fight or flight mode, it's hard to keep your composure, but you'll get it over time.

CryptoManbeard · 2015-01-08T12:54:24+00:00

If you put yourself in enough situations where you are forced to confront your fears, you will eventually have enough confidence to handle any situation. "I've been through worse, I know what I'm capable of under pressure."

Keep it up.

Title	Need feedback about maintaining frame in front of a woman in a fearful situation
Author	juelzkellz
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	January 8, 2015 3:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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