Hi TRP,

I'm just getting back into lifting after 3 years off. When I stopped, I was an absolute monster. Seeing that I'm just getting back into lifting, I'm still pretty damn strong for someone my size (6'0", 180 lbs., 10% bf). If I lose 2% bf, I should have a ripped six pack, but I won't be nearly as strong as I could be, and I'll have to be on a calorie deficit to get there, which fucking sucks. So, my question is, what's generally more attractive to women -- a massive upper body with no six pack, or a large upper body with a six pack. I'm inclined to choose the first option, because I don't typically get into situations where my shirt comes off, and I don't want to be in a calorie deficit. Thoughts?