Generally, do you expect a plate to come thru instantly or do you plan your meet ups in advance? I can't tell if I'm just being inconsiderate of my plates when I tell them to come over and they're in the middle of something. My girls lately have been responsible and live kinda busy lives, so I feel like I need to plan ahead. As well, I realize some guys around here get a girl to cross through hell or high water just to lick one of their balls so I get that I might just need to keep raising my smv and game.